Women, be very careful with your relationship with men in Jamaica

a complete idiot i was this guy was handsome and charming was arrested for carnal knowledge of an underage girl said he wasinnocent and 15 thouand pounds later i find out that he was cheating on me with another tourist and so i stopped sending him money now i am a slag i hope that they lock him up and throw away the key no more jamaican men for me. maybe there is a reason you are not into dating a younger man. i have to realize that no man can stand on his own if he has to ask for money from anyone. and one more thing miss china never compare other jamaican men with one bad experience with a jamaican man u been with. bottom line, my guy is jamaican and we argue alot. dont say dating a married man is right, but things do happen in life…. i don’t know if it’s the love making or my rasta jamaican man i love. island has jobs for those who want to work so there is no excuse why many men prostitute themselves by thinking the cocky is sooo good a woman will provide for them financially. don’t lump all jamaican men into one as you may miss out on an amazing man who will treat you like gold. i know when god approves of my special man it will work he knows best. i do believe that not all jamaican men are the same. i can’t understand how this man got away for such a silly reason. they are very good at telling women what they want to hear, and they further capture a woman’s heart with their love-making skills.!Do jamaican men have a lot of baby mothers and children?!) so that he can hopefully find a job quickly when we get married and he comes over here to live with our son and i…i love him soooo much! each man decides how he will individually treat his woman. unfortunately i have heard many many stories that suggest that is the case. i don’t know what to say, because i don’t known the man. just because we as women feel the need to share every part of our lives with our partners, why should we expect the same, its only honesty if you dont demand wityh ultimatums to know! am so happy that you have positive things to say about jamaican men, because there are good things about them too. even after him telling me that i still couldn’t trust him beacuse he lied to me and i thought it was bull he was telling me…i broke up with him on his birthday morning after he didn’t come home the nite before…its been three months now that we have broken up…i realized that i made a terrible mistake and i love this man…and i want him back…he says there’s no one else but he just want come back…he talks to me on the regular for a few weeks and then i don’t hear from him for another few weeks…he says he with friends…what should i do? sure to check out my new book “how to date a jamaican man”. confirmed with the woman (who was jamaican) that it happened, and he said to her he was married and it all went down anyway as they say in history. men are nothing but liars i know this because i just recently messed with one i am a african american woman who is 31 and he is 22 years old. if the man you described is a rastaman i would say that he could be genuine and honest. stop on dating this jamaican man, until his divorce is final. this man is really kind, humble and sweet…but for some reason i just don’t trust him ! is your friend blindly in love with this man or is she beginning to realize that she was taken advantage of? he used to smoke a lot of weed and smoke cigarettes and party and sex girls everydayy but when he met me i straight up told him im not up for a pot head or a smoker or a wild party man and that i like gentlemen and he needs to act accordingly. sounds like you are making alot of excuses for this man. he cant wait leave his ass alone as a jamaican dem jamaican you all meeting makeing me feel bad to be from jamaica. just relax and show him you can manage yourself well under the pressure of being separated. he is married and to be honest i never really planned on having sex with him. several years ago before my first trip to jamaica, many many of my jamaican friends told me, what ever you do when you go to jamaica do not get involved with the men down there, as most of them only have one thing in mind when it comes to foreign woman "visa", and they all have several women.. when approached with this information, my jamaican man was shocked that i learned everything, yet spent more time trying to convince me to stay with him. are times in a mans life when he is in a relationship and is not honest with the woman that he is with. but i didn't listen, i felt i had done enough looking into to who he was and came to the conclusion that he was different from the typical "stereotype of jamaican men". many american women have questions and concerns regarding dating a jamaican man. ladies, i am an american born black woman, and i have experienced many jamaican men and the most current is just like all the rest, wonderful! of all a man has to be a man and work because nothing is free in this life. but for a foreign woman who meets her man in jamaica…? of the jamaican men don’t like texting because they can’t spell correctly, so they keep it short and simple. i do not blame his homicidal tendencies on his culture, however, i do know alot of jamaican men to be very possessive of their women. during a recent trip to a beautiful jamaican resort, i met and talked with this young (26 year old) scuba instructor (i’m just a few years older). i think american women just have this fantasy sometimes when they are out of the country, and me already loving island vibes & reggae music, i was clouded by that vision of seeing myself relaxing there with this man. and, she is not wealthy by american standards, however, she does earn a nice living which might be considered wealthy by jamaican standards. i’ll find the right man for me one day or he’ll find me…in the mean time i wouldn’t mind bumping into another jamaican like the previous one just as long as we end it before any damage! she is rather a large woman (over 300 pounds), average looking, 14 years younger than him, and seems to handle the finances. not all jamaican men are the same, just like not all jamaican people are the same..but my man and i werent actually in a relationship then,we had just met, so that doesnt matter to me. a lot of these jamaican men “dry beg” they won’t ask you for money but have no problem detailing their supposed financial problems. i guess she meant to take it slow let him know he’s dealing with areal woman,let him know what you will not tolerate, put up with, time will reveal his true self, intentions,also i am still learning it is not what a man say’s but what he does that gives credit to who he is , it is not what he promises but what he delivers, just because a man is jamacian,or rasta doen’t mean he’s perfect sometimes we decieve our selves in stead we should sit back take it so slow, and see what type of person the man we desire to be with truly is remember jah is perfected in us,and all takes time let’s not rush to get our hearts crushed, instead sit back, think before starting a new relationship what are the qualities we seek in a boyfriend ,or husband,keep an open mind, if there are too many none qualities your seeking, he’s displaying we may need to move on.

