My ex is dating someone else what can i do

My ex is dating someone else what can i do

i try no contact anyways and see where it goes? so, now i want you to tell me, how to get her back. i don’t think you were a rebound since he took 6 months after his last relationship to begin a relationship with you. i am just afraid that it will turn out just like me former ex before my current one i am talking about. i cried but i didn’t believe him when he said that, but i thoguht he was saying these things becuase he was feeling hurt. he kept all my friends and family as his facebook friends and only deleted me once he was sure i saw his new relationship status. like the no contact rule is going to screw me over here, more i don’t say anything more she going to be liking the new guy a lot more then me. one article you say time place a big role people who were together six months or under don’t fare well compared to people with a year or more. i have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for the past 3 and a half years and we broke up because he stole from me i then took up the opputinty to work on a ship and when for it 10 month at sea i still love my ex while being a sea i missed him lots. she doesn’t feel as empty as she was before. and after we spoke about that, he flirted with me and he even held my hand, examining it. what are my next moves, i can’t find that anywhere, please help 🙁. you decide how much time of your life are you willing to waste on someone. i feel confused and dont know what to do right now. after we broke up i basically did everything you shouldn’t do, i texted him and called him many many times for about a month until i finally realized that i needed to cut off contact and i deleted him off of all social media and stopped contacting him at all. i and my ex broke up couple of weeks ago and i still don’t know the reason for that. all but mainly kevin,I recently ran into my ex and it was extremely awkward and now i’m wondering if e was interested and is waiting for me to initiate contact the way i’ve always done?.but then i did not know what kind of texts to send. i really feel like i have been the loyal loving person to him that i can be. the last time we saw each other he told me not to cry or beg keep repeating it. and if she’s found a way to be happy (i am not saying she is), then it’s her right. the fact that he managed to ‘fall in love’ with this woman who doesn’t even speak english and wants to marry her and buy a house with her hours after meeting her seems, frankly, insane. let him realize that there’s a good chance he will lose you forever. time can tell 🙁 i never controlled him or get in a way of what he likes to do. literally 2 weeks of being broken up and he pulls this. she is not one to live her life over facebook so i found this odd. i am now back to the nc rule, but what are my chances? or wouldn’t she be comparing what they had when more then friends and what we had. your happy with each other so all is left is the sex am i wrong? i replied nicely to it as i was happily getting my closure and felt in a good place to be ok to contact him back and say he needs to talk to her. other than that, what he said doesn’t mean much. he picked me up in the clothes he wore to clinic (he’s a med student) which was dress pants, a dress shirt and bow tie. make sure you read the checklist at the beginning of step 4 in the 5 step plan before ending no contact. why was she in love with me for three years if we never had a connection? how can i gain the respect and treatment that i deserve. broke up and he started dating his co worker, after 3days of the break up. i can’t do and give her the materiel things she likes that he can like tattoos. after that, if you still want him back, get in touch with him. i’d suggest you do wait at least one month. i am looking forward to him coming back already, but i am afraid he will do something impulsive again. may like him because hes exciting but the glamour wears off. if he is cold, then you should start no contact again. we got back from europe and he travelled to a wedding in atlanta. she said she hadn’t and wouldn’t until she felt better. and during my no contact period my ex was also happy and enjoying with his friends and with the new girl ive heard he’s dating based on his posted pictures on fb. she came over i remember her saying that he would yell cause he was stressed and he called her psysopath. i know he’s seeing a woman he met -and rejected when we were together, he minimized it and asked me to not tell him if i’m dating. we talked and he said he didn’t planned to get with new girl. this time i am going for the next no contact period. her best friend (girl) who is also a friend of mine and she told me that it is probably not true that she likes her other ex. is your ex for a reason, and for that reason or any other, you two are not compatible, at least not at this point in time. real and i don’t think he will divorce her even i would not want him to due t religious reason. the other end of the spectrum, there are exes who will try to hide their new relationship from you. meant it in a general sense because the article says 2-3 months then it’s probably not rebound. the following day he began to act distant yet again, saying things we moving too fast. i see she never loved me i was never going to be as good as him. reason that i could think of was when we found out that the hospital abroad wanted me to work for them for 2 years. the past 3 months, i have definitely been guilty of making all the ‘mistakes’ you mention in your article. i have since started counselling and am now on medication for depression. i helped him finically and got him out a loan. i had just sent an apology letter realizing what i had done wrong, but other than that had gone/been quiet. forgot that she had mentioned that it’s crazy how next month would have been a year since we started. i couldn’t believe it and i made a lot of the mistakes you talked about like calling her all the time and begging and stuff. ” from tht tina turner song whats love got to do with it . deep questions to ask your boyfriend tonight that will immediately bring you two closer. feel like i have failed in both mine and your life and that i could have done better but at least i tried the best i could while under the influence of other people. i assumed that he was going to take me home before we went out with them but he asked me to go with him and apparently he had already told his friends that he was with me. at one point she said that this guy is kind of a looser but he makes her happy and wants to give him a chance.’m going to send the “magic letter” but i’d like your opinion first, please. plus all the the signs that your ex is suppose to show to determine if they are or not in rebound. figure out exactly what you want and when you contact him again, let him know what you need and expect. i haven’t said anything to him since the break up. has sent me a txt like this before and we have got back together. it sucks to be painted in negative light by everyone in her life because they only knew one side and that they would tell her to bail he not good enough or he just the same as all the rest. my question is … do you think i can get my ex back ? i think he is gonna send me a card or something. feel like getting back together, albeit in a different sense where we both stand on our own feet. she ended up choosing the other dude to see where it would go. but i don’t know if that approach is going to work. at the same time though, we were so “connected” and open in communication and didn’t hold secrets from each other while we were in a relationship. she told you not to stop texting her, let her know that you need some space before starting contact. change it up & be a little mysterious… good or bad ideas? or do i still have a chance given the history we have? so he called me, broke up with me and then wouldn’t talk to me for a while. on the other hand, if their relationship has been going on for over a year, then you can safely assume that the relationship is serious for them and it’s probably not a rebound. he saw me from a distance, and made the effort to not only wave, but to come up to me. are a lot of articles written out there about positives of “rebounds” how they are actually proven to be better for you and that they are not rebounds they are just new better relationships. she called at two weeks to say she doesn’t think we should talk for awhile. my ex and i were together for about 6-7 months when we broke up because i was going back to school 12 hours away and he didn’t want to do a long distance relationship. if you are looking for closure, you should apply no contact indefinitely. the fact she might compromise in a conventional relationship-can she? the truth is, you can never know 100% if your ex has truly moved on or you still have a shot with them. how much time limit you give to yourself is completely up to you.. then have another meetup and be straight with each other about the whole thing. he chose to stop talking to me, but said that he’ll only be talking to me when she’s not there. so long story short me and my ex for 2 years broke up 3 weeks ago after valentines day. i did happen to see her at the gym couple days ago but i didn’t talk to her or look at or anything just saw her and tried to mind my business, been really trying to get good workouts in, take my frustrations out on weights. by coincidence i ended up bumping into her the day the day after i found out and she told me they have been talking since november my daughter was born nov 3 :=)so yeah…now hes denying everything hes told me about loving me stiil being an asshole and im just a mess…is he really gunna be with this girl i mean hey there relationship is about to make a year along with my daughter. i was shocked because he doesn’t call me a princess. i decided to let him be a child bitter and petty and move on and be happy, then realised he has my passport and i go away in a few weeks! people go into a rebound deliberately and choose someone completely incompatible with them because they know it’s a rebound. hardest thing i’ve ever had to deal with in my 30 years of life, without a doubt..i thought he was coming back around because of his words to me lately ( i miss you- not over you, etc) and our time apart. was shocked, and all my friends and family were really shocked too. i ran into him at a bar, he was with friends, didn’t see his new girl with him at all. there’s a good chance she will go through the wedding. if she goes into a relationship with her ex, then it’s probably not a rebound. till that evening when she called and woke me up at 11:30 pm and was on the phone for 40 minutes. however selfish it may sound, the only time you should reach out to your ex is when your life could not be better. based on his previous response, i know it’s best to keep my distance, but maybe we can just be friends since i know he makes for a better friend. can’t say for sure if he’ll come back. all you know that she is not a very understanding person, since she is not accepting your explanation for whatever happened. and after i started to see my current ex my old one was always saying she missed me and was sorry and other things. even if he ignores it, it’s probably because he needs more space and time and you should give it to him instead of forcing the friendship on him. i can hope is that it doesnt work out for obvious reasons im bitter. the last year, things had been hard and unhappy in the relationship (particularly caused by financial issues). i have called him and told him everything i know and i have asked him not to contact me when he gets back.” granted the month before she had picked out her engagement ring and was talking about it all the time. then i saw her a few days after i had seen her parents. even though it’s making me nuts i haven’t contacted him to ask if he’s seeing someone else. confusing fact, is that she still has me on her social media as “important life event”, despite the fact she s living and possibly is together with her x husband. so i went 30 days nc, she contacted me once, and after a month and something i sent her a message about a tv series we watched together and i said “hope you’re fine” she replied just “yes i am. we kept it secret because we thought that if her parents found out they would be constantly watching us and would make it very difficult. you contact your ex after the 30 day nc even if they’re still in that rebound relationship? she still can’t let go of the empty feeling when she is alone. it’s as if he never truly listens or care about how i feel,March 26, 2014, 1:36 pm. the more you try to find the truth from him, the more confused you’ll become. another is he can make time with her even on weekends, unlike with me before. see the thing is aftr the break up i bought her roses it didnt work she just wanted space so i jus didnt see her but we still communicated via text. she doesn’t take much caution hiding it, she just doesn’t talk about it. the last 3 months i wasn’t happy neither was she we had problems with her 3 older kids and i didn’t know how to handle it and neither did she at the time i was verbally abusive to her and her kids we got into a huge fight. she was really nice to me and i really love her a lot(i think i love her more than i loved anyone else). are common responses when ur ex appears to be withholding their new relationship when secretly wanting to get back together. i’m no psychologist but after coming out of a long term relationship and hurtful breakup with someone with npd, he seems to show a lot of the traits. just get back in touch and let it be his idea to get back together. we said we should take a break to miss each other for some time, we missed each other soo much after 3 days, but we said that we can’t do this for next month, so we broke up saying we should stay only best friends. i thought we did have good connection she seemed happy but not really sure now but that don’t really mean anything anymore at this point. we broke up about 2months ago over an argument she knew she was at fault for but still continued to sleep with each other and have family days etc even though we weren’t living together. could i make sure we both want the same things when he just may be in a phase? earlier this month he posted on his tumblr reminiscing about our relationship. was just a week ago when i stopped txting him because i realized it won’t do any good.’m going to send the “magic letter” but i’d like your opinion first, please. of the most common indicators of this behavior is their social media profile (facebook, twitter etc. i began to want a way out when i found out he was hanging out with a girl behind my back, but nothing sexual happening, he said he just didnt want me to know…. we went out to watch a movie and while waiting for the movie to start i told her of what i thought was a funny story of my nieces asking for her. breakup was random and blindsiding, occurring on her birthday after i took her out for dinner. i feel like my ex has second thoughts about us getting together he says there is still hope but i feel like there isn’t anymore, he dropped a bomb on me couple of days ago telling his best friend that he loved her, and she told him that she loved him back yet they can only be friends right now because she likes someone else, this is while i was trying to get back with him and he knew that i loved him. also, his gf is straight up attacking me online while trying to be passive about it. but he broke up saying i’m his soulmate and he still hopes we’ll end up together. came home last night and had a good talk with her. about maybe 3 or 4 months ago she text me randomly saying she misses what we had but i found out a month ago that she is engaged and now she is married and i never knew about it only cause i saw her facebook saying she was engaged and now it says married. like i don’t think she lives around here or work around here anymore. and as i said earlier, social media is not an accurate reflection of relationship., this hasn’t stopped him from pursuing this woman down in cuba. on the other hand, if you are not already friends with your ex’s new fling, absolutely do not friend her! made things worse for me is that i saw him, two his colleagues and the girl in our own hometown. can find all of my amazing tips and advice here : https://www. when i had suggested getting together to catch up and she said it wasn’t a good idea yet i told her no problem don’t be shy to suggest it sometime. the only difference is that different people deal with this grief differently. she basically had the same profile pic up when i meet her until i said something for 2 years. i do know she has got some things going on but i have the feeling that maybe i should just leave her alone because she will not want to try again.” and when someone asks if you’ve heard about his new girlfriend you should shrug it off. we tried to talk a couple times after that and it was a mess. if she decides to go with her ex husband, then you’ll have to suck it up and accept it. the thing is, my boyfriend and i haven’t officially broken up in the sense of verbally confirming it, however after numerous arguments over the telephone and him continuously hanging to the telephone on me, i decided to block contact with him and not allow text/ phone call communication. he gave me a ring n i three it away and he is over upset about it as well. he even took her to dinner and lied about it while we were together but begged me for forgiveness and was more in love with me after that than i had ever seen. i wonder if the extreme level of intimacy and commitment to her within hours of meeting her fits the ‘rebound relationship’ definition from your article. i had just returned from a month long trip – something she had fair notice of and was okay with – and we had an anniversary. she said that she was unhappy with us, had been for 3 months and didn’t want to be with me. about 6 months into our relationship he breaks up with me to be with another girl. my ex broke up with me six weeks ago, because he got scared of how committed our relationship was. she is cold towards you, you should do no contact for a while and let her initial honeymoon period get over. and what if the ex has read another website or talked to friends with a different set of such strategies. he and i never even had a profile picture today and we were supposedly in love. we talk she tells me she misses me an she doesn’t want to get back right now i just wanna know if she’s in a rebound or what cuz it’s hurting me inside an i wanna move on. she wanted no contact but yet inclined to contact me regarding a collaborative project. he is a dark person as well, just like me. i graduate in two months… had the ring custom made from jeweler out of colorado, and planned on asking her to marry me in september/october of this year. he would usually start crying and telling me he didn’t want me to let go and make promises of how he’d be better etc. im so crushed i miss her so much i truly love her w all my heart and would b different if i had another chance. however, he said if you were “in love” then i should have never let it go. she haven’t told me about her new guy yet … i just want to play it calm and cool no matter what. was always expressing distrust and insecurity over the situation he had with her, which i guess made me unattractive and i am regretting it now. he actually texted me right after i posted that, just asking about a music festival i went to last weekend. there is no way of knowing what was going on in her mind when she was in the relationship with you unless you invent a time machine, get a mad brain scientist, go back in time and get the scientist to analyze her thoughts and behavior. can’t say if she will decide to be friends with him if they broke up. we did everything together traveled the world for years at a time and i thought we were so unstoppable. wife started a new job 1 year ago and all was good as she said she found her dream job as time progressed she was always talking to me about a guy at work that she found really interesting but i let it go as she seemed pretty happy still with me… during this time i found a new job and had to do nightshift and she said she was not happy with the night shift but accepted it as i was think about our future and try to get ahead in life due to our finical difficulties. she has gotten a lot more tattoos recently and one she posted saying it was from her babe. heard that his gf is bad mouthing him on facebook, posting a status “if you cant love me etc” and inserting his picture down below. even a month after we made love for the last time., not like the essays you used to write in high school. while others are not able to get out of the grief and their minds become obsessed with their ex. i resisted the urge to stop walking and be approachable so i pretended to be talking to someone on my mobile phone and ignored him as i kept walking. it might satisfy your curiosity, but it won’t necessarily give you closure. i met her a day before we broke up and she said “i miss you so much” and hugged me hugely. didn’t have any pictures of his ex on his screen saver, and he told me he was over her but he still had pictures of his ex in laws which i found weird and made me think that he wasn’t over that relationship. she told me she never loved him her dad said he was no good and they always broke up. it made me feel bad because he didn’t tell me anything about the vacation, and he said money was a big problem to him that time during the first time i asked what his problem was. when i confronted her about it she proceeded to attempt to call me 7 times . yesterday she tried contacting me several times again and i didn’t reply. does that mean he has already started seeing someone else? think he felt suffocated and wasn’t ready for a relationship, and therefore doesn’t (or felt like) want to have kids with me. but i had to end it because during the later part of our relationship, he became very neglectful, kept secrets, sexting his exes. if he got married, you should cut all contact with him and move on. they don’t want you to start dating someone else because they are not over you and are hoping you will wait for them to come back. from someone you said to my face was like a brother to now saying ” i got a good one” with happy faces to ” i love you” with hearts a smiles. few posts here and there nothing related to her new relationship. intimately close to someone gives us a feeling of security and a boost to our self-esteem. i thought it would be a good idea if i sent the letter so it arrives after her b’day & a separate postcard with a simple b’day greeting. i know she still loves me, i just know it. or is it more likely she will just remain being same sad and confused. she is complete different than me… the opposite in all possible ways. so, i want to get this out of the way. i am currently going through a very strange ‘break up’ with my fiance of 4 years and there are some unique issues in our situation that are not really covered in your articles. she also had an ex of 5 years before me that she jumped from him immediately to me. i miss just texting you funny pics and you sending me funny videos (he giggled), and when we broke up a month ago, i was thinking about things, and i wasn’t upset about losing the relationship, i just didn’t want the friendship to end. he is a very needy guy and very jealous guy. she dated this guy alex for two years before me. will get much better once you move out and start no contact.

