my mom taught me not to start dating until i can pick a girl up myself and pay for the date myself. as far as interfering as to the person they are dating not being good enough, find out what your teen really likes about the other. goldreply[–]c0rnsyrup 2 points3 points4 points 8 days ago (0 children)i honestly think it's good for straight forward, initial "what are the legal ramifications of this? my daughter told him yes i would have been able to do more with friends although there time together was fun and harmless she missed out on lots of fun., just because i didn’t allow dating before 16 doesn’t mean we avoided the strife that came later with boyfriends/girlfriends. in oregon, that is misdemeanor rape since she was under 18 and he was an adult and they are more than 3 years apart. goldreply[–]sortedn2slytherin 2 points3 points4 points 8 days ago (0 children)i had a roommate issue recently where, after all of my belongings were stolen including my house keys, she refused to come home and unlock the door for me.'m an admitted attorney who consistently bills north of 2,000 hours a year at a large corporate firm. goldreply[–]xafimrev2 20 points21 points22 points 9 days ago (3 children)i feel like i'm living in bizarro world, i was in a 3 year high school with like 2400 people in it and there were sophomores and juniors dating seniors all the time. she already was friends with the boy in question and she didn’t see how calling it dating would change anything. goldreply[–]owmyinboxthrowaway 2 points3 points4 points 9 days ago (0 children)and the way he spend three paragraphs "explaining" their ages without actually saying her actual age of 14 when they started dating, and still 16 when he got her pregnant while he had just turned 20. parents have the right to do as they see fit in the safety and well being of their children until they reach 18, then you can only hope your child has learned from you and makes the right choices as an adult. goldreply[–]hammer_of_truthiness💩〰🔫😎 firing off shitposts 50 points51 points52 points 9 days ago (5 children)is it tho? goldreply[+]theironmarkstupid police comment score below threshold-22 points-21 points-20 points 9 days ago (15 children). there is so much a 12-year-old can teach a 10-year-old -- advanced coloring, advanced texting, and so many other important life skills. was having breakfast the other day with a friend who was giving dating advice to his son. my daughter is 15, she started talking to this older boy, she says he is 17. goldreply[–]hammer_of_truthiness💩〰🔫😎 firing off shitposts 26 points27 points28 points 9 days ago (0 children)i agree completely. possible reason that's not gross could a 17 year old have for dating a 14 year old? goldreply[+]elagabalusrexanarchist-monarchist-feudalist comment score below threshold-14 points-13 points-12 points 9 days ago (1 child)that's how you know he's a rapist. parents told me i couldn’t date until i was 16, and then on my 16th birthday, changed it to 18. the best for your children involves a lot of careful tiptoeing around boundary lines the older they get, and when teens start dating it's sometimes very difficult for mom not to interfere. from my high school experience the girl thinks dating a guy in grade 12 is cool and the guy finds her easy to impress.
essentially, we need to follow a child’s lead on when he is ready to start dating — some teens feel better knowing they don’t have to deal with any of that stuff until they are older, while others are curious and really want to get their feet wet. please keep your questions on the issue of raising older kids. goldreply[–]pitaenigmaahhhhhhhh 15 points16 points17 points 9 days ago (4 children)i remember in 12th grade, the guy with the girlfriend in 9th grade was made fun of. i speak with my daughters as openly and honestly as i can about many topics especially dating. i am 15 years old, but unlike many other 15 year olds, i plan to stay chaste and pure until i get married. we discovered he had a criminal record with at least one or two charges every year since he was 18, auto theft, breaking & entering, duis (several), loss of driver's license, currently on a 5 year probation after his 3-year one was revoked, divorced with a 4 yod, domestic violence, and a court ordered sex offender eval. he had been having some several relationship with young girls while dating our d and actively dealing drugs while he had d with him. goldreply[–]grelphy-( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)╯╲__💩 💩 💩 💩 don't mind me just siezing the memes 4 points5 points6 points 9 days ago (0 children)that's likely just cities. my older siblings had no such rules and dated at 14. goldreply[–]sweetjaaane 2 points3 points4 points 9 days ago (0 children)uhhhh idk it was normal in my high school for seniors to date freshmen. goldreply[–]travio 1 point2 points3 points 8 days ago (0 children)oh no! commentsshareall 108 commentssorted by: besttopnewcontroversialoldrandomq&alive (beta)[–]hyper_ultra"you know what they call le meme in paris? i told my daughters they could date at 16 but they also knew my story, so i was prepared for a request for an exception. you may be surprised by what your 13, 14, or 15 yr old considers dating. was also a super hot senior (girl) who was dating a sophomore (boy).. i am in my 40's and my twin girls are 16, my son is a very responsible 21 year old man. they can have friends but dating one on one is not an option. goldreply[–]itsmyotherface 5 points6 points7 points 9 days ago (0 children)i don't think it's uncommon in the us, either. cops had a lengthy talk with her, but after two days of crying, yelling, blaming, holding, etc. upon this rule, the only time that a man can date a woman his own age is when he's 14 years old (because half of 14 is seven, and seven plus seven is 14). i gave her all the pros and cons of an older person that its extremely unhealthy. im divorced just 3 months ago and i told her searcing for love in the wrong places will definatly get her into trouble. a few weeks later, we did discuss it and he still wasn’t exactly sure what all dating entailed.
