When your ex starts dating someone you know

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and my ex were dating a little over 2 years and about a week after she broke up with me , she already found another man. childcare is expensive, so we alternate schedules in order for one of us to stay with our daughter. dated this guy for 2 months, and during the first month i let him know i like him too by kissing him back.” however, he told her the past year we had was rough and he didn’t know what i wanted and didn’t know how to make me happy and couldn’t handle all the ups and downs in our relationship. and my ex girlfriend were dating for 6 years before she broke up with me 2 weeks ago because of parents putting too much pressure on her. replied as mentioned and now a text comes out of the blue from nc about working on a project together. he said before he left that we’ll still see each other and exchange text messages. you need to realize what will help you move on and what will keep you obsessed over her. during the break we were still talking and texting and seeing each other. dealing with this awkward arrangement will likely bring about a roller-coaster of feelings and fears but it is great that you've decided to deal with it rather than ignore it. might try to convince yourself that the relationship didn’t mean anything to her and she was just playing with you. just before i leave to return to uni,I agreed to meet him, however this just ended up involving us going for a walk outside and me shouting at him saying “how could you do this? ever since she’s been dating this guy she’s been posting pics on various social media and adding comments indicating that they are in love and he’s dreamy blah blah blah… also, she blocked me on fb when they started dating and then unblocked me. he said he was supposed to see someone but he put that off to give me a first chance. also there are a lot of articles written about how your best friend is the perfect one for you and the popularity of girls ending up dating their best friends and it being the best thing they ever had, also things on how they are the perfect ones for you all this time but you only recognize it after so many years. of all i want to say that you have a great website . jackie pilossoph on twitter:My ex is dating my friend dating after divorce divorce newly separated coping with divorce. know they’re still together and that his rich family is backing her business endeavor, as she was fired from her job shortly after shacking up with the man. i usually recommend people to give themselves a time limit, in most cases, 2-3 months, if things don’t work out by then, you should just move on. you can use the checklist at the beginning of the step 4 in this article. keep in mind that this person is not your direct competition. she also gets help with her problems in the next weeks. has been extremely vocal about wanting to be married for a few years now. but i’ll strongly recommend you concentrate on moving on. your mind is trying to find something to be obsessed about. the big difference is that i actually cared about my current ex more then i have for anyone i told her i actually felt love for her not lust like others. the incompatibility is in the way of the two of you staying a couple, hence it is time to let go. week i visited my ex (after 8 months) and he looked great! all you can do is learn from your mistakes you made and carry on with your life. i know she is on vacation with her new boyfriend, and i dont want to be the crazy pushy ex boyfriend.!I always block my exes because i break up with them and then it's just awkward by they always stalk me after. · 150 comments ladies, what do you think all the great guys you ever known, have in common? and humans build attachment to someone they are with for some time. say to do another couple weeks of nc and try to text her again. focus on your kids, your career, and your love life, if you choose. her parents don’t like me because we got into a little debt when we were younger. they don’t want to upset you or want you to move on. of the examples of this social media behavior that i want to share came from one of my readers. she knew she wanted to breakup with you but she didn’t expect to be so much miserable after the breakup. do you think if you understand her behavior and what’s going on in her mind, you will suddenly start feeling better? i hope you understand that we don't want to hurt you. would i know when the honeymoon phase is over to contact again? i am just saying that you should start learning to live without her in your life and start exploring the possibility of finding someone else. her parents being against you and pushing her into the new relationship might work in favor of you. and you should do nc for 30 days and message her after that. on reflection we also realised that we didn’t have that much in common, so i guess our relationship was built mainly on attraction which i know isn’t ideal, but we still made it work for a while. i miss just texting you funny pics and you sending me funny videos (he giggled), and when we broke up a month ago, i was thinking about things, and i wasn’t upset about losing the relationship, i just didn’t want the friendship to end. you can talk to her about it or maybe even leave her. plus, when the relationship ends, the only thing people will remember is how you reacted. goldreply[–]mccurds 0 points1 point2 points 4 months ago (0 children)i cut ex boyfriends off like a cord. coping requires knowing your feelings, talking to your friend and deciding upon some strategies to keep your friendship intact. could you please advise what should i do next in order to get him back? what if you’re not happy with the way things turned out after you broke up?. i don’t know if shes a rebound and if he’ll come crawling back or what. yourself that your friend isn't guaranteed keeping your ex either. she’s known him for a while as he’s from the town where she lives, they were in high school together (we both study at university which is a 3 hour drive from her hometown, he still lives there). the only thing that i can guarantee you is that you did mean a great deal to her. i was trying suicide( not smart move i know) but the pain was too much then. ex gf broke up with me at the end of november and found out she was on match a month later. remember when you said there isn’t going to be a friendship like we had? goldreply[–]♀xcarex 2 points3 points4 points 4 months ago (0 children)i hope she finds out quickly that he's a cheating piece of shit and doesn't get too invested. this is a subreddit dedicated to asking women questions about behavior, anatomy, habits or anything else that might baffle you. are common responses when ur ex appears to be withholding their new relationship when secretly wanting to get back together. if they already connect on deep level then i’m sure she feels the sexual physical part is complete too.'s not that you necessarily want them back but you still love them and it hurts nonetheless. but i had to end it because during the later part of our relationship, he became very neglectful, kept secrets, sexting his exes. ex broke up with me 10 weeks ago (we dated for 2. have your moment of sadness and realization to let the news sink in, and then try to move on. i did contact his new wife and explained to her that i was still in a relationship with her now husband during their entire engagement up until they were married. was just in a relationship that moved way to fast thing is i still have strong feelings for her we been apart for 11 days when she left me i did the whole multiple pathetic text i told her a few days ago that i’ll stop texting altogether she told me not to stop texting her just not as much and that she still cares about me we just moved to fast i’ve pretty much made myself the door mat last night i erased her number from my phone to remove the temptation to get a hold of her i’d like to know if by doing this and not talking to her if it’s possible she could miss me things are complex because i guess you could say that i’m a rebound she just got out of a 6 year marage and is in the middle of a divorce she told me from the beginning that she doesn’t want to move fast but she kinda made it that way she kinda smothered me tho i enjoyed it made me feel loved is it possible to get back after i’ve made myself look a fool. why can’t she let new dude organically become part of her life rather than inserting him into contexts i previously occupied? girlfriend of 2 years recently broke up with with an email message at exactly the 2 year mark of our relationship. he made it known that he started to go on dates with someone, even wearing the clothes that i got him (maybe guys are different, but i know i would’ve thrown or given that away). my experience, rebounds usually end and are not meant to last. i broke up with my ex and found out later on two weeks after our relationship that he was dating someone else. is this new girl a rebound and if so what are my next steps. i guess the best you can do is keep in touch with him and have fun conversations with him occasionally. all you know that she is not a very understanding person, since she is not accepting your explanation for whatever happened. (technically speaking, the rebound already ended and this time, you will be starting a normal relationship and taking it slow). while men can still offer input, if your view conflicts with a woman's, we ask that you do not downvote or invalidate her response. if she doesn’t contact you and you still want her after a couple of months, you can try giving her a call and see how she responds. want to follow the nc rule, which you say will make him want me back and wonder what i’m up to and care etc. i had him around my fingers and did not know until now. told once you meet someone better and you like more you will feel better. someone close who you already know and you are already happy being around them before you started a relation ship with them. if you are not ready to hang out with your friend or converse with them, stay away and spend some time with other people. you know almost nothing about her to actually love her as a person. based on his previous response, i know it’s best to keep my distance, but maybe we can just be friends since i know he makes for a better friend. if you already did, then you should reply to him. she said, “if you really wanted to marry me, you would have found a way. i know every situation is different based on the individual, do you think it is better to keep trying to actively rekindle the relationship, or should i purposefully create space by restricting our contact, communication and the things i do for him? · 63 comments ladies, if you're diagnosed with genital warts/herpes, what does your life look like? however, i know he still has feelings for me and still cares. i said okay, take your time and contact me whenever you get a chance. my question is … do you think i can get my ex back ?. keep telling yourself the relationship didn’t mean anything to her and you were just a plaything for her. ever since then, i have been pestering him by call and texts for two weeks. i don’t know if it’s somebody from this country or from somewhere else but, she hasn’t started going out (yet) and although i really want to ask her who/where this bloke is/from…i don’t want it to kill me anymore than it is. are a few different things that happened during the time i was newly separated that caused me to classify myself as temporarily psychotic, one of those being when i figured out "my ex is dating my friend! your friend that you won't be standing in her or his way. up with me for someone else we did have not sex in 6 moths he says i’m bored never go out and the new guy he like to go out the opposite of me is that a rebound ? do you think there is hope for us at all? i know we will end up bumping into each other at some point. · 62 comments women who have an iud, how long were you told to wait before having unprotected sex? they would be random texts weeks or months later and once she came by my work and recently the call asking to come by. i think it’s because we were such good friends before we started dating. i don’t think you were a rebound since he took 6 months after his last relationship to begin a relationship with you. i can tell you from my experience that she is not as happy in the relationship as you think she is and she does miss you and probably still has a place in her heart for you. it’s common for them to feel something like love for each other and true happiness because they have so much in common and they already know all secrets and all other things about one another. if it’s because of his family, then there’s nothing you can do about it unless he decides to go against his family and be with you. heck noooooo, if she’s in a relantionship and having sex with some whatever, move on, leave, get yourself a nicer one, there are better ones believe me, let her keep on rebounding for the rest of her life then. for what to do, you should just apply no contact, at least for 60 days. also, don’t ever try to get to your ex through a friend. forgot that she had mentioned that it’s crazy how next month would have been a year since we started. your ex should no longer have an effect on you once you’ve moved on. decreasing your self worth and self esteem in the process and putting an unnecessary roadblock for yourself in moving on and finding the right girl for you.

