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unaware as i was at the time, i married a serial cheater. must be realistic here and accept that what you are involved in is risky in many ways. but i know i never had this feeling to any man in my life . this married guy has me feeling special, saying everything i need to hear but wants his wife and myself to be in his life. the man is married or not, a lot of men do like to play mind games, and of course they like to string many women along at the same time. the man does not know how to give true love to another. trying to get me from the beginning and evantually i had falling in love with this man. what would you say an unmarried man with kids cheating on his girlfriend? 4 months ago i have a boyfriend who i have dated for seven years he loves me so much, i betrayed the trust he has for me by dating a married man i met five months ago i am in love with him don't know how to tell my boyfriend i vowed never to date a married man, i don't know how i found myself loving him. why would you drop your man in a heartbeat for this man who is cheating? after the sex, i felt incredibly guilty as a woman, mother, etc. has happened since the beginning of time and romanticising it is a huge part of the problem. the man i was seeing i knew for a few years but never even guessed he liked me that way. i have met many men in my life and i am attractive confident and beautiful . there’s a dilemma i have been with this woman on and off for 7 years. when a married man pursues a single woman he lies, lies, lies and that woman believes those lies and becomes involved and by the time they realize the truth or when he says i’m married or whatever, the other woman is already involved and difficult for her to part ways.’t get me wrong i love my wife, but we always argue can never see eye to eye and as she always put it it feels more of a business relationship then anything cause the only reason we stick around is cause we need each other. it helps to remember that the man with whom you are intimately involved in "your other life" is not living as a monk with his wife. why then just single out affairs with married men then? you say she’ll pick up her pieces and go on, but actually she may always wonder what was wrong with her personality/what she did wrong to feel that despite the feelings you shared so deeply, you still chose your wife over her. if i move on with any other single guy id feel hurt and emptiness n lost well thats wt married man says. is so true…relationship with a married man is unbelievable. men feel if they can msitreat their wife, the one whom they vowed their life , then what chance does the mistress or any woman, for that matter, have; he is damaged goods. did he tell you all the things he did wrong in his marriage?, the what’s inside counts, and these deceptive men are g-d’s first effort, woman, he did a better job-that’s why he had to give us blind love, or no woman would have stayed with a man to propagate his creation. i am saying this as a girl/woman “on the ledge” who has been through a lot of sick relationships…. only come into the picture when the married person has time to give you at their convienience. 3 months ago i was an other woman to a married man who got a child recently. im really in need of help to stop the addiction of this man.: he said that even though he still really cared for me and that i had innumerous qualities that he looked for in a woman, in one of the times he had seen me in the corridors of where we met, i had a reaction that he could never have imagined and that that had proven to him that i was very similar to his ex and to his present wife and that, from that moment on, a future with me had become impossible, that we would never work as a couple… well, it’s a really, really long story and i’ve already written too much, but it was really unfair of him (supposing it’s true)..ur mad at his wife for wut calling u out after u met up with her husband after u knew he was married? this happened to me before and the man (no wedding band) pursued me over a year only for me to find out that he’s a married man with 2 kids. then they talked why their marriage didn’t work out for many many years of trying. think how you would feel about that other woman trying to steal away your husband. have shown me more compassion than the man i thought truly loved me, and i wouldve done anything for. the first questions i asked were are you or have you ever been married he said no. m tryin to move on but i cant find someone of m age only older and married man. own survival is crucial, and if you do happen to fall in love with a married man, there are several hard truths you need to know. i am in the same situation except i work with the man and we often see each other outside of work but only for sex." if you are not getting anything, you should ask the man to make the affair worth your time financially or move on. line is that if you decide to get involved with a married person you are asking for trouble and to be used. but how i found out that my boyfriend was married, should have been the first place i looked. In many ways they can seem more mature, attractive and have their lives more together than their shambolic single counterparts. i am still in medical school and my schedule is too demanding for a real relationship, so i’ve given myself some sort of rationale for this unthinkable behavior. he is a fireman, and can only see her about every two weeks. three months of blissfulness he tells me he’s married.  often the fear of what others will think will not let him do it, as the man does not want to become the “bad guy” in their eyes as the daddy who left in their early years..” but i actually think you are being quite wrong to your wife – doesn’t she deserve to experience the same kind of feelings and love (that u felt with your mistress) with someone else? to make it short, i started to think that why should i be loyal be honest to this married men, and i cheated on him i met guy. they started pressing me to date i met this creep who decided to lie to me for 10 mos about being married and when i doubted him he did really great at trying to make me think i was crazy. he then confessed that he was married and they decided to get back together caouse he wanted to be there for his children.” knowing full well that even if he did get a divorce, i wouldn’t want a man like that anyway.’m happy to say ,i’m involved with a single woman now. it was obvious then that i was holding out because i was in love with a married man, which is against everything i was taught growing up.: re: new comment posted on worthless love – dating a married man..his emotional crisis is bcuz he is losing the woman he loves he’s showing unhappiness misery and piling away and not trying bcuz he is unhappy with u n without her miserable with u if he is not trying its bcuz he does not care about u!  she will get to the point where she must make a decision whether she would be able to deal with never being first in the man’s life, and the thought of it never progressing.’ve been involved with a married man for about one year. i’ve made it very clear to him how considerate he was towards my feelings last time we saw each other and he didn’t come to talk to me… supposedly, i can’t talk to him because it’s too painful, but i really i don’t want to talk to him and i don’t want to pretend that nothing happened for other peoples’ sakes… i want to tell people how two-faced he is, but i know no one will believe me… everyone thinks he’s absolutely wonderful… just as i did a few months ago… not to mention that he could really hurt my career, so i’m cautious… i keep wondering how a man who says he’s so close to his mother and to his daughter can treat women (his wife, me) like this… what goes on inside the head of a man like this? me get this straight, are you seriously comparing the woes of dating single men (sans attachment, ring, promise, and children) with dating married guys who cheat on their wives? i truly love this man: my love has lasted the past 12 years and just became alive again. the love of your life just might be a married man. i have given to many years of my life as it is. secondly, there is no comparison to a failed relationship with a single man. i have no idea what i’m saying wrong besides to be careful with these deceitful deceptive people out here. this man is my ex n we were deeply in love. 3 months ago i am a widow but recently began seeing a married man that i work with. i met a married man, he did leave her and stayed with me for 3 weeks. a single, committed man can do the same thing to his girlfriend that a married man can do to a wife. you were suppose to be a fling it was suppose to be fun and ahe was suppose too forgive him and they were supposed to spend the rest of their lives together if a man loves you he don’t care what people think of you too everyone knows he had an affair already so it wouldn’t matter if they see you too he doesn’t want to be seen with you because you are still his little secret and he doesn’t want his wife to know about you too because he’s hoping they still have a chance together if he really left his wife for yo he wouldn’t care about who see you too and would be happy if he was so unhappy with her truth is he is unhappy without her and was happy with her but took her for granted to have a fling for a little excitement. was unhappily married for 3 years when i met a married man who was seemingly the most caring and charming man ever (the kind that absolutely everybody loves, men and women). wouldn’t you advise your daughter to stop that behavior and let her know that if a man really wants her that she is worth fighting for? many times i have tried to move forward by dating and meeting other people. i know what i’m doing now is wrong but before i never had a clue it was a big sin i was committing. this man is married with three kids but his wife is not giving him peace of mind, he wants me to accept his proposal so he can come see my family. i know he still has sex with his “woman” and he has never lied to me. 5 months ago i am currently seeing a married man who is my boss.