he had a lovely girlfriend last year as a freshman in high school. they're good friends now, but she hated him for a year. goldreply[–]hammer_of_truthiness💩〰🔫😎 firing off shitposts 28 points29 points30 points 9 days ago (3 children)i mean whats the alternative here? they were both out of school, yep it'd be nothing, but it's a grade 12 dating a grade 9, which is definitely strange. goldreply[–]bloomepusometimes i get a bit carried away 31 points32 points33 points 9 days ago (4 children)3 years difference isn't that big of a deal, except when you're 14. goldreply[–]jhaza 3 points4 points5 points 8 days ago (1 child)there is often valuable advice - what type of lawyer you need, some questions to ask, where to get a referral - in addition to being told to get a lawyer. i told her until she can be trusted i will question her daily. goldreply[–]_missy_chrissy_ 5 points6 points7 points 9 days ago (7 children)yes. goldreply[–]_missy_chrissy_ 7 points8 points9 points 9 days ago (5 children)i'm 23 and a girl so no. how to date younger women dating advice dating advice for women dating. my children have dated and my husband and i have been there every step of the way, sometimes advising, always watching, and of course holding our breath and praying! i can't think this is the first case of a grade 12 guy dating a grade 9 girl (i can think of several examples in my own high school - at least one of the couples is now married). goldreply[–]c0rnsyrup 1 point2 points3 points 8 days ago (0 children)i agree. our daughter has always been a good kid, excellent grades, a dancer (for 14 years), and worked a part time job in fast food where she met this guy. goldreply[–]doomsayer189 5 points6 points7 points 9 days ago (0 children)i don't think "she got pregnant" is particularly weird though. i just want her to get through this with her memories of her senior year and high school not be just awful. my position was that if we can’t discuss dating, then you aren’t old enough. i am 19, i have been married for a year, and expecting my first child in june. goldreply[–]bloomepusometimes i get a bit carried away -32 points-31 points-30 points 9 days ago (49 children)what possible reason that's not gross could a 17 year old have for dating a 14 year old? she has an older counselor/friend (22) who treats her like a little sister and won't let her backtrack one little bit. so finally, after all these years, you can actually date the kids you knew when they were kids. having my 14 year old son wait til he is 16 years old to. how do you handle navigating your teen's new dating life?
