My ex is dating someone else but still contacts me

listen to some beyonce, specifically the song, “sorry,” and be the goddess that your meant to be. It's nice to see this board is alive and somewhat kicking. so we go to court and everything gets dropped but she made me promise i would never contact her again this hurt a lot because we dated for 2 years and there was no closure nothing it was just a straight line and that was it but i couldn’t help myself i contacted her several times and she would respond moderately too cold i’m just saying well it’s over and don’t worry about it and she doesn’t want to talk about it the problem is i love this girl i love her more than anything in the world and i would do anything for her unfortunately it just took me awhile to realize how much and it scares me the most is that it might be too late. empowr yourself immediately and cut him off for no less than 30 days because in doing this, your actions tell him, “i am not an option, i’m a priority. still have alot of feelings for my ex but he rub it in my face that he doesnt like me and that he likes one if my friends……. we don’t talk anymore really it’s been around 3 weeks and he told my bestest friend he is over me but him and his mates keep talking about me saying i’m trying to make him jealous and that i’m obsessed with him when i don’t even talk to any of his friends or mine about my ex unless it’s about him taking about me..his bigger brother(not the twin) had a crush on me. when two people break up, it’s almost a guarantee that they’ll both still have feelings for each other – they just don’t want to be in a relationship anymore. and i found out he took his new gf to costa rica at a posh hotel. he would get so close to my face but wouldn’t kiss me. have been broke up with ma bf for two months because he used to beat me for nothing bt i still lv him why should i do. i found out he took his new gf out on new years eve to a 5 star hotel where he took me. you told him not to contact you and when he listens, you’re upset?.his love is the only thing that can set me free from this dark and painful place…. be patient and make him work for you, ultimately, men are wired this way, they like to know that your a prize and that they are the ones who deserve the prize over anyone else, but you have to actually be the prize and be busy and have a life of your own. they called off the engagement because he still had feelings for me. there won't be any hard feelings, but i can't keep going through the rollercoaster you put me through. don’t give in so easy, men are wired to chase. he hasnt texted he’s just been calling like 20+ calls but i ignored them all.: he didn’t call me after i sent him the text for him to not text me or call me cause i wanted closure.! damn… i wish i knew u so i could actually tell you all this in person. texting him for 8weeks on and off, i can feel the way he has very strong feelings, always tells me too send him photos.’t response four weeks he sudden want to be with me also whether he is with her still i don. it's like being married and your wife suddenly says she wants to take a break, then immediately starts fucking a random guy. it's like she left a job as an executive at apple to go work at mcdonald's. he came to see me and we talked about giving it another try because we couldnt seem to let each other go. be thankful that he listened to you and stopped contacting you. when he broke up with me he told me he still loved me but didn’t want to be with me. he is a drug addict which means, he is a master manipulator and knows how to con the strings of your heart, so that your always in his back pocket to provide help for him. he asks about your feelings for the same reason and it’s insincere. first he said he loves me then he said wants to remain as my friend., i met another girl about a week into this nonsense, and suddenly my ex freaks out, calling me and hysterically crying on the phone and saying it's too hard to talk to me when i'm with someone else..i tried getting over him…but i cant…it’s been 1 month and 2 weeks now that i’ve been single…but he just constantly comes into my heart…i even though of suicide. the sucky thing is, is that we are in the same drivers ed (learners) class. i do still have feelings for him, i’m just letting it be. well he messaged me and i told him not to but he keeps messaging me and i message back. she made sure to let me know that she thinks i lie about everything and that no divorce is in the future. it's more of the same - she is "happy" with her new guy, but doesn't want me to even suggest anything i'm doing with my new girl, or even mentioning her, or she "feels like throwing up. you have a responsibility to end this is a decisive manner., it annoys me to no end that she is presenting this new guy as a serious boyfriend. he told me he was done with me, he did not feel the same way he loved me but not with the same intensity then right away started dating the new woman. it may even help this guy realize he needs to work on himself, and you never know, the time apart and having absolutely no contact, he may be that better version of himself too. or, his new lady might not be all she’s cracked up to be, and he’s regretting breaking up with or letting go of you.

My ex still loves me but is dating someone else

or push to spend time with you – before ignoring you for weeks? if he is your ex, that is for a reason. one of my ex boyfriends would do such things and it crushed me to see him dating someone else but, when i finally stepped away and lived my life without him around,i found peace.’t he be calling his new girlfriend instead of me? right, after you’ve had time to strengthen yourself and gain perspective on everything so that it is very crystal clear, you will be able to see if his behaivors have really changed for more than a temporary phase. isn’t a year enough time to realise that’s not going to happen? one thing to remember is that even if your ex still has feelings for you, he might not act on them, and the longer you stay apart the more likely it is that his feelings will fade forever. if you want him back you have to do something right now while you still have a chance, so read this to discover how to make him see you as “the one” and find the secret formula to get your ex back in your arms for good: do you want your ex back? of course according to her, the new guy is turning pretty serious after a week, which is either for show on her part, or a real example of her emotional maturity level. your power is in your dignity, walk away from this situation like a lady.. always on the hunt for the next new thing), he could very well just be looking for some “extra-curricular activities” with someone other than his girlfriend. is he out of control flirting – but only when you’re around? and i have texted back and forth over the last couple of days (so much for taking a communication break, but i want to know where this all stands without some two month gap). let go with love in your heart and don’t get all emotionally crazy, do that in the privacy of you and your friends, men only take it as an ego boost when you cry over them and show it. there's a slight chance she might grow up some day, but if she hasn't by the age of 23, the final results will almost definitely be underwhelming. that relationship ended with in two months, and i started dating again, and when he found out i knew he got jealous because the hour i posted a picture of my boyfriend (my fiancé now) and i, he drunk texted me. it's like a game of relationship chicken, which one of us will reach out, first? the quiz: can you get your ex back or is he gone forever?. it was so embarrassing and so annoying, that even my boyfriend sow t messages and was upset because of what this guy was saying to me, and this guy saved our messages that we would send each out her while we dated… which is weird… and he even has pictured of me, from facebook that i deleted a long time ago… long before we dated… and ever so often he textes me saying random things….. but i wasn’t going to let that get to me. hv been dating dis guy for a year and he always tell me dat he lives me bt when i’m not around he sleep with some of de galz wht should i do because i love him. but you have to really try to analyze it from a logical level - do you feel this strong because you can't have her, or do you feel this strong because you really, truly feel like she's right for you? he tells me all the time he wants me to be happy and wants the best for me. she probably isn't sleeping with this guy as much as she says, spending the night as often, or even having as much fun with it as she says. be responsible about the areas you ned to work on within yourself because those are the things you don’t want to get in the way of something good. likely, he’s not happy in his current relationship and is testing the waters with you out of boredom. have been in the situation where he is trying to make me jealous. can relate to your story and i urge you to understand, it’s a blessing in disguise that you arn’t together (not sure if that is still the case currently, but i hope so). of my best friends, a girl (who my ex hated simply because she had a vagina - that's another thing, she was insanely jealous, still is) said something that stuck with me: her life with the new guy probably isn't as glamorous as she makes it out to be. he went from making up excuses to having broke out in hives then gave me a flat no he changed his mind..bate…and he does rem every single trait of me…but i feel like. says it would invalidate everything i told her during the 3 years we were dating. i was dating my first love for about 7 months and we did everything together we went to the lake i came over all the time i hung out with his family … he was never rude to me when we were dating just a couple times … i lost my virginity to him and he was my first kiss too and the first guy i cuddled with … we were going good intell he went to his friends for a week and everything went bad we broke up and when he got back from his friends we got back together but then he broke up with me again but this time i was at his house and we were crying to eachother … we weren’t ok without each other but he thought it was time to move on … he has a new girlfriend now and i heard that he is just usin her to get sex and weed he goes over there every night to get high i see off his snap story but idk like i miss him so much he doesn’t text me and when we do txt he always says i can’t txt because i have a girlfriend … does he still like me at all? brokes with me because he loves someone else but when i don. it’s written how to get your ex boyfriend back. the best way to love this person is cutting off completely. i replied telling him to leave me alone for good and then blocked him there. i guarantee you, you cut off from your addiction and commit to just focusing on building up yourself, 3-6 months from now, you’ll be a completey new person and happy with yourself; wouldn’t you rather have the capability to attract something much more better and fulfilling for yourself? which i’m fine with because i have a whole month to know if he really likes me still and maybe still loves me. ex broke up with me 5 months ago and a month later he started dating again. the quiz: can you get your ex back or is he gone forever? how it’s hard to admit if we are too good for someone, but usually thats the case. when we were done talking he messaged me when i said “bye” he sai’d “bye /;” what does this mean?