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he will never leave her for me, but i´m ok with that, and genuinely happy for us to still evolve as humans and lovers overseas and decades. a man doesn’t lose custody of his kids just because he leaves his wife. not all man choose the wife ,because we love her…choosing the wife over the mistress or the lover does not mean that we didn’t love them to begin with. we flirted heavily with each other, he always had to touch me, do things for me, etc…our co-workers and manager noticed but didn’t say anything. darleen would tell me that if he could leave his wife for her, he certainly would and that her man often showed great concern for whether or not she was cheating on him. that is, if they even tell you they are married. it is unrealistic to believe that intelligent human beings will never again share common interest with another human being or member of the opposite sex for the next 10, 20, 30, 40, or even 50 years of their life. you get involved with a married person, all that will happen will be heartbreak ,let down ,and all along the way frustration. and sometimes he will tell me a bible story that past mankind too has doing affair and god had forgiven them. i am engaged for over 3 years now due to the fact that every time i made up my mind to get married to my fiancée which i have a son with i catch him in some flirting situations with other females but i stayed because of my son. 3 months ago it is dead wrong to be "in love" with a married man! how many men do you know who are ruining their lives because of a woman? after my divorce, i became the “other woman” for a while! then i met this young, sweet,caring & humble guy after 8months of lonlines, he just told me on our first date that he married with 3kids. i love how a woman who sleeps with a married man is a ho, but a woman who sleeps with multiple men while dating is “respectable”. even the article pointed out that the woman may already by “broken”.. the comparison between the married man and hypothetical single man is simply a false comparison. the issue here may be cheating or pretense which clearly goes beyond being married or not. the man more than likely plays into this often times telling her things such as “i wish i could have met you years ago”. it is now obvious that this man knew exactly the role he needed to play in order to have me as his young sex toy and if he did really love me, he wouldmhave ended it after a while. i am a strong woman, but i need that push to walk away like other women do. which you aren’t doing while waiting for a married man..no it’s because thier human they make mistake r far from perfect n as much as they r in love n wish not to hurt them the r human n end up regretting it this drama n using u . he claims that he loves the fact that i speak my mind and tell him how i feel about things but when i tell him that i can’t do this anymore because it’s wrong he says ” i thought everything was just fine i’m falling in love with you and i hope that we can work this out because i dont want to lose you. ive been involved with a married man for three years.  if she expresses it, he already has his reasoning – 1) she knew he was married, and 2) he never said he was leaving his wife. i am engaged for over 3 years now due to the fact that every time i made up my mind to get married to my fiancée which i have a son with i catch him in some flirting situations with other females but i stayed because of my son.” he will never leave those kids, and what kind of woman am i if i ask him to? he married her and now he is cheating on her, and she is crying just like i did, for she thought he would be honest and faithful to her.. i just don’t know what to do even my fiance is noticing that something is wrong with me that i’m very distant. same thing always happens to me too, i’m always the other woman. i know that i was not to have slept with a married man( who also has a mistress), but have struggling hard and been hurt by his act, with my ignorance for 3 months..until i met this married guy, stunning of course, he is way successful in his field, he isnt my type either but the chemistry and conversations with him what attracted me most, it feels so warm. he made me feel alive, like a real woman, beautiful, loved and the sex was out of this world. i think anyone that goes out with a married man is a stupid fool who thinks nothing of themselves! i’m also aware of the same way you get that man will be the same way you lose that man. 3 months ago am in love with a married man, he told from the beginning that he was married by default and as their culture he has to stay with the wife and the kids and he is allowed to marry a second wife of which he has proposed countless times but i always turn him down, he more willing to take me to his parents but i am scared, his best friend knows about us and his cousin also knows about, his wife contacted me sometimes back after she saw my text on his phone but i didn't respond, he helped me move out and start a new life he supports me fully finacialy buys me expensive staff take me out for lunch twice a week and we go clubbing every weekend and he spents the weekend at my place, we go shopping together,kisses me in public,holds my hands in public we take a lot of pictures with his phone and he never delete, when i try to leave him he becomes crazy he can even drive to my place upto 2am just to say he is sorry, he doesn't like me going to clubs with my friends he will show up if i do, he gives me full access of his phone, the problem is he is still intimate with his wife and he is honest about it and he also want to get me pregnant. it’s up to you weather or not you want to continue living, and staying married to that person. absolutely cannot stand when a mistress speaks as if she lives in this lying cheating man’s home. i don’t criticize women for falling for a married man, after all, they are the victim, not him. every woman is beautiful in her own way and i’m sure you are one of them so please wait till your own man come from you. now, how many women do you know who have sacrificed all for a man? always ready to blame the other woman instead of your cheating unhappy husband. start dating other single men and don’t let the married man know. he said he has anger too in him for i was married to my ex, and says it kills him that am not a virginia when am only his. i had advice him what we do is really wrong, and sometimes we end up of arguing. both myself and his wife and family deserve more than a man who will not get the courage to do the right thing. am a married man, as are many of my friends, 90% of whom have strayed. thing is i’d like to say is the other woman is a victim too. he’s married but his wife left him and moved out of town. i never put fault solely on the woman, and kept my expressions of disappointment with my husband only. worst thing to do is sleep with the married man as once the adultery is official, the dynamic of the relationship drastically changes. i had messed with her while i was single and she was married but she was in the process of a divorce. it’s not fair to be with a women who has an affair already with a married man, but if the man is truly love that women, he can accept that women of who she was and her situation. and, yes i’m wrong for getting involved with a married man. shortly after he married, he migrated to a neighboring country for work but some how he never gave up even when i rebuffed his suttle advances. just a human being that went along with what the universe presented them. well, that would be because of people who are willing to become involved emotionally or physically or both with someone who is already married. find it comforting knowing many others are guilty of this. let’s discuss seniors-yeah, most people think by the time a man is 65 years old he is past all that cheating mentality, but not this one. she will take what ever attention she can get, and to hell with the wife and family of her new man.?Reading all these stories made me feel better knowing am not the only person struggling with getting over a married man. after my divorce and being at a low point of my life i sought out married or attached men for a couple of years. yes, the “other” woman should have some respect for herself, but i know for a fact that married men lie. we tried to put things on the table and he confessed that in his 10 years of marriage i am the only woman he has cheated with on of his wife and all he wants to do is to spoil me. its very interesting how its almost always the man who has his wife, his kids, and picture of a nice life, while the mistress just pines for him and longs for a baby. the only advice i can give u is to mentally prepare to be hurt because it will all end in tears, ur man is being very selfish by not choosing between the two of u as is mine, in a way maybe we should be more strong and delete their numbers and erase them from our lives, easier said than done tho hey?? so a chick is supposed to work to take a man from his wife while not knowing him very well, then move in with dude to see where it goes? she’s the type of woman who loves the attention of men and comes across as the female buddy to any man who will give her the time of day. from my lens with couples i counsel, affairs can trigger so many adrenaline emotions that it’s easy to get caught up but in the end feelings will become involved regardless of expectations and someone will get hurt it’s usually the wife or the mistress. recently he said he had to stop before we went any further because he really wanted to have sex with me but he cared for me enough to stop he told me i needed to find a man who could care for me like i deserve…. my liar happened to be a man and he crushed me in the end. texted me and i will never chase a man who doesnt respect me any more than that- after doing so much for him for so long. the married man may love you but his priorities are his children or family, so at least you have that magical feeling that he loves you and an excuse that you can't be together because of the kids, so what to do, follow what the author said hahaha, wish women can think clearly always and have time to think as much, some are just so weak when it comes to matters of the heart. 4 months ago i'm in love with a married man he doesn't lie to me. you deserve a man who only has eyes for you — and so do i. i found out that the guy that i was with was married by doing a background check on him.