My ex is dating someone else what should i do

tried asking him to lunch or whatever after that, but he kept saying no. i have invested so much of my time in this relationship. granted the day after she work the breakup email she texted me “i didn’t mean to hurt you. i was so curious if he already has a relationship with the girl, and i had the chance to catch them on a double date with the two other colleagues. he hasn’t posted anything on facebook other than the relationship status change in a few weeks. all of this was just as blindsiding as the breakup. think she is exhibiting some of the signs and she definitely still has feelings for you. don’t have to wait for it to be over. i just want to know if this is a rebound. if you can’t seem to do it by yourself, you should seek professional help. called me one night in january almost in tears telling me about the new girl and how she hasn’t talked to him in a day because they got into an argument. rebound relationship is simply an attempt to fill a hole in your life that was left by an ex. she might olny see him 2 times in a whole months. told me that he remembered all the nice places we used to go like pancake houses and coffee bars. they fact that she hangouts and has sex with this other guy destroys me but i feel like she’s just trying to replace me. tyne, the first thing i’ll recommend you do is tell him you need some space and time and start no contact. i have a feeling he started seeing her while he was still talking/flirting with me because he was very reluctant to tell me that he was in relationship. also do you think she will go in a relationship with her other ex for a rebound or a permenant relationship? likely do you think the rebound of your ex and another will last if it started all within a week of them talking to each other? its been almost 3 months since we broke up and i am doing the no contact…. sent him a lengthy email saying i was sorry i messed up and that i hurt him, and that after we broke up i had done a lot of self-evaluation and i was sorry that i was so selfish and that i took him for granted. to the point where my ex said i was pushing him towards her cause i caused him stress and she didn’t. are 3 months into this mess, and while a part of me wants to think this is a temporary thing i need to just let him do and wait out, another part of me feels like i need to win him back quickly before he runs off for good. he didn’t contact me either, and i noticed that after the incident, he kept creating shout outs online that he’s happy and in love (without referring to any girl in particular) and the girl would give comments that weren’t too obvious that they’re already an item. i have heard she has been getting a lot of tattoos from him recently. because you were important to her and it’s hard to get over a relationship especially if you are in a rebound. you need to find a way to deal with your own grief and i don’t think obsessing over her relationship and her happiness is a good way to do so. he told me that he had started speaking to another girl from stupid facebook… so of course, i made sure to back off and leave him to it. also there are a lot of articles written about how your best friend is the perfect one for you and the popularity of girls ending up dating their best friends and it being the best thing they ever had, also things on how they are the perfect ones for you all this time but you only recognize it after so many years. since then i have found out that he started seeing her before we split (she didn’t know) and he has promised her the world, while also seeing me and telling me i was his soulmate.’m thinking that there is not hope getting her back? if she has been consistently cold, then i’ll recommend you do no contact for another 2-3 months. after she calls me out of blue and ask to come over and then does not talk to me two days after. the best you can do is give it a try. even if he does come back, he might hurt you again. your man dumped you, this is what you have to do. however, i’ve recently discovered that there most certainly is someone else in her life. we were tight as a couple, never fought once, same interests etc, the usual but we got strained through his work and i thought a break would be good. he was very good and supportive for a month, after which his efforts started lacking and would refuse to answer my questions. i saw him almost two weeks ago and because i’m sure he deleted my number and i his our form of contact would be facebook but i deactivated mine long ago so that i wouldn’t be tempted to talk to him. my ex emailed me the other day saying he’s trapped and his new fiancé is pregnant and she’s screwed him over and he hates his job and asking for help from the people he emailed. he will continue playing with your emotions and keep dragging you along if you let him. keep in touch with her for a few weeks before asking her out again. and if she doesn’t break up by the end of that time limit, you give her an ultimatum.! the night that i knocked round his house and he wouldn’t let me in because he had her upstairs. i broke every rule in the book, and look like a needy slop-tart. i took a girl out but never slept with this person. i met with her parents to talk about us after i found out and they were shocked to learn she was still seeing me. i guess the best course of action is to stay no contact and wait for him to contact you.. but have instituted a nc rule for myself to get over him. but it’s still significant if you two had a good connection. i was trying to figure out what was going and realize why my bf was tired. regardless of how happy your ex may seem to be, what you should realize is that the two of had a level of intimacy together that the new relationship still hasn't achieved. for what to do, you should just apply no contact, at least for 60 days. and you will never find her unless you learn to stop obsessing over. if she is still cold, you know you gave it a try and you can move on without any regrets. but it turned out that he moved from la and found a job in ny where i live when we both graduated. we both were working things out to be 100% for the relationship. why did she care how i learned about her engagement? hasn’t thrown it in my face and has been (apart from a little moody) ok and not tried to make me feel worse than i already do. he broke it off because he “fell out of love” with me. i just stared at him and the girl and didn’t make a scandal or confrontation. you for for your blog as i’m in a desperate situation as this has been going on for six months and i don’t know what to do. i think the best thing you can do right now is start no contact. you want to know if the no contact rule work, you might be interested in checking out preventing a breakup to see where you went wrong in saving your relationship. i’m sure it was only about couple months maybe before their friendship went more then that. more importantly, she went into the relationship too fast and never really got the time to get over you. he displayed all the signs ti want me back but i was aloof. and i am just wondering if he still loves me and has feelings for me and misses me? i even went to his house and waited for him. this has included talking about what we didn’t like about the relationship and things that hurt us that we never talked about before. he is a very honest person and said he started having feelings for someone else, but that he still loved me but it seemed like it was no longer “in love”, but then he explains that it’s possible to love to people and describes are love as a garden with many plants and what he feels for this new girl as a single planted seed. (there are a ton more details but i’m leaving them out for the purpose of not making this too long). about a week ago i saw a text from a guy on my gf’s phone and got disappointed that she was planning to hangout with him and when i asked to see all her other texts between them she said she deleted them because it would’ve made her feel uncomfortable if i saw it. i went back home for christmas and we spent a night together. she looks kind of similar to me, have the same similar personality, and they have been doing the same things that what we did. was this meant to happen was i just the last person she wasted time on before realizing she loves her friend more then a just a friend as someone she could have life with. foolishly, i contacted her a number of times over the course of the next 2 months. am just trying to figure out it it is worth to keep trying if after couple weeks of nc and i don’t get any response from her just to do another couple weeks of nc for the same effect of no association at all. all of their friends are pretty much throwing a parade for them online, and it’s killing me. i’m confused though because lately when talking about our daughter she has increased the length of our conversations by far. like i said they are the same exact person with everything. he wanted us to stay friends, but i told him that i needed time to work through the breakup before i could consider that.’s probably a rebound, even if he met her while you were together. i asked him if he still often goes to these places and he said “noo, its hard for me to go to these places with my new lover, because we (he and i) always went there”. if your decision is based on what are your chances if she doesn’t reply, then i’ll say you still have a chance and you should try again after a couple of weeks (preferably a month). i mostly recommend people to follow the 5 step plan once and if it doesn’t work move on. someone important can be one of the hardest things to deal with. i will recommend you unfriend her and stay complete no contact for a while. i thought everything was okay from here and that he had a moment of uncertainly due to the way i made him feel during our 3 month break. i’m in love with this guy and i don’t know what to do, the best thing is to move on but i love him too much to move on, he still asks me who i hang out with, and if i hanging out with guys, we’ve been together for 4 months and i need some great advice, please help me i’m in desperate need of help i don’t want to loose him and i feel like each day passes i’m loosing him! your ex will try to win you back based on their zodiac sign. it seems the guy was the reason your ex left you. i told her it wasn’t easy for me either. why would you want to be like your ex’s new girl when being you is so much more fun? he finally contacted me about giving me my stuff back and he looked so miserable. she tells me not to wait for her and she wants to continue seeing this hindsight i shouldn’t ever have responded to her and have been in no-contact for about a month now, even though she’s snapchatted me in that time (i didn’t respond). i know every situation is different based on the individual, do you think it is better to keep trying to actively rekindle the relationship, or should i purposefully create space by restricting our contact, communication and the things i do for him?) i already assume she has been completely over me for long time. do you think he will still care or think about me or should i stop worrying and move on?) and she still engages on my instagram with no communication outside of those “likes”. after i read this i kind of did my own thing, but we ended up seeing each other when i came home for winter break and i was under the impression that we were just going to hang out as friends since that seemed to be what he wanted at the time. the more you focus on their new relationship, the more misery and pain you will create for yourself. i’ve now binned his and as he’s so desperate to cling to mine, he can keep them. if it doesn’t, then you know it’s over for sure. she just wanted to do the exchange and leave, but she did mention the dating profile that i had re-activated. and if she did end up being single what reason would she even contact me not saying to get together or anything like that but just in general. i didn’t call her to talk or anything, just asked what was wrong, but got no response. she basically wanted a level of commitment i wasn’t comfortable giving at the time, i thought i wasn’t ready. please advise because it would be a turning point for me. day 8 nothing so called and left voicemail saying i’m binning your bits but still want mine. do yourself and your sanity a favor and unfollow your ex and his girlfriend on any social media channel. like this happend few times before in the past,but in day or two everything was okay. right now, your mental well being should be your top priority. i think you should apply nc even with his texts (it’ll most likely have him thinking, especially if he regularly texts you “good morning” or “good night”). in other words, it feels as if i am changing his mind and heart about me and our relationship. especially when you have a long time apart and she is already completely past and over you. you need to stop trying to rescue the “damsel in distress” and find someone who is happy and who can make you happy. i really thought she loved me, you shouldv’e seen the intensity she displayed many times in our arguments. my friend asked him if he’d ever consider getting back with me he said “i don’t want to say no, just because of all the good memories we’ve had together. i did not try to get him to explain anything yet and he has not texted me back. even though it puzzles me a great deal when we made grand plans for a life together, have kids etc. i kept crying begging everything that he did when i left him. just broke up with my boyfriend of one year last night.. they want to take their new relationship slow and don’t want you to bother them. i just found out from him today that he’s seeing someone and was really surprised as i still think it’s so soon considering how serious our relationship was. i followed the no contact rule for over 30 days from which time she had tried to get in contact with me through fb. after we broke up, he found a girl and proposed to her with rings. seems harder now cause we didn’t just text for a day she called from the blue asking to come over and she seemed kind of happy to see me. he told me yesterday, that he could really use my help since he decided to see a psychologist now and work on this pathologic behavior and he claims he still loves me. a few years ago, if you asked jane whether or not she would move this much fast in a relationship, she would’ve called you crazy. but can i ask what should i do now knowing that he is into someone this new girl. thought it was because of his friends,they don’t have girlfriends and because he is unemployed and kinda stressed because of that. when i met him i was actually in a serious relationship (2. said at one point that when she happen to run into me earlier in month she wanted to say she misses me but i ignored her and that she thought i hated her so that why she ignored me at gym. she said she was wrong for emailing me when she broke things off but i was wrong for the things i said afterward. he changed his status to single write away on facebook. i met him two years ago when they were separated and he was just out sleeping around at the time. am sorry…i was wondering, do you think i should lose all hope on this? we started talking very briefly via texts a month ago and she’d respond to my texts but never initiated. of course, the fighting got worse because i wasn’t getting the answers i wanted and she wasn’t getting the answers she needed either. im now gonna apply the no contact rule, but is this a rebound. ( again not saying that there is any chance in heck that we will ever be anything ever again nor let alone if she ever will talk to me. i was the one who broke up with her and she took the break up very very hard and was emotionally devastated. she started calling a couple weeks ago to ask random questions or if i’d bring my dog to her pet store. 2 weeks passes without contact n out of the blues he texted me asking how i am and such, i tried playing cool and waited hours before replying to his simple messages but i now messed up. i didn’t get upset or show jealousy just told her ok and to remember if she needs an ear i’m here for her. to sum everything up, we have been on and off for about 2 years and during that rocky point of our relationship, i made the biggest mistake of my life.’s the fact that why did she lie multiple times to me let alone to my face about things.. keep telling yourself the relationship didn’t mean anything to her and you were just a plaything for her. he said he needs time, so you should give it to him. we live in different states (me northwest she ‘s in the east) and fell in love – the first real love we both had. so i decided to try and win him back, which he was aware of and allowed..And i remembered what my ex told me that he would give his resignation letter and he wont see her anymore. unfortunately for him, i’d binned all his stuff having given him months to collect and contacted him many times and then said i’d bin them. girl and i split after 6yrs on and off, we lived together for about a year but her jealousy pushed me to leave, so we get back together again and we carry on our reletiknship but she always accused me of seeing my ex ex, then we stopped talking for a whole month and i find out she has a new man in her life and she has been seeing him for a least three months. she just said that she wasn’t happy and that she wanted to be married.’s a question about whether or not my ex is trying to rub it in my face: i haven’t actually heard from him, but as far as the whole social media aspect goes, he hasn’t said anything about this new girl until he posted a concert picture and tagged her in it. it was really hard to hear her lash out and distort me and our relationship to say the least. it’s not like i can do the “no contact” because we have a daughter together so it makes it really difficult. we had an amazing months after and i could tell how in love we were. he’s even said that he feels closer to me every time we talk, even when it’s hard. we work out at the same gym and luckily i have not run into him yet., i don’t think knowing the reasons for his actions will give you any closure. but when your mind starts wondering whether or not it’s a rebound, you can drive yourself crazy analyzing their behavior and obsessing over every little detail about their new relationship. also have to take care more of myself because honestly i was so and still devastated of what happened. i have never been introduced “formally” to his friends because he always said it wasn’t the best time because of our situation. if she doesn’t contact you, then you should contact her. you decide to pursue him, you should be prepared to handle his hot and cold behavior and not react to it. or the fact you have same interest in spiritual beliefs and he takes you to shows and flashy events dealing with art because that’s what he does he does tattoos and he makes paintings for her. so i shouldn’t try to contact him once the thirty days are up? three weeks our break up, i heard from bf sister that new girl and my ex has something going on and i was ripped apart. new girl knows he just got out of a long relationship and when she asked him if he was on a rebound apparently he said he wasn’t. he will dump her because he see’s multiple people and grow bored with her. the longer they’ve been in the new relationship, the less likely it is to be a rebound. they do everything a couple would do together but she just keeps saying she isn’t dating. well after the exchange she texted me on my way home saying thanks. younger than me and she said she wants kids and to get married. she was either looking at him to see if he has been on there, or looking at me. this time, don’t let your mood swings affect your decision. ex fiance got married two weeks after breaking off the engagement we have been togother for more then two years we had our problem. i was trying to get her to get back after that but she was saying she cant and she doesnt want to mainly tht she doesnt believe me. you are who you are, and unlike your ex, you will find someone who can appreciate that. that being with someone for like a year or so is when they have better chance of working things out in “long time apart”. i was devastated, she was younger and more beautiful than i am. at the time, i was stressed about helping family so i got a better job. we had been dating for 3 years and when he broke up, he listed reasons like he wanted freedom, to be stress-free and he felt that the feelings faded. the fact that he seems perfect for her that she is so much more happier then she has been for long time. it went ok, we were friendly but i acted a little aloof on my part. when do you see it as it is and realize you have to just give it up. anyway weekend i met up with him(after going through all the classic mistakes) he agreed to stay friends and work on things and wouldn’t meet other girls whilst we are like this. i knew from the start this was never a rebound.. they know it’s a rebound and they want to get back together with you someday. then he recently married this other but continues to contact me. unless he used his little brother’s account and saw my status or his mom told him that our college friend and i are talking :). he also hangs out with her in full view when he is the kind of person to keep his business to himself. anyway, about 3 months into the breakup she started dating a new guy and they are in a full on relationship, talking about marriage and so on. when she was here last time a month ago right about now she said she still had the letter i wrote her at the beginning of when things were bout to end. i think i have grown a lot and learned a lot from the breakup, and am ready to start a new relationship with him. but if he’s a runner, then why would he contact me again. i tried talking to my sister about this she said i was just being used because she would say she misses me but never say why and it always happen out of blue maybe once a month and then back to nothing. then he told me that he is always with tath girl and he wants to break up with me! i guess he wanted to hide his new relationship from you because deep inside, he doesn’t want you to move on. if you show any weakness or neediness, it’s going to work against you. have i lost her forever or is this just a rebound relationship? give yourself a time limit for how long you are going to wait for her.. we were living together and constantly planning our future together. when we were together we would have so much fun and everything would be great, the second we weren’t together and he would text or call me he became mean and said he didnt feel anything. then contact her using one of the methods in this article. he also text me to ask how i was and wish my mum a happy birthday! weeks after i called her, she re-acticated her facebook , put “in a relationship”. and friends of mine say that i just have to work on myself right now (parents told me that too) and see how it goes after a few weeks or a month. either just being ignored or whatever so you do nc for another time period. i had no idea this was coming so i offered that we take a break if i still had a chance in the end. as for them being the same person, like i said before, it doesn’t necessarily mean their relationship is perfect and doesn’t have any issues. i’m more homey, enjoy doing things as a couple, want to get married, have kids, be a good wife and mom, etc. was dating this lovely woman for a year and half, all around great honeymoon to foundation stages of a relationship. he saw me today and he was walking his girlfriend to class and i was walking alone. came across your site and am starting to follow the 5 steps and have recently began the 30 day nc period. we chatted for some time and i asked her if she wants to go out for a coffee so we can catch up, she said she’ll see if she has any plans and she’ll give me a call i said no problem.

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know that she is confused and needs help as she has been drinking heavily and smoking heaps but she tell her family she is happy with this new guy….? i have looked at his facebook and he still has photo albums up with me in them. a few days later, while still debating on calling him, he texted me again, emphasizing that he has contacted me twice. i guess within the first month of this fling i guess you’d say, he has met the family, pretty sure she has met his, and she just seems really over me. i think she still cares only because i was tlking to her and asked her to bring a pair of ear rings for me. hurts me is that the female colleague is a bit older than me, not the type who has simple needs and wants (he would often say that what he wanted in a girl is simplicity since he’s a simple guy), and is too convenient for him that i thought wouldn’t be a challenge to him at all unlike me who he pursued for 5 months (i didn’t like him at first so i would really ignore him). i don’t know if this a rebound relationship even though he married her because he’s having trouble in the marriage and his now wife is emailing me stating that’s she confused and if i’m still contacting him…. like i said when she was here last she said how crazy it would be that our one year would of been in beginning of november. he said he intended on ending things with me when he got back from cuba, but since being back, things have changed. have some problems with my ex she left me because of my behaviour indeed we were in relationship for 4 years or more and i use to scold her for some reasons but i use to scold her because i use to care for her although a thing is that after we broke up she didnt want me and said she wants to br alone and she also said she also loves me and does take care of me but doesnt want relationship due to my behaviour and attitude i really love her and want her back as we also had the intimate part in our relationship as she use to help me now what i do to get her back please help. she said what a wonderful guy i am…that she tells all her friends that…but still, she has made her mind up…she never wavers, even if she’s wrong…. i was so upset, i didnt play it cool at all. few months ago, his younger brother, who also married very young and had been with this wife for 8 years, got divorced. i go i sit what ever i see he is in my mind i could see him everywhere missing his smile question start questioning myself what happened to him?’m very lost at the moment, so a response would be much appreciate. you said she was in a relationship with you for 7 months. she continues texting you, tell her you need space and time right now. i think she saw me and feels that i’m the same person or she regretted even calling and seeing me. it got to the point she wouldn’t come back to the apartment if i was home. the longer they’re in the relationship, the more you lose hope. the conversation wasn’t an argument we talked calmly and towards the end we even laughed a little. but thing is, he says he doesn’t love me anymore and doesn’t care about me anymore. my ex emailed me the other day saying he’s trapped and his new fiancé is pregnant and she’s screwed him over and he hates his job and asking for help from the people he emailed. would i know when the honeymoon phase is over to contact again? should i call her or should i just let go? (referring to him obviously) saying that so quick even if you had a thing for him and he obviously was just over the top feelings for you when you were “friends” she never said that to me that quick. read this article that said rebound relationships are actually good for you. it leads to better person to be with like a close friend that consuls you and that has had feelings for you for long time. i said sorry for everything i had done(second mistake). perhaps there is someone better out there suited for you. i felt like she looked at me like she still hates me and like i said she is in a relationship now from what i can tell. as it happened, i noticed that he looked at me until i turned my back on me. he is now dating his ex girlfriend from 11 yrs ago who cheated on him more than worse. he would tell me he was dating other girls and one time he offered to give me another chance but i didn’t respond. even the whole thing with her dating her friend maybe even still. i made a mistake and wanted him back and wanted to fight for our 9 years but his constant random messaging of i have moved on makes me think why bother. now that i wanna work on the relationship and have gotten rid of all my anger issues he doesn’t wanna work on it. i don’t know how serious it is, or how long its been going on. she wasn’t putting much into it and he dumped her…she apparently was dealing with a lot in herself too.’s not your forever person unless he actually puts effort into these 12 things. if you get back together, there’s a good chance he will cheat again. well he became relatively distant and conversations became few and far between. it fills loneliness with actual joy and happiness and not just a cover up. am applying as much of the no contact rule as possible…. she can’t let go of this feeling of emptiness even though she is a new relationship. also says if your thinking of our ex at anytime its not important that you should not do it just learn to move on cause it’s not worth it to think or feel like you want them. say to do another couple weeks of nc and try to text her again. if you feel like you must absolutely talk to her, then you can use one of the texts from the 5 step plan. he made it known that he started to go on dates with someone, even wearing the clothes that i got him (maybe guys are different, but i know i would’ve thrown or given that away). childcare is expensive, so we alternate schedules in order for one of us to stay with our daughter. she wants a guy who has women pining over him. i said i’m so happy to see you are doing so good and that you are so happy now. i’m not trying to come off as needy at all, but how can i even get her to meet up with me when i know she’s willing to but maybe her new bf is tying her down? however, at this point, i’ll recommend you get in touch with clyde. i think there is little hope, but only if you move out and stop being there for her all the time. i know i had been like harassing him because i was constantly trying to talk to him. and if you found out all these things after the breakup, then you should not tell her you know all this. or is it best to leave it alone and swoop in later on the chance things fall apart?. this has happened before but i went back to him. but this guy was a rebound because he helped me stop thinking about me&my ex whenever i was with him., it’s hard to say if he wants to get back together, but there is definitely a chance and it’s definitely worth trying to get back with him. is is because she is tying to get over me or misses me, or does she actually hate me, or is this the kind of person she is now? i realized he didnt make me happy completely and i still missed my ex. when he dumped me 2 days later he told me there was another girl he likes.. i don’t know if shes a rebound and if he’ll come crawling back or what. i can’t get over it cause she said he was like a brother but but he is not. you probably meant a lot to her at one point and like many other relationships, that changed and she ended the relationship. autoplay is enabled, a suggested video will automatically play next. i texted her on christmas and a few other times to tell her we should talk but she was defensive and not willing. month after she talked to me for 2 hrs i listened she gave me lies and excuses and no explanation . we’ve had our bumps like any relationship but loved each other. she told me when she dumped me she actually wanted to stay good friends, and she didn’t want to date or have any kind of relationships with a guy for a very very long time. so so far ive begged pleaded left vmails done everything i should not do. and also the girl is controlling my exbf decision not to resign from the company because his parents are asking him to apply to a diff. if they breakup, and she contacts you, you can talk to her but don’t show neediness and ask her to get back with you immediately. he told me that he has feelings for me and he misses me. like we were at a party together and after i’d left she texted me to say she was upset and had no-one to talk to. if so, then you must know there’s no way you can know for sure if her relationship is really perfect or it has some major flaws. we had a long distance relationship for about a year after we met online. he claimed he lost feelings for me but never acted that way or showed it. we were not broken up two months and he was already jumping into another relationship. i love him and i know he has felt the same way about me, too, he is just still trying to figure out what he wants. after a lot of effort, i gave in believing that he was truly sorry. a day or so of not speaking, he contacts me to let me know that he had cut off all contact with this girl and that nothing has happened. he must have left the fiancée with his family because before that i saw them walking around at least three times. were quite private about our relationship on fb, only one picture, she posted on my wall once to ask if my phone had died, i’d posted on her birthday, no statuses about one another and not even “in a relationship” though all friends/family knew we were. let him know if he is not willing to give you what you want and what you deserve, you must leave him. please help i dont know whether to ignore or reply i love him so dearly and have tried everything to make it work including changing as a person to try and be accepted by him and his family/friends. we have tried staying away from each other but we’ve always been drawn back to each other. regardless of that, your best course of action is to follow the 5 step plan. your mind is stuck in a negative spiral and you need to get out of it. he says he’s tired of trying to make it work, but i’ve been putting a lot of effort into it, to try to make it work with him. you are supposed to learn to live a happy life with or without your ex. it’s upto you to decide whether you should move on or not.!But later that night he retracted it all and said he wanted me to continue to keep in contact, and we had a great neutral conversation where he finally gave me closure. i told her that i could not be in a relationship with someone that did not have the same feelings as me. will only be approved if they are pertaining to the article and add value to it. do apologize for taking up and wasting your time lately. or how she says she wants to be friends and then will changed her mind and tell me she doesn’t like me and wants a complete break from me until she is ready, but then we will get in contact again a few days later like nothing happened. i said, you should start talking to him more often and then ask him to hang out. but you shouldn’t be the one asking him since has asked for some time. is this a clear sign that i was never really anything to my current ex? i asked him about how long it had been since he started seeing this girl and he said it was a few weeks before from the time he told me and when i asked why he didn’t tell me sooner he said it wouldn’t have been worth mentioning if it was only a few dates. comparing yourself to your ex’s new girlfriend is like a death sentence, and convincing yourself how much better you are than her is not exactly healthy either. your ex seems happy and their new relationship seems to be going perfectly. he slowly started to disappear, but we maintained some sort of friendship for a little while after, and then it faded away. learn to live without him and be happy without him. she said me telling her the same thing over was making her annoyed and she wanted me to leave her alone , but i can tell she still loves me based on her reactions to these things. me and my ex fiance were together for nearly 10 years. course, it’s not really a surefire way to determine whether or not they’re in a rebound relationship. i think you should apply no contact again and follow the 5 step plan. i had too in order for me to move on. she had put all our things in a box, and put it away. is hard enough without going through a difficult break up. so clearly it is not a rebound not was it ever. so i applied the 5-step plan and he seemed to be wanting to be around me more, but then it stopped and i found out he was seeing another girl whom we were both acquainted with but he asked me to stop talking to her because he didn’t like her or the way she behaved. ex broke up with me back in december because he wanted time to focus on himself and his activities. i know you’ve invested 4 years but you should be glad that you eventually found out about this and now you can leave him behind and try to move on. knowing her, i think she is expecting that i’ll reach out to her on her b’day, as i’ve never let anything get in the way of it. i had run into her once before but i have not been trying to talk to her let her be happy with who she wants and doing what se wants. me and my ex were together for 8 months, and i have been in nc for over 6 weeks since the breakup. updating it postingnphotos and changing his profile photo with the one shes in it. i can tell you from my experience that she is not as happy in the relationship as you think she is and she does miss you and probably still has a place in her heart for you. a honest opinion on how things have gone so far. girlfriend that i’ve had for about a year and a half left me about a month ago. it’s hard to say if it’s a rebound. you will not be obsessing over them so much and you will be able to concentrate on your happiness more. they can’t stare back at me long enough, so i assumed they were guilty of making me look like a fool for a long time. if both of them are on a rebound, the chances of relationship surviving are no more than if only one of them is on a rebound. the problem with that is he might end up engaged etc. well my ex kept begging me but i would just ignore him&he would text me nonstop call me nonstop. but there is a problem that started in our relationship, i was getting jelouse of his best friend who is a girl in high school and about to graduate, she is 18, and my ex is 22 and they known each other since childhood, he told me that i had nothing to worry about, he isn’t attracted to her and he called me an idiot because he only loved me. i have read your 5 step plan and have been doing no contact and it’s weird it is not bothering me too terribly but i still wonder and sometimes think this is a sick test. a week or so go by, whereby i continue to ignore him. they are into the same things and they are always together mostly at his place i would assume just like she was with me. recently, especially since him and his new girlfriend broke up, i have started to miss him again a lot. i caved and slept over a few days ago because he asked me if i wanted to.. but after that all even i posted pictures to my fb account theres still no response from my ex boyfriend. but yes, there’s a chance he might have changed and he doesn’t want kids anymore. i would want to say something to her on the day of the anniversary but i’m not sure what. don’t think there is going to be anymore contact i’m sure that the last time she spoke to me will probably be it anyway and also i’m sure they will end up being together for long time and not have this as a rebound or something that will end in future. guess my question is, is there ever any hope for me? i admit, we argued on wednesday and we did talk a bit about “our relationship” saturday on the way to the fair, but other than that, everything was swell. i couldnt see myself going through yelling with him any longer. but if she needs to do that, then she probably isn’t over you yet and is quite immature. the whole mess blew my mind and i was somewhat disrespectful to her and at times harsh while away from me. just don’t make it obvious you want to get back together. of course, you should give her the time and space she needs to get over her ex and you will both need to start a new relationship that will not be a rebound. we talked here and about getting back together and fixing our family., most likely a rebound and it was probably done to get a reaction out of you. in another conversation recently, he asked if i was seeing anyone. then i told her it was for me then she said she knows my ears arent pierced and she doesnt want me to pierce them cause she doesnt want me to look like a thug. i feel it’s only because it gets her away from me. does this mean that my current ex just easily cut me out of her life to just easily and quickly with no hesitation replace me with her new boyfriend her friend? i told her the truth later in the relationship and also told i was ashamed of not having one before. i find out again that he went back to this girl and they were spending time again.’ve had break ups before (not that many to be fair) and i know the world still turns, but there something keeping me there…. it’s good that you are doing nc and improving yourself. wish with all my heart that she would want to be part of my life…but, she knows how i feel and it’s up to her now. 2 weeks went by and she contacted me that she needed us to meet up so that she could the things she left at my house and to give me back my key. oh, he also had a new girlfriend about three weeks after we broke, but they broke up a few weeks ago. i immediately applied the no contact rule and she tried contacting me asking me how i am but i did not reply, but during this two weeks i found out that 3 days after the break up she started talking to an old friend from her country. she always said she wanted someone who has some goals in life. if you really think it’s going to upset me if it’s a girl i don’t care”. that being said we had had a really great relationship, we had basically been in love since middle school and we were incredibly close. kevin, i need help figuring out if my ex is in a rebound relationship and what i should do next., my ex boyfriend dumped me after 4 years, i started a nocontact for 2 weeks then he contacted me, he told me that he ws with someone else but still in love with me, and he wanted me back.: even if my ex is dating someone else, can i still get us back together? that stung like hell i didn’t responded had no idea what to say and besides i took my anger out in not greatest way after reading that. it has put enormous amounts of stress on us both having to alternate schedules in order to make things work. he said i would never loose him but we could not be together at the time. and when he came home he was being really distant so i asked if we could talk… and it turned out that he had been talking to her and that he all of a sudden didn’t see a future with me. finally, the last time he came back to tell me he had made a huge mistake involved me asking him to call the girl in my presence, whereby we spoke and i found out they slept together. i called her 6 weeks after the breakup to talk about getting back together. use this time to improve yourself even more and become more confident. i am mad about how he handled things…i feel he doesnt even care about me anymore. so i text her and ask if she has moved on and that i thought we were at least going to talk. she still is seeing her friend and looks so much more happier then she was before. you want him to think your life is better than ever! also, i know for a fact the other girl was also just lonely getting out of a “relationship” where she was way more into the guy than he was into her. we broke up and about 2-3 weeks later i know he put himself up on a dating site. i wished her a happy birthday the other day, and the conversation was small. things were moving forward slowly and a month ago we went to a concert together, which he initiated an where he actually told someone i was his girlfriend. if you haven’t read the main 5 step plan to get your ex back, then you should. i’m so confused and don’t know what to do to be honest. (i sounded needy, way too rollercoaster-y and sometimes angry and desperate big time)would this possibly still work? you are trapping yourself in negativity about the relationship and yourself and i will suggest you seek professional help at this point. let it be and move on, with your ex’s girlfriend out of the picture. but i know the cause of his unhappiness is us not being together. and btw they been goin out for almost a month already 🙁 and they changed the fb status. just before christmas, something really bad happened to me involving another male taking advantage and of course i went to my boyfriend for support. ended the txt/snapchat conversation after 30 min, i told her that i had a guest coming by to visit , and that i had to leave… wished her a great day. and she was definitely looking over at me, our breakup was clean, can you think of a reason why she very blatantly looked over at me? if you think you need more time, tell her so. later, while i was at therapy, he called me and told me he his girl found out that i wanted to see him and that she was upset (she didnt know anything! but i was suspicious, so the other day as my way went past her building i checked for his bike – and it was there. the restaurant we went to was pretty nice and we had a wine tasting before dinner. a few real talks between us to help clear some things on the interim. i told him even though he said he said we shouldn’t talk anymore that i still care about him and will always have an open ear if he needs someone to listen. i know we can’t be besties right away, but i at least want to build up to that again. then just over 3 months ago he met this 19 year old girl ( he’s 27) and has been seeing her exclusive for 3 months they even did a 2 week trip to new zealand together… my question is should i be worried that this relationship is serious? my questions are, is he rebounding with the new girl? just feel that no matter what he’ll feel like that for a while (doesnt want to get married and have kids) but that in the end, at some point, he’ll want them (maybe not get married, but i dont mind that, i just want to know i ‘ve found the one and we are both commited “forever”, but i dont need a paper and even less, a wedding). when first time i saw her i was like your all different she agreed she is into things she was not into before but all of a sudden? he said that since we broke up he felt relieved. can talk about the new things you have been doing during no contact. it was our dream and goal and i regarded her as my life partner. she was absolutely perfect because we were just friends then we grew into first loves. i saw comments on his instagram (bc he insisted i re-follow him) of people being shocked. during this time i admit that i was completely in-denial about the fact that i was still in love with him. the rose is symbolic & a little thing only we know. ex boyfriend started a new relationship while he was still in a relationship with me i knew we had problems and, i found out about him being engaged, but he continued to contact me/flirt with me and visit me. i recently noticed she added this guy on facebook and also saw that he is at least 5 years older than her which is also very unusual., if he got married with her, i think it’s safe to say it’s more than just a rebound. tell him you need time and space to deal with the breakup and you can’t be his friend right now. at least i can finally move on and hopefully he’ll let me go now. because he said that he thought he wasted my time for ten months and that he selfishly kept me in his life all this time because i made him feel better. seen that she said she loves him so i see that they think they are soulmates and always have been but take away the material things he does and the notion of you thinking you have same ideology and i don’t see much there.’s just how to go about getting one back after 6 months or more and they been in or still in relationship. super sexual songs that will make you drop your panties immediately…with lyrics! i broke up with my ex and found out later on two weeks after our relationship that he was dating someone else.

