How to tell if a guy you re dating is serious

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he has a son he doesnt ever get to see because of his ex wife which i helped him with for legal advice since i work in law field. disappearing acts serve more as a way to let you know this relationship isn’t serious and he is still free to do what he wants.! when i told him if i moved out, he would never see me again & i never wanted to see him ever again & asked him if he was ok with that he said yes. when we are together he’ll caress my leg or touch me or something. guys typically have more trouble taking advice and talking about their problems, so they tend to keep things like that strictly between people they care most about. about 2 weeks later he sent me a text begging me to talk to him – simple straight forward answer i am not ready to talk to you but when i am you will see me in person. guy i was just seeing scored a 4/5 with being let off hook for #5 since we only had 6 dates and i didn’t even think of meeting his family at that point. but from his side i just saw one of his best friend. i’m a complicated girl, he’s a complicated guy, both our families are conservative christian, and we’re not exactly in a sort of relationship those sorts easily tolerate, let alone accept.. i don’t stay over anymore since last argument nor do i use my key, i wait for him to be home first. it’s a place that's intimate, where you have inside jokes and references that only you both will understand. he also told me via the song that even though people had tried to keep us apart (his family), he wanted to make up for the lost time. he is constantly texting and calling me, taking me out to eat, going on trips with me. (side note: while meeting his friends isn’t the biggest deal, if he won’t introduce you to them it’s a definite red flag. he tells me that i have to raise my son as he did with his son. the sad truth is they play the victim but you start noticing why women walked out. was supposed to marry another woman that his family had chosen for him. he would call me and keep me on the phone for hours, then make plans with me, act mushy, tell me how beautiful i am, and then tell me he did not want a relationship right now. fight dragons without us wondering “why haven’t you called? of you is multi-faceted, with parts of you dedicated to your relationship, other parts your own goals and interests and also to the other people in your lives. been 3 years now my bf andi being dating, his mother passed away while we were together for 2years, i went to the funeral but funny thing is immediately after the funeral he asked me what time i am living, now when i am telling him i wish to meet his sister he shuts me down, i told him since there is no where we are going i am living him, he said i am blackmailing him and because he loves me and do not want to lose me he wil take me, this is not how i wanted it to be but i was fed up because we’ve been together for so long i thought oneday he will consider it but noo he ddnt so now i dnt know should i go meet the sister or not? sabrina am in a relationship with a great guy,its now 8months we go out and he always introduce me to his friend as his wife,and his brothers know me but i have not yet gone to thier home. mother brother aunts uncles father his kids his kids mom etc and i love them all like they are family. i have suspicions that he still has feelings for his ex.? he doesn’t care about me or love me as he said (i didn’t say it back by the way – and that cut him deep), he doesn’t give a continental crap about anyone or himself. you’re the only one making the effort to keep the spark alive and do special things, it’s a sign that he isn’t very invested in you. we reconnected on face book after knowing each other back in high school. so sell your house and get away from the abuser. we talk or text everyday, see eachother almost everyday, are with eachother 24/7 on weekends. i’m not sure if i can feign foot loose and fancy free or if i’ll even what to see him by then. needless to say he knew it was coming when i got there and he tried to avoid the conversation the entire weekend, sunday night come monday morning i started the conversation – i wasn’t leaving until i said what i came to say, and i did – all of it, every single pent up resentment, frustration, disappointment, hurt, disrespect, humiliation, rejection and heartbreak. they were split for a year when we started dating but my gut tells me that something wasn’t right. i”ve tried breaking things off with him several times but he always says things like, please don’t leave me or you’re the only good thing in my life right now. am trying to take your advice with this new guy we went on one date and i did not call him the next day but now he is being needy saying you don’t care about me and he says you hardly ever call me but im trying to not be “needy” myself becuz i would normally call a guy after the first date. he says he’s swamped with work, which he is particularly busy, but come on..Subscribe and get free fresh tips right into your mailbox. although, to be fair, this could just mean he's serious about pancakes, not you. his adult daughters for some reason didn’t like me so he felt the need to keep the relationship secret from them. have absolutely no problems with my guy with four of these, but i still haven’t actually met his family. nurture focused on building up reserves of food and cloth, rather than just about direct love. in my experience, if i start to exercise my self-respect and boundaries in any way, most guys disappear and never look back! if i was you i’ll remove myself from that whole situation. i read the article and i do question if my man wants a relationship. now he has been laying on his phone and i just don’t get it, please i need advice. he takes vacations from the relationship with no warning it means he isn’t worried about losing you, and this is never a good sign. know this post is a year old & my hope is that by now you’ve gotten out of this relationship nicole. i don’t want a (intimate, sexual) relationship with him (only friendship). we both were tied down to other people at the time but clearly preferred being with each other. maybe you don’t meet them right away, but he should give you come sort of indication that it’s on the horizon. he doesn’t want to loose me since i am his best friend. he has a little baby girl (she’s a year and a half) from a previous relationship that he endend right before his ex told him she was pregnant. but he said that it’s actually easier to him to leave someone that is his girlfriend rather than someone he doesn’t have a title with because then he can just say “i want to break up” and it’s done. lay your feelings out there for him, walk away, do not call or text or email. your life and quality of life is at stake here.. he disappears for days or weeks at a time, then acts like it was no big deal. my gut knows better but i must be a glutton for punishment because i keep breaking my own rules while he keeps proving my gut right what-the-f***! he’ll be excited, and maybe a little nervous about you meeting them because he really wants them to like you, and for you to like them.? i don’t get it what is we r just chilling?” now, he won’t be getting me pregnant as i won’t allow it however, if the guy wants me to be his woman so badly then why does he take 4+ days to text me? i think its ******** when people use excuses for their behaviors (well she/he cheated on me and now i’m scared! and he told me i wouldn’t…that it’s all just more of a mentality thing.. he makes a point to take you to his favorite places. the problem is that he works nights, so i only see him once a week. and start with 100mg for the first few days (1 dropperfull) and after a few days work up to 200mg (1 dropperfull in am and 1 dropperfull in pm), then after a few days work up to 300mg (2 droppers full in am and 1 in pm) and then after a few days work up to 400mg which is the usrda (so 2 dropperfulls in am and 2 dropperfulls in pm). i’ve been there and i’m telling you, it isn’t., any time a guy tells you that you deserve better, believe him. however, it’s been 2 1/2 years we been back and fourth until oct,2013 where he told me he wants to make more time for me and keep in contact with me. he said if he cant have a relationship its not about me but that he just needs to focus on him for a while. he is very wealthy and a farmer, which is my passion, to be a farmers wife.”you also should not have to look over your shoulder at every turn to make sure your significant other isn't checking someone else out or texting an ex. so i did what the younger more confident me use to due. article…my boyfriend used to show 4 of the 5 signs…the only one he didn’t do was the very first one…i have always been his “friend”, his “confidant” in many things…not all, but a lot, even when we were only fwb…. maybe it’s in the fairly recent “romantic princess meets prince charming, who whisks her away” ideal that the seed of destruction lies. any way, i’ll start dating other people and get what i want: a serious committed relationship, with him or with someone else who is ready. everything seemed cool but lately he started to pull back and became distant.