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jamaican people being able to trust you is really important. have a cherry list of top jamaican companies that might be able to help you.! in my opinion, jamaicans are insecure and full of pride. omg motha passed six years ago an she preached, make a man respect u. my issue is the last man i dated started asking for money for his mom’s glasses or his electric bill right away. I have just written a miniature eBook to help out American women "dating a Jamaican man". after a year together and many trips to see him, we decided to get married. the best man i have ever had in my life. i’m even going to buy a jamaican cook book with easy to make daily meals. we also believe that as a woman, you have extra responsibility to make sure your “crevices” are clean and fresh. when i met him i had no idea he was jamaican but i’m happy proud and amazed of and with the man i’m married to.. i am sooo in love with this man, he is the best thing that has ever happened to me.“rasta man way of life” book: 6 rasta king unity connections. feel like i could tell him anything… i heard that jamaican men are great lovers, i hadn’t had sex in eight years. Several years ago before my first trip to Jamaica, many many of my JamaicanHow to choose  your rasta name – rasta mediation. i don’t think all jamaican men are like this, but as i read below, get to know them way before you take a leap and that goes for any country you visit. so, if you are dating a jamaican man and he is dominating you in the bedroom, it’s probably because he thinks it’s what you want. i know there are some great jamaican men out there.  jamaicans are conditioned from they are very young to be the best in all that they do – no exceptions in the bedroom! good hygiene, be very clean, this is  important in jamaican culture.!Wow i ben dating a jamaican man for about 8 months now n i really cnt say a bad word about him. he seems to be sweet, kind, open… we discuss our cultural differences expectations… everything… he tell me, what he is looking for in a woman honestly, trust and communication. if you are with a jamaican man my piece of advice to you is run as far away as you can. i met a 43 year old jamaican men at my job, who is divorce after 15 years of marriage due, to ex… cheating. i have just written a new e-book just for american women to learn all about dating jamaican men. most americans try to take a dominant role in a relationship for control…jamaicans on the other hand tear down or try to ruin your esteem all in hopes that you depend on them and only them. but the question is – why are they so dishonest, unloyal, disrepectful and bad when managing money. am with a jamaican man that is supposed to be rasta but likes anal sex i am not about that. i wonder if growing up in ja makes it hard for a man to show love… appreciation…etc. i hope that you will get the same kind of relationship if you love this man. its crazy reading all the other experiences women had w jamaican men. but a woman can only bear so much, especially one that’s already been through so much in the past. i know that often times jamaican men prey on american women – my guard is up.?Hi there i am cj, i am from jamaica, i think the best to do is leave him, let me tell you most jamaica man love sex, but when it comes on to sex they cant just stick to one girls its going to boring to them, he may be right that he loves you and your is all, but no matter what he is going to want to have sex with someone else thats just typical jamaican man not all though, he may not love the other girls but love what they are giving him and thats sex, its mostly about the sex for jamaican men, they may have this one girl that they love and want to spend their life with, and have a couple other girls only for the sex, and to stop him from doing that is going to be really hard, so either you leave him, find a nice christian guy are someone else who wont cheat on you, are you can stay with him and be cheated on, until you find another way for him to stop are until he stop off is own, i hope this helps……………. i have been warned by others as well about jamaican men doing all these things and making a woman feel special and like a queen, only with alterior motives such as money, material things, a way to the states, etc. i would have never,believed what ppl say to be true about jamaican,men but it is. over a two year period my relationship with a jamaican man cost me over ,000 usd. a man does not abandon his family and leave the heavy burden for the woman to carry. they are going there to play because they know that there are women who goes there to catch a man. you want to marry a man with alll these other children?, i dated a jamaican man for the first time and i dam! so, sometimes to others it may appear that we do too much for a family member, but this is what we as jamaicans are used to. is a jamaican guy that i think has a crush on me but everytime we talk he only wants to talk about sex. people in general don’t appreciate it when a woman who is not black tries to act black. the common stereotypes surrounding the men from this culture revolve around jamaican men and relationships. family and him get on well, but i am black british and him jamaican.  i want every woman who comes to jamaica to enjoy the talents of these smooth talking men to be very careful in getting too involved with them without stepping back and honestly evaluating the motives of these men. after we got married i found out i was pregnant. would say not jamaican i am jamaican that live in the usa i come here on my own went was 16 teen now i am 24 not all jamaican are like that.) that he is married (since 2010), to a white woman, with money. ando jamaican remember you have daughters and sons to that can be hurt like you hurt and or use foreign women. he said that’s why i don’t have a man.


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would like to say that my previous entry was in no way meant to bash all jamaican men. if their man can’t provide for the household they give them bun(cheat with a men who can give them some money). when she finally decided to contact his manager to get her money, he asked her, “did i tell you, you would be reimbursed for airline tickets? person who truly loves and cares about you will never manipulate you into doing anything that would cause you to feel bad. i'm finished with that rubbish i'm sure there are some nice makes in jamaica or who herald from there but after the crap experience i had, no thanks i will leave them to woman with more patience than i have for that tomfoolery. you are dating a jamaican man and he dominates in the bedroom here are 2 reasons why he may be doing this…. i apologize if i insult any one but the 'stereotype' that jamaican men have many women, is actually a fact. good loyal faithful loving caring considerate respectful respectable authentic jamaican men in this world. he had a wife in jamaica, divorced her quickie-style, married this woman months later and they lived as roommates for some time. i myself have a ras for a boyrfirend, he is not jamaican, but i can confidently say he expects from me as his girlfriend the same that any person would expect from their partner. so, he is not available to you or any other woman but his wife. im not like that nether are all jamaican men if you dislike us so much why is your profile pic a j can flag . he’s a hard worker that takes pride in being a man and supporting his kids etc. he reaches out to my friend via social media, meets up with her and quickly engages a romantic relationship. married this chick to get a green card to get to america. he asked her to purchase the tickets prior to the event and told her, “my manager will reimburse you after the event. am an non-jam woman and been dating a ja man for almost 2 years. are a woman, and just based on that alone you are special. i really helped this man and he really disappointed me. myself as a jamaican living in nyc got caught in the same trap. want to buy your book, ‘jamaican men; 21 things about dating a jamaican man’, but i don’t have a kindle! i have looked into this in the past and talked to many ja women and men. add to this their natural tendency for being polite and it is easy to see that great social manners are sometimes mistaken for flirty behavior and seductive games. i am afro american and i learned not to fall in love cuz he lied so i just use him for money and sex…the key is to with hold your heart and your feelings just a little cuz the jamaican man has ulterior motives…my thing is play them for they play you. but his cousin was trying to reassure me that this was how jamaicans danced and not to let it get to me.! long story short, i ended up having to literally run away from this ‘ charming’ man and go into hiding bc i was tired of his constant abusiveness (physical, sexual, emotional, financial, psychological) which he felt was acceptable behavior that i should have just dealt with. i’ve read through each of these stories and they bring back so many memories of our past. he has a ooman somewhere who’s looking for money from him to maintain her. my hope is that women will feel that they have just had a window into the heart of the jamaican man after reading this e-book. have learned through personal experience and feedback from my articles that too many women have fallen so hard for the lines of these men that they have blindly married what they thought was their knight in shining armor.., but he got deported to jamaica before they could get married. he met her here while on a work program and claims nothing was romantic between them initially. never dated one before, because my dad always told me to stay away from them because they are womanizers, lol. i was so enamored by the swagger that jamaican men often have. my heritage is jamaican, and i have been rastafari from birth. that can be a good thing if you plan to continue dating a jamaican or a bad thing.  