When you start dating your ex again

went through similar situation my partner at the time left me basically to be with someone else he recently phoned saying he wanted to marry me at the same time he was trying to get rid of her it hurt me i couldn’t stop brining it up but lately i have stoped begging him or calling him for i shouldn’t have to be brave i also joined the gym which help . and after we spoke about that, he flirted with me and he even held my hand, examining it. i blew up in the follow-up text messages and i probably will regret that but i am human and still in love with her. but if you choose to reply, make sure you mention in the end that you both need some time and space right now. i know i now need to apply the nc rule but i’m sos ared he’s gonna meet one of these girls and move on. i think her new relationship is most probably a rebound and you shouldn’t worry about it much. i know it’s not really him that she loves so much as it is the fact that he makes her happy and he’s fun but she won’t listen to me. about 3 wks back during the no contact period she texted me that she hasn’t done anything intimate with the person she’s seeing. on the one hand, there is a possibility of it all ending in marriage (in which case, it's really important to deal with it); on the other hand, this may be just another dating experience for your friend that doesn't end up with them happily ever after. there’s a good chance she is not as happy with him as you are thinking in your mind. a day or so of not speaking, he contacts me to let me know that he had cut off all contact with this girl and that nothing has happened. very common sign of a rebound relationship is whether or not they are trying to rub in your face. i know it’s painful and i’m sorry you are in this situation, but i want you to know that everything will get better with time. tell her you need to think about taking her back and that your talking to someone who is a nice friend. how can he go from ‘come visit me next month’ to ‘hey i replaced you’ within the short amount of only 4 days? i texted a few minutes later and still have no response. i know her x wants her back, and that he tried to prove to her that he has changed ever since they broke off. message:Knowing that your ex is now seeing someone else can be a painful realization. her relationship and her level of happiness isn’t really going to get you any results. i don’t know how long she has been seeing him but i know that she has been looking for dates soon after we broke up. also do you think she will go in a relationship with her other ex for a rebound or a permenant relationship? if he got married, you should cut all contact with him and move on. although, from what you said, he is still not fully over you.’m going to send the “magic letter” but i’d like your opinion first, please. i was in my friends car so my ex couldn’t hear me. take a step back for a second and look at how much obsessed you are becoming. it shows you that someone close to you can show you love and joy and the feeling of happiness that you might of had with in a relationship. you should get back in touch once you feel you have become the 2. more importantly, she went into the relationship too fast and never really got the time to get over you. give yourself a time limit for how long you are going to wait for her. your ex seems happy and their new relationship seems to be going perfectly. and you will never find her unless you learn to stop obsessing over. she said she is at someones house and she is gonna be there for the whole day. you probably meant a lot to her at one point and like many other relationships, that changed and she ended the relationship. goldreply[–]lifesabitchh 1 point2 points3 points 4 months ago (2 children)thank you. if he starts calling you constantly, let him know you need some space and time to deal with the breakup. you are a woman or a man, please do not speak for all women. ex and i have been broken up for around four months, dated for 3, and knew each other for a year before that. we did still see each other on and of till about 4 months ago, until then he was just dating girls but nothing serious. you check the rest of the photos and see that this other person invading your ex’s profile pictures is your ex’s new beau. but if she needs to do that, then she probably isn’t over you yet and is quite immature. missing someone is a huge part of the grief one goes through after a breakup. help you keep your sanity and to keep you from revisiting that dark place you frequented after your breakup, here are our tips for what you should do. confused why i’m getting told that i was important and i am misses more by a older ex then current one. i don’t see him being 100% better in every way like see she’s but like i said she said she loves him so i know that we will never see one another or hear from one another again. but you really should do nc for at least a couple of months and learn to be happy without him. or she will break up with him and realize she still has feelings for you. you and her were not together for very long time, it’s hard to say if her new relationship is a rebound. just feel that no matter what he’ll feel like that for a while (doesnt want to get married and have kids) but that in the end, at some point, he’ll want them (maybe not get married, but i dont mind that, i just want to know i ‘ve found the one and we are both commited “forever”, but i dont need a paper and even less, a wedding). he stalked her for the whole year we dated he texted her all the time. you two haven’t really broken up, i suggest you let him know that you need some space and time and you want no contact for a month. i know hat girls loved me with all of her heart. me and my ex boyfriend had been 2yrs more together and we just broke up for almost 3 months but in that 2months we still contact and see each other and many things happened before i decided to do the no contact rule. i'm not an extreme blocker so i would most likely internalize it, and reach out to wish them the best. however i know him pretty well, and i know he is very stubborn. you should do no contact to learn to be happy without her. im going on a date with his mom, do you think its ok to keep in touch with her? it’s just a weird situation being from a small town and having someone mistreat you so badly. i know she doesnt love this guy im way better looking she always said he was ugly. but like i said before, you need to learn from your mistake and stop putting yourself in a position where he can hurt you again. have some problems with my ex she left me because of my behaviour indeed we were in relationship for 4 years or more and i use to scold her for some reasons but i use to scold her because i use to care for her although a thing is that after we broke up she didnt want me and said she wants to br alone and she also said she also loves me and does take care of me but doesnt want relationship due to my behaviour and attitude i really love her and want her back as we also had the intimate part in our relationship as she use to help me now what i do to get her back please help. even though, she chose not to be with you in the end, it doesn’t mean she never wanted to be with you in the first place. i’m writing to you right now, because i just don’t know what to do. dont know what to make of this txt from my partner that just broke up with me two nights ago. i texted her on christmas and a few other times to tell her we should talk but she was defensive and not willing. if you find yourself in this situation, here are some tips on how to handle it and how to keep from going insane:1. · 21 comments women who can't or don't work, what is your reason and how has it affected your life or the way people treat you? let me add to this that the week before she initially posted the picture of herself with her now-boyfriend i saw her at a nightclub making out with some guy that is not the guy she’s currently dating, and also looking over at me in between kisses (i was there with my sports team, she was there for a friend’s birthday and we knew by that point of the night that each other was in the club). we talked and she said that i was someone special and meant something and that i still mean something to her. and i don’t think you should continue contact with him and/or have any high hopes of getting him back. the past 3 months, i have definitely been guilty of making all the ‘mistakes’ you mention in your article. there is every reason for you to be getting on with your own life., your advice has made me open up and realize alot. you so much for your advice…i really think you are right. they are hiding their new relationship, then it’s completely up to you to figure out which category they fall into. i want her back and don’t know how to proceed and would like your help. then yesterday i found out that he put my stuff in a empty apartment building in back of my house and that she moved in yesterday and her kids she already painted both rooms yesterday for her kids and then my brother called my ex boyfriend 2 days ago and he told my ex boyfriend either he is with me or not and he said to my brother that i was staking him and that he told me that it was over and that he keep telling me and that and that i am stupid because i can’t get it threw my head and then he said to my brother he moved on and he hopes this relationship works and that he don’t want any drama and he doesn’t want me to show up at the house at all but he told my brother that i am a friend and that he cares about me and what happens to me and that he loves me and he told my brother that he was not happy in the relationship with me and him and then he said that he met the new girlfriend a couple of days after i went on vacation and that he liked her and then he told my brother that i was going to live in the house and she was going to live in the house and my ex boyfriend said that won’t work so he told my brother that i am out and his new girlfriend was in and i am still on vacation at this rate with no house to go home to and he told my brother also that he wanted to end it with me a while back but didn’t know how to because he didn’t want to hurt my feelings and that is why he did it now because i am around family and he wants me to stay with family. even if you know the relationship was horrible and that ending things was the best decision, it still can sting the first time they date someone, especially if you aren't in a place to start dating yet. this probably shouldn’t bother you all that much if you’re already in a happy state in your life. a good friend used to say to me, "you're on your own road. knowing her, i think she is expecting that i’ll reach out to her on her b’day, as i’ve never let anything get in the way of it..And i remembered what my ex told me that he would give his resignation letter and he wont see her anymore. i basically inflicted this pain on myself by taking my ex for granted and pushing her into this new guy arms. on their 1st date she did the same things with him as she was doing with me, they went to same places, she talks to him exactly the same etc. her state of mind made her a little self-centred and unempathetic, so she’d never take an interest in mine (i’m sure you can see why it had to end). tell him you need time to think things through and so does he. well after the exchange she texted me on my way home saying thanks. happened just today, my exbf contact one of our common friend in college. ex bf broke up with me back in nov we dated for 3 years. and if he doesn’t commit even at that time, you should move on. · 14 comments redditoras who had abortions, how did you feel afterward? i expressed my desire to wait until i graduate and can provide a little more stability for our family. i know she’s seeing someone but her usual mo is to show her enthusiasm with the person she’s with all over social media., most likely a rebound and it was probably done to get a reaction out of you. 4 months where she was dating both of us without the other knowing. if she goes into a relationship with her ex, then it’s probably not a rebound. but i am done now – this is a degree of disrespect i couldn’t even imagine and who knows what else i don’t know yet. he didn’t respond, but then the next day he randomly messaged me and said that yes we can still be friends. it’s good that you are doing nc and improving yourself.)submitted 4 months ago by ♀gingafloit's not that you necessarily want them back but you still love them and it hurts nonetheless. i have been two weeks nc and i just wondering if my ex has really move on with his new girl and am i wasting my time. seen that she said she loves him so i see that they think they are soulmates and always have been but take away the material things he does and the notion of you thinking you have same ideology and i don’t see much there. so i text her and ask if she has moved on and that i thought we were at least going to talk. especially if the relationship with the ex was so messed up as is in your case. during this conversation she told me “why be without someone who you don’t want to marry. let him fight for you and prove that the really means it. i just dont know if what has happened are signs to leave, or if him becoming a raging dick when we arent around each other means that the “no-contact” rule will make this worse…. but i know the cause of his unhappiness is us not being together. but here are some effective ways you can deal with this knowledge. never got a response from the email/don’t know if he even read it. even though it’s making me nuts i haven’t contacted him to ask if he’s seeing someone else. the basis of the conversation went like this (sorry it’s going to be a bit of a read):Me: i’m not here to pull a beth, just so you know. gf is dating one of her close male best friends. both know everthing about each other already so i’m sure that only has left the physical aspect to fill in. do you really think he could have changed his mind within 6 months? on the other hand, if their relationship has been going on for over a year, then you can safely assume that the relationship is serious for them and it’s probably not a rebound.

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When your ex starts dating someone

about a week ago i saw a text from a guy on my gf’s phone and got disappointed that she was planning to hangout with him and when i asked to see all her other texts between them she said she deleted them because it would’ve made her feel uncomfortable if i saw it. just because you are best friends and like some of the same things or like to eat at same place. obviously, i was upset and i told him that i felt unimportant to him because of what he said and he expressed that that wasn’t true and that i was important to him and he didn’t want to lose me and he would do what he needed to do (within reason) to make me happy. i know i could’ve said more or less at some points, but initially i was hoping by appearing non-threatening to his current relationship, it would be easier for me to work my way in. however, if you parted in anger or under a cloud, you might not even want to be around your ex at all. on the other hand, your ex might just be in a rebound relationship. he didn’t speak to me since then – no texts or email. everything was fine and got along and hung out a lot (nothing sexual) just friends. she texted next day to see if i’d bring the dog into her store. up can be hard and is even harder in that odd situation where your friend starts dating him or her after you broke up. if you still have feelings for them try to control them without getting into their relationship. i feel confused and dont know what to do right now. how you post it:Post titles must be a descriptive, in depth question and searchable using keywords, or will be removed. it leads to better person to be with like a close friend that consuls you and that has had feelings for you for long time. anyway, about 3 months into the breakup she started dating a new guy and they are in a full on relationship, talking about marriage and so on. if she is still cold, you know you gave it a try and you can move on without any regrets. today i sent him an email letting him know i can’t accept a cold friendship like this, “we deserve better and maybe we have a better shot at friendship later on, hugs”. if you keep snooping and wanting constant updates, you're hurting yourself and delaying the healing process. i decided to stop contacting him because our talks were confusing, one minute he said “you are my best friend” or “i love you” and the next minute he was saying that he still needed space and to be on his own. now those belong to someone else, and that person is welcome to 'em. it’s been about a month and i pretty sure they are dating i haven’t asked cause i am sure he wouldn’t want to tell me. your e-mails everyday and web site has been helping me tremendously. figure out exactly what you want and when you contact him again, let him know what you need and expect. i am currently going through a very strange ‘break up’ with my fiance of 4 years and there are some unique issues in our situation that are not really covered in your articles. if she decides to go with her ex husband, then you’ll have to suck it up and accept it. it's a tough ask but it's worth it to know that you're not forcing their hand in any way. i got a “i’m seeing someone, we’re done talking, don’t ever talk to me again”. how can she fall out of love with me after almost 5 years of feelings for each other that she can surprise me one day and want someone new? yet i know i care about this guy a lot, but since i know i spoke up for a reason and don’t appreciate being disrespected, i can’t figure out his place in my life. i don’t understand why she would miss me if you are happy with your friend. i freaked out after i found out he was dating someone else within a week after we took a break. you said she was in a relationship with you for 7 months. if they breakup, and she contacts you, you can talk to her but don’t show neediness and ask her to get back with you immediately. you tap on it and out pops a photo of a deliriously happy couple, with their cheeks squashed together. we were “seeing” each other for the first month, but that was totally exclusive, like we’d stay round each other’s places, met each other’s friends, and would gradually get more intimate, and then after making it “official” we were together for the last 2 months, meeting each other’s parents, all the things a boyfriend/girlfriend normally do. think you should just stay calm and let her make her decision.’s possible that he never got over his ex in which case it’s probably not a rebound. you’ll go to the bar and you’ll run into them, and then what? however, you might also wish to make it clear where you draw the line, which may include where the three of you go, when the three of you spend time together and whether you'll even want to spend time together with the two of them. don't act like you don't care if you really do. i have read your 5 step plan and have been doing no contact and it’s weird it is not bothering me too terribly but i still wonder and sometimes think this is a sick test. she is cold towards you, you should do no contact for a while and let her initial honeymoon period get over. this time i am going for the next no contact period. when you remember why it didn’t work out between the two of you, you’re less likely to be jealous of the person who used to be in your position. see what your saying on stop with the having hope and stop thinking of her. soon, things will start to get better and you will be able to think more clearly about this whole situation. had been on a few dates in the mean time, had sex with one or two, but no relationships. i tried asking her to get together to catch up but she said she doesn’t think that’s a good idea yet because she’s currently happy with someone else. i said “i wish i could meet you once and explain everything to you. was wondering if there is a time limit or something to all this i know your suppose to strike before the move on but if you can’t even associate even the smallest simply conversation. texted her how she was doing after her appointment with her terapist bus she said it is tomorrow. ex was in a ten year relationship with his ex, was married to her for five. it will be hard seeing your friend and ex together but you are just going to have to accept it sooner or later. she didnt leave you cuz of the guy, she left because it was mentally draining to fight you. and the more you lose hope the more you start analyzing their new relationship (and obsessing over them) trying to convince yourself it’s a rebound. if you can’t seem to do it by yourself, you should seek professional help. either he can commit or you cut him off entirely from your life and move on. ex fiance got married two weeks after breaking off the engagement we have been togother for more then two years we had our problem. i want to share shortly my story and want to hear your opinion about it. instead, he or she just ran into open and loving arms, and there’s nothing you can do about it other than move on. if they do - well, i've probably moved on too, or at least thought about dating someone else, so really they aren't that different from where i'm at.. i know i’m trying to move on because i know she never wanted anything from me. but this guy was a rebound because he helped me stop thinking about me&my ex whenever i was with him. i started texting one girl, went out with her, but i just couldn’t kiss her cause i only saw my ex. my ex broke up with me six weeks ago, because he got scared of how committed our relationship was. like us on facebook twitter pinterest and we promise, we’ll be your lucky charm to a beautiful love life. before you decide to get back with him, you should make it absolutely clear that he wants the same things as you. i don’t know how long but i know at least it has been 2 months maybe three that they been more then friends. in fact, if you are a little icy that's okay. 4 minutes later “why do you not say “with my friend xyz” like it’s a ridiculous pet peeve but saying with a friend seems cold and distant. about a week later, her older sister’s fiance’s friend from work was introduced to my ex and from what i heard from my brother who lives in that house with my ex’s sister, she has been going out with this guy like every other day, and doesn’t come home sometimes till after 2am. i think you should stop talking for a while and let him continue with his girlfriend. there a way to see if they were only with you because they were only physically attracted to you especially when they are saying the same things they said to you to their new partner. foolishly, i contacted her a number of times over the course of the next 2 months. thinking about these ludicrous situations is not going to help you in anyway right now. i don’t know if you completed no contact, but if you did, you should stay in touch with her and try to rebuild the attraction slowly. he was being very dramatic and said he was going to stay single for a long time and didn’t know if he’d ever get married, etc.’s good that you were able to be calm and not be needy in front of him. when do you see it as it is and realize you have to just give it up. do you think her feeling threatened will help destroy their relationship? while others are not able to get out of the grief and their minds become obsessed with their ex. them, keep improving yourself and focusing on you and it will get better :). when you severed ties with your ex, you’ve basically forfeited the right to butt into your ex’s business. the truth is, you can never know 100% if your ex has truly moved on or you still have a shot with them.'t ever make your mate choose between you and your ex because this will cause even bigger problems. you’ll do you, while they’ll do whatever it is that they do. but there is a problem that started in our relationship, i was getting jelouse of his best friend who is a girl in high school and about to graduate, she is 18, and my ex is 22 and they known each other since childhood, he told me that i had nothing to worry about, he isn’t attracted to her and he called me an idiot because he only loved me. what are my next moves, i can’t find that anywhere, please help 🙁. and while you are still trying to understand what happened and pick up the shattered pieces of your life, your ex has started another relationship. don’t have any regrets from my former ex who is married now. kevin, is there a place here for me, since i am definetely the rebound victim of my ex… (that is, te guy she had the rebound with). former ex who is just married recently told me that she been thinking of me and misses me. we said we should take a break to miss each other for some time, we missed each other soo much after 3 days, but we said that we can’t do this for next month, so we broke up saying we should stay only best friends. it may also help your friend to be considerate of your feelings when the three of you get together and hopefully she or he won't do anything in front of you that may hurt your feelings. came to see you because she was still confused and still had feelings about you. for that you have to make some positive changes in your life during no contact. after we broke up i basically did everything you shouldn’t do, i texted him and called him many many times for about a month until i finally realized that i needed to cut off contact and i deleted him off of all social media and stopped contacting him at all. updating it postingnphotos and changing his profile photo with the one shes in it. you so much for your response…it’s just so hard to understand how someone can tell you those things right in your face and lie. i first wrote in i gave little bit of story and what was happen between us, i seem to be having more trouble lately because after i saw her with someone else at her work when i stopped by to talk and give her a letter i ended up texting her next day saying wish you didn’t hate me and hope you read that letter and i know it probably wont mean anything but she said she don’t hate me and that it did mean something. i ended up showing up at his house…to what ended up being a better outcome than expected. but he said “no, i don’t need space,” i want to keep texting and talking to you. you’re just sitting at home, looking for something to do.#2 realize that your ex moving on before you is okay. what is strange to me is that this new girl is very similar to me just younger, he even said to me when he meet her that she reminds him of me when i was her age. the best thing for you to do is no contact, at least for 2-3 months. at first, you might think it’s so unfair that your ex has managed to find someone new while you’re still struggling to get over your breakup. this time, don’t let your mood swings affect your decision. if she goes off on you, at least you can say you handled it the best way you could have. she will sort of freak out when she finds out that you have been investigating her and it’ll make you look creepy. if you are having trouble coping with what has happened, try talking to someone else. may like him because hes exciting but the glamour wears off. And while you are still trying to understand what happened and pick up the shattered pieces of your lif — Comments PageHarassment/catcalling. how much time limit you give to yourself is completely up to you. everything you are asking is based on the assumption that they have a great relationship together. there are things i know she really isn’t down with and some of them he has.

