What to do when your ex is dating someone new
What to do when your sister is dating your exthe example you gave of jane and gary i thought might be what is going on but i’m sure that’s not the case. i’ve already started nc for a few days, but i just want him to be happy and i don’t want to ruin his chances at happiness. i bombarded her with texts and calls for the first couple of days. read this article that said rebound relationships are actually good for you.’s hard to tell what’s causing this confused behavior.’t go back to him — you’re better off on your own. tell him you need time and space to deal with the breakup and you can’t be his friend right now. her best friend is also probably telling her about the fact that she spoke to you and it’s going to make you look like a stalker. which shows she is not over him and is most probably in a rebound. you will miss your ex as you go through the grief process. some people engage in this, especially if they’re still super bitter about their ex. i’ve been ignoring all his gf’s remarks online and acting like i don’t even notice them, but i think she’s trying to up the odds by posting all this lovey crap about him knowing i’ll see it, though he has yet to say anything about the relationship specifically. here i was planning to spend my life with this woman, and now its nothing. i think you should stop talking for a while and let him continue with his girlfriend. about a week later, her older sister’s fiance’s friend from work was introduced to my ex and from what i heard from my brother who lives in that house with my ex’s sister, she has been going out with this guy like every other day, and doesn’t come home sometimes till after 2am. do you think her feeling threatened will help destroy their relationship? she is 35 im 28 she saw that i had grown up a lot since i was 18 and was immediately attracted to me.’ve been doing the nc with him for a week now, but within that period i accidentally bumped into him but i didn’t expect him to show up in the area right then and there. you have to make an effort to go out there and make yourself happier. even the night after i saw her making out with that guy she texted to say she saw me last night and if i had a good night. it’s the kind of intimacy that is built with time and effort that a relationship requires. i don’t know if its a rebound relationship with her new guy, or what the deal is there. just as someone has touched your heart, you’ve made the same impact on someone else. has been extremely vocal about wanting to be married for a few years now. all the times she said she misses me or thinking of me a lot i know we’re not true because she has been with her best friend turned boyfriend for sometime. literally 2 weeks of being broken up and he pulls this. has sent me a txt like this before and we have got back together. so quit the comparisons, quit the stalking, quit the brooding over the fact that your ex got over you first. because he said that he thought he wasted my time for ten months and that he selfishly kept me in his life all this time because i made him feel better. you saw that the happy new couple is always at this pub near your place. she doesn’t love both of you in the same way. without you wanting it, facebook will show you pictures of your ex’s vacation in bali or your ex’s sweet love posts to the new boyfriend or girlfriend. was this meant to happen was i just the last person she wasted time on before realizing she loves her friend more then a just a friend as someone she could have life with. if we ever did get together ( not saying that there is any chance of that or it will happen in future) but wouldn’t she be thinking of him when she would be around me. my experience, rebounds usually end and are not meant to last. like i said everything they do and he does for her and how she thinks of him are perfect and she loves him. i just let him do his thing because i think maybe this is the way for him to let his anger out that i was going away. i don’t know what to do next, or how to answer? you’re just sitting at home, looking for something to do. it’s just a weird situation being from a small town and having someone mistreat you so badly.. when i found out i told her i knew about it and she just stopped replying to me , what should i do. let her develop a friendship with you again and listen to her problems n dont place any negative spin on her relationship. and if you found out all these things after the breakup, then you should not tell her you know all this. updating it postingnphotos and changing his profile photo with the one shes in it. if both of them are on a rebound, the chances of relationship surviving are no more than if only one of them is on a rebound. is this a clear sign that i was never really anything to my current ex? she said when i was on my trip she holed up at home, didn’t hang out with anyone and envisioned herself in the future, realizing i’m not the person she should be with. do nc for a month and get back in touch. if anything, you’d be happy that your ex has decided to move on. cannot tell if this relationship is just a rebound, and i have a chance of a future with this indecisive person, or if i should just let go of the entire thing and move on. you for for your blog as i’m in a desperate situation as this has been going on for six months and i don’t know what to do. i just want to know if this is a rebound. this has included talking about what we didn’t like about the relationship and things that hurt us that we never talked about before. this probably shouldn’t bother you all that much if you’re already in a happy state in your life. i think there is still hope and he probably still has feelings for you. you are confused because everyone seems to be telling you it’s a rebound relationship while your instincts tell you that your ex has moved on. he kinda looked like he missed me the way he looked at me according to my friends, i didn’t look at him. i could tell with the look on their faces that they never expected me to see them on the spot, yet i didn’t make a scene. guess my question is, is there ever any hope for me? you’ll berate your ex for being with someone else? i love him and i know he has felt the same way about me, too, he is just still trying to figure out what he wants. he didn’t respond, but then the next day he randomly messaged me and said that yes we can still be friends. within 3 months she went from “i love you and want to marry you” then this guy comes along and in one night she was telling me i ruined her life and am a horrible person. i think you should apply nc even with his texts (it’ll most likely have him thinking, especially if he regularly texts you “good morning” or “good night”). if things don’t work out by that time, give up on him and move on. don’t know what she means she hasn’t been around for long time so how would she know that i’m the same when i’m not? you can’t control what he will think/do or when he will be ready for a relationship. this time, don’t let your mood swings affect your decision. it doesn’t necessarily mean she will still has feelings for him. its been almost 3 months since we broke up and i am doing the no contact…. i have thrown myself back into the gym working out with a trainer and have taken on a part time job for the summer to give me something to do. i want to thank you for all the time and effort you put into me and this relationship. i tried asking her to get together to catch up but she said she doesn’t think that’s a good idea yet because she’s currently happy with someone else. on reflection we also realised that we didn’t have that much in common, so i guess our relationship was built mainly on attraction which i know isn’t ideal, but we still made it work for a while. and when they get in touch with each other, they realize that there is a good chance their relationship might work better this time, and they give it another go. she’s very girly and bubbly and i’m darkish and not that girly. it seems like she doesn’t care about me at all now. confused why i’m getting told that i was important and i am misses more by a older ex then current one. your “sneaky signs your ex still loves you (even if they say they don’t)”. this has been a non physical, normal flatmate arrangement and we get on, what i think, really well. but thanks i will let her just do her and have to see what happens. he called me by the pet name when we were friends, rather than when we were dating. cut all contact with him and move on with your life. you are supposed to learn to live a happy life with or without your ex. at least try not to do it until your emotions aren't as raw. i have never been introduced “formally” to his friends because he always said it wasn’t the best time because of our situation. i want him back because not all guys are open to dating single moms and i’ve fallen in love with him. i do love him and forgive him and see if there is a chance for us again. i texted her on christmas and a few other times to tell her we should talk but she was defensive and not willing. also i am in no contact with him but he hasn’t contacted me except for messages claiming that it was a friend of his messing around with his phone when i received no messages him earlier that day. plus all the the signs that your ex is suppose to show to determine if they are or not in rebound. after we broke up i basically did everything you shouldn’t do, i texted him and called him many many times for about a month until i finally realized that i needed to cut off contact and i deleted him off of all social media and stopped contacting him at all. was really shaken up after our break, and didn’t know about the nc rule…after we broke up i texted him several times and i ended up called him profuseley apologizing and told him that i loved him (which i admittedly never did during our relationship). she hugged me and started crying, she hugged me for around 10 seconds and told me:”i can’t do this, i feel like i’m cheating on him. like this happend few times before in the past,but in day or two everything was okay. we’ll never be over our drowned pasts, but we can reach out for a new shore. guess the only thing you can do is give her time to figure it out herself. i am pretty mad at him for doing me one day and her the next. i know he’s seeing a woman he met -and rejected when we were together, he minimized it and asked me to not tell him if i’m dating.. that my ex is the type of guy when being cornered or pressured will make bad decisions or worst stupid ones… i think the best way to deal is to let him do his thing… but does he ever snaps out of this? if you really think it’s going to upset me if it’s a girl i don’t care”. well, kissing your ex when you know you are starting seeing somone is not ok. you’ll be just wasting your time and causing yourself more hurt if you try to pursue him. and my ex were dating a little over 2 years and about a week after she broke up with me , she already found another man. don’t know what to do before she left she told me she loved me and cared for me but i don’t know if its true as she has moved on with this new guy as he knew everything i did wrong in our relationship and is trying to do everything to make her happy. to get your boyfriend to propose: 10 hints to get the ring. have been in a relationship with this girl for almost 14 months. i’d be naive to say that just because it’s a rebound it won’t work, i’m aware it very well could, but in that just-less-than 2 month period since us breaking up and her getting this new guy she would contact me from time to time. we were completely in love but this must have changed his mind right away. i have read your 5 step plan and have been doing no contact and it’s weird it is not bothering me too terribly but i still wonder and sometimes think this is a sick test. i think he is gonna send me a card or something. and when he came home he was being really distant so i asked if we could talk… and it turned out that he had been talking to her and that he all of a sudden didn’t see a future with me. i have invested so much of my time in this relationship. i am pretty sure she will answer me if i ask a random question from her. like it cants just be you run into that person down the road and start talking and having good time again and be like we should try again and it works. your mind is still going to continue thinking about it and probably stuck in the negative spiral. i said okay, take your time and contact me whenever you get a chance. or is it best to leave it alone and swoop in later on the chance things fall apart?. but he is not going out if his way to see me. (i sounded needy, way too rollercoaster-y and sometimes angry and desperate big time)would this possibly still work? what i’ve seen on her social media she post how amazing he is and the cool amazing things he does for her.” i tried calling him because i wanted to get some closure…but he texted back “please enough is enough.What to do when your ex is dating someone new
What to do when your ex is dating someonei can’t get her pregnant because of my infertility problems but we always would talk about being together for a long time and even settling down and have kids through a donor., he’s recently started talking to this girl that he works with, and since then, he has changed his whole perspective on our relationship. i believe that it is a rebound relationship or at least i’m hoping it is. ex bf broke up with me back in nov we dated for 3 years. just before christmas, something really bad happened to me involving another male taking advantage and of course i went to my boyfriend for support. she is not one to live her life over facebook so i found this odd. i was just someone she thought was better looking then the last guy that’s it. the fact that he managed to ‘fall in love’ with this woman who doesn’t even speak english and wants to marry her and buy a house with her hours after meeting her seems, frankly, insane. forgot that she had mentioned that it’s crazy how next month would have been a year since we started. i began to want a way out when i found out he was hanging out with a girl behind my back, but nothing sexual happening, he said he just didnt want me to know…. he also hangs out with her in full view when he is the kind of person to keep his business to himself. i wish i didn’t because we didn’t try to solve the problems and i chose the easy way and decided to break up. you can help me with this, because i’d like to know if the nc rule is still applicable to my situation or it’s already too late. my birthday will be coming up this week and last week when i visited my ex he asked me for my new address. i read your article about the no contact rule and the 5 step plan. is how every zodiac sign ruins their own life without even trying to. just express it in your own way, with minimal damage to those around you. i was beginning to accept this but then 4 days after he broke up with me he changed his status on facebook to ‘in an open relationship’! example, suppose your ex always says he/she wants someone with a career goal. and after i started to see my current ex my old one was always saying she missed me and was sorry and other things.” so in order to validate that thought, you start scrolling through pictures of them with their new squeeze. however, it is undeniable that my decisions to try fix things and act kind and caring towards him has been bringing him closer back to me. this may already be something you’ve done when you were still trying to get over the breakup, but keeping that mental tally does come in handy in situations like this. towards the end she said something like we have unfinished business and that we even have like imaginary kids, i agreed. someone who is not even compatible with their life goal. i don’t think she would have stayed with you if you didn’t mean anything to her. she started seeing someone pretty much immediately, not sure if she left me for him or what. what is going on and what on earth do i do? they think that finding someone completely opposite will probably give them happiness. when i had suggested getting together to catch up and she said it wasn’t a good idea yet i told her no problem don’t be shy to suggest it sometime. there are a bunch of articles out there on how to be more then just friends with a girl you have always had feelings for or how to be physical intimate with your friend. we have gone through this once before but he came back. if i have to guess, he will be making all the moves and all you will have to do is play it cool and don’t be needy. also by saying that one of the times we hung out she just wanted to kiss me. what i am trying to say is that no matter what happens, your course of action right now should be the same, i. i thought we did have good connection she seemed happy but not really sure now but that don’t really mean anything anymore at this point. we continued to talk (and he even hinted about a future about us) when in february he told me he had a new girlfriend. let him know if he is not willing to give you what you want and what you deserve, you must leave him. i wonder is if i was his rebound girl and if so, if all the steps to getting him back work. i did nc for a while and then randomly i would contact him. media is not an accurate description of how people actually feel. should i answer or even tell her that i know all of this? a few days beforevalentine’s day i texted him (sad, i know, but i didn’t text him so i wouldn’t be single for vday haha). he continuously let’s me down with payments, which is due to his financial issues associated with drug use. he told me that everyone was surprised and that his mom missed me. kevin, i know from reading this what you will think, but he is a good person deep down; affectionate, caring, funny and loving, however this dark side is extremely overwhelming. the next day he told me he spent the night on the beach and cleared his head. but you will find someone who will care about your happiness. don’t even know how to talk to her anymore. days after that i got no texts and i found out later on that during that weekend that we were supposed to meet like always, he went on vacation with his colleagues (and that girl he talked about) and they, not the company, paid for it. i wasn’t just comfortable doing that at my house and i told him that, because i wanted him to feel that my parents’ house isn’t really the best place to do it. some cases, your ex will choose someone who is completely opposite of you in every possible way. he saw me from a distance, and made the effort to not only wave, but to come up to me. may-june i saw him adding a guy on his facebook. turns out he met this girl through tinder (rolling eyes) and said “she is amazing, we hit it off perfectly and it feels like we’ve known each other for years. text him or send him the letter mentioned in the 5 step plan. i assumed that he was going to take me home before we went out with them but he asked me to go with him and apparently he had already told his friends that he was with me. missing someone is a huge part of the grief one goes through after a breakup. it was a lot of fun, but i kept my distance and suddenly he was very flirtatious, talking about our sexlife and how great i looked and so on. in the first couple days of the breakup i made the mistake of begging him to work through our issues instead of breaking up with me, and i told him i would always be there for him. i’m writing to you right now, because i just don’t know what to do. i got a “i’m seeing someone, we’re done talking, don’t ever talk to me again”. i am currently going through a very strange ‘break up’ with my fiance of 4 years and there are some unique issues in our situation that are not really covered in your articles. i had run into her once before but i have not been trying to talk to her let her be happy with who she wants and doing what se wants. is why it’s hard to make friends as an infj introvert. do i contact him and give him a time frame to collect or continue no contact? if you feel like you must absolutely talk to her, then you can use one of the texts from the 5 step plan. anyway, as of two days ago, i texted him for something. i feel i want to reply as positive as i can on how i’m doing. i know you’ve invested 4 years but you should be glad that you eventually found out about this and now you can leave him behind and try to move on.’m sure that is what my current ex is realizing her self. so i told my ex that but he said hes over me and just wants to be friends. what are my next moves, i can’t find that anywhere, please help 🙁. do you really think he could have changed his mind within 6 months? i don’t know if it’s somebody from this country or from somewhere else but, she hasn’t started going out (yet) and although i really want to ask her who/where this bloke is/from…i don’t want it to kill me anymore than it is. ex was in a ten year relationship with his ex, was married to her for five. but i’m sure she thinks is really great which obviously she doesn’t see and probably couldn’t care about because they are best friends and they get along so perfect with and about everything even when physical intimacy was introduced and involved i sure she thinks that’s also perfect too. a few weeks after, he and his colleagues went on vacation again (he also paid for his share) and i saw their photos online that he was always beside that female colleague. then contact her using one of the methods in this article., you need to get out of this situation and find yourself another place. we have been together in a four year relationship, long distance but at the same time he said he was angry and the situation changed. i know it sucks but you need to become learn to be happy in your life without him before you try to get him back. my ex send me message that i was right when i said to my bf tht it was unfair that he decided all alone to end our relationship. by september of this year, things seemed to be getting better, but in november, he went to cuba for a week and came back telling me he met someone he was madly in love with and wished to end things with me. she continues texting you, tell her you need space and time right now. anyways, talking to him made me go crazy and i ended up blowing up his phone which was a bad idea and he finally got angry and told me to leave me alone, he wants nothing to do with me, he gave me too many chances, hes seeing other girls. i mostly recommend people to follow the 5 step plan once and if it doesn’t work move on. my ex emailed me the other day saying he’s trapped and his new fiancé is pregnant and she’s screwed him over and he hates his job and asking for help from the people he emailed. but there is a problem that started in our relationship, i was getting jelouse of his best friend who is a girl in high school and about to graduate, she is 18, and my ex is 22 and they known each other since childhood, he told me that i had nothing to worry about, he isn’t attracted to her and he called me an idiot because he only loved me. he said things like he wanted to marry me one day and made me promise to never leave him. but i went out with my friends (mainly) had fun she found out and the other day she told me tht pushed her away, this was the same convo as the ear ring. when you remember why it didn’t work out between the two of you, you’re less likely to be jealous of the person who used to be in your position. i know she has tried to insert new dude into areas of her life in replacement of me. the rose is symbolic & a little thing only we know. people say she is only with him cause he provides the material things and takes her to these amazing places because she is really young and he is 14 years older and had a thing for her for years. also, does this sound like a rebound and what should i do at this point? that’s why it makes me worried that this is the same thing happening with my current ex. i don’t understand why he is not running back to me? so so far ive begged pleaded left vmails done everything i should not do. i don’t know if this a rebound relationship even though he married her because he’s having trouble in the marriage and his now wife is emailing me stating that’s she confused and if i’m still contacting him…. i did contact his new wife and explained to her that i was still in a relationship with her now husband during their entire engagement up until they were married. that with me she was not really happy and not care really compared to her being with her friend of her new man now who she would do anything for because she is truly happy with him and cares a lot about him. a second right after that my ex came out and i was like oh boy here we go. he saw me today and he was walking his girlfriend to class and i was walking alone. but i have no idea how i should aproach this. if you have finished no contact already, then there’s no harm in contacting her on the anniversary. i’ve been worried sick about her because this new guy is a smooth talking player who doesn’t really care who his girlfriend is as long as he has one but she seems to think she’s in love with him and she seems to be trying to replace me with him. i did some of the no no’s…ima human being who had his emotions seriously messed with…i have since cut all ties…going nc as they seem to be more serious and have been dating a few months now. you know your ex better than anyone, so you are the best judge if they are doing it to rub it in your face or not. don’t think there is going to be anymore contact i’m sure that the last time she spoke to me will probably be it anyway and also i’m sure they will end up being together for long time and not have this as a rebound or something that will end in future. give her some time and space and meanwhile try to make some positive changes in your life. how likely is it that people get back together after breaking up, especially in my situation, where his mind and heart seem preoccupied with the infatuation with another woman? you can use the checklist at the beginning of the step 4 in this article. or say for some strange reason she actually does contact me sometime here and wants to talk or hangout and say some small chance in heck that we do this on regular basis we just talk more and what stops her from constantly thinking of him as more of a friend. even if he does come back, he might hurt you again. i said i know your with him (her friend that she is now dating) and you seem happy i’m not going to make problems for you. devious ways to be a crazy ex and get your revenge. i can’t stand the thought of her being w this guy n just miss her. because a rebound relationship is an attempt to reach the level of intimacy that only long-term relationships have. have some problems with my ex she left me because of my behaviour indeed we were in relationship for 4 years or more and i use to scold her for some reasons but i use to scold her because i use to care for her although a thing is that after we broke up she didnt want me and said she wants to br alone and she also said she also loves me and does take care of me but doesnt want relationship due to my behaviour and attitude i really love her and want her back as we also had the intimate part in our relationship as she use to help me now what i do to get her back please help. her best friend (girl) who is also a friend of mine and she told me that it is probably not true that she likes her other ex. in the meantime though, before we rediscovered each other, she got married and had 2 boys with a guy she eventually broke up with.