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honestly i was kinda annoying at first cause i couldnt control my emotions . there are a bunch of articles out there on how to be more then just friends with a girl you have always had feelings for or how to be physical intimate with your friend. i don’t want to “play games” but, i’d like to wait for a couple days after, as i mentioned before, i don’t want to upset her & i’d like to leave her wondering why i haven’t contacted her too. it just means she is trying to avoid you for some reason, or perhaps she was expecting you to talk to her so she can reject you (and feel better about herself). i tried to convince her to leave him because he’s going to get her really hurt and in a lot of trouble but she says she “loves” him and she won’t. if they found someone they mash up with better and everything in general about that person is better. i’m writing to you right now, because i just don’t know what to do.’s hard to say if it’s a rebound since it has been 8 months. if he just lost attraction, then this article is a good way to rebuild attraction with him. i had the feeling she might have an immaturity about her, her current state of mind could make her this way or bad experience from a previous relationship might make her treat her exes this way. went through similar situation my partner at the time left me basically to be with someone else he recently phoned saying he wanted to marry me at the same time he was trying to get rid of her it hurt me i couldn’t stop brining it up but lately i have stoped begging him or calling him for i shouldn’t have to be brave i also joined the gym which help . we did still see each other on and of till about 4 months ago, until then he was just dating girls but nothing serious. so they met up in person and from what it sounds like they really hit it off, and he said they “communicate really well”…. i’ve been busy working on myself, i got really depressed last winter and didn’t let her in. we talked about the stress that he is still under, and seemed like he is tired of dealing with it. days after that i got no texts and i found out later on that during that weekend that we were supposed to meet like always, he went on vacation with his colleagues (and that girl he talked about) and they, not the company, paid for it. day she is the loving partner the next she has done the complete reversal on me. after new year she broke up with me but we came back after 3 days so we didn’t have any time to work on ourselfs. she cried all the time to her family saying how much she loved me n her dad told me so i know its true. he’s 30, bringing a child into this world but acting like a child himself. her reasoning for not wanting to be in the relationship anymore is that she didn’t have time and she felt that she was missing out on life from being in a serious relationship. but he said “no, i don’t need space,” i want to keep texting and talking to you. i guess i just need to grin and bear it. he broke up with me cuz i hurt him about things that he’s exaggerated about and jumping to conclusions and a lot of miscommunication. that with me she was not really happy and not care really compared to her being with her friend of her new man now who she would do anything for because she is truly happy with him and cares a lot about him. also, before she started dating him were in contact quite a bit, but right after she started dating him she became very cold and distant and seemed to be trying to push me away. i’ll again revert you back to this comment and this comment. broke up almost 3 weeks ago and sadly i’ve done the text terrorism and showing my neediness towards him. here is what not to do when your ex starts dating someone else. you need to get help for anger and then after this contact her and say a simple. i can make an educated guess from my experience, but it is still a guess. during the last year of our relationship i had tried taking a break with him several times because i thought we both needed time for personal growth. i felt more luke i may have been a rebound from his last relationship. i heard through mutual friends that she already had dinner with his family ( something we never did together) . change it up & be a little mysterious… good or bad ideas?.days after we broke up ,he had a new relationship., he’s recently started talking to this girl that he works with, and since then, he has changed his whole perspective on our relationship. texted her how she was doing after her appointment with her terapist bus she said it is tomorrow. questions to ask a girl if you want to know who she really is. we were together for 4 years and we had an argument which resulted in him saying goodnight and goodbye to me to which i didnt reply, then i get this txt two days later, please help! he hasn’t made any effort to contact me, shows no interest whatsoever and whenever we talk he tells me how happy he is alone. she also gets help with her problems in the next weeks. her family loved me and wants us to get back together they hate him. she said she misses the old me where she fell in love with in the first place and that if i become the old one again, she wil get back with me maybe. here i was planning to spend my life with this woman, and now its nothing. do you think her feeling threatened will help destroy their relationship?’s been hard on me, the breakup, since, as in a rebound, things tend to move fast and i was really crazy about the lady so from my side all the quick steps at least felt genuine, although i should have been wiser and read the signs. would you know when it’s time to give it up and stop trying to reach out anymore. i lied to her about having another girlfriend before her, but i didn’t and i was ashamed i didn’t. she said she’d want to catch up and even was open to tell me her schedule and what she was doing. also, understand that even though your behavior wasn’t needy, the act of going to his house just so you don’t lose him was somewhat needy. i just want to catch up and move on to meeting with her. and when i texted her she refused texting me back for another 3 days and said she wanted to break up with me because she lost feelings on me(while waiting, i sent her a long email stating how i felt about her and i wanna know why she is not replying me). men act the way they do and how to attract them back to you. in the back of my mind, i wish he could come back someday to tell me he is sorry. i tried to talk with her about it numerous times, but vague answers were all i would get. in fact, if you are already friends with your ex’s new girlfriend on facebook, you should de-friend her or adjust your settings so she doesn’t continuously pop up on your news feed. of the examples of this social media behavior that i want to share came from one of my readers. she didnt leave you cuz of the guy, she left because it was mentally draining to fight you. some people jump from one relationship to another without waiting at all. obviously i want him back and he knows this yet he has said if he wasn’t in this new relationship with this girl he would try again but he is so he won’t. i emailed her saying that i could bring her item to her one day the follow week and that i missed having her in my life. her parents don’t like me because we got into a little debt when we were younger. i do love him and forgive him and see if there is a chance for us again. hooked up at a big 80s bash that happens every year. what i’ve seen on her social media she post how amazing he is and the cool amazing things he does for her., after months of texting back and forth, of him mostly blaming me for ruining something beautiful, but also wanting me to accept and be happy for him. how can he go from ‘come visit me next month’ to ‘hey i replaced you’ within the short amount of only 4 days? this however, isn’t very far, just about 2 hours on the train. however, we still tried to make time for each other to talk and catch up with how our days went. she said that she lost of her family, meaning my family. so basically around 9 months ago i fell in love with the most amazing girl ever. i did it becuase i felt i had a lot of personal issues to deal with (family, etc. she recently reached out on email just thanking and asking if i was doing well. about the only thing she has said in past is she misses me but never that i meant something or still do or was important. to get your ex back when she is dating someone else. the next day he told me he spent the night on the beach and cleared his head. i started a new relationship 7 weeks ago but i ended it yesterday. i had him over for dinner last week to switch old pictures. i know she is on vacation with her new boyfriend, and i dont want to be the crazy pushy ex boyfriend. you should leave her be for another one month and then contact her using one of the methods in the 5 step plan., you need to get out of this situation and find yourself another place. ultimate way to prove an ex wrong: moving forward vs moving on. that’s why i think she moved on and over as quick as she has already and to the next guy she feels she has better connection with. weird side note, other guy knows about me and our situation. isn’t it possible that she did have a meaningful relationship with you and after the breakup she just found someone more compatible than you? you want to find out your chances of getting your ex back? anyways, give him time and space and follow the 5 step plan. do you really see a long term potential with her? i ended up showing up at his house…to what ended up being a better outcome than expected. my ex girlfriend and i have been separated for just over 5 months. and btw i saw a stat she posted yesterday that said ” whats love but a second hand emotion? he has been avoiding me at all cost, and hiding the relationship very quietly which is very unlikely of him. he didn’t even have the decency to tell me to my face. it’s thursday now and i called but she canceled my call on the fourth ring? he said both of them went into it not expecting anything serious, but the more they chatted the more they had in common. i think he is trying to hold on to me still..Thank you so much for suggestions but still feel for him. i desperately want to tell him all of that but i definitely don’t want to beg him to take me back. if it’s a 2-3 month thing then it’s not really a rebound it’s just a relationship. we haven’t really contacted each other after i visited him, only played some games online without talking. i just let him do his thing because i think maybe this is the way for him to let his anger out that i was going away. he didn’t respond, but then the next day he randomly messaged me and said that yes we can still be friends. even though he says he loves me when he broke up with me, does that mean anything? kevin or to anyone i can get any advice from right now. she is happy i told her and even more mad than i am: she forced him to quit his job, which she helped him get. at the same time, i don’t want to be ‘the doormat’ who lets him walk all over me. looks like we never had anything at all nothing serious or real nothing that made her happy or happy she was with me. i’ll be honest kevin i don’t have many people to talk to about this issue so i appreciate the advice. she also kept saying that i’m such a good guy and that she doesn’t want to hurt my feelings, which i don’t know what that means because that’s what she’s doing. he’s younger than her and according to her very clingy, even wanted her to move in after only a couple months. dont know what to make of this txt from my partner that just broke up with me two nights ago. he’s pathetic and rebound or not, they are welcome to each other. the only thing it’ll do is keep you in this obsessed state of mind. we finished watching the movie and we ended up sleeping together and afterwards he got a text from his friends about going out to eat. us acting like strangers toward each other is killing me. i see that she changed her profile picture on fb and instagram to different pictures i took of her , when we was together . don’t quiet understand when you say if she don’t respond which is unlikely in my case. also would contacting her in any way on what would have been our anniversary be wrong? 2 weeks ago, i found out he is dating somebody else because of their pictures together on fb(gf tagged him). that’s why you should implement the no contact rule for at least 30 days. i personally don’t know the guy, but information available on him doesn’t reveal stellar character. most likely have more than 50% chance to get her back. he said even though he missed me, we should never go backwards. he started crying and told me, that he would fight for me, but isn’t ready. so should i just move on and forget about her? life according to zodiac signs4 ways to get and stay close to your partnerloving yourself when your partner shuts you outhow to stop defensive behavior & save your marriagethe next 5 great romantic first date ideas (ii)broken trust – 7 keys to rebuilding trust in your marriageis your present partner a victim of your past relationships? think whether or not is he capable of doing it. she doesn’t respond (which is unlikely in your case), then it’s your decision whether to pursue her more or move on. but after that later she responded with longer message saying she decided it not healthy for her to e with me to much damage done to deal with and she been through this before but she thought it was different and she has moved on from it. was with my ex boyfriend for about a year, and we just recently broke up about 2 weeks ago. i’ll recommend you keep contacting her via text and slowly increase the frequency and length of the conversations you have with her. but yes and want us to get back together and have a stronger relationship. we didn’t talk much after that then all of a sudden, 3 days later, i call her and she says she wants to get close to someone else; the guy she’s been texting. i want him back because not all guys are open to dating single moms and i’ve fallen in love with him.’t that more of a general stipulation or stereotype for people who been in a more serious significant amount of time together. the fact that that i screwed up last time, how is it going to affect this time? ex and i decided together to broke up because we didn’t feel like that this relationship was working anymore. he’s still with the new girlfriend, so he obviously isn’t interested in me anymore, right? turns out he met this girl through tinder (rolling eyes) and said “she is amazing, we hit it off perfectly and it feels like we’ve known each other for years. i still had feelings for her , even if we fought a lot. he instead started treating me differently and would just send me general good morning quotations. she thinks perhaps it’s because she is not as close to garry as she was with you. i am just trying to get some advise or outlook or something from this. he saw them as the perfect couple and since that i think he kind of lost faith in marriage or the fact that a truly great relationship can last forever. before he break up, i saw him with a girl whom he had get known that time when he said he doesnt want to continue. while some people argue there isn’t a benefit to ‘talking about the relationship’, he’s actually expressed that he likes it and is truly very open and honest when we do sit down and talk. this was going on for about 3 months so i decided to finally give in&give him another chance. if they’ve been in the relationship for a few months or less, then it’s probably a rebound and it will end soon.’s why it’s beneficial to understand the rebound behavior. she recently started dating a guy and, via facebook, they were in a relationship after only ten days of knowing each other. on their 1st date she did the same things with him as she was doing with me, they went to same places, she talks to him exactly the same etc. shes such a beautiful gal and we did have our more than our fair share of fights. i get back with my ex if they are sleeping with someone else? just because you are best friends and like some of the same things or like to eat at same place. i thought it would be a good idea if i sent the letter so it arrives after her b’day & a separate postcard with a simple b’day greeting. now 2 weeks later (yesterday) i see him and that girl walking and holding hands. we were “seeing” each other for the first month, but that was totally exclusive, like we’d stay round each other’s places, met each other’s friends, and would gradually get more intimate, and then after making it “official” we were together for the last 2 months, meeting each other’s parents, all the things a boyfriend/girlfriend normally do. met online, and i’ve been trying to meet someone new on there. if they were, he wouldn’t scream at her and call her a psychopath. in some cases, your ex will find a type of person they don’t usually go for.. i didn’t curse him, yell at him bad mouth him from other people . he has also in the past 3 weeks said, with a great deal of honesty, that he loves me. we both have past problems and i think those problems were bumping into each other which coused trouble for the both of us. this point, most people realize that this new relationship will not bring them the peace and happiness they were hoping it would. i can’t see 7 months as being significant time or the other person think that either. we haven’t communicated since valentine’s day and it’s been a month since they’ve started dating and almost 4 months since we broke up. i also made a mistake when i started asking him to come back because everything seems like my fault. my love for him changed…i think i still love him and i wish he could admit what he did, or at least say he is sorry but he doesnt think he is doing anything wrong.. he loves me more than i love him but yet he’s with another girl. i cheated on him 2-3 years ago&he recently found out of september 18th 2013 so he broke up with me&i apologized to him every single day have him comfort but all he did was ignored me. i had just said “hey” to check in, but he didn’t respond. first month of dating they were already confessing their love on twitter, posting song lyrics to each other and now i’m confused if this is really love or just a rebound and that i should just go nc to wait it out but at the same time heal. example, suppose your ex always says he/she wants someone with a career goal. and when they get in touch with each other, they realize that there is a good chance their relationship might work better this time, and they give it another go. we both worked at a bar and worked on weekends, as well as during nights of the week. she is 35 im 28 she saw that i had grown up a lot since i was 18 and was immediately attracted to me. some cases, your ex will choose someone who is completely opposite of you in every possible way. i seriously could feel how much this girl loved me. temper an begin lazy (which she says working 50-60 hrs a week ) an i understand that i work for my family i did my best to spend time with the the best i can we had our downs mostly the last 2 years of our relationship. you’ll be just wasting your time and causing yourself more hurt if you try to pursue him. while we watched this movie, he only had on boxers and an undershirt and he held out his arm for me to cuddle with him while we watched. i confronted him about it n he denies her in every way n tells me she is just his friend he told me about. he dumped me over spring break, on text because he got mad at me that i forgot to do something. our confrontation i started doing nc im on 90 days nc, 4months of them going out. the only thing you can understand and control is your actions. i did see some pictures of him and his new lover in the living room though.’ve been doing the nc with him for a week now, but within that period i accidentally bumped into him but i didn’t expect him to show up in the area right then and there. your mind is trying to find something to be obsessed about. however, he has said several times since his trip to cuba that he has strong feelings for me and would be devastated if he lost me. i’m tying to work on things but this came up and it has been in my mind. i don’t understand why he is not running back to me? she started seeing an old boyfriend within a month of being home. also, does this sound like a rebound and what should i do at this point? about 5 days after we broke up she told me she was already with this other guy. not that i can remember her saying any other reasons why she with me or why she is happy. and there is always the hearts and happy face stuff attracted to pictures of them together and she post other reference that deal with them and the things they do and he also has the same on his social media pictures of them together smiling happy saying she is love of his life and other things. i guess, i was right because when he broke up with me two days ago, he said that he wasn’t ready to take the next step with me of moving in together, and didn’t want to make that commitment to me because he was scared and not ready for it. need to apply no contact for at least two months and learn to be happy without him. should i keep doing this then message her aftr 30days? we continued to talk (and he even hinted about a future about us) when in february he told me he had a new girlfriend. ex was in a ten year relationship with his ex, was married to her for five. it may help to explain the inconsistency of his ‘feelings’ & the cheating. she is so income with him already and i know he is with her since he just been waiting for this to happen for years and now he has it. meant considering everything you have said till now about what happened, in my opinion and experience, i think she will reply when you contact her. he smashed her phone, threatened to put naked pictures of her online. if it’s because of his family, then there’s nothing you can do about it unless he decides to go against his family and be with you. boyfriend of 8 months broke up with me stating that he didn’t want a relationship right now and didn’t want a committment. then i stopped replying her for like a week and i messaged her again. im one week into no contact now, but i think im going to have to wait at least 2 months. i wanted to be able to ask her for her hand knowing that i could provide the type of lifestyle each of us want. can’t believe that they’ve moved on so fast, so you consult your friend, search the internet and everyone seems to say the same thing.’s entirely possible he cheated on you and was lying to you when he asked you to visit him. or not you should try again is for you to decide during the no contact period. we broke up for particular reasons so we should ask why. when i looked at the info about it online, his pic was right there. promised me she wasn’t cheating, she just allowed herself to accept texts from another guy. think you should just stay calm and let her make her decision. we started seeing each other again a week ago since he told me he stopped seeing her. so my questions are: feelings can’t fade right away right? is hard enough without going through a difficult break up.