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since our previous encounter he had gotten married to,the same girl he was with then and,had a child. when a married man steps to me with that mess, i say, “wow…. during this time i met a married man, at first, i didn’t trust him but as time passed and he was there to talk to i shared my feelings about my situation..It is just fine for a woman to date a married man, provided that she is the woman he is married to. sister was involved with a married man for 19 years, they were and are very much in love. how many hours or days in between women is enough for it to not matter anymore?.trust me,he is probably going through a tough time in his marriage now and just needs someone like you to pass time with and even if he is not going through a tough time or whatsoever, men are just selfish, later on he will change and you would be wondering what went wrong. lies can be clever and convincing, but i always say, "assume that the man is lying until you are engaged, married, or something close. date with a married man, if you can date with a very available (single) man? that’s always a deal breaker for me in deciding on a man being marriage material and obviously, your husband isn’t marriage material if he’s dabbled in this prior to you even marrying him. forgave him, but you can’t forgive “the other woman”?. although, the article was written from a standpoint of wanting an actual relationship with the man… you seem to be content with what appears to be whoring yourself out for your money and benefits and whatnot. he’s still married but he and his wife is going through some marital issues. wife i confronted him n found out had a couple of affairs n wen i was ready to leave he begged n cryed for weeka nonstop texting calling 24/7treating me at work by me floqers take me out on dates this is wen he got back on his feet 7 mmoonths pass n still o would tell him to pick,up,kid child for visits n he wouldn’t agree unless i tagged along he insisted on me going no was not an answer visiting our child was an excuse to help himself inside my house to beg for me n tell,me how beautiful i am n how he didn’t deaerve me n wouldn’t leave without me so i finally gave in n he promised but idk aboutt trusting a cheater i cight a woman messing my husband n wrote back she was way to sexual n open wen i wrote her like they talked like that before he said he met her once n she liked n friended him imdb n that i was crazy he lovedm n would nevernever n that she replied that way because o wut i wrote that they never talked like that of course i thought it was bull n hhe reassured me that she was way too old for him had too many kids already divorced saggy boobs butt ugly. loving and dating a married man can be extremely painful and seldom works out well.  the ideal woman for this guy is the girl who has been hurt many times by single men and is in the stage where she just wants someone to love her. if he is content to have sex with you and makes no move to make a permanent life with you, then you must understand that he does not see you as being very important. when he came over we talke, he never really acknowledged the fact that he was married. 2 months later, now i’m pregnant with another man’s baby (the 1 time i have a ons…sad! you feel you are worthless=side chick-whether or not you are aware that this man is married or in a long term or serious relationship or whatever…. i am also quite an attractive woman and have guys chasing me… but i have decided to stay alone for a while and understand why i have gotten myself into this painful experience.” i ended up sleeping with a married man and i just feel no emotion about it, not even guilt…i’m under no impression that he will leave his wife for me, that’s out of the question. but i feel better knowing i'm not going to be responsible for hurting another woman the way i was or for breaking up a family. if a man or woman is unable to have sex for some reason or another, does that automatically mean their spouse is doomed to celibacy? am married but was going thru hell and i started seein this gal and tnou she made me happyn mademy time worth,i couldnt leavemy wife for her and i ended up hurting an innocent girl and i so hate myself. ex-husband, who was given too many chances admittedly, is guilty of having affairs during our marriage..I am a wife of a man whos cheating we have problems like all couples but stillvery much in love we talk about thinks other than the kids and have sex everyday hes just a man thats it the woman new he was married and didnt walk away what does that say about her dirty…. now, how many women do you know who have sacrificed all for a man? i'm not going to see him any more but i know his routine and this other woman who i like i want to tell her that she hasn't been the only one so she can also take care herself to not get hurt any more thinking he's just with her and may leave his wife some day which clearly has been a lie from day one. recently i met a lovely leo woman at an online dating platform. do you think she feels holding this inside knowing the man she married for better or worse is cheating on her…don’t do it ladies. both of us are married but her husband already called it quits. the town i live in is misogynistic and being a woman who was involved with a married man requires a scarlet letter. you wouldn’t want your lady suckin a man off and coming home and kissing you or your children would you? what if the relationship between “cheaters” is about fulfilling the unfulfilled part and it is mutually satisfying without it being demanding or more than either is able to give? the man who does the lying and cheating is truly the cause of the entire situation. again believe me, like another poster mentioned, the husband will go through years of drama at home so i don’t wanna hear the excuse to blame the husband not the other woman nonsense. a few days later i received a text at 2am from his mistress from his phone, telling me (his wife) to “stop texting my man, you’re old news and we’re in love…). date on the side to keep yourself from becoming too attached to this man and to keep reality in perspective. i told him that after 1,5 year he has no right to tell me i push him since i gave him many time to end things there. years later, i messed around with another married man just for sex, and got pregnant. made excuses for her married lover for years, and she believed him when he told her that he could not stand his wife and never touched her. horrific life once you fall in love with a married man and they won't leave. we are drawn to each other and we both know it’s wrong and can’t seem to stay away from each other. i know it is wrong and i am very blunt about it with him. i think mistresses haven’t a clue what really happens when the man is cheating. it’s the antiquated hard wiring in men’s brains that 90% of them cheat married or not. need to step back and identify the priorities -- your priorities -- in a relationship with a married man.’ i’ve now come to realise that because my husband was holding so many deep dark secrets from me, and taking my choices away from me, each time we had sex he was basically raping me.’t blame the other woman, yes many are at fault but look at the crap this world has dealt them.. it is only a desperate, needy woman with low self esteem that would continue a relationship with someone who is clearly unavailable. he is well aware of what he has to do and until he man’s up and actually does it, i won’t cross that line with him. i have been approached by several married men all giving me the “unhappy” approach. you don’t think this cheater is willing to manipulate you for his own pleasures? is unfair to assume that woman who find themselves in this situation are “needy”, “lonely”, or “desperate”, but for arguments sake, let’s consider for a moment that she is all of the above, would’nt she too be a victim fallen prey to her predator? absolutely never said that a single or dating woman who sleeps with multiple men are respectable. he seems agitated with me, thinking im with another man ( i wish it was that simple) i must admit it’s hard. and ladies, please be careful not to allow yourselves to be proxy for being an alibi to a man who is keeping a “side chick”-for whatever reason-be it an emotional relationship or a (most likely) sexual relationship.’s note: it seems like every time i go on a mommy website these days there are tips for scheduling your day, weekly menus, to daycare or not to daycare, or managing yo[.. wake up shes the victim not u …ur the stupid one cuz ur mad at the wife instead of him for dragging u in in ur pants he’s a man if they can they will n if ur stupid enough to believe them n keep ur mouth sut n keep u in lala land they will …all while not changing his feelings for his wife …u really think out of the80% of people who’ve cheat n were married. i did not know at first that he was married…i fell hard and fast for this man.. i have even told him to let go of me because he is married but i can’t seem to take my mind off him… pls what do i do? about when a single woman keeps pursuing a married man? i promise you that you are beautiful and will find another sexy mocha man. the best advice you can give someone about having a relationship with a married man is telling her not to even start. i mean this man will pay my bills, in 5 months, i’ve been on 15 vacations with him. went from man of my dreams to mortal enemies in hours. i've never been involved with a married man who is also my ex boyfriends brother who i still care about deeply.. you’ll look permanently tired through sleepless nights thinking of him with his wife. a woman becomes a “ho” the minute she has sex before marriage if you want to be real “godly” about the bs. you’ve had your heart broken before, so just like the married person is trying to fill a void, the mistress is trying to fill a void. never get involved with married men or men in serious relationships with girlfriends. wish you had elaborated a little more on the caution you mention to not get involved with a woman. what if he did leave his wife and married you, will you have as much sympathy for the next woman when you call him and he tells you where he is with her? strange reason, i have now, after so many years, and he’s married! but i make up for that in many other ways..never then i see a txt message months later another woman txt about going to sleep with no panties on n stuff like that in thw middle of the night i called right away told her off n told him too he said he was sorry but that his buddy wrote her as a joke that she was really fat n ugly n that nothing happen well she said he didnt makw it seem as if he were tooken n that we were seperated n i was th crazy gf who wouldnt except it was over n all this crap n he told me the complete oppoaote!

