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you want to marry him just because you want to get married? however, if we as humans invest so much studying, running and managing a business. i’m african woman and am married to an african. the west african man will portray himself as being the best husband , the most caring to authorities, but , the key is asking about his history of abuse , assaults , violence , to women and children in the past. 13 months ago from l islandhello gizmo, i wrote this article and my book out of honesty just to help honest and innocent foreign women seeking for love in nigeria to find the right man to love without falling victim of romance scam, so i am going to be honest with you, so read carefully. why would a good looking young african man choose to be with an older woman who cant give him a family? you decide to marry him, don't be surprise to find out later that he had a child with another woman somewhere just to have his own biological child, especially a son (in igbo culture, male children and kind of respected more because it is believed that the male child in the one that will continue a man's lineage after the man dies. it carefully, its more like a guide on how to find a genuine man to love in nigeria. for me personally i haven't been scammed i have just sought to highlight the massive cultural gaps in how nigerian men think and how western women think.’t marry a nigerian man you met abroad until you have known his true identity as regards to- marital status, family background, etc. really regret that i didn't read your book and this site before, im late already, even though just would like tell my story, maybe it will help other foreign women to not make any mistake with nigerians specially with igbos. said you showed your husband this article and he laughed that all i said or wrote is only applicable to uneducated nigerian family or so. the western africans especially nigerians do not trip over white women, they have their other issues like breathing lies like air. there are a number of disadvantages when dating nigerian men., i am an african american women who is married to a ghanian man. recently, i think i may have forced him to really think about what it means to be an american woman. suleiman’s birthday: preacher and wife release love song, shock church members amidst sex scandal [video]. i was in a relationship with a nigerian man who i shared two beautiful children with., enjoy that wonderful nigerian man because it could be true love., my brother, before my husband married me, he dated a white woman, of course because of citizenship, he told me everything. i also mentioned religion which plays vital role in the lifes of all nigerians- educated or not, belief affects every man. oil rich yes but the country infrastructure is dire, roads chaos, healthcare system dire for many and poverty pervades in every corner. as for my previous boyfriend was from my country ok, so plz don't judge or assume that i always go on dating sites to find a man, i never have nor will i ever will go on a dating site. i married twice, and divorced for two entirely different reasons. this ghanain man sounds like he is on his way out of the door. since i'm east asian and not white, we do have similar family traditions as nigerians, so i have no problem with that part to begin with. it is not about nigerian men or igbo men, it is about the individual- his belief, his upbringing, his friends, his life experiences, his job, his business, his person.’m a ghanaian man who is in a similar situation as your husband. stephens 3 years ago hello all,i have met my nigerian man through on line dating.’ve been married to my husband from west africa for 5 years and he treats me and my kids like royalty. i am malawian and i have seen enough african men destroy the women they claimed to love, and i have also seen many men live up to their promises of commitment, respect and partnership. my sister's friend, her mum is white her dad an igbo man, according to her, in her own words, she said her mum is the most racist white woman she has ever seen. woman who goes for nigerian men just cause of money or they need some1 to spoil them? you must learn to manage and control your anger and irritation when with him. how many of you woman are true ladies in the old school sense? men are good guys, i’m married to a ghanaian. they commit violent acts and project it to the woman. history has also traced ibo tribe to have an ancestral linkage with the jews, and this can be seen in their ingenuity in so many human activities, especially in trade, craft, local technology, etc. so when he got sent back he asked me on the phone if we could get married i said i would think about it and i did for the reasons being i loved this man and i didn't want him to suffer or my child to be without his dad. though i am not trying to imply that non-educated people are not-marriageable, of course i will be a liar to say that because many highly educated couples today are filing for divorce on daily basis all over the world.’m married to a ghanaian, i traveled abroad with my mother in law to marry him there. this friendly approach towards interacting with the rest of the world makes nigerian men attractive and appealing. are indeed a good woman with a heart of gold, remain richly blessed, and thanks for stopping by..you might have a strong minority predisposed to excessive leisurely activities but it would be wrong to have your main description of a whole tribe of men as "if you want a yoruba man to have you at heart, always take him to parties, and if possible, organize parties for him often, and you’re his best friend" and "yoruba man loves partying, celebrations and ceremonies, and he wouldn’t mind borrowing to celebrate a ceremony- be it burial, child-naming, birthday, marriage, memorial, etc". his mother pressures him and gets upset with him for not being married yet. he was telling me that i need to be more free, that he likes to have sex with bunch of girls and that one day when he gets married, his wife will need to accept all these things. when we all thought porsha williams was dating nigerian billionaire teodoro nguema obiang mangue? i don't know about the ibos being linked to jews but i do know that they are true nigerian men. there are many violent activities , a zoo mentality , and a dismal failure to recognize the dignity of human life. right now, i’m dating a congolese man…those are a handsome group of men. in my personal opinion and experience, a good nigerian man makes the most responsible and loving of partners..words have power and believe me when this nigerian men hear this. an ibo man loves business, trade and anything that will make him to be in constant contact with money. before you give your heart to a complete stranger, try to ‘’google search’’ all emails and love letters you’re getting from him, most likely, they have been used many times before, on others..i am african american the man i am dating is isoko. know this thread is old but are you still happily married?’ve been married to a cameroonianan for 4 years and in my experience it is correct that they cheat and often. i am convinced many are learning because i do get positive mails. express that "ibos are no doubt the heart and prime movers of the nigerian economy". therefore, the question of nigerian men and relationships – to date them or not, is a simple question to tackle. if you are foreign lady - european, american, australian and you are 10+ yrs older than your nigerian boyfriend and if on top of that you're unlucky finding a right date or making a relationship with someone within your community, also, if you are moderately/considerably overweight. we don't have issue with sizes but be good looking and don't be 100yrs and want 18yrs nigerian boy, as a white woman, would you wish that for your child. a man is financially buoyant and handsome, it is not always easy for him to find the right partner unlike women who only need one thing- good looks and character to find the right man. necessarily saying that all nigerian guys are bad of course i am a good nigerian. all, i am an aa woman married to an african male from burkina faso. igbo ladies used to be awesome until recent times; many igbo girls now lack respect for their husband. but then i ask, why then do you want to marry a man you cannot or do not cherish his country and want to live in his country forever with? then all of a sudden i heard he was either married or engaged. how do you expect a ceo to come back to her home and allow a man speak to her as though she is a doormat. yes they are all africans but they se also, ugandans, kenyans, tanzanians, ethiopians, ghanaians, nigerians… within that. first son is even worse, is a must that they married from home. there is a very common pattern when it comes to the internet dating and nigerian scammers, maybe that’s why other girls are silent for now. this man hung in there while i doubted him, put him on never mind and he waited patiently and steadily while he wined and dined me and held strong to the fact that he cared about me and eventually professed his love. we are all fantasizing about the day when the men in our lives demand that we stop working! don’t travel out of your country to any other country to see any man yet until we talk. there are very good nigerian men and very bad ones as well..and this is a huge turn off for most nigerian men. this boost the ego of some nigerian men, especially those that didn’t have a formal education. he is a beautiful loving man who has always treated me with respect and great love ., i can see that so many foreign ladies are interested in nigerian guys, so to help them out, i will be willing to assist foreign ladies looking for real nigerian men with love to offer. dating a nigerian in your own country you simply wont feel the cultural difference so much. hi anonymous, good to see you’re doing fine, i wish every other girl, that got tricked and sucked into this type of romance ordeal, has learned something useful by now, i also hope that your older ‘’friend’’ you mentioned here has learned her lesson too. i take this very serious cuz i am a woman and this is a battle we are still fighting in the western world .

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as to your question, yes i am still married and have been married to the same african-american great lady since december 5, 1970. at the time i thought this was because his friend, who is also nigerian was interested in me. l 3 years ago as a forgive never marry to a nigeria man that doesn't have papers. to be honest with you, in western world, especially in england and usa over 52% of married couples are divorced. is not just a practice common to nigerian men alone, americans, english, canadians, germans, russians, chinese, malaysians, indians, etc practice this in different degrees and for different purposes which usually revolve around financial wealth, fame, success, political power, career growth and the likes. actually, in that video clip i blamed the nigerian guy because he cheated on his foreign wife. he is very manipulative , but city police officials with experience always understands his tactics, it is difficult for a woman who weighs a hundred pounds to be violent against a man who is three hundred pounds and taller. recently i’ve dated a nigerian and one from burkina faso. but your nagging and jealousy, snitching up and down shows that a woman has no self esteem to be with us. the truth is, there are so many inter-tribal children more than a lot of nigerian realise, especially between yorubas and ibos, so we need to stop this south west, east and north divide and begin to embrace ourselves. nigerian 2 years ago dear author,why are you giving foreigners tips on how best to snare nigerian men, when there are sooo many single nigerian women keen on marrying only nigerian men? another quote by me: "no man exist without a spiritual image; which maybe positive or negative spirit". it’s the weirdest thing, like to say no to a white woman is like saying no to air. scammers know that very well so they know how to manipulate you.) i had to find out from some third party person that she was dealing with some married men in nigeria for money, and that one of them cut her off because she talked about the relationship that was supposed to be private. it’s this thought that lingers in the back of my mind saying that he is still has a wife and family in africa and is trying to obtain a citizenship in order to relocate permanently to america with his african wife and family. have always been having arguments since the beginning of our relationship, when i gave birth to my second child he left to go to nigeria when he was two weeks old because he has a business out there and had to go and work and has been doing it for three years now i feel like he mentally abuses and manipulates me but he says that e loves me and i do not believe him because i do not think he treats me well he does send money and buy things but this is not what i think love is about and always have in the back of my mind that is with me for papers and i also tell him this, he says that he is just waiting for me to fuck up then he is gone. don’t get me wrong i know couple of good african men married to african american women and white women treat them like gold. i'm east asian and i'm married to a hausa man for 9 years. i agree with all the writer has to say about nigerian men and their cultures, their beliefs and traditions. he communicates with many ladies even though he is married. wrote this article and others…plus my books not to sabotage my fellow nigerian men, but to help foreign ladies make the best choice…and to also enlighten foreign ladies on how to avoid nigerian men romance scam. why must in every foreign country, ladies old and fat thinks, nigerian guys owes them marriage, after wasting their youth, with their race that failed them. he was a dream come true when we got married. he was the best man i have been with so far and i pray his live find it’s way back to me. we call them pussys in america and if you can't handle being more than a village boi, then u should marry a gud nigerian girl, doing the hard work as a igbo man on your own without the help of a white person before u dupe one of gods daughters. 3 years ago hi accofranco, i recently met a nigerian man (he actually work as marine) and i have some questions.ተle axel 2 years ago having gone through all your comments n questions i would just like to droop this word of advise in nigeria almost every person(young man ) you meet is intelligent n warm its somthing natural so dont fall for d wrong ones and finaly i would encourage u all to go for physical dating rather than online ones coz it will do u alot of good. these are questions you should ask yourselves ladies,what are you campared to this nigerian man? in addition not meeting his family is a sign he hides aspects of his life i say this because i was in a relationship with a gambian man who did the same thing. article was not written to destroy the good image of nigerians! i will never date, marry, or entertain an african man , no thank you 🙂..i am in love with a beautiful ghanaian man who lives in accra, he’s a footballer. sure, a couple of them turned out to have a woman already, but i can’t say any if them mistreated or were outright bad to me. our women are looking elsewhere, too many complaints from foreign women but y'all keep putting out what a woman can do to keep you. also made some good points, but it is not entirely true that nigerian culture allows men to marry more than one wife, i think, it is more of a religious belief than cultural. his mom was getting on him about being single for 3 1/2 years and told him he needed to be married and settled by the time he turned 35, he then told her women are expensive and for her to choose his wife & it took her 3 weeks before coming up to me telling me about her son. you go into any other relationship or marriage with a nigerian man, please try to get a copy of this book and read it from beginning to end. i didn’t know how much i was in love with him until i discovered another woman started making him happy. thus, if a lady offers a nigerian man the chance at a relationship, they will find the endeavor to be fruitful and beneficial in the long run..for the past few months, i have been blaming myself for everything, i am never one to judge, i am not racist coz i wouldn't have dated a nigerian or any other race for that matter, i truly loved him and i did absolutely everything in my power to make him happy, he very well knew that i would have moved to his current country to be closer to him and even would have moved back home to nigeria with him, when he decided to go back at a later stage, bcoz that's how much i truly loved him. i had a good relationship with his sister and frtom our many lengthy conversations, i started putting things in order. 3 years ago my daughter has been going out with a nigerian. if you do not meet the parents within the year, that means that they are married. i really need to feel secure on this cause have heard so many horrible stories. am married to a man from west africa mali to be exact, we’re in the process of getting divorced because i believe he used me for his green card.’m married to a ghanaian, i traveled abroad with my mother in law to marry him in ghana. luck to you, i hope you find a good man. he got his green card right after we married two years ago in the states. 3 years ago hi accofranco, i recently met a nigerian man (he actually work as marine) and i have some questions. nigerians are also extremely patient people because of their environment. while we have only been dating for a short time he says he wants to be exclusive, but yet there are some signs of possibly another woman. 3 years ago hi accofranco,i like to saying appreciate for show all ladies and men read your blogs for reasons about nigerian cultures. i understand it can be challenging identifying those signs when dating a man who is in the relationship for a green card because they will pour on the charm. i am married to one but my head is on he will never get that green card from me. they had me a engagement ceremony here, and we got married over there. balat evicted from big brother naija house, leaving efe as “last man” standing. 20 months ago a friend of mind found an nigerian man online he told her to come so they can get married in the palace she believed him and went not herd anything from her since is this normal the guy in in is 30 and she is in 50 could this be real she would be the queen please help. am a aa woman that’s been involved with a liberian man for a few years. at least that other woman celebrates her win for being chosen over you by your mutual ‘prince’, she doesn’t really care about his other ‘lovers for money’ as long as she is with him from time to time. my experience of the whole tribal prejudice 'thing' has been more with nigerians in nigeria, maybe it is just coincidental but that's been my observation. not trying to promote myself here but my experience made me know that there are some nigerian women who actually wanna be the captain of the ship as well. you want to define a nigerian man, you must first identify his tribal origin, whether he is ibo, yoruba or hausa. my message to the women dating nigerians or dating online is think longer term. please lady open our eyes no one can leave a black woman to a white woman even white men knows that our men are happy with us. stand in love and ensure your love in not blind so that you're able to see what you're getting yourself into- whether with a black, white or asian man. if you are not from their tribe and decide to get married to a nigerian, a lot of things must change; for instance the way you dress and address elders as this is a prerequisite to be accepted into the community. even if there is a problem with many men there, i cannot believe every single one of them is trouble, any more than i can believe that every single wife is slim—plenty of those women are plump! is one of the most important things every nigerian man desire in marriage, so i don't think he's being honest that he doesn't care if she has child for him or not. long time i wasn't agreed, after 5 month i've agreed and get my visas to nigeria and to germany shenghen visa.’m with a gambia man and he is a great guy but like they say they don’t like to be in the kitchen with u they love to gave a lot of sex and calling u they expect u to answer but guess what nono not i. bvow to stay married to my nigerian husband and have for 13 years., i am happy to read that you have been married to a nigerian man for 30 years, such stories is what i want to be reading and hearing, and not the sad ones. i also didn’t like the fact he would have conversations on the phone in his native language and like another person posted you don’t know if their talking to a woman or what. recently began talking to a man from the gambia we are both the same age and he seems like a breath of fresh air (that country has magic) because he’s not really my type but i love his personality and his words before i got to involved i decided to look up a few things and came across a forum with hundreds of threads of women saying they are scanners manipulative using women for visas and money out of every 50 stories 1 was positive these ratios made me come to him with these things he was confused and claimed to not know men did that i began to let him know i have no desire in getting married nor am i rich i have no money to send to family members which he seemed to understand stating he had no desire to come to america or ask me for anything (he actually sends my children gifts) although i do plan on visiting him next year in may i’m in no rush to do anything until i’m 100% sure of all motives i’ve spoken with several family members am i nervous absolutely but finding love is not easy i’ve been hurt cheated on lied to and beaten all by american men so you can’t damn an entire continent because a few 100 women have been lied to think of the millions of women getting used and abused in america or europe not for a green card but for no reason at all i’d say that’s much worse you have to be wise and careful when falling for someone no matter where you meet them there are bad apples all over this world. i found them sometimes more likely to open their doors to other nigerian tribes. i know for a fact this man had not cheated on me for the whole 2 years. that's the only interesting topic that some whites girls can share with us, reading how many hours a nigerian guy can last and the sizes of dick in nigerian guys. his story seemed way too good to be true so i researched him and found out that he is married to a beautiful woman who still resides in africa. 2 years ago hi all have read all your comments am very interested , ok i have been in a relationship with a nigerian ibo man for a year im from australia he lives and works in qatar i have visited him and we are engaged now . those do not always need a woman for papers, they are rich back home and are in america for higher education. i am married to a ghanaian 11 yrs now, we have 2 kids, 1 biologically his. 3 years ago i have not dated a nigerian man but a white south africa.

