Dating a girl who still lives with her ex

Dating a woman who still lives with her ex

  i really don’t think i would have gotten that reaction if she still had any lingering feelings left. we each told other people about the existence of an ex in the house.)  i think that he only accepted all her suspicious behaviour bc he knew that he was, in fact, not trust-worthy so her actions actually seemed reasonable to him.. the fact that he moved on and met someone else is not his ex girlfriend’s business. you had to live with your ex, maybe you’d prefer to parade your new bf around in front of him, but i like to think i have a little more concern for others’ feelings than that. i’m not saying that the boyfriend couldn’t be “tougher” with his boundaries. him not telling her about you and making sure you guys don’t run into each other? i imagine my divorce—and i imagine my divorce roughly once a week, typically when i find a beer glass soaking in the sink again, as if beer glasses need to soak and can’t, for the love of god, just be placed directly into the dishwasher—it does not look like kristen’s at all. at what point are we allowed to take charge of our own lives, do what we need to do to get to the bottom of it (even if that means snooping or following them), to arm ourselves with enough information to make an educated decision about whether to stay or leave?  i’d love to hear the advice if the situation was switched around and amy was living with her ex. realized she was queer and that made the breakup and living situation with her ex-husband even more complicated:i married my husband when i was quite young. but i will continue to tell my 17 year old niece that she should never let a guy pick her up from her place for a first date, but rather meet him there and to let someone know the who/what/where/when of it.’s expensive, way too expensive to be sure, but ppl just cut in other areas to make it work. there’s no way to know for sure without talking to your partner about your concerns. these things happen, and i think after six weeks of dating i would not assume that the author is the ‘girlfriend’ of this guy. > blog > communication > my boyfriend shares an apartment with his ex but says it’s platonic., most of us are not in a profession where our lives are on the line every day. it’s one thing to have a kind and generous boyfriend and another to have a guy who can’t or won’t set the right boundaries and priorities.  i completely understand why an ex may still be co-habitating in some situtions, but once the guy has a new girlfriend their is no way the new girlfriend should have to live like a dirty little secret.  in a lot of expensive areas ppl will spend their 20’s and sometimes even part of the 30’s renting with roommates so they can afford a down payment. other awful situation is i do know the ex (not very well) and his family and see them and they don’t know we’ve been in a relationship either. she knows you still live here, and that’s a big thing. think what the op amy is asking is really is there a future with this guy and can she trust him? if he was dating this girl for years, they move in together, break-up, and a few months later he is dating again, would he be a nice guy you’d want to date if he kicked her out? and even if we believe he’s a saint, i’m not inclined to believe it of the ex-gf.. my clients pay me because they suspect that there’s something they’re doing that isn’t “effective. there is no way for a woman to know what a man’s character is until he’s shown her, and i believe you agree with me. what exactly do i need to do to “prove” to you that i’m not a serial killer, liar, player, or sociopath. i used to be a young, naïve, trusting individual who went through life thinking “it might happen to others, but my boyfriend would never cheat on me! when i brought up a couple whose daughter played soccer with our girls last season, my soccer pal casually stated, “they split up,” as if revealing that said mutual friend had purchased a new pair of clogs. he doesn’t want the environment in his home even more uncomfortable with his old girl meeting his new… especially if the ex is still single or if he is the one who initiated the break-up. red flag isn’t that he’s still cohabitating with his ex, but rather that he hasn’t told his ex about you.  so, he is willing to bring this new girl to his apartment, he is just not willing to admit (yes, this is what it is) to the old girlfriend that he is dating out of ‘deference’. so my next guy will have to have a healthy relationship with money. in a perfect situation, the ex would have moved out shortly after the breakup, but not every situation is black or white. after considering evan’s and some other commenters’ arguments, i’ve softened my stance a little. get it: it’s certainly inconvenient – for both you and him – to have her in his space, but, if your relationship is strong, this arrangement won’t last forever. where, in her letter to evan, did she give you the impression that she “wants to keep him because he is wealthy”? no one is suggesting he be unkind to the ex, but suggesting that a man or woman keep a new boyfriend/girlfriend a secret is just wrong. no one periodically sleeps on the other person’s couch. for me, it’s good because having a roommate means that i can afford to travel and i don’t exactly hate having one of my oldest friends around me. are a couple of things that would concern me here: the first is the vagueness of the comment that the ex will be out by the end of the year.  the guy who married her and “put up with” her mistrust turned out to be a cheating liar (they are now divorced. i got so fed up from hearing it and told her it is time to put the past behind her and move on he is in a new relationship with new beginings. he no longer wants to date his ex, but given her financial circumstances, he feels bad throwing her out on the street.  poster didn’t indicate whether they were exclusive or not. i will not go so far to say he is a bad guy, i certainly think there is deception, especially since he is leading the old girlfriend to believe that he is not dating.  it turns out that there was a family who asked him for a quarter so they could make a phone call about their car which had broken down. but she figured it had to be confounding for the little girls when, last winter, their parents—just the mom and the dad—took them skiing at camelback.

