I am dating a man 20 years older than me following six women are all dating a person who's got at least a decade on them. it's a lament i've heard from many of my male peers, who complain that they don't get "checked out" as often as they claim they once did.‘i dated a man more than 10 years older than me—here’s what it was like’. if they lied and said they were interested in women their own age too, i might actually respond. eight years later, even though my pictures are better and my accomplishments more substantial, i get only a quarter as many.‘i dated a man more than 10 years older than me—here’s what it was like’. it's not that women our own age are less attractive, it's that they lack the culturally-based power to reassure our fragile, aging egos that we are still hot and hip and filled with potential.
Dating a man 20 years older than me” anything that would shut her up and let me enjoy my prized romance. as pozner wrote in her book reality bites back, "the kittens hang out in their apartment hula-hooping in bikinis, while the cougars sew needlepoint, read, and do the laundry (because that's what worn-out old crones do. he’s not going to turn into some couch potato all of a sudden. society has finally come to accept what ladies have…read more read more the truth is, however, that the "sexual invisibility" felt by many older men is really about becoming less attractive to young women., i was at the snack table and before i could curse myself for leaving him to go in for another cheesy cracker, i was accosted by a buddy’s wife i barely knew, a bitch named sue. when i don’t mention his age upfront, people think we are only five years apart. though many women in their 30s and 40s report occasional contacts from much-younger guys ("cougar-trolling," as one friend calls it), the okcupid data indicates that women are much more interested in dating guys their own age.