8 Signs You're Dating the Wrong Person | eHarmony Advice the texts got steamy and ended up going round to hers for sex. 6 years ago to karen:i think it is obvious that you have been together with your boyfriend for a long time and now that you met someone new, you get that feeling of falling in love once again. also, i am about to be 21 and go to college. it’s easy for you to fall in love and break up, only to fall in love with someone else in no time because you’re not really in love at all. don't want to leave my boyfriend for someone else, because that's awful and i would hate to have that done to me, but i can't help but think of eric all the time. have a boyfriend but can't stop thinking about someone else. the problem higest on my list is that my current bf says he loves me though we've only been dating for 2 weeks, i dont want to hurt him bc it feels like all i do is hurt people, but im not happy with him. harder you are to get, the steamier it is, and usually ends shortly after they conquer and get the prize. of course i can't say anything to her because that would cause upset between me and the guy. but not long before we were dating i felt myself falling for my best friend, this was difficult enough as i didn't know whether to tell her and find out if she felt the same or to keep quite and just be happy i had her as a friend but feel depressed for god knows how long (i didn't tell her, i think this wad a mistake). know this guy and - if i'm honest - i'm sort of in love with him. she's aware of what some guys are capable of, yet her actions still contradict what she really wants, which is to be single and emotionally heal from her previous relationship. or the guy who seems to be playing all the cards right but i barely know? don't no what to do, i do t no if i should end it with my boyfriend or stay with him and always think about the guy. but if the opposite appears to be the case, then let logic be your guide and move on to someone else. so someone please give me some advice on what i can do! i do really miss my old friend and i don't know if he still feels the same about me as i do him it says on his fb he's single but i don't know if i could ruin my relationship my bf says he really loves me and wants to marry me i know that's a lot for the age of 14 but he's really nice and immature but i don't know why i don't feel anything for him anymore. so recently i started dating this other guy, and a few hours ago made our relationship public. but my best friend told him i liked someone else and she dated him instead. if you've fallen for this new person deep enough that you're planning to leave your sweetie, and if the new person feels the same way about you, you do your current boyfriend or girlfriend no favors by continuing the relationship. either the person you're already dating is going to be hurt because you will probably either leave him or her or try for a while to date your current sweetie and the person you're falling for. you shouldn't stay with someone just because it's become a habit and your feelings have changed in an important way. overall, it wouldn't have been worth the risk because friendships are never the same after you decided to date your best friend..and 2) he knows that i am currently in a rather complacent mood towards are relationship and that i have grown restless. im thinking about him often, we talk a lot still and i fear that i might have feelings for this guy. i actually got to the stage where i was with my boyfriend, and all i wanted to do was go home so i could chat to this guy. of course i will want to but i don't want to give up this other hugely important part of who i am. here i am now, and i still wonder about my ex. went to a ceilidh while he was here, with members of my boyfriend's and his extended family..i've known my current boyfriend since we were babies and i really do love him so much and we just started dating 4 months ago after a fling with another guy didnt work out. i have always worried that he has begun to hate me for all the hurt i put him through when i broke up with him and then the hurt of being with other guys after him. its tough, but in my opinion i wouldn't settle for the convenience of someone being closer especially if you're saying things about your current guy like;"the thought of leaving him is like throwing my whole life away. and remember that if you don't love & respect yourself you can never love someone else. but sadly there just hasn't been the same drive as before. i am so confused and honesty don't know what to do but to think that i would hurt someone else feelings would make me crushed and sad. i thought i would fall in love with someone very tomboy (my gf cries at the sight of spiders), midly outgoing (she's super shy), sport loving (can't because of her back problem, and she hates games), and very tough (my gf breaks down about every 2 weeks). i mean high schools for fun and everything so i've flirted with guys here and there doubted my relationship with my current boyfriend. so about three months later i started dating my current boyfriend dylan. 