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is there a chance the two of us will get back together? after a breakup, that intimacy is gone in a matter of few days and you are left feeling empty. if i have to guess, he will be making all the moves and all you will have to do is play it cool and don’t be needy. years, perhaps that’s why it’s hard for you to let him go even though he disrespected you.. he spends a lot of time with this new girl. ex gf broke up with me at the end of november and found out she was on match a month later. she always told me she would not date someone with kids. he said that my ex said “hi how you (insert friend name), are you with sabrina last march 13? if their behavior resembles that of a person in a rebound relationship, you can be know for sure whether or not you have a chance at getting back together. her relationship and her level of happiness isn’t really going to get you any results. ex boyfriend and i have been dating for 1 year and 5 months. don’t know what to really do about any of this. was with this guy for 6 months and for the most part everything was great, but after a while the type of dates he wanted was not really what i wanted. mostly she said she fell out of love with me. if he doesn’t, you should move on even if you both love each other. it was a one time thing, and my girlfriend found out and i lied about it, then told her the truth 2 weeks later. this is fairly uncommon and it could mean two things. she never posted things like that when she was with me. i started doin the no contact but it was short it was about 2 and a half weeks because she asked me to see her for our b- day and btw we had a very good time and she loved the gifts i got for her, after that we saw each other two more times later on in that week but idk if her relationship is a rebound because she liked this guy before we met and another thing is she said he’s a nice guy and always makes her laugh she ” loves him” now i don’t know what to do i really want to have her back and i am changing for the better cause she means so much to me. don’t even know how to talk to her anymore. reason it’s a rebound is because she is not completely over for you. the day after she unblocked me her their statuses changed to “in a relationship”. finally, a week after that i found out through facebook that he is with another woman. lost here especially after getting that phone call and actually seeing her. it’s possibly the best free guide on getting your ex back on the internet. applied nc for 3 days now, i told her i need some space right now. i know she’s seeing someone but her usual mo is to show her enthusiasm with the person she’s with all over social media.. he said he is still attracted to me and still would be for a long time.. long story short about a week ago she moved out as she said she was confused and need space and said to me that she wanted to be alone the next day i found out this guy was staying there… i done all the opposite to what was need to be done i got angry upset, needy and begging all within a week. 4 months where she was dating both of us without the other knowing. i’ll definitely see him in my future since we’re going to the same college. i don’t know who i have spent almost 7 years of my life with and it freaks me out. like what do i say that will actually turn into a simple conversation without her saying two things and that’s it. i can get other women but i just don’t want anyone else. she says she wishes i didn’t do this to the relationship. the next day he called me three times but i didn’t answer and have no answering machine and i also got a text calling me scum and my mum lazy. should i do at this point, considering all i’ve done and if i am unable to physically create space or make ‘no contact’. sometimes i had a strange feeling that i didn’t trust him for the fully 100% but that could be because my last relationshp was two years ago. many conflicting advice online, one source claims i need to keep in touch so she develops a stronger emotional bond with me before her new guy can. all articles by mika maddelasee mika maddela's expert pageget updates on loveget updates on mika maddela. i don’t know if it’s somebody from this country or from somewhere else but, she hasn’t started going out (yet) and although i really want to ask her who/where this bloke is/from…i don’t want it to kill me anymore than it is. she doesn’t know he has been seeing me also and is in love with him and i’m afraid he will become her boyfriend just because it’s the easiest and he then doesn’t have to take a look at himself. then, i ran into him at a 4th of july event. i already feel like i been lost her awhile ago, not going to be able to get her back since she said she moved on from it cause she been here before and it not worth it, that her relationship isn’t a rebound it going to be real mccoy, and that trying to follow these steps is just going to fail me. lots of crying, her telling me “i’m doing this for me. but a couple of weeks back i discovered that she has been seeing another guy for the last 3 months. when we had a fake break last week she still would check my facebook and read my messages and chats and would get mad that i’m telling the world our problems.’s what i keep telling myself especially since this girl does not live here but apparently has come down to visit (southern state and she’s from new york). was in a relationship for a year and a half. i also made it clear to the guy on the first month that we were dating that i can spend time with him late at night only if he’s already my boyfriend or we’re with friends (if we’re not yet a couple). told her that i really don’t want to be on that site and that i loved her. i know there is a chance that he’ll become her boyfriend during that time, but imo it’s a risk you must take. point i am trying to get to is after reading all these articles and comments and what not i still do not feel that there is any chance i can get her back not even with all the advise here, and especially since i feel that maybe she has been with this guy longer then i know about which makes me sick and really anger. he may never come back at all, but he still inspires me (in spirit) to better myself. have been right so far this whole time so i can see that before she made official choice for herself to end things she had already moved on and past me with simplest of ease even if she said she missed me or thought of me which i don’t see a true since she had already started seeing him more and more. and the thought of it just being a rebound relationship is very comforting. being closer to her friend then she usual was and if it didn’t work why would she even think of me. should i answer or even tell her that i know all of this? that it went to something serious physically and general relationship wise. people lose feelings and there is a good chance she cheated on you while she was in the relationship. i just don’t get how someone can be so heartless and vindictive. we had such passionate love and were truly best friends. even though we dated for almost 3 years, we never experienced going through a rut or anything. few weeks later she told me she needs to focus on her everyday life and provide a happiness for her kids, and that we cant continue together. then put up a news article from a psychology website 2 days ago of “10 healthy habits that happy couples do”. i see her everyday so the nc rule is not possible. does she expect for a younger guy to really settle down? now after letting me down with payments, shouting at me and hanging up continuously, i didn’t know what else to do other than to block contact with him. any help/advice/insight you can give me would be greatly appreciated. my birthday will be coming up this week and last week when i visited my ex he asked me for my new address. are still there from your ex, no matter whether or not your ex is dating someone else. they are hiding their new relationship, then it’s completely up to you to figure out which category they fall into. you are the love of my life and i regret letting you go but i cant be man enough for you and i feel we had bought each other down and we are both two people in different worlds who magically collided past each other and fell in love. we all have our breakdowns and lose ourselves every once in a while..The day after he went to the pub en hang out with friends and he bumped in to a old friend and sunday he told me that he liked another girl. cant think straight but am trying to be the “fun” flatmate and she’s agreed to come to a couple of shows with me. because a rebound relationship is an attempt to reach the level of intimacy that only long-term relationships have. hopefully, his relationship will be over before you go back. 4 minutes later “why do you not say “with my friend xyz” like it’s a ridiculous pet peeve but saying with a friend seems cold and distant. she will come around because you have more length of time.! yestersay he declare on facebook he’s now engaged four months after me to the girl he hooked up with a week after me. we really had a good time , and the love between us felt real. she will come back i say within a few months. but if you choose to reply, make sure you mention in the end that you both need some time and space right now. then he said his personal life was a mess but when i asked why he wouldn’t tell me, but at the same time he said he was seeing other girls. but i gave valid answers for everything i’ve done, but she is refusing to accept those. what i am trying to say is that no matter what happens, your course of action right now should be the same, i. the negative emotions which broke the relationship are still there. its now been 5 months our break up, i’m still hurting and trying to go forward in life but my ex is still in my heart and doesn’t go away. i decided to stop contacting him because our talks were confusing, one minute he said “you are my best friend” or “i love you” and the next minute he was saying that he still needed space and to be on his own. he came home and we had a talk, he brought him my stuff over (i almost lived at his house three or four times a week) he told me i looked beautiful all the time and touched my face, pretty much acting like if he cared. my reasons for thinking so is that we took time to develop our feelings for one another (that first month) and took things slowly, we had our problems but were very close. she said she couldn’t handle being in a relationship for a while and she said she needed some time away to start feeling better. the new guy/girl seems completely opposite of you and yet your ex seems committed to make this relationship work. when i asked her if she wanted me to walk away, she didn’t respond, she said now was not the right time to ask her about us, because she hated me for what i did. weekend we skyped for a few hours and everything was ok, he even asked me to come visit him next month and that he would take me camping. he does have feelings for you and cares for you. next thing i see is that she changes her facebook profile pic to the one of her and the new guy. you know your ex better than anyone, so you are the best judge if they are doing it to rub it in your face or not. i have been so depressed not eating, nightmares, and i’m trying to get over it, and i see him all happy with her and he left me here broken. i encouraged it because we have a big age difference. so we started dating for another 3 to 4 months again and now she broke up with me again a week ago. and a part of your mind will not believe me and keep you stuck in your negative state of mind. i have tried everything possible to reconcile i have had no response i keep texting and calling no answer. even though, she chose not to be with you in the end, it doesn’t mean she never wanted to be with you in the first place. after that i went to her and told her that i can’t do this no more and that i will be there for her if she misses us in any time given, but i can’t share her happiness now when she has new bf. i made a huge mistake in a moment of stress, and now i am full of regret. i know it sucks but you need to become learn to be happy in your life without him before you try to get him back. also a few days ago she told me she still liked me bus she misses the old me and she will back with me if i be the old one maybe (i think i said this before). applied the no-contact rule yesterday, but mind you, i violated each and every rule of the 5-steps. she knew she wanted to breakup with you but she didn’t expect to be so much miserable after the breakup. it didn’t take long to figure out i wanted to be with her obviously. she has said (a fair bit) over these last two years that i need to move on. i was in shock and it hurt me so much! the basis of the conversation went like this (sorry it’s going to be a bit of a read):Me: i’m not here to pull a beth, just so you know. the way he has handled and initiated our breakup has been very immature and yet i would probably try again later down the road. you sure you will be able to have a healthy and long term relationship with this guy? two weeks ago we broke up and literally two days after she was back with him. everything we had planned is now on pause, we were planning on moving in together anytime soon now but i guess that’s all behind us now. what i’m confused about is four days later he had moved on to a new girl and they’re currently dating. i did that and i, again, for probably the 5th time, declared my love for him to him. i am concerned that she came over for a reason besides thinking of working things out. i also told him i didn’t want his gf to think i was trying to pull anything because i’m not *wink wink* and that i wasn’t judging him for anything, and wasn’t mad at him for just being honest with me about ending the relationship. so thats when he met the girl in their office. he will probably want to get back together after a while. now, there’s a good chance her relationship will end in the future. can i really trust what he says at the moment? if he starts calling you constantly, let him know you need some space and time to deal with the breakup. and i am just wondering if i should tell him how i feel about him still or would it make it worst? i am just saying that you should start learning to live without her in your life and start exploring the possibility of finding someone else. after a bout 8 month at sea i find out he is dating someone else i though i was okay with it but when i finish the contract and returned home and started working at my old job where both my ex and his new girlfriend work i feel very sad and heart broken i love him and wish to be back with him he has been dating this girl nearly three month now what should i do. she’s not openly hurting me, that was just a subtle thing. honestly i felt really messed up when i found out. he has been away for about a month and i felt his house needed some thorough cleaning. give him some time, and if he doesn’t contact you, you should contact him and ask him if he cheated on you. someone important can be one of the hardest things to deal with. might try to convince yourself that the relationship didn’t mean anything to her and she was just playing with you. then at some point i was talking to him about moving in with one of my friends if she happens to get a house and that was when he proposed that we move in together and i asked him if he was sure he would want that and he said i think we should set up a separate bed in case, but i don’t think it will be a bad thing. the trip was a getaway from our hectic lives and he wanted to find out if i will be ready to marry him in 6 months. i haven’t seen or spoken to her since the engagement email. he told me that this came all out of a sudden he meet her en she liked hem and vica versa.. he told me 2 weeks ago that he still misses me thinks of me and it’s hard on him still and he is not over me. this has been a non physical, normal flatmate arrangement and we get on, what i think, really well. if you’ve already deleted her number, then don’t sweat it. he told me he lied and just said it cause he was hurt but i didny know what to believe since he has had a cheating past. instantly she got upset cause she thought it was for another girl. we have been together in a four year relationship, long distance but at the same time he said he was angry and the situation changed. i told her i wasn’t going anywhere and that she was the love of my life and always will be but that some space would make things better. if any two people are involved in this type of thing …maybe they arent mature enough for a relationship in the first place. she said when he was stressed she would get stressed and then he would get mad cause she didn’t express what was wrong with her that’s when she said he yelled at her. i texted a few minutes later and still have no response. some part of me says its just a rebound but the fact that he didn’t dive into the relationship straight after our break up has me worried. she works at a bar, after work she would stay out all night and into the early mornings drinking with her “new” friends, a lot of them guys..i’m in my 6th day of nc any insight would be appreciated. i saw her once before she came by since i knew they were talking more and being around each other more and when i passed her by she looked much happier anyway. this is the first time i’ve ever done anything like this, i feel helpless. she would always get upset because i wanted to hangout with friends somedays and not her. ex broke up with me 10 weeks ago (we dated for 2. towards the end, he contacted me after we broke up wanting to see me and messing with my head.. i was mad but i told him lots of luck and he did the same. because of that, i told him i understand him because i also have responsibilities that take a lot of my time (being a breadwinner and a single mom) i can’t have sex with him if he can’t commit. and while you are still trying to understand what happened and pick up the shattered pieces of your life, your ex has started another relationship. recommend that you don’t initiate contact and let her do it. he told me last week that he was still in love with me, had feelings for me, and that he really misses me. whatever her reasons for not being with you right now is her business and not yours. she was staying at his house on the nights that i would watch our daughter. i was hoping you could offer some suggestions for me. i stopped messaging her again and contacted her couple of days ago when i was drunk..In january this year my wife changed positions in her work place and then all of a sudden within a week this co worker told her how he felt about her and she feel for him. i was trying suicide( not smart move i know) but the pain was too much then. would she want to after all this time i’m sure that she would have gotten completely over me by now or if not she hasn’t way before. he tried contacting me the first 3 weeks and then stopped.: well that’s good 🙂 (even though it killed me he said that). we later talked in the car where she told me that she was seeing someone but is torn between me and this other guy because i’m a great guy. she probably did love you and she still probably misses you sometimes. don’t know what to do before she left she told me she loved me and cared for me but i don’t know if its true as she has moved on with this new guy as he knew everything i did wrong in our relationship and is trying to do everything to make her happy. your website has been very insightful, helping me approach my breakup bewilderment in a more healthy and productive way. she initiated the conversation but made it seem like she was doing me a favor. they know each other in and out and i’m also pretty sure they have been physical with each other for sometime. when he and i talked about it because i expressed my confusion about a lot of the things that happened over spring break, he said he was sorry about leading me on and that it wasn’t intentional and that it’s easy to fall back into a relationship like that. i’ve tried to see other people, but i work nights. yet i noticed something strange: he borrowed my laptop to do social networking stuff, checked on his photos and showed one to me, mentioning a female co-worker of his out of the blue. an ex ex boyfriend back if he has a new girlfriend is still possible! after a month of no contact from her (my gf), what should i do about it? or is it just something you say to be nice? it’s been about a month and i pretty sure they are dating i haven’t asked cause i am sure he wouldn’t want to tell me. know there will be someone out there for me…but that doesn’t really help at the moment. she hugged me and started crying, she hugged me for around 10 seconds and told me:”i can’t do this, i feel like i’m cheating on him. and i don’t think you should continue contact with him and/or have any high hopes of getting him back. he said if we got back together, then i would just be getting my way as usual, and that he was super busy at work and hadn’t really thought about us for the past few weeks, and he couldnt’ do the ups and downs anymore. we had just started college together and were both kind of on different pages in the relationship. i started texting one girl, went out with her, but i just couldn’t kiss her cause i only saw my ex. obviously it was a hard time for the both of us. i didnt know he was a rebound up until now. ex and i broke up when i just came back from overseas exchange program. what is strange to me is that this new girl is very similar to me just younger, he even said to me when he meet her that she reminds him of me when i was her age. this might be true if you had been acting like a crazy, stalky ex who wouldn’t leave them alone. she was busy with her studies and everything so i didn’t bother to message her for 2 days after meeting her. she will sort of freak out when she finds out that you have been investigating her and it’ll make you look creepy. he started working at a new job about 3 months ago and ever since, we’ve been lacking in communication because of conflicting schedules. i cried, called him crying, begged him to come back and work on whatever was going on with him. have a feeling he was the one cheating on you, or at least was thinking of cheating on you. but we haven’t talked since yesterday at 1pm and he hasn’t once tried to contact me yet. this time, talk to him before getting back that you can’t do this on and off relationship and if he wants to get back together, he needs to be hundred percent sure he wants this. i’m more confident, thinner and healthy with a new home makeover. he’s from another town and is apparently pretty poplular. i hope you could help me out, my ex bf and i had a great relationship for 4 years, he is my clyde and i was his bonnie my partner in crime.” however, he told her the past year we had was rough and he didn’t know what i wanted and didn’t know how to make me happy and couldn’t handle all the ups and downs in our relationship. except for the part where he said “maybe some day i’ll be back, but for now just be happy for me. do anything and everything you can do to make yourself happy. i don’t know if she will ever contact me again or not. i’m freaking out and want to just end this. i opened myself to her, i told her we should try it all again, but she told me she had moved on. it just seems since she started hanging out with all these new late night bar friends she has met, she has changed herself in order to fit in with them. so for the past couple weeks i’ve let her have her space and deal with these rebound like you say. give her some time to deal with her anger and confusion. this: 13 ways you know you’re dating a high quality woman. my ex still care about me - signs that your ex boyfriend / girlfriend misses you. i decided i didn’t want to keep seeing him like before, and told him if we ever were going to end up together it was his turn to fight, even if i didn’t think he ever would. has contacted me again after about a month (i’ve kept quiet after the breakup) giving me hints of good memories together etc…. in the last month of the relationship she started getting very depressed and she was depressing me too.