How to know if a guy you're dating is serious

he doesn't disappear on you if you don't sleep with him after the first three dates. live with one of his guy friends he’s known for 12 yrs. i hope you packed yourself & your children & got out of there. still remember the exact moment i fell in love with him – when he let his guard down and let himself be vulnerable for the first time as he shared all the tragidies, pain and growing up feeling totally unloved and unwanted, it all made sense to me then why he was the way he was, and while we watched a beautiful sun rise creep up over the city skyscrapers of johannesburg on a spring morning i knew then that no matter what the future holds for us, i will never be the same again and the love between us would change both of us in a profound way to the likes that neither one of us actually fully realized yet. but we’ve worked through it all and we are stronger together now for it. even if he has a lot going on and won’t be available for a few days, he’ll send a text or message to let you know he’s thinking about you. him at a very rough time in my life, failed relationship after the other – granted in hindsight i was very insecure, needy and desperate for validation that a man wanted me. i think that the fact that your doubting this relationship says a lot! i’ve explained how i feel, tells me to stop but i don’t feel the same from his end. lived with a male friend that only wanted to be friends but we slept together and he never take me out anywhere and i wanted more. i’ve had to text him first that last 2 times we talked nd the conversations were short nd he’d say i’ll call u in a little bit hun and never did. he does invite me to come over to his house to eat/watch movies sometimes as well but we both enjoy the alone time we get at his house. besides it reminds him that i choose to be with him because i want to not because i need to…. long story short he was on two deployments and recently got done with his service. wondering if he had a secret life- another gf or wife? at the start was really hard and difficult for me… but things change now and i’m more happy about myself & he said that when i’m happy he’s happy. if he really does love you, he will come after you, if not, good riddance to bad rubbish. when we first started hanging out we were together everyday. don’t be scared just as fast as you found joe you can find moe lol. 2nd meeting we had some romance and after that he showed his interest but when i asked for marriage and commitment he said he has to complete his studies and that he does not want to marry for another 5 years as he was fresh graduate of medical and further he needed to compete his doctorate..  part of your world it's important that you and your partner have a private world that only the two of you share. he takes meds for sleeping and add but i just dont know if it is the meds or if he honestly just doesnt give a crap. this makes me look back and think that not a single guy i was ever in a relationship has been that serious about me. had moved to another state but has asked me to come visit wen i’m better. got so angry and quit the relationship bcoz i felt he’s no longer interested,but trust me, am so missing him. we have spoken of living together in the future and he has talked several times about marring me which in the beginning said he never ever marry again. he did intoduce me to his family, he actually took me out of state to meet his parents. quizprivacy policyterms of useftc disclosure statementsites we lovecontact usask a guy (dating tips / relationship advice for women): frequently asked questions..(he told me this last month–when he freaked out because i decided to go out to a makeup party with my girlfriends-he came and cried and said he couldn’t believe i wanted to take two weeks off to think about our relationship-that’s when he took me to dinner-he said this–and we had great makeup love, and now hes busy working again–and recently he made the comment “maybe i should let you go, so you can be with a younger man and someone who will financially take care of you better” i replied, well i don’t think so. i’ve done this mistake in a past, agreed to do “friends with benefits” when a guy said that it was not going to work between us. he told about his nature that he is too quite not good in texting and chatting and calling. that i had become so insecure that he could basically treat me like garbage and i kept running back. he shows all the sign of being inlove with me, care for me think about both of us but he told me his family won’t accept our relationship so we can’t get married or have kids. my own long term relationship (the longest) came about only when i gave up on that fantasy, and every day it’s about giving the other person room to grow. in that time i really looked back on everything that had happened and who he was…. his reasons for liking you are secondary- its the gut fuelling reasons that are primary. said on our first date he didn’t want a relationship because he was leaving and he did. well, things eventually burned out because i would never agree to being “his woman” because i knew he had another lady in the picture. that turned to be a bad idea because he kept on making comments that we would get together in the future. we been together 6 years and been living together but he always says he’s not ready. seems right on path except bam, he’s not sure he can see a future. guy i have been seeing for a long time gives mixed signals. i won’t share everything in detail that he said but there was confessions, apologies and promises made.. he sits through scandal because he knows it's your favorite. but now…he didn’t tell me loves me and blows off the “moving in together” subject. i do want more from him and don’t know if this will ever take place.’m sorry for the time you have wasted with this man. at the very least, he should let you know that his family is aware of your existence. i didn’t want to end up with a broken heart, since i have already had feelings for him. men aren’t used to opening up and showing their emotions and they are much more selective when it comes to letting people in. something has happened to him in his brain to make him unsure of things (eg anxiety) and until he gets his anxiety treated he will be unsure (anxious) about everything and everyone. the difference stems from us girls having sharing relationship connections as a primary need ready to go all the time (nurture) and guys see it as a responsibility primarily, and “nurture times” as a welcome treat in between battles/challenges. makeup hacks that will help you get out the door a lot quicker. havent had sex yet but sometime he ask for it but i tpld him i cant have sex before marriage,i love him and i dont wanna lose him what can i do. after ten months i decided that he was stalling for a bigger reason than he was letting on to ( i’m just not ready)… so i left. tell me could h b trickin my emotions m really confused but i kind of liking this one i was also confused in june n july asking myself too many questions coz the guy wouldn’t even let me visit his house but now h says i can come as i please. in that time we shared so much about our lives & both felt a connection that was intense, easy as if we belonged together. i should still continue with him cause he has done most of these things despite he has directly said he doesn’t want a relationship right now? we take trips together outings with his kids and mine like a family. i need advice on how to act with a new guy. i know that sounds cruel, but you have to do it to save your self esteem. we do like each other and care for each other. few months later he got a great job, threw himself into it, worked hard and excelled at it, his confidence levels rose, the felt like a man again and it showed., your guy might also have some ptsd from his deployments which is making him feel unsure and mentally unstable. we see movies at my home he saw all my friends… well he did see my whole life and still is close. he playing games to keep me around for a visit full of fun and sex? to let him go and just see where i stand. short, while all of these points are great points and make a lot of sense in general terms, number 5 especially can become a lot more complicated if one or both people in a relationship are trans with conservative families and there are any further strains and complications on the situation. think that if a man wants to be with you he will! i went back to work and home the following day, totally devastated that i had let myself be used, made a fool of and disregarded for so long. i decided to give him a chance since he insisted that he was different. courtesy: fanpopsubscribe to elite daily's official newsletter, the edge, for more stories you don't want to miss. like he was looking for a lot of one night stands before he left. your boyfriend or girlfriend to family and friends, inviting him or her to the family barbeque or work event and sharing your interests and hobbies, takes the relationship into full gear. have known this guy for about 10 months now and had been in love with him ever since i met him for the first time.

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How to tell if the guy you're dating is serious

How are you supposed to know if the two of you are on the same page? but no matter he always comes back to me more than once saying he regrets ruining our relationship nd that he takes full responsibility and that he had it made with me how i was so cute nd how our sex life was amazing. if he’s lost interest in sex and that was the essence of the relationship, it’s time for you to move on. which is fine, but why tell me all of the other crap when i have blatantly told him i’m fine with being a booty call but don’t lie to me about where you stand. i think this article especially could be made much more inclusive to people with less privileged backgrounds. but since i told him that, he’s not distant but he’s keeping distance with the relationship. have no problem mentioning each other in tweets, posting photos together in instagram pictures or including each other in facebook status updates. roommate has caused arguements between us causing jealousy issues with me and joe. i had girls telling me how deeply in love they are, and soon gave a lot of time and effort but in the end-the guy never was “into her”. good sign on how to know if a guy is serious about you is when he publicly displays his affection. is love and commitment and i see it in his eyes and smile and gentleness every day now. should i date other guys and wait till he comes back and see what his decision is? he told me that he is crush on me since high school. he don’t want to have serious relationship with me. view this video please enable javascript, and consider upgrading to a web browser that supports html5 video. i broke up with him because i didn’t want to deal with this, the guy is over 30 years and still afraid of commitment? so basically all his hobbies he was leaving me out of it. when i told him a week ago i wanted to see him more he responded “i hear you” and “why can’t let things simple as they are now”. however, if he’s serious about you, he will take this meeting a little more seriously than he has in the past. how can a guy give so much but not give anything? ex lives across street, he uses that as excuse alot yet he goes & asks for favors etc yet wants me to limit my talks … its frustrating 6 yrs is along time & he had me end many friendships he didn’t agree with yet his friends can do no wrong. 🙂 he started doing his hair how i’ve always wanted him to do it… everything i’ve every wanted in him… he has started to do- life ambitions, weights at the gym. no relationship is without its ups and downs or worries, but for the most part, when your partner says he or she loves you and you're the only one, you shouldn't hear a voice in the back of your mind asking, “really? young naïve, eager to please and desperate for “love” little girl has evolved into a wiser, stronger and more aware woman in her 30th that doesn’t regret anything that has happened in her life so far. he also does not like to talk about the future or any plans as he is very career driven and will ‘see where things go’. maybe what’s missing these days is the unspoken but more realistic layer of community of extended family that a woman used to have more for day-to-day connection with than her man. you shouldn’t be holding back because of your past. move on and start dating others immediately, no matter how bad it hurts. this caused me to tell him i wanna move but he resisted and said he loved me and want me to stay this caused me to be with him. ignored it and then we were at a friend of his and she shows up.! but now months after that he says he was never ready for a serious relationship and that he can’t commit and i asked him what this relationship was after he told me he wanted me to have his baby’s, marriage all that shit now he’s saying that we are just chillin now … wtf does that mean! likewise, you shouldn’t find yourself deleting texts, telling lies or leading a double life with your partner. it doesn’t sound as if he’s ready to deal with children. by keeping you away from his family, he’s essentially saying he doesn’t see you being in his world for the long run. he told me that he also hates labels because his worst relationships were the ones with labels and everyone gets more focused on the label than the relationship. i will be sure to bookmark your blog and will eventually come. anyway we are giving things another go, he texts me every day, sometimes we speak on the phone and we catch up every couple of weeks and end up sleeping together, i have told him i want a proper relationship and not to be a friend with benefits. 3 yrs his been asking me out told of no sex till marriage he was fine its 3mnths dating now his trying his best to control and respect my decision but latly his complainin about not copping his a man and don’t want to cheat coz he don’t want to loose me. he kept looking for me but i was just so disguised with him at that point that it would have lead to blood being shed. he also doesnt involve me in conversation over taking any hols from work or if hes been intouch with anyone im constantly asking or guessing he always assumes about issues like well were you going and assumes ive made plans before finding out by asking me and at tea times he never asks children if they want tea and makes his own anyway leaving it up too me i need advice on what hes actually doing this for pls help with any advice thank you. one question you will never hear a guy ask when he starts dating a girl is: “will she commit to me? of course, holding hands or kissing in public never hurts. point of sharing this story is that we all have our own insecurities, baggage and fears that will pop up once in a while – we are human after all – the important thing is to really be honest with yourself about what they stem from or whom and acknowledge that you are not perfect and use your insecurities to find what it is you really want in life. i want us committed nit just hooking up cause that didn’t help keep around the other times we reconnected. and i’m not sending him annoying texts either, most of the time they’re complimenting him or sharing some random but funny event that took place. this time i broke with him seriously as i think he is not the guy to commit or marry me anyways i dont knw it is the right decision i made or not please guide me. he calls me almost every day but he won’t on his off days which could be grouped together. a guys point of view, sometimes us males like to get all our ducks(job, career, life direction, etc) in a row before taking on additional responsiblities (wife, kids, etc). he is, however a very independent man and will not be told what he can and can’t do so he will go away for weekends with his friends or visit family on his own. guess it could be me being gone so long but… like you say, i don’t want to make excuses either. if a man is really comfortable with you and cares about you, he’ll want to do more casual things during the day like lunch and movies. naturally communication came to stand still, intimacy is none existent and the resentment started building up again. cuddling with a sweaty ball of oozing mucus isn't fun for anyone. i told him that in my experience, not having a label makes it easier for the guy to just leave me. if a guy is happy to just touch without always trying to turn it into something more, that means it’s not the only thing on his mind and it’s a sign on how to know if a guy is serious about you. i get a little too mushy and make him feel like he don’t have to try anymore cuz i’ll be here whenever he wants me. he keeps putting off meeting my mother and i have yet to meet any of his family. he has met my son but i have never really forced the issues with my son since in the past i was engaged and he died which was hard on my son. h e first week we reconnected this time he was very sweet saying you call anytime that he’s here for me nd being flirty nd saying all those mushy things he’s said before and some. i told him i was happy with the way things were, tht i was just saying something that i feel because i like spending time with him. if you are not ready or are willing to commit to someone and you want to date a person that doesn’t sleep around you this will always fail. i was somewhat nervous as to how he would react towards my son but to my surprise he was respectful and pleasant to him. i don’t understand, either let me be your booty call or at least respond to a text within 24 hours. we were talking about being a role model to his youngin’s. it was confusing and caused a lot of stress and worries about where the things were going between us. according to him most women would not want such a relationship. i haven’t express my love for him yet, and i don’t want to do it. overall things were going great he took me to meet his family for christmas and the after that he asked me to be his girlfriend after we were dating for a few months. i knew he was seeing and sleeping with another woman, it was pretty obvious when everyone we associated with when we went out would mistake me for her… nice right? he’s just immature and nowhere near ready to be with just one woman. in the beginning he told me that he did not really want a relationship since his job has him traveling and i would get friday, saturday and some sunday since he is usually in bed sunday by 4:00pm or earlier. often, men love to be in relationships and are quite content to be a loving, kind companion to their partner. in the fourth yr he agreed it was time for us to move in together ( my daughter too as i have her mon-fri ). a guy: is there any chance this guy will finally commit? it can seem like there are a lot of rules involved.