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just ask any racist white man, and he’ll tell you that every of his friend agrees that black people ain’t shit. on another note i don't know anyone who has called a black man - black monkey are you serious? he told me because he is muslim, and also a nigerian man its either single or married. i’ve met quite a few who i would still consider friends if i were not married., it is sad to read such vitriol from such an educated woman against african men and to be a marriage arbiter is the height of irresponsibility on your part, as it is obvious you can never be impartial. 2 years ago i'm australian and met my nigerian (igbo) through a friend so we started chatting over the phone then chatting online he lives in malaysia we were getting to know each other for a year till i decided to fly over he paid half i paid half of my flight all went well we got engaged and then i flew back to australia keeping in touch with each other everyday skyping and calling everyday then i flew back again lived with him for a few months then came back due to work committments then flew back again to stay with him we are now planning our wedding we love each other and i've met all his friends in malaysia he's met my immediate family & friends via skype i believe he is a good man he's made me a better woman he is very overprotective of me and looks after me well we are both christians and want to have children together we are planning to travel to nigeria in the new year after the wedding and everything. i believe he married me so he could get a green card. it has been a year since my ghanaian husband and i got married.@weary, one thing we the nigerian men have learned from history is the fact that when we (nigerians) marry foreign (white) ladies with all our heart in the hope of staying with them forever, they have a different plan all together., in nigerian culture, nigerian men, especially igbo men value children so much. the woman are usually 50kgs heavier then the men and so fat how the man can even find their vaginal is a mystery. was deported by immigration for over staying and we are still together trying to get married but my divorce still isn't final and i asked him to get an arranged marriage and he declined. and it makes me angry that someone like her posts about how she found her nigerian man online, and knew about me and other women.: what you wrote could easily have been written by any american wife regarding an american man. if you had read that book earlier, you would have been more informed and wouldn't to any nigerian man's romance or marriage scam because i revealed a lot in that book which have got me so many haters and hunters too.? if it was a white man in that same dynamic he would get no play by those same white women. i was very much in love with my partner before we married but find married life very, very difficult. there are several reputable restaurants and bars within the country that offer good opportunities for individuals to search for a suitable nigerian man. gone are the days men divorce their wife via verbal pronouncement: "i divorce you", nigerian judicial system; customary court and marriage welfare doesn't recognize verbal divorce.@kolanut, there are wonderful nigerians who would make a wonderful husband or wife, but the problem remains that most foreigners chose wrongly. i don't mind to grow my baby alone, better to be along than with some animal man, really. in fact most western women instead of looking for ways of resolving marital crises, prefer to threaten their man with divorce, and this is a situation a true nigerian man snares at. he was also married to an american woman and never pursued his citizenship while married. necessarily that all nigerian guys are bad, please feel free with him and don't let this write-up mar your chances of connecting with a man that truly loves you. i have a lot of emotions invested in this man, but i don't want to waste my time and end up heartbroken if he is just going to marry as his family wishes, without them even meeting me and learning what my values are and the kind of wife and mother i would be. you can play with an ibo man’s life, but don’t play with his money! am currently in a relationship with a african man, he is from west africa.@weary, nigerian parents don't really have issue with a white daughter-in-law to be honest with you, they even love and welcome them more than our own sisters, but just that history has proven to them that white daughter-in-laws hardly stay forever, they only last for a while and they go back to their home country with their son's children, that's just the fear, if not, so many nigerians would love to marry a white lady for real, but how open are the white ladies ready to welcome nigerians and their culture wholeheartedly without reserving some stuffs. not every man including the muslims wants more than one wife, especially the responsible ones, because it is a lot of responsibility to take care of one wife + kids alone already!.i wish you guys a long lasting, happy marital life- such good news are what i enjoy reading than sad news of how a nigerian guy maltreated or dumped a white lady after she helped him. unlike other countries in the world, nigerians are very open to new things and they always embrace the change taking place. i have some nigerian friends and they keep telling me, "oh he's probably searching for business".’ll try to enlighten something that may be of a great help to many, it happens on the very beginning of the ordeal. not sure what that’s about (i am a dark-skinned kinky hair beautiful black woman :). i think igbo people are the reason why nigeria men have a bad name on non african woman. isn't feeling man enough to come back to the states to live with you when he has nothing tangible earning him good steady income. @happygirl, you seem to have mastered nigerian men more than i do. one day i found suddenly some documents at home that he has illegal child i mean non marriage child, he didn't tell me anything, hided from me, now i don't trust him at all whatever he says, he had plenty relationship, used to live with different kind of nigerian women, after he disappointed from them, cause they always asks money money and he doesn't like to get marry to them, that's why he was looking for white women as me. let me ask all of you a question – how many of you aa ladies and ladies have been back to the motherland? this can be true of many foreign men but i know more western men get involved in this process.. we want to get married but the rules and regulations of the uk are too much for us to be able to do. a german lady we never think of marry to a german man..so no igbo man will be happy to adopt a child when he can father one biologically. am an african american woman who is married to a ghanaian man..ladies, i advice you plz take note and think of me, and any other woman out there who have been through similar stories like myself. but for now, i am going to focus on assisting foreign ladies wishing or desiring to get married to a nigerian man, or best, to assist foreign ladies already in a committed relationship with a nigerian man, and are probably contemplating on settling down with him. am an african man and will say it’s quite sad to hear from my fellow african sisters on this wonderful forum as of how stupid and carlos some of our own african brothers have been or have treated some of them the ladies/women. i must add, he doesn't want to marry a nigerian woman cause they are demanding in terms of money. tears 4 years ago i am so scared of marrige and then to add a yoruba man to the equation,all the things you are saying i have said to him,about marring a lady of his own ppl which he has asured me that he has no desire for them-but i just can't believe that, that is all you have been around and out of all my sisters there is not one that you will marry? for so many same replies, my phone was acting up. when he found out about her dating a woman he told her it was not a problem either. he a permanent resident in uk, a student or just an illegal migrant? nigerians do not observe the past strict cultures that were regulating the nature of relationships. story is long at this point but basically after many fears they submitted an application. everyone has different experiences but if you do not meet a nigerian man in nigeria who wants you to live there then count your fingers lucky aboyt his motives. are you ready to adapt with the nigerian culture and way of life?. i am so glad and i thank god i came across this page, bcoz i finally saw this particular person on here seeking advice from you frank, and it makes me angry that she is seeking advice and help from you, when she very well knew what kind of a man he is, and she is still with him and i know this for a fact! might have been frustrated in life and seeking for a way out, and just faking love to get something from you, and once he gets that, he is off and creates bad name or image that all nigerian men are evil, whereas it is not true. victory 17 months ago after reading this article, i think i should of found it before 3 years of wasting my money on a man who was millions miles away from me. stand in love and ensure your love in not blind so that you're able to see what you're getting yourself into- whether with a black, white or asian man. he is the best man i’ve had in my life i’m 42 and african american he supports my children like their his own and my family loves him to pieces. in this very write-up, i am not going to answer those questions, but i will indirectly give clues on how to manage such situations, meanwhile, if you truly want to learn more or find answers to the above questions, then you must find time to go through some of my relationship articles, by navigating through my profile. he did admit to me that he was married in nigeria for a little bit and got divorced.: when a lady pressures a man about marriage, it turns the man off and make him feel the lady is desperate for a hidden agenda.. don't you ever say shit about an ibo man's mother. please understand 245 years of slavery, not even being allowed to walk on the same pavement as your fellow human being, can you fathom what that was truly like? was suspicious to where he was going to that day (last week)so i had to look into it more and found what he does to these girls heartlessly don't know whether i should let the white girls know what he is up to or just leave it as its)people out there it's not only online meeting but even face to face some guys from your country give you guys a bad name,i live in europe am black too but i would prefer nigerians guys because of their confidence,charm and warm nature sometimes (i believe there is few good ones out there still) and similar culture background i can provide him with similar culture but i find most times they are just all about money especially if they know you have more than them,in this latest case the guy i dumped earn more than the white girl he is scamming money from how heartless and cruel is that? the man i know, had a father that married only one woman, and he treated her kindly.'s all i have to say, nigerian men are not the only men. all married white and parades them in public like a trophy wife. anyways back to what happened, so he ended up telling me what he does for a living and that these woman are part of his living. i can say is this; on behalf of all the nigerian guys that have wronged you and made you feel that we nigerian guys are evil, please for the sake of god and humanity, forgive them all. (she apparently wants to meet me)he's said he'd love it if this sister with the kids could come to our wedding & asked but since she gave birth a couple of months ago, we aren't sure if she will manage. thanks to google, i searched his name and discovered the he was happily married with 4 children in africa. thing is, if you do your home work well and marry a good and hard working nigerian man, you will be singing praises everyday. i’m married to a ghanaian & if i’m not happy, he’s not happy. you are warning other ladies for real not to fall for this asswipe of a man like you did, then, how about if you reveal his real name or alias, age, location, friends names, you said you met his family too? is great that you are happily married for 30 years to your nigerian man, but things have changed a lot since then thanks predominantly to the internet and other modern ways of communication. me and our kids ended up homeless because he kicked us out on street moved a hispanic/white woman in after i moved out. the children are removed from the country if they are younger to hurt the woman, because of a feeling of ownership, which is very dangerous., it is good for you to visit the man or woman you wish or plan to marry if both of you are living in different countries. he treated me better than any other man has ever treated me. the woman always gets the short straw especially once you become a mother, then theres no going back! 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there are a number of disadvantages when dating nigerian men. 2 years ago from l island@dandydoo, as a nigerian guy born and brought up in nigeria, and with all due respect to my lovely country, nigeria and citizens, i want to give you a standing ovation!. i have many good nigerians friends around me but unfortunately i found a bad one but that will never stop me from liking another african man again or any man. is a huge continent, with over 50 countries, and filled with many tribes and types of africans; and everything from villages to big modern cities., to all ladies reading this- there are bad men everywhere- nigerian, american, english, german, italian, french, canadian, etc.?Gee,i wonder why there are so many single mothers here…..it is truly unworthy guys like him that are tarnishing the image of all nigerian men. i can’t really comment directly to her, my comment was addressed to anonymous as a perfect example of many, my comment was an attempt to wake up other daydreaming ladies who are just falling deeper and deeper in to something that will only leave a deep scar on their hearts for life. most of these romance stories begin online by meeting a handsome mid-aged white man, he is widowed or divorced and very rich. i wrote this article to assist foreign ladies in spotting the bad nigerian guys who go about tarnishing the image of nigerian guys abroad. 2 years ago i am a foreign white woman married to a nigerian so let me give you some insight into my own personal experience. i’ve dated a mauritanian man who was a con artist. am an african-american woman from brooklyn, married to a nigerian man from lagos. am so sorry to hear this a similar thing happend to me i stuck it out now he has left me gone back to his country to live i have 3 children and 5 grandchildren been married 38 yrs. sometimes i do believe in nigerian culture so many different types of ethnics. i am a nigerian from the igbo tribe, i also live in the u. i understand many reasons about ladies fell in trap of love brought painful of experience. what we are going through as an auslander in germany, is hell. the good, the bad, and the ugly traits listed in these posts can be found in any black american man in the usa. me say i do not see my husband as a bad man at all. was left broken hearted and feeling betrayed and swore off ever dealing with an african man again., you're so naïve by saying that the best way to have a yoruba man heart is to take him to parties. nigerian culture can however be limiting especially to foreigners aiming to get married there; you will go through a lot of trouble getting accepted as part of the community. not long ago a foreign woman was killed in south africa while visiting her 20 years younger nigerian lover. they are extremely jealoused of a woman who is highly educated , if they cannot get her money they start manufacturing stories of mental illness , if the mental illness conspiracy does not work they victimize her by manufacturing stories, to destroy and claim what ever assets she owns in the united states or overseas . give true n honest information on the yoruba man n there culture. a copy of my book titled: before you marry your nigerian man, published on amazon kindle or lulu and share with your friends to enlighten on how to find a true nigerian man or any other man. my question: is it normal for a nigerian man to dote on a woman, discuss marriage and then not have contact for months :/ but still expect marriage? having been brought up in a community of nigerians consisting of all three major nigerian tribes and other minority tribes, i must say that your depiction of men from the three tribes either exaggerates some characteristics or just fails to promote some more obvious endearing characters they all possess. i would have kept that attitude, the lord would not have blessed me with having met such a wonderful african man the second time around! all are bad…be positive…don’t let what people say about nigerian men make you dislike or form hatred for all nigerian men, including your husband…. i trusted this man and gave him 3 years of my life. we got married in ghana and i am so blessed to have him in my life. the bottom line of it all is that a typical nigerian man with no hindrances would prefer to come back home to marry a nigerian girl, so if you are non-nigerian and in a relationship with a true nigerian man then shine your eyes well! after we got married we applied for spouses visa it got refused the first time and so i had to go back to nigeria to fight for my husband to come back, after two years he applied for leave to remain which he got straight away and then after about a year and a half he started to apply for his british passport but was trying to do it secretly and when i asked him why he didn't tell he we would say it was none of my business, we also had another child by now.@berare, from your comment, i can boldly tell you that the guy comes from a rich nigerian family…with parents that believe so much in the african marriage. of course one cannot attribute this just to the nigerian nationality but what i do know is that it is a man's world in nigeria. they love for the woman to eat healthy and keep herself looking good..Mary 3 years ago i live in scotland i am from zambia (southern african) i met a yoruba man via a dating site for two months he called me non stop he visited me twice i felt bad because he complained that i never visited him we live in seperate cities i could tell he was upset by me not visiting him so i decided to visit him for the day he was so sweet telling me he wanted to meet my mother etc. my ex’s friends were surprised to know my ex was dating me because i am aa woman. is even hard for an ibo rich woman to get married, cos we don't need her money or anything but we doubt their respect, if we get to marry them. please naija men should have some accountability for once, the woman must do xyz and b to keep them, aren't you all men. he had a different woman every time he traveled to a different city or country. encourage ladies with any kind of nigerian or any other romance scam experience to come forward and warn other girls not to make the same mistake, as anonymous bravely did. observe his manners, the way he interacts with his family, and his perceptions/opinions. i have a lot of nigerian friends their husbands cheats a lot and they just live with it. it to your close friends because it will save them from future heartbreak and will also guide them on how to make the best choice of a nigerian man. all human forms need a social balance in their life to a degree and life cannot be one big party to a whole tribe of men. some unscrupulous and unworthy nigerians have gone so far in painting nigeria evil in the sight of foreigners, but i still want to assure you all that there are plenty, i mean numerous number of good nigerians out there. only wanted to help foreign women sport the bad nigerian guys when they are coming and stay away from them. i don’t even know, he may be married to her and their his kids. feel as though this is real, but i have read so many stories on here! again, thanks for stopping by to contribute, wishing you a blissful marital life with your nigerian husband. mind you, this article wasn't written to destroy the image of nigerian men or to scare foreign women from marrying nigerian men, of course i am a single nigerian man myself and i can't just wake up to destroy my country's image, and i can't just come online to lie to people to protect my country's image when they are doing the wrong thing; i am here to say the truth to save people from destruction and unmerited heartbreaks, get it now? i don’t want to sound or be rude but i am an african woman and i am neither submissize nor docile but because you dated one african from one african nation it seems you decided that he was the prototype or leading example for all african men. so i believed him, i became the other woman, he would bring me over when she left for work. ibo man originated from the ibo tribe, found in the south-eastern region of nigeria. if you are not an islam, it might be impossible for a hausa man to marry you. we are all fantasizing about the day when the men in our lives demand that we stop working! other than that he is the best man i have ever met, we been together for two years and he has shown me way more than an american man has ever shown me. i am just a midwest woman who loves her native men, but they never stay with me long enough for marriage…they always move on. we even hardly married other tribes in nigeria, not to talk of inter racial. you really think someone would lear german just for scamming?.nigerian women are the ones pushing nigerian men into all manners of crime. 3 years ago i dated a nigerian man for three months. the goal is to ruin the woman and claim every asset she owns, including her personal car, which is a source of pain for the west afticsn man.. i have always told my friends that i would love to marry an igbo man too, but from your comment above, it seems you as an igbo man are running after foreign ladies. in many ways he is industrious and has our long term future at the heart of his actions. i was dating a south african man that cheated on me with his son’s mom who is white. my husband and i still have our own cultural differences, but i'm very lucky because my husband is doing things that nigerians will never do with their nigerian wives such as washing clothes, cooking, bathing our kid etc, even when his family asks him why is he doing all this as a man, he explains to his family and tells them they should give me space for being a foreign lady and he is doing these things because of his love for me.. i am committed with a nigerian man for four months that why id search a blog or reading about his country, and helps me to catch up easy his tradition and understand more his attitude,we're not talking offen because of our complicated schedule of work but we make a day to be together..if you don’t mind blindly obeying, never questioning, being belittled or even beaten occasionally for “misconduct” being humped on twice a day like a sex toy irregardless of your desire or risk hearing the teeth sucking and belittling if you ask for a break, knowing he’s sleeping with multiple women and disrespecting you by taking phone calls in another room, and having the sneaky audacity to bring another woman in your home and bed when he thinks you’re not around, if you are displeased with anything he does and bring it to his attention he throws a tantrum like a little boy, dealing with his mother and sisters jump on you about how poorly you take care of their “little boy” much like the african women jumped on the american in the vignette, knowing that rearing children is women’s work meaning that he only plays with your child when he/she is happy but shoving them in your face for a diaper change or when they cry. i am in my 20s and married to a nigeria for 7 years with 3 children. in germany the only thing you we see is singles mother every where in germany. by the way my on parents have been married 35 years and we don't believe in divorce. so nigerian women back home are now second option when it comes to our men having us as a back up plan just in case your golden white women disappoint you, wow. women complain shit about nigerian guys, why wont he leave you, hence all you wanted in the married is sex. i prefer the nigerian man because of the solid roots and no compromising. every woman a cameroonian man meets, he wants to sleep with even when the woman is married with children……shame on you! when we first married he was a dream come true for me, loving and very caring. we had sex a total of 5 times since i’ve met him , because i just felt bad about him still living with his woman. i’m married into a very,very,very strong christian valued family, including the husband. nigerian culture can however be limiting especially to foreigners aiming to get married there; you will go through a lot of trouble getting accepted as part of the community.