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i don’t want to do that and have yet to. the only thing that should matter to you right now is to get out of this negative spiral you are stuck in and try to enjoy your life. if she chooses the other guy, then you cut her form your life and move on. couple days ago she sent me a bunch of books to read while i’m gone this summer, but then the next day she goes back to being really hateful and rude towards me and acting very spiteful. i think you should stop talking for a while and let him continue with his girlfriend. he is actually my client and i am a senior executive in my company. we somewhat reconciled for about a month and i truly thought we were going to work things out. i thought it was pretty sudden, because i thought everything was going pretty well.’s good that you were able to be calm and not be needy in front of him. i’ve bagged it all up but i’m not a storage facility nor a taxi service. a surprise to me as i told her my intensions are to be with her, not entertaining prospects during the break. she doesn’t know that i know all of this. i guess i still need to work on my emotions. much to my demise, he changed his profile to one of him and a new girl. also think she had the interest of them before she even ended. i literally wouldn’t see her for a week because she would last minute make plans to go out with friends every night. she still has feelings for you even if the close friend might seem perfect for her, it’s probably not going to work out. tell her you need to think about taking her back and that your talking to someone who is a nice friend. you so much for your response…it’s just so hard to understand how someone can tell you those things right in your face and lie. i usually recommend people to give themselves a time limit, in most cases, 2-3 months, if things don’t work out by then, you should just move on. which is also contradictory because one of the issues with me was i “didn’t know what i wanted in life. this a rebound and if so how should i pursue it as i think in the last week i have made this situation worse by the how i have treated her. i also called her (she agreed that i could call her) and i talked like i was doing great (i am sort of) and she said she didn’t have any feelings for her other ex anymore. my ex send me message that i was right when i said to my bf tht it was unfair that he decided all alone to end our relationship. he said it would be best if we cut down on the talking and we did until i texted to ask him about money he owed me. this is why most rebound relationships abruptly end as people are not yet emotionally ready for a new commitment. i was going to go as far as say i was just in the area and just wanted to set things straight. she started dating another guy (totally opposite of me ) a couple of weeks after i cut all contact. the amount of time we were together and the time she has been seeing in their new relationship. i first wrote in i gave little bit of story and what was happen between us, i seem to be having more trouble lately because after i saw her with someone else at her work when i stopped by to talk and give her a letter i ended up texting her next day saying wish you didn’t hate me and hope you read that letter and i know it probably wont mean anything but she said she don’t hate me and that it did mean something. the sale: big mistakes that cause your customers to buy from someone else. hope you’re too” so i waited for some time and i gave her a call. leaving your girl of six years for someone you barely know isnt ok either. suddenly, out of nowhere my bf called me and told that he has been thinking about us and thought he doesn’t want to continue. it started out casually and i thought we both needed to take it slow. i would also write her cards and drop off flowers to her house each day. i’m not sure why she wanted to come by then? he watched the video he started to blame me, practically telling me it was my fault. a second right after that my ex came out and i was like oh boy here we go. ex an i have been together almost 10 yrs have 3 wonderful boys together well she broke up with me in june but we stayed in the same house till october she went back to her moms an i got my own place we both have the kids 50% of the time. he’s still saying he wants make me the effort to keep me in his life and make us work as ‘friends’. don’t you think that you should be concentrating on what will make you happy? apparently he’d taken to facebook saying you can’t always get what you want, it’s a wonderful stroke of luck the day i contacted him. she wont see it coming and then she will contact you.” i tried calling him because i wanted to get some closure…but he texted back “please enough is enough. the other hand, it could be that your ex waited months before entering the new relationship and it could still be a rebound depending if they never really got over you. four days later i get a text from him saying ‘i have feelings for someone else’ i texted back just saying what? i asked him to not talk to her, but he still did, and when he did he would tell her that he still thought about her. after all this time i think she has realized that she didn’t feel that great of connection like she might of thought. they think that finding someone completely opposite will probably give them happiness. but i went out with my friends (mainly) had fun she found out and the other day she told me tht pushed her away, this was the same convo as the ear ring. don’t know what she means she hasn’t been around for long time so how would she know that i’m the same when i’m not? he said he was supposed to see someone but he put that off to give me a first chance. i blew up in the follow-up text messages and i probably will regret that but i am human and still in love with her. same pattern went on all winter break with him and we kept in touch via skype and calling and text when i went back to school and everything seemed to be going well and we were communicating a lot better. she said she doesn’t like posting personal things on facebook. haven’t ever been as affected as bad as this. but you really should do nc for at least a couple of months and learn to be happy without him. she saying she misses me and thinks of me at random times just like my former ex and i don’t want to see that all this time she is having best relationship ever with her best friend and find out they are engaged then married. ex and i have been broken up for around four months, dated for 3, and knew each other for a year before that. your ex would also be comparing you and their new partner constantly. fast forward to march 2014, i find out she has slept with several guys, and has been fucking a “guy friend” these past several months. partner of 6 years broke up with me 2 weeks ago,mew have some issues due to my illness he finds it hard to cope. now i see some pretty undesirable character flaws in her. saying he wants to see me but it’s working on keeping better boundaries with women; he would rather talk about the good; he still wants to have a picnic with my kids; and is available for a walk or coffee when i’m ready. already know when she gives you an opportunity and you make her feel like she wasted her time it’s over and there isn’t going to be another chance. so in five months from our break up he’s got a new girl pregnant, made her his fiancé and now contacting me. self-deprecating thoughts are very common and one of the worst ways to deal with a breakup. however she now is dating this new guy 2 weeks after we broke up. ended up slipping the other day and found myself looking her up. i know her x wants her back, and that he tried to prove to her that he has changed ever since they broke off. how is it technically considered a rebound if they never really said that you meant something. i don’t want to be pushy if he honestly does not want to get back., your advice has made me open up and realize alot. do you think if you understand her behavior and what’s going on in her mind, you will suddenly start feeling better? if we start playing a lot of games its likely we will never get back together if we want to, so lets just take some time to think about it. we used to still text, but like about a week or two ago, she got mad and said either to stop talking to her or me. wouldn’t she be missing him a lot and the way they were together as more then friends. but some how she fell for me and we were in relation for about 3 months. at the back of my mind, i still want him back. i love her with all my heart and just cast give up. you have to stop thinking about how perfect they are for each other. i called her about 2 weeks after this conversation, and she said that she wasnt ready and said she has to find herself and wants to be happy with herself. either she breaks up with the guy or you completely cut her from your life and move on. you go to your ex and say straight up “im not going to play a lot of games, this is how it is. from this page of rules to that page of rules and back and forward. also i am in no contact with him but he hasn’t contacted me except for messages claiming that it was a friend of his messing around with his phone when i received no messages him earlier that day. we still see eachother but lately i’ve calm down from crying and all of that.. now i have to be a bitch to tell him to make up his mind? am trying to get some help here on some issues i am having. i’ll suggest you apply no contact for a month and then contact her. me for my english,But after i read all of this i can say that i’m a little wiser now. in person, he was already avoiding me, leaving me hanging. was with my ex for 3 years and we broke up. it’s hard to believe in what people say even when they are trying to help in a lot of ways because they don’t know situation they say same as what few others agree at. the relationship with you didn’t work and left them in pain. it would have been a year and 6 months in 2 days. things you shouldn’t do when your ex starts dating someone else. you think i have great chance getting him back after i made the efforts and practically dropping form the face of the earth after? but i’m sure she thinks is really great which obviously she doesn’t see and probably couldn’t care about because they are best friends and they get along so perfect with and about everything even when physical intimacy was introduced and involved i sure she thinks that’s also perfect too. we have been fighting our way through the struggles of raising a child while attending college and working. your mind is still going to continue thinking about it and probably stuck in the negative spiral. he decided to declare it all on facebook on what would have been our 9th anniversary! i am pretty sure she will answer me if i ask a random question from her. i just dont know if what has happened are signs to leave, or if him becoming a raging dick when we arent around each other means that the “no-contact” rule will make this worse…. who really know each other do these 11 things in their relationship. so hopefully you can tell me what the hell is going on haha. if it was a “rebound” it’s been going on since she ended it and still going on. i know it’s painful and i’m sorry you are in this situation, but i want you to know that everything will get better with time. she had referenced a “friend” that lives in the same place as him so maybe she has been hiding him. due to my problems i let my frustrations out on my ex. i know he texts her every day to say he loves her and misses her and counts down the days until he sees her again. i said i know your with him (her friend that she is now dating) and you seem happy i’m not going to make problems for you. and that is not a quality you should look for in a life partner. i replied nicely to it as i was happily getting my closure and felt in a good place to be ok to contact him back and say he needs to talk to her. these are the kind of questions you should be asking yourself to help you move on with your own happiness. i was originally going to show up at his house and clear the air claiming i just want to be “friends” just to get my foot in the door and work my way in from there. now almost a week after this fake break i tell her we should take a real break after seeing this website.***how energy shifting improves your relationship and attract your spouse back. i just wanted to ask a question about whether you agree with my situation. day of the break up he yells at me hes going to his new gfs house which left me shocked. during the following months we saw each other once a week, so that he also could have the alone time he so desperately needed. she told me so many times that she loves me with her whole heart and never felt this way about anyone and i would have to be the one to leave her cause she could never even think about it. she is still empty and she can only be at peace with herself when she decides to face the breakup pain. i pleaded for her to come back after i found out they had sex but to no avail. she started seeing someone pretty much immediately, not sure if she left me for him or what. i know she doesnt love this guy im way better looking she always said he was ugly. i don’t know how long but i know at least it has been 2 months maybe three that they been more then friends. i have been trying a lot to just focus on myself and not think of her and what’s she is doing in her life now or who she is doing things with or has been for how long. he was very supportive for a few days until the following happened. on reflection we also realised that we didn’t have that much in common, so i guess our relationship was built mainly on attraction which i know isn’t ideal, but we still made it work for a while. she had said to me “i’ve thought of you as one day being my husband. i am just wondering is this a rebound relationship or not because i am just so confused? do you think that’s too creepy even after the 30 days? i met my bf in hospital and he was angry at me. kevin, is there a place here for me, since i am definetely the rebound victim of my ex… (that is, te guy she had the rebound with). he maintained he loves me and misses me but needs to work on himself the and see what’s best for his future. week i visited my ex (after 8 months) and he looked great! i guess it stressed me out a bit because i had started going out with him in college and went in with the mindset that we’d have to break up when we both graduated. of course he was very angry at the person who did wrong to me and got quite protective. went to marriage counselling but every time she was asked not to contact him and start to work on our marriage she would just lie to the therapist and me and done what she wanted. i slept over at his house on wednesday; we went to a county fair together on saturday; and he asked me out to lunch on sunday. all i wish for you is to be happy and find that place you were looking for that i could not fill. we talked and she said that i was someone special and meant something and that i still mean something to her. i know receiving a rose on her b’day will bring a smile to her face but it is so predictable, from me. i have learned to be very patient even when am not supposed to. that the change she still has feelings for me is bigger then the change she likes her other ex. do the things mentioned in step 2 and 3 of the 5 step plan. if the ex is or has been in relationship since it ended why would the want to get back with their ex let alone associate with them after all that time. during the break we were still talking and texting and seeing each other. they don’t want to upset you or want you to move on. were together for three years and i find it hard he left. i told her i only did it because i was hurt and that she would not talk to me. am not saying that you should start a serious relationship with someone else. had a wonderful time with my ex mom 🙂 my ex is still asking if i still come to visit, or talk to her etc… and hes still with his bad influence single mother gf, i just want to put this out there. but ever time i try to converse i get nothing only when she hits me up. and is there anyway or hope that we would get back together? it was very hard for me to let him go so i tried to understand why was he suddenly so eager to leave me after telling me he loved me and that he wasnt going to leave. during this period (3 months) we stayed in contact, but it was no longer intimate/ relationship like – he would just tell me how much he loved me whilst i would encourage him to move on with his life. but, i’m somewhat holding to his word about us hanging out to watch the finale of our favorite show together, and won’t be for another few weeks. like i said everything they do and he does for her and how she thinks of him are perfect and she loves him. also say the time that they have been together also play a factor. he did something amazing for her birthday recently and now he has another shot at showing her how amazing he is with the upcoming holidays. he still wants me in his life and has arranged to call me to catch up later in the week. sad thing is i know i was with a boy because he ran instead of communicating back to me.’m currently at university and so live away from home where my boyfriend is. regardless of his reasons, start no contact for a month. if not, then what you are feeling is probably jealousy coupled with loneliness instead of love. she’s very girly and bubbly and i’m darkish and not that girly. 2 weeks ago, a mutual friend called him and ask for details. then yesterday i found out that he put my stuff in a empty apartment building in back of my house and that she moved in yesterday and her kids she already painted both rooms yesterday for her kids and then my brother called my ex boyfriend 2 days ago and he told my ex boyfriend either he is with me or not and he said to my brother that i was staking him and that he told me that it was over and that he keep telling me and that and that i am stupid because i can’t get it threw my head and then he said to my brother he moved on and he hopes this relationship works and that he don’t want any drama and he doesn’t want me to show up at the house at all but he told my brother that i am a friend and that he cares about me and what happens to me and that he loves me and he told my brother that he was not happy in the relationship with me and him and then he said that he met the new girlfriend a couple of days after i went on vacation and that he liked her and then he told my brother that i was going to live in the house and she was going to live in the house and my ex boyfriend said that won’t work so he told my brother that i am out and his new girlfriend was in and i am still on vacation at this rate with no house to go home to and he told my brother also that he wanted to end it with me a while back but didn’t know how to because he didn’t want to hurt my feelings and that is why he did it now because i am around family and he wants me to stay with family. she was the one to post a picture of them hold hands and tagged him in it, and i’m pretty sure she was the one who updated their fb status to “in a relationship” and he just accepted and “liked” it. thing were going well until i let my emotions run wild and we rehashed the relationship for 2 days on chat. i think there is still hope and he probably still has feelings for you. he’s says and his profile does he is not looking for anything serious but wants to date. reading a lot of different things last couple months i have started to think that i was just a rebound from the start because she would always say stuff about how she is really attracted to me but nothing else. my friends all seem to think she has been manipulating my attention by doing things like this, as she only gets in touch when it suits her like when she’s been upset etc. it hurts really bad especially seeing friends that i was paraded in front of and had been around often liking the photo.. i know i’m trying to move on because i know she never wanted anything from me. i just don’t understand her heavy drinking, sleeping around with guys that use her, her change in personality, and her loss of interests. i played pranks with the pa and found out he has been in a relationship with a girl and she practically lives with him 4 days in week.’s truly a gut wrenching feeling to think of your ex with someone else, especially if you are still in love with them and want to get them back. the whole thing with her calling and asking to come over doesn’t make sense to me either and i end up replaying that in my head even when i don’t think about it.” she also told me i was amazing, wonderful and that she loved me which was the most confusing thing to hear. then about a 4-6 weeks ago he tells me that he has started seeing someone else and he said he didn’t know how serious it was but he didn’t want me to be blindsided if we didn’t hang out as much. i did contact his new wife and explained to her that i was still in a relationship with her now husband during their entire engagement up until they were married. they have that then wouldn’t that mean things are complete between them. she still wants me to be one of her best friends but she doesn’t want me for her boyfriend any more. to say, since you two were in a short term relationship. has been extremely vocal about wanting to be married for a few years now. but they did tell me she has been happier these past few months. i see things for how they are and what they are now. i have tried just to be short and friendly but all i get is she reads my text then never replys just ignoring it or replys once hours later and that’s it. and humans build attachment to someone they are with for some time. i broke up with him i’m january this year and a week later he’d moved on to the type of woman he used to moan about and the complete opposite of me and i keep seeing them around my neck of the woods. took time before we got into sex, i took her on multiple dates. that same break he took me out to see a movie and we held hands throughout the whole thing and after we went back to his place and he showed me his baby pictures and a few family photos, something he had never done before. bf of 8 months told me he wanted a break because i am pushing him away. she said, “if you really wanted to marry me, you would have found a way., apply no contact for another month (or two) and then contact him. think it’s a good idea to contact a week or two before you come home. boyfriend of two years broke up with me about 6 months ago after 3 months of drifting apart (me being super clingy and him pushing me away). i finally agreed to meet up with him after 8 months of separation (april 2014). i know it’s not really him that she loves so much as it is the fact that he makes her happy and he’s fun but she won’t listen to me. if at that time she still wants to work things out with her ex husband, then you should move on. plus you say how long she waited like if she did appropriate time length. i was ready to hang up after asking him but he then started being very nice, asking what i did that day and told me that he has feelings and a heart and isn’t emotionless. then one day i took her to a movie and afterwards made her my girlfriend. but i am done now – this is a degree of disrespect i couldn’t even imagine and who knows what else i don’t know yet. only way you can analyze your past relationship right now is just by memories and conjecture. she feels a little better when she is with garry, but she can’t shake the feeling that this relationship is not giving her the peace that she expected. me send me an email telling me how it isn’t problem with me,but him. he broke up with me in the beggining of march. i don’t want to go into the reasons why i think like this. if you are in this situation then following may be the answers you are looking for. if you have not completed no contact, do so before having another interaction with her. well after her always being needy towards me, she gave up i guess and was so angry at me that she went off and let her friends convince her to start having sex and talking to this other guy. i think it’s because we were such good friends before we started dating. i sensed a bit of distance from her before i left and some when i returned. i believe that it is a rebound relationship or at least i’m hoping it is. especially if the relationship with the ex was so messed up as is in your case.

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ex bf broke up with me back in nov we dated for 3 years. to come back to love even when it's hardhow to stop the same arguments resurfacing and become closerdating: is it easier for someone to hide their insecurities if they are attractive? well, kissing your ex when you know you are starting seeing somone is not ok. i guess i’m hoping, he will know about the event, and maybe he will think of me.’m so glad you ignored him if he loves you he will beg for you . and my ex girlfriend were dating for 6 years before she broke up with me 2 weeks ago because of parents putting too much pressure on her. in that week we had a lot of contact, that we should remain friends. i thought we would have until i found out he actually did have a gf that he’d been lying about. i think i did a good job already in realising the mistakes i’ve made. i however was constantly jealous and played mind games w her a lot. whatever it is that has you beaming like a light bulb, you have every right to let your ex know about it, but calling him after you’ve just discovered he has a new object of love in his life, won’t shed any light on either of you., i am beginning to wonder if i was the rebound?- is really troubling, specially when she was treated badly by that man for years. the rose is symbolic & a little thing only we know. it did help her run away from the emptiness in her life, but it didn’t fill it. we were soulmates n i can’t even describe how true it was. i don’t want to “play games” but, i’d like to wait for a couple days after, as i mentioned before, i don’t want to upset her & i’d like to leave her wondering why i haven’t contacted her too. you so much, that gives me a lot more hope than i had before. stopped no contact at 30+ days using the magic letter, she texted me and told me that a lot has happened. our aim here is to help you become a happier and more confident person. still haven’t replied since it’s been only 15 days into the no contact. i don’t know how long she has been seeing him but i know that she has been looking for dates soon after we broke up. i gave him every opportunity to come clean about the situation but he refused to acknowledge anything. my bff suggests being aggressive about it, but i rather follow your advice from last message and let it be his idea. he still has stuff at mine, after nearly 9 years, there is a lot! i am pretty mad at him for doing me one day and her the next. she informed me that she didn’t think we ever had a connection, that she’s not the person for me, she felt so alone with me, etc. i also am successful in my career while she didnt even have a job. it is the one she always wanted to be with and the one that makes her more happier then she ever was. i’m sure she is in love with him besides the fact that’s how it looks. i can’t get her pregnant because of my infertility problems but we always would talk about being together for a long time and even settling down and have kids through a donor. your ex has found a way to deal with the grief. had been with my ex for ten years she broke up with me 6 weeks ago she said she felt different but still loved me i had suspicions she was cheating because she started to lie a lot it she is now with this guy but denies it. i don’t see him being 100% better in every way like see she’s but like i said she said she loves him so i know that we will never see one another or hear from one another again. so it makes me think that she didn’t really have any interest anyway just bidden her time for him. he’s had feelings for me for 2 years before we got together, but he was rushing the relationship when i wanted to take things slow. and im too scared to write him that letter, especially when he’s with someone else. i told her that i guess i’m kind of waiting for her which made her cry. the things that have happen since things ended like the random text sayin miss me or thinking and the few times she has come to see me since it ended. and is there any hope that we can get back together? it shows you that someone close to you can show you love and joy and the feeling of happiness that you might of had with in a relationship. we can show you nude pics of horny women in your area that want to fuck right now, we need to ask a few quick. however, it is undeniable that my decisions to try fix things and act kind and caring towards him has been bringing him closer back to me. if it were to break down between them and she contacted me what would you suggest i do? well finally wrote a handwritten letter after nc period and called her a few days later. he was in a relationship and that ended and then a week later we had a run in, oddly the same way we did two years ago, timing, place and all but i’m rambling, but i guess what i’m wondering is if him jot making direct eye contact but smiling or smirking constantly mean anything? it became too much to handle so i walked out on him. i only visits once in 6 months because of my busy schedule and i have never been a fan of visiting men i date. they would be random texts weeks or months later and once she came by my work and recently the call asking to come by. i just don’t understand if my being a single mom was really an issue, since he told me from the start he accepts me for who i am (unless his family’s totally against the idea), or he’s just a pathetic flirt. apologies i meant not making eye contact while we were talking but looking elsewhere and smiling. the relationship was getting serious (i didnt sleep at my place since february and he asked me to leave my apartment in july) and i wanted to spend a lot more time with him than what he probably felt like it. there are two things that can happen in the future.. that my ex is the type of guy when being cornered or pressured will make bad decisions or worst stupid ones… i think the best way to deal is to let him do his thing… but does he ever snaps out of this? he said he has feelings for me but he was tired. i told her i’m glad to see her but i don’t want her to be here just because she had a fight or argument with him she said that was not the case and they are not seeing each other. it just means she is in a rebound and didn’t really have time to process her emotions.” there was no ring, but the commitment was real and it was my intention to marry her after we bought a house. before it ended we were talking bout getting a place and i’m sure she probably stays with him now or has. you see that he still wants to get back together? posted on his facebook wall whether or not he wants to move to australia with her next year when she wants to do her phd. if after that, you still want to give it one last try, contact her. he’s always encouraged me to follow my dreams and be the best that i can be. she said the whole time they dated she was depressed and it wasn’t even a relationship. believe he does have feelings for this woman down in cuba, though i think it is mostly based on infatuation and his decisions and actions right now seem more emotionally based than rationally based. if you feel the need, get more help on getting over a breakup (google, books, therapist). i did the whole nc thing awhile ago when it first happen so i could leave her be happy with whoever and doing whatever. regardless, you can try getting her back using the 5 step plan and if it doesn’t work, move on. we were in a relationship for like only one month but we dated for quite a bit. i don’t think she would have stayed with you if you didn’t mean anything to her. what should i do if he doesnt reply to my text? he was frank about not being comfortable with committing to a girl because of his responsibilities regarding his family (he’s the breadwinner) and serving his community. move on just like she has since she end it. since then, we haven’t talked and he’ll go on my tumblr and like my posts.” we broke up in june, and stopped contact beginning of september. there is no point in trying to figure out what’s going on in her head. i go i sit what ever i see he is in my mind what happened to him? she says she wishes i could still b the man iwas she she fell in love w me but doesnt think i can.’s a time limit you have to set for yourself.’ve been together for a year (1 year and 15 days to be exact). if she is still cold, then i’ll suggest you give up hope and move on. for that you have to make some positive changes in your life during no contact. she is so infatuated by everything about him and they have been close friends for years.’s just now it seems like she was in it just to wait. is the reason why most of the rebound relationships seem to move so fast. i told him to keep praying, since it was the third time that he told me he has a lot of problems and he didn’t talk much about it when i asked him the first and second time. still keep in touch with his mom, he always ask me to her (how i am, do i still go to there house). we have a almost 2 year old daughter together so this always makes things more difficult. she cries each time i write her a card that i’m so devastated, but she wants to rush into a relationship with him now and not even spend time to reflect on us. i did all the things that was written in your no contact period like hang out with friends, have a vacation, spa, focus to something like work and so many. has not spoken to me since she ended it about 5 months ago maybe 4 times she has talked to me. well we stayed in contact while during that time and after a while i felt like we were kind of drifting apart and when i talked to him about it he said he wasn’t very good at staying in contact with anyone and that he didn’t want to lead me to think we we’re going to get back together. telling she cant adjust with me as i am 11 months younger to her and now she is in a relation with a new guy whom her parents will also like and she loves him alot and will marry him, and she also told me doesnt love me any more and dont expect her again. if things don’t work out by that time, give up on him and move on. reading this i know i made the right move and i’ll stick to it. i have implicated no contact but what should i think of this? and i think you’ll agree everyone (even adults) can benefit from that. if you still want him, apply no contact for 2 more weeks and get back in touch. whenever she is with him, her mind is not thinking about the breakup and you. i know there’s a lot of hurt and internal conflict and misery here and my recent heartbreak certainly feels insignificant to many of these stories. post: should you contact your ex on valentine’s day? i really don’t know what the relationship is like because she doesn’t say anything about it to me. i’ll recommend you try the 5 step plan once, and if it doesn’t work, move on. unfortunately for him, i’d binned all his stuff having given him months to collect and contacted him many times and then said i’d bin them. if it is then if it doesn’t work out won’t it just mean they will still be the same way they are now but just say they are not together. if you have finished no contact already, then there’s no harm in contacting her on the anniversary. about the exciting new changes you’ve made in your life. is he already so invested in this new girl that he’s trying to completely take me out of his life? my ex was furious that i spoke to her parents and now refuses to speak to me. i still think he could do much better than her. i don’t want to appear cold and drive him away further, but i also don’t want to facilitate him thinking he can have the woman in cuba while i’ll still be here to do all the nice things he wants. my work situation is super great … and i have even been out meeting other women , just to get my mind right ( if that make any sence ? then how do i go about talking to him if he just keeps avoiding me and i can’t get through a friend. i want more than the world for him to just respect me and treat me like he loved me, as he says he does. she thinks that the new relationship, despite not being what she expected, is still giving her some level of comfort. the big difference is that i actually cared about my current ex more then i have for anyone i told her i actually felt love for her not lust like others.’s definitely possible to have feelings for more than one person at a time. knowing her, i think she is expecting that i’ll reach out to her on her b’day, as i’ve never let anything get in the way of it. his relationship is a rebound and it’ll probably end soon. i don’t want him to think that i can easily be that comfortable around him and he just might take advantage. i read your article about the no contact rule and the 5 step plan. we didn’t see much of each other, but when we did, it was amazing. of all: i wouldn’t dare to show up here if i wasn’t absolutely sure that her ex (the one before me and the father of her child) is an absolute jerk. my former ex thought it was over when no one officially said so she was with a guy for 2 months. she treats me like her own daughter, she loves me because i changed his son life in a good way…. its been a little over three weeks since i spoke to him. came to see you because she was still confused and still had feelings about you. she has said in past she misses me or thinks or me but never has said why or what about. the only reason shes with that guy is he is a good listener and friend. the fact the she seems to have changed a lot like overnight since it ended. also, i don’t plan on talking to him the rest of the week. taking my ex and her new boyfriend out to dinner after i had spoken to them. day after i feel confused and told him that i need some space because i was confused about my feelings. garry is a temporary solution that is alleviating the pain, but he is not the cure. should i approach him around that time and ask him if he’s still down? nothing beats straightforward honesty, its less hassle all round and if you are both playing such games then what does that really say ? never really gave a concrete reason as to why she has decided to part ways. toward the end of my lift i happen to walk past female locker room entrance when a girl came out in front of me i stopped she looked familiar it was here friend. i did no contact for two months after that( worked on all aspects of my self those two months) . i think you do have a chance to get back together. about 6 months ago my partner of three years broke off our relationship. married people confess why they stopped having sex with their spouse. than 2 months after we broke up she posted a picture of herself with a new guy, and within 2 weeks of that she’s “in a relationship” with him, posting many pictures and statuses and seems much happier with him. if their new relationship has been going on for a few weeks, you can’t say for sure if it will end in a few months or it will continue for years. ex and i are broken up for about a month now. how can she fall out of love with me after almost 5 years of feelings for each other that she can surprise me one day and want someone new? two days later he was already seeing another girl but he was telling me that maybe we could try again in the summer when i go home from college or later on when he is also in college and we will be able to see each other more. i know how it looks and how things are but, would or do you see it as being completely over and it has been for some time from her perspective. kind of makes you think those are more relatable to them then anything else. heck noooooo, if she’s in a relantionship and having sex with some whatever, move on, leave, get yourself a nicer one, there are better ones believe me, let her keep on rebounding for the rest of her life then. you should get back in touch once you feel you have become the 2. i feel good, i’m happy with going with the flow, spending time with friends etc. you taught me alot and i have taken in alot from what you have said over the past few years. got a call from my ex the other night at like 10 she asked if i was doing anything and if she could come over. although, it doesn’t necessarily make it a permanent relationship. she was doing this usually six days a week (weird because she was never into a lot of drinking ), and then she started sleeping over at “guy friends” houses. also by saying that one of the times we hung out she just wanted to kiss me. you can try the 5 step plan, but your chances are less. i should also mention that he’s not a big fb poster so that signal was invalid for me but it seems like all the other signals match up. one of the main reasons we broke up was because i was so focused on my relationship with him that i completely ignored trying to make new friends in college and spent all my time with him.) and he was always preoccupied with work and needed to focus on that. i said i respected his decision and when i asked if we could at least be friends he said ok. i’m at a lost and i am so deeply in love with this girl, any advice would help. i think i would still be open to give him another chance if his reason of cheating was his family wanted him to dump me and look for another girl who doesn’t have a kid. i was worried sick about her and i felt like i was loosing her and i came across as very needy. furthermore, she said that december 7th was going to be hard not to talk to me because it would have been our anniversary. her state of mind made her a little self-centred and unempathetic, so she’d never take an interest in mine (i’m sure you can see why it had to end). noticed that after that day of making out, he started disappearing little by little…no text the whole day, then the day after that he just sent me a text that he has a lot of problems. former ex who is just married recently told me that she been thinking of me and misses me. it’s now summer and he still hasn’t tried to contact me. i expressed my desire to wait until i graduate and can provide a little more stability for our family. i told him about someone who had offered to set me up and he said i should go on the date. it looked like he was willing to take me back but once he admitted it i turned him down immediately having another sudden mood swing. i could tell with the look on their faces that they never expected me to see them on the spot, yet i didn’t make a scene. he is also probably in a rebound relationship right now. i’ve been on a roll turing myself around 180, making positive strides then this comes up. there’s just no way all those feelings can be gone can they? i didn’t feel good about it but i didn’t show him that i was that bothered. even though your mind wants you to believe you didn’t, i know you did. and i know he had just been waiting to be with her for sometime. there is no point in meeting him or trying to get an answer out of him. another way to describe a rebound relationship is an attempt to avoid the pain of the breakup. think you are putting her on a pedestal and what you think is love is just an obsession. in addition, you might also want to read this article on what to do if your ex is in another relationship. she got herself a boyfriend but they’re not official yet, she told me about him the day that we were breaking up that she has been talking to him for almost 3days already. i’d love to help and see her and show i’ve changed, maybe this is a good opp to rekindle something as i have completely changed physically and mentally. mutual friends have severed their ties to this man, get an untrustworthy feeling from him or understand him to be a jerk. i said that it would be best to move out (90% of the stuff here is mine…it’s much easier for her to move and i really want her to miss me) but she doesn’t want too. i said “i wish i could meet you once and explain everything to you. i might have done things that she didn’t like since i am from a different culture. boy am i wrong i now know i love that girl. when she came over we just talked and joked kind of. i think he just feels that way now because of the type of relationship we had, but i know he likes me (although at the end we were / i was talking so much about the relationship that he probably resent me) and loves me. must i do if my ex is dating someone else? but then i quit trying to talk to him because i realized that was only going to push him farther away. i tried asking her to get together to catch up but she said she doesn’t think that’s a good idea yet because she’s currently happy with someone else. it’s an attempt to have the same level of intimacy that you had with your ex, with someone else. we got along so well otherwise, made each other laugh hysterically and were very physical. if she is not, then after a while, you should decrease the frequency back to once a week. looking back, there were warning signs like being to busy too meet me (the reason he dumped me) and saying i love you less.” yet he’s still talking to me and says that he doesn’t want to lose a friend…. you can talk to her about it or maybe even leave her.., try to stop obsessing over her and learn to be happy without her. i know we will end up bumping into each other at some point. do you think there is hope for us at all? it is also my understanding that he is fresh out of a long term relationship so they may both be rebounding. he said before he left that we’ll still see each other and exchange text messages. dated this guy for 2 months, and during the first month i let him know i like him too by kissing him back. but today i made the desicion to break up with my boyfriend now and go for him full time. we never argued or said hurtful things to each other. i confronted him and he got really upset and was very apologetic. we had many arguments about him and she used too say that she hasn’t seen him in 5 years but i found out it wasn’t true as she went out with him several times while on vocation last year. she was asking me a lot about if i had bought a new car or moved in to a new apartment yet . he’s been beyond childish and cruel throughout all this when i wanted to be civil and get my stuff back and his. i’m not sure how to give him the time and break he seems to want. but, his gf just unfriended me on fb and called me crazy on twitter, so i’m wondering if he made me out to be crazy even though our conversation went relatively well, or if she’s just mad i went up to see him…or both. but he posts pictures and quotes about being with his girlfriend and he posts pics on instagram with her too (i don’t have an insta, i only know this from a friend). however i know him pretty well, and i know he is very stubborn. we had a rocky beginning, and it took me a long time to be comfortable enough with him to call him my boyfriend, which he resented me for. so i decided to no contact her at all, and will first talk to a terapist within a week and a half about my past problems. dude is a recovering alcoholic with domestic charges in his past.