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have a feeling he was the one cheating on you, or at least was thinking of cheating on you. i’ve had a couple of casual text conversations with her since so she’s not ignoring me. after that, if you still want him back, get in touch with him. also says if your thinking of our ex at anytime its not important that you should not do it just learn to move on cause it’s not worth it to think or feel like you want them. if anyone has suggestions as to what i should do, please let me know. first month of dating they were already confessing their love on twitter, posting song lyrics to each other and now i’m confused if this is really love or just a rebound and that i should just go nc to wait it out but at the same time heal. think, "my ex is dating my friend" is very common, especially if you live in the suburbs, where everyone knows everyone. things were moving forward slowly and a month ago we went to a concert together, which he initiated an where he actually told someone i was his girlfriend. so if having a new relationship is what makes your ex happy and focusing on your career is what’s making you happy, stick with your career and quit mimicking what your ex is up to. even though your mind wants you to believe you didn’t, i know you did. if you show any weakness or neediness, it’s going to work against you. you’ll berate your ex for being with someone else? the rose is symbolic & a little thing only we know. it seems innocent enough until you look at her social media. looking back, there were warning signs like being to busy too meet me (the reason he dumped me) and saying i love you less. you think i have great chance getting him back after i made the efforts and practically dropping form the face of the earth after? to say, since you two were in a short term relationship. well after her always being needy towards me, she gave up i guess and was so angry at me that she went off and let her friends convince her to start having sex and talking to this other guy. he found someone who was actually really nice, and i was happy for him. if the ex is or has been in relationship since it ended why would the want to get back with their ex let alone associate with them after all that time. i do think you will be able to make a better decision if you go through the no contact rule for 30 days. i am pretty mad at him for doing me one day and her the next. you need to stop trying to rescue the “damsel in distress” and find someone who is happy and who can make you happy. however, you can have a talk with him before doing so telling him that you think this is best course of action right now since you feel disrespected by the fact that he is with the other women at the same time he is with you. your ex knows that you are checking their facebook and if they are constantly posting picture with their rebound then it’s a sign that they are in a rebound. specifying majority demographics or excluding minority groups based on demographics. hating on this new person will just fuel your bitterness even more. just don’t try to hide your pain under a steely faà§ade of composure. knowing her, i think she is expecting that i’ll reach out to her on her b’day, as i’ve never let anything get in the way of it. it hurt so so so much and i really couldn’t believe he could do that to me full stop, let alone during a time that i was extremely vulnerable. i know there’s a lot of hurt and internal conflict and misery here and my recent heartbreak certainly feels insignificant to many of these stories. she said she still had it in her car i asked like you mean unopened she said no she read it when i gave it to her. it may help to explain the inconsistency of his ‘feelings’ & the cheating. 2 weeks passes without contact n out of the blues he texted me asking how i am and such, i tried playing cool and waited hours before replying to his simple messages but i now messed up. if you want to pursue her more, do nc for another 2 weeks and try again. we didn’t talk much after that then all of a sudden, 3 days later, i call her and she says she wants to get close to someone else; the guy she’s been texting. it’s an attempt to have the same level of intimacy that you had with your ex, with someone else. this question (or a similar one) is answered twice in this section, please click here to let us know. it’s an attempt to feel the same way you were feeling while you were in a relationship with your ex. was dating this lovely woman for a year and half, all around great honeymoon to foundation stages of a relationship., after months of texting back and forth, of him mostly blaming me for ruining something beautiful, but also wanting me to accept and be happy for him. it’s out of your hands now, so shift your attention to something that’s within your hands to change. if so, then you must know there’s no way you can know for sure if her relationship is really perfect or it has some major flaws. think what do you expect from him in the relationship. in fact, for all intents and purposes,  the new person is your ex’s life has already won, but it’s not a competition you’re still participating in.’m going to send the “magic letter” but i’d like your opinion first, please. goldreply[–]♀gingaflo[s] 4 points5 points6 points 4 months ago (0 children)thank you. i do love him and i do want things to be re-patched up, but i want to know if this is something i should just give up on and push through the pain or try to rekindle… i do truly love being around him and being with him, we connect in ways i havent before. let her develop a friendship with you again and listen to her problems n dont place any negative spin on her relationship. someone who is not even compatible with their life goal. rebound relationship is simply an attempt to fill a hole in your life that was left by an ex. i have called him and told him everything i know and i have asked him not to contact me when he gets back. you want to find out your chances of getting your ex back?’s probably a rebound, even if he met her while you were together. when first time i saw her i was like your all different she agreed she is into things she was not into before but all of a sudden?! i hated them and everyone else who i thought could possibly know about their relationship., i don’t think knowing the reasons for his actions will give you any closure. but you shouldn’t be the one asking him since has asked for some time. this article, i’ll lay out some signs that will help you understand the rebound behavior and figure out on your own whether or not they’ve moved on. whatever your feelings for your ex, it is really important to talk to your friend how you feel. he also text me to ask how i was and wish my mum a happy birthday! she dated this guy alex for two years before me. i think you should apply nc even with his texts (it’ll most likely have him thinking, especially if he regularly texts you “good morning” or “good night”). i don’t think you should hold it against him the way he handled the breakup and what he did after the breakup. weird side note, other guy knows about me and our situation. should i answer or even tell her that i know all of this? the only thing that should matter to you right now is to get out of this negative spiral you are stuck in and try to enjoy your life. just because they have hope that if they go for someone completely different, they’ll find happiness. however, i’ve recently discovered that there most certainly is someone else in her life. i don't know anything about who she was or what the relationship meant to him. they fact that she hangouts and has sex with this other guy destroys me but i feel like she’s just trying to replace me. to be assertive: 17 ways to speak your mind loud and clear. if you follow the 5 step plan, it probably won’t be ignored. contact her after no contact period is over and until then just keep concentrating on yourself. you just need someone else to think about who is better. you decide to pursue him, you should be prepared to handle his hot and cold behavior and not react to it. i think you do have a chance to get back together. they think that finding someone completely opposite will probably give them happiness. in september i sent my ex roses because we would have had our 5 year anniversary and my ex was very happy about that (even though his new partner hated it).) he said you are either gonna be my friend or nothing at all! i’ve been ignoring all his gf’s remarks online and acting like i don’t even notice them, but i think she’s trying to up the odds by posting all this lovey crap about him knowing i’ll see it, though he has yet to say anything about the relationship specifically.. he or she could be doing this to you to act out his or her passive aggressive anger. guess the only thing you can do is give her time to figure it out herself. however, you have to consider that you can’t accelerate the way you get over things at will. you can’t expect your ex to be stuck on you even when you’re no longer on speaking terms! when he and i talked about it because i expressed my confusion about a lot of the things that happened over spring break, he said he was sorry about leading me on and that it wasn’t intentional and that it’s easy to fall back into a relationship like that.. grit your teeth, accept it, act classy and show grace to the outside world. that you cannot control your friend's feelings and your ex's.. but after that all even i posted pictures to my fb account theres still no response from my ex boyfriend. can’t believe that they’ve moved on so fast, so you consult your friend, search the internet and everyone seems to say the same thing.’m sure that is what my current ex is realizing her self. i found out my ex was in a new relationship i was still struggling with the breakup. she broke up with me, saying that she needs to get her life together and is terribly sorry for using me in this way, but my feeling is that the real reason is that i’ve really done a bad job in handling and embracing all this complicated stuff with her ex. don’t quiet understand when you say if she don’t respond which is unlikely in my case. you should leave her be for another one month and then contact her using one of the methods in the 5 step plan. from moving the rebound relationship too fast, another common behavior that rebound relationships have is choosing someone they’d not go for normally. does this mean that my current ex just easily cut me out of her life to just easily and quickly with no hesitation replace me with her new boyfriend her friend? however, he said if you were “in love” then i should have never let it go. let him know that you will wait for him until he makes his decision but you will not be a doormat or his backup. the meet up lasted for an hour with him wishing me well on my next relationship. what i’m confused about is four days later he had moved on to a new girl and they’re currently dating. i did all the things that was written in your no contact period like hang out with friends, have a vacation, spa, focus to something like work and so many. weekend we skyped for a few hours and everything was ok, he even asked me to come visit him next month and that he would take me camping. i met him exactly a year later when he was still sleeping around with women, and they weren’t officially divorced yet.’d recommend you do no contact for a couple of weeks and then text her again. i know there is a chance that he’ll become her boyfriend during that time, but imo it’s a risk you must take. but i found out that he was already dating this new girl before i even came back home. think you are putting her on a pedestal and what you think is love is just an obsession.’s entirely possible he cheated on you and was lying to you when he asked you to visit him. i don’t know if this a rebound relationship even though he married her because he’s having trouble in the marriage and his now wife is emailing me stating that’s she confused and if i’m still contacting him…. if she is not cold towards you and you have already done no contact, then you can stay in touch with her. i don’t understand how he could just have met someone else already especially as he works like crazy and his parents hadn’t even been aware that we had broken up until i told them. give her some time and space and meanwhile try to make some positive changes in your life. posted on his facebook wall whether or not he wants to move to australia with her next year when she wants to do her phd. so we were working things out and all but then he starts talking to his co worker&now they are in a relationship. even if he ignores it, it’s probably because he needs more space and time and you should give it to him instead of forcing the friendship on him.

