This man is dating someone even though he is married he's my good time and i set him to building projects and other things i need when i can. i am afraid i am starting to get clingy, but i try to just remember he already chose his priority. top 5 reasons you can't find a man (that your friends are too afraid to tell you)by josephine2. 3 months ago how about not committing adultery and just staying away from married man altogether? thank you to everyone sharing their stories too, they make me feel less lonely :) time to start loving my single life again! we are supposed to have a serious conversation after that incident but i'm afraid she will reject me on that day. he lied to you in the beginning about whether or not he was married, you should seriously consider whether or not you can trust him. many men do you know who are ruining their lives because of a woman? i disappeared from my bridal party at the restaurant and we went into his car and down the street and he was all over me. because i am planning to tell her the truth, that i am married. told him in the last week that i need to start seeing other people now, and he is really against this. because he lives and works in another location from me i think our co-workers just leave it alone.. all of those old feelings came back i could read them so well in the way he looked at me. why am i ok with anyone treating me this way? but when he call and looking for me i just forget everything. in fact he says that he stayed in the relationship to make sure his kids had a balanced life. during the conversations we had he would tell me about his previous affairs and how we was a manwhore and he had left his wife once got bored of the girl and went back home. he hasn’t been sexually active with her since we crossed the line. eventually, she opened her eyes to reality and was angry and regretful. first it was just friendship and i was going after him even thought i didn't know he was married with kids but once he told me i still went after him thinking i wasn't going to catch feelings since he reassure me that besides having sex nothing else was going to happen. i've been friends for years with an old co-worker who is now married with 3 children. after a while he would tell me that he loves me that i make him feel like any other girl had made him feel. to break of the relationship/friendship i migrated again in 2011 and is now living and working in new york. his wife is very nice and sweet lady married to him since she was 18 years old. many women who have very loving and fun relationships as you have find that when the guy leaves his wife, things change, and all the good they were enjoying is gone. darleen's guy informed her that his wife had been bugging him for years to have another baby, and he finally gave in. still calling and trying to come over to see me. i was ok with that, but by the second date he was a little more forward. i couldnt think why did i so stupid that time, the things happen so fast. he seems content to let the relationship go on for years as it is, you should see that he is using you for some fun on the side. i hope she comes out of this as wise as you have. there i looked on his sister's page, which at the time i thought was his sister. i became very sick and he saved my life by getting me to a hospital. nothing was different except that because i contacted him he thought i had forgiven and should be ok with it. i knew he had a deceased sister he always used to tell me about and i remember him telling me he did not have a facebook. i took another job (not because of him) and now we no longer work together so don’t have the opportunity to see each other. for extramarital affairs: make it worth your timeask yourself this question: "what am i getting out of dating a married man? i migrated to canada for school in 2007 with my boyfriend with the hope of committing to marriage and a new life. is a really good person and sometimes i feel guilty about convincing him into this affair because i know it bothers him so much. i ignored the fact that he was 36 and i was 28, which he told me he was 30 when we first met, guess he was just looking for some young girl to fulfill the need his older wife couldn't provide for him. now, how many women do you know who have sacrificed all for a man? it really hurts and it is so frustrating because i feel like he is living the best life although he tells me it's not because he feels he is constantly walking on egg shells in case he gets busted. nvr lies to me, hz honest abt him n hz wife he does tell wn thy are in gud buks n not. 3 months ago i was cheated on by my husband (now ex) and it is devastating. i lost all contact and thought i'd never see him again. 4 months ago i met a man online last year and we became good friends, or so i thought. every time i return home on vacation he finds me and we fall back into our old habits. the worst thing has happen, my family know the story and even his wife know it. one of the things that often destroys women in your situation is the shock of suddenly being dumped because of something that is happening in his marriage, or because of stress that you are causing him at home.
