African Men: Top 10 Reasons for Dating a Black Man those are the facts, and as per usual black women are both jealous, and in denial. (even though there are black women who accuse black men of raping them in order to cover up the fact she wanted to have sex with him, but that’s a whole different story. at some point, she and this married white man began sleeping with each other, and she got pregnant. my cousin was at a local eatery where she observed 3 white cops looking and laughing at a black man who ran to the bar to buy a drink for white chick that looked like rosie o’donnell who didn’t even knew this man was looking at her.’m not sure if this will make black women feel better (and if so, lord knows why) but there are a lot of black men out here who do not treat us better. i wasn't like, "oh my god, black women don't want me," because i'm not entitled to any woman. all black men are not the same but guess what. you said:“if anything white women are try too hard to be like us black women. she also often instructed me to never beg a man to love me. so for all you black men who feel that a black woman is so classless think about your mother’s and sisters grandmothers who gave the world to you so you could be sucessful and think how they may about the man they raised who now hates them! oh and by the way us black women are not overly aggressive, let me tell you every man that i’ve been with, loved me and i loved him. just because someone isn’t confidant enough to set limits, or who doesn’t believe she deserves better and falls victim to an abusive man, doesn’t mean she asked for it or deserves it. i would not tolerate a lying, stealing, mean, abusive man. but he wasn’t her man or husband during that time. parks reportedly fired from ‘real housewives of atlanta’ over too many lies. i for one am a classy educated black female and i was raised to always be a lady and that i am,however my father told me not to be an educated dummy,not to allow anyone to disrespect,and to be treated like gold. they believed that you weren’t a real woman until you slept with another woman. the white men who can get past the mental anguish of my black penis tarnishing "their" women think i'm making some latent admission that their race has the most attractive women. to the black men who speak so poorly of black women calling them selfish among other things, this is more about your weakness and not our strength. i am tired of hearing that black women do not have the pose or the tact to know how to behave when they are out in public or black women are argumentive..you can’t judge a black woman unless you’ve been in her shoes, just because you’re wearing the whole black disguise that doesn’t make you the ones for our black men. i have found that for the most part black women are better educated than black men, hard working, and when in a relationship are very loyal and loving. think in the majority of cases across the board black men do in fact treat non-black women far better than they do black women! it is up to me how much of it i am going to give to the man. flat out wrong to dogg your on race because you might have had this happen to and to sugest other black women to date outside their race, if they dont like other races but only black men. the loud, pushy, mean stereotype of black women (and of course black men as well). you it not just black men but all men because of television and this culture when live in, like little wayne inspiring are young children. so where else do you go when you’re looking for a man who still knows how to be a man? they said that because they instead opted out for the welfare check”, and the explusion of the black father from both his home and his children.. however africa is a whole continent full of black women. i don't walk around like, "i'm dating a white woman! me tell you a secret that many of us may not know. if you’re not african and has never dated an african man before, dating an african man can be experience of life time, before you can make a success out of dating an african man, you first have to understand him. oh and for your information black women are definitely better lovers than white women. not all black men are like this when they date outside. it’s really all about black women being ashamed of themselves! and how about the fact that every black person wasn’t a slave, especially if they owned/sold slaves themselves. when white people find themselves in relationships with loving, caring partners who also happen to be black or minority, but does not fit those often deeply internalized stereotypes, internal conflict can arise. i do feel that over the years of slavery, segregation, and mistreatment of black people that white slave owners tried to break us and make us hate each other.. white women aren’t tough enough to endure the ups and downs of being with a black man. black women as a whole i believe are more willing to love any race. for people of color who live in a white-dominated country, many of those experiences will be plagued by racism. they are very aware of what the needs of a woman are, most african men would not allow the lady to pay the bills particularly on their first date for instance, a committed african man will try as much as possible to make sure that you are happy in that relationship, he will try as much as possible to give it his all, listed below