My ex is dating someone else but still texts me

i don’t know if it sounds to stalkish but if someone did that for me i would be really happy. before me my ex broke up we was onna good page you know like talking otp all night and etc. i am not saying he never had love for you or doesn’t have loving feelings for you, but he clearly doesn’t respect himself or love himself, therefore he sabotages his life, himself, and plays a victim. men want something more when they know it can be lost, it’s messed up, but it’s how they are wired.'m getting to the point where i just don't give a shit anymore - i can't talk to her and even mention another female without her getting mad. nothing good can come from engaging with his negative emotions – and he’ll probably draw you into his negativity as well. acknowledge that your hurt and feel pain, he has triggered things to surface, but understand, you have responsibility in it too because it’s a choice to blame someone else for all your hurt or see the opportunities of taking control of the things you can. he just wants his cake and eat it he can’t do that to his gf and you what a jerk. but now he did contact me and like a easy prey , again i fell for him. if you want him back, try some of the tips i’m about to show you. checking my txts and trying not to txt him, missing him so much…. if he has a history of cheating, promiscuity, or shiny new toy syndrome (i. just don’t get it as to why he is still calling me! he’ll pull crap like sending you drunk texts one night – but then ignoring your texts for the next week. less than a day later he called me and said that he couldnt give us another chance and that if i loved him as i said, i should let him be happy with this other woman. to find out if you can get your ex back?’t respond to his texts, have no contact with him for at least 30 days, do things you enjoy, and don’t allow yourself to stand for that shit.’m dealing with a narcissist, he is with a girfriend but keeps harrassing me.’m still inlv with my ex itryd nc even go 4lng trip just 2ignore him bt its hurts a lot coz i still love hm. you will not ever fix him, he has to recognize his own damage and work on it in order to change. to deal when your ex won’t leave you alone. leave her to her own devices and pursue someone else. i left messages and vented, heart broken but he never returned my calls or emails. lot of "fish" out in the sea, her ass seems to have the hook in her, you will also have the hook in you if you dont "move on". apparently, hes a nice guy and i am a manipulative, deceitful ex who has painted him out to be a monster. still have feelings to my ex girlfriend and it’s she playing hot and cold to me, so it’s you girls who really like to play those kind of mind games, but that isn’t cool. let him experience life without lilly in it now, if he truly loves you and wants to be with you, his actions will show you that he will do whatever it takes to have you in his life as his woman. cheated on my boyfriend a year ago and a “” friend that i allowed to live in my garage that i had confided our issues to and confessed that i had made a mistake and cheated on him told him plus exaggerated the situation which really devesrated him we had been trying to work things out but behind my back this gal was telling him i was still seeing this other guy which was a lie and every time he spoke to her we would fight i was wondering why all the sudden he would be upset about it but didn’t know he was talking to her… well 3 months ago the guy i cheated on him with well his house burnt down and i happened to be curious and drove by noticed it was his house and saw him standing outside with the firefighters and he waved so i stopped come to find out his mom was in his car with no shoes no pants and 5 dogs it was 3 am and 17 degrees out and i opened my mouth and asked if she needed somewhere to stay that night long story short my boyfriend was very upset because he felt i was trying to maintain contact or secure a place in this guy’s life by inviting his mom to my house because hers was burning down so another gal used this opportunity to steal my man she had been staying at his house and try ed to break up another couple in his household that didn’t work so she was getting all friendly with the other roommate but when i would get to his house i had noticed she was leaving her cigarettes or her scarf or her gloves in his room well one night my car broke down at my parents house and he happened to go by my house to bring me phone time because min had expired and since ii wasn’t home he assumed i had gone to the hotel where the guy i cheated on him with a year before was staying and this gal made her move and he cheated on me with her when i got to his house his bedroom door was locked and he had to get dressed to come talk to me i was devestated and she moved into his room and has been there ever since i have been completely blocked out of his life he has come to my place several times he tells me he lives me and misses me and doesn’t know what to do because he’s afraid if he takes me back he will lose this other gal and me if i cheated on him again but he tells me she’s a psycho and he’s afraid of how she would react if he tried to end it with her so it’s been no contact from him for a week or two then outta by blue he shows up and he’ll sleep with me and confess his undying love then nothing for another week i miss him so much but am getting very sick of the yoyo what should i do to get him back? if he says he is very happy in his current relationship and says many flirty things that elude to the fact he regrets breaking up with you? he’ll call you and text you after a bit. i was complementary and sweet to her last night (i still do care about her), and now she's feeling like she can shun me. › forums › complicated situation / mixed signals › my ex is still contacting me but has a girlfriend. right thing to do, imo, is to stop having sex with her. have an ex call or text you constantly for a week – and then freeze you out and ignore your texts while dodging your calls? brush it off as a sign he’s still obsessed with you. think of it this way, does it terrify you, hurt, and confuse you to be beat up and talked to so horribly by someone you think loves you? narcisissts never leave their past girlfriends when they dating another ! or instead of the whole marrying thing u could come close to her and say softly will you please be my girlfriend again while looking into her eyes then kiss her gently on the lips it’s perfect. his excuse was an age difference thing, be super greatful your the younger one in this situation. he says he had a lot of hurt and anger to get past and has had a hard time letting it go. are attracted to women who show they can live life happily without them in it and don’t need them, the result that occurs is a man is naturally competitive and will desire you more because he’ll start trying to prove to you why you should need him in your life.’re allowed to say whatever they want, and do whatever they want – but only they get to decide what it really means – and you don’t get a say. do you enjoy feeling sad, anxiety, in limbo, unloved, wrapped in a vortex of being consumed by every thing he does?