When someone married says he loves me, yet he has no intention of i thank god i found out about his marriage and i never slept with him but i can't lie i do think about him from time to time. not a day goes by i don't hear from him. all i know is that if only i could kiss him, god. everything's was going good but i was the one who caught feelings first and i was in pain for so long but since he would always say "you have to be realistic and nothing else is going to happen between us" i got i guess over it. statistics have revealed that children who are born to single mom's do not do as well in life, suffer from depression, and overall are not living in a very positive, family, environment. 20 months ago thanx for all your comments they really helped me. she told me that we will be having that conversation over coffee (not dinner). because i want her to experience me, my love and passion. he's not giving up everything for you, so you shouldn't give up everything for him either. 8years later i randomly find him online super bowl sunday. i found out that he was married with 3 children i was shocked. talked from 10pm to 4am the other night over video and on the phone, but kept thinking she maybe at work. 4 months ago am in love with a married man, he told from the beginning that he was married by default and as their culture he has to stay with the wife and the kids and he is allowed to marry a second wife of which he has proposed countless times but i always turn him down, he more willing to take me to his parents but i am scared, his best friend knows about us and his cousin also knows about, his wife contacted me sometimes back after she saw my text on his phone but i didn't respond, he helped me move out and start a new life he supports me fully finacialy buys me expensive staff take me out for lunch twice a week and we go clubbing every weekend and he spents the weekend at my place, we go shopping together,kisses me in public,holds my hands in public we take a lot of pictures with his phone and he never delete, when i try to leave him he becomes crazy he can even drive to my place upto 2am just to say he is sorry, he doesn't like me going to clubs with my friends he will show up if i do, he gives me full access of his phone, the problem is he is still intimate with his wife and he is honest about it and he also want to get me pregnant. if you were with a man who you were not having sex with and who you did not love, and you had this man on the side who you truly did love and had a great connection with, would you be content to go home to the man you did not really want, knowing that your lover is single and could easily find someone who is available for him full time?.but got marriage conselour she got very depressed and got aadited at the hospital but they tolerate each other he has a daugther but she is by her own. he tells me his loves me, he constantly tells me he will leave his wife but then exactly like the story doesn't end up leaving due to the kids. recently i got to know that his wife has just given birth to their third child. it is something we have discussed in the past and he agreed to prior but never came to fuition and i want to try again. truth is, a guy will string you along as long as you will let him. i met him in college and we are planning to spend the rest of our life together. we are both from one of the most beautiful islands in the caribbean. does this mean he had emotionally attracted to me and love my company even after i have deliberately ruined his family?? that's s a long time to just suddenly no longer have that person you care to no longer be there. he keep telling me that doing sex not a sin if you really love each other. pursued me at work, and i did not know he was married, but he did tell me on our first date. of the first things to consider is this: did he tell you he was married from the beginning or did he lie to you and then have to tell the truth? i'm guessing that she likes me too because i did get kissed back that night or was she just too polite to reject me outright? i know how difficult it can be to do the right thing. really want to bust him i'm sure he will replace all of us but still . 4 months ago i am a married woman with an arranged marriage years ago. we aretogether more often than before with this love affair progresses ." she was too blindly in love to get it, so she assured him of her undying love. but then i looked a little deeper and found out it was actually his wife. her married boyfriend said to her, "you love me now, but one day you will hate me.. even though like them all he says he's not happy he's still married. i knew upfront they were together, i know nothing will come out of the relationship and had no expectations around that, but i can’t seem to give him up. you are not getting anything out of the relationship and therefore its not worth your time. embarrassing as it is there was a time i prayed for his marriage to fail.. we talk everyday like friends and when we see each other were,sleeping together. 5 months ago give this advice to other by thinking of your own husband or even your dad. it's up to you to look out for yourself and avoid being taken advantage of. i have prayed and ask for the strength to move on with my life as i know he is a good person and i believe he has a good marriage. but if he is, you have truly just shot yourself in the foot because you have given up a piece of yourself for a someone who belongs to another. yet they wonder why divorce rate is highest in the us. all i wanted was to kiss those lips and that's all. 4 months ago didnt know where to begin,maybe i shouldn't. he would tell me that "my family is not like yours so i don't want you to meet them just yet", or when i would ask why we wouldn't go to his place he would say things pertaining to him basically being ashamed of where he lived. now i'm 19 and he is 21 he didn't lie to me he told me right away that he was in a bad marriage that's depressing him, but he can't leave because his wife doesn't have a job and he has an 8 month old daughter. now you may be experiencing the best of the best, but when you are living in the real world together, things will change.