’t give her a nudge and expect her to then message you, because she probably won’t. your message can make a woman laugh (and with you, not at you), you’re already half-way there.
How to Write a Great First Message — MenAskEm
How to write your profile on a dating site
— if they really are that pretty they’re probably hearing that from every unoriginal guy on the site, and it won’t help your message stand out. you’ve composed your message, ask yourself what you would respond if you received this from someone.