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a guy doesn’t share his true self with you, if he won’t let you see who he is at his core, the chances are high that he’s not in  in it to win it and doesn’t see a future. i already met his family for several times and met my family too for so many times. he goes out of his way to make sure i’m safe and comfortable. as of now he says it’s too early to know if you want something long-term. he told me lessons about life and was very curious about me. i’m single, he’s single, so we went into our normal “activities” but this time he started the whole “i want you to be my woman” spiel and even more horrifying “i want to get you pregnant. one when he was drunk last month he told me that he likes nee allot but wants to do this dissent. he said he just does not know if he can deal with a relationship, “the fights, drama, etc. what bothers me is he doesn’t ask me to go…i don’t understand when i always want him with me. of course, i didn’t respond on this each time he did it. he is leaving for the 2 time to visit his daughter in los angeles and i was not invited. most recently, we had an argument and i was just happy to go on my own way and not talk to him ever again and bam less than a month later, there he is texting me that he’s at my apartment complex and to come let him inside. and again when i actually needed him, he wasn’t there, lying about where he is, staying out till all hours of the evening, arguing with me over petty things and demeaning me again like the in the past. you’ve already got two children to raise you don’t need another one. guess wat now the guy calls anytime even on weekends h calls me h even text i took the back seat n gave him the steering in this relationship i told him that its up to him to make it work bcoz i tried so many times to make us work n h is the one who failed. are here: home / dating tips / how to know if a guy is serious about you? questions and uncertainties regarding commitment seem to be reserved for the ladies.’ve been neighbors/friends for 6 yrs before we both divorced our partners. he does tell me he loves me, he is drawn to me, enjoys being with me, respectable, compliments me, we talk, laugh, and enjoy each other. but then i find out during that death he’s been flirting with other chicks on facebook telling them if he was single he would do this and that with them and that they are so special to him and how beautiful and what a goddess they are i blew up and got furious he said that it was cuz i didn’t give him attention wtf! if a guy knows for certain that you’ll always be there waiting in the wings, no matter how badly he behaves, he won’t respect you and he definitely won’t want to commit to you–why should he when he knows he doesn’t have to? the only problem is that he said he doesn’t consider us “in a relationship” right now but he says we’re getting there.. but right now i’ve put a hold on any kissing… and i’m going out with other guys. even when we don’t see each other for a few days (we both have complicated schedules ) we always text to another other, most of the time only to show we’re thinking about each other. he doesn’t talk about his family, or changes the subject anytime you bring it up, it’s a sign that he has no intention of making the introduction.! i told him i just want real & honest answers so i can move on weather its with him or not but he sends the conversation in circles & drives me nuts!, i’m saying that these can be true of females that don’t want a ltr with a guy as well as vice-versa. this period is as exciting as it is emotionally tumultuous. i’ve tried talking to him about spending more time together when working hours allow, but he promises he will see me more, but constantly lets me down. but he says im one in his life and very dear to him whenever i get fedup and find way for breaking up he takes it so easy and just says i want u to stay. he has not introduced me to his family except his 10 year_old son. a week after he asked me to his girlfriend i noticed the we started communicating less and he was not making plans to do things with me. incorporating your relationship into all of these facets makes it full-bodied, rather than stuck at point a or b. so when i feel lonely for him i don’t expect him to answer every call, but instead work on something we can share later, when he can afford to relax and connect …. if he's not having something come up every time you want him to meet you at a group event, it means he's not looking to run away at the first sign of things getting serious. so, at first we quit talking for a couple of weeks, then months, but no matter what, i would move, change my number (not to avoid him i just did it for other reasons) but no matter what he always always seems to find me somehow and weezle back into my peaceful life. don’t want to be bitchy or ignore him but i’m really devastated to hear he is already shoring this thing up in his mind as a no. is an attorney from new york with a soft spot for yoga, game of thrones and an occasional bottomless brunch. two weeks of living on coffee, no food and zero sleep can help boost a girls confidence especially when you lose 20kgs. mean he said why didn’t u invite me to your sister grudution. he’s already told you he feels like you are just friends. sounds as if he thinks he can just come and go as he pleases, and you are confusing sex with love. tip on how to know if a guy is serious about you is when he introduces you to his friends. if he really does love you, he will come after you, if not, good riddance to bad rubbish. i haven’t met many of his friends because he tells me we have time for this. he takes you to his favorite bar or "the best" (in his mind) place to get pizza. i asked what the status of our relationship was and he said he wants to continue dating me. to me that is wrong to create false hope to someone because if you know someone is special to you, committing to them should not be a hassle. and he finally lets me know that he has felt confused for the last few months and he has been trying to figure it out. he’s very nice and tender to me, he listens to my feelings even if he doesn’t know what to respond, but he’s a guy 😉 he also already talk (a few times, in various context) about the love he has for me without saying straight “i love you”. it’s over, no surprise there, so glad i only had to waste a short time. granted, not everyone is in their right mind, but if you get a torrent of new facebook friends, it's because they can tell he's serious about you..Subscribe and get free fresh tips right into your mailbox. i would also recommend that he start taking a good liquid magnesium chloride daily like trace minerals research ionic liquid magnesium chloride “mega mag”. but there would be times he’d argue & no communication for month until he’d see me somewhere or just text out of blue asking to talk & again we’d be ok as nothing happened until another 4-6 months & he’d do it again. i really love him and am 26 years old now i really want to have kids and move forward not just date. are some blatant signs that a relationship is getting serious: you might have a discussion about making the relationship exclusive, discuss moving in with each other and of course, there's no greater sign than when a ring makes an appearance. the following evening i tried to express how i was feeling about everything and him too, however he wasn’t listening cause he was on his phone texting and totally not validating my feelings. am dating a guy whom i was dating 2 yes back n h was wonderful he’d go all out for me n he was married by then. he has gone mia for almost a day and recently almost two days.. so does that mean i’m overreacting or he never really wanted to be with me anyways… i feel like i am wasting time ever since this started anyways…. are on speaking terms and he sometimes comes over watches tv with me and we end up having sex. those 2 times i texted first are the only 2 times we’ve talked in a week. we kept in contact every once in awhile and eventually picked up where we left off. lot of women make the mistake of thinking that meeting a guy’s friends is a big deal..  being with him or her is like coming home as maya angelou wisely stated, “i’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel. the other things in your article above don’t apply. most people would say that’s emotional blackmail but it’s not to me, if you make a promise to me you better keep it or not make it at all, that’s the kind of character i have always had. he cant take his eyes off of me and any excuse he can get to touch me he takes.. i told him i need some time to think about all this nw i feel like breaking off this relationship but idk what to do? men give you excuses, it’s time to move on. a guy: is his reason for not wanting to commit real or just an excuse? do you think it is still a sign that he will never commit? that and the ones i do i just am not interested in. half the time i forget i even went a text and then he responds suddenly and i’m reminded that he exists.