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he say’s that he still loves me and calls me baby when we talk to each other, he also told me when i broke up with him that nobody is going to love you like i do! you say she loves two men in the same way? imagine she’s over me by now too as i haven’t been able to stay nc because i have to see her in college every day and she just starts conversations at me. in some cases, your ex will find a type of person they don’t usually go for. new girl knows he just got out of a long relationship and when she asked him if he was on a rebound apparently he said he wasn’t. any help/advice/insight you can give me would be greatly appreciated. someone who will care about you and treat you the way you deserve to be treated. she thinks perhaps it’s because she is not as close to garry as she was with you. the other hand, it could be that your ex waited months before entering the new relationship and it could still be a rebound depending if they never really got over you. so by the time you’re back on facebook or instagram or twitter, you’ve already worked up the courage to accept your ex’s new relationship. apparently he’d taken to facebook saying you can’t always get what you want, it’s a wonderful stroke of luck the day i contacted him.. i cant txt him, because his gf keepa on snooping around his phone and even the one who’s replying to his messages and acting that she is my ex (she done this with my ex mom and she wasnt happy about it). you so much, that gives me a lot more hope than i had before. since then i have found out that he started seeing her before we split (she didn’t know) and he has promised her the world, while also seeing me and telling me i was his soulmate. the rose is symbolic & a little thing only we know. i know you’ve invested 4 years but you should be glad that you eventually found out about this and now you can leave him behind and try to move on. stopped no contact at 30+ days using the magic letter, she texted me and told me that a lot has happened. she saying she misses me and thinks of me at random times just like my former ex and i don’t want to see that all this time she is having best relationship ever with her best friend and find out they are engaged then married. you start to wonder how your ex is or what your ex is up to. i’ll again revert you back to this comment and this comment. some cases, your ex will choose someone who is completely opposite of you in every possible way. i’ll suggest you apply no contact for a month and then contact her. they will support you more than you could have possibly imagined. and i know he had just been waiting to be with her for sometime. the only thing you can control is your actions and your decisions. goldreply[–]♀mablesyrup 4 points5 points6 points 4 months ago (0 children)why are you still friends with them on social media? point i am trying to get to is after reading all these articles and comments and what not i still do not feel that there is any chance i can get her back not even with all the advise here, and especially since i feel that maybe she has been with this guy longer then i know about which makes me sick and really anger. i assume it’s a rebound as everyone has said to me it is and his own cousins where shocked it happened and so soon and having read your page. the thing is, my boyfriend and i haven’t officially broken up in the sense of verbally confirming it, however after numerous arguments over the telephone and him continuously hanging to the telephone on me, i decided to block contact with him and not allow text/ phone call communication. theory, your sleuth skills might be enough to let you go unnoticed, if you do deign to check them out. was with my ex boyfriend for about a year, and we just recently broke up about 2 weeks ago. it’s hard to believe in what people say even when they are trying to help in a lot of ways because they don’t know situation they say same as what few others agree at. you will not be obsessing over them so much and you will be able to concentrate on your happiness more. ex is the kind that you described as the angry ex in another post, however, he has anger management problems. that’s why you need to cut contact with him. you for for your blog as i’m in a desperate situation as this has been going on for six months and i don’t know what to do. he is a very honest person and said he started having feelings for someone else, but that he still loved me but it seemed like it was no longer “in love”, but then he explains that it’s possible to love to people and describes are love as a garden with many plants and what he feels for this new girl as a single planted seed. but still, i’d recommend you give him some time to initiate contact before you do so. days after that i got no texts and i found out later on that during that weekend that we were supposed to meet like always, he went on vacation with his colleagues (and that girl he talked about) and they, not the company, paid for it. i was devastated, she was younger and more beautiful than i am. my birthday will be coming up this week and last week when i visited my ex he asked me for my new address. and after i started to see my current ex my old one was always saying she missed me and was sorry and other things. if not, then what you are feeling is probably jealousy coupled with loneliness instead of love. taking my ex and her new boyfriend out to dinner after i had spoken to them. i asked her what she wanted and she said she didn’t know, that i had no idea what was going on inside her. the other end of the spectrum, there are exes who will try to hide their new relationship from you. by continuing to use our site, you agree to our cookie policy. i know i’m supposed to be doing no contact (which i’m implementing right now), but he usually texts me “good night” and “good morning” even if we’re upset with one another. and three weeks after your and your ex’s breakup? i dont know if this is a rebound relationship or something else. don’t know what she means she hasn’t been around for long time so how would she know that i’m the same when i’m not? if it does, you can handle it because of tip #8. my ex and i were together for about 6-7 months when we broke up because i was going back to school 12 hours away and he didn’t want to do a long distance relationship. i gave him every opportunity to come clean about the situation but he refused to acknowledge anything. my bff suggests being aggressive about it, but i rather follow your advice from last message and let it be his idea. it was a lot of fun, but i kept my distance and suddenly he was very flirtatious, talking about our sexlife and how great i looked and so on. or the fact you have same interest in spiritual beliefs and he takes you to shows and flashy events dealing with art because that’s what he does he does tattoos and he makes paintings for her. you’ll be just wasting your time and causing yourself more hurt if you try to pursue him. birthday is next week but i don’t think i should say anything anyway but do you think it would make her mad or upset if i didn’t say anything. broke up with him through a pretty harsh text but did not expect him to actually go along with it while he was home on christmas break. i told him about someone who had offered to set me up and he said i should go on the date. if you haven’t read the main 5 step plan to get your ex back, then you should. don’t you think that you should be concentrating on what will make you happy? broke up almost 3 weeks ago and sadly i’ve done the text terrorism and showing my neediness towards him. and my ex of 5 years (which is also my 9month old’s father) recently broke up end of may…. applied the no-contact rule yesterday, but mind you, i violated each and every rule of the 5-steps. without you wanting it, facebook will show you pictures of your ex’s vacation in bali or your ex’s sweet love posts to the new boyfriend or girlfriend. some people engage in this, especially if they’re still super bitter about their ex. we had gotten together a few times and i had told her things -- personal things about my ex and our relationship, why i was getting divorced, etc. if your decision is based on what are your chances if she doesn’t reply, then i’ll say you still have a chance and you should try again after a couple of weeks (preferably a month). i said before, you should remove her from all your social media. [read: 10 signs that a past relationship is keeping you from moving forward]. think you should send the letter after two months of no contact. your ex started dating someone else within a week of breaking up, then it’s more likely to be a rebound. you can try the 5 step plan, but your chances are less. so even if you force yourself to try and be better than the new partner, your ex probably won’t dump his or her partner just because you’ve improved yourself overnight. my ex emailed me the other day saying he’s trapped and his new fiancé is pregnant and she’s screwed him over and he hates his job and asking for help from the people he emailed. if she has been consistently cold, then i’ll recommend you do no contact for another 2-3 months. your ex and "your friend" are the ones who should feel stupid, not you! day 8 nothing so called and left voicemail saying i’m binning your bits but still want mine. month after she talked to me for 2 hrs i listened she gave me lies and excuses and no explanation . but we were madly in love and our wedding were supposed t take place in a month, so he got married t this girl he hardly know and he posted got married in his facebook wall maybe he is in a rebound but he got marriedg. she thinks that the new relationship, despite not being what she expected, is still giving her some level of comfort. thinking about your relationship with her in this way is just going to lower your self esteem it’s going to hurt your next relationship. to help you decide whether you should try to rekindle or move on. but since applying the nc rule last night she still texts me and wants to know what i’ve been doing and when my days off are? i just don’t get how someone can be so heartless and vindictive., how do you cope when your ex starts dating someone new? what should i do i can’t describe to you the pain i feel. i don’t visit him so i will never know. i personally don’t know the guy, but information available on him doesn’t reveal stellar character. the next day he told me he spent the night on the beach and cleared his head. then i told her it was for me then she said she knows my ears arent pierced and she doesnt want me to pierce them cause she doesnt want me to look like a thug. then a week later i found out that he started seeing his ex, who cheated on him before we started seeing each other. (referring to him obviously) saying that so quick even if you had a thing for him and he obviously was just over the top feelings for you when you were “friends” she never said that to me that quick. she said when he was stressed she would get stressed and then he would get mad cause she didn’t express what was wrong with her that’s when she said he yelled at her. it’s upto you to decide whether you should move on or not. especially when you have a long time apart and she is already completely past and over you. ex and i are broken up for about a month now.’m also lost on if your dating a close friend someone who knows all about you and she knows about him. all i wish for you is to be happy and find that place you were looking for that i could not fill. already know when she gives you an opportunity and you make her feel like she wasted her time it’s over and there isn’t going to be another chance. shouldn’t affect much if you are not needy after no contact. and i was thinking the fudge, were separating and u have someone already and you’re telling not to cry? know that she is confused and needs help as she has been drinking heavily and smoking heaps but she tell her family she is happy with this new guy…. you are confused because everyone seems to be telling you it’s a rebound relationship while your instincts tell you that your ex has moved on. even the night after i saw her making out with that guy she texted to say she saw me last night and if i had a good night. i met her a day before we broke up and she said “i miss you so much” and hugged me hugely. but i am pretty sure she still has feelings from you and she might even be having a hard time getting over you. except for the part where he said “maybe some day i’ll be back, but for now just be happy for me. until you let him go from your heart, you will never make the space for the right person. reason it’s a rebound is because she is not completely over for you. by september of this year, things seemed to be getting better, but in november, he went to cuba for a week and came back telling me he met someone he was madly in love with and wished to end things with me. like i said they are the same exact person with everything., in most cases, when you tell your ex you want to get back, they will most probably put their defense up (especially if they were the one who broke up). and she was definitely looking over at me, our breakup was clean, can you think of a reason why she very blatantly looked over at me?

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need to stay, as i was really worried that if she didn’t have someone there to look out for her, she wouldn’t get better.. they know it’s a rebound and they want to get back together with you someday. i don't think they're together anymore and i don't even think it lasted very long, but like you said. but then she was still behaving weird and it was really hurting me so i told her that we cannot be friends and i am not gonna contact you again. even though the sex is great, she is still not at peace with herself. seems like she likes excitement and guys who are hard to get. within 3 months she went from “i love you and want to marry you” then this guy comes along and in one night she was telling me i ruined her life and am a horrible person. if she is still cold, then i’ll suggest you give up hope and move on. me and my ex fiance were together for nearly 10 years. do you think he will still care or think about me or should i stop worrying and move on? the thing is, you said let his new relationship play out and then contact him but he still has half his life around mine. granted the day after she work the breakup email she texted me “i didn’t mean to hurt you. it seems the guy was the reason your ex left you. when that wears off, and everyone in the community moves on to the next piece of gossip, and your ex and your friend really get to know each other, the appeal will fade. if you feel the need, get more help on getting over a breakup (google, books, therapist). if you decide to comment read the comment guidelines before commenting. younger than me and she said she wants kids and to get married. also i am in no contact with him but he hasn’t contacted me except for messages claiming that it was a friend of his messing around with his phone when i received no messages him earlier that day. engage yourself in things that build you up, not tear you down. after that i stopped texting her and calling her, i don’t know if she misses me. · 121 comments mothers of aw, what's something your child does/did, that made you think "that's so mini me"? but i don’t know if that approach is going to work. regardless, you can try getting her back using the 5 step plan and if it doesn’t work, move on. do you think that’s too creepy even after the 30 days? if you still want him, apply no contact for 2 more weeks and get back in touch. but say you end up being right about her being in a rebound relationship with her friend. she told you not to stop texting her, let her know that you need some space before starting contact. if he doesn’t, you should move on even if you both love each other. hopefully, his relationship will be over before you go back. i love him and i know he has felt the same way about me, too, he is just still trying to figure out what he wants. think she is exhibiting some of the signs and she definitely still has feelings for you. if you feel like you must absolutely talk to her, then you can use one of the texts from the 5 step plan. just accept that your ex has moved on, and so can you. for my ex, after 5 and a bit months she’s still been simultaneously hiding her relationship (ie, “it’s not official”) and rubbing it in my face (all kinds of tweets, photos of parties with him/things we used to do, etc). positive and smart ways to deal with a hostile ex. that’s why you should implement the no contact rule for at least 30 days. i had the feeling she might have an immaturity about her, her current state of mind could make her this way or bad experience from a previous relationship might make her treat her exes this way. the more you try to find the truth from him, the more confused you’ll become. kevin,i had read your all 5 steps but unfortunately i think its bit late for me,i am 23yrs of age and my ex is 22,we were together since 6 months from june2013 to dec13,but my possessiveness ruin our relation though i love her very very much,we were working together but break up cause me to leave the organisation which i was seeking from last 3years,after that i had tried to contact her in every possible from message to email,since last 4 months i was continuously text her because i thought time shouldn’t run away but she feel it very irritating and start to hate me more than she loved me,we were in great relationship but my few mistakes asked me to pay heavy price,but i really love her and she had also loved me alot,and i desperately want her back so please please help me out. crowding them risks driving them closer together to keep you out of the picture. other exs where the breakup was more amicable, i'm happy for them and wish them well. prevent this, your most effective course of action would be to get off social media for a while. commentsshareall 44 commentssorted by: besttopnewcontroversialoldrandomq&alive (beta)[–]♀coldbrewedsunshine 56 points57 points58 points 4 months ago (2 children)when your brain starts wittering on in its sad and lonely way, accept that you loved that person. he broke up with me cuz i hurt him about things that he’s exaggerated about and jumping to conclusions and a lot of miscommunication. wish with all my heart that she would want to be part of my life…but, she knows how i feel and it’s up to her now. i know he’s seeing a woman he met -and rejected when we were together, he minimized it and asked me to not tell him if i’m dating. our aim here is to help you become a happier and more confident person.’ve been doing the nc with him for a week now, but within that period i accidentally bumped into him but i didn’t expect him to show up in the area right then and there. whatever technique your ex has used to get over your relationship isn’t really your business..) have been dating on and off for the past 7 years. sad thing is i know i was with a boy because he ran instead of communicating back to me. if she doesn’t contact you, then you should contact her. (also because we had turned into fwb and the sex was fantastic). however she now is dating this new guy 2 weeks after we broke up. the only thing harder than a break up is losing a friend because of your feelings. i realized he didnt make me happy completely and i still missed my ex. two months later he’s still with her and sent me several texts simply saying i have moved on. so you get on facebook to have a little peek into the life of your ex. i just want to know if this is a rebound. if she is not, then after a while, you should decrease the frequency back to once a week. however he has texted twice: to ask how i was doing and to ask a trivial question. it might satisfy your curiosity, but it won’t necessarily give you closure. it might feel cathartic to try to drive a wedge between the two but it will usually simply backfire and leave you looking mean. i told her that i could not be in a relationship with someone that did not have the same feelings as me. know this because you two were in a serious relationship for significant amount of time. intimately close to someone gives us a feeling of security and a boost to our self-esteem. just because your ex is doing something that makes him or her happy, doesn’t mean you have to do the same. i have a feeling she is and has been seeing someone else even toward the end of our relationship. remember all the stupid petty shit they used to do, the thoughtless things they said that hurt you. if i had to guess, she loves you more in a romantic way while her ex is more of a “father of her child” sort of love. was this meant to happen was i just the last person she wasted time on before realizing she loves her friend more then a just a friend as someone she could have life with. he texted me to meet up with him the other night because he needed someone to talk to. four days later i get a text from him saying ‘i have feelings for someone else’ i texted back just saying what? simply put, it’s like inwardly saying that your ex’s annoying quirks are someone else’s problem now! had been with my ex for ten years she broke up with me 6 weeks ago she said she felt different but still loved me i had suspicions she was cheating because she started