are a reasons why you need to date african men. throughout this nation's history, unfathomable numbers of innocent black men have been hung from trees and burned because of often fabricated stories of their fraternizing with white women, and there were usually no consequences for the white men lynching them.’t you want to date a man with an educational background? back during slavery black was considered ugly and white women so called looked down on us black women. black hat/dear black people, if white people jumped off a cliff, would you? am a black man born and raised in england from. till this very day, black females still say that s**t. perhaps, you’re blind and can’t see that the majority of black women wearing all this fake hair…, and who are they trying to emulate? this is the main reason why black men date women of other races. she was not going to go through the trouble of calling attention to the fact that she was going out with a black guy. perhaps, if black women like yourself would try to keep your legs closed…for a change, then you wouldn’t have to worry about what your children feel, because you wouldn’t have any! they aren’t really interested in you; they’re intrigued by the taboo of being with a black man. am a white female,black women are jealous,they only see what they want to see. when i see a white, asian, latino man with a black woman she will either be beautiful and fine or very educated and fair looking. black men seem to to marry ww where they at the same time breed up black women with no commitment! anything white women try too hard to be like us black women. claim to have looked long and hard for a man who meets their parameters, but once this is achieved, forgets to realize that this union must be nurtured to be maintained. once we find the right man for us, we fall in love and want to keep him in our lives forever. you will equally not need to eat the lousy food from fast foods since your man is the chef.
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regardless i never thought of black women lesser than white women. not to mention you arent afaid to speak your mind (debatable to most but i personally don’t mind it) so i ask, where did all this white woman worship come from? so why are they mad and bothered when black men become involved with and/or marry other women from different races, but especially white? you’re not going to find a professional white man with an uneducated, unemployed black woman. to, better understand this questionable mindset one has to go back in time to cica 1965 when black women first coined the phrase, “we don’t need no man”! while white women where in the house too lazy to nurse thier own children, it was us black women who did the job. they tend to be white collar professionals, a level that most black men will never attain. by middle school, and especially high school, those expectations were even more apparent. i basically didn’t choose people that were clearly good for me because i wanted to be with a black when every last one of them always treated me like shit. i don’t want a man like this in my life, and i get to choose the type of people i surround myself with. a black man wants to be with a white woman, let him be! they only act aggressively is when black men treat them as whores or at best property they can command at their beckon call. here’s some advice about dating white women: don’t for a single moment forget that you are a black male breaking a cardinal rule by putting your black n*gger hands on superior white flesh. many of these stereotypes create the lens through which we experience people of other races, especially since society tends to be racially segregated, disallowing first-hand experience of other ethnicities/races. all black women don’t nag, act ghetto, argue, and sit at home doing nothing. i wanted an equal, therefore i preferred a woman of my own race, “aggressivity” and all.!It is a shame that you reveal yourself as a “fraud” when so many black men are just looking for a woman of color who is intelligent,loves him, and physically excites him. i think that before any sista can complain about how she is treated by a black man, she must first decide what it is about her that would allow him to mistreat her.’m a black man that has dated equal number of black women as white women (a few asians and hispanics as well) since being of dating age (16). we should realize this when we see black men with below average white women. you will equally not need to eat the lousy food from fast foods since your man is the chef. if you remove a man’s mental foundation via selfishness,laziness,uncaring behavior, and lack of physical love, he is weakened, and less able to deal with the problems that life throws at him, therefore looks to escape that relationship erroneously with a white woman. we meet so many people and when the time comes for the man to be a gentleman and open a door for you, or pull out your seat, not many will do it. we struggled just as hard as the black man and still do and black men can fix their mouth to talk down to us for not being like white women.’m not black, i’m actually asian, but this particular topic on ‘mixed-dating’ is very interesting to me. maybe the gentleman thought she was educated because she carried a textbook? white reaction to the verdict may have been one of shock and rage, but it's