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Dating a Married Man - It Isn't Ever Worth It

why is it wrong or criminal to seek a “plug in” for a sexless marriage? i’m clean and innocent sometimes men need to just be with a slut to know how good they got it he did really screw up with this one she was desperate enough to to get pregnant in the end he still will be with me and shes just a hore whos now hes babys mama your not going to get a married man who truly loves his wife but can’t keep his dick in his pants we resolved this issue with precussion rules and an open marriage. hence why i have so many people in my life that love me and know my worth.’m so sorry yo hear that but i’m also in a,relationship with a married man and i don’t know what to do. my husband loves me very much which made me feel stable and being a normal woman . everything you have written in your article is true for the majority (out of the many affairs i know of, only two became a long term relationship) of affairs. the only thing that eats me up is that he is married. i have been in a situation for about 9 months now where a married man has fallen in love with me. they quickly divorced and the man reported directly to my sister’s door and is still with her. not sure if a story or the truth, but what i saw in the end is an unhappy man because he is married to someone whom only cares about what he has financially to offer him and a man that simply needs to be loved.. even though like them all he says he's not happy he's still married. many women who have very loving and fun relationships as you have find that when the guy leaves his wife, things change, and all the good they were enjoying is gone. my wife wouldn’t be able to do that…everybody here seems to blame mistress…the married man is the one who made vows to his wife . it allows you to see yourself through the eyes of another man who finds you interesting and attractive. he is not married, but they live together with their children. the married man did the same but then freaked out as his wife threatened to take the kids away and he relented, begged her to come back and so began the waiting game. i didn’t know he was married until a month after we began talking, but to this day, i have stood my ground and have only remained strictly platonic friends with him because of the fact that . he never hid the fact that i was his first love and the woman who broke his heart. i feel like i will never find another man like him that i can love. have been dating a guy and its been 29 months now , he is cohabitating with his 4year old baby mama and they have recently moved to their house(which was built by the man’s parents). if the man or woman cannot offer it, then move to the next one. i can understand the married man who truly wants his cake and eat it too, but what i’m talking about is that scrotumless man who straddles the fence of staying or going. the other woman must think about herself and whether or not she will truly be happy with settling for being on the side. he hasn't threatened to tell my fiancee anything but he doesn't want me to get married. i’ve lost weight, discovered a new career, and discovered that my life was better without a man who didn’t see my love and beauty. my first time to date a married man but i have been through immense pain. never thought the day you married that you would end up divorcing.’ve been dating a married man which i didnt know he was until 6months into the realationship and feelings had grown she recently found out about me she seen pictures of him and i text messages back and fourth from each and now iam inlove with him what should i do please give me some advice. if you get involved with this married man trust you will be walking yourself down a road to experience more hurt and pain.. this man whom i've been friends with for almost 7yrs. but i cannot get this other man out of my mind. he didn’t hold back the fact that he was married and with a kid too… he has met my entire family… we even started a business together. this week he did something shady & i caught him so i am not the only woman he is cheating with. so instead of taking some pride in yourself and dropping the loser you go to a mighty sorceress and begged her to put a root on the other woman so that you can have the man… if anybody actually uses your services i feel very sorry for them. the beginning of an affair is romantic and naughty at the same time. i told her that whatever he tells her to keep in mind there are other sides and stories to this man’s life; kids, wife, friends and other family. are you saying the man just can’t say no or has no responsibility here?" if you are not getting anything, you should ask the man to make the affair worth your time financially or move on. this year i’m free of that bad married man. i am dating someone i know would never be mine, i would never see him as often as i like, can’t call, can’t go on dates with, someone who has to clearly dictate the pace of the relationship, and someone who is very married… and i love him so much i think id just die if someone else i love leaves me……. i don’t understand how women get catty with the women… it is their man who needs to have some self-discipline and resist the temptation! i know im in the wrong, im the unwanted dinner guest. think i may have fallen for a man (married, ofcourse), who’s about 10 years older. know exactly what you are going through as i’m going through the same 🙁 i’ve been seeing someone for just over a year now and he is the nicest caring man i have ever met.  the other woman can’t call him or see him when she wants to. after i finally found out about this man, i had went through 3 jobs, moved out of my apartment, had to go back to my moms house, gave all my money to him when i would feel sorry for him in the times when he ran out, i waisted almost 2 years of my life. she left her boyfriend of two years to pursue a relationship with the married ex-marine. this man has even ask me to give him a child. im now in a relationship with a married man, and im already gathering courage to leave as early as i can before i completely lose my mind. is no worse pain you will ever go through in life if you are a mistress who gets emotionally involved with a married man. any woman that takes on a married man, needs to be pitied for her self esteem is most of the time, really low. never once have we went from one woman to another and then bragged on this trash. many men do you know who are ruining their lives because of a woman? 5 months ago i have been having an affair with a married man a little over a year now. years later i got married and had no clue where he was but always thought about him. advice but if the married man knows what he is doing, this stuff will of course fall on deaf ears.’ve been having an affair with a married man for 7 yrs. you go off on a rant about how expecting or wanting money or gifts is prostitution and that it's all about the love here, remember that dating a married man is not exactly moral either.!Im single and was having an affair with a married man. i could give people advice it would be: never enter a relationship with a married man. the depth of the depression that results from not being able to have the love of a man you love so deeply is impossible to describe in any words. so many unanswered questions i had so i contacted him again..exuse …juat manipulating u to thinking its not working out bcuz he’s such a good guy n loved u so much but the guilt is too much too bare. he does nt want to b seen with u it’s bcuz he doesn’t see the relationship going anywhere look it up google it or sumthing he doesn’t want to b with u like that he don’t care about u like that …don’t b blind a man won’t introduce u to family n froends n make his ex wife aware if the relationahip doent mean anything he is obviously lying to u about the way he really ffeels n y. they manipulate and control their spouses with their filthy black hearts. during the conversations we had he would tell me about his previous affairs and how we was a manwhore and he had left his wife once got bored of the girl and went back home.’re putting your love life on holdmarried people that cheat want their cake and want to eat it too. i fell in love with a married man who is 4 years younger than me for 6 months now . this married guy has me feeling special, saying everything i need to hear but wants his wife and myself to be in his life. the man is obviously selfish if he is seeking pleasure from other women.! so my advice to you now woman to woman, tell him that you don’t want to be the reason why his leaving his wife or anything of such, he will respect you so much. me girls; a relationship with a married man is never worth it, especially if he has kids. as the other woman, you will only get crumbs from him as he will never truly love you, regardless of what he says.” if this man is a real man, he would have respect. the problem is i thought it was all in good fun but i have realized i am in love with married man in some way it think it would have been easier if he had fucked me because it would make him a scumbag but this make him a martyr.. i could if he could treat me like shit too, because that's what many guys do when a woman accept to have sex with them without commitment. i was young, naive and a single mother- this is not an excuse-i was wrong-but i needed guidance and he was there.

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they are the reason you receive gifts, vacations , and romantic dates you otherwise would not . 26 years old and recently involved with a married man, its been good and bad as well just that idk if for the fact i always been wanting to have somethings to do with this guy and also my coworker i agreed to being his 2nd choice. a woman sleeping with a married man is not the issue. i used to be this huge “stick for women” kind of woman until i stepped into reality and saw how women truly are. i am currently having an affair with a married man and i would love to hear some insight. recently … i ended up sleeping with a married man and i just feel no emotion about it, not even guilt. of christ 4 months ago all of you who are dating married men have your priorities wrong! you are looking at your past and what you and this man had together and how you felt back then and you are using and bringing those past feelings into what you have done today to make it feel some kind of right because you are trying to recapture a memory a feeling of what once existed between you two. is a bad idea even if the guy is not married. also treats me like his inlove with me, i’ve been married before, divorced now, and had a few exclusive love relationships, but i swear that, there is no man i have ever been with that treats me as precious as this man treats me. the same pain and lack of general support you don’t get when an unmarried lover of yours leaves, is same you get with the married man. she is alone most of the time and spends it waiting: waiting for her married lover to call, to come meet her, to share some precious time together. sinclair 9 months ago my married man advertised himself as separated on a dating website. is it wrong for a married woman to seek intimacy with a man if her husband is unable to offer that intimacy she seeks? i guess he was addicted to the thrill and ego inflating situation of being with such a young and pretty woman. you block his number and stay firm he will leave…please escape from him and it is better to be alone than in a wrong relationship. then, he dumps her, finds another woman to sleep with before getting rid of her when she gets tired of being a doormat. if you’re messing with a married person, you’re an adult. one, his brother is a married man and two, i was indeed in love with his brother, but the conversations continued and now feelings have developed into mutual attraction. i’m beginning to be involved with a married man, no i didn’t know he was married at 1st in fact 3wks went by before i guessed it, i’m in a position now where i’m new to the state, not meeting viable men and when we began talking and as things moved along i’m not crushed by this however on the other hand he will probably be as i’ve got things to do, people to meet, places to go and successes to have sooo not payin attention busy doin my thang i don’t have time for nothing but what i desire, now this should be a wake-up call for alotof people as many women these days don’t give no f_ _k about the married thang as men been runnin this game for years so don’t hate bcause i’m cocky, charming and daring more than enough not to be engulfed in his drama as it’s all about me not him, he gone give me money, sex when i want how i want and gifts thats what he’s here for (when i want to be bothered with him) lol definitly done flipped the script (oh please don’t give me all that you should be ashamed of yourself crap as i’m not, won’t be and have a life and things to do (as i mentioned before men have been coldblooded and such for years about time a true princess with swagger moved past it and is now runnin my own way of doin things) peace. he lied to you in the beginning about whether or not he was married, you should seriously consider whether or not you can trust him. if you were with a man who you were not having sex with and who you did not love, and you had this man on the side who you truly did love and had a great connection with, would you be content to go home to the man you did not really want, knowing that your lover is single and could easily find someone who is available for him full time? this article just paints all the bad stuff in