My ex is dating someone else but still calls me

i dated this guy three years ago… and we only went out for a few months and our relationship wasn’t that bad, but it did advance quickly and that’s one reason why he broke up with me… after 3 months of not being together i moved to chicago with my sister and was living a single life, meaning no dating, no meeting up with guys in a flirty way nor was i talking to any guys, and so my ex just texted me out of nowhere saying that he moved on and that he had a new girlfriend. i told him i don’t want to be just phone friends and that we need to see each other in person instead of keeping me for hours on the phone. and so after a week of all of that, all he did was post thing on social media and obviously i would see them…. i wonder if i tell her i'm single again, if she will just fall right back into her "(new guy) is soooooo wonderful" mode or may have more five hour phone calls with me. i went one time, and it made me realize, i wasn’t alone in this situation, and that i did not want to live that life for years and years letting greatness pass by that i deserved. there is always a chance early on that the drunk texts will be coming through. know a guy but at the same time i have a boyfriend. the most harmless possible motive is that he truly values your friendship, and doesn’t want to lose touch with you altogether. worst – applying a nasty double standard: it’s ok if he starts seeing someone else – but if you want to then all of a sudden he gets mad. is he posting stuff on facebook because he knows it’ll touch a nerve? he only talked to me a few times on phone, and responded a few on texting. started dating a guy back in september 2015 we dated till december 2015 then our parents gt to know abt it n v had to brkup…. take solace in the fact that if he’s really obnoxious about rubbing someone new in your face – it’s because he cares about what you think way more than he cares about the other person’s feelings. be strong and do your best to get over this. soap opera life, you can’t make this up: after living with someone for 6 years (we had an understanding although not formally married), we had some terrible fights, he cheated, he moved out, broke it off, then while we were supposedly working it out he married another woman out of spite within 4 months. i do so because he doesn’t respect me, but i still love him when i saw him, my hands all cold and very nervous and angry feelings arise when saw him.’t give a shit about what your ex think move on done. a guy: budding romance killed by his pregnant girlfriendask a guy: does he just want sex? This topic contains 30 replFind out if your ex still loves you with these hidden signs (even if he insists he doesn’t). i knew she was going to be a blubbering mess if i broke up with her or found someone else, and then she did it to me. told me today all of those comments about having sex with me again someday and being with me were just thoughts she had at the time. but he still loves me and thinks about me all the time . i wish you miraculous rapid healing stay positive, life is full of bumps, and you have absolutely no clue what amazing things can happen in just 15 seconds from now. but we got into way to many stupid arguments over nothing. the fact is that he is no longer your bf and dating someone else (irrespective of whether she is a rebound or not)..but he is still with the older rich woman he cheated on me with.. that gut feeling is the same feeling everybody gets when you're staring down reality and you're nothing but piss your pants scared.'s like being married and your wife suddenly says she wants to take a break, then immediately starts fucking a random guy. keep telling my friends that #1 is a bad sign but a lot of women just don’t listen. she's not very emotionally mature, but she was awesome and supportive and a great girlfriend when she was "on", so even though i thought about breaking up with her many times, i never did. is he always flirting with me but doesn't ask me out? this is deep rooted stuff, so it takes time, but commit to talking positively to your self and only allowing people in your life who are positive. he created a false fb profile to link to her using another name and does not allow her on his true profile with all his family on it. it’s really hard, i know it first hand, but i wouldn’t be sharing my advice if i didn’t come out on the other side with these realizations. i broke up with her one night because i got pissed that her lil broke was giving me shit about my job (ff/emt) and she wasn’t backing me up so i got mad and left. i encourage you to provide love for yourself and never talk to the ex you mentioned that beat you for no reason.’s hurting – because he’s messed up about the breakup. the material on this site may not be reproduced, distributed, transmitted, cached or otherwise used, except as expressly permitted in writing by a new mode, inc.'m not going to sit here and act like i have done the correct thing in this situation. here to take our quick (and shockingly accurate) “can you get your ex back” quiz right now and find out if you can get your ex back or if he’s gone for good…. you don’t want to be responsible for messing with whatever he’s already got going on – and besides, he already had his chance to make things work with you!.my bf n i got separated and ever since 4 yrs, he did not contact me at all. the ego is funny little, actually huge, trickster blurring the realities of what is and what one wants.

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unless he had something important to say, he’d call and i’ll hear out. brain and his heart might be fighting a battle – where his heart wants you back and his brain tells him it’s a bad idea." she said she will "never" be over me, since i was her first love. what i read, your answer will most likely be something like, i don’t feel special, desired, loved, cared about, or something within this range. i’m not saying it’s easy to know somone you care about is suffering, but why wouldnt you take charge of your suffering first? click here to take our quick (and shockingly accurate) “can you get your ex back” quiz right now and find out if you can ever get him back or if he’s gone for good…. don’t reply or answer any of his calls so far. he says he’s fallen i love with another girl but yet he’s flirting with me on text and sending me shirtless pics on snapchat. just want to know weather he loves me or what. only problem with this hypothesis is that your ex waited months to contact you. there won't be any hard feelings, but i can't keep going through the rollercoaster you put me through. he requested me on instagram and his profile was public. so give him the space to get over his negativity, and eventually he’ll come around. if you allow him to think he has you in his back pocket while he goes off fullfilling his selfish desires to go be with other chicks and then comes back when he’s bored of being alone, you can bet your ass that it will happen again and again. but this wasn't some girl i dated for a month, this was my long term girlfriend of nearly four years. but i think what you should do is to find out where she lives and go to her house and tell her about how you feel.. (childish behavior) but i just ignored it and deleted his number, i was a bit upset. now both of them have blocked her and her life is drama free ….!The reason why i told you this is that it doesn’t matter why he is calling you or texting you or what have you. i called her on my way home and told her i wanted to break up. in his mind he didnt know whether i was telling the truth or not and he said we needed to work on it. brokes with me because he loves someone else but when i don. she met him in class at the end of august and was sleeping with him by september 3rd - remember there was the labor day holiday with no school in there too - she and i went out to lunch and even acted like a couple that day, and then two days later. guess i just want to understand why my ex is behaving this way, since i wouldn't give a shit what she was doing if i was happy with a new girl. are lots of reasons your ex-boyfriend might contact you even though he has a new flame. she acts like he was this shining light of a guy who walked into class and took her breath away. i'm trying to figure out why i talked to her today and she says she still doesn't know where it's going with him - she worries he may break up with her soon. will see me and make up some excuse to not talk to me. he calls me and wants to know everything about my life. but he hasn’t made contact with me after that txt. she moved back here (30 minutes away now) over the summer, we broke up again in july (but still were friends with benefits) and she finally got her own car the week fall classes started. but we’re still seeing each another intil a month ago but we still text each another .’s just soo difficult to get over a breakup at times… it would be much better if we could master how to become emotionless… he sabotaged our relationship…my ex broke up with me…after a 2 months no contact period… he decided to text me.'s like a game of relationship chicken, which one of us will reach out, first? it doesn’t matter what i say about her he will not cut off contact with me. i would understand if they didn't want to talk to me, but it makes no sense. like those 3 years meant nothing to me, like he never cared or still had feelings for me. he lately became very distant and whenever i asked him he gave me work related excuses. after we broke up, i moved and deleted him on social media, but he kept adding me. there are no words you can express to him that will convince him of your value, that comes in your actions only. of the best possible things to do right after a breakup is to cut off contact with your ex. i intend to find my ex boyfriend and she gets to know.