i am realising that i don’t have a clue who this man is; i love him and wish to make him mine, and hope one day to marry him. i’ve been in 2 relationships in the past 16 years with a jamaican man. stereotype regarding jamaican men is that they cheat on their romantic partner. involved in a relationship with a rasta man now for 2 years… feeling the need to end communication and cut all relations due to lies directly relating to cheating…. often when it looks like a jamaican man is being overtly seductive; it is more than likely that he thinks he is being just nice and friendly. in the end i found him on facebook saying the same comments he was saying to me and failed to mention he was married! however there were also many many who were a little too nice, cause they just wanted what they could get, including most of my in-laws.” in jamaican culture, honesty is soooooo important, and it is expected. he is 10 years younger, has never been married and i am not sure why he would be interested in an middle aged usa girl with all the beautiful women in ja. a jamaican man was inspired by many questions and comments i have received on my blog, www. i have started dating and have met a really wonderful man. everybody i am a jamaican guy, i am 19 years old, well what can i say all these jamaican guyz that do all these things they only make it bad for the good guyz here in jamaica becuz girls are going to think all of us are the same but we are not, to be honest i try my best to meet a nice american girl that i can spend my entire life with but i always get denied becuz of what their past jamaican man did to them, take it from me jamaican guyz find it really hard to keep one girl, becuz their are so many good looking females in jamaica, but some guyz really do keep one girl but you can hardly find those guyz, the guyz like myself who wants a american girl to be with cant seems to get any, but the once who don’t really want them are always getting them, lets just say we good guyz always finish last, and remember not every jamaican guyz are the same, and don’t just love a guy for what he have and what he don’t have, love him for who he is not for what he have and what he don’t, becuz most times the guyz that has it all always abuse their relationship, and remember the most important thing is to trust him and be honest, and if you have been trying a long time with a jamaican man stop and move on sometime you have to give up some things that you love to get something better, i hope this helps who wanted help, bye. shortly after him and his daughter arrived to canada, i found that the lady that called me was infact his woman back home and his other baby mother that i,did not kno about. have been living with a jamaican man for 8 months and my advice to you is rruuunnn! the minute he comes across with that same old line many give they need this and that i am sooo gone! make sure thing that shouldn’t be on the floor are not, and always make sure the dishes are done, and oh yeah, keeping the bath tub clean is really important in jamaican culture.

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i thank jah for revealing this man’s feelings for me to him and me. you sound like a down to earth woman, and you deserve to be treated like a queen. have dated a jamaican man and like previous post my advice would be run and run away fast ! in other words the jamaican man has been conditioned through his culture, that he should do a fantastic job in the bedroom. have been dating this jamaican man for a year now.. this ismy first time eva dating a jamaican n it truly new. went to school with a jamaican years ago we met back up on a social site. they demand alot but only give one thing in return (thats not enough in the long run). all jamaican men are dogs in the same manner not all americans are bad do you know the reverse of what you are saying happens to jamaicans who encounter some americans i an afraid of american women period but i know some are good. there are good good one woman man in jamaican , they are already taken. am 25 l have been seeing this 51yr old jamaican guy off an on for about 5yrs now and wen l met him he told me he living with his kids mother but they are nt together. be strong there r better jamaican out there i can swear on that. am a black woman 22 years of age and my boyfriend and baby’s father is a 27 year olf jamaican. and there are plenty of jamaican men and rasta who support themselves. have alot of jamaican men ive addef on facebook and i swear that if u r pretty they will say i love you quick, then the ask for money,minutes on their phone, or shoe clothes western union, the list goes on. friend once told me, when she was getting married, her uncle told her, “leave your single girlfriends where they are. he is the only man i have ever felt close enough wig to bring to my family and my son aftr 1 year. my mother has passed away 13yrs ago, she used to say you gotta make a man respect you, or he will run all over you. ( sad, i feel like he has made me hate all jamaicans. jamaican man are very good at chosing women who will put up with their bull shit. it doesn’t have to be jamaican food he just expects me to cook every day and when i don’t he gets offended and disappointed with me. within a month of getting married, the woman just started coming out of the woodwork like roaches. of them dont settle down with jamaican women (there is a reason for that and he will tell you-listen carefully! advise to any woman visiting negril to just put ur sunglasses on and enjoy the sun,beach,food and nightlife but stay away from the scammer,lying,deceitful men . i dont like anybody to paint me with the same brush, as other “rasta” other “black women” other “jamaicans” etc. so what we have here is the jamaican telling her she would be reimbursed for the tickets and his manager denying it was ever said. cant believe all the bad comments i’m reading about jamaican men. all jamaican men are the same, not all women are the same. so, always tell your jamaican man, if he needs hygiene or grooming, then give him a kiss, for a job well done. the texts read i love you and doing everything possible to keep us together, i had to be careful because i do not want this woman to put me out of her house? although i do believe he cares for me i do not believe that he would serious date me if he was single because i am not jamaican. to cook for a jamaican manneed a us bank account? jamaica statistics - read it to believe it apr 05, 17 12:55 amdespite been the worst in many cases, we also have the distinction of been the best. if he is with you and you are not jamaican, but can still keep house like a jamaican woman, you score points big time. there is no way in hell that i would be ok with my man leaving home to go be with another woman. he is 38 and i am 53 but look 30 i never really liked young man, i gave him a chance. you will also want a family if you get married. not all jamaican men are like that but my ex and all his friends family and associates were cheating a lot, abusive (in various ways), and unapologetically so. we have to accept our part and keep things classy and demand respect in our relationships and not be afraid of being alone sometimes we need that to reflect. if a jamaican woman had your man how would her life truly be? yes they need their space, family is important (their side, not yours) and they like good jamaican cooking. they don’t wanna lose one of there many woman. i mean i would like to eventually get married seeing as we have a child together, i can see hes a genuine good person, good morals and been together for years but things in our past i can’t get over. am a white woman from Canada, the majority of my friends are from Jamaica. when i am trying to decide whether or not to stay with a man, i ask my self one question. some of these ladies commenting i understand where you guys coming from and unuh(your) experiences but some of you ladies have a few misconception about jamaican, like for example “jamaican man love to have a lot of women and they are not loyal nor treats me right and only want money” well no not all jamaican men and this can lead to other women agreeing to these statements that are not completely accurate making it look bad for us hard working jamaican men who tends to make life better us and our families. jamaican womenlove white menhow to cook for a jamaican manrastafari way of lifeebookinteresting foods of jamaicajamaican women are really soft puddy cats. honestly this relationship has put my views on jamaican men down.,i am dating a jamican man that has beenin the states for 18ys, hes divorced and his ex cheated on him, i feel so happy wiht him and he treated me like a queena t first,. jamaican women tend to have too much class, or non at all. you must remember jamaican men are somewhat fascinated with foreign women if thats what you are. my names samantha and i have been dating this guy for 3 months and we are so happy together he treats me like a angel better than my ex he was white he seams to be more understanding and we have a lot in common he listens to reggae and so do i because i was brought up with the music i am so happy in my relationship and wouldn’t ask for a better man because i sure no i wouldn’t fined one on this planet .