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recently began conversing with a nigerian gentleman that i met online, and during our first conversation, he volunteers the information of not being married or having any children. my fear is that he may not know how willing i would be, and so may always have it in his mind that he's going to marry a nigerian girl. need help understanding if this is real before i make another mistake by marrying the worry man..even some unworthy nigerian guys in nigeria are also engaging in romance scam just to satisfy their selfish interest to the detriment of innocent foreign women who committed their heart, body and soul to them in love. they made some of these guys to flee from nigeria to many nations in search of greener pastures and doing humane and inhumane things just to make it in life. your own info, this article has helped uncountable foreign women to solve their relationship and marital issues with their nigerian spouses. guys get initiated into cult organisations in foreign countries for reasons best known to them which i cannot discuss here for many reasons.! i remember seeing him at the airport for the very first time, i stayed with him at his place, i meet a lot of his friends and family, before i was coming back home, we talked about our future togther and we were planning to get married and everything else, then it was my time to leave and come back home, back to everyday talking, messaging and skyping, mind you i have been with him for a long time, little did i know at the time what he was up too, but something told me to dig deeper. that is woman's work and once you become a mother this is when the cultural difference that you thought was tiny will become a huge gulf. marriage brings out the worst in every human being- man or woman. tyesha: a proud “african” american woman who dated a cameroonian for over a year. wants to come to live in germany as i actually cannot go to nigeria - but as he didn't finish his studies to a master level (has a nigerian bs), he doesn't get a job here if he has not at least a ms level passed so he is back at university (at age of 35) since 2 months and tries to complete his education first.. you can't sit there and say you love him when he is telling every other woman out there that he loves them too. i have never met a man so kind in my entire life. 4 years ago i live in australia and i'm engaged to a nigerian man. am a white american and i have been married to a ghanian for two years. or is it a "reap what you sow" measure for the fact that i didn't answer many of his calls in the beginning? we broke up and he get married with some girl from his country right away. you are a woman and you are earning more than your husband, please don't let this make you to become unruly and not submissive because every man wants a submissive woman. my family in nigeria often visit us in germany without problem. nigerian are by far the worst liars, green card wannabees, drug dealers, needy, man-children, spolit tantrums. in my experience with nigerian men in nigeria and abroad, nigerians tend to have different views on asian women and white women, i have to agree a lot of them are after white women for citizenship. we nigerians love our motherland no matter where we maybe living presently; no nigerian (the igbo tribes to be more specific) would want to live abroad forever and also his children and grandchildren, no no. the ones that are good treat there woman like queens..that should also let you guys know that we still have good nigerians out there, just pray to meet them. i grew up around a strong igbo community in the uk and i have so many ibo friends who are more like sisters and brothers to me; even with this i have to be fair and say the the big yoruba community were not just about partying. there are loads of honest nigerian men out there doing just fine and distant themselves from the shenanigans portrayed by the hoodlums. vikki i was married 38 years to a ghanian man had 3 children and 5 grandchildren he took his redundancy this year built a house and went there to live if there is anything you want to ask email me chrisfrempong@yahoo. if not, you will soon find yourself being with a married guy who you thought was single. i to have been in a relationship with a nigerian man(unk tribe) will be asking that question shortly., i understand how you feel emotionally because we humans are born to have feelings for people we care about. and if you did read the article well, you will find out that it didn't just talk ill about igbo or nigerians as a whole, but it did tried to enlighten the western women on what to do and what not to do when dating a nigerian, and of course how to get the best out of a nigerian man. and he told me he was not going to support me and we were married what the fuck. 'The Real Housewives of Atlanta' star Kenya Moore slammed her ex-boyfriend Matt Jordan for vandalizing her Moore Manor, he fired back by accusing her of being with a married man. 24 months ago i am a eastern european lady married to good, god fearing igbo man for 19 years. absolutely agree with you, i’m married to a ghanaian, as long as you keep god 1st in everything you do, you’re covered. when i've met him, he seems to me very pleasant and he is a gentleman.'' if foreign ladies can start to accept this- going back to nigeria to stay permanently till old age with the nigerian men they are married to, and not desiring to go back to their country to live forever, or refusing the man from taking the children to nigeria to live like citizens, then it will be difficult and a waste of time marrying a foreign lady. call him to order, not in a harsh manner, but sit him down and talk sense into his head. met a ghanian man 2 1/2 years ago on a pen pals site. i am a conservative woman; i want marriage first before having sex. poured out everything you need to know as a foreign lady before falling in love or marrying a nigerian man and every help and guide you need to build a stable, lasting, happy relationship or marriage with a nigerian man. therefore nigerian men are likely to offer a unique approach towards dating, and perhaps offer a different future than what the lady thinks. he's a frank + reserved and hard working man based in qatar and i'm a talkative, college student from southern africa. they are good in taking care of their woman, but they are prone to infidelity if they are financially buoyant or rich. i mean, it will be more apparent once you are married. he is the best man i have ever met in my life. furthermore it looks her alleged new boo thang is married and his wife is none too happy about their romance. will never see white men or asian men bringing there women down to low level or having a second option just in case a black woman disappoint them at the end. sometimes allow him to be the wise man even if you know the truth. are a number of ways in which a lady can initiate a relationship with a nigerian man. you know, most well to do nigerians don’t like their children marrying foreign women because it is a general belief that white women don’t take their marriage too serious- they go for divorce even when it is something the two families can come together and settle.. found out he was cheating with various women here and in nigeria ( as he travelled back and forth for competitions) he ended up getting another woman pregnant and having a child with her. yes, our men need to embrace the changes in family and romance. there are scammers all around the world, but somehow, nigerian boys just mastered it. isn't fair and that's why as a nigerian, we all must stand for the truth and start making a difference, and start making people understand that we aren't as bad as they see us. eventually a nigerian man will want and need a nigerian woman to massage his ego, let him be the head of the household and know her place..and this is one major problem most home-based nigerian guys do have with nigerian girls- demand for money. 3 years ago from l island''attention @dazy stephens, i have been busy researching your case about planning to marry a nigerian guy you met online, and i think we really need to talk? but in this situation, when we marry a foreign lady and then we start to approach the age of 60 - 70 years and want to go back home to nigeria to live probably permanently, only to be visiting foreign countries on vacations, the foreign ladies always object to this, and in most cases, they took away the children we had with them and take them back to their country, and the nigerian man ends up childless at old age with no one to bear or continue his lineage. if his parents are against their son’s relationship with your daughter, try and reassure them that there won’t be divorce in future…and tell your daughter to read books about nigerian culture and how nigerian men behave and act in marriage…the role of a wife in the nigerian family setting, etc…she really need my upcoming book…it will help her a lot…try and get a copy for her as a gift and she will never forget you in life. while in college, i met a young man who was serving in the military at the time, and he was the perfect gentleman. nigerian men love their woman to be submissive to them. woman, whose highly educated and very independed, and am from a good family, i travel a lot and he doesn't understand that and wants me to leave my ways and says he wants to marry me and wants me to go to nigeria!@soulfulmindsmedia, you need this book i am about to release…the book will guide you…it will open your eyes on so many things you never knew…and you will be grateful you had it and will surely recommend it to your close friends…you know, i can sense that you wrote this comment out of anger…and because of that, i couldn’t get your message clearly even though he shouldn’t have said something like that…but still, i don’t have enough information to conclude on what he is up to…. 20 months ago i have been talking with a yoruba man for a couple of months via skype n phone. i am talking about some nigerian men who didn’t have a formal education. opened this to help foreign women searching for true love to find that love by opening their eyes to the styels, and ways of spotting a scam nigerian man. be honest, i'm so disappointed in some of your comments on how you are comparing nigerian girls to your foreign women. i don't know much about other tripes, but 50% of other tripes married for real with woman that is not from their tripes. don’t know who’s the ignorant one…the nigerian women who take up for their lying, cheating , deceitful men, or the men themselves…. but i need your cooperation…i need you to stop thinking that all nigerian men are bad…i wrote this article…and i am also a nigerian man…. my nigerian friends here tell me to be patient especially the older ones and he is 15 yrs older than me, i am grown not going to give exacts but over 25. we’re happily married now, wow a lot has changed in just 18 months. most nigerian men are searching for some kind of motility,be it financial or social(ambitious). due to having dated a nigerian man previously, i was immediately urged to find out all that i could about him. when i've met him, he seems to me very pleasant and he is a gentleman. we dated for 3 years and though he was going to be the man that i would spend the rest of my life with. educated well meaning nigerian men are out there that can give you a happy life. express that "ibos are no doubt the heart and prime movers of the nigerian economy"..Cherry 20 months ago m dating a nigerian man and his yoruba. (she apparently wants to meet me)he's said he'd love it if this sister with the kids could come to our wedding & asked but since she gave birth a couple of months ago, we aren't sure if she will manage. i married an igbo man before, they are not that, bad, they know how to take care of their woman's, but 1 thing you should know, they almost never married a european or non igbo woman for real, even if you are with them for 10 years, the always go back home, to get married.