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have been dating a guy for a year and a month now. this step usually comes before the family meeting and is a good sign he’s serious about you, especially, if they seem to know some things about you already. he said, he really wanted to wait till he sees me (i’m supposed to stay with him and his family the month of december, stay with him and be his date at the family xmas party.!, these are so demeaning for a woman, it eats away at your self esteem, this guy was in his late 50’s! he did tell me, he wants to take things slow and doesn’t want a relationship right now, that i’m the only woman he’s with, but likes the simplicity of what we have (which is pretty much a relationship, just with no labels). in a serious relationship, you should be up to date on what the other one is doing. the problem is, he doesn’t want to give our relationship a name, those were his words. guy wouldn’t even text me back on watsapp h would call me seldom of which i stopped calling him coz h was ignoring my call. simple…he is not willing to spend a single penny for you…i did date a man who brought me to a nice cafe, ordered drink for himself and did not order anything for me.’ve been with this guy 8 months we fell in love and he said it first he asked me to be his gf but throught out the relationship we had a lot of things happen that made us more close including a death im my family that tore me to pieces.. he always says no i don’t we had sex also im kind of his half wife and he just says no for those kind of stuffs . as cruel as it seems, and it is, that is how he feels. i’m sorry about his x girlfriend and hope god heals her body but you need to take care of yourself too, don’t let this playa have you stressing, move on girl!. he is 48 never been married, never had kids & never had a live in girlfriend until i came along. i told him that by now i had expected to move onto the next phase of our relationship which was living together and that continuing to be with him i was not seeing or expecting this to happen especially when i want to get married and have a family. we haven’t seen each other much lately (due mostly to his schedule) but he doesn’t try to know when i’m available and i’m the one asking him (in a simple way of course) when he’s available for a date. must-see related posts:Ask a guy: if he won’t commit now, will he ever? what can we do to spare ourselves the time, energy, and heartbreak that goes into determining how a man feels? a few months later i moved in with him and started a new job, well it wasn’t all peaches and cream. all things have to be his way or else he withdraws which is very passive aggressive abuse, and even more bothersome in a way, than aggressive aggressive abuse because it doesn’t seem like abuse, whereas yelling or a hit or slap or punch are definitely abuse(so people get away fast), but this withdrawing when he doesn’t get things his way is still abusive, albeit passively (but you don’t feel it so intensely as being hit, so you don’t know you’re being abused and stay around for more of the same). those who aren't social-media-friendly, there are other ways of letting the world know you're together, such as introducing each other as “girlfriend or boyfriend” and allowing your relationship to be in the limelight. then about 2 years on, there was a bit of a medical scare, this totally changed the dynamic between us..after a week he has stopped texting everyday before he would text just to day ho before falling asleep if we hadn’t spoken all day. he never takes me anywhere or invites me to go woth him. he tells you he doesn’t wan to be in a relationship, or he has “commitment issues” or hates labels, just take it at face value and do yourself a favor and move on.? i keep asking what are we and he says we are just chillin and he says that he can’t give me the love and time i want i only want to see him once a week he says thats too much that im bring controlling how! relationships go through a “gray” trial period where both partners are unsure if they're on the same page with feelings and the status of the relationship. i have the same advice for you as for zanya and girl:Get out!. i have some confusions about my guy friend we are really good friends from last 1year and on the other side we are friends with benefits also . so maybe that is what i would tell you to do. and after i had to get full physical custody of my daughter ( her father got remarried & didn’t want her anymore ) he told me he didn’t want a full time kid in his house. if we would go a week without seeing each other it was fine for him. i have broke up with him several times but he’s not taking it seriously and keeps on texting me after a few days. we have grown together these past 2 years, in a way i think we saved each other from ourselves, he showed me how to be less emotional more rational and i have taught him to feel his emotions not think his way through them. maybe it’s no coincidence that the only couple in my family who’ve been married for 40 years and happy are in italy, with the women making pasta while the men do “whatever those smelly guys do”, to quote my aunt. should i talk to him about how i feel our should i just let it be what it is? we decided to take a few days without talking, don’t really think this is gonna help much as i am going crazy. i disappear for days or weeks (or longer) and act like no big deal. this guy will never grow up & be a man, he is going to always be a parasite, a thorn in someones side & will always be full of nothing but excuses & looking for someone to blame for everything that’s wrong in his life, he’s in search of a mommy never a girlfriend or a wife. hate to sound mean, but you made a huge mistake in accepting the “friends with benefits” situation. i do know he is not seeing anyone else since we do spend most weekends together unless i’m on call and even than we fit time together. i confronted him and he said that he was not ready for a relationship. he loves me but he feels like we are just friends. my bf doesn’t even believe in the same things his parents do, so there will be no ecclesiastical support for him, and his father is presently battling with cancer…. how are you supposed to know if the two of you are on the same page? should point out that there are guys who introduce almost every girl they date to their family and don’t really see it as a big deal…and maybe their family is used to this revolving door of girlfriends. i said well, i’m in a place in my life where i can and am getting a place out there and becoming bi-coastal, looking to open a new business etc. it hurts and i was left feeling really confused by his actions, but i’d rather hurt now then invest more time just be crushed later. your life and quality of life is at stake here. anyway what i need to k ow is he doesn’t invite me when he visits his daughter who lives away from him. he got a job in another state after a year and i moved here with hi. i didn’t want to get hurt and decided to end things since he wasn’t ready. if he need more time to decide about being in a committed relationship he can do that without you. he tells me i’m welcome at his house anytime and he enjoys having me there. he is just very independent and has had bad experience with his first wife who cheated on him as he was always on the road, and his second wife he states he married her since she pressured him or as he stated she nagged him. used to say the same things as these girls here, “you can do better! he also told me he wasn’t ready for a serious relationship. and no guy cares about getting in your good graces unless he actually cares about your good graces in the first place. he would tell me he didnt feel he should have to pay half the electric because they were my kods.!And the two of you should be spending quality time with each others kids. man gets paid to wait in line and probably earns way more than you. magnesium chloride helps calm the system and will help if there is any ptsd. he said that i was the perfect of his ideal woman and that in the future it would me. you’re a great girl who maybe sold herself a little short and is in a situation where the guy calls all the shots and is just taking you along for the ride as you sit patiently in the back seat, waiting for him to decide you’re “good enough. i am 38yr married & divorced once with two kids, 20yr old son who lives at college & 14yr daughter who lives with us in his house. someone in the virgin islands on a 3 month trip, we were inseparable. it’s difficult at first, but it gets easier with time. have been dating my boyfriend for almost nine months, he is constantly on his phone or is on facebook, when i go to talk to him about being on his phone to much he gets upset with me, i don’t work but he dose and i can understand how stressful that can be, i told him that i want to know how he truly feels about me and our relationship and he tells me that you know that i love you, i told him i know that he loves me but that don’t tell me how you feel about me or our relationship, he says i’m sorry baby i’ll try harder and we will talk when i get out of work, well things didn’t go that way because, i told him about how is on his phone and how that made me feel. i asked him that if he doesn’t believe in labels, how will i know if/when we are in a relationship?. he took me to meet his family for the holidays (he surprised me on that one). i do not want to be a backup plan for anybody, to me i rather be single and not be involved with anybody and is pretty selfish for someone to do this to somebody. if he tells you about events and things he wants to do in the future, it means he’s hoping you’ll stick around. don’t waste anymore time wishing for things that will not happen. thats not to say he is not allowed to change his mind later because people are allowed to change their minds but they are only accountsble when they make up their minds. he told me there would be no more running from him, he loves me & all that crap is over with…plan was i’d buy home & he’d sell his to start our lives together well i bought my home 2 1/2 yrs ago he loves the house, but seems we’re 2 people living in separate homes as the signals are confusing to point i’m starting to feel he doesn’t know what he wants.

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are very sexually compatible and flirty still over the phone. the two of you might not yet be at the point where you naturally spend every weekend together, but he checks in with you before making plans to go on trips or away for a day to visit his family. when we first met we were friends with benefits and he was seeing other girls. is a certain point, however, where you can let your guard down and know that the relationship is real and there's no sign it's going to end. we would fight about it because imoved here to be with him no family or friends just my two kids. as a friend to him, see if he is willing to see a mental health professional as he might be suffering ptsd and might need to have therapy or meds. i do love this man with all my heart & he knows it. you will find someone who wwants a future with you.“i don’t love you,” “i’m not attracted to you ‘that way,” “i don’t want a relationship right now”, but at the same time (a) spends all his time with you, (b) shatters inside if you date other men or one even looks at you, (c) tries to alter himself to be identical with what you’ve said your ideal man is, (d) always comes back once you dump him… the number appears to be growing! to get my ex back even if he is in a 2 years of relationship with a girl. openly gay trump supporter is the most controversial white house reporter. its been a nightmare to say the least he would do the strangest things like leave work and go to parks and chill for hours at the end of the path. maybe he was a visitor that was just passin’ through..  giving a damnyou know it's going somewhere when your boyfriend or girlfriend takes the time and effort to go that extra mile to make you happy. sleep better at night knowing he or she is there. and the fact that your not also says a lot. your life and quality of life is at stake here.. when ever i say i wanna go don’t want this friendship/relationship anymore he never let me go too,he gets jealous when i talk about phiscally for other guy or i give more antenion to other hot guy . ty you put liz’s beau in a catch 22, he’s trying to take the time to get his life together(job, car, career, etc) before asking her for a committment — but to you he’s worthless because he doesn’t have a job and car (why shouldn’t me feel insecure when today’s female puts so much weight in material things). move on and start dating others immediately, no matter how bad it hurts. if you had the chance to do better would you??then i fell in love with him he distance himself from me he said i lied to much and how iam becoming clingy i apologise so many time he said his not instrested i tex like 20 time to say sorry one day he called on private number and said what do u want i said just to be friends and be forgiven then he said iam coming over we still talking he drives 1 hour to my place to see me but we have sex laugh for a bit but it feels like he doesn’t like me like before it feels like just friends for bennifet he doesn’t call like before he calls just once a week to say u ok how are u where are u i will say just came back from my mum he will say hows your mum and your sister and why i didn’t invite her to my sister grudution party i don’t know if he means it now if i tex he says i tex to much confuse. know you think you’re the exception and your situation is different. simply asking how your partner’s day went (even if you start going into autopilot at the hour-long mark) becomes a way to support each other and show that you care. he says he cares for me a lot and may perceive it as love one day; that he sees it as a strong possibility but cannot say either way. you could give the guy the benefit of the doubt by cnenidsriog that maybe he wasn’t a local and had no clue, just some dumb luck. but then he pulled the “i don’t want a relationship, but i care about you and want to continue being with you” spiel. if he decides that he wants me back, now he knows what i want, my values and my standards. the guts in such an act are fuelled by the fact that the friend knows there’s certainly no future for you and your man. he has already shown all the opposites of the steps above…he opens up and confides in me, he has introduced me to his family, he doesn’t go more than 1 or 2 days without texting me, and he takes me on dates that are going out (the aquarium, walking in the park, baseball games, going out to eat, etc). maybe he just wants to show you off because you’re hot, or maybe he just doesn’t think much of introducing girls to his friends. now, i understand he’s jobless but when it comes to his car, he’s all out buying all these expensive stuff. after ten months i decided that he was stalling for a bigger reason than he was letting on to ( i’m just not ready)… so i left. need someone who is stable and consistent, and that isn’t him. instead of communicating every day we were communicating once in several days. was always at my place