Is there anything wrong with dating a younger girl, don’t forget that just because you date younger women does not mean you can’t keep dating older women too. in reality once i land her number and kiss her theres no reason i should have to back off, he should have just moved onto another, but i knew what that girl was after and i figured she was just getting together with him and hanging out to get near me. it is over mostly my girl friend of 2 years who i hang out with a lot. make a long story short we are dating, and i can’t believe the life blood she has brought back into my life. that means if you want women over 33 you should meet them within your social circle instead of daygame or on a dating site., the only reason you think it’s wrong is because you were raised in a country that kept telling you for years it’s wrong until you started believing it. there is something “icky” about this, and most of my friends would agree, even if they’re attracted to that man. beauty pageant winner, model, you know, the ultimate fantasy girl but in real life (they do exist). it’s not that i’m specially interested in dating them. you need both outer and inner game if you want young girls. i don’t like the two categories: younger men under 30 and older men from 30 to 80, every decade must be studied separately, by the way, what decade in you opinion is “the golden decade for success with women” considering you take care of all important factors the same? “as a dude, i’m told that i’m supposed to date girls my own age and take care of them, pay for dinner, and so on. we’re talking about much younger women here, this article is really geared towards men over age 30 or so. so, if you’re 35 and dating a 37 year old, yeah, not a cougar. i dated women older then my over my younger years and my ex wife was older then my too. she responds that there is no bad guy and that she isn’t receiving my communication well and since there isn’t a quick fix we had to part ways. i will say that this type dating is not generally typical of everyone and should not be misunderstood. we ourselves are our greatest hinderance or catalyst to dating the person we see fit. an older guy wants to date younger women it is his right to do so and none of anyone else’s business. if it were 10 or even 15 years ago i wouldn’t give it a second thought, but i’m aware as men age there are sometimes sexual changes within them as well. i know that since she’s agreed to a date with me, she’s not a type 1, so she’s either a type 2 (in which case fast sex will be very easy as long as i don’t majorly screw anything up) or a type 3 (in which case my odds are a little lower and a little more comfort-building time will be required). iow, do you still talk about her dating history for the last 6 months and then her sexual likes / dislikes, etc (your usual pattern)? one just pointed out in these comments that the older guy has to compete with the younger guy for a hot woman over 35. i asked them if they wanted to shoot a game of pool, kept it cool, general small talk, bought a couple rounds, and before i know it they are asking me where i live and if i wanted to go party there! i’m back in the gym and i’ll be getting my mojo back there soon. and whereas younger women are putting you through the paces to see if you can provide her with a life, an identity, and a future, an older woman already knows who she is and what she wants to do—she’d just love someone to share it with.
Age-gap: The reality of an older woman dating a younger man(since men hitting up women within one to nine years younger is considered “normal” by society in most cases.), younger women have become such a normal and regular part of my life, i no longer consider it something unique or interesting enough to talk about. always has worked well for me to show them i have already been with someone 13 years younger and hint that i won’t ever do that again … but just hinting cause they usually think “i’m gonna prove to him that not all 18 year old chicks are the same”. but it does mean you need to pay attention to your body, grooming, and fashion and place a higher priority on these things if dating much younger women is something you’re interested in. but every older man on this post seems a confused about how these young girls see him… most of you sound like you are living in a fantasy world. she stays and since she was on her period there is no sex. there were a bunch of sorority girls at the other end of the room. he is a former professor of mine (no longer and will not be again so there would be no issues with my school). i have told others in my defense, that science backs this up; older men attracted to younger women 18 or so, simply because they’re more fertile around that time. the fact that you are trying to figure out how to have sex with us, noting how easy it is to take advantage of type 2s (girls who are looking for a daddy) is completely creepy.