also largely oblivious to the history of disenfranchisement, partially as it relates to interracial relationships, of blacks in this country. (disclaimer- i am fully aware that men of any race, creed, or religion can be a jerk, but for the sake of this discussion, we are going to keep it on the relationships between black men and black women. why do black men sneer at me just for talking to a non black men.. you should explore the social stereotypes and fetishes associated with “blackness”/ “otherness,” but not play into them. an african man knows that it takes hard work and a good education to make it in this world. as, a black man when i talk to other black men about this situation, the response always seems to be the same! true, i’ve seen a few black men with fat white women, but not all that many. did you ever think that white men find a white women dating a black man offensive? to put it bluntly, many white people simply have no idea what they are getting into when they begin relationships with people of color. you are just another piece of meat to the black man. guess black women desire to look white and have straight, long hair like white women. very rarely will you see a black man with a very attractive white woman unless he has movie star status money.. our society is so use to the sterotype of the african american black woman and think all are like some african american black women who portray them self to be aggreisvr nd ghetto.” and then there’s jean-paul goude — the photographer behind the now infamous paper magazine cover of kim kardashian — who famously used his black then-girlfriend, grace jones, to recreate hypersexualized/stereotyped imagery of black women., as an asian woman, i fall into the bandwagon of ‘asian girls dating white guys and abandoning their asian men’. time black women get the opportunity to have a very nice comfortable relationship, but our black women have no sense of love or relationship, all they know how to accused you about all kind of other women, they are lazy and not together with there partner. it time to look skin deep and give other black men a chance instead of judging them by how they dress or how big they are or skinny. bw need to raise their standards and protect themselves from pregnancy etc… and also open our minds to dating outside our race. they down talk black women all day, yet black women rather take up for a black man than a black woman.’t you want to date a man with an educational background? some of you believe that having the interest of a white woman makes you superior to other black men. most, are either black men/white women, or white men/asian women. if you going to categorize human by colors at least get it right; we are brown skinned people. you cant love who your not attracted to, i love my black handsome husband and hate how the media classify him and my son, all made up lies to break the black conmunity up., getting injections to havhave have fuli’ll lips like us black women we’re born with, and the list goes on. treating someone badly because they allowed it is a glorified excuse not to treat someone with the same respect expected. but, even if they have disagreements with thier women, the very last thing that they want is a black woman! white women love black babies, hence their love for back men otherwise why would there be a flipping baby." that says some unfortunate truths about our society, but when black men date white women, we're put in a position where we have to think about that, whether we choose it or not. but i use to cut them off because i wanted to only marry black women. have to state that i am a white female and are in a relationship with a black male. black women have told me it's because i'm a sellout. how about the fact that blacks also owned/sold slaves. when a man first meets you, he has no idea on what to expect from you. don’t fall for the media scame betraying are black men as monsters.
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Hughley Show's 10 Reasons You Should Date a White just like all black men are not dogs, and dead-beats. i am a black woman, not tryna brag i’m beautiful and i speak fluent spanish. discussed in point one, many non-minority people exist in a majority world where they infrequently encounter and experience racism. because, as most people already know…including black women themselves that they’re considered, and also viewed by most people be they black, white, or whatever, or male or female that black women are negatively aggressive, loud, rude, and also have thier usual negative attitudes! but i get tired of black women lifting up their hands getting down on both knees for the one race of man that leave 80% of their own women single. honor of former wwe wrestling icon hulk hogan’s racially insensitive tirade regarding his daughter’s open involvement with a black music producer, i have compiled a list of reasons why black men should stay as far away from white women as humanly possible. black men lower the threshold for white women which is why they go mad for their rosie o’donnells. most men, except perhaps for the white men, are reluctant to get into a relationship with a woman who is highly educated, as she may potentially usurp his leadership position in the relationship and thus leave him trapped in an unhappy relationship which can be highly costly should he choose