What to do when your ex girlfriend is datinghe is a very needy guy and very jealous guy. rebound relationship don’t work out because the person in a rebound is not emotionally available to start a healthy relationship. i met him exactly a year later when he was still sleeping around with women, and they weren’t officially divorced yet. lot of times, the reason people break up is fixed and things change during the period they are far apart. i think i have grown a lot and learned a lot from the breakup, and am ready to start a new relationship with him.? i have looked at his facebook and he still has photo albums up with me in them. this point, most people realize that this new relationship will not bring them the peace and happiness they were hoping it would. do you think that’s too creepy even after the 30 days? i mean, a part of me does wonder was it me that caused him to run, or is he a natural runner? everything you are asking is based on the assumption that they have a great relationship together. during this time i admit that i was completely in-denial about the fact that i was still in love with him..i thought he was coming back around because of his words to me lately ( i miss you- not over you, etc) and our time apart. on the other hand, your ex might just be in a rebound relationship. i started doin the no contact but it was short it was about 2 and a half weeks because she asked me to see her for our b- day and btw we had a very good time and she loved the gifts i got for her, after that we saw each other two more times later on in that week but idk if her relationship is a rebound because she liked this guy before we met and another thing is she said he’s a nice guy and always makes her laugh she ” loves him” now i don’t know what to do i really want to have her back and i am changing for the better cause she means so much to me. why can’t she let new dude organically become part of her life rather than inserting him into contexts i previously occupied? i don’t want to “play games” but, i’d like to wait for a couple days after, as i mentioned before, i don’t want to upset her & i’d like to leave her wondering why i haven’t contacted her too. it made me feel bad because he didn’t tell me anything about the vacation, and he said money was a big problem to him that time during the first time i asked what his problem was. also says if your thinking of our ex at anytime its not important that you should not do it just learn to move on cause it’s not worth it to think or feel like you want them. he told me last week that he was still in love with me, had feelings for me, and that he really misses me.. they want to take their new relationship slow and don’t want you to bother them. while others are not able to get out of the grief and their minds become obsessed with their ex.’m going to send the “magic letter” but i’d like your opinion first, please. i think i did a good job already in realising the mistakes i’ve made. i would try at least to do things to make her happy. first month of dating they were already confessing their love on twitter, posting song lyrics to each other and now i’m confused if this is really love or just a rebound and that i should just go nc to wait it out but at the same time heal. apart from what’s recently happened, we both agreed we were happy and he even text to say i’m pleased to have spent them years with you, we had good times. i don’t want to do that and have yet to. i said “i wish i could meet you once and explain everything to you. i am really burning inside and i really want the relationship back and i would of course do anything to get it back. when we make that bond with someone, it’s as if they’re on a plateau above the rest of our everyday thoughts. i ended up showing up at his house…to what ended up being a better outcome than expected.. i had left him alone and he contacted my best friend asking how i was doing and that he wanted to be friends cause he cared about me still our breakup related to my actions and mistakes that pushed him way over the edge. a surprise to me as i told her my intensions are to be with her, not entertaining prospects during the break. we do nc for two weeks at most, for now. even months down the road she would hit me randomly saying she misses me a lot and thinks of me a lot and misses us and what we had. new boyfriend is one of her close best friends who has had feelings for her for long time more then just friends. girlfriend of 2 years recently broke up with with an email message at exactly the 2 year mark of our relationship. than 2 months after we broke up she posted a picture of herself with a new guy, and within 2 weeks of that she’s “in a relationship” with him, posting many pictures and statuses and seems much happier with him. she dated this guy alex for two years before me. whenever she is with him, her mind is not thinking about the breakup and you. me and my ex split about 6 weeks ago and i asked her several times especially when she became more distant and easily angered toward me. i am looking forward to him coming back already, but i am afraid he will do something impulsive again., most likely a rebound and it was probably done to get a reaction out of you. either she breaks up with the guy or you completely cut her from your life and move on. i find out again that he went back to this girl and they were spending time again. if not, then what you are feeling is probably jealousy coupled with loneliness instead of love. i want to share shortly my story and want to hear your opinion about it. know there will be someone out there for me…but that doesn’t really help at the moment.’ve been together for a year (1 year and 15 days to be exact). the following day he began to act distant yet again, saying things we moving too fast. i guess he wanted to hide his new relationship from you because deep inside, he doesn’t want you to move on. of course, you should give her the time and space she needs to get over her ex and you will both need to start a new relationship that will not be a rebound. if any two people are involved in this type of thing …maybe they arent mature enough for a relationship in the first place. are 3 months into this mess, and while a part of me wants to think this is a temporary thing i need to just let him do and wait out, another part of me feels like i need to win him back quickly before he runs off for good. my friend asked him if he’d ever consider getting back with me he said “i don’t want to say no, just because of all the good memories we’ve had together. she always said she wanted someone who has some goals in life. your ex seems happy and their new relationship seems to be going perfectly. the next day he called me three times but i didn’t answer and have no answering machine and i also got a text calling me scum and my mum lazy. he never acknowledged being engaged to this other women, he was shocked i found out and asked me how i found out. if he doesn’t, you should move on even if you both love each other. his relationship is a rebound and it’ll probably end soon. once you hit this phase, you can truly start to focus on your own happiness instead of what he's doing. if she ends the relationship, she will have to face all the pain and emptiness alone and she doesn’t think she is ready to do it yet. also said is was easier when they were just homies but yet here she is just amazed and happy with him. listening to what kevin has said in this article and others, has really showed me a lot. while i do believe creating space and time is productive, i’m in a situation where the ‘no contact’ period is impossible. me send me an email telling me how it isn’t problem with me,but him. i will take the advice that i am given because whatever i am doing, is not working! i personally don’t know the guy, but information available on him doesn’t reveal stellar character. broke up almost 3 weeks ago and sadly i’ve done the text terrorism and showing my neediness towards him. the best thing for you to do is no contact, at least for 2-3 months. recommend that you don’t initiate contact and let her do it. am trying to get some help here on some issues i am having. so even if you force yourself to try and be better than the new partner, your ex probably won’t dump his or her partner just because you’ve improved yourself overnight. and if he doesn’t commit even at that time, you should move on. and i don’t think you should talk to him for at least 2-3 weeks after this. she’s with her new guy for 2 days now, and she seems happy for now. i am in total shock because this is a man i have waited for, for 4 years..but then i did not know what kind of texts to send. i tried talking to my sister about this she said i was just being used because she would say she misses me but never say why and it always happen out of blue maybe once a month and then back to nothing. a therapist can help a lot if you are unable to let go of obsessive thoughts. when you contact him after nc is over, both of you will hopefully be a lot clear on what you want in life and you can discuss it before getting back together. posted on his facebook wall whether or not he wants to move to australia with her next year when she wants to do her phd. i think the best thing you can do right now is start no contact. sad thing is i know i was with a boy because he ran instead of communicating back to me. i have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for the past 3 and a half years and we broke up because he stole from me i then took up the opputinty to work on a ship and when for it 10 month at sea i still love my ex while being a sea i missed him lots. just left you a comment on another page but wanted to write this one here since this is the topic. had been with my ex for ten years she broke up with me 6 weeks ago she said she felt different but still loved me i had suspicions she was cheating because she started to lie a lot it she is now with this guy but denies it. sure ways to deal with an ex seeing someone new. he hasn’t made any effort to contact me, shows no interest whatsoever and whenever we talk he tells me how happy he is alone. so obviously this means she is 100% over me already and very happy in new relationship with her close friend right? can’t believe that they’ve moved on so fast, so you consult your friend, search the internet and everyone seems to say the same thing. at one point she said that this guy is kind of a looser but he makes her happy and wants to give him a chance. i don’t see him being 100% better in every way like see she’s but like i said she said she loves him so i know that we will never see one another or hear from one another again. i had no idea this was coming so i offered that we take a break if i still had a chance in the end. then a week later i found out that he started seeing his ex, who cheated on him before we started seeing each other. and i was thinking the fudge, were separating and u have someone already and you’re telling not to cry? if she gets back together with you and she is thinking about that guy, you can deal with it at that time. what should i do i can’t describe to you the pain i feel. i did not want to see him that this time even if he asked because i was still in pain because of what happened and the break up. went on vacation february 20th and i was going to be on vacation till april 7th well my ex boyfriend of 3 years and 8 months ended it with march 4th and he told me not to come home but he would text and call me sometimes still and then on march 18th he told me that he was talking to someone else but not dating them then he told me that he would buy me my ticket to come home when ever and then i ask him if i could stay at the house still and he said yes and then i ask him if he was still going to be there he said yes and that he didn’t want me homeless or loose any of my belongs and then i ask him the next day the same thing and got the same answers from him and he said it was going to be different but he would still be there for me and help me out and be around for me and then he said april i am sorry about everything and what happen between us but we know it was coming and then on march 24th i text him and told him that i got my ticket and that i will home in 3 to 4 days and he text back april i know u know that i’v met someone else because people talk but i want to be honest and then i ask him i can still live in the house right because u said that and then he said she is moving in and then i ask where my stuff was and he said in the house still but i am going to put it in the shed if it ok and i told him my stuff wont fit in there. is the reason why most of the rebound relationships seem to move so fast. what is going on and what on earth do i do? the only thing that should matter to you right now is to get out of this negative spiral you are stuck in and try to enjoy your life. started to play online games with my ex again since last month and we had fun and he said “thanks for the nice memories:)”. this however, isn’t very far, just about 2 hours on the train. especially when you have a long time apart and she is already completely past and over you. i am just afraid that it will turn out just like me former ex before my current one i am talking about. ex is the kind that you described as the angry ex in another post, however, he has anger management problems. my love for him changed…i think i still love him and i wish he could admit what he did, or at least say he is sorry but he doesnt think he is doing anything wrong. if you’ve already deleted her number, then don’t sweat it. if she doesn’t reply even at that time, then your chances are slim and i’ll recommend you try to move on. she also kept saying that i’m such a good guy and that she doesn’t want to hurt my feelings, which i don’t know what that means because that’s what she’s doing. please help i dont know whether to ignore or reply i love him so dearly and have tried everything to make it work including changing as a person to try and be accepted by him and his family/friends. i hope you could help me out, my ex bf and i had a great relationship for 4 years, he is my clyde and i was his bonnie my partner in crime. they are hiding their new relationship, then it’s completely up to you to figure out which category they fall into. intimately close to someone gives us a feeling of security and a boost to our self-esteem. and does no contact really work for me even in this situation? i know she is on vacation with her new boyfriend, and i dont want to be the crazy pushy ex boyfriend. meant considering everything you have said till now about what happened, in my opinion and experience, i think she will reply when you contact her., say your ex is in a rebound relationship now and you start to do no contact. i don’t know if you completed no contact, but if you did, you should stay in touch with her and try to rebuild the attraction slowly. 5 Ways To Deal When Your Ex Is Dating Someone New
What to do when your ex starts dating someone newbeen 3months since my ex and i broke up, and now shes seeing another guy. dated this guy for 2 months, and during the first month i let him know i like him too by kissing him back. her parents being against you and pushing her into the new relationship might work in favor of you. i really don’t know what the relationship is like because she doesn’t say anything about it to me. however, you can have a talk with him before doing so telling him that you think this is best course of action right now since you feel disrespected by the fact that he is with the other women at the same time he is with you. while we watched this movie, he only had on boxers and an undershirt and he held out his arm for me to cuddle with him while we watched. heard from his mom my ex is still asking about me, how i am etc thats a good sign right? that same break he took me out to see a movie and we held hands throughout the whole thing and after we went back to his place and he showed me his baby pictures and a few family photos, something he had never done before. i just feel i am worthless and that i spent six years with someone who couldnt care less about me. they do everything a couple would do together but she just keeps saying she isn’t dating. i know it’s painful and i’m sorry you are in this situation, but i want you to know that everything will get better with time. we still see eachother but lately i’ve calm down from crying and all of that. but since applying the nc rule last night she still texts me and wants to know what i’ve been doing and when my days off are? the meet up lasted for an hour with him wishing me well on my next relationship. i resisted the urge to stop walking and be approachable so i pretended to be talking to someone on my mobile phone and ignored him as i kept walking. like the no contact rule is going to screw me over here, more i don’t say anything more she going to be liking the new guy a lot more then me. i decided to let him be a child bitter and petty and move on and be happy, then realised he has my passport and i go away in a few weeks! although, from what you said, he is still not fully over you. i’ll recommend you keep contacting her via text and slowly increase the frequency and length of the conversations you have with her. simply put, it’s like inwardly saying that your ex’s annoying quirks are someone else’s problem now! then we stopped contact with each other and he meets this new girl like 3 months later and they start hanging out and eventually get together and become “official. and during no contact, i want you to think exactly what type of treatment you expect from him. some people i know say she still likes her other ex a little bit. i asked him if i could kiss him and he said he didnt know if that was right…after that he kissed me. also, i don’t plan on talking to him the rest of the week. tell him you need time to think things through and so does he. use this time to sort out your feelings and to make yourself more resilient. to be assertive: 17 ways to speak your mind loud and clear. in the back of my mind, i wish he could come back someday to tell me he is sorry. i also called her (she agreed that i could call her) and i talked like i was doing great (i am sort of) and she said she didn’t have any feelings for her other ex anymore. she doesn’t feel as empty as she was before. and is there any hope that we can get back together? so you get on facebook to have a little peek into the life of your ex. what to do after that if she doesn’t break up with her rebound? she initiated the conversation but made it seem like she was doing me a favor. if she doesn’t contact you and you still want her after a couple of months, you can try giving her a call and see how she responds..com/ -- How To Get Your Ex Back If They're Dating Somebody Else Already So, I should first say that this video is mainly for those who. but i had to end it because during the later part of our relationship, he became very neglectful, kept secrets, sexting his exes. this was due to her being in a foreign country, away from her really close friends (she had been here 2 years before i met her) and, after she moved cities to be with me, couldn’t find a job. i told her i’m glad to see her but i don’t want her to be here just because she had a fight or argument with him she said that was not the case and they are not seeing each other. i have tried everything possible to reconcile i have had no response i keep texting and calling no answer. hardest thing i’ve ever had to deal with in my 30 years of life, without a doubt. during the break we were still talking and texting and seeing each other. i don’t think either one of you is a rebound.