i provided dinner his favorite foods . on because if he hasn’t make a decision in 3 years…he won’t make it believe me. you’re really unsure as to whether a guy is serious about you or not, take a look at the things you know about him and consider if you know who he really is. a guy cares about a girl and sees a future with her, he wants to bring her into his world as much as possible. just as what beyonce said: ” if you like it then you should have put a ring on it. he truly threw me off and pretty much deceived me. its only been a year since i moved in with him selling my home & furniture most of my things ect…now i’m stuck for a bit until i can save enough to make a new start with my daughter on our own if i have to…. he lets her into his world and shows some level of vulnerability. its frustrating for me especially i cant move on easily coz my mom likes him too and always ask to meet (they asume im with them too) and chat with him too which i think is awkward. you might know details about their life, but you don’t know who they are, their real and true self that exists beneath all the superficial fluff.. we break up because of his commitment issues, and always eventually get back together. your dates consist of you going over to his place and watching a movie or you cooking for him, then he isn’t taking you or the relationship very seriously. i really love him but knowing that he didn’t contact you after makes me so scared to let him go even though i want to for the better, but he was so great like why would you let go.) i always say don’t sleep with a man any sooner than six months; they can’t pretend to be someone else any longer than that. strong relationship is open and honest, during both the ups and downs. i would dump both and just be single until i find a guy who isn’t a felon or has anger issues or can’t treat women and children right or isn’t a drug addict. out of there, get away from him, and get on with your life. its also good to eat lots of romaine lettuce and odwall oj as both are high in folate which will also help with anxiety and ptsd. when i asked what changed, he said, you have a whole life in la and it made me see this might not be possible. remembering that you're not only in a relationship, but also an individual with your own interests, actually strengthens your relationship and increases all that you can bring to it.. we are both faithful to each other and although its lonely sometimes, i understand that’s part of his work-he is a workaholic, i have brought up the “issue” which has bothered me for the past 4 months and everytime i bring it up–he changes the subject or tells me don’t be so “shiczy” i do want to marry you–just give a guy some time, that’s all…lately, i have noticed that he’s been pulling away, but he took me to see his dad for his birthday last month and his mom on mothers day(5th time i have seen her)–and he has introduced me to his friends who all seem to like me, however he doesn’t hang with them since we became exclusive-he works and he said all he needed was me and past that part of his life(which he does have a friend he hangs with everyday)–a work/family male friend. he said through the song that he wanted me by his side always so he would never have to feel alone again. they ended the relationship since her teenage daughter made it a point to do everything possible to break them up and was always in trouble with the police and destroyed things in his house. that "hey, how was your day" text means not only was he thinking of you, but he's wondering what you were doing that was so much better than messaging him. he says he doesnt want a relationship but i have met all his friends and family. i had prepared myself for this possible answer so it wasn’t so much of a blow. have fun loving relationship fishing, singing, kidding around, very loving to something said taken the wrong way to an explosion argument but this time i left (his home) this has happened 2x this last event has left me feeling what am i doing? this point, i would just see him as a friend and move on to date other guys. if you have to do that, it isn’t worth having. there are times he is so loving, caring, and when i arrive it shows that he’s happy to see me and spend time with me. if he were planning on making a clean break after some casual dating, he wouldn't bother trying to make a good impression on your friends. don’t know but i really like this guy alot we met on facebook i never use to reply to him he came across as a nice guy lovely we went on a date and the second date he expected me to be there on time i wasn’t he went crazy shouting saying nobody cares about him driving like a crazy man i said i care he calm down in 1 hour dropt me home we kissed for 1 hour in the car he called me every day little bit is my fault he asked me what i do in life i lied alot only because i was embarrassed i didn’t have a job he did he kept asking me to tell the truth he will come to my place i go to his but he always expect me to be there exactly on time? i am a girl not into dating a lot of men, i had been on very few dates and had a bad experience into relationship wit a guy in the past. do whatever you can to break that awful heroin type of relationship addiction! can talk to someone for hours and hours every day and not know anything real about them. is just a little more personal than sending a text.. he makes a point to check in with you before making plans. which i hold him to till this day every time he treats me like before. met a guy in one of the social media and in very beginning days he asked me to be his girlfriend and several times complained that i was not sexy or hot like i seem his girlfriend i told him i m the way im.. this time i feel am i wasting my time sure he likes dinner on table clothes & house cleaned.


the guy i’m seeing has some but not all of these. if they include you don’t worry about the title. by investing in you, he is committing himself to you. he puts in the bare minimum when it comes to dates it means he doesn’t feel like you’re worth the effort. a few days later he emails me and tells me to never contact his daughters again and thst he wants nothing more to do with me and it was over. but they would get the short end of the stick because we are always together. if you want someone to tell you they want to spend the rest of their life with you then end this relationship because that other guy is out there. a guy opens up to you, when he shares his dreams, his fears, his hopes, his wishes, his motivations, etc. i’ve never felt so loved or in love before & he confessed the same. just move on your still young and have plenty time to date or even marry again. he never bothered asking when we were seeing each other. up dinner or buying two movie tickets shows that you're willing to make sure you both are provided for. when he says, "hey, i have a wedding in november" as a way of inviting you instead of actually asking, it means he's taking things pretty seriously. it was sad to get this answer from him, that he was not ready, but it is much better to get it now and save yourself from heartbreakage and time wasting. he gets little small jealousy bouts, if he sees guys checking me out. i am sure this is probably what truly happened to him and he is too dumb to realize that the reason why women leave is because of his commitment issues and not the bs excuse that he is being dumped for just being a really nice guy. at least that’s the way i see it when i have committed to the people that were special to me. nd i’m now in the hospital from a serious car accident where i need reconstructive surgeryon my arm so it’ll be a few mon the until i can go visit him. take your heart back and find someone who can treat it the good way in which it needs to be treated. over the months i feel enlove with a man that has anger problems and nasty person that dont take care of hiself. could he actually have feelings for me still and is just standoffish because of our history, or is he just feeding me some lines to try and keep me on stand by when he gets the urge.’ll make it simple because it’s been a year and 5-6 months this guy and i have been hanging out & started talking like a few months ago. up for ourfree newsletterand get a free chapterof our book,"he's notthat complicated". your partner is your world and your home, you know it’s serious. he said he doesn’t know but he does want to move ahead without expectations and that our situation, me being gone and talking every day required us to have a conversation about a relationship waze. the material on this site may not be reproduced, distributed, transmitted, cached or otherwise used, except as expressly permitted in writing by a new mode, inc. 3 years on and i start really evaluating everything and it hit me like a ton of bricks on new years eve 2013 – when once again he had disrespected, belittled and humiliated me in the club by practically throwing himself at a woman who was old enough to be his grandmother, what the hell am i doing here! and allot of the times we stopped talking or hanging out after we had reconnected was cause of his ex girlfriend the one he cheated on me with. by the way, both men were lebanese, charming, sexy and very intellegent. that said, i’ve been down the road with a wishy washy guy who thinks i’m “amazing” but is not ready. unfortunately, i drank too much that night(not a drinker) and ended up sleeping with him on the first night that for me is a big no-no…however, we seen each other on and off for 5 mths, but it seemed only for dinner dates that ended up with one-nighters( i was ok with it then as i was not ready for a relationship) then in the late fall of 2011, he searched for me and confessed to me that he really was into me and couldn’t stop thinking of me-he took me out on a new official date-as if we were starting new and sweep me off my feet with expensive dinners and shopping. relationships go through a “gray” trial period where both partners are unsure if they’re on the same page with feelings and the status of the relationship. in fact, i think the most common relationship in this day and age is the non-relationship, that is, when you’re dating a guy and you’re basically boyfriend/girlfriend aside from the fact that you’re not. mostly, the person who is now had fallen in love aka more than just a crush ends up being hurt. they will only take advantage of you by disrespecting your values. i’m willing to be patient, everyone has his own rythm, but i’m very scared things won’t go to the next level of commitment. i can hang out with him and his friends like i’m one of them. then you won’t feel bad for having slept with a jerk. i just had my son stop in on sunday they spoke and he was very nice to my son and after i left he text me saying my son is a nice young man and a gentle man.'ve reached solid ground, and while many things in the world remain gray and uncertain, you generally know where you and your partner stand. it’s been 2 1/2 years where we have gotten to know each other and evolved to where we are at now. a guy is serious about a woman, he shares himself with her. so idk if he’s serious about me or will ever commit? i came home to deal with some business and due to return in december. i totally understand because who doesn’t want to be stable in their finances and life? he is always telling me how much he loves me, he opens up to me and he does put the effort in when we go out on dates. we are both single parents, i am lucky i can get sitters for my kids when i need them, but he only sees his sons at the weekends, he hasn’t made any plans for us to have a proper date and seems to be quite happy just to generally hook up now and again…. time i complain he would tell me that h is stressed bcoz of the situation he is facing right now n i’d tell him that h was in the same situation when h wanted me back in his life n how did h think he’d cope in this relationship. i have met his family and his only son really likes me, however, he has not met my family. red flag is when his best friend or any close acquaintance of his starts showing interest in you. if he makes an effort to talk about these things with you anyway, ask questions or do them with you, it means he cares. if i wasn’t at work, i was with him. of all ages and across all cultures are united in their quest to determine the following: Does he like me?'s also important that each of you spend a sufficient amount of time apart, however. it’s now coming up to the festive period, no plans have been made to meet up or spend time together, he is a very generous man and he has already gave me my gift, justso confused as to how i can move things forward, or do i just withdraw and stop meeting him for quick hook ups and let him arrange proper dates? to me it’s obvious that he just wants sex, but at the same time, why track me down time after time again, ask me to be loyal even though there’s no commitment and get all territorial over me? they were split for a year when we started dating but my gut tells me that something wasn’t right.. he gets upset if he doesn't hear from you all day. he's saying, "i trust you not to lurk outside of this place with a knife, waiting for me to show up if i ever break up with you. i mentioned earlier, when a man is serious about a woman, he brings her into his world. have been seeing a guy for over a year now, things have been on and off and we have had various stressors throughout the year which have affected the relationship from moving forward. but after talking and reciprocating those missing u feelings nd flirting in return. needless to say by the time work was done i was so furious and ashamed of myself that i sent him a message saying that he won’t be seeing or hearing from me for a while, i need time and space to decide what i want from my life.’d tell me fix up his basement so i have room for my things, bring my things there sell my home, don’t go home etc. send me a hello while you’re pooping or something. good tip on how to know if a guy is serious about you is, if he is coming to you for support and listens when you tell him what you think. he provides for me, gives me shoulder to cry on when i need it, lets me have my pms mood swings without taking it personal, he values and appreciates me. i’m trying to get the enthusiasm we had back but he seems too settled to try and date me, but to resistant to properly commit or settle! have him his personal things back – keys and that – to the last of the cash, went to the bar spent it all on tequila and danced my ass off. he said it puts too much pressure on the relationship because all of a sudden, if you decide to have a guys night or aren’t able to make it to your girlfriend’s family dinner, you’re considered a jerk. i’ve been seeing this guy for almost a year. the guy is broken and not willing to “fix” himself.? thing is he has let me down a few times so i am. i haven’t said anything about it but hurt me very much, so now i made a dateline to break up the relationship in few months, i need a good advice please help.  i’ve experienced those gut-twisting feelings, the ones the leave you with a constant sense of impending doom in the pit of your stomach causing you to question everything, including yourself.