What A Sex Dream About Your Ex Dating Someone Else Means

. my ex bf ask me if i could get him any job there so he could come with me he planned to get us wed before i leave even before, i heard from his mom that for 2 weeks he was pissed off cant think clearly, he started to hang out with his officemates that are bad for him, drinking alot going to bars (which he doesn’t like ) . a huge part of me says no girl in her right mind will pack up and leave her family and friends to come to a small town in the south, but of course things happen. it was pretty much out of the blue since we were celebrating and the next week he told me he needed space, time…he continued to tell me he loved me and that he wasn’t going to leave, he just needed space. he meant the world to me, but i took him for granted. in the first couple days of the breakup i made the mistake of begging him to work through our issues instead of breaking up with me, and i told him i would always be there for him..she still hasn’t made a pic of them her profile pic on facebook. like i said, this girl seems to have a track record for going in too deep and too fast which is why guys come and go when it comes to her, do you think this means it’s likely to end quick? then apply no contact for another 2-3 weeks and then text him. to get your ex back (when they’re dating others) — susan winter. i don’t understand why she would miss me if you are happy with your friend. he continuously let’s me down with payments, which is due to his financial issues associated with drug use. i add that i would try and take an interest in her things, like reality tv, because i loved her and wanted to be interested in her likes. i’ve seen her on there multiple times in the past day, and i’m pretty sure it means her rebound is starting to fall apart. your partner is trying to move on with their life and as much as it hurts for you to know that, you also have to focus on your own happiness. needless to say i was really confused by all of it.) he said you are either gonna be my friend or nothing at all! if she gets back together with you and she is thinking about that guy, you can deal with it at that time. she really does seem to enjoy every moment being around him and what they do. soon, things will start to get better and you will be able to think more clearly about this whole situation. i am very unsure what to do because i feel as if our spark is still there. she wanted to send you a message that she is moving on., i dont want to lag stuff on and start something. give her some time and space and meanwhile try to make some positive changes in your life. also that it is the easiest and quickest way to get over someone that you use to be in a relationship with because you are spending so much time with that new person like close good friend that it takes your mind off your ex and makes you realize that someone else has always had feelings for you and you might have always had feelings for them but never acted on them until now that this was the chance to act on those pent up feelings plus is shows her how incompatible she was with you . a few weeks after, he and his colleagues went on vacation again (he also paid for his share) and i saw their photos online that he was always beside that female colleague. ask for my stuff and to tell him he had a week to contact me about his otherwise i’d take it to mean bin it all. told me that there was nobody else, and at first i believed her. but like i said before, you need to learn from your mistake and stop putting yourself in a position where he can hurt you again. flowers, letters everything but its seem like its too late, which were her exact words. texted me the other day a picture of something that made her think of me. her being ‘official’ 9 weeks after a breakup shows me that they clearly were dating for at least 1 month, which means she wasn’t grieving long at all (maximum a month). start building attraction and if you think he is attracted to you enough, ask him if he wants to get back together. we had our ups and downs like the typical relationship. there’s a good chance she is not as happy with him as you are thinking in your mind. neither of us respond because at the time we honestly didn’t know. anyway, as of two days ago, i texted him for something., in most cases, when you tell your ex you want to get back, they will most probably put their defense up (especially if they were the one who broke up). apologies i meant not making eye contact while we were talking but looking elsewhere and smiling. this sounded like it could be a rebound relationship especially considering how things developed between us over break but i can’t tell.. i cant txt him, because his gf keepa on snooping around his phone and even the one who’s replying to his messages and acting that she is my ex (she done this with my ex mom and she wasnt happy about it).. but he is not going out if his way to see me. he asked me for this advice, then mentioned that he heard i took a trip, and he seemed impressed by that and other things. im going on a date with his mom, do you think its ok to keep in touch with her? start no contact and even if she contacts you, don’t answer her. but say you end up being right about her being in a rebound relationship with her friend. how are you planning to get out of this state of mind leave her behind? he tried to visit me at home, bring flowers, letters etc. meanwhile, i will keep working on my current goals and changes. i’m relatively sure he’s deleted my number and being that i’m not active should i activate again? i was pretty insensitive about it becuase his parents had been going through a divorce, and i was having my own family issues, and i guess i broke up with him when he needed me most. she’s with her new guy for 2 days now, and she seems happy for now. but yet here she is all smiles and hearts and all these other pictures and stuff with the both of them and just of him. she also updated her fb with new picture of them. we broke up but we were still kind of trying to figure things out. obviously, i was upset and i told him that i felt unimportant to him because of what he said and he expressed that that wasn’t true and that i was important to him and he didn’t want to lose me and he would do what he needed to do (within reason) to make me happy. and during no contact, i want you to think exactly what type of treatment you expect from him. idk how she can completely move on so fast its almost unfathomable, like she has no conscience. he stalked her for the whole year we dated he texted her all the time. by text: 2 reasons why it happened and what to do to bounce back. if still nothing, you have the option of starting no contact and trying again or concentrate on moving on. i was thinking about sending her a quick message on there if i see her profile go back into full status. we still talk to each other even after he requested the break as we use to talk to each other everyday. so i said i want to break up with you the following day. what to do after that if she doesn’t break up with her rebound? that girl turned out to be his little sister’s best friend that she’s known since 2nd grade. i just felt like it was good to end the txt / snapchat thing on a good positive note. she contacts me again saying that i still had something of hers at my place. but you will find someone who will care about your happiness. i am worried he is only focused on the bad parts of our relationship and is ignoring all the wonderful times we had and how great we were as a couple. and in august he and this new guy became a couple. i just want us to have a real, honest chance to be happy together without all the lies. he say’s that he still loves me and calls me baby when we talk to each other, he also told me when i broke up with him that nobody is going to love you like i do! i know i now need to apply the nc rule but i’m sos ared he’s gonna meet one of these girls and move on. until you let him go from your heart, you will never make the space for the right person. need to stay, as i was really worried that if she didn’t have someone there to look out for her, she wouldn’t get better. even though, she usually waits three months before sleeping with someone she is dating, she makes an exception in garry’s case; simply because she thinks that sleeping with him will make her forget about you. after a while we talked on the phone and she told me that she did not have the same feelings for me anymore. and does no contact really work for me even in this situation? ever since she’s been dating this guy she’s been posting pics on various social media and adding comments indicating that they are in love and he’s dreamy blah blah blah… also, she blocked me on fb when they started dating and then unblocked me. she’ll start talking about her day or how school is going and how she wants me to keep a look out for a job for her. it hurt so so so much and i really couldn’t believe he could do that to me full stop, let alone during a time that i was extremely vulnerable. guess, just from what has happened in the past, i have a feeling that he will date her for a couple of months and then come back to me again, but i cannot tell if this is a rebound or not. and for that you’ll have to let him go. she has an old friend garry who comforts her, she finds herself attracted to him. but since applying the nc rule last night she still texts me and wants to know what i’ve been doing and when my days off are? done everything wrong, i really wish i had read your article a month ago. think what do you expect from him in the relationship. if she doesn’t reply even at that time, then your chances are slim and i’ll recommend you try to move on..I met his brother last week and we had a nice talk. i wasn’t just comfortable doing that at my house and i told him that, because i wanted him to feel that my parents’ house isn’t really the best place to do it. he called me by the pet name when we were friends, rather than when we were dating. when we straightened things out he said that he thinks its best and he doesn’t want to be in a relationship now. he would give off hints that he wanted me back and well we did but since or offical break up which has been 4 months now hes been in and out so many relationships i figured he was using her as a rebound he would pur her names he use to call me and it bothered me enough to yell at him will cruel and our of line words but you’ve made me wake up and realize alot so i know whats best thank you. it seems like she doesn’t care about me at all now. i did not respond to this and will not be contacting him even though i feel like i didn’t get a whole lot of closure as i didn’t speak with him face to face. why was he letting a young girl sleeping at his house if he loved me and didn’t want anything to happen? it’s an attempt to feel the same way you were feeling while you were in a relationship with your ex. towards the end of the conversation there was a lot of touching. both sides hated our hearts being together and it made us very unhappy and i pointed the blame at you and you pointed the blame at me it was a big loop going round and round. i explain in the article, her relationship is probably a rebound and she isn’t as happy with her life as she seems to be in social media, which is why i recommend you stay away from her online profiles. not even trying to reconcile the year we built and move forward constructively working things out. ex and i broke up approx 4 and 1/2 months ago, we were together for over 5 years. your e-mails everyday and web site has been helping me tremendously. and it seems pretty serious because the guy is always at her house and i know he stays over. it showed me the difference between being happy physical with someone and not really caring compared to actually caring for someone like my current ex who i would of done anything for. i feel i want to reply as positive as i can on how i’m doing. i, though i honestly want to she her happy, want her to see me as the one guy that was always there for her…. of all, which couple discusses big life decision on their facebook wall? maybe there are things that would have to change and we can have a rational discussion about whether such changes are possible, given our situations”. before you decide to get back with him, you should make it absolutely clear that he wants the same things as you. & relationshipslovewhat must i do if my ex is dating someone else? birthday is next week but i don’t think i should say anything anyway but do you think it would make her mad or upset if i didn’t say anything. i’m a bit confused as what she is doing. should i just not contact at all until she does? shes in virginia now and the new guy is in jamaica which i find weird for a new relationship to work she is coming back in august tho, could this be a rebound? i wonder is if i was his rebound girl and if so, if all the steps to getting him back work. she said she is at someones house and she is gonna be there for the whole day. i asked her what she wanted and she said she didn’t know, that i had no idea what was going on inside her. unlike the past few weeks, he didn’t avoid me as i was going to where he was (since that was the only way i should take to go home) that’s why he was able to look at me as i was “talking on the phone”.. he started on a dating site 4 days afte the break up and told me so. what should i do now after my no contact period to him? in fact, try to move on completely during these 2-3 months. the only conflict we ever had involved her successive social activities that she’d commit to on short notice. someone who is not even compatible with their life goal. i confronted him and he lied about it, telling me it was a recent thing and he never cheated. i tried talking to her the other day on the phone asking her to please just stop with all the negativity towards me and gave her my honest opinion as her friend that she is drinking too much and that i’m upset she is letting guys use her, i think that really made her mad because she is back to ignoring me again. the break up was very clean and mutual: i knew i was suffering and thought maybe we could work it out, but we talked it through and realised there was no fix. and of course she’s now got a new guy now so it doesn’t matter; if she’s happy then good for her, that’s all i want for her anyway, before now and in the future. well down the road i split up with her because i thought it was best. shouldn’t affect much if you are not needy after no contact. bf dumped me 5 days ago telling me that he wants to be alone. i’m not sure if i’m at “deaths door” or “indifference”? anyways i moved out of our shared apartment back to my hometown for a month, before we both decided we should be friends and roommates(so we both could save money up easily in order to move into our own separate apartments). do nc for a month and get back in touch. if i already, after the break-up , went all desperate texts/phone calls followed by 21 days nc. like he didn’t want to work things out but he didn’t wanna let go either. and he knows about that part and he will try to appeal to that part. when you contact him after nc is over, both of you will hopefully be a lot clear on what you want in life and you can discuss it before getting back together. it’s the kind of intimacy that is built with time and effort that a relationship requires. (technically speaking, the rebound already ended and this time, you will be starting a normal relationship and taking it slow). this means you can’t get mad when he begins to start dating someone else. i will take the advice that i am given because whatever i am doing, is not working!, after the 3 months, are conversations became more involved and i started to open up to him and reconnect again and things were getting better. i don’t know if its a rebound relationship with her new guy, or what the deal is there. yet i know i care about this guy a lot, but since i know i spoke up for a reason and don’t appreciate being disrespected, i can’t figure out his place in my life. i have the strongest feeling that this is the one guy for her the one she been looking for and wanting for very long time and it happens to already be someone important and special in her life and who been there long time already. wouldn’t the only thing left to be is intimacy. also when she broke up with me she told me her father bought her a one way ticket to her country and i found out that wasn’t true either and that she bought the ticket her self a week earlier.’m also lost on if your dating a close friend someone who knows all about you and she knows about him. new relationship will eventually suffer as your ex is not yet over the past one they had with you. i don’t know if you completed no contact, but if you did, you should stay in touch with her and try to rebuild the attraction slowly. if you follow the 5 step plan, it probably won’t be ignored. later on throughout the movie he kissed me, i didn’t initiate. just stay in touch and wait till her relationship falls apart. the only thing that i can guarantee you is that you did mean a great deal to her. take a step back for a second and look at how much obsessed you are becoming. since i “cut off contact” i did contact him a few times, but mostly tried to present myself as confident and “over him” which i was for a while. i think it is not anymore a rebound relationship maybe he is serious with her! like how it happens after long periods of no association or someone being in a relationship. then we stopped contact with each other and he meets this new girl like 3 months later and they start hanging out and eventually get together and become “official. but there were a lot of problems throughout our relationship. mean to do nc for certain amount of time then try to attempt to associate with her but for nothing. they are in a rebound, you still have to apply the no contact rule and follow the 5-step plan. i am devastated all over again i love this man so much and we have been through so much together. does care for me…but has made her mind up and can only look at me as a friend and flatmate. if he didn’t cheat on a physical level i am sure he cheated emotionally. i am pretty heartbroken, and feel that i should move on with my life. and my ex of 5 years (which is also my 9month old’s father) recently broke up end of may…. so yesterday i noticed her profile was back up, but all the pics and info were gone.’m more concerned on what our supposedly “relationship” was actually or apprently wasn’t. then when i instituted a no contact rule, after about 2 weeks he was begging to be back with me. she said she does not see us getting back, not meant to be, etc… i brought up lies that she said, and instead of apologizing she yelled “dont you ever call me again” and sent me a text that said “have a nice life! this was due to her being in a foreign country, away from her really close friends (she had been here 2 years before i met her) and, after she moved cities to be with me, couldn’t find a job. how likely is it that people get back together after breaking up, especially in my situation, where his mind and heart seem preoccupied with the infatuation with another woman? she would not answer my call or text messages on the day she sent the email. if i could get some answers in both these fronts? i bombarded her with texts and calls for the first couple of days. even if they're dating someone else, your ex is probably still thinking of you. from moving the rebound relationship too fast, another common behavior that rebound relationships have is choosing someone they’d not go for normally. i do show him that i appreciate his efforts by thanking him, talking to him on the phone often (but i’ve never called him), and kissing him. do you agree with what my friends have said in regards to a slightly manipulative behaviour from her? i feel good, i’m happy with going with the flow, spending time with friends etc. i said before, you should remove her from all your social media. though i handle the break up gracefully, it feels like he will never come around. is, i have a lease until the end of the year. i’d be naive to say that just because it’s a rebound it won’t work, i’m aware it very well could, but in that just-less-than 2 month period since us breaking up and her getting this new guy she would contact me from time to time., say your ex is in a rebound relationship now and you start to do no contact. anyway – were together for a year when things started to get difficult between us, so i had to break the relationship off with him to give us both space to get ourselves back on track.. before i was so blind and so desperate that i couldn’t think straight i would beg for chances. then he started reminiscing on our past and my smile, but then the tone changed and he told me that i should move on, that i don’t want to be with him and years later i would thank him. up with me for someone else we did have not sex in 6 moths he says i’m bored never go out and the new guy he like to go out the opposite of me is that a rebound ? i would always feel like i was hurting her when i wasn’t meaning too. know they’re still together and that his rich family is backing her business endeavor, as she was fired from her job shortly after shacking up with the man. it seems innocent enough until you look at her social media. thanks for all the free stuff, and thanks for te opportunity to share this. she would even come to my work just to see me for couple minutes. some people keep someone lined up for dating before breaking up just so they don’t have to be single for longer than a few days. i basically inflicted this pain on myself by taking my ex for granted and pushing her into this new guy arms. apparantly he also had an affair 4-5 years ago while i had 24 hour shifts at my old job. if that’s the case, could this make the relationship more or less successful? things that happen when you fall in love with your life instead of a person. and pathetic as i apparantly am, i still want him back. until i saw the picture i wanted him back but now i had to go no contact at all…how can i talk to him after he let me find out the truth in such a horrible way? what is going on and what on earth do i do? in september i sent my ex roses because we would have had our 5 year anniversary and my ex was very happy about that (even though his new partner hated it). my friends tell me that she is a rebound and i’m confused. she makes pathetic attempts to move the relationship faster hoping that she can gain the same level of intimacy that comes from long-term relationship. anyways, talking to him made me go crazy and i ended up blowing up his phone which was a bad idea and he finally got angry and told me to leave me alone, he wants nothing to do with me, he gave me too many chances, hes seeing other girls. is this new girl a rebound and if so what are my next steps. that said, we still live together, a mutual decision not only because we don’t want to physically have to make the move, but also because we don’t want to separate. before i knew it, they were engaged within one month of dating. was her rebound guy… now she is in new relationship… she broke my heart in 10000 peaces… and now 4 months later im still in shit and she is in love with him…. that’s why you need to cut contact with him. im pretty sure from what ive read here that ive only pushed her further into his arms. have no choice but to do the no-contact rule i suppose? but he believes that he and i can remain best friends. now i have texted him since wednesday and he has been very rude to me and says leave me alone, i’m seeing other girls, but yesterday i called him after receiving 20 blocked calls. she thinks if garry and her start having sex, she will feel much closer to garry and perhaps forget you. he can be very stubborn at times and has a policy of “not going back”. kevin,i had read your all 5 steps but unfortunately i think its bit late for me,i am 23yrs of age and my ex is 22,we were together since 6 months from june2013 to dec13,but my possessiveness ruin our relation though i love her very very much,we were working together but break up cause me to leave the organisation which i was seeking from last 3years,after that i had tried to contact her in every possible from message to email,since last 4 months i was continuously text her because i thought time shouldn’t run away but she feel it very irritating and start to hate me more than she loved me,we were in great relationship but my few mistakes asked me to pay heavy price,but i really love her and she had also loved me alot,and i desperately want her back so please please help me out. so, at some point i called a face to face, where i tried fighting for us one last time- presented him with the timeline leading up to proposal- how could he propose after 2 months- and he had dedicated a lana del rey song to me just the other day- a song that made me want to just die- so we agreed to no more sad texts- but apparently it didnt stop because again i needed to have another convo with him to get my point across.

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Ex starts dating another guy, but freaks out when I meet a girl