#5 don’t make comparisons between you and the new partner. they don’t want to upset you or want you to move on. i can tell you from my experience that she is not as happy in the relationship as you think she is and she does miss you and probably still has a place in her heart for you. me and my ex were together for 8 months, and i have been in nc for over 6 weeks since the breakup. my bff suggests being aggressive about it, but i rather follow your advice from last message and let it be his idea. attempts like moving in together after only 5 weeks of dating; meeting garry’s parents and asking garry to meet her parents; planning to move overseas with garry. i didn’t want to break up really, i was just confused and for the first time, we didn’t communicate well and just walked away from all our years and history. so long story short me and my ex for 2 years broke up 3 weeks ago after valentines day. decreasing your self worth and self esteem in the process and putting an unnecessary roadblock for yourself in moving on and finding the right girl for you. i don’t want to “play games” but, i’d like to wait for a couple days after, as i mentioned before, i don’t want to upset her & i’d like to leave her wondering why i haven’t contacted her too. either he can commit or you cut him off entirely from your life and move on. this site has placed a lot of perspective into my situation. you need to stop trying to rescue the “damsel in distress” and find someone who is happy and who can make you happy. resolute ways to resist the urge to call your ex. and what if the ex has read another website or talked to friends with a different set of such strategies. was just in a relationship that moved way to fast thing is i still have strong feelings for her we been apart for 11 days when she left me i did the whole multiple pathetic text i told her a few days ago that i’ll stop texting altogether she told me not to stop texting her just not as much and that she still cares about me we just moved to fast i’ve pretty much made myself the door mat last night i erased her number from my phone to remove the temptation to get a hold of her i’d like to know if by doing this and not talking to her if it’s possible she could miss me things are complex because i guess you could say that i’m a rebound she just got out of a 6 year marage and is in the middle of a divorce she told me from the beginning that she doesn’t want to move fast but she kinda made it that way she kinda smothered me tho i enjoyed it made me feel loved is it possible to get back after i’ve made myself look a fool. especially if the relationship with the ex was so messed up as is in your case. was wondering if there is a time limit or something to all this i know your suppose to strike before the move on but if you can’t even associate even the smallest simply conversation. they are into the same things and they are always together mostly at his place i would assume just like she was with me. i have been two weeks nc and i just wondering if my ex has really move on with his new girl and am i wasting my time. were quite private about our relationship on fb, only one picture, she posted on my wall once to ask if my phone had died, i’d posted on her birthday, no statuses about one another and not even “in a relationship” though all friends/family knew we were. when you severed ties with your ex, you’ve basically forfeited the right to butt into your ex’s business. it seems the guy was the reason your ex left you. dude is a recovering alcoholic with domestic charges in his past. i do think you will be able to make a better decision if you go through the no contact rule for 30 days. even though, she usually waits three months before sleeping with someone she is dating, she makes an exception in garry’s case; simply because she thinks that sleeping with him will make her forget about you. prevent this, your most effective course of action would be to get off social media for a while.” however, he told her the past year we had was rough and he didn’t know what i wanted and didn’t know how to make me happy and couldn’t handle all the ups and downs in our relationship. partner of 6 years broke up with me 2 weeks ago,mew have some issues due to my illness he finds it hard to cope. soon enough, she will realize her relationship with garry for what it is. i took a girl out but never slept with this person. what should i do now after my no contact period to him? the last text from her was “i don’t have anything to say to you at this point in time. in some cases, your ex will find a type of person they don’t usually go for. i do love him and i do want things to be re-patched up, but i want to know if this is something i should just give up on and push through the pain or try to rekindle… i do truly love being around him and being with him, we connect in ways i havent before. now almost a week after this fake break i tell her we should take a real break after seeing this website. like we were at a party together and after i’d left she texted me to say she was upset and had no-one to talk to. i’m not sure if i’m at “deaths door” or “indifference”?. this has happened before but i went back to him. then he told me that he is always with tath girl and he wants to break up with me! he doesn’t want us to cause each other to hurt. is the real reason why you’re mad your ex is dating someone new.. if you're not also dating someone, you'll wonder why he was able to find someone and you couldn't. this is the first time she has agreed to go out (as friends) for over a year. haven’t ever been as affected as bad as this. but we were madly in love and our wedding were supposed t take place in a month, so he got married t this girl he hardly know and he posted got married in his facebook wall maybe he is in a rebound but he got marriedg. this a rebound and if so how should i pursue it as i think in the last week i have made this situation worse by the how i have treated her. does this strengthen the fact it could be a rebound? do anything and everything you can do to make yourself happy. then he said his personal life was a mess but when i asked why he wouldn’t tell me, but at the same time he said he was seeing other girls. im so crushed i miss her so much i truly love her w all my heart and would b different if i had another chance. i wanted him to feel that i was done chasing and exerting effort to get back. many conflicting advice online, one source claims i need to keep in touch so she develops a stronger emotional bond with me before her new guy can. the fact that that i screwed up last time, how is it going to affect this time? but what if you’re still not completely over your ex? there a way to see if they were only with you because they were only physically attracted to you especially when they are saying the same things they said to you to their new partner. she texted next day to see if i’d bring the dog into her store. the weird thing is she hasn’t unfriended or blocked me yet on facebook and i feel with all this anger/hatred she has towards me she would have done this already. heck noooooo, if she’s in a relantionship and having sex with some whatever, move on, leave, get yourself a nicer one, there are better ones believe me, let her keep on rebounding for the rest of her life then. wish with all my heart that she would want to be part of my life…but, she knows how i feel and it’s up to her now. when first time i saw her i was like your all different she agreed she is into things she was not into before but all of a sudden? also, his gf is straight up attacking me online while trying to be passive about it. we finished watching the movie and we ended up sleeping together and afterwards he got a text from his friends about going out to eat. in addition, this new girl doesn’t really seem like all the other girls he’s dated before me (i was also different from his usual type which makes me wonder if i was the rebound but he was single for more than a year when we met, so i don’t know) and she’s not friends with any of his friends and vise versa though i don’t know if that has anything to do with it. she said she misses the old me where she fell in love with in the first place and that if i become the old one again, she wil get back with me maybe. i desperately want to tell him all of that but i definitely don’t want to beg him to take me back. also, don’t ever try to get to your ex through a friend. i had just sent an apology letter realizing what i had done wrong, but other than that had gone/been quiet. it sucks to be painted in negative light by everyone in her life because they only knew one side and that they would tell her to bail he not good enough or he just the same as all the rest. to steal your ex from their new boyfriend or girlfriend (sneaky tricks revealed). a day or so of not speaking, he contacts me to let me know that he had cut off all contact with this girl and that nothing has happened. for what to do, you should just apply no contact, at least for 60 days. i do show him that i appreciate his efforts by thanking him, talking to him on the phone often (but i’ve never called him), and kissing him. down i would love to reconnect with her again, but i know i do not deserve this kind of behavior. her relationship and her level of happiness isn’t really going to get you any results. that and when you have been apart for almost as long as you were together don’t that kill any chance of that ” running into them and realizing things could work” type deal. help you keep your sanity and to keep you from revisiting that dark place you frequented after your breakup, here are our tips for what you should do. however, over the course of the next 2 or so years, he was constantly doubting his decision.8 Sure Ways to Deal With an Ex Seeing Someone New
What to do when your friend is dating your ex, after months of texting back and forth, of him mostly blaming me for ruining something beautiful, but also wanting me to accept and be happy for him. replied as mentioned and now a text comes out of the blue from nc about working on a project together. i usually let him do his thing and be supportive. after she calls me out of blue and ask to come over and then does not talk to me two days after. your ex gives you the 'hot & cold' treatment (mixed messages explained! or could it be that he earlier met this old friend while we were together? 2 weeks ago, i found out he is dating somebody else because of their pictures together on fb(gf tagged him). but, his gf just unfriended me on fb and called me crazy on twitter, so i’m wondering if he made me out to be crazy even though our conversation went relatively well, or if she’s just mad i went up to see him…or both. but he broke up saying i’m his soulmate and he still hopes we’ll end up together. the only thing that i can guarantee you is that you did mean a great deal to her. made the mistake of keeping in contact with him throughout his entire relationship with her, that lasted about 3 months. the problem is that she broke up with me after this three months. i realized he didnt make me happy completely and i still missed my ex. also a few days ago she told me she still liked me bus she misses the old me and she will back with me if i be the old one maybe (i think i said this before). take a deep breath, and remember that someone else out there is doing the same thing with you. we got along so well otherwise, made each other laugh hysterically and were very physical. if it doesn’t, then you know it’s over for sure. to the point where my ex said i was pushing him towards her cause i caused him stress and she didn’t. isn’t it possible that she did have a meaningful relationship with you and after the breakup she just found someone more compatible than you? after i read this i kind of did my own thing, but we ended up seeing each other when i came home for winter break and i was under the impression that we were just going to hang out as friends since that seemed to be what he wanted at the time. that he doesnt want to have kids or get married any more.’s entirely possible he cheated on you and was lying to you when he asked you to visit him. like how it happens after long periods of no association or someone being in a relationship. after dinner he, myself and his friends went to a bar for a little bit and at one point one of his friends approaches him and asks if we are getting back together. and during my no contact period my ex was also happy and enjoying with his friends and with the new girl ive heard he’s dating based on his posted pictures on fb. she feels a little better when she is with garry, but she can’t shake the feeling that this relationship is not giving her the peace that she expected. we all have our breakdowns and lose ourselves every once in a while. i know how it looks and how things are but, would or do you see it as being completely over and it has been for some time from her perspective., although i struggle on the odd occasion… who doesn’t? if she has been consistently cold, then i’ll recommend you do no contact for another 2-3 months. is what you’re like on social media, based on your zodiac sign. later on throughout the movie he kissed me, i didn’t initiate. he said both of them went into it not expecting anything serious, but the more they chatted the more they had in common.. things with us were going so well recently but then a couple weeks ago, he went on a trip with his friends, and met a (gorgeous) girl who lives 3 hours away and i guess he got her number. there's a reason you two aren't together, even if that reason is as frustrating as him not wanting the relationship as much as you do. from this page of rules to that page of rules and back and forward. the whole thing with her calling and asking to come over doesn’t make sense to me either and i end up replaying that in my head even when i don’t think about it. is this new girl a rebound and if so what are my next steps. taking my ex and her new boyfriend out to dinner after i had spoken to them. was with this guy for 6 months and for the most part everything was great, but after a while the type of dates he wanted was not really what i wanted. her reasoning for not wanting to be in the relationship anymore is that she didn’t have time and she felt that she was missing out on life from being in a serious relationship. i told him about someone who had offered to set me up and he said i should go on the date. if anyone has suggestions as to what i should do, please let me know. she still is seeing her friend and looks so much more happier then she was before. if they found someone they mash up with better and everything in general about that person is better. i know there’s a lot of hurt and internal conflict and misery here and my recent heartbreak certainly feels insignificant to many of these stories. don’t quiet understand when you say if she don’t respond which is unlikely in my case. in most cases, people have someone lined up before they breakup just so they don’t have to be single. if she goes into a relationship with her ex, then it’s probably not a rebound. said at one point that when she happen to run into me earlier in month she wanted to say she misses me but i ignored her and that she thought i hated her so that why she ignored me at gym. wanted to say stop exaggerating about the unhealthy part because we were both really happy she just got upset and felt that way when she had an attitude and i didn’t want to talk for day or two, it was to give each person space, not like i was such that bad person she makes me out to be. except for the part where he said “maybe some day i’ll be back, but for now just be happy for me. she doesn’t know he has been seeing me also and is in love with him and i’m afraid he will become her boyfriend just because it’s the easiest and he then doesn’t have to take a look at himself. yet i noticed something strange: he borrowed my laptop to do social networking stuff, checked on his photos and showed one to me, mentioning a female co-worker of his out of the blue. number one secret to getting your ex back (and a strange truth). i guess the best you can do is keep in touch with him and have fun conversations with him occasionally. doesn’t mean that we could never have gone to those fancy shows and places or that we never had same interests either. so clearly it is not a rebound not was it ever. he came home and we had a talk, he brought him my stuff over (i almost lived at his house three or four times a week) he told me i looked beautiful all the time and touched my face, pretty much acting like if he cared. i said i respected his decision and when i asked if we could at least be friends he said ok. three weeks our break up, i heard from bf sister that new girl and my ex has something going on and i was ripped apart. i asked him about how long it had been since he started seeing this girl and he said it was a few weeks before from the time he told me and when i asked why he didn’t tell me sooner he said it wouldn’t have been worth mentioning if it was only a few dates. we also took a break to focus on some personal issues (work, life, etc). (technically speaking, the rebound already ended and this time, you will be starting a normal relationship and taking it slow). let him do most of the work since i feel that i’m the girl and he shouldn’t feel that i like him a lot. ex and i broke up approx 4 and 1/2 months ago, we were together for over 5 years. my ex and i were together for about 6-7 months when we broke up because i was going back to school 12 hours away and he didn’t want to do a long distance relationship. that day, i saw on his facebook he changed his relationship status with the new girl. the only reason shes with that guy is he is a good listener and friend. but in reality, there’s always the possibility that you’ll be overcome by your emotions. likely do you think the rebound of your ex and another will last if it started all within a week of them talking to each other? i’m so confused and don’t know what to do to be honest. more you pay attention to what you can do to become a better person, the less time you’ll have to sit around and be bitter about your ex’s new relationship., your advice has made me open up and realize alot. all you know that she is not a very understanding person, since she is not accepting your explanation for whatever happened. after everything in a honest opinion what does it look like really. you are the love of my life and i regret letting you go but i cant be man enough for you and i feel we had bought each other down and we are both two people in different worlds who magically collided past each other and fell in love. im pretty sure from what ive read here that ive only pushed her further into his arms. he dumped me over spring break, on text because he got mad at me that i forgot to do something. is why people with anxiety are the best people to fall in love with. but about a year ago he got depressed with his life and we broke up that was 10 months ago now. saying he wants to see me but it’s working on keeping better boundaries with women; he would rather talk about the good; he still wants to have a picnic with my kids; and is available for a walk or coffee when i’m ready. he kept all my friends and family as his facebook friends and only deleted me once he was sure i saw his new relationship status. some people keep someone lined up for dating before breaking up just so they don’t have to be single for longer than a few days. i can make an educated guess from my experience, but it is still a guess. i was ready to hang up after asking him but he then started being very nice, asking what i did that day and told me that he has feelings and a heart and isn’t emotionless. i texted a few minutes later and still have no response. but this guy was a rebound because he helped me stop thinking about me&my ex whenever i was with him. you can’t even convince yourself that they’re miserable, when clearly their love is resonating off of these pictures like some sort stinging mist. i was so curious if he already has a relationship with the girl, and i had the chance to catch them on a double date with the two other colleagues. the following day i receive an email from her explaining she didn’t feel comfortable talking about it in person, but a month after she broke up with me she started seeing someone and they were going to marry in the fall. i was trying to get her to get back after that but she was saying she cant and she doesnt want to mainly tht she doesnt believe me. to make your ex chase you (reverse the roles & win them back). it’s possibly the best free guide on getting your ex back on the internet. week i visited my ex (after 8 months) and he looked great! i decided i didn’t want to keep seeing him like before, and told him if we ever were going to end up together it was his turn to fight, even if i didn’t think he ever would. she might feel that she is in love with garry because garry provides her with comfort and an escape from the pain that she desires deeply. to sum everything up, we have been on and off for about 2 years and during that rocky point of our relationship, i made the biggest mistake of my life. even though the sex is great, she is still not at peace with herself. has usually been happy when she is around him before their step up in relationship term from friends to actually being more then that. she is complete different than me… the opposite in all possible ways. gf is dating one of her close male best friends. also there are a lot of articles written about how your best friend is the perfect one for you and the popularity of girls ending up dating their best friends and it being the best thing they ever had, also things on how they are the perfect ones for you all this time but you only recognize it after so many years. give yourself a time limit for how long you are going to wait for her. she still wants me to be one of her best friends but she doesn’t want me for her boyfriend any more. i’ve been changing however for us, but yes it did seem like she gave up “fell out of love” this new guy is 23. if she chooses the other guy, then you cut her form your life and move on. she broke up with me, saying that she needs to get her life together and is terribly sorry for using me in this way, but my feeling is that the real reason is that i’ve really done a bad job in handling and embracing all this complicated stuff with her ex. regardless of that, your best course of action is to follow the 5 step plan. your e-mails everyday and web site has been helping me tremendously. i’ll again revert you back to this comment and this comment. and you should do nc for 30 days and message her after that. my ex is still dating the other guy & i haven’t heard from her. we had a long distance relationship for about a year after we met online. i’ve been in nc for about a week but miss her and get major doubts that i could get her back because she tries to convince everybody she’s really happy with this new guy but gas only known his for two weeks. and while you are still trying to understand what happened and pick up the shattered pieces of your life, your ex has started another relationship. broke up and he started dating his co worker, after 3days of the break up. dont know what to make of this txt from my partner that just broke up with me two nights ago. do you think if you understand her behavior and what’s going on in her mind, you will suddenly start feeling better? ex and i decided together to broke up because we didn’t feel like that this relationship was working anymore. this can be just as bad as stalking in person! then just over 3 months ago he met this 19 year old girl ( he’s 27) and has been seeing her exclusive for 3 months they even did a 2 week trip to new zealand together… my question is should i be worried that this relationship is serious?