to lie a lot it she is now with this guy but denies it. feel like i have failed in both mine and your life and that i could have done better but at least i tried the best i could while under the influence of other people. was really shaken up after our break, and didn’t know about the nc rule…after we broke up i texted him several times and i ended up called him profuseley apologizing and told him that i loved him (which i admittedly never did during our relationship). i’m no psychologist but after coming out of a long term relationship and hurtful breakup with someone with npd, he seems to show a lot of the traits. you have to stop thinking about how perfect they are for each other. your happy with each other so all is left is the sex am i wrong? i feel like my ex has second thoughts about us getting together he says there is still hope but i feel like there isn’t anymore, he dropped a bomb on me couple of days ago telling his best friend that he loved her, and she told him that she loved him back yet they can only be friends right now because she likes someone else, this is while i was trying to get back with him and he knew that i loved him. however, over the course of the next 2 or so years, he was constantly doubting his decision. read this article that said rebound relationships are actually good for you. and during my no contact period my ex was also happy and enjoying with his friends and with the new girl ive heard he’s dating based on his posted pictures on fb. Breaking up can be hard and is even harder in that odd situation where your friend starts dating him or her after you broke up. i know receiving a rose on her b’day will bring a smile to her face but it is so predictable, from me. all the times she said she misses me or thinking of me a lot i know we’re not true because she has been with her best friend turned boyfriend for sometime. heard from his mom my ex is still asking about me, how i am etc thats a good sign right? i think the best thing you can do right now is start no contact. also, before she started dating him were in contact quite a bit, but right after she started dating him she became very cold and distant and seemed to be trying to push me away. 4 months where she was dating both of us without the other knowing. had a wonderful time with my ex mom 🙂 my ex is still asking if i still come to visit, or talk to her etc… and hes still with his bad influence single mother gf, i just want to put this out there. and when i texted her she refused texting me back for another 3 days and said she wanted to break up with me because she lost feelings on me(while waiting, i sent her a long email stating how i felt about her and i wanna know why she is not replying me). they know each other in and out and i’m also pretty sure they have been physical with each other for sometime. in addition, you might also want to read this article on what to do if your ex is in another relationship. the next day he called me three times but i didn’t answer and have no answering machine and i also got a text calling me scum and my mum lazy. we finished watching the movie and we ended up sleeping together and afterwards he got a text from his friends about going out to eat. ex an i have been together almost 10 yrs have 3 wonderful boys together well she broke up with me in june but we stayed in the same house till october she went back to her moms an i got my own place we both have the kids 50% of the time. that being with someone for like a year or so is when they have better chance of working things out in “long time apart”. then apply no contact for another 2-3 weeks and then text him. isn’t it possible that she did have a meaningful relationship with you and after the breakup she just found someone more compatible than you? now i have texted him since wednesday and he has been very rude to me and says leave me alone, i’m seeing other girls, but yesterday i called him after receiving 20 blocked calls. and neither one of them can give you an accurate description of what the relationship meant to her. and if you found out all these things after the breakup, then you should not tell her you know all this. went on vacation february 20th and i was going to be on vacation till april 7th well my ex boyfriend of 3 years and 8 months ended it with march 4th and he told me not to come home but he would text and call me sometimes still and then on march 18th he told me that he was talking to someone else but not dating them then he told me that he would buy me my ticket to come home when ever and then i ask him if i could stay at the house still and he said yes and then i ask him if he was still going to be there he said yes and that he didn’t want me homeless or loose any of my belongs and then i ask him the next day the same thing and got the same answers from him and he said it was going to be different but he would still be there for me and help me out and be around for me and then he said april i am sorry about everything and what happen between us but we know it was coming and then on march 24th i text him and told him that i got my ticket and that i will home in 3 to 4 days and he text back april i know u know that i’v met someone else because people talk but i want to be honest and then i ask him i can still live in the house right because u said that and then he said she is moving in and then i ask where my stuff was and he said in the house still but i am going to put it in the shed if it ok and i told him my stuff wont fit in there. i also hope you find someone who will treat you the way you should be treated. a guy i know told me that age eventually matters. there is no more bond to speak of, so whatever your ex does is out of your hands. my ex emailed me the other day saying he’s trapped and his new fiancé is pregnant and she’s screwed him over and he hates his job and asking for help from the people he emailed. i just wanted to ask a question about whether you agree with my situation. do not try to push your friend in the wrong direction. that way, your friend will understand where you're coming from, which can sometimes help to explain why you feel moody, down or irritable around her and your ex. so we started dating for another 3 to 4 months again and now she broke up with me again a week ago. there is no way of knowing what was going on in her mind when she was in the relationship with you unless you invent a time machine, get a mad brain scientist, go back in time and get the scientist to analyze her thoughts and behavior. so long story short me and my ex for 2 years broke up 3 weeks ago after valentines day. i know i will get over him one day but i don’t want to and the pain thinking about it is unbearable 🙁.

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now that your ex has started over, maybe you should too. think it’s a good idea to contact a week or two before you come home. if you don't have feelings left for your ex, holding a grudge against them isn't going to solve anything. i am just afraid that it will turn out just like me former ex before my current one i am talking about. tell him you need some time and space and start no contact., if you are on the other end of this, meaning if you are the one who starts dating your friend's ex, please handle it this way. to get your boyfriend to propose: 10 hints to get the ring. love her, but you need to work on your anger. you are the love of my life and i regret letting you go but i cant be man enough for you and i feel we had bought each other down and we are both two people in different worlds who magically collided past each other and fell in love. that mean she is on to the next right even with the random they saying they miss you and what not. goldreply[–]♀dottywine 1 point2 points3 points 4 months ago (0 children)the only ex that this happened with was my first ever bf. the only thing you can understand and control is your actions. see the thing is aftr the break up i bought her roses it didnt work she just wanted space so i jus didnt see her but we still communicated via text. guy seems to be the exact opposite of someone she would usually date. i don’t know if its a rebound relationship with her new guy, or what the deal is there..Me: also, i’m not trying to get in the way of anything you’re trying to do (implying his new gf), i support you 100% and just want you to be happy. i know i am still not over the break up so i broke up with the new guy. i wanted him to feel that i was done chasing and exerting effort to get back. so for the past couple weeks i’ve let her have her space and deal with these rebound like you say. you see that he still wants to get back together? so let’s just assume that you are right and she is happy. tyne, the first thing i’ll recommend you do is tell him you need some space and time and start no contact. i think he just feels that way now because of the type of relationship we had, but i know he likes me (although at the end we were / i was talking so much about the relationship that he probably resent me) and loves me. we just one issue which is not having enough time to be together, and we’re already lucky if we get to spend 2 hours of dating in a day. at least you know your ex has moved on and is happy. just have been reading a lot of different things lately books and articles and was just wondering how people are getting with their exs after long periods of time. one article you say time place a big role people who were together six months or under don’t fare well compared to people with a year or more. i can make an educated guess from my experience, but it is still a guess. down i would love to reconnect with her again, but i know i do not deserve this kind of behavior. in most cases, people have someone lined up before they breakup just so they don’t have to be single. the fact that this girl did this to you is probably making you feel insecure about girl friendships. tell him you need time and space to deal with the breakup and you can’t be his friend right now. i also called her (she agreed that i could call her) and i talked like i was doing great (i am sort of) and she said she didn’t have any feelings for her other ex anymore. by keeping your distance, you spare yourself knowing every detail and you're not mired in their business. i bombarded her with texts and calls for the first couple of days.. that my ex is the type of guy when being cornered or pressured will make bad decisions or worst stupid ones… i think the best way to deal is to let him do his thing… but does he ever snaps out of this? she also kept saying that i’m such a good guy and that she doesn’t want to hurt my feelings, which i don’t know what that means because that’s what she’s doing. he does have feelings for you and cares for you. you know your ex better than anyone, so you are the best judge if they are doing it to rub it in your face or not. she started dating another guy (totally opposite of me ) a couple of weeks after i cut all contact. there are a bunch of articles out there on how to be more then just friends with a girl you have always had feelings for or how to be physical intimate with your friend. hope you’re too” so i waited for some time and i gave her a call. after a breakup, that intimacy is gone in a matter of few days and you are left feeling empty. a few days later, while still debating on calling him, he texted me again, emphasizing that he has contacted me twice. they don’t want you to start dating someone else because they are not over you and are hoping you will wait for them to come back. texted me saying that it’s probably best if we don’t talk anymore. i love him very dearly – i’m not sure if he truly knows this. well, kissing your ex when you know you are starting seeing somone is not ok. ex and i broke up approx 4 and 1/2 months ago, we were together for over 5 years. a few years ago, if you asked jane whether or not she would move this much fast in a relationship, she would’ve called you crazy. do apologize for taking up and wasting your time lately. and after they breakup with you, they start a relationship with someone who has no career and no life goals whatsoever. like, my ex dated a few people shortly after me. meant considering everything you have said till now about what happened, in my opinion and experience, i think she will reply when you contact her. then just over 3 months ago he met this 19 year old girl ( he’s 27) and has been seeing her exclusive for 3 months they even did a 2 week trip to new zealand together… my question is should i be worried that this relationship is serious? even if your relationship had problems, she chose to leave you instead of working on them. your mind is still going to continue thinking about it and probably stuck in the negative spiral. your friend dating your ex is a little uncomfortable to be around, arrange times when you and your friend can hang out without the distraction of an ex. she recently started dating a guy and, via facebook, they were in a relationship after only ten days of knowing each other. she thinks if garry and her start having sex, she will feel much closer to garry and perhaps forget you. either just being ignored or whatever so you do nc for another time period. same pattern went on all winter break with him and we kept in touch via skype and calling and text when i went back to school and everything seemed to be going well and we were communicating a lot better. ex and i decided together to broke up because we didn’t feel like that this relationship was working anymore. my former ex thought it was over when no one officially said so she was with a guy for 2 months. whatever her reasons for not being with you right now is her business and not yours. partially because we were friends after the breakup up until the point she dated him then it was like we didn't know each other at all. do you think the chances are that she will actually realize that she was happy together and will think about that. more you pay attention to what you can do to become a better person, the less time you’ll have to sit around and be bitter about your ex’s new relationship. i’ve been in nc for about a week but miss her and get major doubts that i could get her back because she tries to convince everybody she’s really happy with this new guy but gas only known his for two weeks. he’s sent a few horrible texts since and blamed me a few times and trying to reinforce he’s moved on but i’ve been ignoring him, no contact! i’m so confused and don’t know what to do to be honest. does she expect for a younger guy to really settle down? took time before we got into sex, i took her on multiple dates. i guess i’m hoping, he will know about the event, and maybe he will think of me. some people simply get over their exes in a shorter span of time than others. my friend had me over for movies the next night too. posted before but now im really confused, my ex broke up with me about 3 month ago, we were together 10 years we have been in regular contact until last week when i decided to go nc i knew she had been seeing another guy and i think that’s why i was dumped but reading on here he could of been her back up plan before we finished, she kept lying about him all the time then last thursday she sent a text telling me she was now seeing him , but a month ago she said he was a rebound a bit of fun , now her saying that makes me think its serious between them last sunday after spending the day with her which she organised , holding my hand kissing me etc he text and she said i have to see him to sort my feelings out, she spent the night at his, i was heartbroken i think she is in love with this guy and after reading on this site its like she hasn’t been emotionally involved for months but on the other hand dumpers in rebounds think there in love but this guy has been around to pick her up when we were going wrong , she sent a snapchat on friday then i had caller id withheld calls on my phone on sunday which she used to do if we fell out could be coincidence but that has never happened before im trying not to panic i have been no contact for a week but god i miss her so much even after how horrible she has been but im in panic mode , how can she stop loving me , how can she forget me , how can she move on , etc etc etc but this site says if she waited 3 months or more to move on she admitted seeing him after 3 months but has been seeing him longer , and this guy is the total opposite (more confusion) real player not nice to women multiple partners etc etc ,but she says he is gorgeous and in her text she said i was good looking great sense of humour ,big heart which i think is a ego boost for her cos why leave if im all that anyway im so hurt and confused some good feedback would be excellent cos im at rock bottom. use this time to sort out your feelings and to make yourself more resilient. after no contact, you still want him, get back in touch and go out with him a couple of times. the important thing to accept is that you cannot make someone continue to care for you in an intimate way if they have made a decision to stop. me and my ex were together for 8 months, and i have been in nc for over 6 weeks since the breakup. we used to still text, but like about a week or two ago, she got mad and said either to stop talking to her or me. he actually texted me right after i posted that, just asking about a music festival i went to last weekend. all what i remember what my ex had said, that he is confused that he has feelings for two girls, he said he knows its hard for me that he is with that girl, and he has said that he remember good memories of us. why not spend your time finding someone who can truly commit to you. that’s why it makes me worried that this is the same thing happening with my current ex. you need to stop thinking about the past and start thinking of your future. but when your mind starts wondering whether or not it’s a rebound, you can drive yourself crazy analyzing their behavior and obsessing over every little detail about their new relationship. but you have to understand that breaking up means having the right to see other people. goldreply[–]lifesabitchh 0 points1 point2 points 4 months ago (0 children)thank you. i said, you should start talking to him more often and then ask him to hang out. well my ex kept begging me but i would just ignore him&he would text me nonstop call me nonstop. i could tell with the look on their faces that they never expected me to see them on the spot, yet i didn’t make a scene. she feels a little better when she is with garry, but she can’t shake the feeling that this relationship is not giving her the peace that she expected. i asked him how it was going and he said okay, it’s been a while since i’ve dated anyone, invalidating the fact that what we did over break wasn’t dating. but in reality, there’s always the possibility that you’ll be overcome by your emotions. and during no contact, i want you to think exactly what type of treatment you expect from him. your mind is stuck in a negative spiral and you need to get out of it. so finally i decided to leave then two days later he came back to begged me plead me everything but i liked someone else. the last text from her was “i don’t have anything to say to you at this point in time.#5 don’t make comparisons between you and the new partner. you can help me with this, because i’d like to know if the nc rule is still applicable to my situation or it’s already too late. like i know the time apart has been long and a lot of things have happen. i was just someone she thought was better looking then the last guy that’s it. he’s younger than her and according to her very clingy, even wanted her to move in after only a couple months. after a bout 8 month at sea i find out he is dating someone else i though i was okay with it but when i finish the contract and returned home and started working at my old job where both my ex and his new girlfriend work i feel very sad and heart broken i love him and wish to be back with him he has been dating this girl nearly three month now what should i do. if you have finished no contact already, then there’s no harm in contacting her on the anniversary.’s truly a gut wrenching feeling to think of your ex with someone else, especially if you are still in love with them and want to get them back. two weeks after break up, she hooked up with a guy who looks exactly like me, has same interests, watches same tv series, listens to same music etc. if i already, after the break-up , went all desperate texts/phone calls followed by 21 days nc. we haven’t communicated since valentine’s day and it’s been a month since they’ve started dating and almost 4 months since we broke up. right now, your mental well being should be your top priority. be careful that you and your feelings are not the cause for leading both your friend and ex to think they are marriage material precisely because they bond over disgust at your negative behavior. just left you a comment on another page but wanted to write this one here since this is the topic. i couldn’t believe it and i made a lot of the mistakes you talked about like calling her all the time and begging and stuff. when we were together we would have so much fun and everything would be great, the second we weren’t together and he would text or call me he became mean and said he didnt feel anything.