i mean, they were both technically underage when they started dating. so now she seems like an older woman, at least. he's a stalker, and would even stand across the street when her mom told him to leave their property, and just stare at the house. didn’t allow my four children to date until 16…and truth be told, none of them were particularly interested in it until then, though this may be because we homeschooled. 17yod has been secretly dating a 25yom for about 3 months. so isn’t with our family motto: just be honest, don’t be cruel and dont ever say yes if it feels wrong. as someone else pointed out, 17 and 14 could be a junior and a freshman, which isn't a world of difference in maturity and life experience. goldreply[+]bugo---mods are gay comment score below threshold-6 points-5 points-4 points 9 days ago (4 children)then you would be a creep. goldreply[–]alysonskye 5 points6 points7 points 9 days ago (0 children)i fell in love with a 17 year old when i was 14. son is in 7th grade and is “dating” a girl. about if your 10-year-old looks at you and says, "i'm ready to date, dad"? goldreply[–]derangeddesperado 3 points4 points5 points 9 days ago (0 children)its not fair at all. try dating people who are within seven years of your age -- on either side. i wish my parents had told me not to date. that makes sense, considering the fact that an 18-year age difference is something to which you should really be accustomed. goldreply[–]sortedn2slytherin 45 points46 points47 points 9 days ago (19 children)if i really needed legal advice, the last place i would turn to is r/legaladvice. goldreply[–]sortedn2slytherin 4 points5 points6 points 9 days ago (0 children)i understand, but there are clearly some who spend much more time there than they should. it wouldn't have been my preference, but a 17-year-old boy and a 14-year-old girl really aren't far off in maturity level. so the ripe old age of 14 -- the age when you still have pimples, are as insecure as can be and are unlikely to get anything more than a kiss from a woman your own age -- is the only time when you can enjoy dating a woman your own age? goldreply[–]beary_good 26 points27 points28 points 9 days ago (12 children)the best advice (ie, from actual lawyers, not "ianal") you can get from r/legaladvice is to stop asking r/legaladvice and get an actual lawyer. its really hard for for her and her sister(12 years old) they dont get to see their father at all. my 13 year old son just asked me if he was allowed to have a girlfriend. except i kept them secret from my mom (one was a friend’s older brother, and the other a boy who hung out with my regular group of friends — so that was easy enough to conceal).
i am 14 i know how ur children think at the age of adolescence so feel free to ask and i'll tell u what i think , and i hope i'll be helpful :) ty. goldreply[–]grelphy-( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)╯╲__💩 💩 💩 💩 don't mind me just siezing the memes 9 points10 points11 points 9 days ago (3 children)alternatively, to stop threatening to sue your neighbor because their pet cat meows. older siter and brother, and my younger brother, all happily go to mum when there's an issue.? this is all wrong and i’m worried for your children. now that i am responsible for 15 teen girls, i tell them all the time, dating can wait. goldreply[–]lemonwizardserial rapist of registered circle rs 11 points12 points13 points 9 days ago (1 child)she's pregnant. goldreply[–]ayashiibaka 11 points12 points13 points 9 days ago (0 children)nobody here ever had sexual or romantic experiences in high school so they judge anyone that has to make themselves feel better. goldreply[–]hyper_ultra"you know what they call le meme in paris? goldreply[–]gummy_venus 79 points80 points81 points 9 days ago (4 children)based on what i saw on high school, it's mostly a. the two 17 yo hung out together, while dh and i and our 14 yo son went around separately, then we all went out to dinner. her idea of dating centers around the disney show girl meets world. this is a huge transition for our children as they begin to stick their toe in the dating waters. goldreply[–]c0rnsyrup 0 points1 point2 points 8 days ago (0 children)a good one could. this is not because i told them they couldn't or discouraged them in anyway not to. goldreply[–]marek_intan 1 point2 points3 points 9 days ago (2 children)what city is that, and why is it like that? i especially like how you pointed out that early dating is a teaching experience – teaching kids how they should treat others and expect to be treated in return. i roomed with a friend from home my freshman year of college. she is in color guard (flag girl) for band and this boy has now also joined band just for his senior year and now is dating once again another one of her friends (pretty big school but i guess this is just his wheelhouse). let them be aware as well of the laws involving dating and what trouble they could get if they are living dangerously in a relationship.. as a result of the first reason, if i was that horny teenager only dating my girlfriend for physical relations, then the time i spend with her wouldn’t be very productive, and my girlfriend would most likely realize i am not a very good boyfriend. goldreply[–]surfnsound 11 points12 points13 points 9 days ago (0 children)that's relative to your experience though. my sister recently ended up in hospital with a uti because she thought it would go away and that if she told mum she'd get in trouble. goldreply[–]antilukeask me why i hate californians 3 points4 points5 points 9 days ago (5 children)looking at the relevant laws, he's not technically a rapist.