to end it. to burst anyone’s bubble who does not see the behavior of white men and white women as the reverse of what they actually feel–on a subconscious level, and that is as a whole white people feel “genetically” inferior to blacks and ultimately all of people of color. well, i wondered how were they able to have so many babies. yet, i know that for the time we were together, i loved him like i have not any other man, including the white man i was married to for >9 years. yes, because every asian woman is your personal sex slave… or how hispanic women are beautiful seductresses with their little latin dances or some bs…. and by the way, fellas, i’ve seen too many of you booed up with sloppy, fat, homely-looking white chicks. white men do expect white women to be the head of thier household, and honestly the majority of white women have no problem with doing that! maybe some of those black men are honestly attracted and in love with a white woman? for anyone that must put a color on a human being (which is what race all of us are)not some color from crayola. newsapril 7th protests: marches against me showed racism is real – president zuma love & romance. but, that’s exactly why black women are, and continue to have the most oow babies in the country as a race of women. The white men who can get past the mental anguish of my black penis tarnishing "their" women think I'm making some latent admission that their race has the most attractive women. am white and dating a black man who was my good friend before dating. im not even going to waste time with further explanation; however, just take a look at advertisements, commercials, and other media supporting the absence of black women. just because you are on a date will not guarantee that the man is going to have manners and be courteous.. white women cannot identify with the struggle of being a black male in america. now today all i see is white women tanning themselves to look darker, getting injections to have full lips like us black women were born with and the list goes on. reveals first 60 seconds of ‘orange is the new black’ season 5 (watch).’re right black women literally bust thier butts in the usual “failed attempt” to look just like white women, but always fall short! i’m a white woman and l like black men but l know that black men don’t treat better white women than they treat black women . stop worshiping and defending a man who will ignore your kinky hair and put a 3 million dollar ring on a porn video princess whose been married three times to black athletes and other respected black men. so when i hear blacks claim that they don’t receive enough welfare money and food stamps, i say “bulls**t!.there are hundreds of thousand of black men and white women that are married,look up the latest census count on interracial marriages,notice how many white females that are married to black men. your outlook on black men is down out wrong to justify all black men all the same because you see a few dating out their race. that’s because she will never be married to a black man. plus your more likely to have our back before the white woman. there may be a giant, awful, terrible megaforce that defines what is a black woman, an asian woman, a hispanic woman, a woman– but it does not mean that because of this overlooming corporation we can turn on everybody else that ‘isn’t like us’. relationship should be built on mutual respect of one another’s human dignity. black women usually as a whole are stuck on themselves, are selfish, and are takers. how many jokes have been made at kim kardashian's expense because of her history of dating black men? ( black women decided in the late 70′s early 80′s that welfare was more important than having a father in the home. love who you want to love that is not the point but why is it that when a black man dates/marries out of their race there is something wrong with the black woman but this is not the case when other man do the same. find yourself a white man they have more stability less chance of them walking out on there children. she’s out to prove that she’s a better man than her (actual) man. yes a white man siting behind his computer dest wrote this, this is what they want us to think so they can have a black women to brag yo their friends about. intstead they focus on someone who is less black like beyonce but has just the physical features of an africn woman, just because she has some black genes in her and as usual black phyical fetures are usually more dominant in a mixed race person, ie: nose, hair, lips, body shape. he says that white women know how to “worship” their man and give amazing blow jobs. with an african man, you can be sure your future is not going to be a guess work. are self-hating black men who date white women for contrived and pathetic reasons and i hate them. after our breakup, i said to myself that i wasn’t gonna let color or what someone else wanted for me dictate my next woman. sometimes, heterosexual females will compete with her man while living in the same house. white women love black babies, hence their love for back men otherwise why would there be a flipping baby. the reason why white women may be paying for enhancement surgery for their lips, and other body parts is because white men subconsciouslly desire black women–but cannot act on this fact because he will destroy