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whenever she is with him, her mind is not thinking about the breakup and you. before i knew it, they were engaged within one month of dating. · 15 comments women who cheated on their spouse, what caused you to do it and how did you feel afterwards? i pleaded for her to come back after i found out they had sex but to no avail. apart from what’s recently happened, we both agreed we were happy and he even text to say i’m pleased to have spent them years with you, we had good times. i don’t know what to do next, or how to answer? now after letting me down with payments, shouting at me and hanging up continuously, i didn’t know what else to do other than to block contact with him. i did not try to get him to explain anything yet and he has not texted me back. if i have to guess, he will be making all the moves and all you will have to do is play it cool and don’t be needy. you i was upset when i found out by accident my ex had a baby with the guy she dated after me. the next day he called me three times but i didn’t answer and have no answering machine and i also got a text calling me scum and my mum lazy. start building attraction and if you think he is attracted to you enough, ask him if he wants to get back together. she doesn’t know that i know all of this. couple days ago she sent me a bunch of books to read while i’m gone this summer, but then the next day she goes back to being really hateful and rude towards me and acting very spiteful. is this a clear sign that i was never really anything to my current ex? later, while i was at therapy, he called me and told me he his girl found out that i wanted to see him and that she was upset (she didnt know anything! goldreply[–]impossible_planet 10 points11 points12 points 4 months ago (0 children)depends on the ex. she always told me she would not date someone with kids.. they want to take their new relationship slow and don’t want you to bother them. during no contact, you will realize whether or not you should get him back in your life. to the point where my ex said i was pushing him towards her cause i caused him stress and she didn’t. got a call from my ex the other night at like 10 she asked if i was doing anything and if she could come over. it will be hard but try to hang out with your other friends or try finding new friends and start from there.. he started on a dating site 4 days afte the break up and told me so. i have the strongest feeling that this is the one guy for her the one she been looking for and wanting for very long time and it happens to already be someone important and special in her life and who been there long time already. goldreply[–]♀pistachio-pie 1 point2 points3 points 4 months ago (0 children)i don't keep in touch with exes so i never really find out when it happens. goldreply[–]rms55 0 points1 point2 points 4 months ago (1 child)how did the messy feelings resolve themselves, if you don't mind me asking? and a part of your mind will not believe me and keep you stuck in your negative state of mind. 3 years later i found out she had a baby with that dude and i started feeling grief and so forth and i don't know why. like how it happens after long periods of no association or someone being in a relationship. and what if the ex has read another website or talked to friends with a different set of such strategies. some people i know say she still likes her other ex a little bit. obviously i want him back and he knows this yet he has said if he wasn’t in this new relationship with this girl he would try again but he is so he won’t. know there will be someone out there for me…but that doesn’t really help at the moment. however, at this point, i’ll recommend you get in touch with clyde. feel like any type of texting will be ignored, or seen as me trying to get him back. the things that have happen since things ended like the random text sayin miss me or thinking and the few times she has come to see me since it ended. both sides hated our hearts being together and it made us very unhappy and i pointed the blame at you and you pointed the blame at me it was a big loop going round and round. try to let your break up go because if you don't your ex might start feeling uncomfortable around you. i stay out of their lives and i expect them to do the same for me. because of that, i told him i understand him because i also have responsibilities that take a lot of my time (being a breadwinner and a single mom) i can’t have sex with him if he can’t commit. she is so income with him already and i know he is with her since he just been waiting for this to happen for years and now he has it. plus all the the signs that your ex is suppose to show to determine if they are or not in rebound. about the exciting new changes you’ve made in your life. my ex girlfriend and i have been separated for just over 5 months. your last comment, i am little unsure if you applied no contact. its now been 5 months our break up, i’m still hurting and trying to go forward in life but my ex is still in my heart and doesn’t go away. i know it seems like the plan is meant to be about playing mind games, but if you notice, a huge part of the plan (step 2) is about self realization and self-improvement. kind of makes you think those are more relatable to them then anything else. i just feel i am worthless and that i spent six years with someone who couldnt care less about me. resolute ways to resist the urge to call your ex. years, perhaps that’s why it’s hard for you to let him go even though he disrespected you. people go into a rebound deliberately and choose someone completely incompatible with them because they know it’s a rebound. but what if you’re still not completely over your ex?’m interested to hear what you have to say about my situation. 13 more »380 · 663 comments what do men do that make you say "wtf"? goldreply[–]loveforllamas 7 points8 points9 points 4 months ago (0 children)i only have one ex and i wouldn't care if he started dating again. he is now dating his ex girlfriend from 11 yrs ago who cheated on him more than worse. she does nice things for me and calls/texts/facebooks sometimes and vice versa but then she will completely change and treat me like crap for several days in a row and ignores me until she responds to me again. only way you can analyze your past relationship right now is just by memories and conjecture. i didnt know he was a rebound up until now. if you get back together, there’s a good chance he will cheat again. reading this i know i made the right move and i’ll stick to it. how is it technically considered a rebound if they never really said that you meant something. he said he needs time, so you should give it to him. my ex was furious that i spoke to her parents and now refuses to speak to me. do anything and everything you can do to make yourself happy. which is also contradictory because one of the issues with me was i “didn’t know what i wanted in life. i was hoping you could offer some suggestions for me. the last thing you want is for your ex to think you are coming between his or her relationship with your your friend. i asked him if i could kiss him and he said he didnt know if that was right…after that he kissed me. weeks, she’d called three times texted a couple, i decided to call on the way to work. to block and ignore after and under no circumstances you unblock or check out their profile. some people keep someone lined up for dating before breaking up just so they don’t have to be single for longer than a few days. me and my ex split about 6 weeks ago and i asked her several times especially when she became more distant and easily angered toward me. though it is tough seeing them together, stay away from them for a while, until you are ready to talk or say something positive to both of them. my ex is still dating the other guy & i haven’t heard from her. if she texts you during these two weeks, you can reply to her but keep it short. she continues texting you, tell her you need space and time right now. i hope you are not thinking of getting back together with him. will get much better once you move out and start no contact. in knowing this, you’re better off focusing on something that can improve your life right now. the only thing it’ll do is keep you in this obsessed state of mind. if he is cold, then you should start no contact again. most probably, you met him at a time in his life where he isn’t ready for something. goldreply[–]enrodude 1 point2 points3 points 4 months ago (1 child)thank you. you saw that the happy new couple is always at this pub near your place. i know how it looks and how things are but, would or do you see it as being completely over and it has been for some time from her perspective. your “sneaky signs your ex still loves you (even if they say they don’t)”..i thought he was coming back around because of his words to me lately ( i miss you- not over you, etc) and our time apart. i just saw one of my ex's actually, who is married to a gorgeous smart woman and has three kids together now! the person is obviously is a bad friend and you are getting a divorce, regardless of him or her, right? if you really think it’s going to upset me if it’s a girl i don’t care”., my ex boyfriend dumped me after 4 years, i started a nocontact for 2 weeks then he contacted me, he told me that he ws with someone else but still in love with me, and he wanted me back. in addition, this new girl doesn’t really seem like all the other girls he’s dated before me (i was also different from his usual type which makes me wonder if i was the rebound but he was single for more than a year when we met, so i don’t know) and she’s not friends with any of his friends and vise versa though i don’t know if that has anything to do with it. from someone you said to my face was like a brother to now saying ” i got a good one” with happy faces to ” i love you” with hearts a smiles. it seems she is texting you just to see if you are there for her and once she realizes that you are, she feels satisfied and doesn’t respond to you anymore. [read: 14 things to keep in mind when you run into your ex]. you can also try hanging out with other friends more often so that you're not constantly reminded of them. her best friend is also probably telling her about the fact that she spoke to you and it’s going to make you look like a stalker. you taught me alot and i have taken in alot from what you have said over the past few years. she wanted to send you a message that she is moving on. regardless of that, your best course of action is to follow the 5 step plan. she did not reply to that message but i sent her another message saying “i was pretty drunk yesterday and let me know when i can talk to you”. even if there's only negative feelings left i go for the block, even before they have yet to get involved with someone new. start no contact and even if she contacts you, don’t answer her.’ve been together for a year (1 year and 15 days to be exact). i said i’m so happy to see you are doing so good and that you are so happy now. i want to thank you for all the time and effort you put into me and this relationship. if you’ve already deleted her number, then don’t sweat it. you choose to search for a new relationship or put all your efforts into a hobby, it’s infinitely better than sitting at home and thinking about your ex and your ex’s new partner. the last 3 months i wasn’t happy neither was she we had problems with her 3 older kids and i didn’t know how to handle it and neither did she at the time i was verbally abusive to her and her kids we got into a huge fight. some people are extremely active on facebook and twitter while some people don’t usually post their personal life all over social media. if you think you need more time, tell her so., say your ex is in a rebound relationship now and you start to do no contact. decided today to be nosey and look at my ex’s facebook.