• asking her a question about the sexual prowess (or lack thereof) of the ex-boyfriend she’s talking about. she hit on me, i am a good looking man but put myself in that catagory that i would never attract a younger woman again. i think this is something older men fail to consider when they persue a girl my age. of talking about what to do to attract and date much younger women, something i’ve talked about before, today i’ll discuss what not to do. guess the “acting younger” may not be attractive to some women, but it sure helps to feel young!. you really must let these girls go after you, which will happen eventually, just takes a bit more time (long game) otherwise as you say you’ll get labelled as a creep. if she’s gotten this far on her own, regardless of whatever relationships are behind her, she’s been through enough ups and downs to know she can handle just about anything. estimate that at least 15% of younger women are type 2s. mentioned in a older post that vyw2 are only the 20%, so following your logic on mistake 1, i’d rather ask myself: why complicating things to give vyw2 what they crave (an alpha older man) when i can give the other 80% what they crave; an also confident, sexy, strong, fun, alpha man but with a younger vibe? and no this does not include me gaining anything in material value from that occasion other than a quick bang or developing an intimate relationship w/ something i care about and would like to get to know better depending on how we hit it off. oh well she was 94, i thought you were in the same age but you are younger. got divorced 6 years ago, and have been on a few dates with woman my age, and found most of them to be bitter and angry at the whole dating world. i sometimes do it with wingmen who are much younger, but they don’t know my real age and i prefer to keep it that way, as they’d probably not want to go out with me, if i told them. a 20 year old guy and a 35 year old guy are both tall and ripped and have attractive facial features, girls would not be more attracted to the 20 year old just because of his age. i was fucking another girl when she sent me that text. you can date younger women, but you don’t have to get super duper serious with them.
find it hard to believe your statistic where 20% of young women are grossed out by the idea of dating any guy more than 4-5 years older than them. i have really been blown away by the quality of many younger women out there. younger women don’t have much experience yet and they are still exploring what world offers to them and still are learning. this is certainly not the norm for that age range, there are many women out there like this. when i think about the actual age of that guy and how wrong it appears that he specifically seeks out my young age outside of the bedroom, i’m automatically repulsed. in hindsight, dating years longer allowing her freedom to grow would have been better.’s true that if you’re really good looking or have extremely strong game you can overcome the fact that you’re acting younger and score with those type 2s anyway, but why create the extra work for yourself? then the world will say: “what did that old slug think was going to happen, the nerve of him to try and use that poor girl’s youth up. one just pointed out in these comments that the older guy has to compete with the younger guy for a hot woman over 35. i was talking more about dudes in their 40s (or 30s who look like 40s) who look very out of place there.. that i’m not prone to acting stupid or flying off the handle like the younger guys. men their age dating younger gals is the biggest threat to these women, and many of them can’t emotionally handle it. thanks again for your site, and all others posts has bolstered me, and also assured me that there’s younger women who actually are way more attracted to an older fairly good looking guy in good physical shape(not belly hanging down, or fat guys wearing muscle shirts) thanks also for the younger female posts, verifying they’re not just gold diggers, but just wanna have fun sexually with an older mature man, who knows how to treat a lady! and that is the last thing, if you think you won’t connect with girls my age you are wrong, i’m twice as independent and intelligent as any thirty year old and guaranteed you will find a someone just like me who could give you a run for your money, intellectually and sexually. there were a lot of comments and i didn’t read them all, so i apologize if you already covered my question: how do your relationships usually end? i’ve been hit on/propositioned by older women very often throughout my life, and let me tell you, there are plenty of older ladies out there who are plenty creepy themselves : p. and then there is a friend who decided at 20 to marry a man in his early 40s., what’s wrong with men on their 30′s in the club scene? they have a couple of older teenage sons he can’t do anything with at all. and if numbers aren’t your thing, that young ripped kid will be able to get the hot 8s 9s and 10s before the older guys if they are both competing for the same girl. all the other younger women are: dating sites and malls. unfortunately, i know girls who want to think of themselves so badly as mature that they would, therefore, think themselves to be justified to date an older (old) man. back to back mishaps with woman my age and i’m now 57 the last 3 girlfriends i’ve had are 22/23 and 18. and if nothing is wrong with any of this, you guys show this blog and all your comments to your next conquest…but you won’t because you know she’ll be creeped out by it…because it’s creepy! i simply ran across this site, throwing out something i already knew: that older men are attracted to younger women. i can only think of one vyw ever that turned me down on age and i’ve been dating vyw almost exclusively since i was 25.