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The Best Advice For Moving On When Your Ex Left You Forwe talk she tells me she misses me an she doesn’t want to get back right now i just wanna know if she’s in a rebound or what cuz it’s hurting me inside an i wanna move on. whenever i get out and curse him he begs me to stop pushing him far away than he is already. in fact, for all intents and purposes, the new person is your ex’s life has already won, but it’s not a competition you’re still participating in. point i am trying to get to is after reading all these articles and comments and what not i still do not feel that there is any chance i can get her back not even with all the advise here, and especially since i feel that maybe she has been with this guy longer then i know about which makes me sick and really anger. hurts me is that the female colleague is a bit older than me, not the type who has simple needs and wants (he would often say that what he wanted in a girl is simplicity since he’s a simple guy), and is too convenient for him that i thought wouldn’t be a challenge to him at all unlike me who he pursued for 5 months (i didn’t like him at first so i would really ignore him). it is a horrible time and i don’t see any light at the end of the tunnel. the best you can do is give it a try. after a breakup, that intimacy is gone in a matter of few days and you are left feeling empty. however i know him pretty well, and i know he is very stubborn.’d recommend you do no contact for a couple of weeks and then text her again. you are not sure if you should contact her, you should do another month of no contact. gomes is a communications major at csu monterey bay, pursuing a career in marketing with an emphasis on social . i decided to stop contacting him because our talks were confusing, one minute he said “you are my best friend” or “i love you” and the next minute he was saying that he still needed space and to be on his own. the things that have happen since things ended like the random text sayin miss me or thinking and the few times she has come to see me since it ended. she wanted to send you a message that she is moving on. i was always this was more then just a friendship from first time hearing about him. he initially didn’t like her but she had her eyes set on him and kept making her move, which made me feel insecure so i expressed my concern and so he talked to her and said he didn’t like her that way but i feel like that fueled her even more and she kept on pushing and making her moves on him till it made me really upset and insecure and really put strain in our relationship. you decide to pursue him, you should be prepared to handle his hot and cold behavior and not react to it., i don’t think knowing the reasons for his actions will give you any closure. promised me she wasn’t cheating, she just allowed herself to accept texts from another guy. ex fiance got married two weeks after breaking off the engagement we have been togother for more then two years we had our problem. And while you are still trying to understand what happened and pick up the shattered pieces of your lif — Comments PageFacebooktwitterpinterestsmittenthe 5 emotional stages of finding out your ex is dating againby zahra barnesmarch 19, 2015 5:50 amthree things that can make anyone's stomach sink: the climbing portion on a roller coaster when you realize it's too late to change your mind, that part in pretty woman when the snooty saleswoman is mean to julia roberts, and seeing your ex snuggled up with a new girl on facebook. noticed that after that day of making out, he started disappearing little by little…no text the whole day, then the day after that he just sent me a text that he has a lot of problems. or is it more likely she will just remain being same sad and confused. so by the time you’re back on facebook or instagram or twitter, you’ve already worked up the courage to accept your ex’s new relationship. have i lost her forever or is this just a rebound relationship? i can hope is that it doesnt work out for obvious reasons im bitter. everything was fine and got along and hung out a lot (nothing sexual) just friends. then apply no contact for another 2-3 weeks and then text him. i’ve seen her on there multiple times in the past day, and i’m pretty sure it means her rebound is starting to fall apart. he said before he left that we’ll still see each other and exchange text messages. the basis of the conversation went like this (sorry it’s going to be a bit of a read):Me: i’m not here to pull a beth, just so you know. do apologize for taking up and wasting your time lately. anyway, about 3 months into the breakup she started dating a new guy and they are in a full on relationship, talking about marriage and so on. she thinks that the new relationship, despite not being what she expected, is still giving her some level of comfort. you want to ask a question about your relationship or breakup, head over to the boards. by coincidence i ended up bumping into her the day the day after i found out and she told me they have been talking since november my daughter was born nov 3 :=)so yeah…now hes denying everything hes told me about loving me stiil being an asshole and im just a mess…is he really gunna be with this girl i mean hey there relationship is about to make a year along with my daughter. after a month of no contact from her (my gf), what should i do about it? left gym maybe 10 min after that and went home, didn’t want to annoy her anymore the what i probably did just by seeing me and have felt down since then. make sure you read the checklist at the beginning of step 4 in the 5 step plan before ending no contact. ways to make your ex jealous (subtle tricks that create real jealousy). it’s out of your hands now, so shift your attention to something that’s within your hands to change. i don’t want to appear cold and drive him away further, but i also don’t want to facilitate him thinking he can have the woman in cuba while i’ll still be here to do all the nice things he wants..and i texted her a couple days later just to let her know her know i was sending her kids gift cards for their birthdays she didn’t get mad she just said ok. just because they have hope that if they go for someone completely different, they’ll find happiness. ex and i are broken up for about a month now. he made it known that he started to go on dates with someone, even wearing the clothes that i got him (maybe guys are different, but i know i would’ve thrown or given that away). crazy as it is…i love and miss her…any thoughts or should i give up? today i sent him an email letting him know i can’t accept a cold friendship like this, “we deserve better and maybe we have a better shot at friendship later on, hugs”. when do you see it as it is and realize you have to just give it up. i only visits once in 6 months because of my busy schedule and i have never been a fan of visiting men i date. i don’t want him to think that i can easily be that comfortable around him and he just might take advantage. her parents don’t like me because we got into a little debt when we were younger. however she now is dating this new guy 2 weeks after we broke up. don’t have to wait for it to be over. we haven’t really contacted each other after i visited him, only played some games online without talking. need to mention that after she called it quits, we continued to live together as flatmates (and have done for two years). and also the girl is controlling my exbf decision not to resign from the company because his parents are asking him to apply to a diff. my ex in a rebound relationship and can i still win them back? a few years ago, if you asked jane whether or not she would move this much fast in a relationship, she would’ve called you crazy. what i’m confused about is four days later he had moved on to a new girl and they’re currently dating. this sounded like it could be a rebound relationship especially considering how things developed between us over break but i can’t tell. temper an begin lazy (which she says working 50-60 hrs a week ) an i understand that i work for my family i did my best to spend time with the the best i can we had our downs mostly the last 2 years of our relationship. i also told him i didn’t want his gf to think i was trying to pull anything because i’m not *wink wink* and that i wasn’t judging him for anything, and wasn’t mad at him for just being honest with me about ending the relationship. broke up with him through a pretty harsh text but did not expect him to actually go along with it while he was home on christmas break. her response was that she missed me too but needed to get some things in her life straight. one of his friends said he saw me and left cuz he didn’t want me to be uncomfortable. i said i’m so happy to see you are doing so good and that you are so happy now. at first i would look past the distancing, but then i started getting frustrated and we would start fighting. but i found out that he was already dating this new girl before i even came back home. came across your site and am starting to follow the 5 steps and have recently began the 30 day nc period. if it doesn’t work, you can close this chapter and try to move on. the whole mess blew my mind and i was somewhat disrespectful to her and at times harsh while away from me. he maintained he loves me and misses me but needs to work on himself the and see what’s best for his future. before he break up, i saw him with a girl whom he had get known that time when he said he doesnt want to continue. and if she seems like the kind of person you have nothing in common with, you'll be baffled that this is who he chose. he gave me a ring n i three it away and he is over upset about it as well. the big difference is that i actually cared about my current ex more then i have for anyone i told her i actually felt love for her not lust like others. girl and i split after 6yrs on and off, we lived together for about a year but her jealousy pushed me to leave, so we get back together again and we carry on our reletiknship but she always accused me of seeing my ex ex, then we stopped talking for a whole month and i find out she has a new man in her life and she has been seeing him for a least three months..) have been dating on and off for the past 7 years. i said that it would be best to move out (90% of the stuff here is mine…it’s much easier for her to move and i really want her to miss me) but she doesn’t want too. was with my ex boyfriend for about a year, and we just recently broke up about 2 weeks ago. the new guy/girl seems completely opposite of you and yet your ex seems committed to make this relationship work. i can get other women but i just don’t want anyone else. before i knew it, they were engaged within one month of dating. ask for my stuff and to tell him he had a week to contact me about his otherwise i’d take it to mean bin it all. he was very good and supportive for a month, after which his efforts started lacking and would refuse to answer my questions. someone close who you already know and you are already happy being around them before you started a relation ship with them. i have the strongest feeling that this is the one guy for her the one she been looking for and wanting for very long time and it happens to already be someone important and special in her life and who been there long time already. 4 minutes later “why do you not say “with my friend xyz” like it’s a ridiculous pet peeve but saying with a friend seems cold and distant. obviously, i was upset and i told him that i felt unimportant to him because of what he said and he expressed that that wasn’t true and that i was important to him and he didn’t want to lose me and he would do what he needed to do (within reason) to make me happy. shes in virginia now and the new guy is in jamaica which i find weird for a new relationship to work she is coming back in august tho, could this be a rebound? you have been in no contact since the breakup, how do you know all these things?. now i have to be a bitch to tell him to make up his mind? i know she doesnt love this guy im way better looking she always said he was ugly. your ex knows that you are checking their facebook and if they are constantly posting picture with their rebound then it’s a sign that they are in a rebound. does that mean he has already started seeing someone else? it just means she is trying to avoid you for some reason, or perhaps she was expecting you to talk to her so she can reject you (and feel better about herself). already know when she gives you an opportunity and you make her feel like she wasted her time it’s over and there isn’t going to be another chance. some people are extremely active on facebook and twitter while some people don’t usually post their personal life all over social media. its now been 5 months our break up, i’m still hurting and trying to go forward in life but my ex is still in my heart and doesn’t go away. our aim here is to help you become a happier and more confident person. she doesn’t respond (which is unlikely in your case), then it’s your decision whether to pursue her more or move on. i am just trying to get some advise or outlook or something from this. i really thought she loved me, you shouldv’e seen the intensity she displayed many times in our arguments. i just don’t understand her heavy drinking, sleeping around with guys that use her, her change in personality, and her loss of interests. i know it’s not really him that she loves so much as it is the fact that he makes her happy and he’s fun but she won’t listen to me. flowers, letters everything but its seem like its too late, which were her exact words. i did not respond to this and will not be contacting him even though i feel like i didn’t get a whole lot of closure as i didn’t speak with him face to face. i asked him if he still often goes to these places and he said “noo, its hard for me to go to these places with my new lover, because we (he and i) always went there”. during xmas my ex messaged me and he said that he thought about me, more than i would imagine (wtf, how would he know? so another month goes by and while on facebook i see she is tagged in a pic in a hugging pose with another guy.’m just hoping that she’ll see me for me…but i know she can’t do that unless i’m not there to be missed. he is a very honest person and said he started having feelings for someone else, but that he still loved me but it seemed like it was no longer “in love”, but then he explains that it’s possible to love to people and describes are love as a garden with many plants and what he feels for this new girl as a single planted seed. the fact she might compromise in a conventional relationship-can she? but i know the cause of his unhappiness is us not being together.. give him call while he is at work or something. you need to stop thinking about the past and start thinking of your future. also, before she started dating him were in contact quite a bit, but right after she started dating him she became very cold and distant and seemed to be trying to push me away. about the only thing she has said in past is she misses me but never that i meant something or still do or was important. i did it becuase i felt i had a lot of personal issues to deal with (family, etc. i am mad about how he handled things…i feel he doesnt even care about me anymore.