shades of grey and does not actually say for a fact what is wrong or right. but they are human and therefore have the ability to walk away. the game soon becomes a chore for him, and romantic interludes are just one more thing he "has to do. i don’t even care that i’m hurting some other woman because women don’t give a damn about each other anymore. addiction and i have an additciotn to this man and i have trouble saying no to. so are you okay with your daughter being a married man’s mistress? women go deaf, dumb and blind over the “what ifs” of a man they find attractive, married or not. these guys are liars and cheats regardless of the woman in their life. during this time i met a married man, at first, i didn’t trust him but as time passed and he was there to talk to i shared my feelings about my situation. it is not unusual for a woman dating a married man to hope that his marriage fails, but, its definitely not productive. i feel foolish to be in love with a man that i never had sex with, but our relationship was just so much more than that. i seen that he only had one picture of this woman on his page. marriage was pretty much over when i met my married man and as soon as i realised i was having feelings for another man i told my husband it was over and we separated. truly agree with you we knew each other before we both got married……2yrs after his marriage he persued me …i gave in…. she got on her high horse by stating that if a man has kids he can't leave. trust you need to move on and start dating single men and let this man go back to his wife and work out their problems and tell him when he has divorced his wife then come look you up.]awkward events to avoid for the single manwhile single men and married men can hang-out and do many things together, there are a few zones that are just awkward when you're single. ensuring you have a life distinct from his that is your safe haven can make being the other woman, if not a secure, permanent position, at least one that is a bit more tolerable. well, i stayed away for a few days, but then i sent him message asking him if he was in fact a scumbag, if i could have been so wrong about someone, if he was in fact happy in his marriage and on, and on, and on (huge message)… and asked to tell me what had happened, because, otherwise, i would think the worse of him… i said how i’d given myself to him with all my heart despite knowing how wrong it was to get involved with a married man etc and asked him what had been his excuse for getting involved with me… the next day, i sent him a message saying the even though he hadn’t replied, i knew he couldn’t be such a monster… he replied a couple of days later. really it’s a lose, lose for a woman to be in that situation. by nia syrah · senior editor on monday, february 1, 2010 filed under married life, the dating gametagged with cheating, mistress, other womanabout nia syrah i'm a mom, a sister, a daughter..Erica 2 months ago i am dating a married man as well. just please manage your expectations and your emotions, and if you really love the other person, you should try to inspire them to be the best husband, wife, parent, human being they can be. my only problem is am at that level whereby i want to have it all , starting a family together, building a home with him and getting married to him. the only unsaintly part is that his married, and his clearly cheating on his wife with me. i know it’s already gone too far, but i lived this exact same scenario with a man who was probably not a bad guy. we became sexually active, he’s very good in bed, he provides for me financially, bcuz am nt yet wrking, he enrolled me in a project mgt training nd so many more things, he advises me. so it is grown man shit to cheat as long as he doesn’t say anything or as long as he washes in between? 4 months ago i have been in a on and off relationship with my ex boyfriend for 5 years, and in this time he was also dating someone else, and i knew about it, but i was so obsess and in love with him that i really didnt care, eventually we parted ways, and he married the other woman and they have a beautiful son togther, it was really painful i couldnt get past the pain, eventually i found the strenght to let go, but couple of months later i once again found myself back with him, i dont know what to do, i am so confuse, the sex is amazing, but im not getting anything out of it, im happy when im with him, but the thought of him sleeping next to his wife just kills me, and the fact that i have to make appointments to see him, and im not allowed to call him at night, i love this guy, but i dont know i how to walk away..and one night my married man caught me with the guy i met in my home. so when the man strikes and she is smitten, judgement goes out the door and the panties drop down to the ankles. safeguard yourself from too much emotional pain, you need to understand that he can only be a small part of your life and will never be more than that no matter how many promises are made. people… i understand fulfilling human urges but there are other ways to take care of those needs without having a mistress or on the flip side having to date a married person to find extra exictement in lust. houghton is the author of the hilarious new book, no woman diets alone - there's always a man behind her eating a doughnut in the top 10 hot new releases at amazon available now on kindle, nook, and all e-book venues. he played so many mind games with me he was making me think i was crazy for not trusting him. as a man his job is to try everything to keep me and to get what he wants, doesn’t mean i have to give in or go along for the ride or the flow and my life hasn’t stopped because of him either. i used to be this huge “stick for women” kind of woman until i stepped into reality and saw how women truly are. i’ve been seeing/sexing a married man for four months. he stays married and we stay friends or he gets divorced. my past i have been with a few married men. iam only 23 and he is 38… and i continously remind myself that iam young and beautiful,and there are a lot of single guys whom i can be with as a whole… i have to accept that i have to watch movies alone, no dates, no meeting my family,no telling my closest girlfriends that iam happy now…but with a married man. any woman wanting a man to dump his wife for her, not because she loves him, but because she is “curious in seeing what limits” she can push (translating t: i want to boost my ego by getting a married man to leave his wife and 9-year old daughter for my selfish ass) is beyond disgusting and dirty and i hope there is only a minority of people like you (or no one like you sounds even better). truth is, a man will change his life around and do anything to win you over if he truly does love you. talk about someone they married (for better or worse) is shameful because at one point he loved this woman and those “flaws” weren’t an issue beforehand. our relationship isn’t exactly secret either as far as my friends are concerned and some of them are married.’ve been with a married man for three years and he left his wife for other reasons they were in therpay and whatever else . still not feeling he was being honest, i did some research and discovered he was married and lied about his name. what a fool i was to allow this short, wimpy man ( who dyed his gray hair to look younger! article comes with a strong assumption that the end goal of any relationship a single woman gets into should be marriage, or long term commitment . always find myself being the other woman, whether it is intentional or not. article, as well as many of the comments here, are making a lot blank statements, false assumptions, and over generalization about these type of situations. although i have to admit that although he was gorgeous and kind, i would not have married him even if he were single, due to the fact that he smokes and drinks.. a man can leave his wife and not his kids. 2 months ago im living together with a married man, his wife left him, they have no baby and no communication at all. a mistress only prevents the man and the wife as well as that second woman to move on – face the reality and make a change.

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    my feelings grew for this married man and lessen on my fiancée, i don’t know how or when but i started liking him more and more. is a very liberal woman, meaning, she is willing to fall for every unconventional way of life/lie that he explains. reading all these comments and being the wife of a man who had and may be still having an affair. brought us together, and we had a connection like i’ve never felt before, and i knew it was wrong but tried to convince myself it was okay if we didn’t get caught. now many yers later, it is hard to believe that this didn’t bother him during the six years we were ” together”..He told me from the start that he was married and couldn’t leave her but told me the usual she’s cold, i don’t love her, arranged marriage etc. remember, it's not cheating on your part because he is married. we’d spend time together but he felt he was doing wrong.. forget planning a nice romantic weekend away, there will always be some reason why it doesn’t happen. the axe is damaging to the soul if you are not married to eachother bg ong to the soul. a lot of the time, it isn’t even about the sex, or that you’re not satisfying your man, or that you got married for the wrong reasons. because i am planning to tell her the truth, that i am married. however, i often felt taken for granted, underappreciated, and romance was exceptionally lacking. no wonder this world has so many sexually transmitted diseases. i have seen many men (and a few women) cheat on their spouse with either one or numerous partners. it takes a lot of self control, which is something lacking in many people these days. not proud of it and i do deserve better than being a side woman. than 5 percent of men leave their wives for the woman with whom they are having an affair. you’re believing a man who is lying to his wife, but somehow youre. i only sometimes feel bad about being with him because my sister’s fiance left her after 5yrs for another woman and here i am sort of doing the same thing as the “mistress. 6 weeks ago this article open my eyes and helped me with a struggle of dating a married man for 9 years. why is monogamy preferable when 48% of married americans are likely candidates for divorce? so, wives, step up to the plate and assume responsibility for your own failed marriages (look within; stop blaming the other woman! when he is with the other woman after you, what is he saying about you to her? he drives trucks and he explained to me how his relationship fell apart with his wife because he was always out on the road and that she was cheating on him and when he would come home to sleep with her her pussy would feel different like she had been with another man. it is not supposed to be permanent, and no person that builds a relationship, whether platonic or sexual, should never, ever want to end someone’s marriage or destroy their family. if the man you want is married go get him or leave him alone and go settle for someone else. i love him and don’t want to lose him over wrongly understanding the situation. best friend, who is single, is dating a married man. he was a few yrs older, with a girlfriend, whom he eventually married and had children with. this year the day before valentines day, i found out he was married and had kids..and i’m sorry but the other woman is not the only reason and certainly not the main reason. they love the chase, fun, everything of dating but step it up 10 notches because they’re married. are you whores that unhappy with your life that you gotta mess with someone else life and that go’s for the man to ! i sincerely hope no one to fall in love with married man as no matter what they shall never leave their wives giving away all the excuses. this article hit it dead on when it said, “married men dont leave! sometimes, i cry myself to sleep as i wish to have a family of my own, which i am now accepting may never happen as i spent many years being in love with a married man. when you have a man abusing your emotions, don't feel guilty about seeing what else is out there. 3 months ago im single mom and i dated married men who work in same place with me for three years. i read this article and i agree with the statement "ask yourself this question: "what am i getting out of dating a married man? he eventually married and had 3 children, and i had a daughter. the best advice you can give someone about having a relationship with a married man is telling her not to even start. else and believe me it feels good for you to call your man anytime of. he is very self conscious about his size and he often says that he wish he had a larger man hood. i have no qualms with a woman getting hers, hell it’s 2010 and itf a man is realistic he knows that he wasn’t the only one getting his rocks off throughout life. but, i can't forget this man who has stood by me when he has no obligation whatsoever.’m married and in love with a married ex boyfriend from 10 years ago. 3 months ago i met a man online last year and we became good friends, or so i thought.! as my situation stands it’s been almost a year now, i am not married to my fiancée because i don’t love him in that way anymore but i am there because of my son and as for the married man, i am in love with him but he’s not leaving his wife. he cheated on his wife in both marriages and flaunted it in front of her with this woman who he was now living with. like a wild animal caught- he began to list all the things wrong with me, a list of flaws if you will or reason why he had the affair.  