Dating a girl who lives with her ex

i have to say i agree about the ‘not telling the ex red flag’.  even if they are broken up, they could be fwb and have sex every once in a while just to release some stress. like her demand to me isn’t really her to make but odds are, she’s been around for a much shorter time. – you don’t know anything about this guy either and you are making a lot of assumptions yourself..Would you rather give him an ultimatum to kick her out or continue to enjoy this relationship for four months, with him sleeping at your place? if you notice your partner's afraid to bring up the ex or if your partner's tried and it's becomes a sore point, sherman says, it’s time to ask why. ke said, the flag for me is the choice of words: “he does not want me there when she is there”. couples are separating and still living together, even waving to each other as one heads out on a date. thinking about the mental gymnastics, the anguish assuming a man will cheat seems so exhaustive.” however, after four experiences with seemingly decent good guys that i found out had, in fact, cheated (but only after they told me they were leaving me for someone else), i decided i respected myself too much to be walked on and used again. i made sure not to touch her, not to be too near her, or to say lovely things to her, as he fiddled with the router.  at best, he’s too afraid to of his ex-gf.  when i moved out, i moved into a place i would later share with my girlfriend.  but, this ‘deference’ could only be possible if there was an implication that he was disrespecting the ex or offending her. btw the guy has the night time ex girlfriend and day time new one, to me he is sleeping with both, in different times, that is why he doesn’t want the women’s to know each other.  i rolled my cart to the other end of the parking lot. however i do have a friend who went through a similar thing recently – the guy she was dating still lived with his ex, and he swore there was nothing between them, and initially that seemed to be true. i see nothing in op’s letter that indicates that the boyfriend has an inappropriate relationship with his ex, but these short-term situations have a funny way of becoming long-term situations. does seem to me, after reading the posts, that there really isn’t a disagreement here. a relationship author, i took the time to do a survey on the ‘ex factor’ to study how people feel about having exes involved in a current relationship. he’s her bf, he needs to prioritize her needs over his ex’s.’d just seen them together at dunkin’ donuts, all of them, including the four kids. hate spam as much as you do, therefore i will never sell, rent, or give away your email address. i think we both thought that i had caused him so much pain during our marriage that there wasn’t anything more that could hurt him.  i have a friend who recently found herself in the same situation as the ex.  there’s something a bit unnatural about the situation to me if there is no plan for remediation. so my picker works as my exhusband wanted to save the marriage; my last two bf’s still want to get back together with me.  then he is either immature or he still has some feelings for the ex. the first was many years ago, after breaking if off with my ex-fiance. when she left pictures of her and her new girlfriend on my nightstand, i realized the situation was not tenable and i took over the lease. boyfriend shares an apartment with his ex but says it’s platonic.!) and therefore intimate, and the continued cohabitation creates some fuzzy boundaries. it’s not too far fetched that comfort he gives her leads to sex. will this ex still be in his life or will he cut her out?, i don’t think the ex is a nurse, i met a couple strippers they live in manhattan rent free! next day, full of marital confidence, i stood on the school playground for pickup and, as seems to be required in such circumstances, chatted about what was going on around town. knows, maybe you’ll one day be the beneficiary of this gentleman’s extraordinary patience and generosity.  isn’t it to be expected that you will date other people 10 months after a breakup? op, once you spend some time to get a good sense of his character and it is indeed true that he is just being a nice guy, the question to ask is if it is at your expense, can you handle it? if anything, the way he treated his ex and his desire to have his son stay close made him seem even better to me.  i’ve known guys like this, they say ‘oh i haven’t told my ex about you because i don’t want to hurt her, i haven’t gotten around to it yet, etc.  he doesn’t seem like he’d cheat on her–besides, he and his ex are barely even awake at the same time!  our relationship together didn’t seem all that different from before our separation. do i do with a boyfriend who lets his daughter exclude me? you're talking weekly emails and your partner is still fully invested in your current relationship, then it’s not a sign of anything. when we weren’t chatting, we were talking on the phone or texting. and because he’s such a nice guy, he’ll let her cry on it. my mother is like this and frankly it can frustrating to deal with someone who is a ‘bleeding heart’. did they all only have brothers (no sisters) — i think men who have sisters, whom they love; if they hate them that’s not good — tend to be more relationship-oriented than men who grew up in an all-boys family.

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up is even harder when you still live with your ex. of course there will be other factors, but this one common trait in them is telling to me. if ppl were reading they’d clearly understand that if the ex gf has been in the apartment rent-free for 10+ months that when she moved in, they were probably dating. at 52 years old, i’ve never felt that way with any man i’ve dated… i believe that it’s just a matter of time before all of you beautiful women on here find someone special. for him to cater to her lack of grace (if he’s catering) — i suppose you could read it as him being a “really” nice guy. i’m letting you stay here till the end of the year to save for a new place, i know it’s awkward, but can you meet so she knows the deal. we broke up, i have periodically sounded like a broken record reiterating boundaries and expectations but because i didn’t betray my girlfriend by jumping into another relationship and because i care to listen to her or give her space, it still works. you can gently and tactfully suggest keeping those pretty frames and filling them together with new memories of the two of you. that kind of a mistake usually suggests unresolved feelings for an ex. i made a whopping ,000 as a teacher (a career i would be forced out of a year later after my relationship with a woman was made public). i don´t like them to be walked all over by everone, their ex-girlfriends, their co-workers, their famiiles etc. you take it will depend on how he reacts to your notifying him that she still has feelings for him. what if he bought new underwear because he decided his awesome girlfriend deserves to be with a decent guy who dresses properly? i’d also be bothered by the boyfriend saying he ,”…feels bad for her because he knows what it’s like to be on your own and how scary that is”. someone had mentioned that there were always a lot of beer bottles in their recycling bin, which i assumed was a good sign—that once the kids went to bed, they sat on the couch like we did, drinking pale ales and catching up on homeland. at some point this ex will know about you but when is he going to tell her?  while the participant’s varied on whether or not their own exes should be in their lives while they have a new relationship, everyone who took the survey did not want a partner who still had an ex in their life. i recalled jolly laughter and the aura of bona fide togetherness-ness. even if you catch him in the actual act of having sex with another woman, if he tells you he’s not cheating, you must trust him. you’re right,” instead of restating the exact same misguided thing you wrote above about how i’m advocating you date an untrustworthy man. that’s right because he has not even mentioned her. but the longer the ex stayed with him, the more that changed until he and her were going on holidays together, going to parties together, and eventually were once again involved., from where i sit, this sounds like a sweet, generous, sensitive guy.  you can’t have a future with a guy who tells her don’t visit my apartment ever. while this may be plausible, can’t it also be plausible that he is merely being a good guy who is no longer with his ex due to certain reasons, but still cares about her well-being, wants the best for her, and is kind enough to protect her broken heart by not shoving his new girl in her face? doing the same thing again and again while expecting different results is insane, but i shouldn’t have to tell you that. so i simply just ignore her but it leaves an akward feeling between the ex and me. but what everyone keeps missing here is that i’m not saying to a guy on our first date, “hi, i’m wendy, and i don’t trust you. i put myself in the position of the op’s boyfriend and ask what i would do, and i give advice from there. if/when the relationship ends, i would have no problem moving on, but there would be a period of time where one of is is in the process of moving out.  in conclusion, keeping an ex around (even if you think you’re being ‘helpful’) is selfish. still, i knew the day we married that something was fundamentally wrong, but i couldn’t name the thing, and so everything went on as planned. but those actions are making me suspicious and i don’t want to be in a relationship where i feel suspicious. i asked him about this and it finally came out that he is living with his ex-girlfriend. here are 10 signs that it may be time to bring it up. it’s with facebook, a dating profile, or googling the ex's name, relationship expert and author john gray says, keeping frequent online tabs can be a red flag. however, we lived in a very expensive city in montana, and i chose the height of the recession to leave him, which meant i couldn’t physically go anywhere.  it’s not as if the ex is a child who needs protecting :p. is boyfriend really verifying that she’s making a good faith effort to get her finances squared away and move out, or is this a potentially interminable situation that he will let.  as i explained to him, it’s not that i minded the wait though if he had waited a few more minutes, i would have come out and we could all have gone together. i might have to rethink the relationship, if the end of the year came and went and the old girlfriend was still around. am in a similar situation met a great guy we have a fantastic relationship and his ex is now living in a separate room in his house. know myself,  and his providing for another woman while dating me just brought out the stress and the worst in me. use phrases like, “i need your help,” and, “i need your reassurance,” and, “i love you and want to work with you on this,” to get the ball rolling, sherman says.   evan, there is a reason for it and in my opinion, it is not good.  yes, the fact that he cares about his ex-gf is wonderful, but he shouldn’t do that at the expense of his new gf, who should be his future. but it’s a matter of context, says washington post advice columnist carolyn hax. close proximity, and let’s assume as you do, that he broke up with her, don’t you think that she could get a little weepy and vulnerable one night and need his shoulder to cry on. i would hope he would say something more concrete like “i’ve told her she needs to be out by the end of the year”.