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Ladies, how do you cope when your ex starts dating someone newif you haven’t read the main 5 step plan to get your ex back, then you should. day of the break up he yells at me hes going to his new gfs house which left me shocked. there are things i know she really isn’t down with and some of them he has. but here are some effective ways you can deal with this knowledge. and as i said earlier, social media is not an accurate reflection of relationship. she told you not to stop texting her, let her know that you need some space before starting contact. about a week ago i saw a text from a guy on my gf’s phone and got disappointed that she was planning to hangout with him and when i asked to see all her other texts between them she said she deleted them because it would’ve made her feel uncomfortable if i saw it. i usually recommend people to give themselves a time limit, in most cases, 2-3 months, if things don’t work out by then, you should just move on. knowing her, i think she is expecting that i’ll reach out to her on her b’day, as i’ve never let anything get in the way of it. well after her always being needy towards me, she gave up i guess and was so angry at me that she went off and let her friends convince her to start having sex and talking to this other guy. we broke up about 2months ago over an argument she knew she was at fault for but still continued to sleep with each other and have family days etc even though we weren’t living together. but thing is, he says he doesn’t love me anymore and doesn’t care about me anymore. the only thing you can understand and control is your actions. when to give up trying to get your ex back. i did see some pictures of him and his new lover in the living room though. have since learned that she asked a friend of mine if she should tell me about the engagement before i heard it from someone else., yes, part of it could be her being the “damsel in distress” but, before she told me that she’s found this guy, i was fairly happy. it might satisfy your curiosity, but it won’t necessarily give you closure. she thinks perhaps it’s because she is not as close to garry as she was with you. he’s been sleeping with loads of other women when they were still together, he’s left her alone while their son was born (to get back with her later) and now he’s only spending time with his son maybe once every two months, not really showing any interest, yet playing the victim in front of everyone. but still, i’d recommend you give him some time to initiate contact before you do so. ex broke up with me 10 weeks ago (we dated for 2. us acting like strangers toward each other is killing me. she is still empty and she can only be at peace with herself when she decides to face the breakup pain. if she is not, then after a while, you should decrease the frequency back to once a week. he is now dating his ex girlfriend from 11 yrs ago who cheated on him more than worse. you’ll do you, while they’ll do whatever it is that they do. it makes me think it is less about her and our relationship and more about something else. one article you say time place a big role people who were together six months or under don’t fare well compared to people with a year or more. now that i wanna work on the relationship and have gotten rid of all my anger issues he doesn’t wanna work on it. my ex was furious that i spoke to her parents and now refuses to speak to me. so we started dating for another 3 to 4 months again and now she broke up with me again a week ago. if she decides to go with her ex husband, then you’ll have to suck it up and accept it. i read everything above, but he wouldn’t have volunteered the information about this new girl to me without me asking and he didn’t seem too keen on telling me about her. ex and i have been broken up for around four months, dated for 3, and knew each other for a year before that. i asked him how it was going and he said okay, it’s been a while since i’ve dated anyone, invalidating the fact that what we did over break wasn’t dating. i couldn’t believe it and i made a lot of the mistakes you talked about like calling her all the time and begging and stuff. she feels that perhaps this guy can make all her pain and the emptiness go away. you check the rest of the photos and see that this other person invading your ex’s profile pictures is your ex’s new beau. she said when he was stressed she would get stressed and then he would get mad cause she didn’t express what was wrong with her that’s when she said he yelled at her. and after they breakup with you, they start a relationship with someone who has no career and no life goals whatsoever. are common responses when ur ex appears to be withholding their new relationship when secretly wanting to get back together. and then for some reason, you remember one of your exes. i know i am still not over the break up so i broke up with the new guy. and the worst part is that each photo is radiating joy and sunshine and all the good things in the world. it usually doesn’t have anything to do with how perfect their rebound is for them. do you think there is hope for us at all? i know practically everyone does it, but this part of the process can so easily set you back a few steps. see the thing is aftr the break up i bought her roses it didnt work she just wanted space so i jus didnt see her but we still communicated via text. would i know when the honeymoon phase is over to contact again?, this hasn’t stopped him from pursuing this woman down in cuba. she was staying at his house on the nights that i would watch our daughter. the past 3 months, i have definitely been guilty of making all the ‘mistakes’ you mention in your article. she’s known him for a while as he’s from the town where she lives, they were in high school together (we both study at university which is a 3 hour drive from her hometown, he still lives there). the only thing it’ll do is keep you in this obsessed state of mind. for example, if you broke up with him and it seemed like he'd never moved on, you might feel thrilled to discover he's found someone new. i ask what his name was just cause i was curious and she won’t tell me anything and is very secretive about it. we all of that flame that whispers, “what if,” or “what could have been,” but we need to take control of our emotions. you will not be obsessing over them so much and you will be able to concentrate on your happiness more. she thinks if garry and her start having sex, she will feel much closer to garry and perhaps forget you. california privacy rightsthe material on this site may not be reproduced, distributed, transmitted, cached or otherwise used, except with the prior written permission of condé nast. there is no point in trying to figure out what’s going on in her head. is he already so invested in this new girl that he’s trying to completely take me out of his life? or is it just something you say to be nice? he told me yesterday, that he could really use my help since he decided to see a psychologist now and work on this pathologic behavior and he claims he still loves me. of all: i wouldn’t dare to show up here if i wasn’t absolutely sure that her ex (the one before me and the father of her child) is an absolute jerk. not that i can remember her saying any other reasons why she with me or why she is happy. so in five months from our break up he’s got a new girl pregnant, made her his fiancé and now contacting me. during no contact, you will realize whether or not you should get him back in your life. i’m more homey, enjoy doing things as a couple, want to get married, have kids, be a good wife and mom, etc. if at that time she still wants to work things out with her ex husband, then you should move on. it showed me the difference between being happy physical with someone and not really caring compared to actually caring for someone like my current ex who i would of done anything for. i basically inflicted this pain on myself by taking my ex for granted and pushing her into this new guy arms. but yet here she is all smiles and hearts and all these other pictures and stuff with the both of them and just of him. am just trying to figure out it it is worth to keep trying if after couple weeks of nc and i don’t get any response from her just to do another couple weeks of nc for the same effect of no association at all. i don’t see how he is better besides being artist. do you think he will still care or think about me or should i stop worrying and move on? i did the whole nc thing awhile ago when it first happen so i could leave her be happy with whoever and doing whatever. i told her that i could not be in a relationship with someone that did not have the same feelings as me. i am trying to move on with the help of a therapist and trying to get back to the old me. i just don’t get how someone can be so heartless and vindictive. from what you can tell, he seems pretty happy while you're probably testing your luck with online dating and getting set up by well-meaning but clueless friends. even though your mind wants you to believe you didn’t, i know you did. the rose is symbolic & a little thing only we know. sent him a lengthy email saying i was sorry i messed up and that i hurt him, and that after we broke up i had done a lot of self-evaluation and i was sorry that i was so selfish and that i took him for granted. i immediately applied the no contact rule and she tried contacting me asking me how i am but i did not reply, but during this two weeks i found out that 3 days after the break up she started talking to an old friend from her country. i have tried just to be short and friendly but all i get is she reads my text then never replys just ignoring it or replys once hours later and that’s it. she treats me like her own daughter, she loves me because i changed his son life in a good way…. she also updated her fb with new picture of them. let me add to this that the week before she initially posted the picture of herself with her now-boyfriend i saw her at a nightclub making out with some guy that is not the guy she’s currently dating, and also looking over at me in between kisses (i was there with my sports team, she was there for a friend’s birthday and we knew by that point of the night that each other was in the club). easy ways to stop comparing your new guy to your ex. all you can do is learn from your mistakes you made and carry on with your life. please advise because it would be a turning point for me. just accept that your ex has moved on, and so can you. we used to still text, but like about a week or two ago, she got mad and said either to stop talking to her or me. i don’t think you were a rebound since he took 6 months after his last relationship to begin a relationship with you. hating on this new person will just fuel your bitterness even more. and when i texted her she refused texting me back for another 3 days and said she wanted to break up with me because she lost feelings on me(while waiting, i sent her a long email stating how i felt about her and i wanna know why she is not replying me). called me one night in january almost in tears telling me about the new girl and how she hasn’t talked to him in a day because they got into an argument. since then i returned to uni and he continuously called/ text me letting me know how sorry he was and that he’d do anything to show me no matter how long it takes. seems like she likes excitement and guys who are hard to get. so my parents tell me to just give up because this is the second time she broke up and if we get back together the 3rd time will also come. the only thing you can control is your actions and your decisions. four days later i get a text from him saying ‘i have feelings for someone else’ i texted back just saying what? i know i will get over him one day but i don’t want to and the pain thinking about it is unbearable 🙁. i broke up with my ex and found out later on two weeks after our relationship that he was dating someone else. earlier this month he posted on his tumblr reminiscing about our relationship. what is there to possibly miss when you have had your best friend as your new boyfriend for some time and you love this guy.’s possible that he never got over his ex in which case it’s probably not a rebound. me and my ex fiance were together for nearly 10 years. i want more than the world for him to just respect me and treat me like he loved me, as he says he does. of course if something is genuinely wrong i’d talk to her, but i have just 2 more questions:1. i broke up with him i’m january this year and a week later he’d moved on to the type of woman he used to moan about and the complete opposite of me and i keep seeing them around my neck of the woods. so if having a new relationship is what makes your ex happy and focusing on your career is what’s making you happy, stick with your career and quit mimicking what your ex is up to. this carefully designed test to find out your chances and if you qualify for the ebp basics e-course. love her, but you need to work on your anger. then how do i go about talking to him if he just keeps avoiding me and i can’t get through a friend. [read: are you jealous of your ex’s new life? do you think is the worst part of finding out your ex is dating again? telling she cant adjust with me as i am 11 months younger to her and now she is in a relation with a new guy whom her parents will also like and she loves him alot and will marry him, and she also told me doesnt love me any more and dont expect her again. should i approach him around that time and ask him if he’s still down? even though, she chose not to be with you in the end, it doesn’t mean she never wanted to be with you in the first place.
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6 Warning Signs That You Are Still Hung Up on Your Ex | Thehe did something amazing for her birthday recently and now he has another shot at showing her how amazing he is with the upcoming holidays. i’m a bit confused as what she is doing. so, at some point i called a face to face, where i tried fighting for us one last time- presented him with the timeline leading up to proposal- how could he propose after 2 months- and he had dedicated a lana del rey song to me just the other day- a song that made me want to just die- so we agreed to no more sad texts- but apparently it didnt stop because again i needed to have another convo with him to get my point across. think you should just stay calm and let her make her decision. was dating this lovely woman for a year and half, all around great honeymoon to foundation stages of a relationship. yet i know i care about this guy a lot, but since i know i spoke up for a reason and don’t appreciate being disrespected, i can’t figure out his place in my life. she now lives in his house that looks just like the houses we were fixing to buy. what is strange to me is that this new girl is very similar to me just younger, he even said to me when he meet her that she reminds him of me when i was her age.’m looking for places…she does need to miss me but, in all honesty, i don’t she any hope in her coming back to me. all of those disappointments and annoyances that they had drowned you with come forefront.. he told me 2 weeks ago that he still misses me thinks of me and it’s hard on him still and he is not over me. am sorry…i was wondering, do you think i should lose all hope on this? if that’s the case, could this make the relationship more or less successful? wouldn’t the only thing left to be is intimacy. it was really hard to hear her lash out and distort me and our relationship to say the least. if you can’t seem to do it by yourself, you should seek professional help. it’s been about a month and i pretty sure they are dating i haven’t asked cause i am sure he wouldn’t want to tell me. i guess, i was right because when he broke up with me two days ago, he said that he wasn’t ready to take the next step with me of moving in together, and didn’t want to make that commitment to me because he was scared and not ready for it. we don’t hang in the same social circles so i have no clue? i don’t see how he is better then me. that last one is the kind of thing that, after your stomach does a few flips, will make your face all hot and cause you to immediately lose your appetite. you and her were not together for very long time, it’s hard to say if her new relationship is a rebound. she does nice things for me and calls/texts/facebooks sometimes and vice versa but then she will completely change and treat me like crap for several days in a row and ignores me until she responds to me again. thinking about your relationship with her in this way is just going to lower your self esteem it’s going to hurt your next relationship. your mind is trying to find something to be obsessed about. she still can’t let go of the empty feeling when she is alone. she’ll start talking about her day or how school is going and how she wants me to keep a look out for a job for her. finally, the last time he came back to tell me he had made a huge mistake involved me asking him to call the girl in my presence, whereby we spoke and i found out they slept together. he started crying and told me, that he would fight for me, but isn’t ready. am not saying that you should start a serious relationship with someone else. went to marriage counselling but every time she was asked not to contact him and start to work on our marriage she would just lie to the therapist and me and done what she wanted. obviously i want him back and he knows this yet he has said if he wasn’t in this new relationship with this girl he would try again but he is so he won’t. mean to do nc for certain amount of time then try to attempt to associate with her but for nothing. i sensed a bit of distance from her before i left and some when i returned. start no contact and even if she contacts you, don’t answer her. weeks, she’d called three times texted a couple, i decided to call on the way to work. finally, a week after that i found out through facebook that he is with another woman. i’d suggest you do wait at least one month. know that she is confused and needs help as she has been drinking heavily and smoking heaps but she tell her family she is happy with this new guy…. (there are a ton more details but i’m leaving them out for the purpose of not making this too long). when we were together we would have so much fun and everything would be great, the second we weren’t together and he would text or call me he became mean and said he didnt feel anything. it’s as if he never truly listens or care about how i feel,March 26, 2014, 1:36 pm. up with me for someone else we did have not sex in 6 moths he says i’m bored never go out and the new guy he like to go out the opposite of me is that a rebound ?.In january this year my wife changed positions in her work place and then all of a sudden within a week this co worker told her how he felt about her and she feel for him. she also said that she doesn’t feel anything for me but then contradicted herself by saying that she has been afraid to do anything with this guy because she still cares for me a lot and has a lot respect for me. i also made a mistake when i started asking him to come back because everything seems like my fault. when we straightened things out he said that he thinks its best and he doesn’t want to be in a relationship now.. i don’t know if shes a rebound and if he’ll come crawling back or what. have read this article a lot trying to find something that was related to what was going on but i statred to see no connections. i know she’s seeing someone but her usual mo is to show her enthusiasm with the person she’s with all over social media. and my ex girlfriend were dating for 6 years before she broke up with me 2 weeks ago because of parents putting too much pressure on her. i showed up telling him i’m not trying to “pull a beth” (his other crazy ex who we battled together and had fun doing so even though she borderline stalked him) and that i genuinely just wanted to be friends with him. i told him even though he said he said we shouldn’t talk anymore that i still care about him and will always have an open ear if he needs someone to listen. im going on a date with his mom, do you think its ok to keep in touch with her? the girl is controlling which is sort of a red flag for most guys. she saying she misses me and thinks of me at random times just like my former ex and i don’t want to see that all this time she is having best relationship ever with her best friend and find out they are engaged then married. ended the txt/snapchat conversation after 30 min, i told her that i had a guest coming by to visit , and that i had to leave… wished her a great day. all of this was just as blindsiding as the breakup. from moving the rebound relationship too fast, another common behavior that rebound relationships have is choosing someone they’d not go for normally. might try to convince yourself that the relationship didn’t mean anything to her and she was just playing with you. or do i still have a chance given the history we have? i don’t know if she will ever contact me again or not. while some people argue there isn’t a benefit to ‘talking about the relationship’, he’s actually expressed that he likes it and is truly very open and honest when we do sit down and talk.. he started on a dating site 4 days afte the break up and told me so. let him know that you will wait for him until he makes his decision but you will not be a doormat or his backup. is is because she is tying to get over me or misses me, or does she actually hate me, or is this the kind of person she is now? i said okay because i had done a few myself and they sucked. but i am done now – this is a degree of disrespect i couldn’t even imagine and who knows what else i don’t know yet. of all, which couple discusses big life decision on their facebook wall? people go into a rebound deliberately and choose someone completely incompatible with them because they know it’s a rebound. unfortunately for him, i’d binned all his stuff having given him months to collect and contacted him many times and then said i’d bin them. we just one issue which is not having enough time to be together, and we’re already lucky if we get to spend 2 hours of dating in a day. that was confusing to try and understand if so then why are you with someone. if i had to guess, she loves you more in a romantic way while her ex is more of a “father of her child” sort of love. unfortunately i couldn’t understand his need for space and i freaked out. my question is … do you think i can get my ex back ? also, understand that even though your behavior wasn’t needy, the act of going to his house just so you don’t lose him was somewhat needy. she haven’t told me about her new guy yet … i just want to play it calm and cool no matter what. now i have texted him since wednesday and he has been very rude to me and says leave me alone, i’m seeing other girls, but yesterday i called him after receiving 20 blocked calls. wouldn’t she be missing him a lot and the way they were together as more then friends. do you really see a long term potential with her? i am devastated all over again i love this man so much and we have been through so much together. i started a new relationship 7 weeks ago but i ended it yesterday. maybe there are things that would have to change and we can have a rational discussion about whether such changes are possible, given our situations”. what if after couple weeks she still does not have any association with me. next thing i see is that she changes her facebook profile pic to the one of her and the new guy. if they already connect on deep level then i’m sure she feels the sexual physical part is complete too. much to my demise, he changed his profile to one of him and a new girl. and i am just wondering if he still loves me and has feelings for me and misses me? believe he does have feelings for this woman down in cuba, though i think it is mostly based on infatuation and his decisions and actions right now seem more emotionally based than rationally based. i don’t visit him so i will never know.’s nothing much you can do other than what i said above. me and my ex boyfriend had been 2yrs more together and we just broke up for almost 3 months but in that 2months we still contact and see each other and many things happened before i decided to do the no contact rule. he’s still saying he wants make me the effort to keep me in his life and make us work as ‘friends’. all what i remember what my ex had said, that he is confused that he has feelings for two girls, he said he knows its hard for me that he is with that girl, and he has said that he remember good memories of us. he is actually my client and i am a senior executive in my company. i also made it clear to the guy on the first month that we were dating that i can spend time with him late at night only if he’s already my boyfriend or we’re with friends (if we’re not yet a couple).: well, we had a connection and i don’t think it could be replicated. nothing beats straightforward honesty, its less hassle all round and if you are both playing such games then what does that really say ? i hitted his limit and he created new facebook account and added his family and relatives only. after that i stopped texting her and calling her, i don’t know if she misses me. know they’re still together and that his rich family is backing her business endeavor, as she was fired from her job shortly after shacking up with the man. he is also probably in a rebound relationship right now.’s a question about whether or not my ex is trying to rub it in my face: i haven’t actually heard from him, but as far as the whole social media aspect goes, he hasn’t said anything about this new girl until he posted a concert picture and tagged her in it.’s what i keep telling myself especially since this girl does not live here but apparently has come down to visit (southern state and she’s from new york). feel like any type of texting will be ignored, or seen as me trying to get him back. told her that i really don’t want to be on that site and that i loved her. due to my problems i let my frustrations out on my ex. you were always there for her, and she didn’t consider your feelings. if she texts you during these two weeks, you can reply to her but keep it short. this time, talk to him before getting back that you can’t do this on and off relationship and if he wants to get back together, he needs to be hundred percent sure he wants this. but all that is not going to help you with your current state of mind. recently, especially since him and his new girlfriend broke up, i have started to miss him again a lot. you contact your ex after the 30 day nc even if they’re still in that rebound relationship? how are you planning to get out of this state of mind leave her behind? and my ex of 5 years (which is also my 9month old’s father) recently broke up end of may…. part of me thinks he is trying to illicit a response from me. and after we spoke about that, he flirted with me and he even held my hand, examining it. when we were discussing this i asked if we were still friends at least? foolishly, i contacted her a number of times over the course of the next 2 months. thought it was because of his friends,they don’t have girlfriends and because he is unemployed and kinda stressed because of that. even if you try to resist, there’s always the temptation to have a teeny tiny peek at what your ex is up to.