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met a jamaica man above 9 mons ago, we became good telephone friends and i started helping him out with cash.  one of the women came to jamaica and married her man. this may be true about a select few wealthy popular jamaican men. my friends (mostly jamaican) at home continued to warn me, and said i should not get involved with him. i remember being told by him that if i can't assist him, where's the sense in the relationship as he could be with a jamaican woman' i ask myself now why i didn't tell him to run along then as his behaviour ( begging) got a lot worse, stories of being arrested and needing money to pay to make the case go away etc i heard it all and then he talks of respect after acting like a child.…there seems to be alot of complication with jamaican men…. he also says that he would have never told me he was married, because he knew i would not have given him a second glance. when you have your mind set on being with your jamaican soulmate, here are a few of the stereotypes you may hear of and the truth about them. not every man is the same, and certainly not every jamaican man is the same.. we do go out (he pays, always), i’ve now met friends, and he also has begun cooking jamaican dishes for me – we have never cooked/eaten together before, ever. away from jamaican men…i love my bf of 3 yrs but he is sooo not worth the time i put into him. i’m just wondering are all jamaican men like that , because i’m sure there are a few good ones even if its only like 1 or two out of the whole population. to a jamaican man, doing a good job in the bedroom, means taking the dominant role – nothing more, nothing less. i do not want to be taken for a fool, but i also dont want to judge him based on the reputations of jamaican men.’s hard to resist the masculine charm and the good looks of jamaican men. i would like to think that if he was looking for a woman to financially help him, he would turn to his wife (unless the well has run dry) or would have ran from me a long time ago and sought out another target. things about dating a jamaican man,  advice from other women…in comments. i don't know a lot about jamaican men, only my friends have told me that they have many children, like all the jamaican artists like, bob marley, vybz kartel, and all them guys etc, but i'm very surprised wow..it's not ur place to pay any man's rent,or schooling,or feed or provide-you are only on vacation for a week and owe no one anything!” beside this one flaw that i know of, i believe his wife is very fortunate to have this man (as i’m sure he is the same with her). i do sympathize with you on being the “american woman with money”. so great; it all depends on many factors, going on in his heart, his mind, and his motivations at the time. jamaican men telling foreign women they love them, then beating them, or lying to them, or having other women on the side. a man knows if a woman is considered of high priority or of low priority in his mind. you please tell me about your experience as my nan has met a jamaican man and i feel as though he is only using her for money. however i can give you the break down of factors that can affect how a jamaican treats a woman. women dating a jamaican man living in jamaica, 21 things about dating a jamaican man. i seriously doubt if he comes and i feel like a complete idiot because he used me and it’s my fault because i should have known better and had many signs that i ignored. i can’t wait until we are married and start our lives together next year. am a young jamaican man living in the uk, non of these stereotypes fits me . i am 22 and he’s 30; i’m proud to say that he is my first rasta man; we’ve been together for less then 5monts and i can’t help to say that i’ve fallen in love w him. sure it’s possible to have a genuine relationship with a jamaican man or rasta, but he must be self-supporting. from the uk and have many friends who are second generation jamaicans and would not step a foot in jamaica. and he says he wants to get married and have kids with me but i dont know if i can trust this. by the end of that month he completely stoppd and even his family all the way in jamaica and some of them here in america told him to never leave me because i make him a better man. went to school with a jamaican years ago we met back up on a social site.. personally, i believe if this jamaican was genuine, he would offer to make monthly installment payments to reimburse her., i dont know all the details of the situation…but…it is rare for a man to put off sex with a woman. it is mostly men that have this disorder and not just jamaican men. been with jamican man on and off for 12 years he treats me very well we never even had a argument i feel he is my true soulmate but we live in different states and we talk about marriage all the time and he tells me soon i dont know what to do and sometimes he gets distamt or when im there and we go out he will walk ahead of me do you think hes cheatinb. yes jamaican men are very good at sweeping a woman off her feet and giving her the illusion of love., i have been dating a rasta man for 5 years now and we have had our fair share of good and bad moments. have heard of these things about jamaican men since going to jamaica since 2011. a woman who is not jamaican, sometimes dating a jamaican man can be a challenge. think your article was well said but im not a jamaican woman and i’ve been with a jamaican man for 1 yr and a half i have two kids with someone else. unless this man is earning a lot of money, he will not be able to give you a good life. is a lot of emphasis in jamaican culture on cleanliness. after 3 days of calling me so many times, wouldn’t you think he would leave a message and make sure i was ok, nothing bad happened to me? the story seems to always involve money when it comes to foreign women and jamaican men. our fantasy lasted a mere 4 months and believe me it was too short for me, however had it lasted any longer i would have been obsessed with this man, i had already started to confuse lust with love! i met this jamaican guy, we hung out, and had sex the first night (i needed it)! i know i married to one and i know all the tricks of the past.Baca cerita online dating with the dark bab 14

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nowpicture contestgrocery storeour partnersshop jamaicaninteractyour jamaica storieshave your sayjoin us! he lied to you about his status, therefore manipulating you into a situation with him. while this may hold true for some men from this culture, the generalization can’t hold true for all jamaican men. then again, you have other jamaican men with multiple women and baby mothers giving us the good ones a bad name, now all women putting us in the same category. the whole situation is crazy because i have fallen so in love with this man but i don’t expect anything from the situation.  