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dated a guy once who had his ex living with him at first. see trust as having to be earned, and unfortunately there’s no short cut: it takes time. if she gives you the evil eye when you’re there or avoids you when you’re there, you can tell him that she still has feelings and take it from there. fast-forward to now: they’re still living in the same house. by posting here, you are permitting philadelphia magazine and metro corp. husband dating another wo­man, who is also separated but living with her ex.  in this day and age where it is not particularly easy to find someone who we adore mentally, physically, spiritually along with other variables such as right timing, etc…i think if a person finds someone with all of these parameters but there are one or two issues where you are not even sure if they are issues, you may want to figure out the answer first instead of just moving along and leaving that person behind. it wasn’t like kristen and i were bffs, but her cell number was programmed into my phone. forget what you have learned from your past experiences–that applies to every other life scenario except relationships. the guy is really that generous, i am truly surprised and good for the ex. pretty sure this ex didn’t move in after she and bf broke up. women do like successfully employed and charismatic men, among other qualities. particularly if he already doesn’t have the balls to tell her to get out and give her a timeline. this is not something that a girl (or a guy—it goes both ways, of course) can know for a fact with 100% certainty if they haven’t even shared a single conversation over a cup of coffee yet.“wow,” i said, nodding my head as if their arrangement was totally ordinary, as if i’d had the very same conversation with three other moms in the bakery aisle minutes before.’ve never given anything to a woman with an expectation of getting something in return. you’re still getting irritated about the direction of the toilet paper or eating the last piece of pizza or whatever. the guy who didn’t trust you around your ex? too many fish in the sea to tie myself to a fish that is already hooked into another line.. i have had to much life experience, i guess, to not question a situation like this., if you feel a need to snoop around, there’s a good chance your relationship has trust problems, sherman says. i don’t understand what is so difficult to understand about this concept, especially when you seem to be agreeing with me, except the part about beginning with full trust. not telling the ex-gf about his current gf, he is basically saying that he values his ex’s feelings more than his current gf’s feelings.  they live together and her boyfriend recently broke up with her. her story was better: the couple also divorced and stayed in the same cherry hill house, but when the dad started dating a friend of theirs, the mom got upset and set him up with one of her friends. plus, if he were a liar, he probably wouldn’t have told the op about his situation, much less told her that he hasn’t mentioned her yet.  but she also realizes she has competition from his pre-existing live-in girlfriend.  on other, less frequently occurring, days i have to remind myself that i should be thankful. it’s been my experience on this blog that you must always have 100% trust with each new relationship or you will get blasted off these pages. i’m not talking about “parading ” new girlfriend in front of the ex, or rubbing the new love into the face of the ex… far from it.  i also understand respecting the ex’s feelings and not flaunting his new love in front of her. that is why i believe we should always be working on the happiness and health of our relationships as our first priority rather than policing our partners. the ex may be a bit crazy and unpredictable, so he’s trying to prevent an opportunity for a blowup.  why must he lie (omit the truth, spin the truth, whatever you prefer to call it) to protect the ex’s feelings? in this world, men are not to be trusted, and any situation where a man went back to his ex means that all men want to go back to their exes.), she doesn’t seem to express concern about his behavior.  well, for the first 10 minutes, i kept thinking there was something i was missing and that i would find him any second. pretty much every queer woman i know has a story to share about living with an ex. you’re having problems addressing the issue but really feel it’s worth working on, it may be time to seek help from a couple's therapist. i am surprised by the overwhelming suspicion that he may be involved with his ex, or that something shady is going on. another friend knew a recent villanova divorcée who hosted her ex-husband—and his new girlfriend—for rosh hashanah because, she said, “the kids should be able to look across the table at a holiday meal and see their whole family. only once did he try to hurt me—he asked to see a photo of her (terrible idea), and i showed him (worse idea), and he made a snarky, shitty remark about her looking like a man.  if that is all this is, op, a nice guy being nice to an ex, hang on to him.  if it’s a red flag for someone not to introduce a girlfriend to their friends why is it not a red flag to avoid telling the live in ex? i knew that my girlfriend was really good at arguing, like deeply and importantly talented at it, and i was really bad at having emotional discussions. breaking up a year ago, judy and her ex are still living together:in another life and four years ago, i was sure that gifting my girlfriend a washer/dryer set was the height of domestic bliss, full of irony and dripping in its own cleverness. (by the way, they got back together and are now married with a kid.  he eventually brought the op to the apartment, presumably when the ex wasn’t there. i were in amy’s situation, we had reached boyfriend/girlfriend status i would expect that ex to find out about me in short order.