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addition to the time you and your partner spend privately together is the time you spend including your partner in your world. have met a lot of his friends,his parents and have spent time with him and his daughter which he has custody of., i spent eight (yes, eight) years waiting on a guy exactly the one you describe. have been spoilt with perfume, dresses, lots of ‘real’ dates & often tells me i’m gorgeous but …he still controls the relationship-no contact unless he initiates it ( keeps his phone switched off all the time unless he wants to contact). he would go to work and stay gone for hours going to places like best buy walmart home depot and then come home and act as if it was no big deal to not tell me anything., i wasn’t all that eager for him to meet my family, and he isn’t all that eager for me to meet his. amazing home remedies to make your eyelashes grow longer and thicker. a guy is invested in you and cares about you, he wants to go out of his way to impress you and show you he cares. if he calls you to have a good conversation, it means he thinks you are worth the extra effort and he thinks about you when you’re not there. this is the point where you can begin feeling far more relaxed and secure. i know most women don’t feel this way, but trust me, when a guy likes you, it’s obvious. we were both out of relationships but “never happier” with each other. for example: he has introduced me to his family, we are in an exclusive relationship, and i definitely know the real him as i am very interested and supportive with his goals etc so he shares them with me. you’ll realize he was telling you all along that he wanted out of the relationship. we were like two ships stuck in a storm being pushed together by the waves that was our childhoods. my problem is he says he can’t give me what i want. i hate to over simply it, and i’m certainly not speaking for every man, but believe you me, that “commitment” you are so desirous of is extremely one-sided and very dangerous for the average man to sign on to, to say nothing of the man with significant assetts. and i lived in boston for years… so we can verify that we observed a lot of this while we were there, but we have a worldwide audience, so it doesn’t necessarily mean it’s just boston. his daughter had a baby so i made her a blanket them i messaged her on facebook to see if she got it. of all ages and across all cultures are united in their quest to determine the following: does he like me? nor with me or any girl here in miami, right? this am we spoke and he pretty much said he does not see things going long term. he seems happy to seem me, but i feel hos efforts less and less and i really don’t know what to do about it. he said he didn’t want a relationship because he lives in canada, he said it on our first date and is true because he had to go back to canada a few days later. we have our arguments, sarcastic little jokes and silent treatment tiffs occasionally but we always apologize to each other and take responsibility for what we say. a relationship is starting to get serious when you and your partner proudly display each other as significant others in the public eye. that, today at the end of 2014, mckenzie, is my story! been seeing a guy for about 6 months and because of his work schedule we only see each other on friday nights then he goes back to his place on saturday morning because he works on saturday nights graveyard shift saturday through wednesdays. a guy: when a guy won’t commit on facebook. can totally relate with being with someone that wants to treat you as though you’re their girlfriend in a committed relationship yet they emotionally they have no need to connect with you or feel the need to include you in any of his own activities other than the usual sexual situations & doing things that involve very little emotion to do together it’s sucks but worst part is i continue to get wrapped up with wanting to believe it’s just bad timing for us &i that if we had be in better situations in our lives than he would want to commit to me …. i don’t think i’m obsessing over him so i don’t see any reason why he would be withdrawing, he clearly expects loyalty, so why not respond to a text. when we first met, he commented on how women do not give him a chance and how he is cursed with the bad luck of being a nice guy.. says i have some problems my circumstances are not good neither fanacially nor personally i will not be able to fulfill your needs ., on #3 there are articles on here that i read where it said that sometimes that is a valid reason which i do believe is possible in some cases of timing. can say that all of these 5 points are true about my situation.'re discovering the other person and maybe even falling in love, but also keeping your guard up. i’m afrais to scare him more, i’m afraid he will take this as my willing for a commitment he may not be ready to have. i am not about wasting time, using it to mend a broken heart is as good a use for it as any so long as i am not on a dead end road., i’m in your exact situation right now, i felt so broken after he said he didnt want a relationship. my insecurities reared their ugly little heads and i lost my job, pushed him away and basically had a little of a melt down. you’re in a relationship, talk of meeting the family should come up. can understand the “bummer” feeling though – i mean, if it’s a lesson learned, then you’re that much closer to getting a relationship you are happy with… one that works and gives you what you really want. might be never op if we don’t ever get out of the red ink. benefits of drinking pure water on an empty stomach in the morning. i opened up and told him that i liked him and wanted serious relationship. you don’t want any of those types as they can become very abusive and wrong relationships. if he's making you soup and hanging out with you on your couch while you start building a collection of used tissues around you, it's not because this is some casual fling. a guy truly cares about you, he will want to make room for you in his life. in the same time, he always says he wants the relationship to remain simple. i hope it works out better for you than it did for me. not knowing the rules of dating, commitment and the love games, out of innocence or foolishness call it whatever, i confessed to this guy, thinking that i will feel relieved after the confession. i know for a fact he has his phone glued to him because he needs it for work. right now i am close to giving up on him because this behavior implies that i am not a priority in his life. then you will be able to know what kind of a man deserves you. taylor swift sucks at relationships (and what you can learn from her). if he gets something new, like a bike or a garmin, or a drone… i’m the first person he shows. after a couple weeks of being here i found out he had a profile on a dating site. the problem is he tells me he needs time and one day we will be together then tells me hes got no emotions and doesnt care about anyone because he ex wife hurt him so im always getting mixed signals. elizabeth, your guy has a sort of passive form of borderline personality disorder.. he also doen’t want our relationship to be known n i’m so sick n tired of it. be forgiving of yourself and others, love and respect yourself first and foremost, never let anyone make you feel invisible, and to see both sides of a story. i don’t know if loosing his job is the root cause of this problem or what. like he’s mentioned or like i’ve read on here, i get he’s busy focusing on looking for a job and like i said before, he has straight up told me he doesn’t want a relationship right now. am i wasting my time here or is there some way of talking to him that will make him realise how important this issue is for me? i have asked him to his face… do you just not want to be with me? than in my mind i was like then why are you inviting me over to your house… knowing that i would see them. arise such as whether to use the “boyfriend” and “girlfriend” titles, who is going to take down his or her online dating profile first and when to start showing routine signs of coupledom, such as holding hands or using pet names in public. i want more than this arrangement and he’s said he can’t give me more. the first time we have met i was shy and more fat etc. if he is too nervous and not sane, he won’t be able to see that no matter how great you are. everything was good until a couple of weeks ago when he started to pull away…ended up with him telling me we are not on the right “schedule” for settling down /kids, as i am in my early 30s. can be beautiful, but hard work at the same time.: dating advice for womenfeaturedhow to know if a guy is serious about youhow to tell if a guy is serious about younew relationship advicerelationship advicerelationship advice columnsrelationship advice for women., you should feel confident that his or her phone and email is free of sketchy messages from unknown “friends,” and you have nothing to worry about when you leave him or her alone on a saturday night. roomate said joe had been hanging out with his x he broke up with a few months before we started dating.