the woman goes through self-esteem issues and starts to wonder why she is settling for less than what she deserves. otherwise, you will find yourself rejected by your married lover and you will be left alone. when i told him i know he will never really be my man he stops me saying that its not that he doesnt want to be or wouldnt be but he has two children and says that he just doesnt know how to leave them. sure you have those once in a million times where the man actually leaves his wife for another, but for the most part, it is a script for adultery disaster. you for this i’m 22 years old and i’m dating a 42 year old married man and to be honest i am so inlove with him and lately i have been thinking about myself and the future we would have and reading your article did give me a peace of mind regarding our situation. he is married, and says they have an open relationship.! there are millions of single guyz out there and this writer will be telling us how to "caress" being in love with a married man. in love with a married man but now our love is 'sour'. it could well be that the married man values his “side chick” more then the single guy dating his gf. at the end of the day, it gripes my ass that the wife normally gets mad at the other woman, but gives her husband a pass. if he is married and has no intention of leaving his wife, then he may have been dating many women over the years. every man i meet i compare to him and i am not happy. he was really interested in me, and that was really good for my ego since my own husband frequently attacked my self-esteem and put me down… i tried to make it work with my husband for another 3 years, but the truth of it was that i thought about the other man all the time (all the time)… i’d known the other for a year when we had a conversation in which he told me about the problems in his marriage and how his wife had tricked him into getting pregnant with their daughter and that the kid was the reason he didn’t get a divorce… how he actually saw me as a woman he would like to have his child, how he admired me etc… but at some point in the conversation, he got my name wrong. mistake of getting involved with a mm who said he was unhappy in his marriage for many years. the wife is a demanding and high achieving chinese scientist, perfect fit for his family. he said he wants to take me out and he wants me to be his girlfriend, the only thing stopping me is the woman who he’ll be married to a year next month. in a similar situation involved with a married man i met him when i was 15 and he was 26 now i am 20 and he is nearly 31. 5 months ago i am dating a married man, he never told me he has a wife, we only meet once in a month, he comes to my house to have sex with me, but he don't support me financial or may be i don't ask, he don't spent a lot of time with me. we eventually decided to just be friends and we remained so for many years, sharing deepest secrets with one another, and helping each other through different stages in life. he gt to get a girl pregnant years later after we hd broken up and i also got married and even wedded. i’m going through the same situation “but i didnt know he was married at first” i had to find out on my own had i never found out on my own i don’t think he would have told me. new things are new and not made from mistakes-not orchestrated by human manipulations and control! yes, deeply i hate the women for knowingly dating a married man, but they did not make a commitment to be with me; he did. one day you will come to the realization that you have wasted years with a man who is not yours and probably will never be yours. dont let yourself get attached like i have, or you’ll spend way too many nights crying yourself to sleep while he takes his wife on dates, celebrates holidays, or just lives his life. i am recently married, four months about, to a wonderful woman.
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    i did notice him, i noticed he was married so i ignored him. again, it amazes me how “grown” men like you wouldnt drink from another person’s cup you didn’t know, but you will f**** someone who (if knowingly) is desperate enough to do all that nasty shit with a married man? met a married man a year and a half ago. the emotional connection and the forbidden aspect of the affair added to the actual 4-star performance left me utterly weak. if the married man, having to consider also what is good for the kids, makes the “chick on the side” not his first priority, it’s only because the single guy has no such constraints. of the first things to consider is this: did he tell you he was married from the beginning or did he lie to you and then have to tell the truth? i got involved with a married man a few months back. her married lover began to only see her for sex. although i often accuse him of manipulating me, i am the hot head and he is the calm but calculating one.  this in turn will make the other woman feel even more humiliated as she thought he didn’t like his wife like that. put yourself in the shoes of someone who has to explain to children you are the reason the family separated and a major contributor to their lifestyle change, therapy, watching their parents in court and the other emotions that come with being the other woman. this is hook line and sinker for the woman, as she automatically thinks, “oh, he wants to talk to me so badly that he’s risking getting caught! -spartanburg sc 23 months ago darlene's story is almost similar to mine, except i didn't know my boyfriend was married. if a man tells you early on that he is married there is nothing left to discuss. i said i’d never be with anoter married man. i started to find article, ask friend opinion and started to met other man. i didn’t know the snake i was married to.! as my situation stands it’s been almost a year now, i am not married to my fiancée because i don’t love him in that way anymore but i am there because of my son and as for the married man, i am in love with him but he’s not leaving his wife. so they get much more blame than the other woman. i think maybe it's because i haven't allowed another man in my life after my precious relationship or that i have been celibate for 2 1/2 years. i started dating a supposed divorced man who told me he was still responsible for caring for his ex who lived with him but they have seperate bedrooms, do not speak to one another unless regarding the children and that she wears a scarf (muslim) around him at all times. 3 months ago i have been in a relationship with this man for 6 years.? there is nothing wrong with guarding your heart even if it doesn’t seem “cool” or “open minded”. i knew he was married and i let him know i would not get involved because i respect the institute of marriage. he was openly affectionate to me, where another manager said something to him about it. i don’t want to be in a serious relationship with him bcuz i know from experience he’s a womanizing liar. knows his married so his not in any position to ask anything or demand anything from me, but point is, alot of other married men may be married but still make demands and expectations from their mistresses. was dating a married man & didn’t know he was married until recently. there are many who aren’t as respectful and transfer diseases to their spouses. if someone is married, no matter how bad the person says it is, run the other way! it really wrong to stay in a marriage if it ensures that the children will be shielded from the ramifications of divorce? he got married to a beautiful woman and had 2 children. don’t believe the promisses, believe the actions and a man who has no problem betraying the woman he is with has also no problems betraying you. about if the married man speaks volumes of his wife, says he loves her deeply and will never leave her, there is nothing wrong in his marriage, she is perfect. i've been friends for years with an old co-worker who is now married with 3 children. hes feeling guilty for hurting the woman he loves so bad she can’t forgive him he feels like crap for making such a huge mistake that was not worth it. when we were both in our mid thirties with three fast growing daughters, the sob cheated on me again, having an affair with a woman in her early twenties who was the mother of a seven and a half year old son. 5 months ago so i met this wonderful guy that turned out to be married and has 2 kids and i have a boyfriend that we have been together for 3 years now.. your other option is to give him a second chance, but that would depend on the type of man he is and whether or not he deserves it. i was married with a baby girl but broke up with my husband after 3yrs of sever beatings,hatred & mal-treatment from my husband and his people. woman who is in love with a married man lives a life that, for the most part, is shrouded in secrecy. it takes a lot of trust to hve sex with a married man, even of he’s your twin soul. 4 months ago i'm married, and i just started seeing a married man. there is no manual that comes with the marriage license that tells you how to make things work. you do not owe anything to that woman but you owe yourself some respect. when i was 31 i started an affair with a younger man by 7 years.” and a click, leaving the other woman wondering all night if his cover was blown or not, and whether or not she will hear from him after that..the miatress made it so easy n they r indeed in love with thier wife n she had the right to blame u n tell u off because u met up after u knew he wasarried n believe he got blamed slapped n a lot worse for a lot long and stayed becuase he loved her n u were a fling n if it wasnt u he qould of went with another woman u had no connection he is jus a cheater and will chwat no matter who the woman np matter how amazing the wife cus that’s who he is n she stayed because she loved him and he begged n cryed n prooved to b miserable wothout her til she took him back he i’m sure told her how he couldn’t live without her andthat u were a mistake n how all ur flaws made u imperfect n howhe could never aee a furture with u that u were nothing n just made him remember how wonderful she really is n cryed cryed n talked about how everyone cpuld see how miserable he was n he can’t hide it he needs her loves so much shes the love of his life the have to spend the reat of thier lifes together name all the things he hated about u cry cry can’t live without u never giving up . it lasted for 13 years and in between he was married, divorced and then remarried and had a daughter who is now a teenager. bottom line,go get your own single lover,leave the married ones alone. thought being in love with a married man would be so much different than it is. she moved on and we would always manage to find our way back to each other. 19 months ago from californiai am very sorry that you have suffered in your relationship with a married man. my married friend and i are in love with each other and i love the way he looks at me and treats me like a princess…and it hurts him to know when i’m in a relationship. i found out that he was married with 3 children i was shocked. i don’t even care that i’m hurting some other woman because women don’t give a damn about each other anymore. now i’m stuck, sharing custody of my child and watching the married man and his wife pretend to be happy, while he sees me on the side. i know that this story has all the makings of a disaster, but i’ve never loved a man the way i love him, even before the affair. i have been with this man since i was 17 and love him completely… hard to believe that he didn’t think of how completly this would destroy me or his family. he appeared for so many years to be my perfect match, but lied to me from the get go. now you know what you need and now you know you will never get it from a married guy. you’re talking about black women but you’re a black man. when she was 26 and single, he was 41 married with kids. she had a right to know, yet she should have known he would be the same man/cheater to her that he was with her. the woman who is in love will be destroyed while the man moves on eventually and either stays in the comfort of his marriage or finds a new mistress. 10 months ago i think am inlove with a married man. once he said he didn’t want to be a freak, being in a relationship with a woman that many years younger. i am a size 16 and beautiful but i am literally the complete opposite of this woman. just found out via fb that the guy i’ve been dating is married. but, was liiving with a woman of means, him meansless, for many years, who had been his affair partner while both were married. we talked for 2 months online before meeting… i dated him several times and then he told me he was married. ladies get some therapy learn self love and how to live without the attachment of someone elses man.’m a single woman who met my married lover months ago, out shopping one day. i was involved with a married guy that fell for me and i really know this – i could see this. before you become a mistress or continue your relationship as one, please, remember that you are not only screwing around with your own emotions and your own life or the man’s wife’s, you are screwing with the emotions and life of his children, family members, friends and everyone else’s he is connected too. however, if the married man sets out to obtain a jump-off…well, he’s not quite the catch now is he?. too many nights of looking stunning in your new outfit only to be admired by the cat as you’re let down yet again.