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 but, they lived farther than he had initially thought and he took a wrong turn on the way back. (or the narcissistic control freak who lived with male roommates but was cheating on me with other women).  he is still entangled emotionally with her and he is being sneaky, no ifs, ands, or buts. you get to have sex all you want with whomever you want. at a cookout last year, my friend amy (wife of joe, mother of three) shared the gooey details of her friend’s situation., i do understand the idea that you may seek out advice and not be completely ready to leave if there are no clear cut reasons to do so.  there have been other such occasions but this was probably the worst.  sometimes it’s slightly at my expense, that’s all. i don’t date, that wasn’t bullshit, so i keep my relationships away from her and they aren’t serious anyway so it isn’t a big issue for me. since it is indeed a complication, and the op isn’t that far in, i like the suggestions i’ve seen here that encourage her to continue to see him if she wants, but to also see others and not invest too much. you break up with him because the behaviors he’s exhibiting are making you feel suspicious. let’s assume the ‘best’ – that he does not want to bring another woman over out of politeness and deference to his ex. but those actions are making me suspicious and i don’t want to be in a relationship where i feel suspicious. couch a few nights a week and getting to have sex with other women vs. unless a relationship ends via cheating, which normally causes bad feelings in the cheated upon… both people in the relationship usually still harbor feelings of like and love for the other person. i waited 6 months while my boyfriend let his ex “save up” to move out.  there is either something wrong with his situation or if i was the ex i would wonder why he felt the need to keep a new girlfriend a secret. intentionally he told me he was going to tidy the house up and put it on the market but he’s been struggling with jobs and financially he’s struggled so as i gather the ex pays most of the bills.. maybe the ex girlfriend does not care to meet the new person he is dating.  there are men out there who leave their exes where they belong… in the past.. if this woman feels very uncomfortable in this situation(which she does), then i think this man should listen if he cares to keep her a budding romance. other thing that your argument completely omits is that a good man, the sort of man you would want to be with, when he senses that you trust him implicitly (and here, i am not talking about childilike, naive blindness which is what you describe it as – i am talking about adult trust where you not only trust him to make good decisions, you also trust yourself to know how to act in the face of any situation, and hence you know you’ll be ok) – a good man then strives to earn this trust. they forego intimacy for the sake of his niceness to his ex? to say less than 10 months thought b/c the ex gf moved in when she and the op’s bf were together. i would be interested to know whether he is keeping things deliberately a bit casual, or whether he is moving the relationship forward enthusiastically, as i think this says a lot about his intentions and where he is at. live feedloading tweets by @evanmarckatz…you said"chance said, " as a result, i don’t think as many guys over here have mustered up the courage to be a trail blazer by not subsidizing women in the way that men in europe seem to feel more free from…"kk on how can i turn drinks into dinner without scaring guys off?  hey i’ve met this girl, i don’t know what will happen in the future, but i want honesty from the start, so i’d like you to meet her. because any woman with self-esteem would not willingly live with an ex under the same roof, particularly if he broke up with her. and the pattern is either in the men you pick or in your behavior during the relationship. we’ve exchanged “i love you’s”, we’ve met each other’s parents, gone on vacations together and…. but does anyone consider that the gentleman might still be involved with his ex?) and so he feels like he should help her out.  all i can say is that the ex-gf must be really pretty. i actually feel bad for the women here who do that. no woman with high self-esteem, who still has feelings for the guy, will tolerate living in a place where she sees him being with his new lady love. who knows, maybe you’ll one day be the beneficiary of this gentleman’s extraordinary patience and generosity. on the dad’s off-weekends, he stays at his girlfriend’s house and the mom’s boyfriend moves in. on mother’s day in 2008, i officially and finally came out to my husband. he said that he feels bad for her because he knows what it’s like to be on your own and how scary that is.”  so he can string a girl along, and have a convenient excuse not to commit., where exactly are the places in nyc that a single man can buy a 2 bedroom condo, that is near the subway?’ and half the time the ex isn’t really an ex at all. i had almost given up on him (and us) when she found some other sucker to leach off of and moved in with him. we had stopped sleeping together and had begun to bicker in close quarters with little provocation. if you were 100% right, stacy, there wouldn’t be another side for me to argue. see, dating is this process whereby two people spend time together to form an opinion as to whether or not they share common interests, enjoy each other’s company, and bond over shared experiences.  if the roles were reversed and the man wasn’t being made to feel “special” and “good” about himself when he was with her and he was having doubts brought on by her actions and behavior, you’d tell him to cut his losses and find someone who makes him feel like number 1. for example, did they all want to be exclusive quickly?  the op is in a tough position though – maybe give it another couple of months and see how you feel.

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, the ex-gf has been living in the apartment for 10+ months. yet tells the live in girl how much he loves her during the nice period and they share the bedroom and how much he hates her and hits her during naughty period. the ex can’t do this, then she doesn’t deserve his generosity. the dialogue with your hung-up honey with a “working together” approach instead of pushing the other person away with angry words. do you think he’s capable of “insulting” her by walking away from proferred sex? after about a year of mourning our failed relationship and several state-of-the-union type discussions, we’re still living in our small house. after an unrushed relationship of two years, we figured that whatever bumps came along the way that we’d be in it together and nothing was gonna stop our good ship on the sea of love and shared tchotchkes. on our second date we spent 8 hours together just walking and have seen him consistently 2 or even 3 times a week for about 6 weeks. it’s happened to me more than once, and as a result, i’m cautious about getting involved with people who still have an ex actively in the picture, unless there are children involved. if she hasn’t moved out on her own, she has an agenda. one mom mentioned her neighbor, who was apparently living with her ex-husband full-time because they couldn’t afford separate households. when i asked him when is she moving out, he just said, “maybe the end of the year”, which is still 4 months away.  we know this bf is hiding his roommate exgf and won’t allow amy to come over to his apt. he takes the kids every wednesday and every other weekend. during the holidays, the four of them would be at the same neighborhood parties together. or maybe he is the one who initiated the breakup, so he doesn’t want to shove her already broken heart into a blender. other option is to believe that he’s serious (if they’re parting, then the ex is likely no threat, especially if he ended it. but i do know that the question i would have about the guy you’re seeing isn’t about whether he’s up to anything fishy, but simply whether he has the balls to give his ex a deadline for getting her act together and moving out. the ex is being a mooch at the very least. but, sherman says, it's time to let go of the reminders when the feelings are resolved. of course it’s inconvenient when a partner has a prominent ex. as someone else said, the fact that the ex is still living in the house means that the relationship is just finished so one wonders whether the guy is ready for a new relationship or he just wants to play. even still, later he told me it hurt him to watch us, because he could see what he and i would have been if things had been different. or, “i’m into you, but i still want to see others. we’ve all see when harry met sally…and that happened when they didn’t live together.  