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How it Feels When Your Abusive Ex Starts Dating Someone Newwas always expressing distrust and insecurity over the situation he had with her, which i guess made me unattractive and i am regretting it now. i think there is little hope, but only if you move out and stop being there for her all the time. he’s from another town and is apparently pretty poplular. i am very unsure what to do because i feel as if our spark is still there. may like him because hes exciting but the glamour wears off. but i was suspicious, so the other day as my way went past her building i checked for his bike – and it was there..I met his brother last week and we had a nice talk. and no, this is not just what she has told me. are a lot of articles written out there about positives of “rebounds” how they are actually proven to be better for you and that they are not rebounds they are just new better relationships. course, everything that follows is subject to change based on the relationship you and your ex had, when you broke up, why you broke up, etc. it felt like we’ve made a mistake and he was talking about all the memories we had. you should do no contact to learn to be happy without her. i’m tying to work on things but this came up and it has been in my mind. still keep in touch with his mom, he always ask me to her (how i am, do i still go to there house). i just don’t understand if my being a single mom was really an issue, since he told me from the start he accepts me for who i am (unless his family’s totally against the idea), or he’s just a pathetic flirt. we talked about the stress that he is still under, and seemed like he is tired of dealing with it. the last year, things had been hard and unhappy in the relationship (particularly caused by financial issues). she contacted me again after like 4 days and we just talked random stuffs. whatever her reasons for not being with you right now is her business and not yours. me for my english,But after i read all of this i can say that i’m a little wiser now. he changed his status to single write away on facebook. he didn’t jump into the relationship right away and he is letting her decide who he talks to, i’d say that he is pretty serious about his relationship. i was pretty insensitive about it becuase his parents had been going through a divorce, and i was having my own family issues, and i guess i broke up with him when he needed me most. my ex is still dating the other guy & i haven’t heard from her. this behaviour continued another two times, both of which i forgave. another way to describe a rebound relationship is an attempt to avoid the pain of the breakup. for my ex, after 5 and a bit months she’s still been simultaneously hiding her relationship (ie, “it’s not official”) and rubbing it in my face (all kinds of tweets, photos of parties with him/things we used to do, etc). should i keep doing this then message her aftr 30days? we had been dating for 3 years and when he broke up, he listed reasons like he wanted freedom, to be stress-free and he felt that the feelings faded. it just made me miss her all over again recently that’s why i do the stupid things like look on her websites but of course it only makes things worse seeing them together and seeing comments like he’s amazing and hearts around his name and other types of post that relate to him. my questions are, is he rebounding with the new girl? was with my ex for 3 years and we broke up. we were both talking about moving in to my new place and be a family, but i told her that i wanted to take things slow. my ex girlfriend and i have been separated for just over 5 months. if she doesn’t contact you, then you should contact her. i’ve had a couple of casual text conversations with her since so she’s not ignoring me. he tried to visit me at home, bring flowers, letters etc. she says she wishes i could still b the man iwas she she fell in love w me but doesnt think i can. she is so income with him already and i know he is with her since he just been waiting for this to happen for years and now he has it. i can’t do and give her the materiel things she likes that he can like tattoos. but like i said before, you need to learn from your mistake and stop putting yourself in a position where he can hurt you again. about maybe 3 or 4 months ago she text me randomly saying she misses what we had but i found out a month ago that she is engaged and now she is married and i never knew about it only cause i saw her facebook saying she was engaged and now it says married.’m also lost on if your dating a close friend someone who knows all about you and she knows about him. she is so infatuated by everything about him and they have been close friends for years. i found out my ex was in a new relationship i was still struggling with the breakup. and three weeks after your and your ex’s breakup?, it’s hard to say if he wants to get back together, but there is definitely a chance and it’s definitely worth trying to get back with him. she has said in past she misses me or thinks or me but never has said why or what about. the other end of the spectrum, there are exes who will try to hide their new relationship from you. she’d be snappy/curt/cold, and she knew i was suffering for it. i applied the no contact for 2 months but just recently i just gave him a birthday cake (because his birthday is near) thru a friend, and he told the friend not to do such things again and told her not to get involved. she is cold towards you, you should do no contact for a while and let her initial honeymoon period get over. texted me the other day a picture of something that made her think of me. since then i have found out that he started seeing her before we split (she didn’t know) and he has promised her the world, while also seeing me and telling me i was his soulmate. she said she is at someones house and she is gonna be there for the whole day. so, i want to get this out of the way. i’ll recommend you try the 5 step plan once, and if it doesn’t work, move on. see what your saying on stop with the having hope and stop thinking of her. that said, we still live together, a mutual decision not only because we don’t want to physically have to make the move, but also because we don’t want to separate. i miss just texting you funny pics and you sending me funny videos (he giggled), and when we broke up a month ago, i was thinking about things, and i wasn’t upset about losing the relationship, i just didn’t want the friendship to end. positive and smart ways to deal with a hostile ex. years, perhaps that’s why it’s hard for you to let him go even though he disrespected you..through my own investigation i found out she is seeing a 50 year old man now. it just seems since she started hanging out with all these new late night bar friends she has met, she has changed herself in order to fit in with them. i already feel like i been lost her awhile ago, not going to be able to get her back since she said she moved on from it cause she been here before and it not worth it, that her relationship isn’t a rebound it going to be real mccoy, and that trying to follow these steps is just going to fail me. how is it technically considered a rebound if they never really said that you meant something. someone who will care about you and treat you the way you deserve to be treated. i feel like my ex has second thoughts about us getting together he says there is still hope but i feel like there isn’t anymore, he dropped a bomb on me couple of days ago telling his best friend that he loved her, and she told him that she loved him back yet they can only be friends right now because she likes someone else, this is while i was trying to get back with him and he knew that i loved him. she also gets help with her problems in the next weeks. he displayed all the signs ti want me back but i was aloof. if you want to pursue her more, do nc for another 2 weeks and try again. done everything wrong, i really wish i had read your article a month ago. we didn’t talk much after that then all of a sudden, 3 days later, i call her and she says she wants to get close to someone else; the guy she’s been texting. when two people break up, there is usually a slight competition to see who becomes happier with their lives first. i think her new relationship is most probably a rebound and you shouldn’t worry about it much. that it went to something serious physically and general relationship wise. we later talked in the car where she told me that she was seeing someone but is torn between me and this other guy because i’m a great guy. i know it seems like the plan is meant to be about playing mind games, but if you notice, a huge part of the plan (step 2) is about self realization and self-improvement. thanks for all the free stuff, and thanks for te opportunity to share this. why was he letting a young girl sleeping at his house if he loved me and didn’t want anything to happen? the other hand, it could be that your ex waited months before entering the new relationship and it could still be a rebound depending if they never really got over you. of the examples of this social media behavior that i want to share came from one of my readers. most probably, you met him at a time in his life where he isn’t ready for something. a few days later, while still debating on calling him, he texted me again, emphasizing that he has contacted me twice. i can’t get over it cause she said he was like a brother but but he is not. i and my ex broke up couple of weeks ago and i still don’t know the reason for that. our confrontation i started doing nc im on 90 days nc, 4months of them going out. then i told her it was for me then she said she knows my ears arent pierced and she doesnt want me to pierce them cause she doesnt want me to look like a thug. how much time limit you give to yourself is completely up to you. he said he was supposed to see someone but he put that off to give me a first chance. it is also my understanding that he is fresh out of a long term relationship so they may both be rebounding. didn’t have any pictures of his ex on his screen saver, and he told me he was over her but he still had pictures of his ex in laws which i found weird and made me think that he wasn’t over that relationship. but since then she has randomly hit me up out of nowhere between ending it and now. in addition, you might also want to read this article on what to do if your ex is in another relationship. otherwise, if you weren't ready to break up, you might experience a few of these. she is happy i told her and even more mad than i am: she forced him to quit his job, which she helped him get. in other words, it feels as if i am changing his mind and heart about me and our relationship. few months ago, his younger brother, who also married very young and had been with this wife for 8 years, got divorced., i dont want to lag stuff on and start something. very common sign of a rebound relationship is whether or not they are trying to rub in your face. my ex emailed me the other day saying he’s trapped and his new fiancé is pregnant and she’s screwed him over and he hates his job and asking for help from the people he emailed. she clearly posted this message for her ex to see. i even went to his house and waited for him. although, it doesn’t necessarily make it a permanent relationship. what strikes me is that 5 months later their engagement fell through and he tried to reconnect with me. think he felt suffocated and wasn’t ready for a relationship, and therefore doesn’t (or felt like) want to have kids with me. [read: 10 signs that a past relationship is keeping you from moving forward]. but a couple of weeks back i discovered that she has been seeing another guy for the last 3 months. i’m not trying to come off as needy at all, but how can i even get her to meet up with me when i know she’s willing to but maybe her new bf is tying her down? we talked and she said that i was someone special and meant something and that i still mean something to her. i’m no psychologist but after coming out of a long term relationship and hurtful breakup with someone with npd, he seems to show a lot of the traits. as for them being the same person, like i said before, it doesn’t necessarily mean their relationship is perfect and doesn’t have any issues. about 5 days after we broke up she told me she was already with this other guy. seeing your ex with a new significant other can feel like a painful blow right to the heart. decided today to be nosey and look at my ex’s facebook. do you agree with what my friends have said in regards to a slightly manipulative behaviour from her? you’d never admit this to anyone else, of course. her being ‘official’ 9 weeks after a breakup shows me that they clearly were dating for at least 1 month, which means she wasn’t grieving long at all (maximum a month). he’s been beyond childish and cruel throughout all this when i wanted to be civil and get my stuff back and his. if so, then you must know there’s no way you can know for sure if her relationship is really perfect or it has some major flaws. however he has texted twice: to ask how i was doing and to ask a trivial question. on their 1st date she did the same things with him as she was doing with me, they went to same places, she talks to him exactly the same etc.