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. he doesn't actively avoid meeting your friends (or even your family). 3 years is way too long without any type of commitment. a year & 1/2 later ( now 3yr 1/2 ) he changed his mind & didn’t even tell me. he has even said i wish you could just stay but i have my house and a 14 year old son and i’m not sure if he is afraid that things will not work out with my son. he’s an amazing guy though; we have a beautiful healthy thing. plus, if a man puts his arm around you, it’s actually a way to signal to other males around that you belong to him (in a nice way). always calls and checks in, i rarely if ever message him first. believe him and move on, start healing and find someone better suited to you. maybe after he gets some mental health treatment and supplements himself with magnesium and foods high in b complex and folate, after a while he might get calm and sane enough again to see what a great girlfriend you would be for him. i have a man in my life who truly loves, accepts, understands, cares and respects me in everyway.’m soooo confused i lav him but not sure if he won’t break my heart plz help.. i’m serious for him and about him im just 50% sure that he is also serious . do i leave it alone for now since i can’t even go visit for a while anyway or do i give it another week or 2 and text or call him if i haven’t heard anything? he’s just not ready for commitment at the moment as he is still on a mission to find a job in his career field of interest, and to finally settle down. sounds as if you’re feeling lonely and being with him was a break from that. but i’m doing my best to show him how much i care about him. i feel like he’s hidding everything about himself he’s life n our relationship. i feel & know he loves me but … i always feel things are on his terms. and the realization that i did actually want to be in a relationship, get married, have children, be respected, loved, valued and desired by a man who wanted the same things was confirmed for me the night before i went to see him again. the guy is broken and not willing to “fix” himself. this guy is not into you and he is using you.? i know you answer people sometimes and i want to get it right. he says he is serious about me and do not want to lose me, but i feel that i need to always make the initiative to keep our connection. i had done to family events, holidays & he won’t want to meet my parents or won’t accept to go to any of my family events.’m a christian don’t believe in sex before marriage and my guy is not but believe and pray as much as i do., he didn’t want to show it around his friends or other people since your together and they are very hard to read every time. take care of your child and spend all that lonely time with him because he needs it. to let go of past relationships and be happy again? there is basically no one you would rather spend your time with, and whenever the two of you are together, the situation is 100 times better. it’s his way of letting you know that you aren’t a deciding factor in where he goes and what he does. there are other days where he wants to get things done at his house or spend time with his son and will just do his thing. have the classic situation, been with my boyfriend for over a year, however he took a sabbatical from work for a few months at the end of last year so we have just reconnected.’ve been dating my boyfriend for six months and we started discussing yesterday if we foresee the possibility of a future together. that’s when people (guys and gals) like to be around each other for the long run. i wrote him off a year ago, telling him everything i felt and that i did not want to keep in touch anymore, secretly believing he would come chasing after me.’s always nice if a guy is really into you physically, but it doesn’t always mean he’s serious. i have plenty of friends who looked at meeting his friends as the holy grail… the tell tale sign that he’s all in, he’s committed. if you ever hear from him again, i guess that’s your answer. i come across this article 5 years ago i can almost guarantee i would not be in a relationship with my boyfriend let alone be living with him…. giving this topic a lot of thought and consulting with several guys, i’ve uncovered five tell-tale signs that he isn’t going to commit to you now or ever. later i saw some signs of him interested in me and yesterday over a casual phone conversation he planned to have a dinner date for both of us. he would send me flowers, buy me gifts, take me out on dates.) i said, are you saying you are not wanting a relationship or you don’t know? it has nothing to do with you, this man just has deep seated mental problems that he’s not aware of and/or not willing to work on, and by wasting your time with him, you are depriving yourself of the opportunity to meet someone who is mentally healthy and can really and truly step up to the plate and be in a real relationship. is an attorney from new york with a soft spot for yoga, game of thrones and an occasional bottomless brunch. but when i asked him if i could see his little sister. likewise, very often, men don’t wish to “commit” to their partner because the stark legal reality of this form of “committment” can be very destructive to a man’s finances. this goes beyond making out or the occasional butt pinch in public. tips: 8 important reasons why you shouldn’t try to be ‘normal’. no man would want to sit through a girly show unless he's either (1) trying to have sex with you or (2) trying to get brownie points. and then it took me a few years to recover and heal my broken heart. agreed to be friends with benefits, i ran after him like a desperate little school girl (even drove an hour almost every weekend from my hometown just to see him, he was unemployed, broke and in massive debit due to his ex), he made me feel good, happy, wanted, desired and he made me laugh till it hurt. and while he’s cis, the conversations that could result from the revelations of our relationship to his folks could be just as devastating as were he trans himself as well. ugly truth is this: when a guy says he doesn’t want a relationship, what he’s really saying is he doesn’t want a relationship with you. sometimes we need to stop and take a step back to really see the other person for who they are or could be if there is a mutual desire to change for ourselves. also he does not relish in taking me out for real dates (he made such an effort at the beginning of the relationship, days out, picnics etc); it is no longer like that as he is always busy with work and as i live at home still i always make the effort to go round to his (of which is always after he has his time to go to the gym) are my efforts wasted as i’m always thinking of fun days out and taking him out? things every man is looking for in a relation­ship. finally saw him for the emotionally damaged, insecure, low self esteemed and needy person he actually was, not the loud outgoing jokester that he pretended to be in public. if he doesn’t really seem to care, then even if he does introduce you to them it’s a sign he isn’t fully invested in having a future with you. he’s introduced me to his mom who is lovely. but since then he makes sure we spend everyday together. until our 5th yr his sister told him what he was doing wasnt healthy for him or i. their relationship revolves only around their child, there’s no spark left between them. however, he has told you straight out that there is no future with him. if he really does love you, he will come after you, if not, good riddance to bad rubbish. just keep working on yourself and when you’re not looking, the right one will come along. need to pull back and give him space to chase you again. being with your partner should be like coming home: it's safe, comfortable and relaxed.’s nothing wrong with going out at night time but if it’s the only time you go out, it could mean one of two things: you’re being formal because you don’t know each other very well yet or he wants to go back to your place afterwards. sounds odd but these guys know their friend probably more than you do and they have certainly shared a great deal of information. have a life outside of dating and by all means;make yourself date other people! i wish i could figure out if i would be better off just moving on.… so i know it should be obvious… like you said… he said he had no interest and we had no future… but if actions speak louder than words when he says “i love you” but his actions say otherwise… shouldn’t it be true for the other way around? of course, not everyone is a fan of the pda even if the relationship is serious. despite really liking him and wanting to be with him, i had enough self-value to end things then and there.

u was an easy target and he preyed on you, now he found another women to do the same thing with. he was spending time with you because he claimed it was busy, bs! i don’t think that he is nearly as upset as you are. he’s met almost all of mine, he’s indicated that his at least suspect my existence, but he’s also indicated he hasn’t actually talked about me with them either. i’m not sure whether i’m wasting my time waiting for the time when i feel like my future with him is secure. when someone wants you in their life or they’re serious about you, there’s no second guessing. no one in their right might would send a friend request to someone they know isn't sticking around. have went camping which was a very relaxing romantic night for both of us. if a guy kind of assumes that you’ll go on another date or make plans for the weekends, it means he’s feeling pretty comfortable with you. we got in a big arguement once and joe kept on saying he isnt anyones boyfriend i believe to hurt my feelings.. trustone of the most important signs of a strong couple is trust. am i blowing an opportunity to be with someone wonderful if the possibility of love still exists or should i get out now if it’s not a sure thing? so help him out if you can by suggesting these things, but take care of yourself and detach and force yourself to start dating others. he said to me that this relationship will stay the way it’s and will never come out or be known by anyone. pulled the typical it’s not me it’s you deal and said that he wasn’t sure if he was ready to love anyone. so, my question is if he wants me to be “his woman” then why does he call or text out of the blue to hang. had i gone back to my old wild ways like that new year’s eve, i would not have had this amazing journey of self acceptance and nor the soul gratifying experience of actually finding and knowing myself finally. but if he holds your hand and kisses you in public, it’s a pretty good sign that he’s into you. anyway, he does seem distant lately and even mentioned that if it wasn’t for my teenage son, he would have moved me and my younger son in months ago, and married me.. when i ask him does he love me more than a friend .’m not talking polyamory, though we’re both open to it and have talked about that, and i know i’m bi, and he suspects he might be but has never actually explored it. he would go to storage and sit there for hours. wrote a comment and seeking advice i see where many have commented and do not see where any of you have provided feed back or advice. ending it is the only way i wouldn’t let him hurt me anymore. and i never met his mom… never said i wanted too because i know it’s early. we were always perfect he seemed to put so much effort into our relationship and once he got done with his service he moved about 30 minutes away from me and he has and had no job. that he let me go tells me that his feelings for me were tepid, at best. i am black and he is turkish muslim ( we live in my country and not his) he told me since he work here he will be with me but when his work is done ( which he doesn’t know when ) he will have to leave me behind since his family won’t accept our relationship, because am not muslim or a virgin.’ve been on and off again with this guy named scott. with her and she has had a lot of cancer issues i was told. not surprisingly he was liar and a sleaze, and even non-relationship material although i couldn’t see it. have being dating this guy since october last year, i have spoken with his mom twice on phone and even with his friends and colleagues in his office but since december he started acting funny.” he states he does not know what his feelings are for me. he is using you and its sad that he has his child involve. when a guy wants to be with you he won’t waste anytime.. but the prob is when he gets too drunk he says he loves me he sees his future with me as a wife and he wants to be a best son-inlaw etc. he does not really like going out since he is on the road most of the time and wants to spend time in his home or as i say his comfort zone. doesn’t mean he has to talk about his desire to get married and have children right away but, of course, once you’re serious, you will want to bring these things up. he is worried what they say to him and will hurt his feeling. is it the universe won’t send you another one better than him when you’ve become fed up and want to break things off with him? doesn't just mean buying you that necklace you've been purposefully ogling over online whenever he’s in the room (though it certainly doesn't exclude that! so, he’s moving back home to his parents place and said i can come over to see him sometimes and wants to do it right since he’s going to be him. you care about each other, small gestures happen frequently, to the point that you take care of each other as if you're taking care of yourselves. my guy works overseas for 6 weeks and comes back for 4. these aren’t things that require much of a financial investment but they speak volumes about his level of emotional investment. a man behaves like that, he defin­itely likes you.” there was a time in our relationship he put our relationship “on hold” because of getting his life together and told me he understood if i dated other men. so right now move on and date guys who can see what a great catch you are. i am not about wasting time, using it to mend a broken heart is as good a use for it as any so long as i am not on a dead end road. turn your back to both of them and move on with your life. this guy is still operating on an immature & childish mentality himself regardless of his age & is in no way ready to be in or have any kind of serious adult relationship or any kind or responsibility for that matter. curious- did you ever find out why he flipped out on you? partner who i live with doesnt have chit chat and tell me things like how his children are as they have rang him or text i have to constantly ask him if they are doing ok or have they been intouch. only frustration i have my current boyfriend is that he never took me out on a real date. however, if you have #3 along with other signs above then really it’s a no go. is the drunk mistake you'll end up making, based on your zodiac sign. if you’re not sure where you’re headed and not sure how to bring it up, read these 10 signs that will help you work out if it’s just casual for him or if he wants the real deal:1. i got into a romantic and sexual relationship my family relationships became even more strained. some days he says he is fully supportive of me & states he ” respects ” me for being a good mom & other days he’s telling me i have to move out or ” make ” her father take her on weekends when he is supposed to! ive meet his family friends and even go on days out with him and his son hes meet my friends family and sons he’s always there when i need him.” it took me a long time to realize this because of my feelings for him but all the points above are true. he treats me like a princess and reminds me always that i’m the only one on his mind and he has zero desire to see anyone. girl, i have exactly the same advice for you as for zanya etc. we do see each other every weekend and we are not spending 24 hours together as i sleep over go do my thing at home and return back and hang out. we talk about our futures, our dreams our hopes our fears. we feed each others need for validation if it wasn’t so funny it would have been tragic. he always seems to run back… he recently told me that he doesn’t see a future for us. so i know he sees my texts but he just doesn’t respond. this sounds like a bad thing, it’s not meant to. have been dating a guy for 14 months now and in many ways he’s fantastic. what about if he does do these things above and has told me he is not ready? if you follow sabrina’s advice, you will be able to get him to commit to you and only you…. the two of you even have a conversation about "where things are going. i have suspicions that he still has feelings for his ex. so take care of yourself and see that you stay right in the head, suggest counseling for him, and move on to others.