please let us good guys know where to look for you.  needless to say, all of her honest boyfriends wearied of this treatment and would break up with her. while ago my famous ex boyfriend lawyer stop to have sex with me because he needs to do some therapy to find himself, well he end up leaving me for the therapist, and end up she is a lesbian with s girlfriend,  she used him, well he deserved call,  karma lol. to me, it’s not clear that the op and this guy actually are boyfriend/girlfriend or have some kind of commitment to each other. gatherings: there’s a new summer camp for women in the poconos — be well philly.  the red flag is the fact that “also, he has not told her about me and does not want me there when she is there. we lived together for a few weeks until she moved out, leaving me with only a fork and a papasan chair. in other words, if you have an unhealthy emotional and psychological outlook towards men, then only men who will tolerate that unhealthiness would want to be in a relationship with you. my current bf asked to be exclusive 2 weeks after we started dating. the reality is, in time if you get closer, he will have to chose you over her but when will he step up? if i were op, i would want to know more about the context. your partner and his or her ex should be willing to take a break from each other while you two concentrate on what you have together.  maybe ex-girlfriend still harbors feelings for him and he knows it and doesn’t want to upset her. advice for the suddenly singlesticky sex situationssecrets of great kissers. then two years later, after my washer/dryer gift, i stopped being as happy with our domestic situation; and then sometime in the spring it became a fairly bad situation for me. merion girls attacked while walking to rita's water ice in philly — news. my current boyfriend was afraid to tell his ex about me because he did not want to hurt her feelings which i did not care much, but after spending one night at his place and him being nervous because she might stop by, i told him that i am not exclusive with him until he talks to her.  there is a reason why this man did not tell his ex about you and there is a reason why you have never met her.  and if by that time, you still do not think he is worth 100% of your trust, you end it. are women expected to date men with a lower educational level? “but," says marriage and family therapist joan sherman, "if it’s happening 24-seven, it’s a problem. i don’t “treat men as if they were untrustworthy until they actually do something untrustworthy,” another a direct quote from this author which i’ve interpreted to mean it’s normal behavior.” soccer pal asked, so incredulous that i momentarily wondered if the news had been posted on the township facebook page: “there was a burglary on virginia avenue. she’s a newish, maybe exclusive gf who is mad that the guy she is dating won’t toss his ex out on the street.

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he does this so that while his live in girl is at work he can have sex dates with other women and the place appears like 2 people of the opposite sex living as roomates instead of lovers. could no longer handle him staying in with his ex on saturday nights etc and not seeing me and being a secret any longer so ended it.…"converge on guys just want casual sex… or do they? i was not as kind as i could have been, and her pain was palpable. i’m not sure yet if it’s helping him re-focus and say “no” to other people once in a while, but i hope so. if neither one has feelings for the other, then why is he trying to protect her emotionally?  what is he trying to prevent by keeping his current gf a secret from his ex-gf? and no, before you go there, i don’t ask my dates to give me the names and phone numbers of past girlfriends for their review. i also pointed to him his exgirlfriend is a trouble maker. he became involved with someone else while he was still living the house, i think she was very insecure about him living with me and eventually they moved in together. if i were the new girlfriend i would try and accept the circumstances and be the cool girl for awhile. think she should relax and enjoy her relationship for now–he will probably introduce them in due time. because of my past experiences it takes me a little longer than it might for a “100% truster,” but i do get there.  i just hope you figure out what his motivation is sooner rather than later.  she’s not even there all that much anyway due to her work schedule, and has been spending more time lately in her home state to arrange a job transfer there (really does seem intent on moving out and has taken concrete steps to make that happen).= manhattan…there are places to live in nyc more affordable than manhattan.  even, if he is a good-guy, she shouldn’t waste her time on someone who won’t publicly acknowledge her as his official girlfriend.  i just don’t see this relationship lasting longer than 3 months, and he will dump her by then. commenters who post here – and i appreciate them – often haven’t (and will never) pay me a dollar for my advice. few days after soccer, i saw kristen in the deli at wegmans and beelined my cart over to hers. i was married, if i ever got a hint that an ex was in the picture i’d move on. perhaps his ex knows he is seeing other people, but he finds no reason to have the two meet. he’s treating his ex the way i would hope you’d treat your best friend. people, particularly men, aren’t going to say no to easy sex being offered.  and why does the current gf gets the burden of knowing about the existence of his ex-gf but the ex doesn’t get the burden of knowing about his current gf? maybe they are cordial with each other, but again, the ex girlfriend may not care to bother with the new girl. he shouldn’t have to “walk on eggshells” around his ex-gf in his own place. story short, i guess the takeaway here is if you want to blindly trust, that’s your choice. this is not an exercise of blame, but rather of discovery. evidently, when you say he’s a “liar,” you don’t mean that he’s actually lying to the op, but simply not informing his ex-girlfriend that he’s been seeing someone. so it isn’t just that her boyfriend is helping his ex out financially, it’s that he is still trying to protect her on an emotional level, perhaps at amy’s expense. we’re talking about people here, most of whom can’t be trusted to use their turn signals let alone to not break your heart. thing i will say is that a man who is happy in his relationship is very unlikely to go back to an ex or cheat.  i wouldn’t expect a deadline…that is not realistic and is counter productive. emphasizes, however, that many other factors can affect bedroom performance, such as depression, high estrogen levels, excessive belly fat, and drug abuse. i had no idea that publicly acknowledging someone as an official girlfriend meant parading her in front of the ex. a couple out in wayne did the same thing, but bought a small studio apartment nearby where each parent stayed on his or her off-time. she then told my bfriend while i am not there she thinks i am still having a affair with  my ex who is also living with me and he does not bring up our past relationship when my bfriend visits and she thinks i am insecure. i’m not talking about assuming your partner will cheat and therefore perform routine computer/phone checks on them, but what is the harm in being aware of the fact that someone could cheat?  for all she knows, he could have a child he is hiding from her. guilty feelings from carrying a secret torch often make a person not want to talk about an ex. it’s another to erect a shrine to that person or plaster the bedroom with a display of the glory days together.  why would he not want to acknowledge a new girlfriend after 10+ months of being single? on the mom’s weekends off, the dad’s girlfriend sleeps over. it’s nyc, odds are the apartment isn’t big and it would be awkward for the ex to be sharing the bathroom for the new gf.), or maybe in exchange for free rent, he gets some extra benefits from this ex-gf. to burst your bubble clare, but a study by helen fisher, phd, a biological anthropologist at rutgers, found that 56 percent of men and 34 percent of women who cheated on their spouses claimed to be happy or very happy in their marriages. the ex knows she’s an ex and understands the generosity being handed to her, then she won’t mind and introduction to the new girlfriend. are you going to accuse her of having a bad picker, too?

