Do You Date Age-Appropriately? | The Huffington Post I guess my question here would be if it is against the law for me to be dating him.. you should be old enough to put the other persons feelings above your own. parents told me i couldn’t date until i was 16, and then on my 16th birthday, changed it to 18. in oregon, that is misdemeanor rape since she was under 18 and he was an adult and they are more than 3 years apart. that if something feels wrong, that's all the reason you need to get out of there. goldreply[–]arathianbans for harassing jebusgobson: 7[s] 8 points9 points10 points 1 month ago (2 children)in my experience, half my class (not me, i didn't half my first kiss till i was 20 lul) were dating 2-3 years below them. popularmy best friend was 14 when she fell in love with a 21 year old. goldreply[–]dizzlemizzles 5 points6 points7 points 1 month ago (2 children)that's right, she got pregnant last summer. this friend thing got lost in my marriage and now 15 years later i’m not sure i know what a relationship should be like let alone what to teach my son so again i’m very thankful for an article such as this. like you, chris, i homeschooled for many years and thought they shouldn’t date until they were ready to marry. from my high school experience the girl thinks dating a guy in grade 12 is cool and the guy finds her easy to impress. we have told our daughter that we don’t want her to date. goldreply[–]truepovertymy life is a shithole 4 points5 points6 points 1 month ago (0 children)it's just a run of the mill college town in the midwest. i personally was 14 when i first went out with my now husband of 4 years, when he was 17. they were both out of school, yep it'd be nothing, but it's a grade 12 dating a grade 9, which is definitely strange. goldreply[+]bugo---mods are gay comment score below threshold-6 points-5 points-4 points 1 month ago (2 children)no you would be a creepy pedofile. goldreply[–]britishburrito 1 point2 points3 points 1 month ago (0 children)ah ha! my older siblings had no such rules and dated at 14. i can’t think of a single thing wrong with this. i'd completely accepted her romance with an older guy as normal, even destined. imo, but it's way more immoral to abandon a child than it is to be 17 and dating a 14 year old. goldreply[–]grimpler 4 points5 points6 points 1 month ago (3 children)yep, she got pregnant last summer. in a few years they will be in high school and you will not be privy to much of the inner workings of their social lives. how have you handled the idea of dating in your home? i see nothing wrong with the now old fashioned term, “courting. tenth grade, we made friends with a group of older guys who hung out on the main street of town, which ran parallel to the local university — guys who'd once gone to our same high school and had never left the social scene. goldreply[–]pm_me_a_good_recipe 0 points1 point2 points 1 month ago (0 children)get a bible, shove some catnip between the pages. didn’t really have any set rules about dating but i did have one instance in 8th grade where my mom picked me up from a friends house where a bunch of us were hanging out in her front yard (including my then boyfriend) my mom and sister teased me about how he looked like a baby. please keep your questions on the issue of raising older kids.
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goldreply[–]spiderparadox 39 points40 points41 points 1 month ago (4 children)i mean, it could be that he doesn't want to think of it as his child. my mother, spying him from the front window, asked me how old he was. like me and sydney, she will most likely yearn for attention at one point or another. a few weeks later, we did discuss it and he still wasn’t exactly sure what all dating entailed..Permalinkembedsaveparentreportgive goldreply[–]snallygasterfuck_mod$_420 12 points13 points14 points 1 month ago (0 children)the age gap is big enough at that age where it's a little weird and could be something to watch out for but small enough to not be too out of the ordinary and could just be the result of the older person's immaturity or younger person's maturity as anything else. i know people who weren't significantly different as a character from 14 to 17. the two 17 yo hung out together, while dh and i and our 14 yo son went around separately, then we all went out to dinner. I realise that 4 years is quite a gap for someone my age and that many people see this as being wrong. my mom taught me not to start dating until i can pick a girl up myself and pay for the date myself. goldreply[–]marek_intan 1 point2 points3 points 1 month ago (2 children)what city is that, and why is it like that? many years afterward, i took total blame for everything that happened between me and t. except i kept them secret from my mom (one was a friend’s older brother, and the other a boy who hung out with my regular group of friends — so that was easy enough to conceal). i think someone pointed out in his state it would be fine if the age difference were less than 3 years. 