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.made lots of promises he wants to try again but i new deep down he wouldnt leave her because of the money…so after 9 days of texting,phone calls and sleeping together i told him no i am not playing 2nd best…but now i am confused about the ex i had the 18 month relationship with…stay on my own or wat?.Ok, joking aside, from what i gather it sounds like your real issue is still caring what the "ex" thinks. i just dont know what to do at the moment. hope this article helped you see the hidden signs that your ex is still in love with you. a month later we were at a bar and some drunken idiot tried to talk to me, and of course my ex got upset and told the guy she was taken and blamed me and he said i made him look like an idiot..and told me that i mist stop talking about him and i must stop telling my friends about him. i think that's what she thought i would do - stand there with my dick in my hand while she spends a semester with a new guy. listen and read all things positive and self empowering until you really feel and believe it. trying to rub someone new in his face (or having him rub someone new into yours) is a sure sign that they’re not over it – and they’re feeling totally immature about it. me sum it up for you pretty simply: she wants to have her cake and eat it too. you’re most liable to do and say things that you’re going to regret later – and any contact with your ex is only going to make the situation worse. that means he still can’t stop thinking about you.’s going through the “what do i want” phase where he’s missing you but not wanting to be with you either, if that makes sense. best thing you can do is separate yourself from her and avoid her as best as you can. have all suffered heart break, that no excuse to accept from anyone. i went on this weds ire to try to figure out my brake up with a guy 2 months ago. his choices are leading him to his own hardships, that is not your responsibility to bail him out; again, his choices lead him to his consequences, he is the only one to take steps to change for the better. there is a good chance u can get him back from doing so. i need you to be real, stop the games, stop putting your guard up, and just really truly tell me what you want because what you say you want this time is final. first of all, your comment, “it makes me feel special,” is really about ego (not in a negative way, this is everyone too). it is – work on making yourself happier – not to make him jealous – but to genuinely become happy. men need leaders and a woman can either lead a man to stay in the cycle of treating a woman as an expendable object or like a goddess, just step into your crown first and watch the magic happen. the thing is though he always follows me around but then acts like he hates me but goes off and talks with his friends about me. have to stand back and and let him know your value by observing his actions proving he truly wants to be your man. part of the reason for this post is her freaking out that i am. we’ve always stayed in contact for several reasons; we still have accounts that haven’t been cleared up and just because. she makes a big deal about how she doesn't lie to me, but giving half truths isn't exactly being honest, either. in: ask a guy, love advicetags: advice, ex boyfriend, relationships. he is with someone else as mentioned before it’s probably a rebound. texted her this morning (shouldn't have), saying have a good day, and she didn't respond. kind of behavior might seem confusing in the moment – which makes sense – because confusion is the exact emotion it’s growing out of. we have called things off a few times but always seem to come back to each other. idk what to do because he treated me like crap during the year and broke my heart during the summer now he keeps trying to get back with me and i don’t know what to do…. grieve first, then we start to move on and get strong, and here they come back again wanting you back and saying they are different and learned. by a woman (forgot her name )who was involved with a narcisssit ! i was devastated, confused, hurt, angry because i still loved him. our sex life was always good, i know some of you are thinking that had something to do with it, as far as i know, it didn't. a guy can talk some really good talk and tell you things you want to hear, but if their actions contradict their words, run as far as you can in the opposite direction. history, or not, i'd bail and let her figure out if she wants to grow up and be an adult. maybe this new guy isn't bringing it for her sexually, i don't know. quizprivacy policyterms of useftc disclosure statementsites we lovecontact usask a guy (dating tips / relationship advice for women): frequently asked questions. that is almost the #1 reason that i would ignore you. he still texts or tries to see me, says he’s sad and unhappy, and that he still loves me.

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but around august two weeks after of school started he started to act different he stop calling me he barely text he always he had been at practice so i believed him. she will say that she hopes eventually we can hang out again, misses me, and we have semi seriously suggested having sex if both of us were single, but she keeps saying she thinks about that all of the time, how hot that would be. was in a relationship for 18 months but i broke up with the guy for reasons of mental abuse…4 weeks after the break up i slept with my ex who i have children with. said his been divorced twice because it was an arrangement marriage. your emotional connection to this woman after 4 years may be palpable, but she's mind fucking you. that has been my biggest question about all of this, along with how she could go from introvert to sleeping with a random guy - why does she still want to talk to me? basically, he is doing all of the work and if you cannot figure out that he is still into you, then you are an idiot. she would "break up" with me so she could go sleep with another guy and get her rocks off. if this was a girl i dated for the summer, i could just tell her to fuck off - but i invested everything into my ex for almost four years, and suddenly, a guy asks her out and she jumps. decided to end our relationship of 4 months two days ago because i was angry and suspicious of my boyfriend being in contact with my former ex. (will not be published) (required):You may use these html tags and attributes:
    1. . he saw this woman for about 3 months and proposed to her. i’m not sure she’s upset because she says she loves him or if she’s afraid of losing the potential for inheriting his mothers wealth. i catch him lying saying all of my friends say i look at his new bf. it’s the brutal honest truth, but wouldn’t you rather have honesty than head games? but he dare hurt my body, he did not respect me as his girlfriend. though that sort of thing seems like a rapid change, it's likely the person in question has been looking for a way out for quite some time. i encourage you to be really honest with yourself and ask your self, when he doesnt contact me, i feel…. left me after a year due to our age… he wanted someone more his age. addicted to him telling you what you want to hear because you are seeking approval from outside yourself and thats why it messes with your emotions when he pulls back. three months later he comes to my house when he knew i was as away and left a blueray disc of a play i was in under the doormat he obtained from production. results made me realize that it was so accurate if y we broke up its crazy like i hope the steps i take to getting the loml back will actually work *thank you* ❤. so yeah, i was expected to make the trip out to see her several times a week, and when i didn't (i went once a week), it wasn't enough. but i promise you that this is the last time i will ever give you the opportunity to be with me.'ve told her it's unfair how she is behaving, and she actually agreed with me. you come out of the breakup feeling healthier, happier, and more content with your life – it will drive him insane. he also told me that he was inlove once and got hurt. do your best to be good to yourself, get a makeover, buy new shoes, try something new at the gym or exercise class. bottom line, if you don’t treat yourself with respect, love, and boundaries, it doesnt matter what relationship your in, your insecurities will surface in areas of the relationship and create a mess of things.'s more of my ego taking a hit, because she broke up with me (for about the sixth time), kept fooling around with me (for about the sixth time), then hooks up with a guy at school within a week of meeting him (instead of getting back together like she always did). be clear if he chooses to do this its unacceptable behaviour. remember this above all shar, “we all experience pain, but we choose to suffer..last week he told his best friend that he loves me. for example if i stop texting him for four weeks he will text me about hooking up with me and then he will completely ignore my texts we never really called during our relationship which was admittedly only four weeks but in those four weeks we fell in love he insists that he never cared about me and that he was forced to date me(we are in high school) but at the time i just moved there so i didn’t have friends who would do that. can we say that according to the many dangers behind the blind dating we can say that it is a bad practice.. which is what she is facing with this new dude. they keep their ex wives or girlfriends as their supplies so when thye gets bored with one they know they can charm their way back into your hearts ! your heart will heal faster when you step into your own power to respect yourself and that means being aware that you have the choice to make your life happy or crappy. it’s a choice to love, love is an action and actions are choices. 41 but acts 21, dating a guy who she "breaks up" with several times a year, goes on a weekend trip with some other guy, then goes back to the boyfriend. a guy: why do guys text other girls when they have a girlfriend? has always been there for me and no without him it is a struggle to even get out of bed.. you should know by now dating young 20 year olds is gonna be fraught with peril.