this friendliness attracts women from all over the world especially from the young, handsome, and well built jamaican men. its hard to leave to this day because he says he owns me, i'm his wife and i have to deal with the beg of woman and babymothers,back in jamaica and canada, and for,some reason its my fault y he does what he does because i nag him too much. there are truths about what is said about some jamaican men, you will have to spend time to interact with them, no sex, no money, no fanfare until you know for sure that he is truthful. he told me he was in love with me which i didn’t believe so when i left and came home why on facebook a week later it’s a picture of him and his so called friend all hugged up together love my ass so anyway i confronted him about it and he said everything but the truth so i went on facebook and straight blackmailed him let the girl his family and his friends know how he was so anyone who has ever got hurt by jamaican guy there you go i got your revenge on one his name is ***** and he is a sorry excuse for a jamaican man! it’s so sad, sisters can’t even see when a man is trying to follow his lord and be respectful, smh. have a friend that met this man in jamaica on a net dating site. think i m gonna throw in the towel i ve done all thats on your list and im exhausted,this man will make me old before my time. in jamaica the man tell his woman mi soon come back and that can be from 6 am to midnight without contacting you and you better not say one word about being tired nor about their where about’s and get up and make sure the plate of food it hot and delicious. my jamaician man told me he dosen’t date young girls and i’m the youngest for him he is 31yr. a jamaican man i would say leave his ass alone he is takeing you for a fool., if a jamaican man is truly in-love with you as a foreigner he would not have to leave his country. knows i love me some jamaican men til death but there is no way in hell i am a western union or bank of america! for the last 8yrs ive been with my jamaican baby father. for the traditional self-respecting jamaican woman, sleeping around, or “free for all fornication” is a no-no. he is the only man i have loved and wouldnt change him for anything.! i can say that i believe i was lucky to have found such a good and committed jamaican man! pagerealty & businessphotograhersproperty in ja - q&aweddingsreal estatejamaican realtorcar dealersbanksbusiness directoryreaders' pagespress release/noticeshardcore fansbest attractionspostcardstravel infovillashotelsairlinesattractionsall inclusivesbeachesrestaurantsvacation guideplaces to visitgetting hereguestbookfoodj'can foodfish recipeschicken recipesmore free recipescultureculturereggae musiccommunity buzzsportspopular citiesnegrilocho riosmontego baykingstonblack rivermandevilleport royalthe 14 parishesmedianews medianewspapersradio stationsphone directoryfamily contactbackgroundprofile/ factsschoolscollegesarticlesfamous placesfamous jamaicansheroessymbols of ja! it’s not just your jamaican man who does these things, it the majority of the people of jamaica. why didn’t this 29-year old jamaican just leave it as a one night stand? but at the same time, i have never felt like this about another man. i had to comment because i know i am not like those harsh men and to show that it is very hard to find loyal jamaican men, you just have to hope you find the right one. dated a jamaican man and i knew from the first day he was trouble! eventually you become tuff and unemotional and don’t care to ask and don’t want anyone asking you many questions. as stated earlier this is really important to do and do well, i recommend buying a jamaican cook book. i have not been with a man from any other foreign country so i can not speak of them, can only speak of my personal experiences with jamaicans. thoughts on “how to date a jamaican man: advice for non jamaican women”. i goggled the topic to find more insight into the whole jamaican relationship/dating subject because i was/am curious. husband is a jamaican cheater and abusive and has the cheating hunting habit and all jamaican women are so cheap they dont care if the man is married they are offering themselves all the time online with facebook, jampersonals amd more inline sites, asking for and receiving money, jamaica is like sodom and gomorrah hopefully the earth sucks that island. still with his baby momma claims he wants to leave but why didn’t he leave with the white woman…. but we know, being raised by a jamaican mother, that only certain “yard food” can make us feel strong, and nourish our  body, for optimal health. i ask because many jamaican men seek financial assistance from foreign women. he then drove away to screw one of many mistresses. love this site so honest…anyway i am involved with a jamaican man who lied and told me he was seperated. sorry if am not going to apologize for the act of any of my fellow countrymen, but am tired of women making bad choices when it comes to men, then blaming and labeling every jamaican man as bad. you find out he’s already married and has 4 other woman who visit him and pay him from overseas an he uses your money to pay for his jamaican ladies hair and nails. ur there visiting their backup women will keep quiet because they fear the jamaica man wrath, they don't play them getting in dey business! if your man is secretive and he is hiding a secret life its not because hes jamaican its because he is a dog. i was with my husband for 2 years before we got married(known him for 3). met a jamaican while visiting and went back there once to spend time. i met many friends there who are genuinely nice, and just wanted a friend. if you are not jamaican and can cook jamaican food, you will score brownie points from all his family members. but i am scared that i am really going to fall in love with him, give him my all, just to find out i am one of many, or for him to come here and cheat or leave me for someone else. i dont like woman beating or resoect woman beaters all im saying is dont judge all of ud by a fews mistakes. no man is perfect, but a lot of the men i know are good decent guys with upstanding values, but truth be told most of you women would not give them the time of day as they are not gonna tell you what you want to hear but will tell you the uncomfortable truth. i’ve been trying to have a long distance relationship with a jamaican man for 6 months. entry was posted in books, jamaica culture, jamaica men & women and tagged american women, dating a jamaican man, jamaican man, jamaican men, pregnant, white woman, white women. i would love to seriously date a jamaican but the right jamaican.Best thing about dating a patriots fan

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if she’s not wealthy and the man still shows the same interest as he did in california, he probably is genuine. have been with a jamaican for 12 years in a good steady relationship had 2 children. he could be using your money to date his jamaican ooman. i have never given this man money ever, and he has never asked me for any. because to jamaicans food is how we “get strong”, and rightfully so. the fact that the man is replying to your friend is a positive sign. has the man (not the manager) been in touch with your friend at all or has he tried to hide altogether (or evade questions about repayment)? unfortunately i have heard many many stories that suggest that is the case. he cooks all the jamaican dishes we eat and i love them. i used to have some fantasy in my head about jamaican men.’s all i am say you zemmi( jamaican language) be good and continue doing what your doing miss kim. alot of jamaican men who live on the island may originally start off as good loving men but where foreign women go wrong is thinking these men are poor & needy. mug: who jah bless no man curse (black) coffee mug by rasta_shop_online. anyways for years i flew back and forth and spent money on phone calls and trips, then i got preggo with my baby and during the pregnancy this man cheats on me with a “babymother” i didn’t even know he had. believe it or not, if given the opportunity, i would never seriously date this man because i now know too much about him. i did have the opportunity to visit jamaica with this man and i learned his mother had open relationships with numerous men and had lots of children. mens t-shirt in black: who jah bless no man curse rasta lion: who jah bless no man curse. have dated a jamacian man off and on for about 4 years now… we took a long break from one another and found our ways back in april of this year.! however i knew he was not husband material… jamaicans are very good at creating exotic fantasies for the women they persue! met and fell deeply in love with a beautiful jamaican man…we talked long distances for hours daily…he was sweet, kind, open…we discussed cultural differences, expectations…everything…i felt like i could tell him anything…i was living a dream…then, we got married…everything changed…he has a baby in another state…he went to care for her for a couple of months…he told half truths and i know…but, i dont believe he was cheating…not at that time…he has been screaming at me ever since…like a woman…nagging, screaming…i don’t even know why…it was funny, when he came back from his baby, he