he said things like he wanted to marry me one day and made me promise to never leave him. the best thing for you to do is no contact, at least for 2-3 months. because of something in my career at the time i stayed for a minute unsure. the article also said how common it was for close friends to feel more then just simple friendship for one another. he came back from vacation, he didn’t even explain why he didn’t text me that long…he didn’t even apologize. but still, i’d recommend you give him some time to initiate contact before you do so. it seems she is texting you just to see if you are there for her and once she realizes that you are, she feels satisfied and doesn’t respond to you anymore. rebound relationship don’t work out because the person in a rebound is not emotionally available to start a healthy relationship. because you’re friends with her on facebook does not mean you should stalk her like your life depends on it. what should i do i can’t describe to you the pain i feel. broking up he said to me that he’s a different person now than when we met. you agree to keep the identity of the members a secret? after no contact, you still want him, get back in touch and go out with him a couple of times. also, don’t ever try to get to your ex through a friend. she said just before she broke with me that she wasn’t remarrying him, but she needs to be happy for her kids. you are right, it’s hard to say if it’s a rebound. a guy i know told me that age eventually matters. simply put, they are trying to maintain the same relationship but with the a different partner. i still see all social media posts etc (unless blocked from future posts, idk? i was just someone she thought was better looking then the last guy that’s it. had been on a few dates in the mean time, had sex with one or two, but no relationships. if your ex is going out of their way to show you they are happy in their relationship and everything’s going great, then it’s probably a rebound and they are not doing that great in reality. dated with my boyfriend 2,5 years, which half year we were engaged. allow yourself a moment or two alone for some loud screams, maybe some throwing of objects that won’t break, but if your ex starts dating someone else, you have no right to be openly mad about it. i know i will get over him one day but i don’t want to and the pain thinking about it is unbearable 🙁.***the best team building secret is to create lots of energy and enthusiasm. has usually been happy when she is around him before their step up in relationship term from friends to actually being more then that. i don’t see how he is better then me. i love him very dearly – i’m not sure if he truly knows this. so finally i decided to leave then two days later he came back to begged me plead me everything but i liked someone else.***how energy shifting improves your relationship and attract your spouse back. im hurt that he cheated on me and made this side chick hes girl…. you know almost nothing about her to actually love her as a person. i also feel like when she came over she only did it because she was that bored or something that she only came over to kill 20-30 minutes before leaving to her house. when we finally meet up at a neutral place on valentines day she was cold and distant. im really feeling good about myself , and not depressed like i was when we broke up. i don’t visit him so i will never know. you want to ask a question about your relationship or breakup, head over to the boards. let him fight for you and prove that the really means it. i sent in a comment couple days ago and it looks like it still hasn’t gone up yet but, i just recently found out that thing between me and my girl ended and not in the way i preferred. after the movie we went to get dinner and she started to cry again. we just one issue which is not having enough time to be together, and we’re already lucky if we get to spend 2 hours of dating in a day. her response was that she missed me too but needed to get some things in her life straight. it gives you hope to fill that empty feeling inside you. so in five months from our break up he’s got a new girl pregnant, made her his fiancé and now contacting me. the thing is, you said let his new relationship play out and then contact him but he still has half his life around mine. gf is dating one of her close male best friends. new boyfriend is one of her close best friends who has had feelings for her for long time more then just friends. continues her relationship, in hope that her level of intimacy with garry will increase and the empty feeling inside her will slowly go away. or could it be that he earlier met this old friend while we were together? it was as if the undeniability was a coping mechanism for me at the time to heal after the hurt that had been caused. it doesn’t necessarily mean she will still has feelings for him. i know she has tried to insert new dude into areas of her life in replacement of me. i’m now thinking about just emailing him a letter. why can’t she let new dude organically become part of her life rather than inserting him into contexts i previously occupied? he has admitted that since being back, the person i am now and the state of the current relationship is like night and day compared to before (his words). i am trying to move on with the help of a therapist and trying to get back to the old me. her best friend is also probably telling her about the fact that she spoke to you and it’s going to make you look like a stalker. your ex knows that you are checking their facebook and if they are constantly posting picture with their rebound then it’s a sign that they are in a rebound. it only gets worse if you find that your ex is dating someone else.’d recommend you do no contact for a couple of weeks and then text her again. was wondering if there is a time limit or something to all this i know your suppose to strike before the move on but if you can’t even associate even the smallest simply conversation. i can’t stand the thought of her being w this guy n just miss her. any advice on what i should or shouldn’t say? recently we started talking again and have hung out like 4 times. i assume it’s a rebound as everyone has said to me it is and his own cousins where shocked it happened and so soon and having read your page. confused why i’m getting told that i was important and i am misses more by a older ex then current one. so my questions are: should i try it after a few weeks or a month, or do i just have to let it go and give up? today i sent him an email letting him know i can’t accept a cold friendship like this, “we deserve better and maybe we have a better shot at friendship later on, hugs”. i felt like she was hiding something but didn’t want to fight about it. it also say usually a good amount of these are started with a best friend and lead to both feeling real love for each other. and my gf were in a relationship for a year and a half, we had a beautiful relationship but last month was rough, we didn’t have much time for each other and we didn’t talk soo much. and three weeks after your and your ex’s breakup? after all, you know your ex and your situation better than anyone else. he didn’t speak to me since then – no texts or email. i know hat girls loved me with all of her heart..i was blindsided and shock did not see it coming. we had a close relationship and i had a good relationship with his family. we were both talking about moving in to my new place and be a family, but i told her that i wanted to take things slow. want to follow the nc rule, which you say will make him want me back and wonder what i’m up to and care etc. wanted to say stop exaggerating about the unhealthy part because we were both really happy she just got upset and felt that way when she had an attitude and i didn’t want to talk for day or two, it was to give each person space, not like i was such that bad person she makes me out to be. but all that is not going to help you with your current state of mind., he seems very confused about the situation which has resulted in his feelings and behaviour changing almost daily., my name is mario, i recently was dumped by my girlfriend of 4 years. i somehow pulled it back but she wasn’t as the same as she used to be(i asked her to start detaching from me like 2 weeks ago but never thought she would do it, which i think is the first mistake i have done). boyfriend is in the military and stationed overseas, we have been together for two years and i just got back home from visiting him over christmas and new years. and the more you lose hope the more you start analyzing their new relationship (and obsessing over them) trying to convince yourself it’s a rebound., although i struggle on the odd occasion… who doesn’t? me and my ex split about 6 weeks ago and i asked her several times especially when she became more distant and easily angered toward me. like why did she tell me those things when she never had intentions of working out things. we’ve been together for over two years officially, but 5 years we had feelings for each other. should wait a week or two and then try again. i ask what his name was just cause i was curious and she won’t tell me anything and is very secretive about it. just before i leave to return to uni,I agreed to meet him, however this just ended up involving us going for a walk outside and me shouting at him saying “how could you do this? if you’ve been keeping tabs on her (via mutual friends or checking her emails or facebook), then you are not really following the no contact rule. but yet, whenever i would want to defend myself, he really didn’t want to hear it. i stopped by before the cleaning started and when i got to his room, i found a card addressed to “my princess” with so many lovely handwritten words. what’s the best way of dealing with a rebound? should i contact her while she is in relationship with this guy after 1 month? i said i was off hiking for the weekend with a friend. we were also in the early stages of buying a home. he was being very dramatic and said he was going to stay single for a long time and didn’t know if he’d ever get married, etc. so we were working things out and all but then he starts talking to his co worker&now they are in a relationship. my ex and i had been going out for almost 3 years before i broke up with him this past december right before new year’s eve. in most cases, people have someone lined up before they breakup just so they don’t have to be single. you two haven’t really broken up, i suggest you let him know that you need some space and time and you want no contact for a month. i don’t think either one of you is a rebound. still wearing the shoes i gave him and he was still using the wallet i gave him. i arranged for a cleaning outfit but spoke to his pa to be in the house. during this conversation she told me “why be without someone who you don’t want to marry. i did nc for 5 weeks and saw him again a month ago for dinner. was really shaken up after our break, and didn’t know about the nc rule…after we broke up i texted him several times and i ended up called him profuseley apologizing and told him that i loved him (which i admittedly never did during our relationship). kevin, today i realized i shouldn’t be with the man i have dated for 4 years. can you do right now to help you feel better?” i’ve been busting my back-side trying to get through school so that i could make her my life partner. we don’t hang in the same social circles so i have no clue? this behaviour continued another two times, both of which i forgave. if you already did, then you should reply to him. however, over the course of the next 2 or so years, he was constantly doubting his decision. tell him you need time to think things through and so does he. i don’t know what to do next, or how to answer? then he randomly freaked out on me one night because his new girl was mad because he had been talking to me and it was all my fault. i wrote a prayer for us that we’d both heal and forgive each other. like i don’t see any of the signs just the ignoring and already moved on signs. i broke up with my boyfriend about four weeks ago and he contacted me saying he’ll give me a week to decide if we should get back together, but when the day came and i made up my mind on wanting to be with him, he said we should just be friends. then a week later i found out that he started seeing his ex, who cheated on him before we started seeing each other. of course if something is genuinely wrong i’d talk to her, but i have just 2 more questions:1. or say for some strange reason she actually does contact me sometime here and wants to talk or hangout and say some small chance in heck that we do this on regular basis we just talk more and what stops her from constantly thinking of him as more of a friend. which shows she is not over him and is most probably in a rebound. my ex is still dating the other guy & i haven’t heard from her. wouldn’t they still be the same way like hanging out all time having great time together and other things. what is going on and what on earth do i do? when he was telling me about the girl he said it wasn’t anything serious and he couldn’t see it going anywhere. things went pear shaped after he cheated on me about 6months ago but i gave him yet another chance because i really thought he was the one. could you please advise what should i do next in order to get him back? i replied with “please stop contacting me” and “run run run away”. you have been in no contact since the breakup, how do you know all these things? she just glanced at me really quick and it looked like it was a disapproved look, like really this guy. he still tells me that he hopes we’ll end up together, that he isn’t in love with her, but that she is a part of his “process”. i’m not focusing or trying to find ways to get her back right now. however, i know he still has feelings for me and still cares. if there is a way i could just get some feed back it would be really great and helpful, because i don’t want to keep feeling like any day or two i am gone snap and lose it about all of this . i heard about this no contact rule and i did it for one month. i want to share shortly my story and want to hear your opinion about it. both know everthing about each other already so i’m sure that only has left the physical aspect to fill in. i said okay, take your time and contact me whenever you get a chance. i realized that a few weeks back but didn’t want to bother her seeing how bad our last interaction went. he’s been sleeping with loads of other women when they were still together, he’s left her alone while their son was born (to get back with her later) and now he’s only spending time with his son maybe once every two months, not really showing any interest, yet playing the victim in front of everyone. i found out my ex was in a new relationship i was still struggling with the breakup. there’s no way you can know for sure if she still has feelings for you or she has completely forgotten about you. which i found confusing cause i couldnt understand why she would care. you were always there for her, and she didn’t consider your feelings. we don’t hang in the same social circles so i have no clue? think you should send the letter after two months of no contact. she now lives in his house that looks just like the houses we were fixing to buy. he finally contacted me about giving me my stuff back and he looked so miserable. i think her new relationship is most probably a rebound and you shouldn’t worry about it much.’m interested to hear what you have to say about my situation. no matter how much better or worse you are than her, it doesn’t change the fact that she is currently dating a guy you used to care about (keyword: used to). to know the truth isn’t even for the purpose of rekindling anything, but just for a sense of closure. never got a response from the email/don’t know if he even read it. i freaked out after i found out he was dating someone else within a week after we took a break. after everything in a honest opinion what does it look like really. it gives you a chance to feel that level of intimacy again. he texted me to meet up with him the other night because he needed someone to talk to. that instantly killed my vibe i felt like crap the rest of my workout suffered and i felt just mad at that like, really you look at me like that. so far i dont think her new reltation is a rebound reltn. she said she still had it in her car i asked like you mean unopened she said no she read it when i gave it to her. in mind that you can't control your partner or their emotions. not even two or three weeks before i come home? told me she thinks we need to go our separate ways, and within a week i was all moved out.. give him call while he is at work or something. reach out to your ex when you want to know what’s going on in his life, and want to reveal what’s going on in yours, and when he has a new girlfriend that’s probably not the case. and no, this is not just what she has told me. a scarp book of us and lastly a video of me about 100 reasons why i love him. posted before but now im really confused, my ex broke up with me about 3 month ago, we were together 10 years we have been in regular contact until last week when i decided to go nc i knew she had been seeing another guy and i think that’s why i was dumped but reading on here he could of been her back up plan before we finished, she kept lying about him all the time then last thursday she sent a text telling me she was now seeing him , but a month ago she said he was a rebound a bit of fun , now her saying that makes me think its serious between them last sunday after spending the day with her which she organised , holding my hand kissing me etc he text and she said i have to see him to sort my feelings out, she spent the night at his, i was heartbroken i think she is in love with this guy and after reading on this site its like she hasn’t been emotionally involved for months but on the other hand dumpers in rebounds think there in love but this guy has been around to pick her up when we were going wrong , she sent a snapchat on friday then i had caller id withheld calls on my phone on sunday which she used to do if we fell out could be coincidence but that has never happened before im trying not to panic i have been no contact for a week but god i miss her so much even after how horrible she has been but im in panic mode , how can she stop loving me , how can she forget me , how can she move on , etc etc etc but this site says if she waited 3 months or more to move on she admitted seeing him after 3 months but has been seeing him longer , and this guy is the total opposite (more confusion) real player not nice to women multiple partners etc etc ,but she says he is gorgeous and in her text she said i was good looking great sense of humour ,big heart which i think is a ego boost for her cos why leave if im all that anyway im so hurt and confused some good feedback would be excellent cos im at rock bottom. we tried to date and repair the relationship but my anger always got in the way. you should do no contact to learn to be happy without her.. i think they took advantage of him being depress and feed him with “she doesnt love you anymore” crap. is she just in a “rebound relationship” and is there any place for me to hope she will return to me? may-june i saw him adding a guy on his facebook. you need to stop thinking about the past and start thinking of your future. anyway, i broke up with a wonderful, and awesome guy about 5 months ago. needless to say i was really confused by all of it. this carefully designed test to find out your chances and if you qualify for the ebp basics e-course. doesn’t matter who has bigger boobs or a smaller waist, the one thing that is making you obsess over her is your ex, so don’t give him that satisfaction and forget about her! do i contact him and give him a time frame to collect or continue no contact? that was confusing to try and understand if so then why are you with someone. apart from what’s recently happened, we both agreed we were happy and he even text to say i’m pleased to have spent them years with you, we had good times. within 3 months she went from “i love you and want to marry you” then this guy comes along and in one night she was telling me i ruined her life and am a horrible person. soon enough, she will realize her relationship with garry for what it is. story short, my ex girlfriend dumped me randomly (stopped having sex with me about a month before) so maybe no so randomly. it’s just a weird situation being from a small town and having someone mistreat you so badly. i was about to apply another month or two of nc, then ring him up or email. i have a feeling she is and has been seeing someone else even toward the end of our relationship. or should i just let them be and happy that he’s happy? i know receiving a rose on her b’day will bring a smile to her face but it is so predictable, from me. like it cants just be you run into that person down the road and start talking and having good time again and be like we should try again and it works. let it go, and maybe in the future we’ll run into each other again. however, don’t make it obvious that you want to get back together. i said okay because i had done a few myself and they sucked. know this because you two were in a serious relationship for significant amount of My ex is dating someone new what should I do? some people are extremely active on facebook and twitter while some people don’t usually post their personal life all over social media. reasons you totally have to move on from your ex today. i would say he’s opposite of me in most ways. she contacted me again after like 4 days and we just talked random stuffs. she seemed off, kind of aggressive and not like i had ever seen her. either he can commit or you cut him off entirely from your life and move on. casual to committed: secret of capturing his heart through personal transformation. you have to make an effort to go out there and make yourself happier. i did some of the no no’s…ima human being who had his emotions seriously messed with…i have since cut all ties…going nc as they seem to be more serious and have been dating a few months now.: people who just broke up usually speed up things a bit in an effort to bring their current relationship into the same footing as their old one. one of his friends said he saw me and left cuz he didn’t want me to be uncomfortable. yes, that may be hard, but be mad on the inside. latest i was gonna wait to ask him if he still wanted to hang out was the day our show comes on, and until then just bide my time. she’s known him for a while as he’s from the town where she lives, they were in high school together (we both study at university which is a 3 hour drive from her hometown, he still lives there). but yet, here she is, rushing a relationship faster than a speeding bullet. so, i broke up with him one night bc of the stress and i didn’t realize i had pms! i think it’s better to create space and restrict contact for a while. their personality and a lot of other things that i’m sure are being reinforced with him so it makes her realize how he was there for her all these years.

in the meantime though, before we rediscovered each other, she got married and had 2 boys with a guy she eventually broke up with. it made me look stupid in the end for believing she actually meant things like missing me or thinking of me or wanting so see me when she did. however, you can have a talk with him before doing so telling him that you think this is best course of action right now since you feel disrespected by the fact that he is with the other women at the same time he is with you. replied as mentioned and now a text comes out of the blue from nc about working on a project together. ever since then, i have been pestering him by call and texts for two weeks. want to try and forget about your ex, and you don’t need to be constantly reminded that he is dating someone else when pictures of the two of them show up with lovey dovey captions like “love him,” or “my boo. all the times she said she misses me or thinking of me a lot i know we’re not true because she has been with her best friend turned boyfriend for sometime. he told me that everyone was surprised and that his mom missed me. if she ends the relationship, she will have to face all the pain and emptiness alone and she doesn’t think she is ready to do it yet.’s not a good idea to show up at his house. don’t think there’s a hidden meaning to it. i don’t see how he is better besides being artist. i’ve been worried sick about her because this new guy is a smooth talking player who doesn’t really care who his girlfriend is as long as he has one but she seems to think she’s in love with him and she seems to be trying to replace me with him. there is hope you will get back together and yes, it’s probably a rebound. so let’s just assume that you are right and she is happy. i basically had to reason with her to get her to talk to me. i don’t think you should hold it against him the way he handled the breakup and what he did after the breakup. if it doesn’t work, you can close this chapter and try to move on. i called her that night to confirm us catching up and she said she wanted to call me later that evening as she was still busy., friending her will allow you to see where she works, what she does with her free time, and all of her embarrassing pictures, but you don’t, and shouldn’t, need to know anything about this girl let alone intimate details about her life. she has been very moody and has spent a lot of time in her room…. text him or send him the letter mentioned in the 5 step plan. guy seems to be the exact opposite of someone she would usually date. after that i stopped texting her and calling her, i don’t know if she misses me. the only thing you can control is your actions and your decisions. i am pretty sure she will break up with that guy eventually. i screamed so loud and yelled as loud as i could bursting into tears. need to mention that after she called it quits, we continued to live together as flatmates (and have done for two years). he’s still with his rebound nearly five months later so if the man i love is still going strong with her, i don’t want his belongings left here forever. i asked him if i could kiss him and he said he didnt know if that was right…after that he kissed me. we have gone through this once before but he came back. i did not want to see him that this time even if he asked because i was still in pain because of what happened and the break up. she also said that she doesn’t feel anything for me but then contradicted herself by saying that she has been afraid to do anything with this guy because she still cares for me a lot and has a lot respect for me. with all the talking and attempts on both sides to ‘fix things’, we now have a stronger and deeper connection than we had before (a mutual opinion). she did not reply to that message but i sent her another message saying “i was pretty drunk yesterday and let me know when i can talk to you”. this, he has been surprisingly open to the idea of fixing things, though still wants a ‘break’. she broke up with me, saying that she needs to get her life together and is terribly sorry for using me in this way, but my feeling is that the real reason is that i’ve really done a bad job in handling and embracing all this complicated stuff with her ex. its funny to think, he cannot see my posts because i have my profile on private. literally 30 mins after i said something to her about it. she texted next day to see if i’d bring the dog into her store. it is a horrible time and i don’t see any light at the end of the tunnel. 4 months where she was dating both of us without the other knowing. but i am pretty sure she still has feelings from you and she might even be having a hard time getting over you..) have been dating on and off for the past 7 years. he finally started avoiding my messages so i stop talking to him as well. i did ask her about the guy she was seeing the one who is her friend.: you and your partner used to be crazy with each other until stress created problems between you both-- which destroyed your relationship. i just feel i am worthless and that i spent six years with someone who couldnt care less about me. decided today to be nosey and look at my ex’s facebook. i have been two weeks nc and i just wondering if my ex has really move on with his new girl and am i wasting my time. but about a year ago he got depressed with his life and we broke up that was 10 months ago now. so i told my ex that but he said hes over me and just wants to be friends.. i had left him alone and he contacted my best friend asking how i was doing and that he wanted to be friends cause he cared about me still our breakup related to my actions and mistakes that pushed him way over the edge. girlfriend of 2 years recently broke up with with an email message at exactly the 2 year mark of our relationship. neither of us were happy here and i was trying to get us out. cannot tell if this relationship is just a rebound, and i have a chance of a future with this indecisive person, or if i should just let go of the entire thing and move on. feel like any type of texting will be ignored, or seen as me trying to get him back. texted him already but he dont reply knowing that he is awake and online. heard from his mom my ex is still asking about me, how i am etc thats a good sign right?: well, we had a connection and i don’t think it could be replicated. the best success, personal development, health, fitness, business, and financial advice. it’s common for them to feel something like love for each other and true happiness because they have so much in common and they already know all secrets and all other things about one another. they were married for 10 years (he’s 36 now, no kids) and broke up because they didnt have a good relationship: he wanted kids and she didnt, she wasnt in love with him, she did her life (went on holidays with friends and not even contact him once while away, went out every day with friends instead of come home to eat dinner with him) and act like her roommate, etc etc. it’s not because they want to play mind games, but simply because it’s human nature to try to be consistent with their decision. my ex sent me messages that he thought about me everyday, and also on that special day. i don’t understand how he could just have met someone else already especially as he works like crazy and his parents hadn’t even been aware that we had broken up until i told them. (getting along, common interests, physical intimacy, overall feeling for and toward that person, deeper connection, etc) kind of makes it hard to call it or see as a “rebound”. you say she loves two men in the same way? he didn’t jump into the relationship right away and he is letting her decide who he talks to, i’d say that he is pretty serious about his relationship. whenever i get out and curse him he begs me to stop pushing him far away than he is already. you and her were not together for very long time, it’s hard to say if her new relationship is a rebound. i have thrown myself back into the gym working out with a trainer and have taken on a part time job for the summer to give me something to do. i know i am still not over the break up so i broke up with the new guy. a few days beforevalentine’s day i texted him (sad, i know, but i didn’t text him so i wouldn’t be single for vday haha). i couldn’t take it anymore, i blocked him out of my life. but thanks i will let her just do her and have to see what happens.. just wait till his new relationship blows up because if his girlfriend continues acting like this, it will eventually end.. things with us were going so well recently but then a couple weeks ago, he went on a trip with his friends, and met a (gorgeous) girl who lives 3 hours away and i guess he got her number. she was working a lot and was getting stressed out. she never ended up calling me back and that was on tuesday. he doesn’t want us to cause each other to hurt. the following day i receive an email from her explaining she didn’t feel comfortable talking about it in person, but a month after she broke up with me she started seeing someone and they were going to marry in the fall. broke up on reasonable grounds: she’s going through a lot of personal problems right now with health and mental state, and she kinda unloaded that onto me, and she felt guilty that she wasn’t treating me properly. so another month goes by and while on facebook i see she is tagged in a pic in a hugging pose with another guy. of 6 years, one child together, ended it a couple weeks ago. if she doesn’t contact you and you still want her after a couple of months, you can try giving her a call and see how she responds. happened just today, my exbf contact one of our common friend in college. but i have no idea how i should aproach this. we also took a break to focus on some personal issues (work, life, etc). if you want to pursue her more, do nc for another 2 weeks and try again. he replied back that he is no longer engaged, and that he is gonna leave the country soon for time alone. they’ve been seeing each other since march 10th and i’ve finally just given up. you agree to use a condom when having sex with a partner you meet on our site? last time i heard it saw from her was middle of october when she came to my place. i’m relatively sure he’s deleted my number and being that i’m not active should i activate again? i hitted his limit and he created new facebook account and added his family and relatives only. about a week later, her older sister’s fiance’s friend from work was introduced to my ex and from what i heard from my brother who lives in that house with my ex’s sister, she has been going out with this guy like every other day, and doesn’t come home sometimes till after 2am. to get your ex back- even when they are dating someone. towards the end she said something like we have unfinished business and that we even have like imaginary kids, i agreed. i was in there getting pretty heavy lift in, i was kind of feeling good had nice sweat going. about 3 wks back during the no contact period she texted me that she hasn’t done anything intimate with the person she’s seeing. someone who will care about you and treat you the way you deserve to be treated. is the ugliest thing about you, based on your zodiac sign.’s hard to tell what’s causing this confused behavior. however, more importantly, i want to be happy with him and maintain that happiness. contact him after that using one of the methods in this article. was i just nothing more then a stepping stone the last one. down i would love to reconnect with her again, but i know i do not deserve this kind of behavior. imagine she’s over me by now too as i haven’t been able to stay nc because i have to see her in college every day and she just starts conversations at me., although i struggle on the odd occasion… who doesn’t? listening to what kevin has said in this article and others, has really showed me a lot. i want to thank you for all the time and effort you put into me and this relationship. don’t have any regrets from my former ex who is married now. have been in a relationship with this girl for almost 14 months. broke up with him through a pretty harsh text but did not expect him to actually go along with it while he was home on christmas break. to help you decide whether you should try to rekindle or move on. doesn’t mean that we could never have gone to those fancy shows and places or that we never had same interests either. although, i am sort of glad that you found out the truth and have decided to leave him behind. we would go out to lunch and even had a day where we enjoyed ourselves again in bed. i wish i didn’t because we didn’t try to solve the problems and i chose the easy way and decided to break up. she left saying we would continue it tommorw but did not hear from her. i panicked and rushed to her house and begged for her not to. my experience, rebounds usually end and are not meant to last. everything was fine and got along and hung out a lot (nothing sexual) just friends.. i still want to get back, but we need to have some time to think about it..through my own investigation i found out she is seeing a 50 year old man now. it seemed like he still cared, but then it also seemed like he didn’t. this article, i’ll lay out some signs that will help you understand the rebound behavior and figure out on your own whether or not they’ve moved on. and then a week later, she’s all of a sudden with her guy. started to play online games with my ex again since last month and we had fun and he said “thanks for the nice memories:)”. i choose to contact her again after the 2 months of nc. the girl is controlling which is sort of a red flag for most guys. started saying things haven’t really looked up because after the message i haven’t spoke to her, what can i say to her anyway. it felt like we’ve made a mistake and he was talking about all the memories we had. texted me saying that it’s probably best if we don’t talk anymore. he’s sent a few horrible texts since and blamed me a few times and trying to reinforce he’s moved on but i’ve been ignoring him, no contact! so i told her that i felt the whole “friend” thing seemed fake , and it was better to go our seperate ways. thinking about these ludicrous situations is not going to help you in anyway right now. you can’t control what he will think/do or when he will be ready for a relationship. i want you to think really hard during this no contact period if you really want to be with him. he told me that he understand and he asked me if we aren’t go to hang out anymore. i do love him and i do want things to be re-patched up, but i want to know if this is something i should just give up on and push through the pain or try to rekindle… i do truly love being around him and being with him, we connect in ways i havent before.***change and spiritual surrender: opening yourself to the possibility of greatness. that he doesnt want to have kids or get married any more. but i found out that he was already dating this new girl before i even came back home. on the other hand, if they waited an appropriate amount of time (like three to four months) before entering the new relationship, it’s less likely to be a rebound. the past 2 weeks have been stressful and he’s answered my emails but uber delayed (4-24hours). even though the sex is great, she is still not at peace with herself. it’s a complicated situation and i didn’t want to end the relationship but i had no choice as it needed to be uncomplicated. is my ex contacting me if they don't want to get back together?’m just hoping that she’ll see me for me…but i know she can’t do that unless i’m not there to be missed. but then she was still behaving weird and it was really hurting me so i told her that we cannot be friends and i am not gonna contact you again. do you think the chances are that she will actually realize that she was happy together and will think about that. i’m confused and i’m sure he is too. that’s why it makes me worried that this is the same thing happening with my current ex. although i have been biting my tongue on many things i want to tell her but i’m afraid of saying them because they may work against me. stalked her a bit and found out they work in the same industry, seems nice and normal with a good job. i was in my friends car so my ex couldn’t hear me. but maybe i do need some tactics now… please help! like i know the time apart has been long and a lot of things have happen. why not spend your time finding someone who can truly commit to you. she constantly cried herself to sleep every night for the last month. i didn’t want to break up really, i was just confused and for the first time, we didn’t communicate well and just walked away from all our years and history. she also said she told her family and friends that i was a good person but we were not right for each other.’m sure that is what my current ex is realizing her self. this time i know my ex hasn’t forget about me. at first i would look past the distancing, but then i started getting frustrated and we would start fighting. i usually initiated the conversations, and he would too but not all the time. the example you gave of jane and gary i thought might be what is going on but i’m sure that’s not the case. although, from what you said, he is still not fully over you. and i was thinking the fudge, were separating and u have someone already and you’re telling not to cry? we’ve continued to see each other behind her parents backs..Me: also, i’m not trying to get in the way of anything you’re trying to do (implying his new gf), i support you 100% and just want you to be happy. it doesn’t matter if you want to get back together or not.: my ex is dating someone else and i heard that they're serious. we had our whole lives planned out together and we were planning to get married in a few years. her parents being against you and pushing her into the new relationship might work in favor of you. most probably, you met him at a time in his life where he isn’t ready for something. even if he is with that girl, it’s probably a rebound and it won’t last long. i wanted him to feel that i was done chasing and exerting effort to get back. very common sign of a rebound relationship is whether or not they are trying to rub in your face. not saying this will happen not even by a long shot or anything. just because they have hope that if they go for someone completely different, they’ll find happiness. if she is not cold towards you and you have already done no contact, then you can stay in touch with her. i was beginning to accept this but then 4 days after he broke up with me he changed his status on facebook to ‘in an open relationship’!” march 13 was the date on my facebook status were i tagged our friend. i was always this was more then just a friendship from first time hearing about him. i don’t want the same thing to happen again. attempts like moving in together after only 5 weeks of dating; meeting garry’s parents and asking garry to meet her parents; planning to move overseas with garry. could only lead to disaster considering how a person is not yet over the old relationship to enter a new one. she has a passion for writing (obviously) and loves reading anything based on a true story. have not talked to her for awhile i had gotten rid of her number about the time she saw me before she left for vacation in begining of august. if we ever did get together ( not saying that there is any chance of that or it will happen in future) but wouldn’t she be thinking of him when she would be around me. i usually let him do his thing and be supportive. also said is was easier when they were just homies but yet here she is just amazed and happy with him. i am not much for playing games and have been very honest the whole time. decreasing your self worth and self esteem in the process and putting an unnecessary roadblock for yourself in moving on and finding the right girl for you. only worrys me because when she called she said she been thinking bout me a lot but never really said why or what. he hugged her for a bit then they walked away. then starting around november/december she started acting much differently, such as a complete personality change, loss of interest in hobbies/interests, heavy drinking/staying out until early mornings, constant anger,lies and hatred towards me for no reason. you so much for your advice…i really think you are right. we lived together for 4 years and we got stuck and i decided to break up. after a little over a year and a half she wanted to be back home. and you should do nc for 30 days and message her after that. the problem is that she broke up with me after this three months. i made a great impact on my ex he was proud of me, and told people i changed his live for the better, because he had a dark past. me and my ex boyfriend had been 2yrs more together and we just broke up for almost 3 months but in that 2months we still contact and see each other and many things happened before i decided to do the no contact rule. it makes me think it is less about her and our relationship and more about something else. i know i’m supposed to be doing no contact (which i’m implementing right now), but he usually texts me “good night” and “good morning” even if we’re upset with one another. was sending pictures and chatting via snapchat for about 30 min… nothing super personal , just friendly conversation. i am in total shock because this is a man i have waited for, for 4 years. i had him around my fingers and did not know until now. we broke up she started seeing this guy at the park right after we broke up an now he’s sleeping over her mothers house while my kids are there. is what i plan on doing and i hope your right about the missing me part. at that point i told him i needed my space and that i wouldn’t be going to his birthday party anymore when i came home for spring break because i didn’t want to be about his new girlfriend and since then we have talked maybe three times and at one point when i mentioned his new girlfriend, he said nothing about her in his response. ex is the kind that you described as the angry ex in another post, however, he has anger management problems. kevin, i know from reading this what you will think, but he is a good person deep down; affectionate, caring, funny and loving, however this dark side is extremely overwhelming. apply no contact for a while and then contact her. do i just not try at all to talk to her until she feels that she has something to say to me or what. company which was his plan before when we were still together. you can use the checklist at the beginning of the step 4 in this article.