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you have a responsibility as a feminine creature on this earth to evolve any man by showing them how much you respect and love your self, in your case, walking away and letting go with love in your heart. am i right to assume she still loves me and is sleeping with someone else to try and get over me? it’s not easy to be a strong woman, it takes courage and paitence with yourself, but ultimately, the reward is far beyond anything you’ve ever experienced. he then accused me of dating a pilot guy which was the reason why he didn’t want to tell me about his new girlfriend. mr right does not let you go and start dating someone else, you deserve better than this believe me..i’ve never loved someone like i have loved him. yes i also have the same thought that she’s just a rebound and his in a somewhat confused phase. i don’t want to answer his call cause who knows he might just call me to crush my ego or maybe he wants to get back again…. if a man truly wants you in his life, he needs to really experience his life without you in it once you’ve been a part of it. once you have disconnected face to face, you need to disconnect online as well or things are just going to be worse. do not understand this after breakup relationship you two have…. block this guys number, move if you have to, just send him prayers of love for him to heal, and never have contact with him again! make the break-up the best thing that ever happened to you and don't give the ex the satisfaction of knowing you're pining for her still. i just need to be able to tell her i love her to her face one more time. broke up with me because he was afraid that i would get hurt. starts dating another guy, but freaks out when i meet a girl. hes all messed up and doesn’t know what he wants. this can last for quite awhile depending upon the length of the relationship and he’s going through a lot of inner turmoil no differently than you are. sometimes i ketch him looking at me and then he looks away trying to look casual. my part, i don't have a problem that needs advice, i just thought i'd google this bullshit to see how commonly it occurs. we have been dating long distance from the jump, and recently he had some health issues. just broke up with a guy and i hope that he does some of these things so that i can rub in his face the fact that he messed things up by cheating on me. i would feel on him, he would feel on me. a guy: why do guys always try to talk to their ex-girlfriends? an interesting phenomena that when you ignore them they act crazy, but if a lady does it to them they are considered “crazy”. his mother disowned him when got married like he did. does he go out of his way to make me feel bad?'ve spoken to a couple of close friends who also know her, and they agree on two points; (a) this behavior is new and out of character for her, and (b) she's riding a high of attention and opportunity, and it's going to crash eventually. › Forums › Complicated Situation / Mixed Signals › My ex is still contacting me but has a girlfriend. it is told for guys who are hot and cold. don’t stalk him on social media, call a friend if you get the urge to do this. i think there is a sense of immaturity to it, but i am not sure that i would be turned off right away by it. gf was insecure during the relationship and wanted me to plant her flag all over the ex-wife while we were together, i suppose just to kill any amicability or good-will and secure her dominance. then he has contacted me to try an get back together, have sex, be best friends, have a beer, go to the cinemas, go clubbing…. have been with a guy that was “hot” and “cold” on me. after we broke up, i should have deleted all contact from my phone and blocked his number, because a conversation in the middle of the night was the only thing that he wanted to do. a strong women isn’t cut off from her emotions, she’s somone who has charged through pain and heartache, but still stands tall and graceful, keep your head up, otherwise the crown falls. the bad thing is that he did not remember it and when i brought it up, i felt like an idiot because of that reason. men pull away: 3 easy ways to stop a man from withdrawing: infographic. i dated my ex girlfriend for three and a half years. last year we talked on and off, this time we talked, he calls, he invites me to visit him in australia saying how cheap the fare. his actions don’t match his words, at least currently from when you wrote your comment. i was doing any of these to an ex, i would hope that she sees them as a sign that i really miss her and would like to patch things up if possible.

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maybe if you totally devastated him in the breakup, he only felt secure enough to talk to you again once he found someone else – but i would wager he’s probably reaching out with ulterior motives. too just ended a relationship that was 3 years old, and the ex-girlfriend does not want me seeing the ex-wife that preceded her. he cares enough to try to make you jealous, then he still cares about what you think. he keeps adding me and re blocking me on snapchat. there won't be any hard feelings, but i can't keep going through the rollercoaster you put me through.'s important to note though that she isn't some sinister succubus woman. while all the time he is still playing happy families with his new girl. if you prove to him that you don’t need him in your life – it makes you more attractive in his eyes. it bothers me to no end that she won't come out and say why she is with him. he has not introduced her to his mother or his family. the last time we met he ask me if i miss him. is he busy with work at the moment or maybe he’s sleeping with his new girlfriend? until one day one my way home, i saw him waiting for her outside her work place. know this is not an easy thing to do but, its for the best. only way for him to get over his anger is if he does it himself – you can’t help him. was together for 6 years and we split because he cheated on me., i have been on the end of a drunk call/text conversation that seemed like it was going well. he said satified ,but happiest when he was with me . build yourself into a better stronger woman and teach the men in your life how you will be treated. always says nice things to me that make me feel special. gleaning from the topic title, im bothered that instead of taking advantage of the opportunity to fuck other women and bring her hypocrisy to light, you would rather bitch and moan about the situation and defendi her actions against you which make you look like a dumbass. he is still with his lame ex and why try to follow me? if this person truly cared about your well being, he would either, completely let you go, so you can heal and move on, or step up and commit to the relationship. years of knowing and dating her, and it completely turns within a week. her credit, she isn't mentioning her guy, either, at least not yet. get help, support from family and friends, pray, do things that nuture your soul, volunteer at places of abused woman, explore your interests, get guidance or listen to positive self care affirmations everyday; there are plenty on you tube. it broke my heart even more to see him dating another girl. him that you can still be happy in your life with or without him, he is not your happiness because you create your happiness. will lower his inhibitions – and lead him to say what’s really on his mind, and what he’s been hiding from you (1). it got to a point we talked about having sex. this lasted for about 3 days until i tried to get back with her because i was just mad and i let the heat of the moment get to me however she told me she wasn’t ready and that she needs some time so we kept seeing each other as friends for about a week until i was able to convince her to take me back this is only the start then about a week later she calls me up and says she needs a break cuz she’s really confused and i got mad but we still stayed friends for about another week until one night she said she was coming over and blew me off for a stupid reason and i told her i was sorry for what i was going to do and i blocked her on my facebook because i truly believe you don’t appreciate something till it’s gone well she took it the wrong way and ended up in a courtroom over it because she was scared. liking your photo on facebook but then de-friending you the next day. said he loves me always will but it is what it is. new take on why he won’t call you his girlfriendask a guy: when a guy won’t call you his girlfriendexactly how to be the best girlfriend he’s ever hadask a guy: how to turn a friends-with-benefits into something moreask a guy: how can i avoid being the rebound? he would start am argument and i always end up apologizing so the argument would stop. we maintained no contact for about a week and then he came by the house two days in a row and stayed one night-even though he slept on the couch. if you truly love this guy, you walking away is the best way to love him because ultimately, the more your with him, he feels more guilty about his behavior, and that leads to anger and more beating; he can’t help himself, he is stuck in a cycle of self-hate. he doesn’t leave me alone hit keeps come talk to me for no reason and i don’t want to hear from him anymore. let him realize the next day that he’s revealed he’s still into you – and he’s not sure whether you’re still into him. the best steps to immediately take is to cut off, erase all his contact info, cut out ties to him, and then do things in your day that you enjoy regardless what other person is in your life. love the way you talk i wish i new you to trust me. left 3 weeks ago found out i’m 2 months pregnant he not returning my calls or texts i just am floored. lol i’m such a geek when it comes to romance.