himself genetically–the safest way is to mold the white woman into his fantasy black women.’s dissect this whole inequality among black and white women from black men. but face it, white women are basically trying to become us with the looks and some even try to get black men, when back in the day anything within the black race was looked at as trash. a romantic relationship is supposed to provide a safe space for individuals to express their feelings and come to terms with their life experiences. black men going relationships with white women but they don’t want forward-looking relationship with white women , they prefer to forward-looking black women. i do see there is truth to “how you teach them to treat you” when i look at black women who date black men, but, as a lesbian, i have never dated a black man and could not imagine dating one because of how most of them seem to treat and talk about black women as a whole both in and outside of relationships with them, as well as how sexist they seem to think. objection is noted in the observation of black women who mistreat the men they are with in a relationship. i think the biggest problem with people having issues with ‘interacial-dating’ is because a lot of people tend to fetishize and glorify different races a la a ‘supremacist’ fashion. @caaan… yes, black women have been dating/marrying outside their race way before the 60’s. now, there might be some men who have left their woman after achieving some success but this is not the majority of black men. person made a comment about black men finding out/seeing for themselves that so-called black queens wanna be kings (men). never really think about race while dating unless somebody else makes it an issue or i notice that the way a white woman i'm with looks at something is flawed because of her upbringing.
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i would have to disagree that black women are more educated than black men. according to the bureau of justice victimization report, biracial individuals are victimized at a rate three times that of whites and two times the rate of blacks. at this moment i am dating a white man, and in this particular relationship, i do not think it has to do with a race fetish but this isn’t the case with many mixed relationships. that’s a lie which typical black mammy wh**es use/say to cover up the fact that they were willingly spreading their legs for any ni**er. they smugly go out of their way to put down black women based on stereotypical notions about their attitude, or hair, or something equally stupid and it's corny and disgusting. is why when i hear other black women make comments that black men are more willing to treat white women better while dating and in a relationship than they would black women, i have to offer the screw face. but it does have an unforeseen effect on your outlook when you're one of the few black families in town. it’s already bad enough that many of you are intentionally dating outside of your race because you’re not man enough to handle a strong black woman (i said strong, not crazy). perhaps, if black women learn how to treat people “period” then maybe people would view them in a more favorable light. as soon as i see the first sign of a man who is abusive, rude, aggressive, mean, selfish……. now i’m intelligent enough to know that this isn’t the way all or even most black women think.!I’m a white man and find black women to be honest, hard working, definitely better educated than black men. in the late 70’s early 80’s the best jobs that black women could have was cleaning bathrooms, house maids for whites,washing clothes for whites, baby sitters for whites,cooking for whites,and as for government jobs blacks were just tokens on the job or any other socalled good job just for the job to say they were not discriminating against blacks. obviously does not apply to all black men, that would be impossible. also, the white male and black female marriages have a much higher success rate than that of black men and white women. the wife found out, the black woman lost her job. knowing how much a diverse range of attraction upsets people is part of the appeal of interracial dating. i think black woman should stop being afraid and just go for it. i only see black men who will date and marry a nonblack women who is much under him financially, educationally and physcially. skepticism towards black men/white women relationships is a longstanding and well-documented part of our cultural fabric in america. i feel we need to think about things like this and slow down on rushing into a relationship becasue their are plenty of single black men out their. they are very aware of what the needs of a woman are, most african men would not allow the lady to pay the bills particularly on their first date for instance, a committed african man will try as much as possible to make sure that you are happy in that relationship, he will try as much as possible to give it his all, listed below are a reasons why you need to date african men. women think that white men are much more superior then black men, so i see no problem with black men dating white women, since our black women want to cross over. just because you are on a date will not guarantee that the man is going to have manners and be courteous. the black woman is beautiful, she is the most shapely, she