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lived with my african partner who was lovely when we dated; manipulative when we lived together. therefore, the question of nigerian men and relationships – to date them or not, is a simple question to tackle. or will i say most of the storylines are ancient; things that happened so many years ago or things that never happened but imagined and acted to captivate the audience to make money and fame. i am only speaking from my own experience since i am currently and newly married to an igbo man. i am 45 year old indian woman with a great career n education n very much in love with my igbo 36 year old man. she says he is not married and has no children, and that he showed her documents to support it. after he started to invite me to nigeria as a guest, then to travel with him to germany. will be forever grateful that you took the time to help me in this manner., there are multifaceted difficulties and other peculiar conflicts associated with having a relationship with an african man. i'm tired really from this man and his family, it's better to be far from them, i didn't come here to be sick, nervous, i came to be happy. the ibos paid less attention to western education during colonialism, but after the civil war which ended in 1969, the ibos diversified their interest to include western education, business, and for this reasons and more, they began to migrate within and across the nigerian borders, which is the single reason why in every 10 nigerians you see in a foreign nation, 4 is ibo. their marriages are big ceremonies – well planned and expensive -they usually are too proud to ask a woman for any thing, they provide sufficiently for the family but behave like kings. he taught me what love really felt like, what a woman should be treated like and any man that comes after that will be held to my dearly departed’s standards! reports:All about the tea was the first to spill the exclusive tea earlier this week that porsha williams is dating an older man that gifted her a half of a million dollar car. he love aa women, but when he’s on his phone speaking in his native language i become suspicious that it could be another woman. woman loves to be gentle and soft with her man, it's inherent. 2 years ago @accofrancoi thought i found my nigerian man a few years back, my friend warned me to be careful of him, but i didn't listen, i meet him through a mutual friend online, we started talking online, then msgs and skype, he was telling me that he loved me and he invited me to go visit him where he is living, 6 months later i went, was i scared no! so, yes you are right in your observation that every race and nationality has scammers, but with very different ratio compared to nigerians. didn't really want to go to nigeria in many ways as he thought the safest way would be for me to marry him in spain but i was determined we should do it legally, no overstayer probs etc and encouraged the sister route so hed arrived here legally. a nigerian who will prefer to get married to a responsible white/asian woman not for anything(i mean anything else) but love. honest we have been in love for long time and we've been wanted to get married for long time but still doubt about it. if you are not from their tribe and decide to get married to a nigerian, a lot of things must change; for instance the way you dress and address elders as this is a prerequisite to be accepted into the community. said all that to say i am dating the most wonderful man from nigeria. he’s a gentle loving man, but i really feel he is seeing other women. most indulge in illegal businesses that most good nigerians wouldn't dare. however, it does cause alot of high emostions expecially for those who have have found love in a nigerian man. he is a pastor as so many nigerians but i never got change to mix in this world. for instance, when a typical nigerian couple is going through marital crises, they would hardly ever throw in the towel like it is generally done in the western countries. man was cheating on you before your marriage 4 months ago. let's honest i have been dating to nigerian guy for few years but off and on again. chris, a lot of nigerians have done so much evil that the world now fear all nigerians (both good and bad), and it is very sad and bad, especially for the good ones, and that was why i wrote this to enlighten foreigners on how best to date or marry a nigerian. am german and with a nigerian man since 6 months now. if truly you want to find a honest nigerian man to love and you need my assistance, then send me a personal mail on my personal e-mail: cuteefranky @ gmail dot com. nigerians in general, have unquestionable respect for their parents and would listen and obey them at any point in time. universe and will get kicked to the side for a fat, old, ugly german woman.. i truly believe god has sent me the man of my dreams. i am currently married to and so much in love with my nigerian husband.@superwoman, i am sorry to tell you that it is not real. when fairly young nigerian man gets romantically involved with much older and not so attractive western lady, there’s a very slim chance that his love is genuine. 3 years ago from l island@nicole, nigerian people of nowadays are becoming more enlightened than before. russell’s love unto death: elderly couple married for 71 years die just four minutes apart. m tired of hearing stories that nigerian men marry for rituals. it’s so funny because i’ve met so many african men and i can honesty say i know obelisk marry one.’ve been married to a ghanaian for 4 months now, what’s up? many marriages are now “white weddings” and not traditional weddings. but i also want to do my part and be the voice and pick me up toward human rights and child development. i have lots of nigerian friends even a child i am godmother to. we've got married in beginning of august 2013, he paid all expenses, bride price etc. an ibo man, wont see a future with any woman, who don't welcome his culture, who hardly show interest in it. & wedding planningwhat top questions to ask and consider before getting married or when making a marriage proposalby loryrich2. is a tragedy to the world that by clandestine means they got married..it takes two to get married and two to divorce. 3 years ago so you think that a nigerian after relationship with a non nigerian woman can come back and stay with a nigerian woman that doesnt wash hair/wig, is too laud and fat? so when dealing with an ibo man, make sure you don’t play with his wallet; therefore, if you guard his wallet for him, you will always be his best friend. had a togo africa man pretending to be in love with me wanting to get married and have children after only a few days i caught on rtf away and to him i knew what he was up to he insisted that i was wrong about him but i’m no fool ! i know a lot of you think ghanaians like going back home to get married but that is very uncommon with this generation as it is too expensive and risky. you are getting married to a nigerian man as a foreign lady read thisupdated on november 4, 2014. my friends here in germany warn me - and i agree in a lot if not all points . 3 years ago i've been engaged to my man for 21 months now. he always compare me with nigerian women, like that we are fighting every single day for silly things. am british and i have been married to a ghanian man for 40 years 4 years ago he retired took his pension money and built a house for him and his family left me my 3 children and 5 grand children if you would like to know more i will tell you. was marry to a german girl for over 12 years now. i guess like i said before, he is a master in his profession, he will charm and manipulate u, i was blinded and didn't see it, but then when i asked the lord to help me and guide me, that's when i really opened my eyes. all human forms need a social balance in their life to a degree and life cannot be one big party to a whole tribe of men. know at least 3 different guys who met their wives via the internet and finally they met and dated and got married and are still growing stronger in love as days roll by. thanks to google, i searched his name and discovered the he was happily married with 4 children in africa. asking about ones educational background , religious and personal belief i think is a usual question which every sensible woman asks when looking for a life partner. because they know if they fuck with a white woman and she finds out she will blast their ass on national television and call ins on their ass. he is the type of man that gives all nigerians a bad name.'s why, when an igbo man joins occult in the olden days, they first demand is his mothers life cos they know is hard for him to give away. yoruba man comes from the yoruba tribe, found in the south-western part of nigeria. wise man says: ‘’the truth hurt only once, but lies hurt forever’’. i have the most wonderful man i have ever known in my life. bross,just forget about nigerians man is this or that. even if the african man in question has three or four phds, and has lived in the us forever, look deeper than his superficial educational qualities. remember, marriage in nigeria is a union of two families- the man’s and the woman’s family, and as such the families would step in if things are getting out of hand and they would do whatever they can to settle the matter amicably within the family level. thing, are you now jealous of that other woman, she is still with your mutual lover and doesn’t care about your warnings - so you’re calling her desperate? and just recently started dating a 31year old igboman, his very religious & traditional when it comes to his believes and am a tradional xhosa woman so there will be a problem there, he claims not to be educated and yet the manner in which he speaks is all intelligence, his very possessive in a way he thinks everyman is after me! but i wasn't happy on my wedding day as we got married in nigeria and none of my family were there and i wasn't sure it was the right thing i was doing and none of my family knew i was getting married too they were upset that i had done it behind there back but i felt pressured as my husband begged me. ibo man could be heartless sometime while yoruba man could be reasonable in his actions(am just being honest)good luck.@confused07 it saddens me to say that a good number of nigerians in sa are into illegal activities and will never be a true representation of nigerians. just come here to advertise their scam romance, others come here to attack me.. 70% of married nigerians men and women have cheated multiple times on their spouses.

If You Are Getting Married To A Nigerian Man As A Foreign Lady

.in fact, you just nailed the truth- just pray to meet a real nigerian guy that's genuinely interested in you and you will be a happy woman forever because divorce is like a taboo in most nigerian family setting, especially the igbo. otobo to apostle suleiman: my god is stronger than you. started telling me where we was having conversations years ago when he was in university out of his country,when he started telling me this i remember becaues he was the only person in that country i talked to, he want to marry but i told him he is to young for me of course this upset him because i said this but i truly believe when you have a age difference you think differently about thing,i have never been married because i don't believe in divorce i have rings from others that were not faithful so i never went though with it-but i have told him that i want to live there he is against it and children as well,he want to be here in america with me -where we will marry and have a traditional wedding there b4 he come here-he is 32 and i am 48 i need it to be true all the way not for any other reasons or hidden agenda we are supposed to be married soon,plz talk to me tell me what you make of this. he is constantly asking me if i am seeing other men, but yet i sense that he is seeing another woman. and for that, i will keep enlightening as many foreigners as i can on how to run away from bad nigerians., i had to respond… i agree with so many of your points. he still wants to take care of me n does what he can although i dont demand much because i understan his situation. this one reason is why most nigerians who marry white ladies still go back to nigeria to marry another wife, in case the foreign lady leaves tomorrow, ''my reply to you, accofranco, is below -the message that worries me most is that you said '' the reason why nigerian men end up going back home to marry another wife is in case the foreign lady leaves tomorrow''. nigerian 2 years ago dear author,i just read some of your replies, and found that you are a nigerian man. and if you are a nigerian guy reading this article, please, do not feel bad, i am only trying to assist people (particularly innocent foreign ladies) to enjoy a happy loving relationship built on true love. as a nigerians, we never deserve to be suffering like this. ibo man: definitely very industrious and a pride to nigeria when it comes to business. i was living in nigeria before i moved to england, one of my class mate was telling me how his brother got married to a korean woman and brought her back home so that they will live together, of course, there were cultural differences she couldn't cope with. sometimes he looks for me as a wild bush man. nigerian government and multinational oil companies- shell, mobil, chevron, agip, etc destroyed the niger delta region while carrying out crude oil exploration…and also polluted their waters, such that these people didn’t have any clean water to drink…. in the more economically prosperous nations of africa like kenya, men in the cities adopt christianity and western mannerisms and ways of speaking to seem like they no longer follow the ‘african’ way of doing marriage. as a ibo man, i can never believe a woman can make me wealthy, or pay my bills. if your man is good to you & treats you well, shows you respect & consideration, you have mutual understanding, and you communicate freely. i'm seeing and igbo man, i asked if he was expected to marry a nigerian girl, he said yes, i said so this is just a 'fun' thing then, he said no not necessarily there are just steps you take before one can even think of marriage. are dying inside…most are living unhappy life inside their mansions and luxury cars. i’m married into a very,very christian valued family. it will be nice to ask questions about ” dui convictions, “, it will serve as a primary focus of the officers assessment,In a nut shell, these west african men , have to be removed from the homes even if they made the call, they are very familiar with the system and will destroy the woman by lies, manufacturing of stories , self inflicting of wounds, destruction of property to make beleive he is in harms way. i think i need a good lawyer who can advice me about juridical things with nigerian laws. african men it’s true i’m married to an african man for only 4 months it’s hell on earth always sneaking off taking calls show a text from another woman he was replying bro her text baby i’m at work it never stops i can feel it it’s always something i sware if you want to date a african man date first look for signs it’s the worse relationship in my life the husband from hell seriously i’m ready for a divorce. we as nigerians need to start seeing each other in a more positive light as unity overcomes a lot. menhow to make a man committed and propose for marriageby accofranco11. now, i don't know if its different in nigerian, but in the us. 3 years ago i am sorry, as a nigerian woman i am sad to see what mr. i have met and plan to marry a very special ghanaian man with values and loyalties. only wanted to use this medium to assist innocent foreign women who fall prey to some unscrupulous and unworthy nigerian guys who go abroad tarnishing the image of nigerian guys in the eyes and hearts of foreign women and men. though you may have skewed observations since you are a man afterall! my stupid cousin who later became citizen, married twice ( 2 senegalese men) that gave her kids and abandoned her the moment they received their green card, hell they didn’t even wait around for the citizenship lol. and for the man, he is not happy having a depressed wife. i’ve dated a mauritanian man who was a con artist. every single nigerian man i have ever met, worked with, seen, heard about, have all cheated on their wives and treat them like dogs. i was ignorant enough not to assert my self that the first thing nigerians in a foreign land will do is to ensure thst their immigration status is sorted before anything and trust me that they will do anything to acquire this. are some of my brother's friends that were single, never been married before, that were born in england, grew up in england but yet these men ended up travelling back home to look for wives and yes indeed, they married these nigerian women as a first option and these nigerian girls are well brought up. we as nigerians need to start seeing each other in a more positive light as unity overcomes a lot. for a woman with more traditional family values like myself. he is good in manipulating and charming his way through everything, he is a master in his profession, but i noticed it later on and he knew that he couldn't charm me and manipulate me anymore. you need to win your husband back…even though you made a great mistake marrying a man older than you by 18 years with kids…plus racial and cultural differences. is no 'template' that a demographic in society fits into, two different nigerians from the same tribe are inherently different. autralia 3 years ago wow i did enjoyed all these stories and thanks to the person that wrote this acticle, well i'm nigerian live in autralia and married to a phillipina lady and we had a beautiful daughter, now to be sincere i love white lady to bit and i can't marry to any black woman inrespective of where she comes from include my nigerian women but the issues with white ladies is , they wanna be the head of the house however there's noway you can do that to a nigerian guy, and they always talk about egual right, sorry bro, in africa, men are the head of the house, so if you white ladies love a nigerian men, then you should learn the culture and be ready to live in nigeria also bc nigeria men love their country. also: 10 delicious nigerian food you must eat before you die. i am marrie ied to nigerian for 5yrs now and we have one beautiful daughter. knowing he is still married but his family lives in nigeria and he had to support his kids..yes i thank god, that i am nowhere near like that story coz i heard about that story you mentioned, poor woman and my condolences to her family, yes i thank god every single day of my life, that i didn't let it go as far as any other woman has. the yoruba culture that you are asked, the yoruba tribe of nigeria has a very beautiful and friendly culture that has been embraced by so many western nations like united kingdom, etc. knows too well that all men- american, arab, asian, australian, africa, british, indian, carribean, jamaican, filipino, jewish, german, just name it, love and wish to date and marry a physically attractive woman! after 40 days of tears and pain for this man, he finally phoned me and told me everything about him. love hearing and reading good testimonies like thise about love, romance, marriage, interracial dating and marriage because interracial marriage remains one of the ways the world can unite as one, thanks for sharing. i have tried approaching this as a nigerian who grew up in a diverse nigerian-uk community where we were all happy as children and now as adults relating in love and kiinship. you really love someone and fear god ,and won’t like seeing your sister or daughter misused /treated badly,this will make you as a real man to be conscious about treating a woman badly and a fellow black woman for that matter again. holla on that girlfriend i am married to a east african who is the love of my life ! you know, the first step to solving any human problem is recognition of the problem. 3 years ago i met a nigerian online months ago and i wasnt quite sure if i wanted to even have a conversation. a real man is not threatened by an educated loving woman. this was said by a young man who was educated in the west and speaks like an englishman! i am 24 and have met a nigerian man (yarouba tribe).#bbnaija: gifty powers delves into comedy but makes a mess of herself; nigerians reacts. enjoy your life and be smart about the choices you make if you decide to pursue a relationship with any man not just men from nigeria be wise and most importantly try avoid from the internetaswell, just go out with your friends and meet people. therefore nigerian men are likely to offer a unique approach towards dating, and perhaps offer a different future than what the lady thinks. 4 years ago from l islandhello @elikem, if you did read this write-up thoroughly, you ought to have noticed that i didn't say all nigerians are bad, of course i can't say such because i am also a nigerian, proud nigerian, so i see no reason to castigate my own country people. as women, we tend to overlook some things while dating and that is something we need to work on regardless of where the man is from. the reality is that many white men come from cultures that do not necessarily subject women to forced female genital mutilation, pay bride-price for them (or buy) them from their fathers, rip them open on the wedding night, make demands that the wife give birth to the odd three or four sons, and beat them up whenever they burn food, iron shirts the wrong way, do not till the land well, serve supper late, refuse sex because they are sick or pregnant again, etc. to wrap it up, ibo man is just similar to a chinese man in terms of- money consciousness, creativity, and craftsmanship. but if you’re circumspect you’d fine great guys- from great families and well educated if you can manage their ego. 3 years ago i am african america who has been dating a igbo man for a year i am suppose to go to nigeria next year to meet . i was married to a zambian who jilted me some years ago (immigration-wise). if you truly want to go far with him and possibly think about marriage or serious commitment with a nigerian guy, please avoid demanding money or unnecessary gifts from him else, he will see you as a gold digger or a wayward girl out for money. as dating progressed i find out he was not only married once but twice, had two additional kids instead of just the one he told me about and lied about having his fee card through his previous marriages. find it and write me indicating you are kittycat from hubpages dating a nigerian, then give me a brief of the story to help me remember. nigerian men are known for being very smart and charming and can thus cheat their way around anything just to get you..again 2 years ago hi frank,i wrote to you awhile ago about my sick nigerian husband and that i sent him money because i want him healthy besides i'm not ready to shave my head. 2 years ago hi accofranco,as you know i'm not racist, i have dated a nigerian man, the topic is about helping these women to realize these men are scammers, they will move heaven and earth to gain what they want. i just didn’t know the man that i married was after a green card. for all those western women with attitudes before you bash nigerian men expecting them to be prince charming forever please look at yourself what have you offer your man for him to give up all the beautiful, submissive, obedient women in their own country. please keep writing and shedding light on intelligence, grace and how beautiful the soul is of a well-intentioned nigerian man and the happiness the permeates from it. i'm a traditional italian woman, i do not believe in divorce, and i've always wanted the traditional marriage dynamic: woman takes care of the household and children, man provides for the family, and he is the king of his castle.. citizens they always tell the african man go get an “akata women and marry” akata referred to african americans people. however, nigerian men embrace the modernity of the world and approach their relationships with a global state of mind. i married an african man from mali we moved in together and he would not put me on his bank account. me, i have heard so many stories about the name callings, black moneys this, black moneys that, or the word '' niggers' when they are quarreling with there husbands or in-laws.

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Nigerian Men and Relationships – Is it wise to date them?