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      sit back and think about how scummy a disloyal married man is. my opinion is that you should meet this woman, but tell her about the fact that you're married before you start kissing and having sex. 6 weeks ago i am so lost in my relationship with a married man at this point. my point is, mistresses must stop believing that they hold the key to happiness over married men. since my friend has started this relationship with this married man, i find that i don’t trust her around my husband. apparently he moved home and now i found out after we shared nights together just cuddling, kissing, and he performed oral sex on me, i found out he is married. so i told him i was not ready yet to build a family but what i really wanted was to first get married with him before starting a family. god, did any one who is cheating realize the court systems take this into account, they know it’s potentially “emotionally abusive” when a cheating married man tries to get his children in a divorce hearing. if you get the man to marry you what makes you think he will not get bored of you as the years go by and do the same thing with somebody else…. to askthere are issues to seriously consider if you think that this man may be the one.’m engaged but not happy i guess i’m still here because we have child together about 2 months ago i met this guy and we started talking, from the start he was honest he told me hes married and i know i’m wrong but i’m starting to catch feelings for him idk if he is towards me since he set his rules which one of them was no feeling, he tells me that he will never leave his wife because they have 2 young children, i asked him why he cheats he reply that he hardly has sex with his wife and that they don’t communicate a lot since he’s a workaholic, so he’s looking for someone that gives him what he’s wife is not doing…idk what to do today i told him that i broke one of his rules he asked me which one i said feelings then i said i messed he reply back with yes fuck that i don’t understand what that means and he hasn’t texted me since. the ‘mistress’ is just one of many people that married man or married woman share a moment or period in life with. boyfriend is married but they have been separated for 2 years & the divorce is being finalized as i type lol. god said vengence is mine and i will relay every man according yo his deeds. cycle of the love affair with a married man almost always ends in broken hearts, hurt, and wasted time. he had told me that he had married with 3 children but i just ignored it because he had convinced me that his feeling on me is true. you are wrong to think that you should reveal what you and he are doing to his wife. usually when a man has this pattern, he dates the woman until she begins to expect more out of him. year ago i would have said that a relationship with a married man was the worst think that could happen to a young woman. many ways they can seem more mature, attractive and have their lives more together than their shambolic single counterparts. in the process, he demanded i respect her in memory and basically told me that at any given point i should be aware that i’m ‘replaceable’. want a particular married man and i know he likes me. / dating a married man - it isn't ever worth it. 🙁 5 years into my relationship with the married man; at the start i was also married and we both had children in our marriages. one day i looked him dead in the face and ask d him if he was married and he said no as if it were a foreign word. friend eventually met and married another man, but, sadly, she continued her practice of dating married men who used her as a side. i didn’t know he was married at first, but i can’t make that an excuse. because he cannot be the man you need in your life. i know that he will never ever leave his wife and son and it breaks my heart, when he says that he loves me i truly believe him as i can see it in his eyes, i am so in love with him but i know that it’s so wrong and unfair on his wife and his son but by the same token i just can’t give him up, thing is hun i’m gonna get badly hurt as one day he is going to leave me as i know he wants a brother or sister for his little boy in the future 🙁 makes it even worse staying with him rly, must be a mug! i really liked him but i can't be with a married man. you’re in love with him and don’t want it to end and don’t want to be with any other but him regardless of the fact it is wrong. you have found yourself in a relationship with a married man, you must protect yourself and weigh your options..so i could find a suitable man mynage to settle down with because he was not leaving his wife. as a marriage and family therapist, people cheat for so many different reasons. 8 weeks ago found out recently that a man i have been sleeping with is sleeping with someone i know and have worked with. his wife is very nice and sweet lady married to him since she was 18 years old. i recently met a man who i thought was perfect. 2 months ago how about not committing adultery and just staying away from married man altogether? embarked on a physical relationship that was probably wrong because i should have waited until he had definitely left, but it felt like mutual comfort, something that we both needed and i was head over heels in love with him. her married boyfriend said to her, "you love me now, but one day you will hate me. 17 months ago i am not sure my story fits but in the end i am dating a married man. have the right to find a man who will reserve your own love and happiness, you habe that right, just like his wife deserves as well.. i am completely shocked at how many women have such low self esteem that they need to allow themselves to fall in love with a man that already has obligations! so to the other woman you have ruined a family in so many ways and i can only hope that in the turmoil we can grow! love affair with the married man starts with a man who married for the wrong reasons and thus never truly felt fulfilled in his commitment to the wife. kristen houghton affairs the-other-woman mistresses: a history of the other woman. if the husband would keep his lying, cheating ass at home instead of pursuing other woman and work on what is lacking in his marriage or make the decision to divorce these situations wouldn’t exist. we have come close so many times to ending it. my feelings grew for this married man and lessen on my fiancée, i don’t know how or when but i started liking him more and more. this is the type of man i’ve been waiting for. don’t blame the other woman right out of the gate 60%of these men lie about being married or rationalize to get the woman emotionally underpinned and it’s the husbands fault. i tried to break this relationship off at least 4 times because i feel guilty and ashamed for falling for a married man. but, i do not believe we should limit our encounters to only single people, or that all married people are off limits. pursued me at work, and i did not know he was married, but he did tell me on our first date. someone suggested that was a reason so many men go on the down-low. i knew he was married, i saw his ring finger, so i downplayed the connection and said i was tripping. these days, a faithful man or woman in the ideal perspective is a rare find, whether married or single.  if the man is not a total ass, he will feel the guilt every time he looks in his wife’s eyes, and he will try to ease the guilt by taking her out on a date, or suggesting a family vacation, etc..Am begining to love him that much but the fact that he is married tears me apart because i do not want to date a married man. although i had my suspicions, and i asked if he was married and he said no, i later found out that his meaning was that the marriage itself was over not the paperwork. the other woman is not married to you, so she really isn’t obligated to respect your marriage. don’t know if this is to do with my parents spitting up when i was little due to my mother cheating on my dad and leaving him for the other man. they quickly figure out how to become the man of your dreams. the women should be honest also with that man on his pass.: here’s how a wingman helped me get a date in london. pingback/trackback26 september 2016 at 6:09pm[…] worthless love – dating a married man . we immediately started to make out, and tho we both knew what we were doing was wrong, he's married, i have a boyfriend of 8years, we couldn't stop. the only way i’m f****** with a married man is if he’s providing financial support. i love a man i can’t have and can’t get over.———————————–wwwh, because it’s her husband, and not yours, maybe you should ask yourself, how does one lay with a man who is someone elses husband and allow him to do that , that’s the damn question. i met a married man at work and we hit it off immediately..he lyed to gehe wasn’t unhappy …if a man is unhappy they’ll leave the wife n n this would b the perfect opportunity but he wasn’t unhappy so this was a mistake. both of us are married but her husband already called it quits. he suggested we just being friends, but i can’t have friendship with someone breach basic human trust. nine years, my friend darleen dated a man who was married and now regrets it. it had been years, many years later but it still hurt the same.. the needs of the many (namely, his family) will always outweigh your needs.