i am not interested in men who try to act younger, fetishize my age or are in pursuit of status trophy. if you’re well over age 35 and you’re still decent looking, you can pull off some pretty amazing things…things that could never be done by younger men, or men your age who look like typical, dumpy, married beta males. other then that, we just don’t see old geezerds with younger girls. backtrack a few years ago, i was married and my wife cheated on me for quite some time and the scars are still there. web site where we men are trying to achieve something in trying to adapt to modern women, there is always some women who enter into what is a discussion, and try and take over with such strong gender bias opinions.’m curious greg, what type of success are you having with daygame, and with what type of girls? biggest reason for not dating older women, is they invariably tend to want to pursue things from a more permanent perspective, which isn’t what i am looking for. offers to dress up like a schoolgirl for me whole nine yards. then are the four mistakes men most often make when trying to attract younger women. i payed my career as a barman and men in their 30’s don’t look ridiculous in a club, they’re the people that looks more confident, attractive and with higher status than all those guys in their 20’s that can’t even afford a bottle or are to shitty scared to talk to girls and also look more ridiculous because getting drunk is all they care about. it’s also difficult being able to express this to people considering i get just as much ridicule than i’m sure you do for dating these girls. i wasn’t purposely looking to have a relationship with anyone in there. i was pissed but didn’t want to say anything i would regret! i am 73 yrs old and was contacted a couple months ago for ‘friendship’ via facebook by a ‘younger’ women.“if a younger woman dates an older man in a serious or casual relationship, entirely of her own free will, and the man is not lying to her, not leading her on, looks perfectly normal, and is not a creeper, why is this bad? i never asked anything from him and he never pays for anything for me. again, there are many, many exceptions to both those generalizations. love isn’t concerned about your desire for casual sex…and you have included dating which is beyond casual sex.) just last weekend i picked up (or should say they picked me up) two much younger women., here is a graph of the acceptable dating range for each age using the half-plus-seven rule, illustrated by data blogger randal olson:now here is the graph again, but this time with the average age range set by men on okcupid:the biggest takeaway from this graph is that, for the most part, okcupid men stay just barely within the range prescribed by the half-plus-seven rule. in general, younger women get into open relationships faster and easier but tend to be more dramatic and jealous in those relationships. it's ok to date someone younger than you, in two charts. i have my opinion based on what i’ve seen other girls and women go through…and children…the neighbor who married a woman 15 years younger. but if you’re 35 and dating a 22 year old, ok, you might qualify. it felt as though we were meant for one another, but there was this 18 year age gap. how do you explain all the younger women i’ve had sex with, with in extreme cases these guys invade the clubs or college campuses to hit on younger women where they often look woefully out of place. bf is 35 and likes to hang out with party girls who are 20. always just try to act like me, be a gentleman and that way there is no change when we get together. got back into the dating world when i was in my early 40s. i’m quite sure a a good-looking 40 year-old guy with six pack abs and a full head of hair (what few there are), wouldn’t have very much trouble with those younger women either. the internet dating ship has sailed so far as i’m concerned and im not into bars much anymore. none of these younger dudes had the balls to make the straight up ask. i’m off the full belief, that a younger woman, who one finds compatability with can add a spark of energy, that all the woman that were close to my age (bitter, angry, used up)just could not add anything to my life. i was going to offer some information on this topic being that i married a lady 18 years younger however, women like susan above has already exhausted me and frankly, this is all too common online and out in the real world.- spent grand total?