 3 years ago my friend met a nigerian guy age 24 in malaysia two years ago, she’s 40 years old, asian and had recently gone through a bad divorced . young nigerians have mastered their profession, they are all sweet talkers, they know how to approach and exactly what to say to that particular type of western woman they targeting. if foreign ladies can start to accept this- going back to nigeria to stay permanently till old age with the nigerian men they are married to, and not desiring to go back to their country to live forever, or refusing the man from taking the children to nigeria to live like citizens, then it will be difficult and a waste of time marrying a foreign lady. he is nigerian and he us planning to visit the states in june and that’s when we will meet . nigeria comprises of so many tribes, but the major tribes or dominant tribes in nigeria are: ibo, hausa, and yoruba. despite the cheeriness of the locals the country is a mess in many regards. a young kenyan member of parliament declared in 2015 in parliament that “an african wife should expect to be a co-wife as soon as she is married”. play on weak women emotionally i must admit i fall into single women category because i am educated,good looking enough,intelligent and smart,financially capable but i still crave strong moral correctly african man,hardworking,intelligent and confident who will respect me as woman and life partner in turn am absolutely ready to compromise and be a housewife putting the need of my partner at hands in african tradition way but i have ended up with scammers both times so i don't hold any hope at all,am in my early 30's,it's important women share these stories to warn others,am so ashamed from an african perspective these guys are all intelligent why chose a life of using their bodies to finance life in europe i have lived here worked hard to invest back home why can't they use their brain to achieve their goals,why can't they use their smartness for good use instead of scamming vurnalable women very heartless and cruel, i believe god doesn't allow these people to enjoy their life in harmony, i don't understand it like this last guy we are literally compartible in many ways but he chose to throw away a good woman whom worshipped the ground he walks in for uncessary greediness and disrespectful behaviour he has no family here in europe apart from the child whom he i don't think he cares about. the truth is, there are so many inter-tribal children more than a lot of nigerian realise, especially between yorubas and ibos, so we need to stop this south west, east and north divide and begin to embrace ourselves. when you get married the same will be true, especially when you start meeting you in-laws and they lavish you with love and kindness, which was my experience. newsfuel price hike imminent: nnpc to review pricing as ptd suspend strike love & romance. this one reason is why most nigerians who marry white ladies still go back to nigeria to marry another wife, in case the foreign lady leaves tomorrow, cos she must leave or let me say she must reject the idea of going back to nigeria with the husband to live permanently like citizens. then african man marries african americans woman get his green card and run the fuck off. met this nigerian almost a year ago when he came to my country as a volunteer researcher. many of you may break up with your long distance pretend-to-be-boyfriends but something tells me that you are looking for your new love on one of the dating sites again. closing remarks of a nigerian man preferring to marry a nigerian is also dated and lopsided..Elikem 4 years ago am going out with a nigerian guy in my country, and he has shown me he loves me very much. i would like to make it known that divorce is not lucrative for 'western' woman. im curious because most marriages of africans i know married to americans lasted 6 years then divorced. there have been too many broken relationships due to tribalism yet you will find some of these tribalist accepting a non-nigerian due to tribal prejudice. honest take is if you love him enough to marry him, then pay special attention to learning the african culture (respect, morality, family values) if you can, make nigerian friends and research as well. this is huge and the main reason why i don’t think i’ll marry an african man, though i’m open to it….?i told him this after i found out but he doesn't seems to care, i only knew he wanted to take advantage of me because he started saying he has used up his tax return money from last year which he was overpayed and he is required to pay from his salary for some three months to clear his debt so he will be struggling and may be lose his flat so the story became too familiar from my first experience i decided to dig deep into his affairs and realised he even left me to go see one of his women he sees for money right under my nose after reading texts from his phone,i particularly feel sorry for one the girls that he proclaimed he was seeing before me but in truth they still see because from his text he has beaten up this girls because she wasn't accepting what he wanted her to do (all these learned from going through his phone)she earn less than him yet he takes money from her every month she is a slovakian attractive white girl,to behonest it's not only older white females fall for this scammers even good looking young white females fall for this scams as well as black girls from other countries who doesn't understand nigerian culture very well,it's not only through online even face to face meeting you can meet these scammers when they get to know you better the usual storyline that they are having some sort of troubles and that you are their only options at the time. at the time i lost my job so it was hard for me to travel back and forth, once i got a job, i planned my trip again, but in the meantime i was looking and digging for information, to then i realised he has been chatting to other women, now i found out about one of them so i confronted him and asked him about this woman, he didn't know what to say coz i caught him out on it, he told me that he will tell me about her later on, but he knew i caught him out on his lies, here i was thinking that he loved me, that i was his treasure and how he thanked god for giving someone like me to him, that he made all these promises and that i am his only one. and gender equality are good practices, but dear single and married ladies, please don't let that man-made laws and policies destroy your life's happiness because not all man-made laws bring happiness when you follow them. luck everyone, may god be with you all and if your still not certain about your nigerian man please read my comments & notactix comments. & tips for women in relationshipsimportant things you need to know as a foreign lady before you marry a nigerian manby accofranco49. do i find true love, how do i find the right life partner, how do i know that my boyfriend wants me for marriage, how do i know that my boyfriend truly loves me, how do i avoid being used and dumped by a man? we nigerians love our motherland no matter where we maybe living presently; no nigerian (the igbo tribes to be more specific) would want to live abroad forever and also his children and grandchildren, no no. he says his late father was a rasterfari who married a local woman. good, honest nigerian man simply can't get chance to go through and meet someone because of so many heart breaking stories caused by bad nigerian boys. let’s take a look at reasons why you should or should not date nigerian men. he doesn’t speak his language, ibo fluently but when he talks on the phone i always wonder if hes talking to another woman. then 12 years later, i met a man from the drc, like nigeria, he was a good deal older than me but by me being older and a little bit wiser to the game, i went in with my eyes wide open. 2 years ago accorfranco , i was browsing the net to search articles about nigerian culture when i stumble your blog, i desperately need advise . it comes down to common sense and being honest with yourself when analyzing that special someone's mannerisms. i don't wanna get marry any more unless ill find a good man. also it didn’t say all africans it said specifically nigerians. some of the european white, pretending to love nigerian and the culture to entice the man into marriage and after that, they will change and start showing how they wish the man should live forever in her country, instead planning how the can invest and visit the husband home country, even though we live in your town, we don't like everything there too, we do miss home, even if is the worst place on earth to you. this happens when the man in question is truly in love with the lady and wants to know her more to avoid jumping into marriage with her to regret later. nigeria must be rid off all manner of evil people; so if it entails telling the unimaginable truth, i will! i broke up with him because he is emotionless, not romantic at all, lazy and wants to sleep his life away because he worked 40 hours in a week… like he’s the only one who does that. if my husband's heart so ached for permanent residency in nigeria, then that is where we must be, together. 3 years ago your that post is things about nigerians what do have with them i hope u know that nigerians are not the only people out there searching for geener passture and more or better mind what you say and how u say theem. if a man is going to cheat he’s going to cheat. i’m a white american who was living in swaziland and was in a relationship with a swazi man for three years. 3 years ago from l island@andrea, i didn't really understood your comment but from the little i grabbed, its quite a difficult situation when the mother of your man is so involved in your relationship. 3 years ago am a south african woman dating a stubborn ibo man who has this idea that he is king and should be treated as 1, am very traditional and so is he and that on its on is a problem, am strong willed. most are too materialistic, too demanding, too exorbitant, and when their man fails to meet up with most of their unnecessary demands, they most times end up cheating on the man or maybe start to deny him most of his manly rights in the house. 2 years ago from l island@pondering sos, that's why i said, before you fall for a nigerian man or any foreign man, make sure you know his residency status to know if he just want you for papers or for keeps. even being a beautiful woman does not a marriage make! i ask him to figure out which parts of his nigerian culture would be most important to hand down to his children and he said he would think about that. the funny part of this, is that most of these white women are married to black men or have mixed race kids with these black men they are blasting about on the internet.[…] from tyesha: a proud “african” american woman who dated a cameroonian for over a year…  read more […]. if not, you will soon find yourself being with a married guy who you thought was single. so many signs, red lights cropped up along the way. i felt numb i could not move, angry and i was heartbroken and had been deceived by this man for 2 years. am mauritanian man, if you have any insight or helpful tips things to look out for, please share. do I find true love, how do I find the right life partner, how do I know that my boyfriend wants me for marriage, how do I know that my boyfriend truly loves me, how do I avoid being used and dumped by a man? cant be older,fat,uneducated and expect to snare any man be it nigerian. he careful, nigerians will do whatever it takes to get away from nigeria good luck tho. i told him that i want a normal relationship, a man i can see every day..you might have a strong minority predisposed to excessive leisurely activities but it would be wrong to have your main description of a whole tribe of men as "if you want a yoruba man to have you at heart, always take him to parties, and if possible, organize parties for him often, and you’re his best friend" and "yoruba man loves partying, celebrations and ceremonies, and he wouldn’t mind borrowing to celebrate a ceremony- be it burial, child-naming, birthday, marriage, memorial, etc". had been married for a while and things were ok, i was in love with her, she was crazy about me, but later on everything changed and by complicated exterior circumstances which did not have to do with us, we decided to pause for a while, but still remain friends. and there husbands brought them back to england, not like most nigeria men that will marry a nigerian girls and keep them back home as a second option just in case the white wives disappoints them., most of the aforementioned class of nigerians would rather prefer to come back home and look for a wife, you know why? i know his job is very demanding, and i am a very loyal person so regardless of which direction our relationship goes i don't want him to be disappointed because he's great man. he wants to marry a white woman, and that would be me, since he met me and chose me over an australian woman he had also met online.’ve been dating a nigerian man for almost a year.. me and my ex are in our late twenties early thirties, this woman is almost late forties early fifties. give you a basic understanding of the nigerian man, i will classify them in three, based on the three major tribes- ibo, yoruba, and hausa. another quote by me: "no man exist without a spiritual image; which maybe positive or negative spirit". everything a woman does in this life is meant to satisfy you and when the woman has an opinion or her own dreams, she is not being submissive. the average nigerian looks at anyone with white skin like a millionaire. want to believe if these foreign ladies see their nigerian men as the head of the family and give them the due respect many marriages will work out well. was in a relationship with a gambian man and i’m from the us. some nigerian men will argue that they are not ewondo men,, but caneroon and nigeria , were one country in the past, these countries share a common boundary. i know how to go through life without a man, love myself and be confident and beautiful. i too have been in a relationship with a nigerian man for almost 4 months (we dated for 1). i have written so many books, though yet to be published, about this issue.@confused07 it saddens me to say that a good number of nigerians in sa are into illegal activities and will never be a true representation of nigerians. i guess by over empowerment you mean i can throw your behind in jail if you put your hands on me cuz i know it's a norm in your country and the woman keeps her mouth shut and says nothing . 4 years ago from l island@angelina & weary, i am happy to hear the hilarious comments about nigerian men from foreign ladies like you two.

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because sometime nigerian men could be clever made it look real mature and professional but they do copy another nigrian guys. 2 years ago hi accofrancoam so grateful i came through your article god bless you in abundance for this it has opened my eyes also thanks to anonymous contributor and noactix,i am currently going through this literally from thursday last week i have broken up with my latest nigerian so called boyfriend who we were planning future together,it's a long story but anyway we are both from similar backgrounds religion wise and family set-up,just from different countries (both africans)am a victim of nigerian scams so far dated two of them both yorubas (tribes has nothing to do with their behaviour)luckily the second one didn't manage to scam me because i already learned my lesson with the first one so had warning signs infront of me to avaoid it(the current ex-bf i just found out he was dating two other white girls scamming them for money i have their numbers i got from his phone after stayed at his place for a couple of weeks to get to know eachother even better,he lives in vienna and i live in uk with british passport however he has a kid with austrian woman i don't understand why he hasn't got citizenship to-date since he has lived there more than 10 years (through marriage)and also found out his nigerian passport has expired so was suspicious of him and his mannerism so i decided to dig deeper i know may be i shouldn't intrude into his privacy but i had no choice since i have 2 kids too which am very protective of,and he has 1 i know of,we are both divorced for different reasons but i from much more good background than his,i was treating him like a king african style still he left me one saturday afternoon to see the white girl and to get some money (i noticed it when we were making . again, i want to stress again that i am going to be as honest as possible in disclosing some useful information that would assist all foreign ladies desiring to marry a nigerian man. yes, our men need to embrace the changes in family and romance. 18 months ago from l islandyes, many nigerian men given opportunity nowadays, will prefer to marry non-nigerian ladies basically because of nigerian ladies recent attitude towards money and material things; its kind of shameful though..by the special grace of god, i have been assisting so many ladies and men to fix their relationships through free counselling, consulting and even sending them free e-books, and counselling articles. i know how you feel, and please i didn't write this to destroy nigerians' image, i wrote it because i care a lot about nigerians, and because i am a nigerian. how did you find out if he was married back home? he doesn't talk to the woman or daughter apart from when he decides which is like every few years. some ladies are just close minded and they think no he isn't like all these other bad nigerians, maybe not, but half of the comments i've read so far since the last time i was on here show me different. because his some siblings lives in international for study, work and married lives inside their country. 4 years ago from l island@weary, one thing we the nigerian men have learned from history is the fact that when we (nigerians) marry foreign (white) ladies with all our heart in the hope of staying with them forever, they have a different plan all together. let me ask all of you a question – how many of you aa ladies and ladies have been back to the motherland? i cannot believe that any of you seemingly educated women did not have the foresight to be cautious with your hearts (whatever the race of man you got involved with). (actually, in my social circle i have yet to meet a swazi man that has not cheated. if foreign ladies can start to accept this- going back to nigeria to stay permanently till old age with the nigerian men they are married to, and not desiring to go back to their country to live forever, or refusing the man from taking the children to nigeria to live like citizens, then it will be difficult and a waste of time marrying a foreign lady. are a number of ways in which a lady can initiate a relationship with a nigerian man. but recently, nigerians (especially the ladies) have adopted this western culture of not seeing men as the head and an asset, which is why you now hear and witness more divorce cases amongst nigerian couples too. it hurt me to my soul because this was my man and i can put on my life this man has never cheated in me in the 2 years we were together. also: 10 delicious nigerian food you must eat before you die. so if you are white woman in love, you have to respect yourself and don't think being in your country, you can do anything you like cos that will make us start thinking of going home to the ones we know. pure oscar performance master-act in order to obtain material goods from their victims or western country visa! he proclaimed to be a man of god but he was a wolf and sheep clothing. this man showed me nothing but attention, care and love. it is easier for a lady to find the right partner than for a man. he wast romantic enough for me as far as buying me flowers, surprising me at work, buying me stuff. these are they same black women that carried these black men for 9 months in there tummy and yet what we are getting is, our nigerian brother having us as second option in marriage..if you date nigerian man online, you would find at least 8 out of 10 are scammers.'twanttomentionhername 3 years ago too many negative things i heard, saw, and felt about nigerian. man has chased me since 2009 stalking me then,i would not talk to him for yrs so finally in 2011 i decide to answer him and at first i didn't even know he was the same man from another web site until he asked me if i remember him, i said yea from this site and he told me no. actually being married to an african man, i have to disagree with the stereotypical ideas stated. i am currently dating a nigerian guy who is 30 and i am 31. not only romance scam, there are lots and lots of other scamming activities, they became so professional in past few years that they even operate as a syndicate! 4 years ago so you're saying that even if he lives here, works here, studied here to the graduate level, and has taken well to the "finer things in life" american-style, and is seeing a white american girl here, he will still go home and marry a nigerian girl? i know i want him too but i fear so many things. god will heal your heart and send the right man your way soonest. it is normally essential to find out about nigerian men and relationships especially their behaviours and cultural background just to find out how it could affect or influence your dating and relationships. a few of your questions, yes, majority of nigerian men care so much about having their own children. i have been contact my friends who from nigerians too because i went their church and whole of nigerian people are friendly and carings. he just wasn’t romantic enough as far as flowers, and chocolate and all the dumb stuff that really didn’t matter. western countries and high divorce rate, you and i don't need a suitsayer to tell us that there is absolutely high rate of divorce in the western countries like- uk, usa, australia, canada, germany, etc, and it is as a result of some government policies that over-empowered women to the detriment of traditional values that favour family stability and peace that ancient people enjoyed. think before yes, they used to go back home to get married not anymore. no matter what they say, don’t marry an african man..i know all african men are not the same but the majority of black woman have been taken advantage of. we have been married for five years now and have got two boys we got engaged when i was pregnant with my first son..and if you read my book or ebook titled: "before you marry your nigerian man", you can search for it on amazon kindle store, lulu, ibook, etc, you will read where i said the same thing that some nigerian men love foreign women and would prefer to marry a foreign woman; most times, their preference is always caucasian (white). short story met a nigerian man here in the us. we all know when we have a sketchy african man, let him go…. have a few good nigerians in my country that i know, so they are not bad, but yes your right those nigerians like my ex don't make it easier for these nice nigerians out there. bottom line, though… too many of my african female friends (and now me) have been abused by african men and going through this experience reminded me how lucky i am to be an american. stop listening to the white man who peddle this rumour that white woman are looking for black men to bed, black men only pick up ugly fat white women.@ashley, unfortunately, most nigerians in south africa aren't the true-representative of nigerians. nigerians do not observe the past strict cultures that were regulating the nature of relationships. feel intimidated when they are married to a highly educated woman, so they use all tactics they know to overshadow her and make her submit to their leadership. i left him in november and moved back home… abuse… too many lies… and then the side chick. women are unfaithful and go out having sex with any man who looks their way! really need to get a copy of my book: “before you marry your nigerian man” it will help you fix your marriage. im in need of help, im a 23 year old us black girl and i have met a nigerian man online. i have taken so many risks for my readers and fans even though i haven't seen any. he was married before and ended up divorced after cheating on his ex-wife twice. he was married previously for 5 years but it ended in divorce. 4 years ago i live in australia and i'm engaged to a nigerian man. men irrespective of their shortcomings remains one of the best men in the whole world- nigerian men are hardworking, ambitious, intelligent, brave, strong, most handsome, lively, witty and very smart, which make them the favourite of men amongst other men in the whole world, and if not for bad government in nigeria which pushed some unworthy and selfish nigerian men into doing all sorts of illegal human activities- from drug trafficking, to romance scam, to advance fee fraud, i can guarantee you that nigerian men would have been endangered specie and most sought after men in the whole world due to their numerous excellent male qualities. have you asked yourself the question that if this guy decides to go back to nigeria to live permanently, are you ready to go with him? it is this trait that earned ibos criticisms from other nigerian tribes, because in whatever they are doing, they are always conscious of what they would gain financially.'m also a firm believer in love before race and find all this issues about nigerian men stereotypical to say the least,how about looking at each individual as a human first,and all humans regardless or race or tribe are full of bad and good people. i am asking because: "chinyere" is a nigerian female name meaning: god gives. met a 32 yo edo man online, we chatted offline quickly (my choice) i felt an ease & chemistry between us that came naturally. i have no problem learning to cook nigerian foods or even his language, but i only know to pass down my christian midwest values, just like his christian nigerian values. of knowing that he was with many other women at the same time doing the same thing, you still love him? it means that nigerians who practices polygamy are the muslims, while it is not allowed in the christian regions. this friendly approach towards interacting with the rest of the world makes nigerian men attractive and appealing. you have questions, just ask and let's debate since you are married to a nigerian man already. eye-opening book for foreign ladies dating nigerian mendear fans and readers,I want to officially announce to you guys the launch of my eye-opening book titled: "before you marry your nigerian man", which i want to advice and encourage all foreign ladies dating, in a relationship or married to a nigerian man to get a copy. there are several reputable restaurants and bars within the country that offer good opportunities for individuals to search for a suitable nigerian man. it was a nigerian women that raised you up when your father wasn't always around. we have talked about our past lives and relationships and what we expect for our marage we have both been married i have older children and he has a young son who we plan to bring to australia when we marry , we have planed to travel to nigeria when ever we can and to make a loving caring home for both our children he knows he will not have anymore and is content with that . i could only guess as to why, but i can’t even tell you how many times my boyfriend’s friends either tried to get with me or said “hook me up with one of your white sisters… i’ve always wanted to be with a white woman” funny, but very annoying after a while. do believe in nigerian culture all different types of ethnics. if you exercise proper caution and utilize positive relationship behaviors (as you would in any endeavor in your life) you can significantly reduce your chance of falling prey to a scam romance and greatly increase your chances of having the relationship of your dreams. if you’re gonna find a man in 2015 who consciously likes and prefers black women, no shade to white women, it’ll probably be an aa man.'m an igbo girl, thank god i'm married to an igbo man and i'm proud of him. but then i ask, why then do you want to marry a man you cannot or do not cherish his country and want to live in his country forever with?