she changed her facebook profile photo (we aren't "friends" on there anymore) to a picture of her and her new guy earlier this week. will also overwhelm the rational part of his brain – turning, “i really shouldn’t call her, no good could come of it…” into, “i miss her i gotta call her maybe we can hook up now hmm i’m also hungry for pizza ok i’ll call her first then pizza. learn how to do this, you gain self-respect and a man’s respect. let go with love and compassion in your heart, know that it has nothing to do with you, so don’t take anything this person says or does that is negative personally, commit yourself to focusing on your life being amazing because nobody can do that for you, but you, take resposibility for your choices, and be greatful for the lessons you learn in your relationships. but he hasn’t made contact with me after that txt. a guy: what a guy really means when he calls you cute. some serious relationships can be very difficult to say goodbye to when two people have bonded so closely. it’s 4mnths now we broked up but he does come to visit his little prince’s, the confusing part is when his around his playing a happily fmly act if nothing happened, than after he will ignore me n never chart i also doing the same but i still love him n want him bck…. had date my boyfriend for 2 months then he broke up with me . she’s a rebound as its rather normal thing someone to fill the void with another but eventually as their head becomes clearer they realize they weren’t honest with themselves about the reasons for dating (filling a void) and not being in he right mental state of mind. she didn't let me know, so i wonder how i would have found out. treat it like being arrested – anything you say or do can be used against you at a later date… even though anything he said or did is ok because “he was drunk” and “it doesn’t count. and i recently met a new friend completely random and for some reason she is the exact opposite of life for all my friends she told me no matter what i do everything i can to get her back if i love her don’t let her go do everything in my power to let her know i love her i always have and i always will and now i’m starting to realize that’s never going to change so i don’t know i just have so many conflicting ideas right now i really need some help but i love this girl with the most pure love i’ve ever had in my life and we never had problems between us our problems were always outside problems like environment or her family so i really don’t know. but he’s starting to look at me more in school and he always looks upset. but i promise you that this is the last time i will ever give you the opportunity to be with me. his behavior is trying to make you want him back (3).. there is only a 9 year age difference, he is older then me. i want to come to an understanding so i can move on completely. now, they can stalk you every step of the way and that makes for some weird situations. he’s got strong emotions about you – well, those strong emotions don’t come from nowhere. he talks to me sweet, then discusses getting back together again and talking about his reservations knowing i still love him and would want him back. he’s on my fb page all the time he says, talks about what he sees, but never posts. he flip flops on me all the time; one week he’s trying to figure out what to do and the next he’s tired and just going to ride it out. dumped me because he wanna go to matric dance with this cute looking girl but he still text me and say he is just checking up on me…i love him and want him back what should i do. if they are lucky, they will have a constant supply of women ready to distract them from themselves. was dating my ex for 5 months…he has a twin. in 30 days he would get over me and forget me!’t response four weeks he sudden want to be with me also whether he is with her still. this is not easy but in time the pain will diminish. stumbled on this site, for help understanding my own current break up, and i read the comments, abd yours really effected my heart.. not sure what he chose tell that but my heart is broken and i hope all works out somehow. advise, my girlfriend broke up with me over some stupid message that she misunderstood, i apologized and she understood, but she was broken and mentally drained and was so upset, she did totally ignored me for 4 days, and i finally gave her space i didn’t message and hustle her then after 2 days she send me an email saying it’s over, she can’t do it anymore and she can’t do us anymore, because she was crying for week even at work, of course i beg and plead and want her to take me back but it didn’t work, our emotions are all over the place, she said we both need time to heal and be okay, so now it’s my 1st week of no contact even if it’s so hard and part of me want to message her but i didn’t, she was the love of my life and she loves me, she still loves me, i just hurt her so much so she have to let go, what should i do to get her back? it's like being married and your wife suddenly says she wants to take a break, then immediately starts fucking a random guy. i am going to assume they are not going to remember doing it. i don't think she is doing any of this purposely, but i think her main goal isn't to be with me again, but that i am single, so she doesn't have to "worry" about me being with anyone else. teach him to love himself by exiting his life and dedicate your self to your own self-love. when i asked him whether he is dating again, he keeps denying it. admits that he has feelings for me and he knows i have feelings for him but he won’t talk to me because of his past. but now that this relationship has ended, it amazes me to think she could be so selfish as to try to regulate what i do and who i see after. it’s difficult, i know this from personal experience, but, ask yourself this, do you really love this person wheather he is in your life or not as long as he is healthy or do you love him as long as he’s in your life the way you want? this isn’t the first time an ex has gotten in touch with me even though he’s dating someone else. , i mean god we never even fought never cheated never lied we had a beautiful thing and i hate myself with a f****** passion but i was too blind to see it at the time. his last words was i love you you ya know .

?It makes no sense and is only painful…you are not friends…you are bitter towards each other. guess if you are still close enough to be getting contacted by him, that might mean something, but he shouldn’t be anywhere near you. of course, she isn't being logical about it (i can date but you can't! So I dated my ex girlfriend for three and a half years. i need you to be real, stop the games, stop putting your guard up, and just really truly tell me what you want because what you say you want this time is final. reached out to him bt still he ignores me irly lv hm so much! after brkuo v used to talk…v used to say that i love you n so…bt fr the last few months he hs strtd saying he don’t love me anymore…bt then also he cares a lot fr me…he cnnt see me with any other guy b it my frnd only…. in the first few weeks after a break up, but i would not be impressed if i was getting things like this months after we are done. so yeah, technically, she didn't cheat on me, but it feels like she did. really miss my ex and i notice he misses me too. woman love with the heart and men understand love through respect. i was disappointed but not broken so now i give him a casual hi and bye if that but i don’t go in his office & chat like we used to. have compassion for him that he is so damaged to be so abusive because it really means, he hates himself and your the physical punching bag of him. dating a guy for 2 years, he broke up with me.'s definitely a jealousy, ego thing - why is she staying with that? all those whose exs are contacting them while they dating another person please read articles on narcissists! which was not true, i wasn’t even talking to the guy he was talking to me. only does it give you desperately needed time to get over him… it also gives you a ton of perspective on the relationship, him, and why you guys broke up. is your ex-boyfriend trying to get in contact with you months after you broke up? you still have his heart as it takes quite awhile to close that chapter and be able to start a new one with someone else., these are awesome and a dead giveaway that something is still burning inside of him. he’s almost 50 and he is running from commitment, that the truth. or, the guy might think that he is being subtle, but i feel that he is just realizing what he used to have and is grabbing at straws to get it back. find somebody that will chase you… not the other way around. that's the biggest thing i'm struggling with - i had a smart, articulate, seemingly mature girlfriend for nearly four years, and that all melted away in the face of attention and opportunity. if you are broken up for a longer period of time and start to see signs like this, it would make me wonder what is up. it’s been a week since i haven’t talked to him and he has not texted me at all. in a long distance relationship so i dnt know if i can trust him or not because when i call him at night he seems not comfortable to talk wt me.! tell me and nami what happens when you do so! tell her to meet you somewhere at a place at an exact time. i texted him to leave me alone and go bother his girlfriend but he keeps calling. i know she was sitting on her ass before going to class this afternoon (her new guy is in said class) and she was trying to make me wonder - now suddenly she's "too busy" to talk to me again. ex and i have been back and forth for a few months now, however in the midst of us breaking up and getting back together he met someone else who was more available to him. boyfriend broke up with me a year ago and started dating someone new right away. he wants to hear that you still love him, havn’t moved on, and want and need him because his ego wants to hear it and gives him temporary boosts to feel good about himself at the expense of your heart. but now i’m back with my ex boyfriend and i’m very happy he still loves me. once again i do encourage you to read as much info about narcissists and narcissism victim syndrome ! before leaving each other a week ago, he confessed he had trust issues with us.'s like a game of relationship chicken, which one of us will reach out, first? unfortunately, he still found a loop hole and contacted me via whatsapp. harsh words, i don't really mean all that much, but it sums it up. is a big part of my life and i honestly don’t know what to do without him. why do guys try to talk to their exes even when they’ve clearly already moved on?