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but after i met her, he watched me flit about our house, the phone all but glued to my shoulder. discusses how to know if your partner is still into an ex-relationship and how to resolve the problems that arise.  she can wait it out and hope he eventually proposes, or she should think about dating other guys. man often does not tell woman that she argues too much, that she’s too distrustful, that her need to always be right made them nuts themselves.- i wasn’t trusted when there was no reason to distrust me and that very quickly led to the end of the relationship.  i don’t think he owes his ex anything emotional at this point.  there is nothing wrong with status quo, it just wouldn’t work for me.  if you do trust him and he’s great otherwise, give him a chance.   1 2 »share on facebookshare on twittermore you may like"life is strange" is so much more than your typical action adventure video gameprevious"jenny's wedding" is a coming out story lacking in chemistrynextbreakupsliving with exesrelationships facebooktwitterpinteresttumblr. they don’t really think anything of it,” my friend explained. we didn’t last but his ex had nothing to do with it. when one person is still tied to a former partner, even if only (or especially) by a shared living space, the new relationship exists in a kind of gray area, or at least it would for me. if this guy really likes this woman, he will make it work out for his “new girlfriend”, not his old girlfriend. so are you wondering if your honey's heart still rests in the hands of a past love? partner still lives with his girlfriend of 15 years and they own a house…. the guy in this situation could be the one who ended the relationship, so he may feel callous if he parades the new girlfriend around his ex. i’m saying that if he has to sleep at the ops place for a few months while the ex finds a new apartment, it’s a pretty small price to pay. because i was at my ex’s place, i asked my bf to stay in the car while i did what i had to do to not rub it in my ex’s face that i was dating.  the people who do this are willing to put their current partner in an awkward situation and behind another person’s needs.  i really sensed no jealousy from her whatsoever and she really seemed happy for him that he has a new girlfriend, like any of his other friends. you know is that you “feel” that something is off because he hasn’t told his ex-girlfriend about the new girl he’s dating.  since i was only going from car to store and back, i hadn’t bothered with any warm clothing.  but girls will put up with a lot of ccrap from rich guys they really like. however, i would require firmer boundaries in the form of a due date for her to move out.  they’re suppose to have moved on and be living separate lives, just sharing space because of economical reasons. lived with my ex in our co – owned house for 9 months after we split up, it was for financial reasons and we have a child together. i would hang back if i was her and be cautious, don’t invest too much in this guy until there is clarity about the ex and how much he wants his new girl in his life. i thought about it, though, i remembered i’d heard a few months back that it wasn’t exactly paradise in their beige colonial. so i felt rather confident that the only time thad would ever sleep on the couch was when i was bedridden with the flu and throwing up in a bucket. line is that, yes, there are different levels of trust. kristen was holding down two jobs to bring home extra cash. a person can set a deadline whilst still being a kind and generous individual. you are showing an incredible generosity of spirit here that i wish more of us shared. but if i check his computer before he’s had that head’s up and see raunchy emails from some other girl, i’m gone. lw says he’s her “bf” so we’ll have to assume they’ve had the exclusivity talk. but he trusts her when she says she’s working late (until midnight, even though she doesn’t have that kind of job), getting her nails done on the weekend (for 8+ hours), etc.  his bedroom is one floor above hers, so we can just stay up there to hang out.“my cousin’s story is better than that,” another mom cooed, as if we weren’t talking about people, but about who got the better scratch-off coupon in that week’s mailer from kohl’s. was talking about sex, but i pretended he was talking about those special married-people moments, like the side-hugs we give each other when we witness one of our children doing something nice, like almost punching a sibling but deciding at the last minute not to. he hasn’t told his ex about his new girlfriend, and there is absolutely no reason for him to do so, if (and only if) she is truly his girlfriend (in his mind), he is over his ex, and she is living there on a roommate basis., the whole thing comes down to whether you trust him. also, he has not told her about me and does not want me there when she is there., i’m really trying to be open and to see your point of view, and i re-read your response twice, but i can’t deny that i agree with the others in the comments.. some of us have had  a version of this same situation in one way or another, over and over.!, yes they don’t mind the ex dating someone else, as long they can live for free for a while and oblivious the ex getting sex as a payment,  which they don’t care. it sounds a little out there i know, but if you could change your attitude towards this around, you would definitely start having better experiences. i trust him 100% so when i go over my boyfriend and i cook our dinner together and watch tv in the lounge and his ex also sits there and she keeps on telling when they were a couple they did this and that and she keeps making eye contact with him which i find akward.  i respect the men i dated enough to not carry old relationships into my current one and i expect the same. if you’re not ok with your current partner’s contact with an ex, say so.