broke up with my boyfriend on text a few days ago, i dont know if that is really appropriate because we are on a long distance relationship. and just the other day ( which has been a few months since he was done with his service) i called him out on not trying anymore and i felt like i couldn’t go on with how things were going. hes a felon ans getting ssi no job whatsoever and a failer of treating women so i left him be hind to get with my clingy enlove ex boyfriend who is a drug addict. but even if a guy is jobless and broke and doesn’t have the money to take you out, he’ll find some sort of cheap and creative way to show you he cares.”this saying is even truer in a relationship where emotions and feelings are one of the main points of connection between you. i’ve told him that i dont need a person like that in my life ive been to hell with my abusive ex i don’t want my sons and family to get attached to him then for him to walk away. although it was hard to hear, i want to be with someone who can see a future with me, and even though i wasn’t sure he was the one, i still need the possibility of a future /kids…otherwise i’m just wasting my time and need to walk away. dont know if i should move ahead or move on. that he let me go tells me that his feelings for me were tepid, at best. so is this man a keeper or am i wasting my time? how this woman turned her passion for fashion into a career. i mean, there is a lot at stake when you put your heart on the line and you can end up wasting months, or years, of your life on a man who never intended to keep you around for the long haul. if we plan to go on a bike ride, but the weather is bad, he cooks me breakfast instead. have been with this guy for 5 years we see each other every day, he visits my work i visit his, i know his friends we spend weekends together with my and his son they called each other brothers, but in the bedroom doesn’t is very little activities like once a month and that’s because i asked for it, even though he is 15 older than me, i always tell him how much i love him and how much i wish we could get married and spend time together for ever, i give myself 110% he has never said that he loves me and he says he’s not ready for marriage but when i tell him that may we should be just friends he reply that he can’t let me go, but i seen text messages where he flirts with other girls. guy i was seeing not only introduced me to his family, but would talk about me to friends so much, that when i finally met them, they knew all about me and eager to meet me. he has clearly said he does not want responsibility of a relationship right now, and he doesnt want to feel the need to report to someone all the time. i’m still young, 29, and want a husband and family. the guy is broken and not willing to “fix” himself. find someone who accepts u for who u are and doesn’t mind if u are different religions. from the above then you’ll be able to know the signs and make the right choice of a life partner. never met any of his friends but did have the opportunity a couple of times before. if we go out, i pay my own way/half. if he's already had sex with you, then he's just trying to rack up the points. he did intoduce me to his family, he actually took me out of state to meet his parents. he wants to get married and have a family as well but this wasn’t the time yet because he states that he is trying to get stable. he excludes me from family functions because his sister doesn’t like me. he brings this up many times and i’m not sure what is real. he has introduced me to his family, i have hung out with his sister and cousin and him, the rest of them know i exist and he said i’ll probably meet his whole family. i thought this guy was the guy i was going to have a future with. he’s told me he’s not ready for a relationship but hearing his past, it’s understandable. we all have our lessons to learn, this is one of yours unfortunately. you don’t see each other, do you know where he is? how do i stop & get back the sense of security as i’m guessing that’s the whole issue not feeling secure.. what should i do, this is really worrying me and i cry almost everyday i love him he says he loves me too… i need some advice asap thanks.? i don’t think he really cares about you because no guy in their right mind will tell you something like that if he cares about you. and not only that buy he makes me “swear on his life” that i haven’t been with other guys between our encounters. plus i love him nd our sex life was great and neither of us have been with anyone for about a year. 2 years is way too long without any type of commitment.. so i don’t understand what he wants is he serious or he is not . i said that i was not going to be comfortable continuing just a friendly sexual relationship but just friends was ok. do i continue waiting for him to be ready for something more serious or do i just be his friend and end the good sex? he has opened up about what he wants to do for his future, his aspirations, his goals, he’s invited me to activities that he likes to do, he has taken me out, etc. move on and start dating others immediately, no matter how bad it hurts. i just dont know what to do anymore im at my wits end. role isn't that of a private investigator; rather, it should someone who feels secure in his or her relationship. this started month when i text him and he did not response back and sometime he text for short. id like to get married again but knowing its just him and i committed secure is just as good right now. if he didn't see things going anywhere, he wouldn't waste five hours of his time binge-watching gilmore girls with you. i haven’t, not because i feel some sort of loyalty there, but because i too am incredibly busy and don’t meet people. i know he’s been hurt in the past by someone that tried to force a label on the relationship and it ended up tearing them apart. maybe some guys view this as a big deal, but most don’t.. when ever i ask him for relationship he refuses that and says listen i can’t give u relationship and explains why also . people who are not right in the head for whatever reason will not be able to be a good romantic partner. know this article is correct and that these are the main signs a man is never going to commit to you, but, my boyfriend has all 5 of these “signs” but he did commit to me in the most romantic way. but i found out (late in life, maybe because i’m now more patient) that you’re right. over the years we’ve been broken up we’ve reconnected and hoped up a bunch of times and also there have been times when we just reconnected and talked and talked about meeting up but never did. he says he feels as if i deserve better and i am the perfect girl but he’s just confused. for example, regarding his family, i know about them, he talks about them all the time but they live in a different state. i think its an excuse to say he’s single so if he wants to see someone else its not cheating.. in fact the last time we broke up, he started to see the world more like i see it, things that are important to me he has started to do, learning languages, anti- human trafficking, non-profits… he wants to start a business together and we always make travel plans together…. i believe this would help me in the future with any guy i’m in a relationship with. from the formal discussions, game-changing decisions and kodak moments, there are some subtler ways of knowing if things are going from gray to golden.. we have everything with each other that proofs we are bf/gf .”i did not elaborate that we don’t fight or that those are old relationships. i didn’t ask him to get married, i only asked for a serious relationship..and we left it at that–i tell myself that hes distant due to work–but i am having doubts–in the meantime-i so welcome anyones advice, on this matter–starting today i have decided to stay more busy…but if i don’t text or call him anymore–my fear is that he will just “go away”…. when i asked him over & over if this was what he really wanted…he would not answer me! just recently i told him i loved him and he said “thank you. been in a “non relationship” on and off for a year ive know him for 20 years but things changed a year we both broke up with our partners. however, he has lived on his own for more than five years and is set in his own ways. i know its hard ( i have been in the same situation), but you need to move on. i was afraid to date people since i had just gotten out of a really bad relationship with a narcissist. okay so i should just believe he is not ready to commit? i haven’t looking for a boyfriend and haven’t been relationship for 5 years. problem is that i bumped into him sometime in may n he was like oh my gosh i’ve been hoping to find u after a yr n all that h was telling me about the separation n his wife n that i am the woman h ever wanted blah blah w gave it a try guess what he gave me stress for 2 months when its on weekend he spends tim with his friends h couldn’t even answer my call n h couldn’t even bother calling back h was so cold so different from the man he was b4 we would fight over that until i get enough n dumped him but what surprises me every time i dump him h would call n apologise n all that until i tell him that m tired of his excuses,apologies n promises that h can’t keep coz h neva changes his attitude.

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