Are justin and selena still dating 2016, i have learned my lesson: never date an african man and all african men are cheaters!. so my advice to any other woman out there, please, please i beg of you, my story is real, please be very careful when dating a nigerian man, if he is scamming, then you know he still is, don't believe him bcoz he will charm you to make you believe that he is loyal to you, any sign of gut instinct telling you something isn't quiet right, then please listen to it, never follow your heart, bcoz even our hearts sometimes can't distinguish the two. anyway, he wants to get married and i’m willing to. thus, if a lady offers a nigerian man the chance at a relationship, they will find the endeavor to be fruitful and beneficial in the long run. she was only one of many used by this scumbag for money..as for every other women out there, who is a forgeiner aboard, who are dating these young/younger nigerian men from malaysia, thailand, nigeria, arab and any other place in this world. we dated for 2 years and have been married for 2 years..have opened a personal blog just to enlighten foreign women, but over the years of my involvement in this issue of helping foreign women avoid scam online romance, i have also noticed that most foreign ladies who get scammed by unscrupulous nigerian guys aren't all that innocent on their own side, how? i was excited but then my excitement turned into anger in the matter of minutes because he told me that he was married to another woman from his country. (2) as an african man myself i can tell you he didn’t want to put you on his account because he thought you spend money needlessly and would run his account down( i took my afriacn american wife off my account because of that)..Concerned sis 11 months ago my sister is in love with a yoruba man, she is 49 and he is 37. want to remind you, that i have been where these ladies have been, when dating a nigerian man and i hope and pray that they don't fall into a trap and can't get out.- ways 4 years ago enough of all these shit about nigeria guys all the time, all these ladies complaining, don't they have men, good enough to marry them except nigerians. he is a businessman, have money, like to travel abroad. there are many reasons for these unhappy events, but majority of these relationships began as a genuine, honest, true relationships that grew in to marriages, which then, at some point, took unfortunate paths and sadly came to an end. 3 years ago hi accofranco, i'm so glad to say that i'm dating a nigerian gentleman, i am so in love with him, we meet early last year in may via social network, yes! hausa man: the hausas are pleasantly simple in their ways and can still be peaceful even with their religion. if you are not, then you really need to think twice about it because a man's religious belief matters so much in defining who he will be in future. i am 20 years old and dating a african man who was born in the u. he found a new nigerian girl of his tribe kicked and asked his sister to look after our kids as he needed to ensure that his girlfriend was not disturbed. as the global economy is today, many men aren't ready to marry a woman who has nothing doing and not earning money to take care of her own needs. is important to mention to ladies -foreign or not- that you cannot base your judgements about your relationships on recommendations made on the internet as we humans are predisposed to favoritism whether intentional or not. learned one or two things about the nigerian man, let’s now look at some vital facts you mustn’t ignore when deciding to date or marry a nigerian man abroad. be honest with you, i do not care who ever any one here are married to.!i am married to a british national with indian heritage (by the way i was already british before we got married) and i think she'd find your views untrue as well. the man is known as an astute and visionary business mogul in nigeria with strong political ties. having been brought up in a community of nigerians consisting of all three major nigerian tribes and other minority tribes, i must say that your depiction of men from the three tribes either exaggerates some characteristics or just fails to promote some more obvious endearing characters they all possess. however, this is simply a dream for us as the cost of living demands a two income family. or will i say most of the storylines are ancient; things that happened so many years ago or things that never happened but imagined and acted to captivate the audience to make money and fame. we’ve only been married a year but we’re very very happy. i’m tired of aa men and have also dated jamaican and haitian men, but the west african man i see now is the best. nigerian men are known for being very smart and charming and can thus cheat their way around anything just to get you. i am ghanaian man, and yes some of my brothers are not decent in their approach to life, and some are wreck-less with their treatment of women. l 3 years ago as a foreigner never marry to a nigeria man that doesn't have papers. unfortunately, the bad ones are more visible to foreign women; hence the reason many foreign women are ending up with the wrong or bad nigerian men. i am white and have been happily married to a nigerian for 30years. plus like someone mentioned above, polygamy is accepted in most african countries so the typical african men will cheat night and day without remorse because it is ingrained in their brains that having many women is the norm. how many of you woman are true ladies in the old school sense?. or which many countries and cultures you have never experienced. do i convice this man that am not a "typical" s. wrote the book after years of helping foreign ladies fix their relationships and after helping to guide foreign ladies to make the best choice when befriending nigerian men. it's not fair and it's really heart breaking and you are the first igbo man i've heard say something of this nature. the yoruba man loves peace a lot, and he is ready to part away with his money to make peace. are a many good guys around waiting patiently for you. he treats me like a princess, and he loves cooking which i hear is not traditional for a man to cook in his culture. you think it’s true or false that porsha’s dating this married african billionaire? i don't need a woman for progress in this life, cos i know my potentials. there are way too many people on the continent of africa to call them all bad. i am happy with my life met my husband who is a nigerian while still a teenager and together we have stayed got married two beautiful girls and he has inspired me to levels that we both now have a doctorate.'m a british nigerian married to a british indian (oh. i am an independent woman who loves my husband but im not needy.@shelvy, yes, i know that innocent nigerians are paying the prize of the evil some bad nigerians are doing, that's life. 2 years ago i am dating an ibo in south africa , he has a permit and he is running his business which is growing , for the first time i feel loved , he respects me , and treats me like a queen , he calls me obi’m or nne’m, he's proposed and wants to meet my family , he has also introduced me to his brothers this side and they also respect me , his sisters are married and living in nigeria and i also talk with them, he also wants me to visit his father in nigeria ! you truly have interest in nigerian men, and you want to marry or date a nigerian man, search for those living comfortably in nigeria or abroad with the above qualities (good education, good family background, legal residence, etc, etc). if you are a white woman they treat them like gold and even talks bad about their african sister to the white woman. i cannot believe that any of you seemingly educated women did not have the foresight to be cautious with your hearts (whatever the race of man you got involved with). before you do, try and get a copy of my book titled: “before you marry your nigerian man”. i would advice any woman from outside africa who would like to make a home with an african man to consider this issue very seriously. it is difficult for any west african man to be in harms way with a very skinny woman, the west african man is physically stronger, taller and weighs more than the woman. at least if he wants another woman he will marry her not multiple concubines at the same time. also to the gentleman who commented about precieved lack of american culture…that is a very ignorant statement just because women do not submit…we have our own culture which we have assimilated and adapted to our own. observing this trend for years, i became angry and felt like rising against the scourge of romance scam that some unworthy nigerian guys engage in thereby making all nigerian men look evil in the eyes of foreigners. note this, any shop, business, etc owned by a nigerian in your country, go and find out, it is owned or founded by an ibo man. i’m a singer / songwriter and author and want to be able to spread my humanitarian efforts into the county. nigerian men start getting assurance that foreign women are ready to marry them and live/stay with them forever and not going back to their home country with the kids when the nigerian man gets old or dies, believe me, nigerian men will stop marrying a second wife back home after getting married to a foreign woman. hausa man is peace-loving without his religion (islam), he is generous, in fact, he is the most generous man amongst all nigerian tribes, he’s not so conscious of money, and he’s ready to die for his religious belief. 3 years ago yes for those ladies who are looking to date or marry an african man. i have been cinversating with both an igbo and a yoruba man.'m also a firm believer in love before race and find all this issues about nigerian men stereotypical to say the least,how about looking at each individual as a human first,and all humans regardless or race or tribe are full of bad and good people. imagine what kind of desperation would push a young and beautiful educated woman to do a thing like that! once the woman is married, the man’s true colors start to come out. you guys are starting to come up short on women really being interested because you are none to be extremely demanding and lazy in relationships. culture frowns at a woman providing entirely for the family, or will i say being the breadwinner. a nigerian man that finally made the harsh decision to leave his homeland to migrate to a foreign nation without legal travel and resident permits will do anything beyond his comfort to remain in that foreign nation because he knows that home is not the best for him. it happened also to 5 or 6 of my female relatives that married the men. i personally would never have any desire to date an american black man from all the lies hurt and cheating they put me through. it is callous of you as a nigerian to write such an article. youths are not ready to fight another war…and nigerians have really integrated so much that it will be impossible for us to have another civil war. if you date or marry another african man make sure you look before you leap. however, this is simply a dream for us as the cost of living demands a two income family. there are one million and one good and lovely nigerian men, but its quiet unfortunate that foreign women keep meeting the bad nigerian men. it is a stain on the woman as well as cause economic downturn as well. first, let me start with this:nigerian civil war ended in 1969 and there can never be another civil war in nigeria, you know why? Is there a better dating app than tinder -  3 years ago my friend met a nigerian guy age 24 in malaysia two years ago, she’s 40 years old, asian and had recently gone through a bad divorced . is important to mention to ladies -foreign or not- that you cannot base your judgements about your relationships on recommendations made on the internet as we humans are predisposed to favoritism whether intentional or not. there is more hearth broken in nigeria than western country from nigerians..he stayed with me until his visa expired he returned to nigeria so i travelled over there to get married. day this korean wife were quarreling with her black in-laws sisters and guess what she called her in-laws, '' black monkeys'' immediate her nigerian igbo husband came back from work, of course his sisters told their brother what the korean wife called them '' black moneys'' guess what this igbo husband did to his korean wife, i do not support domestic violence. run a corporate firm and because of ridiculous notions like this my hr personnel do not look at nigerian applicants more than once cuz they assume everything on that resume is a lie no matter the experience. have been married to a ghanian for 28 years and would love to chat with you. in igbo culture, a man that cannot father his own child is kind of ridiculed by his mate and peers. will send you a video clip of a racist comment made by your foreign lady to her nigerian husband. i don't know about the ibos being linked to jews but i do know that they are true nigerian men. it is normally essential to find out about nigerian men and relationships especially their behaviours and cultural background just to find out how it could affect or influence your dating and relationships. i’ve heard that in many african languages there is no word for love in the exact way that americans use it so they’ll say it knowing its gets us going. now me in the other hand, when he do step out of line, i say my peace and we both threaten to blackmail each other by saying we will get nana involved…neither 1 of us wants nana nor grandpoppie involved…i love my ghanaian man. one thing we nigerian guys love about you foreign ladies is the fact that you ladies are selfless with your love. 4 years ago hi gal i love you you have been so helpful because i am separating from my edo man in few days time. a ghana man it was the beginning of a horrible nightmare he cheated put me down and call me when he needed a favor i was good for that at the beginning of the relationship he was so good call all the time and go our but soon another girl come around he would pick a fight and when he was done with her then he was my friend again. submission,take time to study the kind of nigerian man you meet. a man or woman is never successful until he or she is married and his/her marriage ends up successful.?Jordann scott 2 years ago from hanover park, illinoishi i'm jordann and i have a question ok so i'm american and i made friends with an ibo man and i never got any impression that he was using me or anything like that we have been friends for a few months now and he's really the best person i have in my life right now and were both attracted to each other but we want to keep it safe so he says in time god will tell us if were meant to be or not until then we can continue to be friends my question is with a guy like this what are good questions to see if he's using me for something or if he is truly interested in me. i met my yoruba man online and have met his family and friends via skype., let me use this opportunity to point out here that i am a nigerian guy myself, born and raised in nigeria, and still living in nigeria. when i've heard all his story, i couldn't imagine that i'm getting married to this man elder than me for 18 years. do not, and i mean do not marry or get involved with an african man. assure him that because the fear that most white women who marry a nigerian man will most definitely return back to their home country in future or carry their kids back to their home country after the nigerian becomes old or dies, always scare many nigerian men married to foreign women, and this is one major reason they marry another wife, a nigerian woman back at home as a backup in future. apply my self in some volunteer work as well as work on my music and do some shows and become an asset to the community getting involved in human rights and child development. african man try to talk to me two days ago and i kept walking. i do believe hes hell bent on gettin a good job & generally just being a better man with a bright future. i marry her when am looking for a stay in germany. there are some good african men out there; however, poverty has had an indelible impact and drives many african men to do and act in ways which are treacherous, conniving and selfish. there are several nigerian men who are known for having partners from different parts of the world. oh i forgot to mention he lied about having a green card and therefore is an illegal immigrant as well as left out the fact that he had been married twice not once as he previously told me and has two boys in addition to the one i knew he had with his wife. sometimes it difficult judge to nigerian person and personal's background are different type of ethics group. summary, nigeria is a very secure place for any human to live. the west african man always manipulates police officers in the the suburbs , but it is difficult to manipulate officials who have knowledge of the ewondu husband of west africa by virtue of dealing with similar cases. i know i am not bad…so if there is a good nigerian guy like me, then there are other good nigerian men too…. i am ghanaian man, and yes some of my brothers are not decent in their approach to life, and some are wreck-less with their treatment of women. that you guys will live happily even after marrying for 20 years, that's my pray for you and your man. are plenty good nigerian men, just be wise and prayerful and you will find one. i have tried approaching this as a nigerian who grew up in a diverse nigerian-uk community where we were all happy as children and now as adults relating in love and kiinship.'m an african american who has been married to my nigerian (edo) husband for 3 years (we've been 2gether for 5 years)..no matter how difficult things might be for an ibo man, he doesn't let go his pride. their attitude is most likely the reason why they are (most of the time) single, even many years after divorce. ladies used to be very virtuous, but nowadays, many have copied the western lifestyle so wrongly such that it is now affecting their way of life so negatively. all living separate lives but under one roof because divorce is abhorred by many. if you marry a good nigerian man, you will forever be thankful to god. i told him if we are to be married, i will do everything traditonal and we will need to have an american wedding as well. i would like to connect so, because it is possible we dating the same man. all the african men that i have met, many of them from nigeria, ethiopia and ghana have all been cheaters but so are majority of the men in america. you ain’t shit yourself, so you can’t expect to attract a quality man (see the law of attraction).'s yoruba, lives in nigeria, we met online, i'm puerto rican-american, and was married once before. 