5 years ago omg i just feel the same way as torn_in_two. i have searched "how to tell if a guy likes you" in google since last year and he acts exactly like that.. i swear, if she does get with someone else, i am ending the friendship and never ever going to talk her again. up, confidence, dating, doubt, expectations, healthy couples, instincts, love, romance, trust. the worst possible scenario would be that you would drift into marriage and a family and ten years down the line both feel horribly trapped by the situation. i love my fiance but me and him contantly fight and argue about every small issue he just is not what i have imagined him to be, he is totally different and each day i loose a feeling i cant even make love to him any more because i am always thinking about this other guy, i love this other guy and i believe he loves me too but i dnt know whether i should leave my fiance or stick with him because we have come so far please please give me advice before i make a wrong discision. only, i am engaged to someone and we are planning to get married. i love my boyfriend so much and as much as i wanted to sleep with this guy, i couldn't do it. i feel exactly the same - been in a great relationship for a few years, been attracted to other people before but never done anything about it. anyway, now that i'm dating my current gf after 6 months i just began going into a massive downer and have been thinking about my bestfriend almost constantly, i just can't get her out of my mind..Confused 5 years ago i think im in the same situation, i have been with my boy for 4 months, and it's long distance. 4 years ago i have a similar situation, i have been dating my boyfriend for about 2 years, i am 22 years old now he is 25 in 2 months. i decided to go with the imperfect guy, and now we've been dating for a few weeks. you may assume that the new person in your life excites you more, but in reality, your present relationship may have experienced the same crackling chemistry and fiery passion too. i have been dating this guy for 2 years now, legit best guy ever, we never fight, he is my bestfriend, wake up to his good morning beautiful texts every single day, he comes to my work at 11, just to walk me home.. i feel like i am reluctant to because of how lovely he makes me feel. 6 years ago i've been with a guy for 2 years now, and it's been so great up until now. then this one guy who talks about sex to much (not with me just in general). but thats how he's always been, why am i getting anoyed now? i want to know why i am feeling this way about another guy. this is not reality and certainly not love, once she gets you wrapped around her little finger she will dump you and do the same to you too. it's a nice relationship, he is the sweetest guy ever and never has much to argue about. we're both in college, but it seems like the steam in our relationship is running out. never end a relationship because you think you’ve found someone better. they're friends, but my partner is too jealous of every girl she sees near me to let us all be in the same room. and as for the other guy, i want to be with him badly, but i'm not sure if he really wants to be with me as much as i want to be with him.." then he told me not to worry and he never stopped loving me and i am the only one he wants. i've fallen for an amazing young guy but for the fear of loosing my job (which i can't afford to do) i have distanced myself from him. i have with my husband is real and even though i am falling in love with someone else too, i know it needs to end. am pretty young and thought i was the only person in this situation but obviously not., you may jump into a new relationship only to find that you don’t really like the person and like someone else. 5 years ago i have a real pickle like this:(i've been dating my gf for about a year but i have this ex who is her best friend. to say none the least, its been full of drama, mistrust, and heartbreak. but i have strong feelings for this other girl who is now going through a lot of issues with her family. how would you feel if he came to visit you at college, for instance?! 5 years ago also i know the other guy likes me aswel as he told me he never felt the feelings he is having towards me before. and what if the new guy first work out and i was supposed to be with my current boyfriend. i told my friend, and he seemed happy for me, but disappointed at the same time..anyway, i started speaking to this guy again and he's gorgeous, it was great to start talking again, we've spoke pretty much everyday.! so we became friends on facebook and i got his phone number and ever since i ask for it we text everyday! my wife has no ambition, drive or goals and is quite happy living each day as it happens, we don't share any real interests either. it was true he never really did, with work and school and also the same for me. a year later (about a year ago now), i had another guy who actually was showing interest in me.'m 22 and been dating my bf off and on for about 5 years. am in the same position as you and being confused, i think this helped me make up my mind to realize that i can’t throw away my relationship for some other guy.. and so there's this guy that i've talked to here and there and of course i always thought he was cute and we would flirt a little and what do you know? 5 years ago i've been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 months and it hasn't gotten serious at all! i just feel that the new guy and i can't be together. i hope i can get a rational response from someone who's been in my shoes, or even her shoes. the fall semester starting up, i began to see the guy whom i had a mutual crush with again. as in he can talk to a ton of girls but he yells at me when i talk to one guy. you made up your mind on what to do if you like someone else?