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that’s why i think she moved on and over as quick as she has already and to the next guy she feels she has better connection with. my ex cut me out of her life post breakup when she met her new dude i was fine and continued with my life. 2 weeks ago, i found out he is dating somebody else because of their pictures together on fb(gf tagged him). the longer they’re in the relationship, the more you lose hope. day she is the loving partner the next she has done the complete reversal on me. he called me by the pet name when we were friends, rather than when we were dating. example, suppose your ex always says he/she wants someone with a career goal. if still nothing, you have the option of starting no contact and trying again or concentrate on moving on. don’t even know how to talk to her anymore. he will continue playing with your emotions and keep dragging you along if you let him. of all: i wouldn’t dare to show up here if i wasn’t absolutely sure that her ex (the one before me and the father of her child) is an absolute jerk. i explain in the article, her relationship is probably a rebound and she isn’t as happy with her life as she seems to be in social media, which is why i recommend you stay away from her online profiles. three weeks our break up, i heard from bf sister that new girl and my ex has something going on and i was ripped apart. if she chooses the other guy, then you cut her form your life and move on. and then for some reason, you remember one of your exes. a therapist can help a lot if you are unable to let go of obsessive thoughts. ex broke up with me back in december because he wanted time to focus on himself and his activities. i know she has tried to insert new dude into areas of her life in replacement of me. if she gets back together with you and she is thinking about that guy, you can deal with it at that time. don't' have to be overly friendly to your ex and your friend. i just found out from him today that he’s seeing someone and was really surprised as i still think it’s so soon considering how serious our relationship was. she cried all the time to her family saying how much she loved me n her dad told me so i know its true. i wonder if the extreme level of intimacy and commitment to her within hours of meeting her fits the ‘rebound relationship’ definition from your article. he said he met her a couple of weeks ago and they’ve seen each other a couple of times, but i also happen to know that they have already slept together. quick and dirty version (click the graphic for the full set):Use the search tool and faq before you post. then about a 4-6 weeks ago he tells me that he has started seeing someone else and he said he didn’t know how serious it was but he didn’t want me to be blindsided if we didn’t hang out as much. if you are not quite ready, just give it time..but then i did not know what kind of texts to send. you go to your ex and say straight up “im not going to play a lot of games, this is how it is. and when you see how happy they look together, it may just cause your heart to break into even tinier pieces. remember you and your friends are friends for a reason. they are in a rebound, you still have to apply the no contact rule and follow the 5-step plan. she will come around because you have more length of time. however, don’t make it obvious that you want to get back together. likely do you think the rebound of your ex and another will last if it started all within a week of them talking to each other? you will miss your ex as you go through the grief process. is what i plan on doing and i hope your right about the missing me part. she said she does not see us getting back, not meant to be, etc… i brought up lies that she said, and instead of apologizing she yelled “dont you ever call me again” and sent me a text that said “have a nice life! or is it just something you say to be nice? i know we can’t be besties right away, but i at least want to build up to that again. what is there to possibly miss when you have had your best friend as your new boyfriend for some time and you love this guy. goldreply[–]♀catrionashadowleaf 20 points21 points22 points 4 months ago (1 child)don't social media stalk them so i never know. also, understand that even though your behavior wasn’t needy, the act of going to his house just so you don’t lose him was somewhat needy. if they found someone they mash up with better and everything in general about that person is better. was (am) basically just the complete opposite of his ex wife. neither of us respond because at the time we honestly didn’t know. it would be wonderful if every breakup came with clarity that you no longer have feelings. how are you planning to get out of this state of mind leave her behind? you are supposed to learn to live a happy life with or without your ex. i read your article about the no contact rule and the 5 step plan. use this time to improve yourself even more and become more confident. goldreply[–]♀7timesaday 0 points1 point2 points 4 months ago (0 children)i've been pondering this all day, and i really don't know. he said that my ex said “hi how you (insert friend name), are you with sabrina last march 13? few months ago, his younger brother, who also married very young and had been with this wife for 8 years, got divorced. do you really see a long term potential with her? and for that you’ll have to let him go. he would give off hints that he wanted me back and well we did but since or offical break up which has been 4 months now hes been in and out so many relationships i figured he was using her as a rebound he would pur her names he use to call me and it bothered me enough to yell at him will cruel and our of line words but you’ve made me wake up and realize alot so i know whats best thank you. [read: 12 things that will make you look like a creepy stalker]. either she breaks up with the guy or you completely cut her from your life and move on. this time, talk to him before getting back that you can’t do this on and off relationship and if he wants to get back together, he needs to be hundred percent sure he wants this. broke up and he started dating his co worker, after 3days of the break up. a few days beforevalentine’s day i texted him (sad, i know, but i didn’t text him so i wouldn’t be single for vday haha). let him know if he is not willing to give you what you want and what you deserve, you must leave him. i have tried everything possible to reconcile i have had no response i keep texting and calling no answer. when you contact him after nc is over, both of you will hopefully be a lot clear on what you want in life and you can discuss it before getting back together. she always said she wanted someone who has some goals in life. i resisted the urge to stop walking and be approachable so i pretended to be talking to someone on my mobile phone and ignored him as i kept walking. you have to make an effort to go out there and make yourself happier. boy am i wrong i now know i love that girl. this time i know my ex hasn’t forget about me. seems harder now cause we didn’t just text for a day she called from the blue asking to come over and she seemed kind of happy to see me. she started seeing someone pretty much immediately, not sure if she left me for him or what. anyway, as of two days ago, i texted him for something. i don’t know if she will ever contact me again or not. kevin, i need help figuring out if my ex is in a rebound relationship and what i should do next. i’m in love with this guy and i don’t know what to do, the best thing is to move on but i love him too much to move on, he still asks me who i hang out with, and if i hanging out with guys, we’ve been together for 4 months and i need some great advice, please help me i’m in desperate need of help i don’t want to loose him and i feel like each day passes i’m loosing him! since then i returned to uni and he continuously called/ text me letting me know how sorry he was and that he’d do anything to show me no matter how long it takes. girl and i split after 6yrs on and off, we lived together for about a year but her jealousy pushed me to leave, so we get back together again and we carry on our reletiknship but she always accused me of seeing my ex ex, then we stopped talking for a whole month and i find out she has a new man in her life and she has been seeing him for a least three months. the following day i receive an email from her explaining she didn’t feel comfortable talking about it in person, but a month after she broke up with me she started seeing someone and they were going to marry in the fall. this carefully designed test to find out your chances and if you qualify for the ebp basics e-course. articleshow to stop loving someone who doesn't love youhow to make him miss youhow to get your ex backhow to let go of someone who you deeply loved. if she doesn’t reply even at that time, then your chances are slim and i’ll recommend you try to move on. do you agree with what my friends have said in regards to a slightly manipulative behaviour from her? i began to want a way out when i found out he was hanging out with a girl behind my back, but nothing sexual happening, he said he just didnt want me to know…. perhaps there is someone better out there suited for you. but i really think you should apply no contact for at least 3-4 months and think if you really see a future with him. so i said i want to break up with you the following day. that girl turned out to be his little sister’s best friend that she’s known since 2nd grade. it just means she is trying to avoid you for some reason, or perhaps she was expecting you to talk to her so she can reject you (and feel better about herself). i showed up telling him i’m not trying to “pull a beth” (his other crazy ex who we battled together and had fun doing so even though she borderline stalked him) and that i genuinely just wanted to be friends with him. i want him back because not all guys are open to dating single moms and i’ve fallen in love with him. he dumped me over spring break, on text because he got mad at me that i forgot to do something. i started doin the no contact but it was short it was about 2 and a half weeks because she asked me to see her for our b- day and btw we had a very good time and she loved the gifts i got for her, after that we saw each other two more times later on in that week but idk if her relationship is a rebound because she liked this guy before we met and another thing is she said he’s a nice guy and always makes her laugh she ” loves him” now i don’t know what to do i really want to have her back and i am changing for the better cause she means so much to me. [read: are you jealous of your ex’s new life? if you are looking for closure, you should apply no contact indefinitely.’s a question about whether or not my ex is trying to rub it in my face: i haven’t actually heard from him, but as far as the whole social media aspect goes, he hasn’t said anything about this new girl until he posted a concert picture and tagged her in it. she probably did love you and she still probably misses you sometimes. you need to find a way to deal with your own grief and i don’t think obsessing over her relationship and her happiness is a good way to do so. like i said, this girl seems to have a track record for going in too deep and too fast which is why guys come and go when it comes to her, do you think this means it’s likely to end quick? i havent contacted him since after i saw the picture and i will not do it… so i will follow your advice. nothing beats straightforward honesty, its less hassle all round and if you are both playing such games then what does that really say ? he said both of them went into it not expecting anything serious, but the more they chatted the more they had in common. promised me she wasn’t cheating, she just allowed herself to accept texts from another guy. even though we dated for almost 3 years, we never experienced going through a rut or anything. i think there is little hope, but only if you move out and stop being there for her all the time.. long story short about a week ago she moved out as she said she was confused and need space and said to me that she wanted to be alone the next day i found out this guy was staying there… i done all the opposite to what was need to be done i got angry upset, needy and begging all within a week. done everything wrong, i really wish i had read your article a month ago. parts:dealing with your feelingsbeing supportiveworking around awkward situationscommunity q&a. next thing i see is that she changes her facebook profile pic to the one of her and the new guy. let him realize that there’s a good chance he will lose you forever. was with my ex for 3 years and we broke up. i’ll recommend you keep contacting her via text and slowly increase the frequency and length of the conversations you have with her. is it a rebound when your dating close friend you both alrwdy know everything and get along great. i also made it clear to the guy on the first month that we were dating that i can spend time with him late at night only if he’s already my boyfriend or we’re with friends (if we’re not yet a couple). i and my ex broke up couple of weeks ago and i still don’t know the reason for that. don’t know what to do before she left she told me she loved me and cared for me but i don’t know if its true as she has moved on with this new guy as he knew everything i did wrong in our relationship and is trying to do everything to make her happy.

like it cants just be you run into that person down the road and start talking and having good time again and be like we should try again and it works. you sure you will be able to have a healthy and long term relationship with this guy? and if she doesn’t break up by the end of that time limit, you give her an ultimatum. i’m not trying to come off as needy at all, but how can i even get her to meet up with me when i know she’s willing to but maybe her new bf is tying her down? and i think you’ll agree everyone (even adults) can benefit from that. why was he letting a young girl sleeping at his house if he loved me and didn’t want anything to happen? would you know when it’s time to give it up and stop trying to reach out anymore. he is actually my client and i am a senior executive in my company. you want to ask a question about your relationship or breakup, head over to the boards. but it’s still significant if you two had a good connection. sure ways to deal with an ex seeing someone new. so, now i want you to tell me, how to get her back. does that mean he has already started seeing someone else? i don’t think she would have stayed with you if you didn’t mean anything to her. will still be upset, but at least you're thinking of your friend's feelings. i know he texts her every day to say he loves her and misses her and counts down the days until he sees her again. of course, you should give her the time and space she needs to get over her ex and you will both need to start a new relationship that will not be a rebound. he told me he lied and just said it cause he was hurt but i didny know what to believe since he has had a cheating past. he initially didn’t like her but she had her eyes set on him and kept making her move, which made me feel insecure so i expressed my concern and so he talked to her and said he didn’t like her that way but i feel like that fueled her even more and she kept on pushing and making her moves on him till it made me really upset and insecure and really put strain in our relationship. do not let your ex come between you and your friend. he came back from vacation, he didn’t even explain why he didn’t text me that long…he didn’t even apologize. seeing your ex with a new significant other can feel like a painful blow right to the heart. if you’ve been keeping tabs on her (via mutual friends or checking her emails or facebook), then you are not really following the no contact rule. so, at some point i called a face to face, where i tried fighting for us one last time- presented him with the timeline leading up to proposal- how could he propose after 2 months- and he had dedicated a lana del rey song to me just the other day- a song that made me want to just die- so we agreed to no more sad texts- but apparently it didnt stop because again i needed to have another convo with him to get my point across. i wouldn't even know, as we don't have any contact. if at that time she still wants to work things out with her ex husband, then you should move on. she clearly posted this message for her ex to see. you are right, it’s hard to say if it’s a rebound. i did some of the no no’s…ima human being who had his emotions seriously messed with…i have since cut all ties…going nc as they seem to be more serious and have been dating a few months now. there’s no way you can know for sure if she still has feelings for you or she has completely forgotten about you. people lose feelings and there is a good chance she cheated on you while she was in the relationship. the relationship with you didn’t work and left them in pain. so hopefully you can tell me what the hell is going on haha. if their behavior resembles that of a person in a rebound relationship, you can be know for sure whether or not you have a chance at getting back together. he would tell me he was dating other girls and one time he offered to give me another chance but i didn’t respond. am not saying that you should start a serious relationship with someone else. don’t scream it out at the top of your lungs on the highest building you can find! i have ex's i stayed friends with who's happiness genuinely means a lot to me. like we were at a party together and after i’d left she texted me to say she was upset and had no-one to talk to. also, i know for a fact the other girl was also just lonely getting out of a “relationship” where she was way more into the guy than he was into her. it’s possibly the best free guide on getting your ex back on the internet. she doesn’t love both of you in the same way.