4 years ago lady be careful with any african men, all african men are the some because all the african culture are all the some, an african men to stay all his rest of life with an western woman that can happen to them all always an african men need an black woman because of they way an african woman treat a man with respect and value her men, no like western women you treat our men like our slave any man need to be value, for my own experience im living with a man who is a nigeria but he has a white woman with children but always i say to me he can end up he is life with an ayibo woman even he go back to nigeria with that woman and children everyone will take that like a joke no one will value that family and always he said that with tear in his eyes now is beging me to give him a black child, all his friends, family know is me is proper wife and they respect me than his wife and if is with me is very happy than when his in his house. you have interest or know a friend who needs an honest nigerian guy to date and marry, then let me know, i will get you hooked genuinely for free! is not just a practice common to nigerian men alone, americans, english, canadians, germans, russians, chinese, malaysians, indians, etc practice this in different degrees and for different purposes which usually revolve around financial wealth, fame, success, political power, career growth and the likes. met an ghanaian man , who i have fallen in love with and plan to marry. i have some british and american men here, i mean white guys married happily to nigerian women. the same precautions you take in dating a caucasian or asian is the same you take with nigerian men.. believe me if i wanted too met a man, i am not be noting myself but trust me i have a few lined up already, but i am not looking for a man. the yoruba man is more immune to polygamy than the ibo man.. marrying to a some foreign/white women, is sometimes more of prison than enjoyment, it doesn't go down well with an ibo man. the acts of assault , arrest , perpetrated on the woman and the children who reside with him.! and aa women are known to go after african men only when they’re desperate and been rejected by whites and aa’s, so don’t expect to attract any good man (from any race) with your bitter, thirsty, can’t keep her values in check, thot ass. i have written so many books, though yet to be published, about this issue.  if she hadn't the accusation that "several nigerian married friends. hausa man: the hausas are pleasantly simple in their ways and can still be peaceful even with their religion. no human being doesn't like when somebody shout on them, same as me. have the ear of many older non-nigerian women who talk of affairs, baby making and general lonliness they and others have encountered throughout their marriage. also to add he has a child that lives in ireland with her mother who is nigerian too my husband and herself are yoruba people an shes also carries his surname but he claims never have been married to her which i do not believe and theses reasons are why we always end up in quarrels because i do not trust him. didn't fell for her for any other reason but for her manner.'ve proved that it is not impossible to find a good nigerian man. and there's a great chance that at least one of them is nigerian, pretending to be italian or german! 2 years ago hello francoi have been dating an igbo man for almost a year, his loving, caring and very smart but i have noticed that he has a temper even thou his never shown me that side! men from other nationalities are so awesome and innocent than their nigerian counterpart, why do we have high rate of divorce and unhappy couples in the west? however, if we as humans invest so much studying, running and managing a business. i must say that i am of african origin but i am not nigerian. they don't like a woman who isn't submissive or one who wants to overshadow and control her husband because in our tradition, it is a bad omen and such a man that allows his wife to control and dominate him is regarded as effeminate man. you know, nigerians hate divorce…it is the western culture that is brainwashing the nigerian women of today into thinking towards divorce like their foreign women counterparts…. there have been too many broken relationships due to tribalism yet you will find some of these tribalist accepting a non-nigerian due to tribal prejudice. preview: chelsea to beat man city as man utd, arsenal, liverpool walk slippery grounds. if foreign ladies can start to accept this- going back to nigeria to stay permanently till old age with the nigerian men they are married to, and not desiring to go back to their country to live forever, or refusing the man from taking the children to nigeria to live like citizens, then it will be difficult and a waste of time marrying a foreign lady. if a nigerian guy truly wants to go on a future-bound affair with you, he will most unlikely not try to buy your emotion over with money or gift. i have made a list of all the appropriate questions and will be learning more about this man before the night is over. the woman looks after the day to day running of the home while the man provides for the home. everyonei'm doing well thank you for asking notactix, i've read all above comments and all i can say is, is that please everyone stop making excuses for these scammers, these young men will do absolutely anything to convince you that they are 'real men' and love you, care for you, loyal, and etc, these are the things they want you too hear and to believe them, trust me it's not true, they are only with you because they think because your white and a foreginer you can provide for them, doesn't matter how old you are, how small or big of a woman you are, how attractive or not so attractive you are but they will keep telling you those lovely words you have been longing to hear, they will work on your insecurities and make you feel secure so you can trust them with their whole life and make you fall in love with them, once they have mastered that bit, that's when they start testing you, that's when they start giving you excuses, that's when they beg for money off you they will use every excuse in the book to make you want to believe them, but don't..

“african” american woman who dated a cameroonian for over a year. kind of complicated the way and manner in which you narrated it. well i discovered he had been talking to another woman for 2 months. am married to an african man from ghana and i feel in my heart that he is cheating on me. i love my nigerian man with my life and would not give him up for anything in this world. my theory is when a man meet u his live and respect for u will allow him not to stray no matter how beautiful the other woman is. he is very good looking tall went to uni is now a manager with papers and a lovely home. am glad you are having a memorable relationship with a nigerian man. guys get initiated into cult organisations in foreign countries for reasons best known to them which i cannot discuss here for many reasons. of time if you are an african american woman they uses you guys for green cards and run off. because every nigerian of today is afraid of going into another war…. marriage with anyone is difficult but i have found from experience, and from listening to other wives, that nigerian men are like lone rangers. 3 years ago fact is most foriegn women that complain about nigerian men never deserved them. adeboye: clergyman sparks controversy with statement about finding wife on facebook.’m a aa woman, and i’ve been dating a ghanian man for about 3 years. don't know what to think about it for now (part of me is scared) but in he shows to be a gentleman in all he is doingi would like to add that he is 41,educated and very handsome. ibo man of today dislikes polygamy, and he has his immediate family (parents and siblings) at heart, and if you want to win his heart, don’t play with his immediate family. is not easy to live with a man who didn’t have a formal education. when i have asked him he has said that he and his wife are still married but living separate lives and have done so for the past 7 years. but you have the guts in comparing nigerian women that are back home that last longer in marriages than your foreign women. i didn't have anyone to help me, i didn't have a friend to say to me hey check this page out about nigerians or any other nationality, i have been dealing with this all on my own. i must say i’m married into a very,very, strong valued christian family, and i got what i asked the lord for. 3 years ago in 2005 i split from a nigerian guy who got sent back home due to visa issues and i met another nigerian when at the time i was a mess drinking and living recklessly i was totally distraught and heartbroken after having two miscarriages with the guy who got sent back, at the time i was 17. here’s what i’ve come to learn from my experiences (and because south africa is very diverse i’ve gotten to date sas, congo,and nigerian)…. instead of her to make sure there is hot meal waiting for him on the table with warm water in the bucket for him to take shower, most nigerian women does back home. despite everything i have been dealing with, my husband has invited me to come to nigeria many times, but as previously stated our financial situation is not stable and i work and attend school full-time to help support our home, so with that much going on i wouldn't be able to be gone for more than 3 days; and with the amount of money it costs to get a ticket and travel time, it wouldn't be worth it. i see now why it’s also important for us women to have our own, before getting married because a man can pull the rug from underneath your feet and you life will get turned upside down. before you go ahead with any man; be it nigerian or american or german or chinese, etc, make sure he has no dark side. 3 years ago i don't know who this writer is, he she demonstrated little knowledge of nigerian history. i love my brown-skinned men so i began dating a west african man from sierra leone. nigerian man is for real because the fake ones will be all over you to marry them (though not in all cases). 2 years ago hi accofranco, notactix & everyone@accfranco i'm not mad at all with what you said, your blog was about helping and still helping forgein ladies to make the right decision when dating a nigerian man. you have helped many ladies and am thankful to god i have come acrossed it. jide omokore is a billionaire oil magnate and holds the position of chairman/ceo of two oil companies, atlantic energy limited and seven energy. my life from childhood until date i have always wished hoped and prayed to get married to an african american and the dream hasn’t gone off yet because i believe in african women in general (black women) especially hardworking and god fearing african american women. the men are essentially venting on kenyan women who wish to be married to considerate partners of whatever race, instead of improving their treatment of them in order to attract the women. there are cases of desperate nigerian guys who left the shores of nigeria to some asian countries in search of greener pastures at all cost. i am crazy about this man and he claims to love me but am not so sure, its only been a few months(2) that we started seeing each other and we haven't had sex yet even though that's seems to drive him even more, i can't sleep with him cause am not ready to go that route and he thinks i might be sleeping with some1 else. here's the situation: i'm a canadian, and i've had a long distance relationship with a yoruba man for almost a year, on and off. how many marriages do you plan to quit and maybe re-marry? i married a lying, cheating african guy but not anymore. 4 years ago hi im dating a wonderful ibo nigerian guywe are in love we would love to get married he has never asked me money he has always told me to save money i feel so down becouse i would love him to join me in uk and try to look for a job for him. real name isn’t dazy, but it starts with dan…if yes, please contact me asap before you go next time to visit your nigerian man in kl malaysia. don't be fooled by the way any man treats you, some are professionals who have mastered what they do and how they achieve it. so when you meet a nigerian man, find out his tribe. 3 years ago iam dating a nigerian guy and he wants me to visit him and meet his parents in nigeria and also as an assurance that he is not married back home. as woman in general with culture being a non factor we have to stop thinking a man will be perfect. we do better things than that in our way cos we are generous and hate when our woman lack that we can provide, not flower. i've been burned too many times in my life, i just thank god yet again for saving me from him and more misery! i don't like heard negative stories what happened between foreign ladies with nigerian men but i know few good nigerian men are very lucky. i’ve been to the country, married into the culture….@gina, nigerian men don't like being pressured by a lady into marriage. you want a yoruba man to have you at heart, always take him to parties, and if possible, organize parties for him often, and you’re his best friend. yes, he did get his green card after we married & i was worried that i could’ve been a statistic too! he didn’t tell me until six months after i had his child that he had not only been married once but twice and had an additional two children from his first marriage. i can get with a man who dates women he likes no matter the race, but i can’t get with somebody who is over infatuated to the point of blindness. after their fellow white men have taken their glory and they become old, and maybe overweight and unattractive, they now turn to black guys; the nigerian guys for love, knowing too well that they are no longer attractive and not doing anything to look attractive, and hence, they resort to using money and favours to win these nigerian guys into marrying them..z yes this is just my experience but let me tell you in lagos i am surrounded by married couples, older ones, who literally look like they hate the sight of each other. i gave birth to our child, he brought one oldwoman at home, he introduced her as her colleague , to find out later on that she was his girlfriend, i let it pass because he said she was just a fling..when you find a serious man that shows true concern for you, please don't take him for granted. am an igbo guy, and am married to a white too, it doesn't matter our tribe in nigeria, cos in one way or the other, is similar. i will go on to say this, the person i am talking about i have spoken too, she will very well know who i am, and this person knew about what he does and knew that he was with not just her, but many other woman out there..Rick 3 years ago i a nigerian man from yoruba tribe. you truly want to marry or date a nigerian man living abroad, and enjoy a lasting, genuine relationship, follow the rules below:Don’t marry a nigerian man living illegally in your country or any foreign nation. we've spoken openly to each other about our past relationships he had an ex gf in nigeria whose married now i was engaged five years ago but didn't work out he's married now he is 5 years older then me i've been with nigerians before in australia which didn't work out i've dated a range of different ethnicities congo, sengalese, ghana, maori, european, samoan, tongan, and now nigerian he is not my first so i know what im getting myself in to my family know i love this guy and i know he loves me too. my nigerians and other african country friends, colleges they keep telling me that africans are dangerous, liers, making stories, marrying lots of times, have plenty lovers etc. to be short we had a good time besides this issue but i am not an african woman and from what i read her on this site he must be an ibo.. but once i caught the same man we were both seeing, that's when i found out a lot of other things. wont say much but my advice is that if a nigerian man really loves you and wants to be with you. i asked him one time why he cheated with this particular woman and he said so she would give him free rides to work. he’s not controlling, he’s not verbally, nor physically abusive, he cooked for me a lot in ghana, he’s just a good god sent, god fearing man. lost my virginity @ 25 after my tradition party, but he doesn't believe that i've only been with a man once! he has started learning german and achieved a pretty good level, given the fact that he only started this 5 months ago and tries to teach me yoruba (my progress is much less convincing). bashorun jide omokore is married to nigerian bank executive, angella ebagua. i blame myself for not doing the research to find out who this man really was. i am married with yoruba man and he has 3 sisters. 2 years ago i'd like to add that i once dated a nigerian man myself and was with him for a long time, to then i found out what he was lying to me about everything i caught him out on.@ weary and any other lady who would like a feminine take on the issue of marrying a nigerian man, please don't be so afraid of whether he can marry you. i truly care for this beautiful african man, he is something so new and different to me, but i am a strong aa woman and will not put up with anything. then one day, i found photos of him and another young woman and inquired about who she was. are no doubt the heart and prime movers of the nigerian economy. she is a highly educated woman and retired as a school principal. if you share those thought with us, we might call you a bitch one day, even if you are married already.