- Plants vs zombies garden warfare party matchmaking – do you think the chances are that she will actually realize that she was happy together and will think about that. my ex and i had been going out for almost 3 years before i broke up with him this past december right before new year’s eve. so hopefully you can tell me what the hell is going on haha. it’s an attempt to feel the same way you were feeling while you were in a relationship with your ex. does this mean that my current ex just easily cut me out of her life to just easily and quickly with no hesitation replace me with her new boyfriend her friend? like i said they are the same exact person with everything. even though he says he loves me when he broke up with me, does that mean anything? happened just today, my exbf contact one of our common friend in college.: courtesy photokeywords: breaking upbreakupbreakupsexex boyfriendsexesmost popularbeautythe 17 greatest beauty products of all time, according to youinspiredthis is what women who supported donald trump really think of the new president nowbeauty10 luxury designer beauty products that are actually worth your moneybeautyexperts agree these are the best products for the shiniest, bounciest hair of your lifecelebsmischa barton breaks silence on revenge porn reports: "my absolute worst fear was realized"by christopher rosa5 hours agotvfans are convinced this is the very last scene in pretty little liars, and it's so sweetby christopher rosa5 hours agohairbella hadid's corkscrew curly hair is personally so refreshingby deanna pai6 hours agosex & relationshipsyikes, this vibrator manufacturer was sued for allegedly tracking user databy suzannah weiss6 hours agomusickesha reveals the beautifully authentic reason she dropped the “$” from her nameby christopher rosa8 hours agotvthis is us has some great changes in store for chrissy metz's character next seasonby christopher rosa8 hours agorelatedhomethis nashville wedding has all the makings of a country music love songbeautyinvest in these 11 skin-care products, and save your complexionbeauty10 drugstore beauty buys that actually live up to the hypefollowusget up-to-the-instant updates and inspiring dispatches. at that point i told him i needed my space and that i wouldn’t be going to his birthday party anymore when i came home for spring break because i didn’t want to be about his new girlfriend and since then we have talked maybe three times and at one point when i mentioned his new girlfriend, he said nothing about her in his response. i dont know if this is a rebound relationship or something else. i assume it’s a rebound as everyone has said to me it is and his own cousins where shocked it happened and so soon and having read your page. the way he has handled and initiated our breakup has been very immature and yet i would probably try again later down the road. she recently started dating a guy and, via facebook, they were in a relationship after only ten days of knowing each other. maybe once upon a time they were, but that’s nothing but a distant, foggy memory now clouded by envy. i have implicated no contact but what should i think of this? you want to find out your chances of getting your ex back? had a wonderful time with my ex mom 🙂 my ex is still asking if i still come to visit, or talk to her etc… and hes still with his bad influence single mother gf, i just want to put this out there. she probably did love you and she still probably misses you sometimes. he still wants me in his life and has arranged to call me to catch up later in the week. i was originally going to show up at his house and clear the air claiming i just want to be “friends” just to get my foot in the door and work my way in from there. i guess within the first month of this fling i guess you’d say, he has met the family, pretty sure she has met his, and she just seems really over me. she recently turned 18 and seems to think she can do what ever she wants. people lose feelings and there is a good chance she cheated on you while she was in the relationship. how can she fall out of love with me after almost 5 years of feelings for each other that she can surprise me one day and want someone new? we had a close relationship and i had a good relationship with his family. i don’t want to be pushy if he honestly does not want to get back.” yet he’s still talking to me and says that he doesn’t want to lose a friend…. after a bout 8 month at sea i find out he is dating someone else i though i was okay with it but when i finish the contract and returned home and started working at my old job where both my ex and his new girlfriend work i feel very sad and heart broken i love him and wish to be back with him he has been dating this girl nearly three month now what should i do. do i just not try at all to talk to her until she feels that she has something to say to me or what. the fact that he seems perfect for her that she is so much more happier then she has been for long time. day 8 nothing so called and left voicemail saying i’m binning your bits but still want mine. i explain in the article, her relationship is probably a rebound and she isn’t as happy with her life as she seems to be in social media, which is why i recommend you stay away from her online profiles. kevin, is there a place here for me, since i am definetely the rebound victim of my ex… (that is, te guy she had the rebound with). i’ve been on a roll turing myself around 180, making positive strides then this comes up.’ve always done something special, along with sending a single yellow rose on her b’day. just because your ex is doing something that makes him or her happy, doesn’t mean you have to do the same. it’s good that you are doing nc and improving yourself.- is really troubling, specially when she was treated badly by that man for years. so i decided to no contact her at all, and will first talk to a terapist within a week and a half about my past problems. i have been trying a lot to just focus on myself and not think of her and what’s she is doing in her life now or who she is doing things with or has been for how long. few posts here and there nothing related to her new relationship. i havent contacted him since after i saw the picture and i will not do it… so i will follow your advice. i am just saying that you should start learning to live without her in your life and start exploring the possibility of finding someone else. but i gave valid answers for everything i’ve done, but she is refusing to accept those. i ran into him at a bar, he was with friends, didn’t see his new girl with him at all. i think he is trying to hold on to me still. ex boyfriend and i have been dating for 1 year and 5 months. contact her after no contact period is over and until then just keep concentrating on yourself. i wished her a happy birthday the other day, and the conversation was small. i want you to think really hard during this no contact period if you really want to be with him. think whether or not is he capable of doing it. just don’t try to hide your pain under a steely faà§ade of composure. he told me that he has feelings for me and he misses me. went through similar situation my partner at the time left me basically to be with someone else he recently phoned saying he wanted to marry me at the same time he was trying to get rid of her it hurt me i couldn’t stop brining it up but lately i have stoped begging him or calling him for i shouldn’t have to be brave i also joined the gym which help . i graduate in two months… had the ring custom made from jeweler out of colorado, and planned on asking her to marry me in september/october of this year. he slowly started to disappear, but we maintained some sort of friendship for a little while after, and then it faded away. the thing is, you said let his new relationship play out and then contact him but he still has half his life around mine. the break up was very clean and mutual: i knew i was suffering and thought maybe we could work it out, but we talked it through and realised there was no fix. i’m more confident, thinner and healthy with a new home makeover.. just wait till his new relationship blows up because if his girlfriend continues acting like this, it will eventually end. should i just not contact at all until she does? i was shocked because he doesn’t call me a princess..Me: also, i’m not trying to get in the way of anything you’re trying to do (implying his new gf), i support you 100% and just want you to be happy. during this period (3 months) we stayed in contact, but it was no longer intimate/ relationship like – he would just tell me how much he loved me whilst i would encourage him to move on with his life. all but mainly kevin,I recently ran into my ex and it was extremely awkward and now i’m wondering if e was interested and is waiting for me to initiate contact the way i’ve always done? ex and i broke up when i just came back from overseas exchange program. i think it’s because we were such good friends before we started dating. but he posts pictures and quotes about being with his girlfriend and he posts pics on instagram with her too (i don’t have an insta, i only know this from a friend). i could tell by her voice she was telling the truth so i now go back in no contact to see what is going to happen. and im too scared to write him that letter, especially when he’s with someone else. in september i sent my ex roses because we would have had our 5 year anniversary and my ex was very happy about that (even though his new partner hated it). so if you concentrate on being the first to get over the breakup, you won’t be able to concentrate as much on healing your heart and moving on the healthy way. she was doing this usually six days a week (weird because she was never into a lot of drinking ), and then she started sleeping over at “guy friends” houses. from someone you said to my face was like a brother to now saying ” i got a good one” with happy faces to ” i love you” with hearts a smiles. we broke up she started seeing this guy at the park right after we broke up an now he’s sleeping over her mothers house while my kids are there. the truth is, you can never know 100% if your ex has truly moved on or you still have a shot with them. he finally contacted me about giving me my stuff back and he looked so miserable. time can tell 🙁 i never controlled him or get in a way of what he likes to do. ex broke up with me back in december because he wanted time to focus on himself and his activities.. but after that all even i posted pictures to my fb account theres still no response from my ex boyfriend. you go to your ex and say straight up “im not going to play a lot of games, this is how it is. think she is exhibiting some of the signs and she definitely still has feelings for you. two months later he’s still with her and sent me several texts simply saying i have moved on. thinking about these ludicrous situations is not going to help you in anyway right now.! the night that i knocked round his house and he wouldn’t let me in because he had her upstairs. she also had an ex of 5 years before me that she jumped from him immediately to me. he does have feelings for you and cares for you. heard that his gf is bad mouthing him on facebook, posting a status “if you cant love me etc” and inserting his picture down below. this was going on for about 3 months so i decided to finally give in&give him another chance. this time i am going for the next no contact period. he asked me for this advice, then mentioned that he heard i took a trip, and he seemed impressed by that and other things. and if she’s found a way to be happy (i am not saying she is), then it’s her right. he would tell me he was dating other girls and one time he offered to give me another chance but i didn’t respond. it’s hard to believe in what people say even when they are trying to help in a lot of ways because they don’t know situation they say same as what few others agree at. seen that she said she loves him so i see that they think they are soulmates and always have been but take away the material things he does and the notion of you thinking you have same ideology and i don’t see much there. when we finally meet up at a neutral place on valentines day she was cold and distant. it was pretty much out of the blue since we were celebrating and the next week he told me he needed space, time…he continued to tell me he loved me and that he wasn’t going to leave, he just needed space. he’s sent a few horrible texts since and blamed me a few times and trying to reinforce he’s moved on but i’ve been ignoring him, no contact! i know every situation is different based on the individual, do you think it is better to keep trying to actively rekindle the relationship, or should i purposefully create space by restricting our contact, communication and the things i do for him? if she is still cold, then i’ll suggest you give up hope and move on. i stopped by before the cleaning started and when i got to his room, i found a card addressed to “my princess” with so many lovely handwritten words. we had an amazing weekend, however today he changed completely again told me it’s not fair on me that he is talking to other girls and wants to end our friendship and never see me again. your website has been very insightful, helping me approach my breakup bewilderment in a more healthy and productive way. know this because you two were in a serious relationship for significant amount of time. if it is then if it doesn’t work out won’t it just mean they will still be the same way they are now but just say they are not together. the longer they’ve been in the new relationship, the less likely it is to be a rebound. things that can make anyone's stomach sink: the climbing portion on a roller coaster when you realize it's too late to change your mind, that part in. so my questions are: should i try it after a few weeks or a month, or do i just have to let it go and give up? i don’t know how long she has been seeing him but i know that she has been looking for dates soon after we broke up. he must have left the fiancée with his family because before that i saw them walking around at least three times. because honestly, what could be more satisfying than to see your ex is still single like yourself? i’m in love with this guy and i don’t know what to do, the best thing is to move on but i love him too much to move on, he still asks me who i hang out with, and if i hanging out with guys, we’ve been together for 4 months and i need some great advice, please help me i’m in desperate need of help i don’t want to loose him and i feel like each day passes i’m loosing him! right now, your mental well being should be your top priority. kevin,i had read your all 5 steps but unfortunately i think its bit late for me,i am 23yrs of age and my ex is 22,we were together since 6 months from june2013 to dec13,but my possessiveness ruin our relation though i love her very very much,we were working together but break up cause me to leave the organisation which i was seeking from last 3years,after that i had tried to contact her in every possible from message to email,since last 4 months i was continuously text her because i thought time shouldn’t run away but she feel it very irritating and start to hate me more than she loved me,we were in great relationship but my few mistakes asked me to pay heavy price,but i really love her and she had also loved me alot,and i desperately want her back so please please help me out. the amount of time we were together and the time she has been seeing in their new relationship. posted before but now im really confused, my ex broke up with me about 3 month ago, we were together 10 years we have been in regular contact until last week when i decided to go nc i knew she had been seeing another guy and i think that’s why i was dumped but reading on here he could of been her back up plan before we finished, she kept lying about him all the time then last thursday she sent a text telling me she was now seeing him , but a month ago she said he was a rebound a bit of fun , now her saying that makes me think its serious between them last sunday after spending the day with her which she organised , holding my hand kissing me etc he text and she said i have to see him to sort my feelings out, she spent the night at his, i was heartbroken i think she is in love with this guy and after reading on this site its like she hasn’t been emotionally involved for months but on the other hand dumpers in rebounds think there in love but this guy has been around to pick her up when we were going wrong , she sent a snapchat on friday then i had caller id withheld calls on my phone on sunday which she used to do if we fell out could be coincidence but that has never happened before im trying not to panic i have been no contact for a week but god i miss her so much even after how horrible she has been but im in panic mode , how can she stop loving me , how can she forget me , how can she move on , etc etc etc but this site says if she waited 3 months or more to move on she admitted seeing him after 3 months but has been seeing him longer , and this guy is the total opposite (more confusion) real player not nice to women multiple partners etc etc ,but she says he is gorgeous and in her text she said i was good looking great sense of humour ,big heart which i think is a ego boost for her cos why leave if im all that anyway im so hurt and confused some good feedback would be excellent cos im at rock bottom. about the exciting new changes you’ve made in your life. guess, just from what has happened in the past, i have a feeling that he will date her for a couple of months and then come back to me again, but i cannot tell if this is a rebound or not. he has been avoiding me at all cost, and hiding the relationship very quietly which is very unlikely of him. like what do i say that will actually turn into a simple conversation without her saying two things and that’s it. give him some time, and if he doesn’t contact you, you should contact him and ask him if he cheated on you.