Dating Exclusively you are scare that you will hurt your boyfriend, but i can tell you that if you no longer love him: the right thing to do is to let him know so he can let you go and find someone else. i'm 20 and i've been dating this guy for the past 3 years. thing is that my family already know my boyfriend and thay already accepted him. if you decide to go for the new guy, your new relationship may end up the same way as your current relationship in 3 years. 8 years ago looks like im the only guy to comment on here but what the hey! the relationship stared as a miss understanding and because of the type of person i am i can't get it over my heart to tell him that i really don't love him. i find myself day dreaming about him all the time, i feel bad for doing that but i can't help it. really hate myself for what i am inevitably going to have to do. he knows that when we broke up it was over someone and that something happened but he doesn’t want to know . i know this won't apply to so many of you, but its like with this new guy he understands all of what it is about me. i am with my current fiancé for little over a year, and we have a beautiful baby boy currently 5 months old. his fast paced marriage didn't last they went through a nasty divorse we started talking again and both of our feelings came back. he is a very nice and kind hearted kinda guy but he can be very immature especially when he is around his friends. even if he moved here, we'd likely be in the same department and i know that'd be frowned upon. i care about my boyfriend a lot but maybe i am afraid of being too attach that's why i'm doing it and my mind playing tricks on me. i see her in the hall ways in my school and am so in love but my girl friend seems to be obsessed with me now. i have never been with anyone else but the person that i'm with now. i actually lied to my current boyfriend so i could go to church with the new guy/ long time crush!. not to mention he has the same sense of humor and i can be completely myself around him which i love! so why the heck am i crushing on this guy? 7 years ago i hate to say it like this, but im in love w/ someone else. end it now and give your soon-to-be ex the gift of dignity: being left for someone else is bad enough. i do currently have a girlfriend and we are arguing more than we should so i start talking to my friend more and more texting calling and than it came to the point of me telling her i love her! ask yourself if there’s truly a stronger reason to end your relationship and be with someone else. i don't think i cam walk away from my bf as it will break his heart should i move job and try to move on? it is a good opportunity to give yourself time and space to decide what you want from a relationship and what else you want to achieve in your life. we started hanging out more and just yesterday i realised i am falling for him. one night we got into an argument, and the next day he started dating a girl that he only hung out with 2 times before. actually my bf's a very arrogant kinda guy and fights a lot. also i feel that these two guys never got there chance to show if they were completely if they were right for me. am in the same situation like most here and am trying to understand my feelings as well. and the worst part is i've recently met someone else, and there was an instant connection. we talked on msn every day for a few years, talked on the phone, shared everything and i can actually say i was in love with this man and still am.'s very attractive, taller than me and he's the nicest guy you will ever meet. ive been dating my boyfriend for 4 months now, and well, he gets upset with me for the dumbest of reasons. i get on with his friends and i was really happy with it, but then the first guy mailed me explaining that his internet wasnt working, and he'd lost his phone, and is pretty upset that i'm in a relationship, and i talked to him for a while and i'm sort of starting to like him again. also, she doesn't get along with other women and doesn't have many female friends (which makes things more difficult) so recently, she has been just "hooking up", "seeing" and spending time with guys. i meet someone online and i am attracted to him. 7 years ago im in the same situation, im 21 years old. i am living with my boyfriend this year at college, and this on top of the fact that my whole family love my boyfriend means realistically i can't (even though i want to) break up with him until the summer next year. i really liked this guy at the start of the year but he cheated on me so i tried moving on and i did through my current boyfriend, but i keep thinking about the guy who cheated on me and recently we have been talking and he wants a second chance and i want to give him one because i would do anything for him. are you going to stay with this guy if you end up ending things with your man? same with the bedroom do something different, try something new (ill keep it clean for the young eyes) there are some games available like "nookai" which is something different and exciting in the bedroom. don't know what to do because i can't leave my boyfriend for his brother as his family would never accept me, and i would feel far too guilty. 