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in fact, expose her hypocrisy on the way out, allow her to be jealous, but know what you're doing, and never fuck her again. only way i felt clarity and gained some control was by blocking him off everything.’ll be amazed that her experiences are very much similar ! is my intention to shed some light on your situation and i hope it helps. why did he call me out of the blue months later after i found out about nye and was so hurt?. saying so many dumb things like “if only i was him you would be happy” or “he isn’t that good for you”. i am hoping that maybe this will lead to a relationship recovery but am not sure. what she is doing is unfair and immature and pathetic. in the meantime, do things that truly make you happy and enjoy, work on your self. unless he had something important to say, he’d call and i’ll hear out. started texting me again…few more days before valentine’s day…but why?’s because in the period immediately following a breakup, confusion is at an all time high.’s the purpose anyway of him still in contact with me. i promise, if you follow my advice, you will end up with somone who matches your sweet heart and the only physical touches will be gentle and the words will come from his sweet heart, wouldn’t you much rather live in that life? so then she did the only thing she could think of – she messaged his gf and asked her to ask him to stop contacting her as she is tired of telling him the same thing and inspite of being blocked he still found a way to contact her. like it’s time to go no contact for a few months to clear your head of all this and heal. i once told him that and he said to me he does love me alot but he want to be single because i’m the one who brokered up with him so he choose to be single, but to me he doesn’t act as a single man. i know this will seem totally backwards, but it’s 100% true. he tells me he’s just tired, and doesn’t want to fight. the best thing to do is to tell him you don’t want to talk, text, or contact him after the breakup, and ask that he respects your wishes. i don’t know if he’s trying to pull game or still likes me because he keeps saying that we dated for 2sunmers when we odviously didn’t and he keeps dropping all these hints that he wants to get back together. i also do not want to date my ex again. that you wouldn’t have gotten if you had been talking to him, and letting him send memories of the relationship runninng through your head again. if you allow your self to be treated disrespectively, your self-esteem has no chance to gain strength. after this no contact period you will slowly start to text him with small talk. – he could conveniently “forget” that he said anything to you at all the next day – so don’t say anything to him that you might regret. but he talks to allot of girls but tells me that when me and him date he is gonna stop…. you really don't want this girl, and if she's demeaned and cucked you in this way, she really deserves a few hard feelings just to force emotional maturity on her part. i really hope you do because your future self may be reaching out to another female who is in your current state and she needs you to be strong and show her the path to her inner strength. ex-boyfriend started texting me last week after we haven’t talked in months. the only way an addict has any chance of getting better, one has to hit rock bottom and that means no helping in any way because if the addict knows there is a cushion, your actually enabling the addict to continue being an addict. she made it seem to me like she was spending every night with this guy, was so busy with classes, work, and him, but she texted me last night, sitting alone in her apartment. he may love you palesa, in his limited capability, but limited also means, he does not have the capacity or emotional intelligence to be better than he is. but now i’m back with my ex boyfriend and i’m very happy he still loves me. really need to know if there are any chances he will accept me usig the ex boyfriend text? the material on this site may not be reproduced, distributed, transmitted, cached or otherwise used, except as expressly permitted in writing by mojo media, inc. your putting the power of your self-worth in the hands of somone else to tell you that you are worthy of love. this is like my second text of the same sentence to him but he just ignored it and kept calling me. he probably will get in touch soon and maybe you should just talk to him and get the closure but do not accept any nonsense, no one is forcing him to date another girl. a guy: what it means if your crush wants to keep the relationship a secret. i wouldn't mind being a friend so maybe i can get laid out of the deal when/if she breaks up with this new guy. dated him last summer then broke up with him because i didn’t think it would work out, even though i still had feelings for him, and through out the whole year he would stop by my house and talk about his new girl friend. the guy will not give me the time of day unless he has a couple of drinks down at a club first.

about three weeks ago, she posts a cryptic facebook status about how happy she was with her life, i call her on it, and she admits she has been seeing a guy at college for the last week, after meeting him the week before. my friend does not know how to tell me he loves me but he tells his friends. once you break up he can date 3 the next day so get past that. he makes no attempts to see me yet he talks with me about getting back together all the time.. is as equally if doubly scared itll blow up in her face and she ends up with nothing but heart ache and lonliness. wanted to keep talking to me, which i found out was mostly to share details of her new guy with me (she will always say she isn't trying to brag, just talking to me, her best friend). we all can choose to close our hearts or look at our relationships as something we learned more about ourselves, as in, you most likely have a better idea of what you want or don’t want in a partner, what your willing to accept or not, and how much are you willing to sacrafice your well being and sanity. now he been gone 4 days and he tells me he has lost everything. these narcissists need a source, whether its positive or negative, it doesnt matter to them. she broke up with me, started dating someone else, then freaked out and said it's too hard to talk to me when i did the same. like she's still attached to you but she's trying to explore new relationships and feelings. but you have to really try to analyze it from a logical level - do you feel this strong because you can't have her, or do you feel this strong because you really, truly feel like she's right for you? since then we spoke on and off and then i was out with my friends and he was out with his and we ended up kissing and cuddling and he told me he loved but when he got home he said he didn’t want to be with me and just to see what happens. if he’s raging, or bellowing, or expressing his anger – let him. am not saying this is conscience on his part and he may or may not realize that’s what he is doing either, it’s natural, as you know, your doing the same. after dating my ex for 4 years, he left me for a co-worker he had known for 3 weeks. you have to show him your not a back pocket option and this is the only way to do it. i am 33 with 4 children and all my exs have said who would want a woman with 4 chidren…now i am affraid il be on my own. if i broke up with someone and met a new girl and was happy and excited to be with them, i wouldn't care about what my ex was doing, or really talking to her. i don’t know what to do can someone help? he’s rubbing his new life in your face, let him. create the space to chase and let him show you with his actions, not words, that you are valuable to him. i still have hope bcuz one time i cried in class n he cared enough to ask me what was wrong…but i didnt answer him…. and now he says he has moved on yet he telling me he’s confused about his feelings. just because he’s opening up (because he’s drunk) doesn’t mean that you should – and in fact you shouldn’t. no contact, no lurking on what they are doing, no texting back, cut him the fuck off! so i am very confused i still love him but i am haveing a hard time moveing on . she said something like, "i could be married to a guy in 10 years with twins, and i still won't want you to be with anyone else., my heart wants to be with him still n thinks that may b he truly loves me, still…. i need you to be real, stop the games, stop putting your guard up, and just really truly tell me what you want because what you say you want this time is final.” if he never calls or contacts you, swallow the truth that you may not have been a priority in his life, but no other woman will be unless she shows him that she is a prize to be won. if he still has strong feelings for you, he still might not want to get back together with you. she was everything in my life she gave me meaning and purpose without her i am absolutely useless i love her more than i ever thought was humanly possible and what hurts is part of me believes she’s moved on however she’s made several cries for help as well including a bunch of er visits for anxiety and depression and a drunk message she sent me one night telling me how messed up she is and how she can ever be happy again and how i really screwed it up. he wants to use his voice to convince you and to turn on the charm – very dangerous. cannot take it if somebody misbehaves with me…or i m not well…it makes him sad…i love him so much…bt his behavior is really confusing…what’s his real feelings how will i b able to know this…. but this wasn't some girl i dated for a month, this was my long term girlfriend of nearly four years. you’re showing that he’s getting to you – and the only way he could get to you is if you still had feelings for him. i don’t like to belittle others but she is at a lower station in life than his family or myself. we started talking again and got along great but he moved back in about 3 weeks ago and all of sudden he starts fighting with me one night and leaves. it’s been 2 nights now he’s still calling me but i never once answered his call. he has a new girlfriend and is not getting back with you. i am a little concerned he will appear at my apartment. to give an example, we talk on the phone for five hours two days after i find out about new guy, she doesn't want to get off the phone with me, it feels like we are dating again, but she still goes out with him the next night.