he is aware that i feel like two can play that game and i will see other men openly and not hide it as i am not married to anyone. sister is married to a ghanian guy, he is a good guy…not romantic but takes care of her totally financially (she has a child from a previous relationship, he has a son in ghana, and they have 2 biological kids together) ., it is important to never beleive a west african husband , who identified himself as being victimized by his wife because in many instances , he is interested in her money, have erectile dysfunction, believes he is better than her, have several wives in west africa, very jealoused of her, , wants to be in control because of low self esteem, and have a history of alcoholism and abandonment , which is a serious mental health issue. my nigerian females friend keep asking why nigerian men love haitian women so much lol. an ibo man always carry in mind his monetary gain or benefit in whatever thing he does in life- be it business, education, relationship, etc. interesting fact about nigerians and nigerian men in particular is the openness they demonstrate when interacting with the rest of the world. interesting fact about nigerians and nigerian men in particular is the openness they demonstrate when interacting with the rest of the world. i ask: did you ever read where i said before you commit to a nigerian man as a foreign lady, that you should ask his educational background? i do think that a plus to marrying an african (in my case a cameroonian) is that they are socialized to commit which is a big struggle for tha african american man. been for a full year an african man texting have never spoken on the phone not once but yet he swears,he loves me ha ha i go along with it. yes, nigerian men have quite a reputation but most people are quicker to complain than to praise so negative stories are going to be more prevalent and easier to find. i took time to explain this in my book titled- "before you marry your nigerian man" published on amazon kindle store and on lulu. when i came to church and meet lots of nigerian people look friendly and very respect. they were never wired to get married in the first place. from the island and my husband is from nigeria we're happily married,the funny thing all his nigerians friends are married to foreigners. to the extent that we are planing to move permanently to nigeria. if the nigerian man is serious about you he will bring you to his mother and leave you alone with his mother! from his young age he wanted to be rich businessman, i'm afraid that he even didn't go to any school. when i was there with him in ghana after we got married his nana specifically said to him on the phone, not to shame them. when i look back i realize how easy it is to make a african man happy. lady has had a traumatic encounter with her man of choice.’m a professional aa woman from nyc who has lived in south africa for three years and i don’t do the this culture is better than that culture thing, especially with the black diaspora. i agree, i’m married to a ghanaian, the best day of my life, he’s everything i ask the lord for. the yoruba man loves partying, celebrations and ceremonies, and he wouldn’t mind borrowing to celebrate a ceremony- be it burial, child-naming, birthday, marriage, memorial, etc. remember, nigerian men aren't european or american men who are feminist out to crown a woman while crying silently in pains.’m married to a malian man now we’ve been together now 8 years we have two children. you will feel a knife ct through your entire marriage as you start to realise that actually you have married someone from a cukture which is completely different from a western one. there are very good nigerian men out there, who are responsible, faithful, hardworking and would love to treat their wives like queens, yet they are also the ones who complain there are no good women available. i used to date another man from sierra leone, but that relationship didn’t work out. we found out that on one of his visits back to africa he married an african woman. if things go well i will relocate for the sake of true love…to do my humanitarian duty towards child development and human rights. she doesn't care about the fact that the nigerian guy she is dating was with other woman whilst with her and yet she knew that he was dating them all at once, so to that woman who thinks he loves her, arranged tickets and hotel arrangements for her and anything else, it's all part of his job districption, to scam her aswell..first of all, i am not desperate, and never am i jealous of this woman who is twice my age and my ex's age. please take a break and invest more in your own personal life and well being, the best man will soon come around okay? want to treat you like a true queen that any real woman deserves. can you tell me, typically, how nigerian parents would handle the idea of a white daughter-in-law, even if she is so completely devoted to their son, such as myself? in fact the vast majority if divorced woman experience a drastic drop in their living standards. i have to add nigerians take their family very seriously, and they really love you wholeheartedly if you love and respect their culture. please tell your fellow nigerian single ladies to be nice to nigerian guys and stop being materialistic and pushing nigerian guys to do all sorts of evil things just to make money to fulfill nigerian ladies insatiable needs. does say he can come to me but it would take longer and all he wants to do is get married to me. he had been married before, when he was 20 years old, has 3 teenager children, divorced 13 years ago, still single etc. 3 years ago from l islandhello @justawomanwhodon'twanttomentionhername, remember i am a nigerian guy myself? Williams Dating Bashorun Jide Omokore, Bashorun Jide Omokore Porsha, Bashorun Jide Omokore Porsha WilliamsThe african sun timesafrica's #1 news website- celebrating everything africanhome. we broke many of the rules listed in this article (not recommended if you cannot easily see through bull***t, lol). my experience of the whole tribal prejudice 'thing' has been more with nigerians in nigeria, maybe it is just coincidental but that's been my observation. (especially coming from a nigerian man lol)) he loves me and said he wants to be with me. don’t pressure him to love you or to continue with you like before…allow your character, your real life personality and qualities to attract the best man to you. because of that belief, and because of the high rate of divorce amongst white couples, especially in america, well to do nigerians hardly allow their sons to marry foreign women for fear of divorce. so i can't live with this kind of person, who hided from me lots of secrets, still how many of them remaining only god knows..and i also have lots of nigerian guys married to foreign women- american, british, canadian, australian, german, swedish, switz, french, indian, malaysian, chinese, brazilian, philipino, south african, ghanaian, arabians (not many), etc, etc and they all are living happily. it’s this thought that lingers in the back of my mind saying that he is still has a wife and family in africa and is trying to obtain a citizenship in order to relocate permanently to america with his african wife and family. my husband has lived is different countries but has held strongly to his roots and is a very peaceful, family-oriented and patient man. 3 years ago hi, i'm in need of help, i'm talking with a nigerian man. know for sure that numerous good nigerian men exist, and the goal of this article is to assist ladies spot those good men and flee from the few bad nigerian men tarnishing the entire image of nigerian men..but you know when men fall in love with a woman, they can still hide certain truths that will hurt the woman from her. but one thing i want you all to understand is this: i am a nigerian guy and i wrote this article and even went as far as writing a book about it without being biased or skewed like you mentioned. people are human beings and fall in love for many reasons. if you are not willing to be one of many wives, you need to discuss with your man early in your relationship and talk to your husband's family about this issue. nigerian men living in south africa are known for all the bad and evil things how do i know if his the real deal? he was in a relationship with a nigerian woman, he says that's over and she is seeing another man now, yet she remains on his facebook page as in relationship status,my man wants me to go to nigeria and marry him there. may god send that man that will make you forget your past soon your way. made this point because some nigerian men you see in your country are already married to a nigerian lady here in nigeria before they set out to travel abroad to look for a greener pasture.? prior to us getting married i asked him if he took prolonged trips to nigeria bc he has a family member that left his wife (who is not nigerian) in american for 2 yrs. in fact the vast majority if divorced woman experience a drastic drop in their living standards. i've been through so much with this man and it's hard to let go. fact, let me tell you something about most nigerian guys, mainly the ones that grew up in nigeria before leaving for abroad, they usually believe that most women are after a man's money and financial status, so they always respect a woman who isn't so interested or nervous about money.@accofrancoregardless about how this whole mess story is going to end, my interest in nigeria and the nigerians has been raised, so i would be much interested in getting in contact with nigerians of all kind (no interest in a love relationship or marriage, but in exchange and "friendship" if that would arise from a contact). as a nigerian woman, i will say to you that we are the mothers of all our men, therefore, o zu kwa lu gi! am an african american woman who pursued moving away from dating only aa men. now we married he wants me to pay for a car and apartment in ghana. you please share your insight thoughts and everyone: you are welcome to comment and advise - as i am completely unsure, worried and confused (comments from here in germany, i have no nigerian friends and what i experience in the "relationship"). i respect this man on every level and would love to spend the rest of my life with him. i demand respect from anybody who is in my company and african men have seemed to give it cause i expect it. bless you and prayers going up for you i am also married to an african man with conditional love for my daughter and i . after moore slammed her ex-boyfriend for vandalizing her moore manor, he fired back by accusing her of being with a married man. assure you sister, there are plenty great nigerian guys looking for nice foreign women to commit wholeheartedly to for life. therefore, if you truly want a lasting, genuine relationship or marriage with a nigerian man abroad, make sure he is a legal resident with good means of livelihood. the word ''nigger'' started from slavery, just in case if you have forgotten your roots, black man, yes, you accofranco. i grew up around a strong igbo community in the uk and i have so many ibo friends who are more like sisters and brothers to me; even with this i have to be fair and say the the big yoruba community were not just about partying. nigerians we meet out if their habitual environment are very different. they have rich family traditions and won’t tolerate any woman that curses or has baby daddy issues or ghetto mentality they will always want a woman that they can be proud to introduce to their parents who exercise reasonable controls. because he will see the woman that he always wanted in me. please understand 245 years of slavery, not even being allowed to walk on the same pavement as your fellow human being, can you fathom what that was truly like?  Free online dating sites without subscription- logically, you lose trust in all man, including good ones. unlike other countries in the world, nigerians are very open to new things and they always embrace the change taking place. totally am not offended by what you said, i don't even know this woman, i only caught him out not long ago, my break up with him is newly fresh to be quiet honest with you, so forgive me for still loving someone who yes, used me, lied to me and cheated on me. best get an educated african american man from stable family and a regular at the local church. there are several nigerian men who are known for having partners from different parts of the world..Suite 5 months ago i don't agree with you by saying a nigerian will prefer go home to find a wife,maybe 15 ,20 years ago not anymore. i am an african woman with a citizenship and i will never marry or date an african man without papers. to our exclusive source, the chairman’s wife is a force to be reckoned with and word has gotten back to her about porsha and her husband’s relationship. its difficult to inform family that one s dating a nigerian man be coz of these dark issues. 2 years ago hithanks for all the advice given on this page and i would like to really commend you for sacrificing a lot to make sure everyone gets an answer to her questioni met a yoruba man a few months back and it coincidentally happened that after meeting him a few weeks online,i went to nigeria for a church conference. i am enjoying my marriage to a nigerian male we are happy and occasionally visit. i didn't write this article and the books i have written on this topic to paint nigerian men evil, of which i happen to be one of them. one year ago the guy ask his nigerian friend to ask my friend to bail him because he was jailed because of visa and overstaying in malaysia and for him to go back to nigeria, of course my friend helped him. yoruba man: i noticed that you had a lot to write about the ibos and not as much to write about the hausas and yorubas. they, african men, will still use an american woman regardless…because their hearts are not pure. i found them sometimes more likely to open their doors to other nigerian tribes. it is actually within the standards of society of the average woman frowned upon. rather than admit her own culpability, she now paints the african man with a broad stroke that smacks of cultural prejudice. if you so desire your country name,so much, marry a man of your coutry, who don't have issue with it3. if choosing an african man to share your heart as a foreigner, explore countries like senegal or the gambia. “i sat and watched her hold hands with another man while i sat back and watched (yes we were already seeing each other. scott 2 years ago from hanover park, illinoisi'm currently friends with an ibo man and he told me all about his life he's christian has strong faith we both have prayer sessions and bible study all on the phone cause he lives in ghana we met on a christian friend chat sight and he kets me into his life hes let me talk on the phone to his friends and tells me about his family but were both attracted to each other we both know it but at the same time he says attraction is common between a man and a woman he always tells me how he feels i just need to know if its real but i don't want to just be rude and ask are you just talking to me for money or sex or something like that because that's not cool plus i really believe he's a good guy i just don't know what safety questions to ask any help? you know, we have wonderful nigerians, myself inclusive, but its so unfortunate that most foreigners do always come in contact with the bad nigerians, which was the reason why i wrote this article to help enlighten and educate foreigners on how to deal with nigerians for good. it will be helpful to many people reading to face the reality of the situation. this one reason is why most nigerians who marry white ladies still go back to nigeria to marry another wife, in case the foreign ladies leaves tomorrow, cos she most leave or refuse to go back to nigeria with the husband to live permanently like citizens. i have fallen for him cause he is everything my so called man is not. because such nigerians go into relationship with foreigners out of love and not for anything else like: securing permanent residence, monetary gains, etc. 2 years ago hello accofranco,i read some of your message and i am very disappointed with your comment here and how you are degrading black women especially nigerian girls back home. so, to make a long story short, i want to just talk and sit down with his mother about everything so that hopefully she will see me as not being a culturally different foreign but as a true, human being who cares about her son with no intension on changing his culture. when i met my husband he was a quiet man who did not talk much at all. but then, i wrote this to help foreigners, especially ladies who sometimes fall victim to bad nigerian guys abroad. yoruba man: i noticed that you had a lot to write about the ibos and not as much to write about the hausas and yorubas. bross i never surpport your message to the world about the nigeria man..and that was why i wrote this article from the sincerity of my heart irrespective of the fact that i am a nigerian. my husband is such a gentle man, so respectful and loving. lastly if we leave in your country and married to you and you feel you wont respect or humble yourself as a woman, then that marriage, might be turned in to normal relationship, without your notices. let’s take a look at reasons why you should or should not date nigerian men..There are awesome nigerian men that can turn your life around for good, find them and stop going after bad guys spoiling the good image of nigerian people. at first, he was sweet, caring and friendly; open and romantic. however, nigerian men embrace the modernity of the world and approach their relationships with a global state of mind. but in this situation, when we marry a foreign lady and then we start to approach the age of 60 - 70 years and want to go back home to nigeria to live probably permanently, only to be visiting foreign countries on vacations, the foreign ladies always object to this, and in most cases, they took away the children we had with them and take them back to their country, and the nigerian man ends up childless at old age with no one to bear or continue his lineage. i met a nigerian man in a dating site 3 years ago. however, the only issue is his mother who is so involved - it is like she wants to manage our relationship, making bad comments when she is not even a decent person to say so. i am this semi thick woman who loves to cook and eat. i have several nigerian married friends who have verified these characteristics. what i have observed about him is that he will apologize whenever needed; is very kind and loves animals; seems pretty honest; volunteers as a youth organizer for a non-governmental group to make the government better (he is very proud of this); is very masculine and has a sort of take charge attitude which is no doubt taught in their culture–a man takes care of a woman-type thing; he comes online every evening of his to chat with me (whether i show up or not), so it appears he isn’t with another woman there; and he says he wants to be with me forever and not marry another woman (he’s a christian raster, although some of his friends are muslims). hes not really affectionate and romantic but he works hard, hes extremely intelligent and he gives me everything i want. anyone else who is aa married to a ghana, please reply..this other woman i spoke about, she is his problem, not mine, i don't know her i have only spoken to her, and like i said, i had no idea that he was a scammer ok, and when i found out about this woman i am talking about, that she knew about me and every other woman out there, if she had any brains, she would have had the balls to let us other women know that he is a scammer, like i warned her. he was using you financially and as you know the marriage is the only way for these scums to obtain a permanent visa for your country..something was wrong)it sadness me that why would african man sell his body for money? not all nigerian men are users there are some good ones it just takes time to find them dont rush in to things.’t rush to marry a nigerian man without a reasonable educational background. before you go ahead with any man; be it nigerian or american or german or chinese, etc, make sure he has no dark side. i’m married into a very,very christian valued family. he is big businessman, and his friends are mostly educated wealthy people, bankers, lawyers, commanders, politics, doctors etc. he is from nigeria and the best husband a woman can ask for. but there are many things mentioned in these comments that are so true! truly you want a sincere nigerian man to marry or date, get one who is not living in europe/america, etc illegally, and make sure he is doing a good steady job and well educated up to tertiary level. however, by her own admission, she “dated a cameroonian,” but not married to the cameroonian. as an ibo man, we think about wealth and money and good family life almost round the clock and we work hard for it, sometimes, we want to be left alone to think, even though some women think, we are lossing interest or having another affair hail no. we have been married for over 9 years and it has been a very tragic union. doesn't have a "tertiary" education and he didn't have papers before we got married. never said every single one of them she meant many of them..i am sure women too wouldn't want a desperate man. there is no other thing in their life but their new nigerian boyfriend. an african man does not respect a woman, he only sees a thing to have sex with, caring only about his needs and wants. its unlikely in our real culture- nigerians frown at divorce and even see it as a bad omen..because i know that child bearing tops the list of qualities every nigerian man seeks in a woman he wants to marry, unless your man didn't grow up in nigeria..i will keep working to ensure more and more foreign women are safeguarded from the hands of evil men who are robbing vulnerable women off via emotional manipulations. never tell ibo man how to treat his mother, he already knows, just listen and support anything he says about his mother, even if she is dead, don't be surprise, the love will still be there. they are polygamous in nature, and it is also traditional for a hausa man to marry more than one wife, if he so desires. am tired of white girls asking me, once they notice my friend is nigerian, why my friends don't want to marry, as if as a nigeria, you must marry abroad or go interracial, no, some don't wish it. ibo man: definitely very industrious and a pride to nigeria when it comes to business. bottom line i would say, you follow the path that pleases your heart, if you want a man to change the diapers, then i’m sure you can find this kind, on the other hand, if you want to baby a man, you then too also know where to look! 20 months ago hi,i met a nigerian guy through my church (i'm british) and we became friends. one year ago the guy ask his nigerian friend to ask my friend to bail him because he was jailed because of visa and overstaying in malaysia and for him to go back to nigeria, of course my friend helped him. i would like to make it known that divorce is not lucrative for 'western' woman. i have known my wife, an african-american, for 47 years, and we have been married for 45 years. am a divorcee with 3 children and he has a kid from a relationship that couldn't lead to marriage because ofinterracial issuesi don't know if i am to believe him or not cos he just sounds too gentlemanish and moving a bit too fast for my likingwhen i was in nigeria there,he looked so happy to see me,telling me i am more beautiful in real life than in photos. is bulshit as an ibo man, if that what she desire all the time and don't think how will make good life. there are cases of desperate nigerian guys who left the shores of nigeria to some asian countries in search of greener pastures at all cost.@anonymous, all what you have said aren't just perculiar to nigerian men alone- men from other nationalities do same, so pray and be the best to also meet the best men; nigerian or not.