i met him exactly a year later when he was still sleeping around with women, and they weren’t officially divorced yet. she was actively looking for dates online after being rejected by the other guy.’s hard to say why he did what he did. everything you are asking is based on the assumption that they have a great relationship together. she might feel that she is in love with garry because garry provides her with comfort and an escape from the pain that she desires deeply.. stuff that’s money / status related ( i thought it was wird , she seemed very obsessed about it ) . was i just a place holder till she realized who she always wanted. we went out for bbq for lunch and then went back to his place and we ended up watching a movie. she does nice things for me and calls/texts/facebooks sometimes and vice versa but then she will completely change and treat me like crap for several days in a row and ignores me until she responds to me again.. when i found out i told her i knew about it and she just stopped replying to me , what should i do. i showed up telling him i’m not trying to “pull a beth” (his other crazy ex who we battled together and had fun doing so even though she borderline stalked him) and that i genuinely just wanted to be friends with him. have read this article a lot trying to find something that was related to what was going on but i statred to see no connections. does this strengthen the fact it could be a rebound? either your ex will move on and be in a happy relationship with her current boyfriend. i’ve always been good to him (well…most of the time). she came and stayed with me for a few months but family probs forced her back to her x, but her intention was to return to me after a while. did reply everytime she contacted me besides when she showed up to my work. i did nc for a while and then randomly i would contact him. during xmas my ex messaged me and he said that he thought about me, more than i would imagine (wtf, how would he know? but we were madly in love and our wedding were supposed t take place in a month, so he got married t this girl he hardly know and he posted got married in his facebook wall maybe he is in a rebound but he got marriedg. have since learned that she asked a friend of mine if she should tell me about the engagement before i heard it from someone else. when i tried to make another date he ignored me. i havent contacted him since after i saw the picture and i will not do it… so i will follow your advice. i was going trough some personal ( work related ) problems at the end of our relationship. they are thinking of a short term rebound relationship which will hopefully help them get over the breakup. part of me thinks he is trying to illicit a response from me. i’ve been ignoring all his gf’s remarks online and acting like i don’t even notice them, but i think she’s trying to up the odds by posting all this lovey crap about him knowing i’ll see it, though he has yet to say anything about the relationship specifically. we just got back from a short vacation in europe. that and when you have been apart for almost as long as you were together don’t that kill any chance of that ” running into them and realizing things could work” type deal. we had an amazing weekend, however today he changed completely again told me it’s not fair on me that he is talking to other girls and wants to end our friendship and never see me again., yes, part of it could be her being the “damsel in distress” but, before she told me that she’s found this guy, i was fairly happy. what if after couple weeks she still does not have any association with me. so obviously this means she is 100% over me already and very happy in new relationship with her close friend right? i’ve had a couple of casual text conversations with her since so she’s not ignoring me. someone close who you already know and you are already happy being around them before you started a relation ship with them. a therapist can help a lot if you are unable to let go of obsessive thoughts. i would try at least to do things to make her happy. weeks, she’d called three times texted a couple, i decided to call on the way to work. well eventually down the road i was feeling smothered so i tried to get some distance. we were completely in love but this must have changed his mind right away. even months down the road she would hit me randomly saying she misses me a lot and thinks of me a lot and misses us and what we had. if they already connect on deep level then i’m sure she feels the sexual physical part is complete too. not once did i say in that conversation that i didn’t love her or want to be with her. i keep understanding his situation on why he did it, i forgiven him i told that. how can she go for some guy who has no plan for his future and could move to another country just like that? for my ex, after 5 and a bit months she’s still been simultaneously hiding her relationship (ie, “it’s not official”) and rubbing it in my face (all kinds of tweets, photos of parties with him/things we used to do, etc). two weeks after break up, she hooked up with a guy who looks exactly like me, has same interests, watches same tv series, listens to same music etc. made the mistake of keeping in contact with him throughout his entire relationship with her, that lasted about 3 months. you will miss your ex as you go through the grief process. contact her after no contact period is over and until then just keep concentrating on yourself. missing someone is a huge part of the grief one goes through after a breakup. it usually doesn’t have anything to do with how perfect their rebound is for them. i asked him how it was going and he said okay, it’s been a while since i’ve dated anyone, invalidating the fact that what we did over break wasn’t dating.(we then proceeded to talk about our favorite tv show, about work, family, etc. was (am) basically just the complete opposite of his ex wife. and talking to her best friend is not a good idea. you need to realize what will help you move on and what will keep you obsessed over her.’s nothing much you can do other than what i said above. you are looking for a time to reach out to your ex, as soon as he starts dating someone else is most definitely not that time. he said “maybe im just confused, regret the idea of courting her, im not into her, just give me time, thats all i am asking, im not serious about her i cannot break up with her so just give me time”. she doesn’t love both of you in the same way. i’ve been through a lot of failed relationships in the past and i wanted him to be my last, that i’ll end up with him in the near future. remember when you said there isn’t going to be a friendship like we had? you are confused because everyone seems to be telling you it’s a rebound relationship while your instincts tell you that your ex has moved on. and 2 days after that (which was last week), she put photos up of her and her friends on the beach in a bikini shoot basically.’m looking for places…she does need to miss me but, in all honesty, i don’t she any hope in her coming back to me. this is the first time she has agreed to go out (as friends) for over a year. that day, i saw on his facebook he changed his relationship status with the new girl. was in a relationship with my girlfriend for 3 years but at the end of the first year she started to become very depressed. if i had to guess, she loves you more in a romantic way while her ex is more of a “father of her child” sort of love. she blocked me on facebook but did not change her profile pic to them. we initially wanted to just be friends with benefits, but he made me fall in love with him. and neither one of them can give you an accurate description of what the relationship meant to her. he’s converted in bad tattoos, lives in his moms basement and has no job or car. or she will break up with him and realize she still has feelings for you. i got drunk and i sent very angry messages to both of them. i’ve already started nc for a few days, but i just want him to be happy and i don’t want to ruin his chances at happiness. was just in a relationship that moved way to fast thing is i still have strong feelings for her we been apart for 11 days when she left me i did the whole multiple pathetic text i told her a few days ago that i’ll stop texting altogether she told me not to stop texting her just not as much and that she still cares about me we just moved to fast i’ve pretty much made myself the door mat last night i erased her number from my phone to remove the temptation to get a hold of her i’d like to know if by doing this and not talking to her if it’s possible she could miss me things are complex because i guess you could say that i’m a rebound she just got out of a 6 year marage and is in the middle of a divorce she told me from the beginning that she doesn’t want to move fast but she kinda made it that way she kinda smothered me tho i enjoyed it made me feel loved is it possible to get back after i’ve made myself look a fool. even if your relationship had problems, she chose to leave you instead of working on them. if you decide to comment read the comment guidelines before commenting. asked for some space in february after our 6th anniversary.: if you and your ex were together for a long time, then there's still a chance. check out her writing on thought catalog and follow her on twitter and facebook! the last text from her was “i don’t have anything to say to you at this point in time. in addition, this new girl doesn’t really seem like all the other girls he’s dated before me (i was also different from his usual type which makes me wonder if i was the rebound but he was single for more than a year when we met, so i don’t know) and she’s not friends with any of his friends and vise versa though i don’t know if that has anything to do with it. yeah sure, she can go out with him even during late nights because she doesn’t have a kid and parents to take care of. some people i know say she still likes her other ex a little bit. he initially didn’t like her but she had her eyes set on him and kept making her move, which made me feel insecure so i expressed my concern and so he talked to her and said he didn’t like her that way but i feel like that fueled her even more and she kept on pushing and making her moves on him till it made me really upset and insecure and really put strain in our relationship. i’ve been in nc for about a week but miss her and get major doubts that i could get her back because she tries to convince everybody she’s really happy with this new guy but gas only known his for two weeks. that mean she is on to the next right even with the random they saying they miss you and what not. after dinner he, myself and his friends went to a bar for a little bit and at one point one of his friends approaches him and asks if we are getting back together. but i really think you should apply no contact for at least 3-4 months and think if you really see a future with him. he said in march ‘i’ll collect my stuff soon when work calms down’. tell him you need some time and space and start no contact. i mean, a part of me does wonder was it me that caused him to run, or is he a natural runner? let me add to this that the week before she initially posted the picture of herself with her now-boyfriend i saw her at a nightclub making out with some guy that is not the guy she’s currently dating, and also looking over at me in between kisses (i was there with my sports team, she was there for a friend’s birthday and we knew by that point of the night that each other was in the club). the last thing you want is for your ex to think you are completely devastated from your break up. by september of this year, things seemed to be getting better, but in november, he went to cuba for a week and came back telling me he met someone he was madly in love with and wished to end things with me. just left you a comment on another page but wanted to write this one here since this is the topic. if anyone has suggestions as to what i should do, please let me know. she’d be snappy/curt/cold, and she knew i was suffering for it. you can help me with this, because i’d like to know if the nc rule is still applicable to my situation or it’s already too late. if she texts you during these two weeks, you can reply to her but keep it short. while i do believe creating space and time is productive, i’m in a situation where the ‘no contact’ period is impossible.’ve always done something special, along with sending a single rose on her b’day. but i’ll strongly recommend you concentrate on moving on. he’s 30, bringing a child into this world but acting like a child himself. i read everything above, but he wouldn’t have volunteered the information about this new girl to me without me asking and he didn’t seem too keen on telling me about her. he thinks that we’re “too different” and stuff to make it work. thinking about your relationship with her in this way is just going to lower your self esteem it’s going to hurt your next relationship. i guess its gonna take 6 months for the no contact. i also got him agree to watch the season finale of our show together in a few weeks, hoping i can gain more ground before then). let her develop a friendship with you again and listen to her problems n dont place any negative spin on her relationship. i feel like everything crashed down again but not as bad as when she broke up with me.? lol sometimes i think theres a hidden meaning to it. of all i want to say that you have a great website . do you really think he could have changed his mind within 6 months? 9 months or so later after a proposal and her dumping a guy she was seeing she moved to my home with me. i do think you will be able to make a better decision if you go through the no contact rule for 30 days.” she said that it’s not a rebound relationship that it’s away of wanting to move on even though she says she’s an emotional mess and considers herself “damaged goods” and no one would want to date her. she has definitely rushed things with this guy (they’ve been together now for about a month) are “in a relationship” on facebook and she’s being very over-the-top with her openness on social media about him in general. when she left i told her i missed her laugh and she said she missed me..and i texted her a couple days later just to let her know her know i was sending her kids gift cards for their birthdays she didn’t get mad she just said ok. saw her at gym she walk right past me didn’t even hesitate to look at me. but when he dumped me, that same night he started to talk to her. we fell madly in love right away and dated for a year.’ve always done something special, along with sending a single yellow rose on her b’day. there a way to see if they were only with you because they were only physically attracted to you especially when they are saying the same things they said to you to their new partner. during no contact, you will realize whether or not you should get him back in your life. my ex is still dating the other guy & i haven’t heard from her. i take it it means she has found her guy she been looking for since they been talking and or actually seeing each other for probably couple months i could assume. he kinda looked like he missed me the way he looked at me according to my friends, i didn’t look at him. i’ve been changing however for us, but yes it did seem like she gave up “fell out of love” this new guy is 23. the weird thing is she hasn’t unfriended or blocked me yet on facebook and i feel with all this anger/hatred she has towards me she would have done this already. left gym maybe 10 min after that and went home, didn’t want to annoy her anymore the what i probably did just by seeing me and have felt down since then..because it felt so right just wanted to let it happen naturally and not stop it. and i don’t think you should talk to him for at least 2-3 weeks after this. there are things i know she really isn’t down with and some of them he has. i want her back and don’t know how to proceed and would like your help. i would hope it’s not because she is trying to work things out with her friend. unfortunately i couldn’t understand his need for space and i freaked out. four days later i was told by a mutual friend that he was also seeing someone else and had been doing so 2-3 times a week for 2 months! he says that he’s “taking it slow with [the girl]. may now see our list and photos of women who are in your area. your ex started dating someone else within a week of breaking up, then it’s more likely to be a rebound., reading everyone’s stories has made me feel less alone. if he decides he wants you again, don’t be so quick in taking him back. do i just nc permanently and leave alone for good and let her do her own life? 1 week after the break i made efforts to get him back, gave him the anniversary gift i was saving up for him. anyways a few more weeks go by with no contact. it was a lot of fun, but i kept my distance and suddenly he was very flirtatious, talking about our sexlife and how great i looked and so on. i’m not sure if i’m at “deaths door” or “indifference”? i know it seems like the plan is meant to be about playing mind games, but if you notice, a huge part of the plan (step 2) is about self realization and self-improvement. he never acknowledged being engaged to this other women, he was shocked i found out and asked me how i found out. let him do most of the work since i feel that i’m the girl and he shouldn’t feel that i like him a lot. she feels that perhaps this guy can make all her pain and the emptiness go away. all you can do is learn from your mistakes you made and carry on with your life. to steal your ex from their new boyfriend or girlfriend (sneaky tricks revealed). even the night after i saw her making out with that guy she texted to say she saw me last night and if i had a good night. he is immature and completely confused about what he wants in life. however he has texted twice: to ask how i was doing and to ask a trivial question. she said when i was on my trip she holed up at home, didn’t hang out with anyone and envisioned herself in the future, realizing i’m not the person she should be with. i now have a really solid group of friends and i think that would greatly improve our relationship. they have given me a lot to think about and consider. two months later he’s still with her and sent me several texts simply saying i have moved on. seems like she likes excitement and guys who are hard to get. things are getting worse then before i at one point i was able to not think of her as much but since last i saw her is when she asked to come over and since then she has just been so much more happy with him then she ever was with me., it’s not a surefire way of telling whether or not it’s a rebound. and my ex were dating a little over 2 years and about a week after she broke up with me , she already found another man. so after being treated like crap by her for several months, i finally had enough and moved out and will be gone the entire summer for work/traveling. you are not sure if you should contact her, you should do another month of no contact. i dont know if this is a rebound relationship or something else. i guess the best you can do is keep in touch with him and have fun conversations with him occasionally. she recently turned 18 and seems to think she can do what ever she wants. what strikes me is that 5 months later their engagement fell through and he tried to reconnect with me. remember, there will always be a part of you that will wish he fixes his issues and you can get back with him. the next day he called me three times but i didn’t answer and have no answering machine and i also got a text calling me scum and my mum lazy. she clearly posted this message for her ex to see. been 3months since my ex and i broke up, and now shes seeing another guy. he said he met her a couple of weeks ago and they’ve seen each other a couple of times, but i also happen to know that they have already slept together. what is there to possibly miss when you have had your best friend as your new boyfriend for some time and you love this guy. but since then she has randomly hit me up out of nowhere between ending it and now. the meet up lasted for an hour with him wishing me well on my next relationship. he told me he would never leave me for another girl, that i was the most beautifulest and cutest girl he knows and then he says it to her. i could tell by her voice she was telling the truth so i now go back in no contact to see what is going to happen. let him know that you will wait for him until he makes his decision but you will not be a doormat or his backup. you will realize what you should do during no contact. your last comment, i am little unsure if you applied no contact. we do nc for two weeks at most, for now. my question, if this is a rebound is better to not interfere or to keep in touch with her during? all what i remember what my ex had said, that he is confused that he has feelings for two girls, he said he knows its hard for me that he is with that girl, and he has said that he remember good memories of us. and if he doesn’t commit even at that time, you should move on. it was two days after our anniversary and one of my friends at college posted a picture of me on facebook. i know i could’ve said more or less at some points, but initially i was hoping by appearing non-threatening to his current relationship, it would be easier for me to work my way in. i said it was ok for him to take his time and if he wanted to be single for a while i was ok with it, but when i asked if we’d get back together in the future he said probably not. i applied the no contact for 2 months but just recently i just gave him a birthday cake (because his birthday is near) thru a friend, and he told the friend not to do such things again and told her not to get involved. guess the only thing you can do is give her time to figure it out herself. soo its been a week now since ive contacted her meaning i been applying the no contact. just have been reading a lot of different things lately books and articles and was just wondering how people are getting with their exs after long periods of time. seem to not be making any progress as much as i am trying to not think of her or anything related. and after they breakup with you, they start a relationship with someone who has no career and no life goals whatsoever. they are exactly the same person personality wise, spiritually, ideology, and belief wise. are there aspects of your life that you feel could use some improving? lot of times, the reason people break up is fixed and things change during the period they are far apart. there’s also a very small chance that it’ll end. when we were discussing this i asked if we were still friends at least?. we were together for five months but we did a lot of great stuff. media is not an accurate description of how people actually feel. since then i returned to uni and he continuously called/ text me letting me know how sorry he was and that he’d do anything to show me no matter how long it takes. is it a rebound when your dating close friend you both alrwdy know everything and get along great. see what your saying on stop with the having hope and stop thinking of her. i also learned she had been with new dude three weeks when the engagement happened and she moved in with him. went on vacation february 20th and i was going to be on vacation till april 7th well my ex boyfriend of 3 years and 8 months ended it with march 4th and he told me not to come home but he would text and call me sometimes still and then on march 18th he told me that he was talking to someone else but not dating them then he told me that he would buy me my ticket to come home when ever and then i ask him if i could stay at the house still and he said yes and then i ask him if he was still going to be there he said yes and that he didn’t want me homeless or loose any of my belongs and then i ask him the next day the same thing and got the same answers from him and he said it was going to be different but he would still be there for me and help me out and be around for me and then he said april i am sorry about everything and what happen between us but we know it was coming and then on march 24th i text him and told him that i got my ticket and that i will home in 3 to 4 days and he text back april i know u know that i’v met someone else because people talk but i want to be honest and then i ask him i can still live in the house right because u said that and then he said she is moving in and then i ask where my stuff was and he said in the house still but i am going to put it in the shed if it ok and i told him my stuff wont fit in there. i got a “i’m seeing someone, we’re done talking, don’t ever talk to me again”. but i see things on how she loves him so much how they are perfect for each other and how she loves the things he does like took her to vegas for her birthday. it just made me miss her all over again recently that’s why i do the stupid things like look on her websites but of course it only makes things worse seeing them together and seeing comments like he’s amazing and hearts around his name and other types of post that relate to him. your “sneaky signs your ex still loves you (even if they say they don’t)”. this site has placed a lot of perspective into my situation. eventually, jane would breakup with garry and will try to deal with her breakup pain. i hope you are not thinking of getting back together with him. crazy as it is…i love and miss her…any thoughts or should i give up?

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