Get dating advice from a guy about why they talk to ex-girlfriends. so it has almost been a year since he broke up with me i have been trying extremely hard to get back together with him but he says that he is not ready to date and for a year he has been almost checking up on me but then he hasn’t. may your healing come miraculously rapid and may you find your inner goddess.“he didn’t call me after i sent him the text for him to not text me or call me cause i wanted closure.'m not going to sit here and act like i have done the correct thing in this situation. that is really sad i am really sorry , i wish i could help. have the control to free yourself from mental torment, so take action to do things that help you heal and become a strong woman. she managed to get in his phone and read his texts once. i do so because he doesn’t respect me, but i still love him when i saw him, my hands all cold and very nervous and angry feelings arise when saw him.’ve deactivated all accounts on social media so there’s no way he can send me an email. know a guy but at the same time i have a boyfriend. if you tell him that, and he still contacts you? he’s keeping you as a backup in case it doesn’t work out with his new girlfriend. he really wanted to tell you he wanted to get back with you he would start with a text or an email if you ignore his calls. she clinged to me while she dated other guys, fucked with my emotions and mind. i told my ex that when we end the physical, we're not going back. let go with love in your heart and don’t berate him for your pain because at this point, your allowing it; therefore, you can choose to do something about it. i still love him, he calls, but doesn’t make an effort to see me citing he’s afraid he’ll either disappoint himself or disappoint me. you might be seeing the side effects of this battle – his confusing, back and forth behavior says it all..but he can’t get back with me because of his situation.’t know how to react i still love him too but what can i do suggest me. a man can’t chase if there is no space to do so. i’m wondering with me not texting and flirting is it getting the best of him? once you renounce interest in someone and go to another, all bets are off. an ex-girlfriend of mine had become one of my best friends by the time we had broken up, as we had revealed sides of one another no one else had ever seen before. my ex boyfriend that i used to date and thought his the one broke my heart 7 years ago. can be hard to figure out if he still has feelings for you – or if he really doesn’t like you anymore..we had fights and disagreements but we got it over. however, we still pepper the conversations with l love yous and talk about being friends with benefits if it doesn't work out with the new guy, but she keeps putting up the act that this guy is a dream and everything she has ever wanted. but like no one i speak to online is from the ‘wheat’ province in canada lol. but i promise you that this is the last time i will ever give you the opportunity to be with me. take responsibility for your own life and choose a healthy happy life, you can have it if you choose to, it’s not going to be with this dude. i intend to find my ex boyfriend and he gets to know. also, he gives me hint like, oh i’m getting married next year, or invites me to his wedding in the future and that he doesn’t have any girlfriend..Ok, joking aside, from what i gather it sounds like your real issue is still caring what the "ex" thinks. you texted him to not call you and now you are surprised that he is not calling you. if she was really having fun with this guy, she wouldn't need me, at least that's what i think. but ik that if he doesn’t end up loving me still that’s there’s plenty more fish in the sea. what she is doing is unfair and immature and pathetic. she told me sunday night, more than anything, she wants me to come over and just hold her in bed ("i know that's inappropriate and not fair to (her guy), but it's what i want"). he left few months ago went live with his cousin. don’t rack your brain trying to figure out his motives behind such behavior. could easily call him, ask him what is up, listen to him, and you both would go separate ways.
only way you should continue talking to him is if you are certain his intentions are respectable and that you’re fully ready to have a platonic relationship..and he told that he loved me abd that he wanted me back…but the next day . in the summer we hang out allot because we go to the same places and my bff is dateing his friend so we end up together allot. so much, that i’ve told him it wasn’t necessary to keep telling me. i had met someone while we were apart as well and ended up making a poor choice with this person. encourage you to join alanon meetings (this is for the people who are in relationships with addicts). quit with my guy last month and now i’m having feelings that i love him so i went back to him and he reject me pls advice me. i saw him moping around the other day, & another co worker told me he chewed him out but later apologized. what i read here in this forum about your partners ,i have been through same situations and horror ! so coming to find out ig i just gave up inno ask hym about it he was like i didn’t kno she put that up there i was like oh fr and coming to find out over the summer he went to his party an came home late n said bae some girl me a lap dance ans ask me for my number so i was like did u gt it he said no and i told her i had a gf coming to find he lied she met him there at the party gave him a lap damn anne accepted the number and i ask can we friends and he said he new i was gone ask in was confused wennhe replied back to me n henaid since i thought hat he might ass we’ll went with her and yea i miss him so am i stupid for missing him and wanting him back or is it to late to get him back. (he came to the play but didn’t see me after). 3onth later he went back with his ex and he seemed halpy. her videos really helped me sooooo much and she keeps it very real. to: my ex is still contacting me but has a girlfriend. one woman who changed my life is teal swan, she provides amazing exercises to work on your inner damage and how to change it. i guess i shouldn't be surprised my ex is behaving this way, although she has always talked down on her mom's behavior. he lost me at "5 hour conversation" after he found out she's getting the d from some random dude. she was this devoted, loving quiet girlfriend with few friends, then got a car and it opened up opportunities. i know you've got a lot of time invested in this, but seriously, cut your losses and move on. i’m confused and i’m too old for this. if both of these conditions can’t be met, you need to cut him off – at least until he’s single, if not for good..I just know if i met someone new and was happy, i wouldn't care what my ex was doing. this point i think it’s best to no longer be in contact with him. if either of these are possible scenarios, you absolutely need to keep your distance. that is the worst feeling ever when you go into a conversation thinking that both of you are aware of what has already happened. it's nice to see this board is alive and somewhat kicking.. we agreed to stay in touch but all else remain unseen. week ago i told him that maybe we were only good friends and i misjudged things. ex and i were best friends for ages and we always fancied eachother we got together and we’re dating for 7 months. might think he’s making you jealous – but all he’s really doing is revealing that he still has feelings for you. i talked to said i need to let her go and move on and find someone better but i can honestly say i truly don’t believe that with my whole heart i don’t know how to explain it but i just know she was my soulmate she was the only girl i could trust and she was so beautiful she’s the only one that could really understand me and i hate myself the fact that i screwed it up looking back it was over the stupidest stuff too i would always complain and argue about the stupidest s*** that now doesn’t mean a damn thing in life i wish so bad i can go back in time and fix it but i just know i’ve never had an appreciation for her more than i do now i have never had a hunger for her again like this i would absolutely do anything for that girl and what’s worse is everyone told me just give it time move on but it’s been over 6 months and it’s just the same pain i felt the first day hasn’t gone anywhere and i’ve tried being with other people when hooking up but it just makes it worse she thinks that i was just playing her or i didn’t love her and i’m just a selfish a****** which she was right when we were dating i wasn’t an a****** but i’ve changed she is changing me so much and she saved my life more times than you’ll ever know i just need to be able to tell her that. me my boyfriend break up with me,,,with no reason so guys what will i d,,,February 16, 2017, 2:51 am. she is, as others have told you, an emotional siphon, and she looks to you to validate her new sexual interest at cost to your ego and manhood, but is unwilling to offer you the same support. sometimes he cuts of because he doesn’t want me to get hurt, i get really upest when he doesn’t get back to my text almost in tears. confuse me because when he calls my feelings from the past comes back please help advice. it also seems to me that whenever i get a boyfriend he gets a girlfriend and i dated my other ex and he dated his ex girlfriend. is a pretty crappy, selfish, and immature way of saying, “i’m hurting from our breakup. when i tell you, if she's for real, or meant to be, then after awhile of being seperated and you talk to her again, you will want to be with her again. but he dare hurt my body, she did not respect me as his girlfriend. to put it lightly she’s trailer trash and has been married three times. when he asked if i had slept with him i said no, as i hadnt slept with this other guy. i am not going to assume they are into me. later told him that i didnt mean what i told him and told him the reason why,he said i made him believe i would never leave him and i did so he said he will not accept me again and told me not to call him o text him.