- Dating websites winston salem nc – and that is not a quality you should look for in a life partner. don’t know what to really do about any of this. regardless, you can try getting her back using the 5 step plan and if it doesn’t work, move on. guy seems to be the exact opposite of someone she would usually date. she would not answer my call or text messages on the day she sent the email. if he just lost attraction, then this article is a good way to rebuild attraction with him. the next day he called me three times but i didn’t answer and have no answering machine and i also got a text calling me scum and my mum lazy. not saying this will happen not even by a long shot or anything. there is no more bond to speak of, so whatever your ex does is out of your hands. and in august he and this new guy became a couple. ex boyfriend started a new relationship while he was still in a relationship with me i knew we had problems and, i found out about him being engaged, but he continued to contact me/flirt with me and visit me. she said she doesn’t like posting personal things on facebook. anyway weekend i met up with him(after going through all the classic mistakes) he agreed to stay friends and work on things and wouldn’t meet other girls whilst we are like this." you might stay stuck in shock until it sinks in, perhaps helped along by expressing said shock to a friend who will totally get it. i’m at a lost and i am so deeply in love with this girl, any advice would help. you are trapping yourself in negativity about the relationship and yourself and i will suggest you seek professional help at this point. she recently reached out on email just thanking and asking if i was doing well. he said in march ‘i’ll collect my stuff soon when work calms down’. i feel confused and dont know what to do right now. i do know she has got some things going on but i have the feeling that maybe i should just leave her alone because she will not want to try again. i saw comments on his instagram (bc he insisted i re-follow him) of people being shocked. remember, there will always be a part of you that will wish he fixes his issues and you can get back with him. if she is not cold towards you and you have already done no contact, then you can stay in touch with her. 4 months where she was dating both of us without the other knowing. keep in mind that this person is not your direct competition. confusing fact, is that she still has me on her social media as “important life event”, despite the fact she s living and possibly is together with her x husband. start building attraction and if you think he is attracted to you enough, ask him if he wants to get back together. one of the main reasons we broke up was because i was so focused on my relationship with him that i completely ignored trying to make new friends in college and spent all my time with him. have no choice but to do the no-contact rule i suppose? i want her back and don’t know how to proceed and would like your help. you sure you will be able to have a healthy and long term relationship with this guy? i’ve done no contact with her in the past. during this conversation she told me “why be without someone who you don’t want to marry. how can she go for some guy who has no plan for his future and could move to another country just like that? i am just wondering is this a rebound relationship or not because i am just so confused? but i don’t know if that approach is going to work. this, he has been surprisingly open to the idea of fixing things, though still wants a ‘break’. company which was his plan before when we were still together. we were tight as a couple, never fought once, same interests etc, the usual but we got strained through his work and i thought a break would be good. she called at two weeks to say she doesn’t think we should talk for awhile. i know i could’ve said more or less at some points, but initially i was hoping by appearing non-threatening to his current relationship, it would be easier for me to work my way in. we have a almost 2 year old daughter together so this always makes things more difficult. when i looked at the info about it online, his pic was right there. that mean she is on to the next right even with the random they saying they miss you and what not. i did ask her about the guy she was seeing the one who is her friend. she told me so many times that she loves me with her whole heart and never felt this way about anyone and i would have to be the one to leave her cause she could never even think about it. you just don’t understand: why couldn’t your ex have been this happy when they were with you? she said she does not see us getting back, not meant to be, etc… i brought up lies that she said, and instead of apologizing she yelled “dont you ever call me again” and sent me a text that said “have a nice life! breakup was random and blindsiding, occurring on her birthday after i took her out for dinner. this might be true if you had been acting like a crazy, stalky ex who wouldn’t leave them alone. he said if we got back together, then i would just be getting my way as usual, and that he was super busy at work and hadn’t really thought about us for the past few weeks, and he couldnt’ do the ups and downs anymore. have your moment of sadness and realization to let the news sink in, and then try to move on. and if she doesn’t break up by the end of that time limit, you give her an ultimatum. i felt more luke i may have been a rebound from his last relationship. does care for me…but has made her mind up and can only look at me as a friend and flatmate. it looked like he was willing to take me back but once he admitted it i turned him down immediately having another sudden mood swing. if your ex is going out of their way to show you they are happy in their relationship and everything’s going great, then it’s probably a rebound and they are not doing that great in reality. texted me saying that it’s probably best if we don’t talk anymore.’s not a good idea to show up at his house. im now gonna apply the no contact rule, but is this a rebound. like i don’t see any of the signs just the ignoring and already moved on signs. i am worried he is only focused on the bad parts of our relationship and is ignoring all the wonderful times we had and how great we were as a couple. she has definitely rushed things with this guy (they’ve been together now for about a month) are “in a relationship” on facebook and she’s being very over-the-top with her openness on social media about him in general. but after that later she responded with longer message saying she decided it not healthy for her to e with me to much damage done to deal with and she been through this before but she thought it was different and she has moved on from it. you need to find a way to deal with your own grief and i don’t think obsessing over her relationship and her happiness is a good way to do so. i keep understanding his situation on why he did it, i forgiven him i told that. i said it was ok for him to take his time and if he wanted to be single for a while i was ok with it, but when i asked if we’d get back together in the future he said probably not. i said sorry for everything i had done(second mistake). i tried talking to her the other day on the phone asking her to please just stop with all the negativity towards me and gave her my honest opinion as her friend that she is drinking too much and that i’m upset she is letting guys use her, i think that really made her mad because she is back to ignoring me again. and of course she’s now got a new guy now so it doesn’t matter; if she’s happy then good for her, that’s all i want for her anyway, before now and in the future. she just glanced at me really quick and it looked like it was a disapproved look, like really this guy. like us on facebook twitter pinterest and we promise, we’ll be your lucky charm to a beautiful love life. don’t you think that you should be concentrating on what will make you happy? i know there is a chance that he’ll become her boyfriend during that time, but imo it’s a risk you must take. i would hope it’s not because she is trying to work things out with her friend. it’s an attempt to have the same level of intimacy that you had with your ex, with someone else. it made me look stupid in the end for believing she actually meant things like missing me or thinking of me or wanting so see me when she did. they are exactly the same person personality wise, spiritually, ideology, and belief wise. but in your own mind, all of these insecurities come crashing into your head like a tidal wave. lots of crying, her telling me “i’m doing this for me.’s a time limit you have to set for yourself. now after letting me down with payments, shouting at me and hanging up continuously, i didn’t know what else to do other than to block contact with him. my ex broke up with me six weeks ago, because he got scared of how committed our relationship was. things are getting worse then before i at one point i was able to not think of her as much but since last i saw her is when she asked to come over and since then she has just been so much more happy with him then she ever was with me. of the most common indicators of this behavior is their social media profile (facebook, twitter etc. it is the one she always wanted to be with and the one that makes her more happier then she ever was. only way you can analyze your past relationship right now is just by memories and conjecture. i’d love to help and see her and show i’ve changed, maybe this is a good opp to rekindle something as i have completely changed physically and mentally. i first wrote in i gave little bit of story and what was happen between us, i seem to be having more trouble lately because after i saw her with someone else at her work when i stopped by to talk and give her a letter i ended up texting her next day saying wish you didn’t hate me and hope you read that letter and i know it probably wont mean anything but she said she don’t hate me and that it did mean something. it’s as if they’re an uninvited guest, always showing up in your mind. until you let him go from your heart, you will never make the space for the right person. after that i went to her and told her that i can’t do this no more and that i will be there for her if she misses us in any time given, but i can’t share her happiness now when she has new bf. i made a huge mistake in a moment of stress, and now i am full of regret.. whether you find out through social media or a friend passes along the news, your brain will probably screech to a stop for a second. i don’t understand how he could just have met someone else already especially as he works like crazy and his parents hadn’t even been aware that we had broken up until i told them. never got a response from the email/don’t know if he even read it. so let’s just assume that you are right and she is happy. i know receiving a rose on her b’day will bring a smile to her face but it is so predictable, from me. they would be random texts weeks or months later and once she came by my work and recently the call asking to come by. two weeks after break up, she hooked up with a guy who looks exactly like me, has same interests, watches same tv series, listens to same music etc. like i don’t think she lives around here or work around here anymore. that the change she still has feelings for me is bigger then the change she likes her other ex. however, at this point, i’ll recommend you get in touch with clyde. but, i’m somewhat holding to his word about us hanging out to watch the finale of our favorite show together, and won’t be for another few weeks. about 3 wks back during the no contact period she texted me that she hasn’t done anything intimate with the person she’s seeing. i saw her once before she came by since i knew they were talking more and being around each other more and when i passed her by she looked much happier anyway. based on his previous response, i know it’s best to keep my distance, but maybe we can just be friends since i know he makes for a better friend. unless he used his little brother’s account and saw my status or his mom told him that our college friend and i are talking :). and the more you lose hope the more you start analyzing their new relationship (and obsessing over them) trying to convince yourself it’s a rebound. he’s 30, bringing a child into this world but acting like a child himself., he seems very confused about the situation which has resulted in his feelings and behaviour changing almost daily. that being with someone for like a year or so is when they have better chance of working things out in “long time apart”. your ex should no longer have an effect on you once you’ve moved on., although i struggle on the odd occasion… who doesn’t? even though it’s making me nuts i haven’t contacted him to ask if he’s seeing someone else. first you laugh it off, and say, “well, there’s no way this new person is better than me. which is also contradictory because one of the issues with me was i “didn’t know what i wanted in life. regardless of his reasons, start no contact for a month. it’s not like i can do the “no contact” because we have a daughter together so it makes it really difficult. to know the truth isn’t even for the purpose of rekindling anything, but just for a sense of closure. i had the feeling she might have an immaturity about her, her current state of mind could make her this way or bad experience from a previous relationship might make her treat her exes this way. he has been away for about a month and i felt his house needed some thorough cleaning.
- Interracial dating then and now – he started working at a new job about 3 months ago and ever since, we’ve been lacking in communication because of conflicting schedules. well my ex kept begging me but i would just ignore him&he would text me nonstop call me nonstop. well after the exchange she texted me on my way home saying thanks. i know i’m supposed to be doing no contact (which i’m implementing right now), but he usually texts me “good night” and “good morning” even if we’re upset with one another. if i already, after the break-up , went all desperate texts/phone calls followed by 21 days nc. he said even though he missed me, we should never go backwards. perhaps there is someone better out there suited for you. i seriously could feel how much this girl loved me. ask a trusted friend to change your password for you for about a week or two. but can i ask what should i do now knowing that he is into someone this new girl. i know he texts her every day to say he loves her and misses her and counts down the days until he sees her again. or how she says she wants to be friends and then will changed her mind and tell me she doesn’t like me and wants a complete break from me until she is ready, but then we will get in contact again a few days later like nothing happened. i think you do have a chance to get back together. things were moving forward slowly and a month ago we went to a concert together, which he initiated an where he actually told someone i was his girlfriend. remember when you said there isn’t going to be a friendship like we had?. i cant txt him, because his gf keepa on snooping around his phone and even the one who’s replying to his messages and acting that she is my ex (she done this with my ex mom and she wasnt happy about it). on the other hand, if their relationship has been going on for over a year, then you can safely assume that the relationship is serious for them and it’s probably not a rebound. garry is a temporary solution that is alleviating the pain, but he is not the cure. why not spend your time finding someone who can truly commit to you. does she expect for a younger guy to really settle down? i think it is not anymore a rebound relationship maybe he is serious with her! i met her a day before we broke up and she said “i miss you so much” and hugged me hugely. he was in a relationship and that ended and then a week later we had a run in, oddly the same way we did two years ago, timing, place and all but i’m rambling, but i guess what i’m wondering is if him jot making direct eye contact but smiling or smirking constantly mean anything? there is hope you will get back together and yes, it’s probably a rebound. mutual friends have severed their ties to this man, get an untrustworthy feeling from him or understand him to be a jerk. i emailed her saying that i could bring her item to her one day the follow week and that i missed having her in my life. he actually texted me right after i posted that, just asking about a music festival i went to last weekend. we haven’t communicated since valentine’s day and it’s been a month since they’ve started dating and almost 4 months since we broke up. birthday is next week but i don’t think i should say anything anyway but do you think it would make her mad or upset if i didn’t say anything. i guess the best course of action is to stay no contact and wait for him to contact you. but yet, here she is, rushing a relationship faster than a speeding bullet. have been right so far this whole time so i can see that before she made official choice for herself to end things she had already moved on and past me with simplest of ease even if she said she missed me or thought of me which i don’t see a true since she had already started seeing him more and more. you start to wonder how your ex is or what your ex is up to.’ve always done something special, along with sending a single rose on her b’day. i freaked out after i found out he was dating someone else within a week after we took a break. they don’t want you to start dating someone else because they are not over you and are hoping you will wait for them to come back. my question, if this is a rebound is better to not interfere or to keep in touch with her during? we were “seeing” each other for the first month, but that was totally exclusive, like we’d stay round each other’s places, met each other’s friends, and would gradually get more intimate, and then after making it “official” we were together for the last 2 months, meeting each other’s parents, all the things a boyfriend/girlfriend normally do. ex gf broke up with me at the end of november and found out she was on match a month later. had been on a few dates in the mean time, had sex with one or two, but no relationships. he’s converted in bad tattoos, lives in his moms basement and has no job or car. either your ex will move on and be in a happy relationship with her current boyfriend. he’s 30, bringing a child into this world but acting like a child himself. i made a great impact on my ex he was proud of me, and told people i changed his live for the better, because he had a dark past. we did still see each other on and of till about 4 months ago, until then he was just dating girls but nothing serious. got a call from my ex the other night at like 10 she asked if i was doing anything and if she could come over. i go i sit what ever i see he is in my mind i could see him everywhere missing his smile question start questioning myself what happened to him? texted him already but he dont reply knowing that he is awake and online. he told me that this came all out of a sudden he meet her en she liked hem and vica versa. if she seems awesome and like the kind of woman you've always wanted to be, you'll feel bad about yourself. ” from tht tina turner song whats love got to do with it . and it seems pretty serious because the guy is always at her house and i know he stays over. some people simply get over their exes in a shorter span of time than others. they fact that she hangouts and has sex with this other guy destroys me but i feel like she’s just trying to replace me.’m going to send the “magic letter” but i’d like your opinion first, please. well eventually down the road i was feeling smothered so i tried to get some distance.. long story short about a week ago she moved out as she said she was confused and need space and said to me that she wanted to be alone the next day i found out this guy was staying there… i done all the opposite to what was need to be done i got angry upset, needy and begging all within a week. to get your ex back after months or years apart. but maybe i do need some tactics now… please help! can talk about the new things you have been doing during no contact. how can he go from ‘come visit me next month’ to ‘hey i replaced you’ within the short amount of only 4 days? contact him after that using one of the methods in this article. she started calling a couple weeks ago to ask random questions or if i’d bring my dog to her pet store. if she is still cold, you know you gave it a try and you can move on without any regrets. message:Knowing that your ex is now seeing someone else can be a painful realization. this article, i’ll lay out some signs that will help you understand the rebound behavior and figure out on your own whether or not they’ve moved on. my former ex thought it was over when no one officially said so she was with a guy for 2 months. seems harder now cause we didn’t just text for a day she called from the blue asking to come over and she seemed kind of happy to see me. don’t think there’s a hidden meaning to it. he would usually start crying and telling me he didn’t want me to let go and make promises of how he’d be better etc. she says she wishes i didn’t do this to the relationship. another is he can make time with her even on weekends, unlike with me before. and i don’t think you should continue contact with him and/or have any high hopes of getting him back. we talked and he said he didn’t planned to get with new girl. and is there anyway or hope that we would get back together? after new year she broke up with me but we came back after 3 days so we didn’t have any time to work on ourselfs. story short, my ex girlfriend dumped me randomly (stopped having sex with me about a month before) so maybe no so randomly. just before i leave to return to uni,I agreed to meet him, however this just ended up involving us going for a walk outside and me shouting at him saying “how could you do this?#2 realize that your ex moving on before you is okay. things that will make your ex want you back (#2 is key). knowing her, i think she is expecting that i’ll reach out to her on her b’day, as i’ve never let anything get in the way of it. he said it would be best if we cut down on the talking and we did until i texted to ask him about money he owed me. texted her how she was doing after her appointment with her terapist bus she said it is tomorrow. i’m confused and i’m sure he is too. i felt like she looked at me like she still hates me and like i said she is in a relationship now from what i can tell. i wonder if the extreme level of intimacy and commitment to her within hours of meeting her fits the ‘rebound relationship’ definition from your article.’m currently at university and so live away from home where my boyfriend is. is it a rebound when your dating close friend you both alrwdy know everything and get along great. childcare is expensive, so we alternate schedules in order for one of us to stay with our daughter. it doesn’t matter if you want to get back together or not. my friends tell me that she is a rebound and i’m confused. my ex sent me messages that he thought about me everyday, and also on that special day. we were together for 4 years and we had an argument which resulted in him saying goodnight and goodbye to me to which i didnt reply, then i get this txt two days later, please help! i’m freaking out and want to just end this. set up a night out with your close friends so you can tell them all about it and then move on. i think i would still be open to give him another chance if his reason of cheating was his family wanted him to dump me and look for another girl who doesn’t have a kid. soon, things will start to get better and you will be able to think more clearly about this whole situation. i did all the things that was written in your no contact period like hang out with friends, have a vacation, spa, focus to something like work and so many. is, i have a lease until the end of the year. theory, your sleuth skills might be enough to let you go unnoticed, if you do deign to check them out. and talking to her best friend is not a good idea. i said before, you should remove her from all your social media. stopped no contact at 30+ days using the magic letter, she texted me and told me that a lot has happened. we went out for bbq for lunch and then went back to his place and we ended up watching a movie. then yesterday i found out that he put my stuff in a empty apartment building in back of my house and that she moved in yesterday and her kids she already painted both rooms yesterday for her kids and then my brother called my ex boyfriend 2 days ago and he told my ex boyfriend either he is with me or not and he said to my brother that i was staking him and that he told me that it was over and that he keep telling me and that and that i am stupid because i can’t get it threw my head and then he said to my brother he moved on and he hopes this relationship works and that he don’t want any drama and he doesn’t want me to show up at the house at all but he told my brother that i am a friend and that he cares about me and what happens to me and that he loves me and he told my brother that he was not happy in the relationship with me and him and then he said that he met the new girlfriend a couple of days after i went on vacation and that he liked her and then he told my brother that i was going to live in the house and she was going to live in the house and my ex boyfriend said that won’t work so he told my brother that i am out and his new girlfriend was in and i am still on vacation at this rate with no house to go home to and he told my brother also that he wanted to end it with me a while back but didn’t know how to because he didn’t want to hurt my feelings and that is why he did it now because i am around family and he wants me to stay with family. she works at a bar, after work she would stay out all night and into the early mornings drinking with her “new” friends, a lot of them guys. if it were to break down between them and she contacted me what would you suggest i do? i’m sure she is in love with him besides the fact that’s how it looks. granted the day after she work the breakup email she texted me “i didn’t mean to hurt you. we don’t hang in the same social circles so i have no clue? i don’t know how long but i know at least it has been 2 months maybe three that they been more then friends. you can’t expect your ex to be stuck on you even when you’re no longer on speaking terms! you can try the 5 step plan, but your chances are less. that girl turned out to be his little sister’s best friend that she’s known since 2nd grade. i somehow pulled it back but she wasn’t as the same as she used to be(i asked her to start detaching from me like 2 weeks ago but never thought she would do it, which i think is the first mistake i have done). there is no way of knowing what was going on in her mind when she was in the relationship with you unless you invent a time machine, get a mad brain scientist, go back in time and get the scientist to analyze her thoughts and behavior. i heard through mutual friends that she already had dinner with his family ( something we never did together) . so far i dont think her new reltation is a rebound reltn. he is a dark person as well, just like me. then at some point i was talking to him about moving in with one of my friends if she happens to get a house and that was when he proposed that we move in together and i asked him if he was sure he would want that and he said i think we should set up a separate bed in case, but i don’t think it will be a bad thing. i don’t think you should hold it against him the way he handled the breakup and what he did after the breakup. that your ex is now seeing someone else can be a painful realization.
Ladies, how do you cope when your ex starts dating someone new
what to do when your ex is dating someone new