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” to me, the whole point of dating is to gather more info about him to decide if he is trustworthy. we didn’t introduce them, because if we were honest we still did have feelings for each other – we just weren’t going forward with them further. i have to defer to my personal experience and will be cautious and alert in my future relationships.  to be sure, it is not as nice as the place she just left but it’s not bad and it is her own.@evan: actually, there is a test for this kind of stuff. short of a greater context, there’s no reason to hound your partner with a “how dare you” attitude at every little suspicion. so finding another woman that makes him happier is much easier than trying fix the woman or the relationship. the question is whether the relationship with the ex is actually threatening to the relationship.  she made it her priority to find somewhere else to live.  example: once, my husband, then boyfriend, left me in the parking lot of a grocery store for 20+ minutes without any communication., i think that’s where everyone goes wrong on here…it’s not about my need to be right; it’s about doing what’s right for each of us, as individuals. they live in a world of fantasy where the right guy always does what you want him to do, and has no previous entanglements that can potentially complicate his life. you are indeed his gf as you think, and the only reason she’s still living with him is for financial reasons, which implies they no longer have a relationship where he’s obligated to worry about her being jealous of you — then he should introduce the both of you and let that galvanize her into moving out. blech…when i moved on from my ex, he could have showed up with the entire hugh heffner entourage and i wouldn’t care because i moved on. perhaps he’s just protecting his emotionally fragile ex instead of rubbing her face in the fact that he’s kicking her out and dating someone else.…"converge on guys just want casual sex… or do they?.Once upon a time, i had a client break up with her boyfriend because, among other things, he lent ,000 to a girlfriend who never paid him back. he needs to let her wait till the end of the year, ok, but i’d only remain the gf if we were introduced. you may want to fix your own picker before you start passing advice on to others about theirs.’m not quite understanding the part where he always has to stay over at her place for the next couple of months. and if i am not starting with full trust, what exactly are you, wendy, doing while you don’t trust me? you…ppl here are so mad they didn’t even read the details here. just wanted to write exactly the same words as you. the guy kicks the woman out of the bedroom so much she has to have a make shift bedroom just to get sleep on the nights he don’t want to recycle her for sex. my relationships ended because *i* ended them (all except 1 in my 20’s). during that 6 months, while she swore she couldn’t possibly swing rent, she went on a few vacations (including a month abroad), enjoyed several high-end shopping sprees, and treated herself to new electronics and computers. but they’ve given themselves a get-of-relationship-free card because your unhealthy attitude either makes them less likely to invest emotionally in you in the first place (so you were a placeholder in their mind from the beginning) or they may sincerely like you and thought they could live with your flaws, but in the end your flaws were too much to handle. or believe there is a hidden agenda and break things off. since there is, i would submit you should proceed with a little more humility and understanding, instead of assuming the worst in people. you don’t trust a stranger on the street the same way you trust your mother and father.  either break up and move on, or accept things as they are, don’t complain, etc.  this boyfriend owns a 2 bedroom condo on a single man’s salary, and he is letting his ex-gf live there for free while she works nights (waitressing or dancing?  if they were, then why would he not bring his new girlfriend around? why is it expected that you will trust someone 100% at first sight, but someone who says they love someone and see a future together after six weeks gets blasted off the page? music hall owner: we’re not a “sex club” - philadelphia magazine — g philly.  a guy i dated in ’09 found an old belt of my ex from years prior and i heard about that belt for at least a month. in this transitional period, i would not introduce a new guy to the ex for several reasons:1. thing that gets lost here all too often: people don’t always lie because they’re immoral.  however, his house is also pretty large so it might not be the exact same situation here (which is an apartment and presumably has less space to work with). then there was the dad who moved out but came over every morning before the kids woke up to cook them breakfast. i was going to break up with her and i was going to do it as amicably as possible. to spread out in the entire bed and still have a pseudo-live-in homework helper? she hasn’t told her ex abt u, u can’t visit when she’s there – i wiuldn’t allow him to visit me either – the nologer desperate me thinks we deserve better. example, i seem to tend to pick men who have unhealthy relationships with money, either too cheap or too careless with it. other than him not immediately telling her about his living arrangement (when, exactly, was he supposed to discuss this?  but i would definitely want to know what the plan is: is she saving up for a down payment so she can buy her own place (how long is this likely to take), is she hunting for rentals and when one that meets her criteria becomes available she will move or are they both comfortable with the status quo for an indeterminate amount of time?  this was about a possessive girl who is trying to turn a “casual relationship” into something with a future.  men would get the first look at some exes boxers on the floor and amy would be sitting there with no returned phone call wondering what happened binging on sex & the city & dryers! 2 months after my divorce with my ex was finalized, i had to go over to his place to either drop off something or pick up something and my bf came with me.

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) and if i sense something is wrong, i do a little “research” (everyone else here calls it “snooping”). i’m glad you are able to re-cast these good samaritan episodes not as him forgetting about you; i will admit i still struggling with being able to put that spin on things., when there are tell tale signs, you need to break up with him, but without snooping.  if it’s a tiny space, i can understand that there isn’t space for 3 people to spend the night comfortably. he said he’d sort his ‘shit’ out and we still saw each other until 2 months ago…. so my bfriend and his ex are very good friends but not in a relationship now she is angry and ignore me and does not speak to me when i visit there and my bfriend does not want to choose sides between us. that’s an excellent comparison to why an honest guy should put up with being mistrusted.  he must have really loved his ex-gf to allow her to pick his condo at open-houses. turns out we’re much better friends when there’s actually still a friendship involved. second time was when i moved to new york to be with my then girlfriend who broke up with me after about five months. just because there are people below someone's league who would…"been there on how can i tell how attractive i really am?  i guess we’rw not seeing the entirety of the situation but is he keeping new girl from other people in his life? you can either believe he is a good person and the ex will be out of there in a few months. we sometimes assume others think a lot like us, when they don’t.  why does he care so much what his ex-gf thinks? of course we want the right to keep valued exes in our life. the red flag to me is that the ex gf doesn’t know about the new gf.”  if i just met a man and we have no past, no relationship of any kind, and have spent no time together, i will be cautious until he’s had time to earn my trust. she can always tell him to look her up when the ex is gone.” if a longstanding relationship isn’t moving to the next level, then the roadblock could be another person from the past. and if she has the power to make him want to protect her “emotions” 10-months after they’ve broken up, you don’t think she can manipulate him into having sex with her? bfriend and i have discussed it and i explained it is not her presence that makes me uncomfortable it is the past between them. if he’s platonic with the ex-gf, why keep the new girl a secret?“maybe in exchange for free rent, he gets some extra benefits from this ex-bf. i am not a fan of those kinds of demands unless the ppl in question are doing something beyond just existing…as in, are you just mad b/c your bf has a close female friend, or is she deliberately cold to you?  and while they are only dating for 6 weeks, he should at least be close to asking new girl if she wants to be in a relationship.. i would definitely pull back from this situation until i could get a clearer reading on exactly what their relationship is.’s actually a good exit strategy to let a distrustful woman know that he’s leaving her for someone else because his behavior validates her world view (that men can’t be trusted) and he can count on her self-righteous anger to nail that relationship coffin shut. my boyfriend of two years habitually stalks other females on facebook. apt is amy’s bf’s place, the ex-gf needs to respect his space, not the other way around because she’s living off his good will already."i also discovered that i could attract a ton of quality men, in no time at all, if i needed to go back out there. i was going to agree with you that him not introducing his new girl to his live-in ex was a huge red flag, but then you gave the example of how you were with your ex, so now i’m thinking maybe the boyfriend is doing the same thing. the more important question is, where do you get intimate? ex lived with me and my girls for a year and a half. when there is no deadline, the “end of the year” can quickly become april, may, june, etc.’s great for you, clare, if that has been your experience. and per evan’s own teachings there are plenty of fish in the sea.  initially, i thought he had either parked or was taking a turn around the parking lot to avoid being in the way of other people. but i’m not going to trust the ex one bit. feels really strange as a non native speaker to explain an english idiom to you guys, but here it goes: if you eat your cake, you will no longer have it (you will have consumed it…"stacy2 on how can i turn drinks into dinner without scaring guys off? each parent takes responsibility for their two daughters a few nights a week and every other weekend., you mean there’s no test for this kind of stuff?, the fact that the boyfriend and the ex are still living together implies that the break-up is very recent, so i’d be concerned that one or both have not moved on. i will continue to lock my doors at night and i will continue to be aware of the possibility that ignorance of the facts of life, that bad people do exist, can break your heart at best, kill you at worst. but the longer you wait to speak up, the more likely you’ll be to resent the situation, sherman says. no one is suggesting you go down a dark alley naked with a rape me sign (except for you in your poorly considered parallels).  i want to more details about the guy, but there is more to this story.“extreme jealousy is worse than having lingering feelings about someone else,” hax says.  the love we have for each other is completely worth it.