is the black man’s sexual companion and with only a black woman can a black man create beautiful black children. and how they show a pretty black women with a white man. of the california blacks nation califians (khalifians) the first americans. but he ignored the 3 black chicks who looked like models for the overweight , homely white women. just because you’re dating a black person does not mean it’s impossible for you to say/do racist things, and it doesn’t absolve you of recognizing your white privilege.! lots of black children grew/grow up not having meals because unfit parents, especially single females, sold/sell their food stamps for cash.,with my telgenic features and brains,why would i trifle with a fat,obnoxious black woman,white woman,hispanic woman,asian woman,are any female who is not young (ages 22 and 40,gals! and, again i agree that’s exactly why black men date non-black women, because to tell the real truth, the majority of black women just aren’t femine! i been was talking to my black man before geting married for 4yrs. go to ==(whitemenblackwomen) add org == is a nice dating for for black white singles. i don’t feed into the racial drama about which a man prefers white or black. writes ‘#blacklivesmatter’ 100 times on college application, gets accepted to stanford. my professor a white anthropologisteexplained whites are a direct mutation of blacks where as other nationalities migrated fromafric. it's nothing to walk past a random black woman on the street and get a death glare and maybe even overhear something like, "they're taking all of our men. then the article go on to say that black men put white women on a pedistal, but again that is wrong most black men was raised by there single mom to believe black women are queens, but when they start to date these queens they find out these queens really want be kings, they refuse to play the role of queen and treat the men they with like men, i not saying all black women but if 70% of black women are single and only 40% ever get married then may be you should look at what stopping black men from dating then marrying black women,i suggest the first place to look is not at the white women , but at you." the most visible criminal trial of the 20th century centered around a blonde white woman who was presumably murdered at the hands of her black husband, o. but because i know i'm not one of those sellouts, i feel no guilt about dating white women. another example of fetishization was egregiously displayed by khloe kardashian’s tweet about her black husband’s “big hands,” her reveal of his penis size and more recently her statement that the kardashians “only like black cock. first of all i was here in the 60’s 70’s and 80’s and i could tell you it was not like that at all in the 60s and late 70’s early 80’s first of all wealfare was not designed for blacks or black women it was designed for whites and white women period! dangerously, it is with this lens that many come to understand their interest or “preference” for a particular race. often see black men proudly walking hand in hand with white women. black hat: 10 reasons why black men shouldn’t date white women cory alexander haywoodjuly 25, 2015black women scream, white women scheme (and their fathers will hate your nigger guts)columnsentertainmentracerelationshipssex - eroticaslider220 comments225987 views. even if you're smart enough to look at the woman you're dating as a human and not a prized object, that mentality is still going to be cast upon you. when she’s had enough of sucking your big, black, d***—and pissing off her parents—she’ll go running into the arms of her white knight in shining armor. is not a good example of a black man and is severely damaged or a white supremacist’s. time to say am black and proud again so we can build strong families and show our children that black is beautiful even though media say otherwise. should be recognized that the enemy of black men and black women is trifling, no good ni**ers and hoodrats. now he will never date a black woman again and thinks they’re all ghetto. we as blacks had to fight and fight hard to get welfare our kids were starving to death while whites had good jobs and welfare to lean on they could even be married and have the fathers in the same house hold social workers did not make surprise visits to homes of whites they had cars,tv’s radios or anything that looked to be expensive such as jewelry etc and money in their pockets to boot they had it good damn good! of course, this wasn’t a case where a white man raped a black woman. look at all the current events with the killing of black men, and the amount they send to jail with unfair sentences given. once we find the right man for us, we fall in love and want to keep him in our lives forever. however, i do see white men cheats and lies as well as black/yellow/green men ( u know what i mean). basically experience that good black men that black women always saying going to white women. we were very compatible, to say the least, & i loved being with him like i have no other man. 🙂 so next time, before you and your nephew make executive decisions about black women as a whole, how about you ask your nephew what he was doing to make them act crazy. i dont see how someone can say that black men is with white women because white women are easier to get and easier to lie!