called, and was very loving and told me he knows he hurt me and he’ll make it better…then, everything changed…meanness came-again…i try to be calm…but, after being screamed at, i finally hang up the phone…havent heard from him since…i wish i could understand…maybe he has feelings for his baby’s momma…and feels guilty…who knows…but, im devastated…i am going on with my life…forgetting about his false behaviors of love…love doesn’t act like this…i was fooled…fooled good…and he has to live with himself…. some jamaican men (other men too) won’t let you walk away that easily even though he acted like he wouldn’t care if i ever left. dating a ja man now love him he treats me good its been a year love him much at first when i visit i will stay at hotel which was fine but since not in a realationship lthought i wanted to meet family oh yeah i nice family but i got one promblem he put the baby mama out 4 days before i got there i just dont no help please. they are extremely romantic my ex husband never made me feel so special. and i am dating a jamaican man we’re both 20. i use to cry and find myself wanting him each day,he only lives 20 minutes from me my so call rasta man so,what i hve now is a spare a man from ghana,treat their woman much better,my jamaican rasta man i see him when i feel like it some advice do what’s best for u. am currently in a relationship with a jamaican man but he knows what’s up because i don’t foot the bill for any abled body & working man.  the other woman couldn’t make up her mind about moving to jamaica.! i am an educated person and on a normal day i would never indulge in such scandal but somehow i have been totally memorized by this man. think those above who are having negative issues in thier relationship, it has to do with your choices as a woman and your level of tolerance. he is very charmin an a kind gentlman, bt after all this time he is still telling me the same thing an also claiming to be waitin on me even after l had gone into a next relationship for 2 in a half years, an had a child. are both in our early 20s…do u think he can mauture and get out of these ways eventually or will he be one of them old jamaican men looking young girls when im a getting older! im not jamican but my man is im not too happy due to fact he has so many women apart from his baby mamma he definately didnt get me easy but due to his pesistence i decided to give it a go. i am an american woman dating a jamaican rasta man help this queen understand her king please. really sure i’m not the only woman in his life. we have had many late night phone chats about the fact that he only learned how to text (and he doesnt use email or social media at all). check out this link free jamaican dating, and post a profile! i now regret ever meeting him because i feel betrayed, manipulated, and cheated. mind u alot of jamaican men saw this happening ans was tryna holla at me too smh..then he told me she paid for him a visa and many other things.  check out these cool places to buy jamaican clothing and accessories online. this i’m not guessing i know, before i got married just standing at the bus stop made me so sick. he has said many times that until the last breath leaves his body, he is not letting me go, and i need to understand that jamaican men don’t love easily, so this is a big deal to him. i ama stronger woman today because i put my foot down. been dating a jamaican man for 2 months he’s very sweet and shows me so much love…. man raaaan after me all the way to the parking lot and i let him have it. it is not all jamaican men are predators and i am not one so there must be a few more good guys here. well china your not accurate on that, some jamaican like myself don’t like to write out text words and i can spell accurately. jamaican women want the same things we want and they don’t want a man they have to manage(take care of).. he is the epitome of every thing i’ve heard about dating a jamaican man.,when it comes to love making jamaican men are the best.’ve been dating this jamaican man for little over a year.’ve been married to a jamaican man for 8 years and it’s a shame he still hasn’t learnt how to treat a non-jamaican woman.

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my straight advice to you, dating a jamaican man, “keep you opinions too your self” just be a good listener, allow time to smooth out any situations pertaining to his family. you plan to be in a long-term relationship with a jamaican man, it is wise to learn how to cook jamaican food. i am a west indian woman myself from trinidad living in nyc (lots of jamaicans here) and i’m no authority on jamaican men by any means but i can only tell you from my experience that jamaican men are best suited for jamaican women. for a relationship to survive and flourish, the man must be commited to it, mentally emotionally and physically. met a jamaican when visiting another island as he was living there after being on the run in jamaica. sum it up, most jamaican men are cunning, expert liars, manipulative, over-sexed, explosive, demanding, chronic cheaters, controlling, possessive, disrespectful, entitled, and ignorant (cannot be reasoned with), and have no clue or interest in what it means to be in a healthy relationship! you answer me please why would a rasta jamaican man asks for anal sex. many foreign women who visit jamaica, or who meet a jamaican man in america, often fall head over heals in love with the jamaican man, his sexy ways, and his culture, very quickly and very easily.!I am so sorry to hear this story for several reasons, i love jamaica dearly and travel there often and i too have a jamaican love interest so it is very dissapointing to hear stories like this because i don't want to believe that "all" jamaican men are like this. if only the woman wants it, it will not survive. so be sure to keep your body clean, and smelling fresh, many jamaican men will appreciate it. a lot of jamaican women don’t have it any better with their men than foreign women do. i pray your jamaican man don’t change for the worst. have been dating a rastaman for about one year and half. however i have many friends who have also had very bad experiences with jamaican men. he has made many changes for me meaning the arguing and always feeling like he had to kinda take the lead on everything. and to those who have a jamaican man they are not happy with there are good ones out there. we met in canada when he was here on a work permit and he treats me better than any other man i have ever dated. do jamaican men want to have babies around the glob?! i am a jamaican woman and i would never date another man. it from me my friend, try to separate your self from the “fantasy” of being with this married man…. the jamaican i met is much younger than me by 9 yrs. my question to her was…if his manager was going to reimburse her after the event, he could have waited until after the event and just let his manager buy the tickets. am hearing alot of stories about women abroad and jamaican men…. still believe that jamaican men have 20 children all over the world. said he wanted to also try the one woman tin an he wanted to have one woman to love him for him and so i tot okay cuz im a one man woman myself.  