14 yo son has expressed zero interest in dating, not even wanting to go to the 8th grade dance. teenagers are going to date, when the pool of potential dating partners is too small, they go and expand it themselves. is really difficult for me even to process the thought of my kids dating, so i am commenting just to express my admiration for the wonderful lesson you taught your son wrt the purple flowers. goldreply[–]hammer_of_truthiness💩〰🔫😎 firing off shitposts 28 points29 points30 points 1 month ago (3 children)i mean whats the alternative here? you can't just hang out with a guy and not expect him to get ideas, i told myself. goldreply[–]derangeddesperado 5 points6 points7 points 1 month ago (0 children)its not fair at all. goldreply[–]pitaenigmaahhhhhhhh 7 points8 points9 points 1 month ago (8 children)3 years is different depending on where you are at life. goldreply[–]danconnersgaragemy weed and intelligence > you 1 point2 points3 points 1 month ago (2 children)i wouldn't call that bullying but ok, i'll be harsh yet less sweary in the future. goldreply[+]grimpler comment score below threshold-8 points-7 points-6 points 1 month ago (1 child)he makes it sound like its her fault for getting pregnant(it takes two to tango).. you can influence what activities they will do with each other, ex: if they are dating secretively, chances are they will sneak out somewhere, and with the lack of activities to occupy their attention, i can almost guarantee they will make out the whole time and/or touch each other sexually and possibly have sex.'m an admitted attorney who consistently bills north of 2,000 hours a year at a large corporate firm. goldreply[–]xafimrev2 18 points19 points20 points 1 month ago (3 children)i feel like i'm living in bizarro world, i was in a 3 year high school with like 2400 people in it and there were sophomores and juniors dating seniors all the time. possible reason that's not gross could a 17 year old have for dating a 14 year old?"advertisement - continue reading belowi told him that this wasn't true: it was my choice. goldreply[–]antilukeask me why i hate californians 4 points5 points6 points 1 month ago (5 children)looking at the relevant laws, he's not technically a rapist. i can't think this is the first case of a grade 12 guy dating a grade 9 girl (i can think of several examples in my own high school - at least one of the couples is now married).
Donald Trump Reportedly Told 14-Year-Old Girls: 'In A Couple Of i don’t know that i have seen anything recently that i more wanted to take a photo of than him standing at his girlfriend’s front door, holding the bouquet behind his back. going few the same thing just am 14 year old guy and the girl is 18. didn’t allow my four children to date until 16…and truth be told, none of them were particularly interested in it until then, though this may be because we homeschooled. my son had a sweet girlfriend for 4 years (thru college) but she had terribly strict parents and couldn’t ever be honest with them. now that i am responsible for 15 teen girls, i tell them all the time, dating can wait. im a 14 year old girl and have recently started seeing an 18 year old guy. goldreply[–]sortedn2slytherin 42 points43 points44 points 1 month ago (19 children)if i really needed legal advice, the last place i would turn to is r/legaladvice. im a 14 year old girl and have recently started seeing an 18 year old guy.? this is all wrong and i’m worried for your children. goldreply[–]cyanpineapplei am, literally, the best person to have at parties. goldreply[–]snallygasterfuck_mod$_420 5 points6 points7 points 1 month ago (1 child)no means! i had said no, i wouldn’t have had the opportunity to guide her through the dating process and have her “own” her decision. a child’s brain is not fully developed until 21-25, but at 14 they should get into a relationship? i realise that 4 years is quite a gap for someone my age and that many people see this as being wrong. son’s girlfriend’s mother called me that night and said that her daughter told her that if they ever break up he will be a tough act for any other boy to follow because he is so kind to her. goldreply[–]_missy_chrissy_ 4 points5 points6 points 1 month ago (5 children)i'm 23 and a girl so no.""so, no normal 20 year old wants to hang out with someone who is 15. goldreply[–]c0rnsyrup 0 points1 point2 points 1 month ago (0 children)a good one could. goldreply[–]drama_dairythe dramapocalypse is nigh 0 points1 point2 points 1 month ago (0 children)i'm talking about situations where people say "we're pregnant," though. goldreply[–]kahrismatic 9 points10 points11 points 1 month ago (0 children)honestly, probably not. goldreply[–]onyxandcake 9 points10 points11 points 1 month ago (4 children)it can mean a number of things, or nothing. goldreply[–]_missy_chrissy_ 14 points15 points16 points 1 month ago (13 children)how is that gross? my daughter told him yes i would have been able to do more with friends although there time together was fun and harmless she missed out on lots of fun. goldreply[–]drabby 0 points1 point2 points 1 month ago (1 child)but those cancel each other out, so now it is legal advice again! because of this, i was drawn to people like my best friend, who was dynamic and bold., thanks for the advice, my 13 year old daughter started dating a 13 year old boy, the boy ask to date her… and i was really afraid about making the wrong decision, we agreed. i roomed with a friend from home my freshman year of college. after raising my daughter who is 21 i have learned to not stop them from dating but do not push or be excited when they do my daughter had a super nice first boyfriend but after graduating her brother asked her when he was entering highschool if it would have been better without a boyfriend . when i was 14, i was nowhere near the development of when i was 18, yes.