24 months ago well this helped a lot thanks but i still don't know what to do im pretty much in love with this girl but i have a gf and idk i feel wrong about having feelings for someone else. and now i'm kind of regretting it because i feel like all our connection is lost like i don't even have anything to talk to him about but with my guy friend we have such a blast and i hate to say it but he ha soo much qualities that i like in a guy rather than my boyfriend does an i'm mad a myself for that never in my life would i think i'd be in a situation like this and i'm kinda glad to know that i'm not the only one in this world with this problem but it totally sucks i really don't know what to do? next day though he came back to me and said that he thinks he'd made the biggest mistake of his life and wanted to try again. i got him to promise not to out me to him and tell him of my old feelings (it would have been so awkward seeing as we all went to the same university). and now i'm in pain from imagining him with other guys. met a guy through friends about 3 months ago now, he showed a keen interest in me but i wouldnt cheat and rejected him even though i felt a huge connection from the moment we met. is not easy 5 years ago i am 32, when i was younger i didnt have any serious relationships because i could not find the type of girl i wanted. my friend is perfect in my eyes and i couldn't see myself happier with anyone else!'s the difficult part: a friend of mine shares the same faith as me and a strong godly man. 6 years ago well i searched the opposite of this on google but i figured maybe it would help, the guy i know im like in love with has a girlfriend but i think he likes me i'll talk about him as zach. but when he came on strong, i started to panic and back off. i really love my boyfriend back home, and i feel really guilty that i have feelings this strong for another guy, especially one i can't imagine dating. although i know we're far from perfect i am now willing to really commit to making it work and that has changed everything. but now, i think i might have slight feelings for this guy, and my guy isn't aware of that. anyways before i met my boyfriend i loved someone else, very very deeply, he was my best friend. i know someone who likes me and zach acts the same way around me as the person that likes me does.,this ended up being way longer than i planned for, but in short- unless something is fundamentally wrong with your relationship, it's probably better to try to work things out than jump into yet another relationship. however i did and we both feel the same way about each other, we want to be together. i didn't want to be with her anymore as i was living in a lie, so i meet someone else, and my divorced me and i hardly saw my kids, the new relationship didn't work out either, it was not a strong relationship because i was attached to the kids, but it all went wrong for my kids, my ex-wife was a bad mother, and the kids hated her and missing me. or, is it normal and may pass once i am around my bf more? if you’re must dating though, you might want to think about it for a while and consider changing your relationship to nonexclusive, telling the person it’s not fair to them right now because you’re confused and can’t give them everything they deserve.. so i keep thinking about thisand it sucks becuse ok i've been hanging out with my guy friend almost everyday and i'm falling for him more and more each day and wehave so much fun! during this time i did meet other guys as he did, girls..one day things happened nd i admitted i had feelings for him and he did the same. fell in love with a guy who already has a girlfriend in another country (i didn't know this when i fell for him and my feelings grew). 5 weeks ago so i'm dating this girl and i like her and i like being intimate with her but i still have romantic feelings for a guy who i've liked for a long time and who i think might be into me. at the same time i am afraid that this man i like might make a move and maybe i will be tempted into getting into something i should not do. was this guy that i rode the bus with daily. like this:profile makeover: miss january 20 essential break up moviesshould you date someone 'out of your league? but i can't help but think that maybe i am just craving that deep "connection" so much that it is putting a strain on my relationship w/ my boyfriend and the fact i am very lonely is adding to it. i believe who you decide to give your time, energy, heart, mind, soul, and ultimately life to should be someone who you feel you can be yourself around, who loves you, cherishes you, adores you, is loyal to you, and would do anything for you, anytime. what i am most afraid of is this: if i were to break up with my boyfriend and go for my friend what happens if the relationship there doesn't work out. we haven't fought, his family accepts me, and everything is just great. advice » about you, dating advice » 8 signs you’re dating the wrong person. and since this time me and my boyfriend although getting closer are having more arguments and he is really getting me down but with the other guy hes constantly sweet and he cheers me up and picks up the pieces whenever my boyfriend upsets me i honestly dont know what to do, another thing my boyfriend and me dated before and the last time he left me cause he liked another girl so maybe he will understand but to be honest i wasnt very unerstanding. somehow we came closer and closer n now i strongly feel for this gal. i'm 21 now and the girl i like but am not dating and i have still kept in touch though i am in the military. i know that what iam doing right now is very wrong. he is incredibly jealous he has never liked a single guy friend ive had. is it wrong to like someone based off one trait/connection lacking in my current bf? after all, it’s better to be happy with someone you really like than stay gloomy with someone you think you like. i do love my current boyfriend, but i like this guy. well i got to the point where i thought i could date someone else; i was dating this other boy for about 2 weeks when i said i loved him.'ve been dating my gf for a year and a half now and a few days ago i met someone. yet he knows me from the inside out and he is so close to all of my friends and family. before that i met someone and he asked me out the day i met him, but i said no because i liked my current boyfriend and i didn't know him that well.