[read: 9 things to keep in mind when your ex is about to get married]. we had been dating for 3 years and when he broke up, he listed reasons like he wanted freedom, to be stress-free and he felt that the feelings faded. she doesn’t respond (which is unlikely in your case), then it’s your decision whether to pursue her more or move on. she just wanted to do the exchange and leave, but she did mention the dating profile that i had re-activated.’s nothing much you can do other than what i said above. i told him even though he said he said we shouldn’t talk anymore that i still care about him and will always have an open ear if he needs someone to listen. your website has been very insightful, helping me approach my breakup bewilderment in a more healthy and productive way. i don’t know how serious it is, or how long its been going on. devious ways to be a crazy ex and get your revenge. you were always there for her, and she didn’t consider your feelings. this might be true if you had been acting like a crazy, stalky ex who wouldn’t leave them alone. it’s so near that it wouldn’t be weird if you were to suddenly show up and see them there, right? my ex send me message that i was right when i said to my bf tht it was unfair that he decided all alone to end our relationship. that instantly killed my vibe i felt like crap the rest of my workout suffered and i felt just mad at that like, really you look at me like that. all but mainly kevin,I recently ran into my ex and it was extremely awkward and now i’m wondering if e was interested and is waiting for me to initiate contact the way i’ve always done? during xmas my ex messaged me and he said that he thought about me, more than i would imagine (wtf, how would he know? if you have not completed no contact, do so before having another interaction with her. you will realize what you should do during no contact. text him or send him the letter mentioned in the 5 step plan. if it doesn’t work, you can close this chapter and try to move on. met online, and i’ve been trying to meet someone new on there. so i told my ex that but he said hes over me and just wants to be friends. the new guy/girl seems completely opposite of you and yet your ex seems committed to make this relationship work. but he posts pictures and quotes about being with his girlfriend and he posts pics on instagram with her too (i don’t have an insta, i only know this from a friend). i think you should apply no contact again and follow the 5 step plan. kevin, i know from reading this what you will think, but he is a good person deep down; affectionate, caring, funny and loving, however this dark side is extremely overwhelming. attempts like moving in together after only 5 weeks of dating; meeting garry’s parents and asking garry to meet her parents; planning to move overseas with garry. came across your site and am starting to follow the 5 steps and have recently began the 30 day nc period. those belong to someone else, and that person is welcome to 'em. don’t know what to really do about any of this. it was pretty much out of the blue since we were celebrating and the next week he told me he needed space, time…he continued to tell me he loved me and that he wasn’t going to leave, he just needed space. by being casually supportive and not antagonistic, you actually create a better space for them to work out whether or not they like each other beyond having your antagonism as a common cause. i know receiving a rose on her b’day will bring a smile to her face but it is so predictable, from me. that the change she still has feelings for me is bigger then the change she likes her other ex. just don’t make it obvious you want to get back together. and also the girl is controlling my exbf decision not to resign from the company because his parents are asking him to apply to a diff. she doesn’t know he has been seeing me also and is in love with him and i’m afraid he will become her boyfriend just because it’s the easiest and he then doesn’t have to take a look at himself. if your ex is going out of their way to show you they are happy in their relationship and everything’s going great, then it’s probably a rebound and they are not doing that great in reality. was always expressing distrust and insecurity over the situation he had with her, which i guess made me unattractive and i am regretting it now. so if you concentrate on being the first to get over the breakup, you won’t be able to concentrate as much on healing your heart and moving on the healthy way. it showed me the difference between being happy physical with someone and not really caring compared to actually caring for someone like my current ex who i would of done anything for. i know it sucks but you need to become learn to be happy in your life without him before you try to get him back. ex and i broke up when i just came back from overseas exchange program. he never acknowledged being engaged to this other women, he was shocked i found out and asked me how i found out. we later talked in the car where she told me that she was seeing someone but is torn between me and this other guy because i’m a great guy. i made a great impact on my ex he was proud of me, and told people i changed his live for the better, because he had a dark past. so, let them have their fun and concentrate on making your own life better. if he decides he wants you again, don’t be so quick in taking him back. if anything, you’d be happy that your ex has decided to move on. he said it would be best if we cut down on the talking and we did until i texted to ask him about money he owed me. i don’t know who i have spent almost 7 years of my life with and it freaks me out. i really thought she loved me, you shouldv’e seen the intensity she displayed many times in our arguments. either your ex will move on and be in a happy relationship with her current boyfriend. that and when you have been apart for almost as long as you were together don’t that kill any chance of that ” running into them and realizing things could work” type deal. remember, there will always be a part of you that will wish he fixes his issues and you can get back with him.” i tried calling him because i wanted to get some closure…but he texted back “please enough is enough. i think there is still hope and he probably still has feelings for you. turns out he met this girl through tinder (rolling eyes) and said “she is amazing, we hit it off perfectly and it feels like we’ve known each other for years. she had said to me “i’ve thought of you as one day being my husband.. my ex bf ask me if i could get him any job there so he could come with me he planned to get us wed before i leave even before, i heard from his mom that for 2 weeks he was pissed off cant think clearly, he started to hang out with his officemates that are bad for him, drinking alot going to bars (which he doesn’t like ) . while some people argue there isn’t a benefit to ‘talking about the relationship’, he’s actually expressed that he likes it and is truly very open and honest when we do sit down and talk. after all, the less your ex is on your mind, the faster you can get used to not thinking about how things were between you two. even if he does come back, he might hurt you again.’m just hoping that she’ll see me for me…but i know she can’t do that unless i’m not there to be missed. if you don't like your friend dating your ex, tell them and they might keep their life with your ex separate from you. you can’t control what he will think/do or when he will be ready for a relationship. your ex has found a way to deal with the grief. my ex sent me messages that he thought about me everyday, and also on that special day. and it seems pretty serious because the guy is always at her house and i know he stays over. make sure you read the checklist at the beginning of step 4 in the 5 step plan before ending no contact. didn’t have any pictures of his ex on his screen saver, and he told me he was over her but he still had pictures of his ex in laws which i found weird and made me think that he wasn’t over that relationship. however, it's never that simple and there will be a tendency to have leftover feelings for quite some time, however kindly you try to feel towards your ex. i've been told the same thing about meeting someone else. after all, you know your ex and your situation better than anyone else.

if after that, you still want to give it one last try, contact her. if you cannot come to this conclusion, it risks eating away at you and can end up harming both you and your friendship. i hope you could help me out, my ex bf and i had a great relationship for 4 years, he is my clyde and i was his bonnie my partner in crime. story short, my ex girlfriend dumped me randomly (stopped having sex with me about a month before) so maybe no so randomly. telling she cant adjust with me as i am 11 months younger to her and now she is in a relation with a new guy whom her parents will also like and she loves him alot and will marry him, and she also told me doesnt love me any more and dont expect her again. you contact your ex after the 30 day nc even if they’re still in that rebound relationship? i wanted to be able to ask her for her hand knowing that i could provide the type of lifestyle each of us want. please help i dont know whether to ignore or reply i love him so dearly and have tried everything to make it work including changing as a person to try and be accepted by him and his family/friends. i’d suggest you do wait at least one month. what should i do if he doesnt reply to my text? and that is not a quality you should look for in a life partner. people say she is only with him cause he provides the material things and takes her to these amazing places because she is really young and he is 14 years older and had a thing for her for years. i guess, i was right because when he broke up with me two days ago, he said that he wasn’t ready to take the next step with me of moving in together, and didn’t want to make that commitment to me because he was scared and not ready for it. noticed that after that day of making out, he started disappearing little by little…no text the whole day, then the day after that he just sent me a text that he has a lot of problems. i guess the best course of action is to stay no contact and wait for him to contact you. we broke up and about 2-3 weeks later i know he put himself up on a dating site. you have been in no contact since the breakup, how do you know all these things? her being ‘official’ 9 weeks after a breakup shows me that they clearly were dating for at least 1 month, which means she wasn’t grieving long at all (maximum a month).’s a time limit you have to set for yourself. so quit the comparisons, quit the stalking, quit the brooding over the fact that your ex got over you first. but can i ask what should i do now knowing that he is into someone this new girl. in the latter case, you'll have to explain this to your friend, otherwise you may drift apart. before he break up, i saw him with a girl whom he had get known that time when he said he doesnt want to continue. are a lot of articles written out there about positives of “rebounds” how they are actually proven to be better for you and that they are not rebounds they are just new better relationships. if it were to break down between them and she contacted me what would you suggest i do? i have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for the past 3 and a half years and we broke up because he stole from me i then took up the opputinty to work on a ship and when for it 10 month at sea i still love my ex while being a sea i missed him lots. or not you should try again is for you to decide during the no contact period. texted him already but he dont reply knowing that he is awake and online. but you will find someone who will care about your happiness. that your ex is now seeing someone else can be a painful realization. we started talking very briefly via texts a month ago and she’d respond to my texts but never initiated. have since learned that she asked a friend of mine if she should tell me about the engagement before i heard it from someone else. you decide how much time of your life are you willing to waste on someone. make sure not to react in front of others because it could get back to your ex and your friend (i mean, your ex friend). the example you gave of jane and gary i thought might be what is going on but i’m sure that’s not the case. and im too scared to write him that letter, especially when he’s with someone else. also that it is the easiest and quickest way to get over someone that you use to be in a relationship with because you are spending so much time with that new person like close good friend that it takes your mind off your ex and makes you realize that someone else has always had feelings for you and you might have always had feelings for them but never acted on them until now that this was the chance to act on those pent up feelings plus is shows her how incompatible she was with you . it doesn’t matter if you want to get back together or not. i said i know your with him (her friend that she is now dating) and you seem happy i’m not going to make problems for you. set up a night out with your close friends so you can tell them all about it and then move on. because you were important to her and it’s hard to get over a relationship especially if you are in a rebound. i really don’t know what the relationship is like because she doesn’t say anything about it to me. but all that is not going to help you with your current state of mind. flowers, letters everything but its seem like its too late, which were her exact words. i will recommend you unfriend her and stay complete no contact for a while., you need to get out of this situation and find yourself another place. i have tried just to be short and friendly but all i get is she reads my text then never replys just ignoring it or replys once hours later and that’s it. ex boyfriend started a new relationship while he was still in a relationship with me i knew we had problems and, i found out about him being engaged, but he continued to contact me/flirt with me and visit me. it gives you a chance to feel that level of intimacy again. she wont see it coming and then she will contact you. leaving your girl of six years for someone you barely know isnt ok either. i’ll recommend you try the 5 step plan once, and if it doesn’t work, move on. my ex is still dating the other guy & i haven’t heard from her. even the whole thing with her dating her friend maybe even still.’m so glad you ignored him if he loves you he will beg for you . recommend that you don’t initiate contact and let her do it. you are trapping yourself in negativity about the relationship and yourself and i will suggest you seek professional help at this point. to know the truth isn’t even for the purpose of rekindling anything, but just for a sense of closure. a second right after that my ex came out and i was like oh boy here we go. four days later i was told by a mutual friend that he was also seeing someone else and had been doing so 2-3 times a week for 2 months! they are exactly the same person personality wise, spiritually, ideology, and belief wise. been 3months since my ex and i broke up, and now shes seeing another guy. can talk about the new things you have been doing during no contact. i know i had been like harassing him because i was constantly trying to talk to him. this is the best you can do at this time where everything is spinning around. if you parted amicably, then hanging around him or her again may be quite easy. i want you to think really hard during this no contact period if you really want to be with him. about maybe 3 or 4 months ago she text me randomly saying she misses what we had but i found out a month ago that she is engaged and now she is married and i never knew about it only cause i saw her facebook saying she was engaged and now it says married. post: should you contact your ex on valentine’s day? i know she still loves me, i just know it. started to play online games with my ex again since last month and we had fun and he said “thanks for the nice memories:)”. she still has feelings for you even if the close friend might seem perfect for her, it’s probably not going to work out. you need to get help for anger and then after this contact her and say a simple. she would not answer my call or text messages on the day she sent the email. do not let your ex ruin your relationship with your friend, especially if the breakup was turbulent and you and your ex are not on good terms.’ve had break ups before (not that many to be fair) and i know the world still turns, but there something keeping me there…. they will assure you that they are your best friends and that you are loved. it gives you hope to fill that empty feeling inside you. plus you say how long she waited like if she did appropriate time length. so i went 30 days nc, she contacted me once, and after a month and something i sent her a message about a tv series we watched together and i said “hope you’re fine” she replied just “yes i am. if their new relationship has been going on for a few weeks, you can’t say for sure if it will end in a few months or it will continue for years. wanted to say stop exaggerating about the unhealthy part because we were both really happy she just got upset and felt that way when she had an attitude and i didn’t want to talk for day or two, it was to give each person space, not like i was such that bad person she makes me out to be. if it doesn’t, then you know it’s over for sure..Thank you so much for suggestions but still feel for him. getting into a conflict with your ex is the last thing you need. i hope you actually got some help for your issues or i pity her. we talk she tells me she misses me an she doesn’t want to get back right now i just wanna know if she’s in a rebound or what cuz it’s hurting me inside an i wanna move on. i guess within the first month of this fling i guess you’d say, he has met the family, pretty sure she has met his, and she just seems really over me. texted me the other day a picture of something that made her think of me. even though, she usually waits three months before sleeping with someone she is dating, she makes an exception in garry’s case; simply because she thinks that sleeping with him will make her forget about you. her best friend (girl) who is also a friend of mine and she told me that it is probably not true that she likes her other ex. am sorry…i was wondering, do you think i should lose all hope on this? even if you try to resist, there’s always the temptation to have a teeny tiny peek at what your ex is up to. and i don’t think you should talk to him for at least 2-3 weeks after this. easy ways to stop comparing your new guy to your ex. i do know she has got some things going on but i have the feeling that maybe i should just leave her alone because she will not want to try again. But here are some effective ways you can deal with this knowledge. · 94 comments if you had a roomba (vacuum robot), what would you name it? that was confusing to try and understand if so then why are you with someone. although, i am sort of glad that you found out the truth and have decided to leave him behind. she also had an ex of 5 years before me that she jumped from him immediately to me. what i am trying to say is that no matter what happens, your course of action right now should be the same, i. there is hope you will get back together and yes, it’s probably a rebound. they do everything a couple would do together but she just keeps saying she isn’t dating. this may already be something you’ve done when you were still trying to get over the breakup, but keeping that mental tally does come in handy in situations like this. he told me he would never leave me for another girl, that i was the most beautifulest and cutest girl he knows and then he says it to her. due to my problems i let my frustrations out on my ex. there is absolutely no reason for you to know every single thing about their relationship. just express it in your own way, with minimal damage to those around you.. i think they took advantage of him being depress and feed him with “she doesnt love you anymore” crap. give him some time, and if he doesn’t contact you, you should contact him and ask him if he cheated on you. ex boyfriend and i have been dating for 1 year and 5 months..and i texted her a couple days later just to let her know her know i was sending her kids gift cards for their birthdays she didn’t get mad she just said ok. i don’t think either one of you is a rebound. i guess he wanted to hide his new relationship from you because deep inside, he doesn’t want you to move on. cut all contact with him and move on with your life.

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