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goldreply[–]bootscooter666 10 points11 points12 points 1 month ago (0 children)yeah i think it's a lil creepy also. i’ve talked about dating before they were old enough to understand what i was talking about. goldreply[–]surfnsound 39 points40 points41 points 1 month ago (2 children)i don't know, i never liked the term "we're pregnant". the conversations young and then it will less akward for you and them when they get older, you’ll have better communication with your tweens/teens, and they will have the tools needed to make these important decisions on their own. goldreply[–]owmyinboxthrowaway 3 points4 points5 points 1 month ago (1 child)i think "i got my girlfriend pregnant" is what normal people say. goldreply[–]sortedn2slytherin 1 point2 points3 points 1 month ago (0 children)i understand, but there are clearly some who spend much more time there than they should.. as a result of the first reason, if i was that horny teenager only dating my girlfriend for physical relations, then the time i spend with her wouldn’t be very productive, and my girlfriend would most likely realize i am not a very good boyfriend. i especially like how you pointed out that early dating is a teaching experience – teaching kids how they should treat others and expect to be treated in return. goldreply[–]hammer_of_truthiness💩〰🔫😎 firing off shitposts 31 points32 points33 points 1 month ago (0 children)i agree completely. goldreply[–]grelphycan you come over and fuck my fleshlight for me 8 points9 points10 points 1 month ago (3 children)alternatively, to stop threatening to sue your neighbor because their pet cat meows. he told me later that she was so happy and in turn it made him so happy. oldest is 13, almost out of middle school and hasn’t begun to date yet. goldreply[–]derangeddesperado 18 points19 points20 points 1 month ago (2 children)only one person in a male female relationship can be pregnant. the teen years loom ahead and i've experienced too much to rest easily. the day i turned 18, while still in my senior year, i moved out and didn’t speak to my parents for years. goldreply[–]itsmyotherface 3 points4 points5 points 1 month ago (0 children)i don't think it's uncommon in the us, either. commentsshareall 108 commentssorted by: besttopnewcontroversialoldrandomq&alive (beta)[–]hyper_ultra"you know what they call le meme in paris? have two sons, 12 and 3 years old and an 8 year old daughter.*before middle school “dating” is basically telling everyone that you are “going out” and then consistently ignoring the other person to the point that no one would ever believe you two even know each other, let alone are boyfriend and girlfriend. goldreply[–]surfnsound 9 points10 points11 points 1 month ago (0 children)that's relative to your experience though. goldreply[–]owmyinboxthrowaway 22 points23 points24 points 1 month ago (0 children)not every romeo/juliet-ish age gap high school relationship is necessarily sketchy, but sketchy guys overwhelmingly go for younger girls that are easier to put pressure on because they aren't experienced enough to recognize the bullshit. as someone who was freely allowed to “date” starting at 14, i look back and think, “what were my parents thinking? in high schools, ( 9th - 12th grade & 8th - 12th) you see seniors dating freshman regularly and many freshmen are 14 when they start high school, though most are 15. goldreply[–]xafimrev2 5 points6 points7 points 1 month ago (0 children)probably more often as a percentage due to a reduced dating pool in your own grade. as someone else pointed out, 17 and 14 could be a junior and a freshman, which isn't a world of difference in maturity and life experience. i am 15 years old, but unlike many other 15 year olds, i plan to stay chaste and pure until i get married. goldreply[–]snallygasterfuck_mod$_420 2 points3 points4 points 1 month ago (2 children)could a lawyer help me convert my gay cat to christianity? goldreply[–]snallygasterfuck_mod$_420 11 points12 points13 points 1 month ago (0 children)depends on the context.’m going to get right to the point my daughter’s are 12 13 15 16 and i don’t allow dating until 16 if they are keeping their grades up i’m strict and i found out my 13 yr old went behind our backs n started dating this boy and the way i found out was his number was on my phone she got grounded for living to us and sneaking around behind our backs when we were a little bit easier on her about dating she was cutting herself whenever she got upset so because of that we have had to set rules don’t get me wrong i love all four of my girls but it’s my job as a parent to protect them and if it means being the bad guy till they are older then i will.