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      clearly there was something lacking in your relationship for him to cheat (still wrong nonetheless). when a man is with a mistress, they spend stolen moments together so it’s an unreal fantasy.’s 21 reasons you should never have an affair with a married man. dont ever date a married man or aman going through a divorce ! are always the other woman because you do not see your own value. couples stay together in developing countries despite polygamy and many cases of sexual infidelity, because they focus on the needful. he was a decent human being in that *he* ended it. i am married, but on occasion, my husband and i experience strife and manage to overcome and become closer. if this man really loves you it will kill him to think that he is robbing you of a good life and he will want to do something about it. i feel hard for this man over a 9 year timeframe like a fool! he sees you as a valuable woman, he will know that other men are after you, and he will want to make sure that he gets you before someone else does. can some married men chime in here and give us your prospective? have been cheating with a married man we started out flirting and talking about everything under the sun sometimes just hanging out . what you are in essence doing is staying in your lane, not all married men want to wife the goomah, most of them would be happy to be used up as long as the wife doesn’t find out.. now i am dealing with my broken heart since i knew he was still married. i knew that the fact that i was married was probably an advantage, in his point of view… he really didn’t show that he cared all that much about me, except when i was in front of him, but i made up excuses for him (busy etc). to handle loving and dating a married manupdated on october 28, 2016. grant 6 months ago from united kingdommy feeling is that a leopard never changes its spots, and if you get involved with a married man, he is likely to lie to you like he lies to his wife, and ultimately, if you get together, he will be unfaithful to you just as he was to his wife. tell him u seen his ex wife in the store happy as ever with another man inrodiced as her boyfriend so h. just a word of caution to those mistresses out there, you aren’t dealing with a real man- they are liars. while you were out there cheating leaving her by herself she could have found a man to do the same thing. have been seeing a married man for about 6 months (did not know he was married for weeks into it) and hes always said he shouldve never married her. i told him many guys were in a relationship where the gap was even bigger. many other things count, and it is left for each one to decide what’s most important. you, like most women, want a family of your own, but because you are with him instead of a single man you cannot have a family with him. the romance dream breaks when you have to deal with “real life! - carolina 2 months ago i was in a 15 year relationship with a man and we have four children together he wanted an out do he left us . if i could, i’d tell each and every woman who “believes in true love” to live that fantasy out with a single man. he was not married when we met, but he did so within the first year, after a decade of dating he is expecting his first child.’m guilty of having an affair with a married woman for almost 2 years. i know the ow does not believe that i am a good woman because i found out from communicating with her that he has totally bashed me. how we know if the guy we are dating is married? remember that when you’re 60 and you can’t get it up anymore and she desires a young man who is not impotent.!I tried to leave then and 100 times since, but my married man is quite the talker and i guess im just too blind or too weak to not put a stop to it once and for all. and because of my fear with my past relationship and the fact that everyone always leaves me, i let the insecurities show…calling him, asking him what went wrong…he says my insecurities are making me rant but i know he’s changed. all married men are liars and this man was upfront and honest about his marital status and his intentions with me. please think it over from the ” other family’s” perspective and see the man or woman for who they truelly are…. many of us have been there and the attraction turns to scorn when you learn that she’s merely some dude’s mistress. 2 months later, now i’m pregnant with another man’s baby (the 1 time i have a ons…sad!’m amazed at how many people are in a similar situation…. i knew he was unhappily married, and the more time we spent together talking the faster we fell in love. mistresses will say that her married man isn’t sleeping with his wife, she is this, she is that she isn’t this she isn’t that. whether it is because of all the legal and financial problems attached to divorce, religious beliefs or the fact that they have become comfortable with their marriage the way it is -- or even because they still have a certain affection for their wives, men rarely end up with the other woman. think if two consenting adults develop a friendship, it doesn’t matter if one of them is married.’s too many single people out there to risk your health messing with a married one. but the man i am marrying is the father of my daughter we have been together since age 21. i am married to a wonderful man for over 15 years and have two kids. 5 months ago i'm in love with a married man, we have been together for almost 6 yrs. well anyways during that period she got pregnant and had her daughter with another man. petersburg, fl (check her out on facebook) is dating a married man in her physical therapy assistant program (pta) at south university. i lost my hair and physically am not the same person, but he is still around and paying for my many expenses.. shortly after that, i started dating a great man and we’ve been together ever since. i guess then you’re a man who who played by one of these sluts and you probably kiss these hoes after all the cum in their mouth from the last dude lol. and if you don’t know the person is married at first that’s ok, but the second you find out that is your cue to leave… why would you stay? i fell in love with this man and i started noticing that we always stayed at my apartment, phone calls only occurred at certain times, never met any family or friends.’m going thru this now as we speak, i’ve been with my husband for 7 years and married for 7 months now and and he’s already falling in love with his coworker, he tells me he won’t leave me cause of my daughter but yet he continues to message her i’ve confronted and she tells me she’ll not fight for him nor wants to fight for him and says she’ll stay away . right now i'm completely, madly in love with a married guy. in fact i don’t even love the guy, sure i have feelings for him but i know that he is someone else’s man and therefore not made for me. as a single guy it feels like a kick in the teeth when you put effort into pursuing a beautiful, lovely woman that you assume is available, only to hear that she’s taken – by a married man. been reading almost all the stories in here…made me feel halfway there in ending up things with this married guy iam seeing… iam successful in my careeer, single, i have few suitors, and i just came out from a long term relationship, i was on the process of moving on, and finally found comfort with my family and friends. three months ago, i met this guy and he told me he was single and never been married. i only sometimes feel bad about being with him because my sister’s fiance left her after 5yrs for another woman and here i am sort of doing the same thing as the “mistress. finally told my unfaithful married lover to get in touch with me if she ever became available.. he wants me to find somebody else and get married to. started my job about 3 months ago in a coffee shop, i didn’t think my boss fancied me at first but he would say to me ‘why are you the way you are’ and ‘why you so beautiful’ telling me how much he enjoyed working with me and always quite touchy and he would tell me he liked me but i brushed it off because he’s married.” we went to high school together and freshman year, we almost had sex, but never did. i made a stupid decision of putting all my trust in a man..he no longer calls me, he hardly text,if he does it’s one or two words… i’m so mad…not with him but with myself to have gotten involve with a married man…i feel used and i don’t know how to get over this because i started to fall for him…sigh.. a mistake is when you , when you are presented with your wrongs ,or short cummings, then to stop, evaluate, and not repeat the action, and to use those experiences to become a better person. first it was just friendship and i was going after him even thought i didn't know he was married with kids but once he told me i still went after him thinking i wasn't going to catch feelings since he reassure me that besides having sex nothing else was going to happen. he was living in atlanta, ga and he had a child with another woman at the time and never looked back to since he moved. in love with a married man too but o don’t want him to leave his wife for me, all i need is to be loved and i love him so much in a way that i can’t hide it. he told me his wife wanted to do whatever it took to make their marriage work i felt like crap… here i was stepping into a marriage he was never going to leave, and this poor woman loved him and had no idea, and that’s not the person i wanted to be…. for extramarital affairs: make it worth your timeask yourself this question: "what am i getting out of dating a married man? currently dating a mm, after a break up with my ex bf and lots of family issues, i met dis guy on a social media, we strted talkn regularly, he calls and bbm, den i askd him if he was married nd he said yes, also asked if he has a kid, and told me he has a son, by then i had fallen for him, he showed me love nd care bcuz. i have never in my life had a one night stand nor ever had sex with any man the first date. we have been so cold to eachother for many months that it can’t take long before she start to have enough of it.