since she was the mother of his child and he would rather his kid stay in the city they lived in than have her move 2 hours away back with her parents until she had the funds for another down payment. for us non-cop/non-military daters, we don’t need to live our lives every day in fear that our trust is going to kill us. or the guy who understands that living with your ex is purely circumstantial? moved in together fundamentally as a time and money-saving idea and because we also worked at the same office.  i was also annoyed that i didn’t rate even a simple text to let me know he was leaving. the guy i’m dating has been trying to bring me to gatherings/events where his friends are from the time we began dating, but i’ve never tried to bring him to meet my friends, because i think having mutual friends can make relationships messy.  one huge thing that helped me feel more comfortable with it was my boyfriend introducing me to his ex, and not hiding me like a dirty secret. maybe parading is new girl would be a slap in the face for the ex. claims that they do not have feelings for each other and hardly see each other since he works long daytime hours and she works nights.’ve done it twice, and both experiences were incredibly painful. other words, if you survey a bunch of jealous, low-self esteem people who don’t know how to trust, you are bound to get answers that reflect that. unless the new girl is hotter than the old girlfriend, then i he might stay with the new girl., adult men (and women) give unconditionally, without expectation of return.  i live in a metropolis and while it’s bad here, it’s not impossible. was a time when i would have agreed with evan’s advice, as i believe in practicing trust in a relationship until the person proves otherwise. i am about to throw myself into bad light, but i had never had a guy, be it my ex or present boyfriend who did anything without some sort of expectations back.   if they have both moved on, there should be no foundation for offensiveness. tell the guy this looks dodhy – there might be a possibility of a future but the present is not good – no one should be involved in a relationship that brings more doubts, craziness and unhappiness. with exes: when the relationship ends, but the co-habitation doesn’tby dana piccolion july 30, 2015the ending of any relationship is painful in its own special ways, but there is a certain circle of breakup hell where you and your ex end up having to live together for a short (or even very long) time. depending on the circumstances, i might tell him to give me a call once the ex has moved out but that until then i wouldn’t feel so comfortable with dating him. i did think it was strange he hadn’t brought her over to his place and introduced her to his ex/roommate, but then i saw, they’ve only been dating 6 weeks! it’s more in my nature to smooth things over and she’s exactly the opposite, so coming into a discussion without being distracted by my feelings was definitely going to help my proposal. and last night, when he made a comment “i wish i have a key to your house,” i said, there is a key under the doormat. she and i were long-distance at first, and i spent every waking moment on my laptop, holed away in that tiny bedroom, chatting with her. week later he had a special event to attend and he had to let me know because of facebook that he’d taken his ex because it was nice for her birthday? it kills me to see him be so stupid, but he trusts her. so for us, trusting other human beings is/should be the norm. on to previous romantic attachments creates feelings of distrust and can stymie an otherwise promising relationship.  i would say that at 6 weeks it is still too early for him or her to get serious and monogamous. agree with the comments that i don’t think he owes his ex anything emotional at this point, but maybe he is being a good guy by trying to protect her feelings, esp if he is the one who broke up with her. karmic equation is right about another thing – no snooping is necessary."he was gentle, tough, hugely insightful and extremely accurate at decoding a man's words, his actions, his lack of action, his likely intentions. “you might not be technically married, but you still have to deal with all the stupid little sucky stuff about being married. have been in, and witnessed, the “ex factor” more times than i want to remember and in every circumstance the newest person to the equation is the one that got screwed.“sometimes clients tell me, ‘i have this feeling in my gut that something’s not right,’” sherman says.  this is one of those situations where amy just has to not get too emotionally attached and get ready to eject sooner rather than later. so maybe you should back off of being “sure” and consider the possibility that what the op wrote is actually what’s happening – he is not kicking his ex out until she can afford her own place, and he is not bringing another woman over out of politeness and deference to his ex. so, amy, would you rather give him an ultimatum to kick her out in the next 30 days, or continue to enjoy this relationship for the next four months, with him sleeping at your place? you believe in law of attraction at all, there’s a principle that would say that your distrust is in fact attracting into your life men who will prove your distrust right, and also attracts the reasons for the distrust.’ve asked queer women who have been through the experience of living with an ex to share their stories. means, either way, she needs to be gone from his place for the lw to have peace of mind.  you can’t simply dismiss the fact that there are ted bundys out there just because you aren’t one of them.   see evan, he already brought her over to the apartment. basically, she is living there rent free and has been for 10+ months, so she can save enough to move out (we live in nyc).  how can a single man afford all this, and let his ex-gf live there rent free for 10 months. the ex girlfriend then told my boyfriend i feel uncomfortable when she is around and she is around most of the time. they would rather be “right” in their comment board battles than to be effective with actual men. may have taken your quote out of context, if that’s the case i apologize. example, do you have behaviors only men with big issues of their would want to date?

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