after several months of this long distance romance, they decided to get married. jamaican men get a bad rep because of a few “bad apples”. let it go, get a makeover, and leave your self open for a real man who is going to treat you like they lady you are. he is very honest and let me know that he married some woman so that he can b legal and filed divorce 8mths before he met me. man is different depending…try to keep your self busy. met a jamaician that has three children, and we was so mesmerize, which other, that we go married after 4 month i love you him and he tell me he love me and i feel good but i feel sad to because of his a pass of hurt from women that has cause so much secretive and my in my thoughts drive me crazy at time, i am happy but i am sad too because not sure i made a bad decesion. i was in a 3 year relationship with my jamaican boyfriend. there are plenty jamaican men who uphold their honor and work earning their own keep.  my wife particularly liked marcy as she was the only american woman she had met up to this time. rule is…live together for 5 years, then get married if we both want to. you must always be firm when it comes to what you will accept and what you will not accept from a man. am so sorry to hear this story for several reasons, i love jamaica dearly and travel there often and i too have a jamaican love interest so it is very dissapointing to hear stories like this because i don't want to believe that "all" jamaican men are like this.. i’d like to add that i’m an attractive woman (i do get attention and approached by men), confident, independent, educated, and sociable. It is based on many questions and concerns that I have been asked on my blog www., there are some jamaican men who have old fashioned views on the role of the woman and the role of the man.  incidentally, todd is now married to the girlfriend he had before and during his marriage with marcy. personally i adore the smell of a sweaty black jamaican man, but i know not everybody does.)…i say this because he is not what i have heard of a typical jamaican man. am dating a jamacan n i found out he is cheating wat do i do hw do i confroont him i have never cheated on him he say he wants to marry me cus am everyting he luks for in a woman buh y is he cheating . it took weeks before i did anything but when i did i found out that he had another woman from florida that had been coming to see him before or after i was there. and there were many more, 1 who he got pregnant after our marriage and used money from me to get an abortion.” after speaking with his manager she blocked his phone number as well as social media access. he is a very attractive jamaican man so everytime he goes out into public places females try to talk to him and he is polite to them but off tops lets them know he is married and he is not interested. in contrast to the previous man this one is ready to apply for the visitors visa to come out and visit. i would’nt tar all jamaican men with the same brush. i mistakenly fell in love with a jamaican man and ended up truly heart broken.


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it is important if you are dating a jamaican man, to be honest and tell him “honey you need a shower! editor's notesorry to hear anonymous, but there is nothing uniquely 'jamaican' about this behavior. i cannot say ‘all jamaican men treat all women in “such and such a manner” because that wouldn’t be accurate. we believe (as jamaicans) that the anatomy of a woman, means she must take special care to be and stay clean, especially between the crevices.” and he said he was bushmans brother, if so, why not ask him for money? combine this with the obvious sex appeal of sexy jamaican men, and you realize why few can resist the temptation of dating jamaican men. i don’t have too many friends or know too many people who are knowledgeable on the topic but when i read some of the posts on your page, i won’t lie, they are kind of scary. my point it, jamaican men i don’t think they know how to treat women well. married my jamaican husband in april, and just found out he cheated on me in june. i just have to let this man who is very taken go and i will. am a white woman from canada, the majority of my friends are from jamaica. easter bun - simple, free & timely recipe :-) mar 30, 17 12:09 amtis the season of easter bunny, easter egg, easter egg hunt, hot cross buns and the good old jamaican easter bun.’m now talking to a jamaican who is in miami. have you ever heard of a man that didnt want to have sex? the love is strong still but the passion,spark and romantic aspects are dying slowly and i want to at least give it one more try before we decide to no longer be us. is so sad to read all of these stories of broken hearts from jamaican men. all of the females were jamaican while i was the only ethiopian, he was by my side the whole time and 2 of the girls ( not his cousin) were a little annoyed that he was with me the whole time. no point talking to a man i love who continues to break my heart by not making me his number one priorty. my man has never wronged me, and when we 1st met, he did have this girl calling him all the time, but he let me answer the phone and i askd he who she was and she said a “friend” n i said really? i was with a married jamaican man for a total of nine years. by the way, i believe that there are still many good jamaican men around (most are), i am a living, breathing testimony :-)i wonder if my other peeps would like to add anything? agree no other man can compare both physically and mentally lol but i feel he will not let me in his world and is very quiet. because jamaican men always say nice things to women, does not mean they are seeking ulterior motives. just recently had a baby together… just before having our baby he confessed about all his doings and wanted to become as one (living together and marriage)… i declined, because i felt totally betrayed, disrespected and hurt… i am a loyal and committed woman… i felt i didnt deserve this type of treatment… i believe a woman should command respect at all times especially if is she is worthy of it… now i just have to deal with my feelings that i still have for him and deal with him as the father of my child and no longer my partner… in light of everything,in the end, if it’s meant to be (if my god says so)— i guess he will respect me. many of them are professional, own bars, restaurant’s, small hotels and all other kinds of establishments. i meet this new guy and told him right off that jamaican’s seem to think american’s have so much money and want them to pay for everything when they visit. even when you know that this is just the type you can fall in love with, the jamaican men stereotypes may have you wondering if love and jamaican men is a little like inviting love hurts and heartbreak into your life. i have had many opportunities to date other men but have tried to remain loyal to him. we broke up in march in a manner that i didn’t understand why. these fellows infatuate about you the moment he see's you, and wants a relationship that is a falacy, talk to the local police, pastor jp,business man, before you decide to trust him negus w. the whole story sounds very shady to me now and it is sad that it’s giving jamaican men a bad name (although the sad truth is that the financial struggle in jamaica is real and its unsurprising that some people resort to these dishonest practices). and again, if bushman is your brother, go to him for help. i am sorry but i don't believe one has to be so cruel to emotional wreck a woman's heart for money. luck in finding a peaceful real love with a man who knows him self. been with jamican man on and off for 12 years he treats me very well we never even had a argument i feel he is my true soulmate but we live in different states and we talk about marriage all the time and he tells me soon i dont know what to do and sometimes he gets distamt or when im there and we go out he will walk ahead of me do you think hes cheatinb. till this day, this man continues to lie and gives me a very difficult time in caring for our child. my jamaican man experience wasn’t as crucial by a long shot, as the forums i read, but the stereotype of this culture is spot on and relatable in a strong sense. name is ‘empress’ i am a rastafari and jamaican culture author, blogger, and rasta reggae music song writer. a strong woman that will not take any drama, and keeps her man on point. said, i maintain that jamaican (men are women) are some of the best, fun loving and true souls on planet earth (and perhaps in heaven :-). i only wished i did this 1 yr into our marriage and saved many years of heartache. with a jamaican man for the first time, what to expect. if they still stick around and are willing to go through the fire for you then perhaps that’s a good ass jamaican man. i swear jamaicans talk a great game but they are from from what they speak. i know i just know there are the ones that are raised right and can say “no” to another womans “underneath.  the charm of these men has melted many a maiden’s heart causing them to walk down the aisle with these casanovas thinking they can live out the perfect marriage for the rest of their lives. he’s a good man and he cares in his own way; i am what u call a housewife: i cook, clean, massage, babysit, spend money on him n the girls w no remorse and i’ve made sure he’s satisfied at 110%. now i have had a brief encounter with a jamaican who asked for money and became upset when i didn’t send it and almost stop talking to me when he realized i was never going to send him money. i do not know about all jamaican men but i know i found a jamaican man who is not perfect but he is perfect for me. met a jamaican man 5yrs ago he was married and claimed to be going thru hell and new to usa we became friends then his wife kicked him out and divorced him we became closer and he ask me to marry him ive never dated a foriegner so the first thing i thought and said you want to marry me to stay in usa he assured me they would still send him back because she withdrew her pettition so i said well why get married he said because we love each other i agreed and we married 1 month later they sent him back to jamaica it took 2 and a half years to get him here after being here 1 month he left came back left again the next month in 4 months hes left 4 times now i find out he stayed with the co sponsor 2 weeks not only that but she was pregnant by him twice he never told me i am married to him and i sponsored him to come here what do i do. yard man is too much of a hassle that i am now into females his sex is like a mood thing,we sex like 3 – 5 times a month,mind u im 23 he is 27. i understand where u r coming from when all what he doing we find it t they make it so it go cause he is a man and want to try other pussy i think that is bullshit. 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great sense of humor is one of the most appealing characteristic of jamaican men.  it wasn’t many days after that last phone call between my wife and marcy that i received a phone call from the police saying marcy had been murdered. if you want a jamaican man you just need to accept this. have been to jamaica many times and dated a jamaican man who live in jamaica for 2 years but he would never make the commitment to come to the usa. you eventually adapt to their culture and that makes it hard to go back dating the american man. i don’t believe that “all” jamaican men cheat just like i don’t believe “all” men cheat. with pleasure, i present to you ‘dating a jamaican man, 10 things american women need to know. am dating a jamaican man i am so unsure with him we have only been dating for 3 months but these stories have me scared………… its like he wants me to believe he want us to get married and him come back to the u. however after reading all of these posts, i am a little skeptical about continuing this relationship, because so many of the things he tells me and talks about are similar if not identical to what i have been reading. i went to jamaica 03/2013 and met a man who swept me off my feet. man is a fraulent lying cheater who seeks to fulfill his own desires. the other foot i know of one jamaican woman who tried very hard to get an english man to marry her so she could move to the u..i find the older ones to be more genuine and old school and the younger ones very conniving,materialist and manipulative. i was game ’cause i figured he’d be a typical man and not call again and i wouldn’t have to deal with him anymore because i told hiim when i met him that i’m not looking for a man, just some fun, and i don’t want a relationship and no one to answer to. ladies, but my experience with jamaican men is that they will treat a woman like a queen. somehow when i was not paying attention i fell really hard for this man. a man can find sex anywhere, so i can’t believe that is why he continually keeps seeking me out. we met a jamaican guy on the beach selling art. a jamaican women don’t jamaican women help support their men financially? jamaican man can treat one woman like gold and another woman, well…. is not all jamaican i am jamaican i would not do such things my mother teach me better than that dem bwaan de gi jamaican bad name. i love this man more than i have ever loved any man in my whole life. i’m enjoying learning about his culture and eating jamaican food. so many women have been in the same predicament that we were in. i was raised in us and this is my first time with ja man. it is natural for jamaican men to be polite to women (mother earth). its basically about how they were raised and what they “worship” most jamaicans worship something. yes a good jamaican man is hard to find as is any good man. you have to seriously ask yourself if you want a man with children with different mothers all over the place. he plans to teach me how to prepare jamaican dishes properly, and brought me back spices and other items from his trip to jamaica this past christmas. i’m an american black woman (parents are jamaican) in my late 40’s involved with a jamaican man (also late 40’s) for 8 months now. jamaican men feel they must maintain their reputation and live up to the expectations you may have of him as a woman., i stumbled on this blog, and am seeking guidance, cause you all seem so much more knowledgeable about jamaican men than me. i have enjoyed this man for one year now and he still makes me feel like its our first date everytime i’m with him. to my surprise i found just that in summer of 09′ when i went to jamaica for the very 1st time with my close friend who is also a jamaican. he admitted he was married, claims the marriage was to come into the country and that it was actually her idea. read all the comments well recently i got involved jamaican man im 25 his 37 his married with kids i jus cant let go cause the sex is so damn good he just has me mesmerized but i sometimes feel bad for the wife cause she has no clue. may also be interested in “21 things about dating a jamaican man, a guide book for women abroad” you will learn a lot from this ebook. i just read through this…give me some advice…ive been with a jamaican for nearly 7 years now and have a 3 year old child with him…he cheat on me when i pregnant with serveral different women(all of these dirty girls that u meation) and even two of them claim they was pregnant…. he says he changed and not going to cheat again…do jamaican men change their cheating ways? once was a time when it was a rare thing for a jamaican man to date women who were not jamaican. while i do agree that things mentioned above may indeed be important to jamaicans, i also beleive that they should be important to anyone. yes some men are users some men lie through their teeth some, are not even jamaican! in the begin he was not truthful about some of the women friends in his life…so of course they caused problems…i stayed with this man giving him my all an holding him down even after all this…he assured me that he loved me and i was his girl and everyone knows that.. i am a jamaican male and i do agree with you that jamaican men are predators but it's not everyone of us. some jamaican men like to milk the cow as much as they can. now if anyone would have told me that “i” would be involved with a married man a few years ago, i would have been like “never”! i like to think my self esteem is solid, because i don’t suffer from severe bouts of loneliness or desperation for a man. example: the arrogance, charm, and amazing bamboo is enough to entrap a woman if she is feeling a need for a companion that usually tells u all the things u want to hear! as a jamaican man you didn’t deserve that but you must understand a jamaican when him have more than one sex partners or women they are were hurt once and trying to full that hurt by becoming a galis(have plenty woman) i know because i wasn’t a galis but that’s the past. things about dating a jamaican man (ebook) for women abroad! if your man wanted a black woman, he would get himself a black woman. 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